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  • @lynnescrafton4703
    @lynnescrafton4703 7 років тому +36

    "listen, not just with your ears, but your eyes as well" .. people very much underestimate the loudness of body language. It can speak volumes more then the words sometimes.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching Lynne. :) #Believe #BTA625 Shine

    • @thedivinecouncil9997
      @thedivinecouncil9997 3 роки тому

      Yes ma'am flamed lioness!☺ So true.

  • @peteravergun4388
    @peteravergun4388 7 років тому +3

    As an entrepreneur, training your people is the highest form of effective, necessary communication. When you are training those in your organization the best way to prepare your people for the “game” is to ROLE PLAY. You role play EVERYTHING! Let me give you a few examples. When I worked in the insurance business, it was important to be able to give a great presentation to the client. BEFORE you can give a presentation however, you had to be able to get into the house. We started our training with “how” you knock on the door. We had a specific, friendly knock. We role played the knock. Then, when the prospective customer came to the door, we role played what to say. We role played to all the possible responses that the customer might give you at the door. We role played “qualifying” the customer at the door. We role played saying, “May I come in?” We called this whole process the “door approach”. If you have never gone “door knocking” before, you will find that it can be a very intimidating act for he or she that is knocking. YOU BUILD COURAGE AND PERSEVERANCE THROUGH DRILL, PRACTICE; AND REHEARSAL.
    When you role play, you have the opportunity to see what your trainees are doing right and wrong. Obviously, you reinforce correct technique and you correct faulty performance. Additionally, you may also learn a new technique from the performer that you hadn’t thought of. Another thing that happens, that is incredibly positive, is when they ask YOU to roleplay the part of the performer. When they switch roles with you they are about to give you the scenarios that are causing them difficulty and hardship in the field. When you solve these issues for them you have accomplished two important things. First, you have answered their question and uncovered an area that needs work. And second, you have established more credibility for yourself as the leader. Here’s a major irony of teaching and training: Much of the time, the trainer will learn more than the trainee.
    Let me give you a negative example. A couple of years ago, the executive director of the library where I worked, decided that we should have a person “meet and greet” our patrons when they walked through our doors. All she did was assign people to perform this task, without any instruction, an hour at a time. The only people that were able to effectively perform this task were the director herself and me. Why? Pretty simple, right? Never assume. Always begin training by explaining the why and because. Always explain what you are trying to accomplish. Always show the trainee how to do it. Always observe the trainee performing. Always track the results. Sound familiar? PESOS, (SEE BELOW) my friend. It is always necessary to give CCDD. Clear, concise, definite, direction. Our director, in her wisdom(?), blamed the performers. When a seemingly simple task that has been assigned is not performed as EXPECTED, you should first INSPECT to see if the proper direction was GIVEN and RECEIVED. Never assume that your instructions are understood. Always have the performer give you FEEDBACK to be sure they know what is EXPECTED.
    The PESOS Training System
    In business and coaching, you as the leader, are constantly teaching and training. What’s the difference? You go to school and receive a high school education. In the business world you receive both an education and training. Ask your high school sophomore if he wants sex education or sex training. See the difference? There is a simple way to train people to perform. It’s called the PESOS system. Mexican money. Here’s how it works. It is, of course, an acronym.
    P-repare
    E-xplain
    S-how
    O-bserve
    S-upervise
    The first thing that you do is to PREPARE your pupil for the task. What is it EXACTLY that you want me to do? What is the why and because that makes the task important? Where does it fit in to the “big picture”? Etc.
    The second step is to EXPLAIN how the task is to be performed.
    Step three is to SHOW your student how to perform the task by performing it yourself.
    Number 4: You OBSERVE the mentee performing the task. You do this for as long as it takes for the student to get the job done right. You critique, analyze, and continuously correct until you are happy with the quality of performance.
    Finally, you supervise. What does that mean? It means that you track the results. If the results are not satisfactory then you return to the OBSERVE step and make the appropriate correction. If you are receiving good results than you move on to the next task and collect your PESOS. In this way, the student will also become the teacher/trainer. You are building your organization and developing your leaders.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom Peter. :) #BTA624 Shine

  • @SocialAnxietyandBeyond
    @SocialAnxietyandBeyond 7 років тому +20

    #BTA91
    Whats Good for them - what will help the other person
    Stop using filler words -Un professional
    Use Intentional Awkward Pause -Shows you are listening
    Question for Clarification -Ask how do you mean ,, then pause
    Know the End goal - stops you getting into off topic tangents

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you for that list Tueluz. :) Thank you for watching! #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @tanmayrauth7367
    @tanmayrauth7367 5 років тому +8

    Knowing the end goal of conversation really helps in keeping the conversation on proper track. Thanks Evan.

