What Men Need in Order to Commit to You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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- Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and what men need in order to commit to you
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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Thank you for introducing us to your beautiful wife❤
What she did is called dignity. She has dignity. nothing diplomatic or tricky or games. How silly are we thinking you can hide something from people .
Indeed.
I love this! And that's so amazing of you to recognise it! ❤
If others were honest we would not feel the need to hide Maria! Love your photo! Great selfie :) x
Very true. It would have been so easy to start acting "bitchy" and play games to test how much he really loved her. Very inspiring what she did instead, with much respect and love toward herself and him too.
Powerful ❤️❤️
Honestly, the secret to a successful relationship is saying what you want, and be willing to walk away if you don't get it. Love can't be forced, it needs to be shown in a way that lets the other person be free to come to you. That shows self respect, and respect for the other person as well. I know it's not easy cause we tend to be emotional beings, but patience really helps when dating. Also, be nice when interacting... Noone wants someone who is "salty". I'm 40 and still dating, and by no means perfect, but once I started thinking with this mindset it's definitely improved my dating life.
Amen. I have learned slot. Men think very different from women. When women understand that you have a great chance of making it work.
Your 40 and still not married and giving relationship advice to others . How many relationships have you had!
Well said.
I agree about self respect, but just walking away when you're bored or "it's just not working out" just teaches you to rely on the chemical high of falling in love, and lowers your standard of who gets your heart
Awesome
I tell all my friends, I trust this man amongst all love coaches, specifically because he is happily married, and not stupidly single.
Absolutely
I would agree 100%.
Amen to that @So Naves
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Amirite?! I hung out with a guy who kept pestering me to go out with him. I agreed to hang out one time and he told me he's an online dating coach... I'm like "how's that working out for ya? You're really scraping the bottom of the barrel, I won't even agree to date you".
finally a happily married relationship expert
Tony gaskins
Lol
Yes! Along with Tony Gaskins, Jr.; R.C. Blakes; and Bern Mendez to name some of the other top, HAPPILY MARRIED, coaches that I follow/trust
This!
They are many unmarried relationship experts that get great results for their clients regardless
So brave of Irene to admit how she was shaking inside...there’s incredible strength in being that vulnerable and being prepared to hear what you possibly don’t want to hear. Happy anniversary 💕
Now after 13 years together? I dont think theres any bravery there
@@How.Dare.You. It's not brave to be that committed and that in love with 13 years?
I did the same thing after waiting 2 yrs. and it was the second time we'd spent 2 yrs. together, with a 6 yr. break in the middle. I got the other answer, the one you never want to hear. In fact he ran without giving me closure, and I fell apart for a very long time, but at least he never saw it. You have to be ready for it not to end the way you want.
@@How.Dare.You. Alyssa meant it was brave of her to have that hard conversation 10 years ago. Not that it's brave now to admit how she felt at the time....
Yes , she was shaking inside , thats what a man should realize, even though we put on a brave face , we don't want guys to leave us and it is very insensitive and selfish of a guy to make a woman through this, just coz he is not certain of a commitment after enjoying all the benefits
"time doesn't give you clarity", exactly, love is a decision
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Love is a decision?? Really!???? No, love is a feeling ...
@@besalapi630 hello do you need help ?I know of someone who can help you on this , he helled me get my ex back
Your videos helped me to get my now husband to commit. We got married in June and are now expecting our first baby.Thank you so much!
Congratulations
Wow! Great testimony, thanks and congratulations 🎊
Awe congratulations ❤️
“Behind every great man is a great woman”. We knew she had to be amazing and finally seeing her has far exceeded our expectations. I know I’m not alone in saying that she embodies the strength, class and dignity we all strive to achieve. Congratulations to you both!
@@icysnow57cold64 do u even date? Lol
@@icysnow57cold64 have u heard about yin and yang? They are different but they compliment/ complete each other.
