A narcissist will use forgiveness as a weapon against you: beware of these two tactics

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  • @xChAoSx420
    @xChAoSx420 8 місяців тому +18

    They use forgiveness as a way to keep invading you space and to keep doing bad thing to the scapegoat. People are insane

  • @ronmendez22
    @ronmendez22 8 місяців тому +25

    One is the realest dude in the UA-cam. Straight to the point.

  • @smoothiecutie2277
    @smoothiecutie2277 8 місяців тому +27

    Amen Tyler. About the family members. They do bad things to you and then lie and say that you were the perpetrator. They get Dropped like a blazing hot potato!

    • @sljames1979
      @sljames1979 8 місяців тому +1

      I've used the tool of removing individual titles of family members, such as aunt or uncle. I can clearly see them for whom they are this way. For example, if an aunt or mom sleeps with others partner, they will do it to you. The titles keep us blinded.

    • @LilBooskieScootiePop
      @LilBooskieScootiePop 8 місяців тому

      These social media trolls aren't family.

  • @layparisss
    @layparisss 8 місяців тому +16

    It’s just easy to block numbers and live life as if these toxic people don’t exist anymore. I’m loving life this way. It’s so peaceful 😌

    • @GuitarMatt
      @GuitarMatt 8 місяців тому +2

      Tyler and three other UA-camrs each had a video title "Cut Them Off Without Warning". This was the best news ever! I thought: Wow! This is bypassing the drama they're trying to suck you into. No longer are you giving a so-called weak spot to someone on a never-ending quest to find "bad" about you.

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 8 місяців тому +14

    God is the vindicator. They will be held accountable for their actions.

  • @R.A.P-NC704
    @R.A.P-NC704 8 місяців тому +8

    Said a critical thinker: "If you have to be persuaded, reminded, pressured, lied to, incentivized, coerced, bullied, socially shamed, guilt tripped, threatened, paid, punished and criminalized, if all of this is considered necessary to gain your compliance, you can be absolutely certain that what is being promoted is NOT in your best interest."

  • @yellowdiamond1239
    @yellowdiamond1239 8 місяців тому +15

    Maaaan! You are always in time and on point with your messages!! Keep pushing the gospel truth!! 🤸‍♀️

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  8 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate that

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 8 місяців тому +5

    Dont let your forgiveness set u back with a narcissist at all! Dont forgive them.

  • @thepamperedgoddess3279
    @thepamperedgoddess3279 8 місяців тому +9

    At this point I require and demand to be forgiven for choosing not to forgive. It must work both ways. Honestly it would be a win win and we both go our own way. Let’s see if they can forgive and forget that.

    • @aig2991
      @aig2991 2 місяці тому

      😂 I like this!

  • @Taylormademan900
    @Taylormademan900 8 місяців тому +15

    I'm not forgiving if i don't have to. Not forgiving means I set my boundaries and maintaned them. Not forgiving makes me feel good. Their definition of forgivness is handing me a verbal contract saying I give people the right to verbally, emotionally, and physically abuse me.

    • @ac9938
      @ac9938 8 місяців тому +2

      I thought i was the only one who thought this

    • @Taylormademan900
      @Taylormademan900 8 місяців тому +3

      @@ac9938 No. You aren't the only one. I've just had this drawn out so many times with people trying to guilt me into forgiveness. They have gone far as trying to bring up anything from my past that didn't even directly affect them. I will never be in any situation where I've felt used and didn't take action. I had to cut 3 people out of my life and it wasn't pleasant especially right around the holidays. I straight ghosted them. No explanation no compromise. I pulled the trigger. Do I feel great? No. But it had to be done so I can still maintain my self-respect.

    • @Taylormademan900
      @Taylormademan900 8 місяців тому +1

      @@byronpayne7464 not forgiving is for me. It makes me feel good not to forgive

    • @queenmosessoul
      @queenmosessoul 7 місяців тому +1

      Truth…

  • @WayneReed-cb2er
    @WayneReed-cb2er 8 місяців тому +4

    This Man is the truth like it or not deal with it 💯💯💫

  • @officialbaddie9554
    @officialbaddie9554 8 місяців тому +4

    I love ur content u always speak facts so happy about ppl like u to speak the truth that's exactly what they did to me

  • @ameerahrashada4515
    @ameerahrashada4515 8 місяців тому +2

    The game can't be played on me any more because I turn my back close my eyes and don't hear people when they start talking this trash about forgivness Thank You for this so true video

  • @AwakenedOnes
    @AwakenedOnes 8 місяців тому +5

    Excellent video brother thank you

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much bro

  • @keiththompsonsbasketballchanne
    @keiththompsonsbasketballchanne 8 місяців тому +3

    Was gd Tyler I been saying the same thing if you against someone saying I'm done with a person they suspect to me

  • @ancientsoul4811
    @ancientsoul4811 8 місяців тому +8

    Forgiving is God's job.

  • @Prophezora
    @Prophezora 8 місяців тому +4

    Happy New Year, Tyler!🎉

  • @scorpioqueen7728
    @scorpioqueen7728 8 місяців тому +12

    They tried that 💩 during the holidays 😝🫠.. I was told I need to work on my unforgiveness spirit 🥴 for defending myself 😅

    • @thepamperedgoddess3279
      @thepamperedgoddess3279 8 місяців тому +10

      Ask for them to forgive you for not forgiving. And see how they find an excuse out of that.