  • @danieldevera4122
    @danieldevera4122 5 років тому +15

    Thank you so much, this really helped me a lot. I had never been able to communicate correctly nearly in my life. I’m a shy guy but I’m also listener. I have a lot thoughts and opinion in my mind but don’t know how to convert or paraphrase it to have topic. I over think a lot because I’m afraid the audience that I communicate with gets awkward and on my authority failed of health of the conversation. Until I watched this video, I just broke out my comfortable state and earn polished new skill..

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 років тому +1

      Glad we could help Daniel! #Believe :) #BTA1453 Veljko

    • @killerkingmalaysia8572
      @killerkingmalaysia8572 4 роки тому

      Me too

    • @simon6372
      @simon6372 4 роки тому +1

      @@killerkingmalaysia8572 same im afraid what are they gonna think about me

  • @deathbreach3448
    @deathbreach3448 5 років тому +16

    Imma save this video. It’s gonna save my sanity.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 років тому +1

      Good to hear that. #Believe :) #BTA1460 Veljko

  • @visionarymotivator
    @visionarymotivator 6 років тому +1

    Trusting a speaker is the best way of learning communication instead of judging before ends up speaking and try to be the first one to listen and be the last one of speaking.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      I couldn't agree more with you. :) Thank you for sharing and thanks for watching! #BelieveNation #BTA760 Luka

    • @visionarymotivator
      @visionarymotivator 6 років тому

      If you listen Simon Sinek or read his book will help you about the concept what I said, thanks.

  • @baldeepbirak
    @baldeepbirak 7 років тому +5

    Pausing and listening more gets you more information than you could have asked.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Agree. :) Thank you for the comment and for watching Baldeep. #BelieveNation #BTA639 Shine

  • @qudwatinajihah431
    @qudwatinajihah431 4 роки тому +3

    Practice being the last to speak ✨

  • @daviocampi6951
    @daviocampi6951 4 роки тому

    Saying um was what stood out and using filler words. Thanks for posting insightful

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

  • @daisyprim584
    @daisyprim584 7 років тому

    Also showing them that you cared is by listening, being there by there side, helping them out, doing things with the people you love and cared for, but don't forget to care and love yourself too

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Totally agree. :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching Daisy. #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @octane2344
    @octane2344 7 років тому +1

    This was more about listening rather than concentrating on addressing concerns, emotions, or ideas. Communicating from a place of building community, friendship, and harmonious action leads to forming your communication in a way that is empathetic and powerful.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts. #BTA632 Shine

  • @fairsquare8220
    @fairsquare8220 7 років тому

    listening to people is a perfect rule to follow....will start following summarily!!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Awesome to know that Fair & Square. :) All the best! Always #Believe in yourself. #BTA625 Shine

  • @erickm1070
    @erickm1070 7 років тому +1

    I'm really going to implement "IAP" I really connect with Marie and it's something that I definitely see can change in my communication.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Great to know that Erik. :) All the best! Always #Believe in yourself. #BTA625 Shine

  • @seemabundela1426
    @seemabundela1426 4 роки тому

    Explaining other people and communicating every person

  • @officialkenzelllewis
    @officialkenzelllewis 7 років тому

    I needed this today. Every day, I go out of my way to hone in on my communication and listening skills. I bombed today at work with a few clients due to my lack of effective communication. But thanks Evan! You're a lifesaver.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad to know it is helpful to you Kenzell. :) All the best! Always #Believe in yourself. #BTA625 Shine

  • @saiphaniutkarshkethana8519
    @saiphaniutkarshkethana8519 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video Evan 😊 ❤️ 🙏

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1602 Veljko

  • @dentalcoach6421
    @dentalcoach6421 6 років тому +14

    Thank you, I love the listening skill, because I learn more when I listen.

  • @27tremon
    @27tremon 2 роки тому

    Awesome video I learned so much in such a short amount of time.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  2 роки тому

      You're welcome, glad to know you learn something from it. 😊 #Believe - Feb

  • @benyawarath
    @benyawarath 4 роки тому

    This is golden! Love it. Thank you so much! #Believe

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Much love Benyawarath. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

  • @ryanfrizzell736
    @ryanfrizzell736 Рік тому

    Thank you for the information. This improves my communication.

  • @SoulGlowHealing
    @SoulGlowHealing 4 роки тому +1

    This was a good video. I am going to try to be a better listener.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1591 Veljko

  • @dendenmushi7873
    @dendenmushi7873 4 роки тому

    The end in mind! Love it!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Glad to hear that #Believe :) #BTA1637 Veljko

  • @thisisbiggz
    @thisisbiggz 5 років тому +2

    This was a bomb ass video it helped me alot!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 років тому

      Glad you like it, thanks for watching :) #BTA1426 Veljko

  • @gowthamanravichandran8730
    @gowthamanravichandran8730 4 роки тому

    your Videos are so inspiring .....