@@icysnow57cold64 opposite attracts babe
I love your love ❤️
@@icysnow57cold64 no disrespect here but it plainly sounds like you’re ‘inexperienced’. Because if you were, these questions wouldn’t be so mysterious to you. You’d fundamentally and instinctively understand how A man and woman bond/interact on all levels therefore helping you differentiate the chemistries between them wether it be platonic or romantic. It’s actually got less to do with science and more with the nature of it all. That naturally explains everything you’re asking. The modus of operandi of relationships between people of all types. Gay, straight,bi ect.. whichever you identify with. Because what you just described here about both men and women isn’t entirely answered for all. So many things you left out, like the psychological issues most people have that can affect them from being intimate or trusting and many other factors that come into play here. Instead you generalize. This is how I can tell you’re inexperienced. And that’s okay, you’re probably a freshman in college maybe a graduate by now. But all I can leave with here is get out into the real world and experience different things especially with what your questions pertain to. 🙏🏼
This is what an emotionally mature woman looks like; no games, words or tricks uttered recklessly. Just honest & calm truth. Separate any condition that he must be 'the one' and simply state what you want. Well done. I love Irene.
She was at peace with herself and she know exactly what she wanted
100% true!!!
you Go Girl !
Mat, you really need Irene to join you for more videos. I love your videos but this one was even more helpful than the others. It’s great to hear your perspective and her perspective. Get her to guest star again!
Yeah Good thought I 100!%agree with that.
She has deep eyes and this calm and very feminine aura around her... It's powerful and inspiring at the same time!
" time doesn't give you clarity. DEPTH gives you the clarity."
Happy Anniversary 🎊
The fact is a man needs to somehow want to stay and fight in the relationship even during times of uncertainty. Girls just be your authentic self, if he's for you, he'll love you and be happy in it!!
Feminine energy to express your boundaries is the way to go.... Good for you guys!
Mat your wife is beautiful 😍
I love the duo presentation 👍🏽😃
I give love and put pressure on my husband very often, almost from the beggining of the relationship and to be honest i'm ready to leave when i say it. I think it's best to take a man that you are not crazy in love with, because big attraction it's gonna cloud your conffidence and you will not be 50% in the relationship. I think Irene is so sweet and let you be confused 2 years hiding her feelings. I wouldn't do that. I could waste 2 years from my life and is not fair. Kisses from Romania😘
Love this presentation. Your wife is precious..
I thoroughly enjoy all your videos and this one with your wife was extra helpful for me! I recently had the "talk" with my guy and used your wife's approach to help me articulate what I wanted. We are now in a committed relationship and our intimacy has grown deeper by opening up more with each other. Thanks so much :-)
Not wtgo ..y'all like black men😂🤣😂😂
I did this with a 4years boyfriend, exactly the same, and he decided to walk away. It was hard, but necessary and to be sincere it was the best thing I've ever done! It's a great thing to do! Even if it goes south it's an important thing to clear out
How did you get back on track after he left? What is he doing with his life now?
I guess the most important thing is to be very clear in yourself who you are and what you want...
Your story is almost identical to my parents'.
they were long distance dating in different countries: my mother was a very serious medical student, quite and reserved good girl, and my dad was this adventurous 15 year her senior bachelor. After 2 years of long distance penpalling and him coming to see her every 3-4 months (always with her parents present), she wrote to him that she thought she should devote more time to her studies and maybe they should break up so each of them could do their goals in life. That prompted my dad to drive 2 days to see her and propose.
Now they are 37 years together, 3 kids, I am the oldest 🥰🥰🥰 such a strong couple, very opposite in their character but thats exactly why they match. My mother stuck with my dad even when he lost his business to bankruptcy and she had to be a breadwinner for years until my dad get back on his feet from all debtors and started a new business.
I hope he didn't loose the business chasing younger women? Sorry, but despite loosing his business, "dealing with debtors..." has no barring on Dad getting some other type of job to maintain his masculinity and provide for his family. A few months of self doubt, sure...we get it, but years?? No sis, he just had too much pride and entitlement and didn't want to work a job where he was no longer the boss. Instead, he'd rather put your mother in the masculine and stressful role. Let's hope her building his business and savings back up, she doesn't discover he was cheating all along AND eventually leave her for a younger woman. 💯
@@carmeltonedbarbie1747 👌🏽💯
What a beautiful story...thank you for sharing!