    • @layparisss
      @layparisss 8 місяців тому +1

      @@thepamperedgoddess3279THIS!!!

    • @ancientsoul4811
      @ancientsoul4811 8 місяців тому +6

      It's judgemental to call a person unforgiving.

  • @fightingwarrior5893
    @fightingwarrior5893 8 місяців тому +2

    100% truth! Could you do a video on people who want you to support them but won’t support you?

  • @latanyapalmer4469
    @latanyapalmer4469 8 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU, Tyler.

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 8 місяців тому +2

    Great video and message 💯 Amen 🙏🏾

  • @MrBillybathgate5
    @MrBillybathgate5 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Tyler

  • @kyrahknowz1442
    @kyrahknowz1442 8 місяців тому +2

    Salutes 🙋🏽‍♀️ Tyler 💪🏽💯💙🌹. Happy New Year 🎊❤🎉.

  • @hardeepmann3464
    @hardeepmann3464 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you 🙏

  • @TheWordOfTheStreet
    @TheWordOfTheStreet 13 днів тому

    Tyler… thanks for everything you do! you helped me through so much over the years

  • @giftedwithin7
    @giftedwithin7 7 місяців тому +1

    Yes. Very true!

  • @KcLove-ut8zn
    @KcLove-ut8zn 8 місяців тому +3

    Happy new year bro I absolutely agree with you

  • @sljames1979
    @sljames1979 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm glad that I've lived to witness family members get cheated on, lied to and left. It proves that something is wrong with them.

  • @MasonBaby
    @MasonBaby 8 місяців тому +2

    Great message

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 6 місяців тому +1

    100% Tyler.

  • @ConstancePoetry
    @ConstancePoetry 7 місяців тому +1

    Hey Tyler, You are right on the money. Hope you are doing well❤ Miss you it's been a minute.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 місяців тому +2

      Hey constance how are you

    • @ConstancePoetry
      @ConstancePoetry 7 місяців тому +1

      @@TylerJTI Hey Tyler, I'm doing fine and I hope the same for you. Your message don't forgive this really resonates for me.

  • @wondreel
    @wondreel 8 місяців тому +2

    You on point I re watch trifling family members acts like nothing happened after doing you wrong archive I came to conclusion whether it’s your family or others they all have agenda to try confuse you or hurt you I’m learning got to keep your distance because thier narcissism is deep rooted and they will never respect you or admit they have been envious jealousy and have a lot of hate toward your happiness or anything that will bring you true happiness and fulfillment and I realize it’s waste time with them because they always have agenda how to treat you not right and you don’t have to feel you have to forgive thier actions rebuke them I realize that they will always not like your success and happiness it’s that simple they try be sleek and clever even if they have help you they still don’t want you to reach you be better than them and great I look forward to your next video

  • @user-sj4xl8od9p
    @user-sj4xl8od9p 7 місяців тому +3

    I forgive but i will not bow down. Even jesus walked away from.toxic people....

  • @pgmc9441
    @pgmc9441 8 місяців тому +2

    ‭Matthew‬ ‭6:14‭-‬15‬ ‭NLT‬
    [14] “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. [15] But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.
    Matthew 18:21-22 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
    22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
    Glory to God's Grace and Mercy

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  8 місяців тому +1

      Wooow!!!!! These two scriptures.

    • @pgmc9441
      @pgmc9441 7 місяців тому

      ​@@TylerJTIJesus has a Heart of Mercy, and I give Mercy all across the board, I also forgive on the credit card which means let's say you steal or your lie from me I have already forgiven you in advance, just as Jesus died for my many Sins he died for your many Sins. And if you sinned once or many times is there a difference in eternity? We are all unrighteous before the Righteous Judge, I can hear in your voice that you've been taken advantage of many times. This is what evil people do to the people of God, we get the weight of world crushing our spine just like the millstone crushes grain. Now try imagining what will happen to those evil people that you have forgiven, they will be handed to the Judge and their own consciousness, so their narcissism will be too big too swallow, their Pride will be their downfall and you will be rejoicing in the Heavens for eternity while they watch you from Hell. Let that sink in Jesus bless your Heart, and forgiveness doesnt mean to be a doormat. God decide what God word means, not me and not you. Shabbat Shalom Tyler.

  • @sharons5221
    @sharons5221 5 місяців тому

    Tyler thank you!!

  • @patriarchnation2703
    @patriarchnation2703 3 місяці тому

    Forgive and move different

  • @giftedwithin7
    @giftedwithin7 7 місяців тому +2

    They so like to lie and twist things. Project what they do onto others. Do things to other people and act like nothing happened. Evil. I don't have time for these types of people. I'm done with them.

  • @officialbaddie9554
    @officialbaddie9554 8 місяців тому +2

    Excuse my language but TBMFT Truth be MF Told thank you they can't ever play that shit on me ever again LOL I'm forreal forreal

  • @rocklee7216
    @rocklee7216 Місяць тому

    Interesting perspective..

  • @yourstruly1984
    @yourstruly1984 8 місяців тому +4

    Happy New Year, Tyler❤🎉

  • @bunnysb2587
    @bunnysb2587 4 місяці тому

    You are going to get the people started the trolls

  • @user-bo4ju3zp1l
    @user-bo4ju3zp1l 8 місяців тому +1

    Spencer skeete target me health

  • @MrBillybathgate5
    @MrBillybathgate5 8 місяців тому +3

    Happy New Year, Tyler!