You both just can't get your hands off of each other , which is sweet ❤️
You two are adorable! Have your wife on more often! You make a nicely balanced team. Her strength adds value to this platform.
You also soo positive and looking beautiful
As many have said...do more...Together videos...it was very helpful to get..both sides...opinions snd insight
you go girl! It isn't easy to say goodbye to someone you have spent a fair amount of time with, but it is also important to not suffer with someone who doesn't meet the desire of your heart on being your person. Love this video!
Oh my god, such a lovely wife, god bless you all. Wish you and your lovely family all the best 💐💐💐💐
Your wife is beautiful and very grounded. ❤️🥰
She is soooo pretty ❤️
I absolutely love her and both of their honesty. She was very influential in his decision!!!!!
I am looking for a man who is loyal, caring, funny, honest, respect, and I have found him. I am totally in love with my man. He is amazing.
I got back my ex wife with the help of someone who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 💕💕💕💕💕
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I totally see why Mat always says 'my amazing wife' Irene is truly amazing! Thanks for letting us meet her. You are such a sweet couple, you have my best wishes ⚘❤
Hi
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
She knew what she wanted! I know what I want and after 2 years of dating a very good match for me, he decided he doesn't want marriage. It was a really fantastic relationship, few red flags and a little baggage. At 50+ years young, we come with our quirks and triggers. Thank you for the reassurance that standing firm is the way to go.
You're getting closer to turning 70 not 21. Being young at heart only, doesn't change the biological fact in which 50 isn't young. You also need to maintain a youthful and healthy appearance. At your age, 2 years is too much time.
So did he change his mind or did you just move on?
@@carmeltonedbarbie1747 what does that have to do with her comment?
@@carmeltonedbarbie1747 love people who give their unsolicited opinion on other people’s personal lives..
@@vem8256 comprehension is definitely not your strength.
She knew what she wanted!
That’s key. That’s where my work lies... I think the fear and confusion deep inside about what I want trips me up and leads to hurt. When you know, you cast aside what’s not right for you and remain open to what is... you become like a filter. I’ve spend my entire life settling, for less... too much sadness in my heart with dating and relationships. I’m doing deep work surrounding this right now. It’s time to do it differently, the old way just doesn’t work anymore.
Happy Anniversary to you both ❤️ your wife seems lovely and strong with in herself and radiates it outward✨✨✨
Keep working on yourself...your the only one in your own court..be your best!!
The best relationship advice is, Love yourself first.
Yeah I've done it and it makes me single for years, cuz the more I love myself, the more I don't like guys hhh, help :(
Your wife is so beautiful and I love that she explained how she felt and was willing to walk away. I have been in that situation and it takes a deep amount of self-awareness and self-love to be willing to stand up for your needs, desires and recognize self-worth. Kudos to her for being upfront and honest with you and for the relationship.
@Kelly Nobody cares you scam artist!
She’s awesome! She needs her own channel I want to hear more from her mind!
I got married because of you both. Thank you so much Matt and Irene.
Irene is an amazing woman and this message was very powerful. So many of us - myself included - get caught up in these stories of undying love and romance with "the One" which lead to codependency and low self esteem. This woman demonstrated that by committing to yourself FIRST, holding yourself with dignity and honesty is far more important than trying to hold onto anything external. Thank you for sharing
What I like the most is her saying "thank you for acknowledging"😊
I've had long term relationships that were not what I wanted and never got married. I didn't feel they were ready so. I just usually move on. I want a guy who respects himself and his women, who is not controlling and dosnt have too much baggage. A desire to be with someone for the rest of our lives.
This was so refreshing and gives me hope for my next relationship. I realized that I can't force someone to commit no matter how much I try to prove I am enough for that person. She is so strong but in a feminine way and you are confident. Good video 👍.
This is the most powerful advice I have ever received. I have had horrible commitment issues myself because of fear of not being 100% sure. But what I took away most in this advice is that I need to be 100% sure in myself that I will be okay no matter what, and that I do not need to be 100% in someone else. I need self-validation, not validation from another person. Thank you so much!
That was brilliant!!!
Before asking what do i want in a man. The question is what do i need to become in order to be a good wife. Then u will attract what u need.
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Thank u Matt
This is an age old truth. My mom gave my dad this ultimatum to make a decision many years ago. They celebrated 67 years of marriage, last August. May you enjoy each this long and more!
My tears up with joy when I watch this video, Many wishes for you guys God Bless you.
She’s so angelic!
I love it! I would love to see more videos with Irene, she has an amazing energy!
Matt I think this was the best video yet!!! So real and vulnerable. Thank you
I normally don’t comment but I must say it was incredible to see the both of you United but also freely sharing your different experiences and perspectives in this chapter of your journey together.
I had a moment like Irene as as well. It did not end in a happily ever after. I got my heart broken but it allowed me to walk away without doubts, heal and move on.
@@trellnba176 No you didn’t you liar and scam artist!
Depth gives you clarity---so true! Irene is grounded and beautiful...so glad to see her here.
i love this so much, thank you for being open about how vulnerable this topic is for both sides. the energy behind someone's trueness to oneself is so powerful, you tap into your strength and values.
This is profound stuff..can’t believe you’re even sharing it for free! Thank you so much for sharing this. It is incredibly relevant to what I’m going though right now
What a treat this was to watch! Such authenticity ... and you two are adorable together. Way to go, Irene, showing us girls what standing up for what you really want looks like. 👍
Amazing video! This is just the advice I needed to hear in the situation I’m currently in, which is almost identical to yours. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom. Irene is absolutely lovely and has so much wisdom. Looking forward to more videos with both of you. God bless your marriage and beautiful family.
You both compliment each other so well...such a beautiful couple! 💕I’ve watched your UA-cam videos for several years and I have always enjoyed hearing Mat reflecting back on your relationship stories 🌸🌸🌸
You are very positive girl
I need to get to this stage.
I thought I could,to make a stand,but I’m jelly.
This is what a HEALTHY relationship looks like.
my story is almost identical. i moved out, told him that he i am ok with whatever he decides, that no matter what i’ll appreciate him for who he is and for everything he did for me, but that due to our circumstances we need to decide what we’ll do. did not talk to him at all until he got back to me a day and a half later. we’re married and doing great.
Oooh you guys so adorable, I would love to have a relationship like this ♥️
Happy anniversary guys wish you a lifetime of togetherness and ever growing loving relationship 💕
This was REALLY helpful!
This made me emotional. Thank you for sharing.
I love everything about this video. Go Irene for being so strong and go Matt for being so humble 🙏🏻
Thank you, Mat and Irene. I did this two days ago. I have cried and cried and prayed, waiting for the call he says he wants to have with me about this ultimatum. I did not think I had done the smartest thing by doing this at the time until I saw this video so thank you for sharing.
Well, what happened! Did you guys get back together?
I absolutely love your wife! Thank you to her for being a source of female inspiration ❤️ best wishes for many years to come. Thank you Matt for sharing your journey ❤️❤️❤️
Listening this I sobbed so much. This is literally what I need to do with the person I love and I've been terrified to do it but I know it will be the thing to finally know if this person is in or out or move on. Thank you for this video!
How did it go??????
i like how the dating coach shared his personal story
She's so beautiful & also very wise
I watch this everyday to bring me courage to say what i want in my life and Irene helped me to become this confident women and guide me in gaining my feminine energy back..You guys are such a lovely and power dynamic couple.. would love to see her more in your channel.. lots of love from Malaysia 🇲🇾
That question segment was PRECIOUS! You two are SO ADORABLE!!
I loved it. Thank you for sharing!💕🙏
You two are just amazing, loved this video! Thank you both 💖
This great advice and can relate 100% ♥️
Love this video. One of the best out there about relationships and I’ve been watching many in the past month. Thanks for your transparency. Thanks for the message that depth gives clarity. It is also so nice to see your lovely wife.
Bravo Matt and Irene ! Thanks so much guys for being so real and being suchfun too! You've taught me so much more today! I appreciate you and look forward to celebrating 9yrs and many more too with my spouse! Lots of love! 🙌🎊💞💖
I’ve been waiting to meet heeerrrr!! T’was a pleasure! ☺️☺️☺️ And the couples challenge was so cute!! 😆❤️❤️❤️
My wish list: a compatible man who truly connects with and loves me for me.
You guys are AMAZING! THANK YOU SO MUCH for SHARING this Story!
Sharing your story was so empowering.So much love and respect between you
Thank you
This made me emotional, specially towards the end. Seeing the beautiful relationship you both have was amazing, and it confirmed to me that this is exactly what I want. Thank you for sharing your story, you both have beautiful souls :-)
Thank you for this. It’s what I needed to hear!
Thank you for sharing this! It arrive in a crucial time in my life and I really appreciated your openness and vulnerability!
Happy Anniversary! I love the energy between you too!😻🌹
Thanks for all your vids Matt. We all appreciate it more than you’ll know.
CONGRATS TO BOTH OF YOU, WONDERFUL, NICE COUPLE!!!
We loved your life story & wish you all the BLESSINGS of the UNIVERSE with U+yr CHILDREN!
Perfect answering questions😃 THANK YOU for sharing your true story!!! It's beautiful and of course Irene is beautiful. It is so good to know that some relationships which begin from long distance can also succeed. Best wishes to your family!❤❤❤❤❤
so affirming and encouraging in my current moment and process. The TWO of you love birds are so adorable.
Hearing lovely stories like these are just heaven sent! Thank you to the both of you for being unselfish in sharing your beautiful story! May God bless you both and your family with much blessings, good health, protection and much love always! 😊❤😊
What s beautiful couple inside and out! A really Quality pair! Love your interactions and fun and honesty. Learned a lot! God Bless you and your family!
You two are so lovely together ❤ thank you for the tips and encouragement on love!🙏🏾💯😇
I watched this video many times and I love it more each time! Thank you for being an example of Love, and feeding the audience peace, patience, passion and joy! Blessings to you both. 💜🙏🏾☀
The challenge was so fun to watch and I want to thank Irene for sharing. Congratulations and 13 years together! I’m looking for a spiritually deep man with a sense of inner calm; Who embraces life with adventure , humor , hope, appreciation of differences,
playfulness, gratitude, honesty, integrity, wellness, respect , open mindedness. A team player who wants balance of work and play and can speak my love languages and accept my love.
I absolutely love this! So true!! 💗
I love when Irene makes an appearance on your videos. We love Irene!
Thank you so much for sharing this with us, Matt and wife. Thank you!!!! God bless you!!!
I like to tell my man " you're such a blessing in my life". he gets such a huge smile on his face
I wish I could love this 1000 time over! Thanks for the wonderful engaging video. Appreciate you both for taking the time to encourage and inspire young, and old lovers of love... 💜
One of the best videos and real advice, thank you for sharing with your wife!
I love her demeanor and energy. They look so sweet together. Couples like these make me reconsider relationships.
So beautiful! I needed this. Praying for a life filled with love, joy, and warmth for you both. Thank you! ❤
You are a great couple! So happy for you!❤️
Thanks for introducing us to your beautiful wife! I love her strength and decision to stand up for what she needed. Also, good job braving your fear and moving forward, Matt! It takes a lot to reveal a vulnerability. :)
Precious you two. Thank you for passing on your experience and knowledge. She’s a sweetheart 💕
Absolutely wonderful! So genuine and generous of you guys to share this. Thankyou!
Aaaaw, your wife is beautiful and so grounded, love that and this Vid!💗So my husband asked me to marry him after 2 weeks of knowing each other😬 I was in love, but definitely had some doubts. Although it was a bit (ok, sometimes waaay more than a bit😆) of a rocky road due to both us, here we are 25+ years later (and 2 grown kids) stronger than we’ve ever been💗
Wowww!! How you interacted with him and treated him since you 2 met? Which attachment style do you have? 2 weeks that's soo crazily awesome and 25 years of Real Love!! My dream!!!🤩👏👏👏
Thank you for sharing your testimony with us. God Bless you. Beautiful couple.💗 You'r wife is amazing very well grounded, dignified and beautiful. I admire and respect that. Happy anniversary!!! 🎉
Loved this video, and your story, thanks for sharing! You guys are so amazing together! Happy Anniversary to you both!! ❤🍾🥂
You're so sweet! Thanks for sharing your experience💕