  • @CreativeQueenx
    @CreativeQueenx 7 років тому +2

    Love love love ur channel Evan. Keep inspiring !!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому +1

      Thanks for the love CreativeQueen x. :) Stay inspired...always #Believe. #BTA624 Shine

    • @CreativeQueenx
      @CreativeQueenx 7 років тому

      Evan Carmichael ❤👍

  • @mindshell
    @mindshell 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for your good work. This video helped me to understand why sometimes I feel bad about conversations I've had.
    Greetings from Poland and God bless you!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 роки тому +1

      Really glad you enjoyed it, you're welcome. Sending much love to Poland. 🥰 #Believe - Feb

  • @billyboat7198
    @billyboat7198 5 років тому

    Best one so far

  • @Ashley-ye6yt
    @Ashley-ye6yt 6 років тому +1

    The clarification rule was great to ensure that i never “assume” i understand the other person

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Glad it resonated with you :) #BTA834 Luka

  • @amazingazn123
    @amazingazn123 7 років тому +2

    Best way of communication is listening. When you listen, you learn. When you are talking, you are teaching or just telling. #BTA49

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts The Howling Chihuahua. Agree...when we listen...we learn. :) #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @ImWORTHITINC
    @ImWORTHITINC Рік тому

    Luka? how does Evan get the permissions to use all these clips? I WANT TO DO SOME OF THIS FOR MY CHANNEL! I can really help more people! how do I get the permissions/? TYSM! #believe

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  Рік тому

      Hi , if you have any questions for Evan, please join Evan's discord community and ask him questions there. www.evancarmichae.biz #Believe - Feb

  • @jaiwiggins5040
    @jaiwiggins5040 5 років тому

    Great video! Learned so many helpful tools

  • @daviddr2d2
    @daviddr2d2 4 роки тому

    Wow, very helpful, thanks.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1561 Veljko

  • @deekshadeka1708
    @deekshadeka1708 7 років тому

    Finally got what I needed most

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad to know that it is helpful to you Pearl Wave. :) Always #Believe in yourself. #BTA625 Shine

  • @josephodie7757
    @josephodie7757 7 років тому +1

    My dear Evan! your videos are always great , informative and inspiring. I have a special request . It is to have something inspiring to those who are under tough circumstances like refugee especially in Syria by directing a video to them to boost their motivation
    Thanks a lot

  • @girly5eva
    @girly5eva 7 років тому

    I love your videos!!!

  • @marcusward6235
    @marcusward6235 4 роки тому +1

    Two way street, listen, stop uhs, ums, you know what I'm saying? Let the pause happens. Think of others. Any doubt what they're saying, "how do you mean?" Know the end goal, "did you want to know how she felt?"

  • @lisamedeiros7581
    @lisamedeiros7581 4 роки тому

    Great viedo!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Glad you like it Lisa #Believe :) #BTA1570 Veljko

  • @alenabainbridge8899
    @alenabainbridge8899 4 роки тому

    This was very helpful thank you.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Awesome to hear that, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1587 Veljko

  • @mhcytiger
    @mhcytiger 7 років тому

    thank you Evan!!! gained alot.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому +1

      Thank you very much for the comment and for watching Melvin. :) Glad to know you learned a lot from our video. Always #Believe. #BTA632 Shine

  • @ezranyamhanza304
    @ezranyamhanza304 5 років тому

    This is priceless !

  • @david_oliveira71
    @david_oliveira71 7 років тому

    Wow thanks as always +Evan Carmichael "really important video"

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you very much for the appreciation and for watching! :) #BelieveNation #BTA624 Shine

  • @aleksandrateofilovic
    @aleksandrateofilovic 7 років тому +15

    The Intentional Awkward Pause is amazing! So effective! Other person just keep going deeper, telling you what's really on their minds. :) #BTA72

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Agree. :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts Aleksandra. :) #Love and #Light. #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @troyhagen587
    @troyhagen587 7 років тому

    Awesome information and Video. THANKS again for Today's message Evan. Hugs .

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you very much for the appreciation as always Troy. Much love. :) #Believe #BTA624 Shine

  • @cristinamercado1267
    @cristinamercado1267 5 років тому

    I will practice listening more then talking! From now on

  • @anthonysteel2157
    @anthonysteel2157 6 років тому +2

    More pausing! Evan I thoroughly appreciate you and this amazing channel you have put together! You have blessed more then you know! Can you give me a link to your book of choice. A book that you authored. I would like to send it to my following. I appreciate you!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Thank you for the love and support, Anthony. Evan wrote two books, "Your One Word" & " Top 10 Rules For Success". You should check: www.evancarmichael.com/oneword/ - Much love! :) #BTA1027 Luka

  • @wafulathadeus3980
    @wafulathadeus3980 7 років тому

    Evan this one i like it very much ,it touches the inner chambers of my soul i must download it. thanks

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      So glad to know that you liked it wafula. :) Thank you very much for the appreciation and for watching! #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @exildirector
    @exildirector 7 років тому +2

    Think about other people.
    Question for clarification.
    Practice being the last speak.
    #BTA8

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you for the comment and for watching Willy. :) #BelieveNation #BTA702 Shine

  • @theory8sf
    @theory8sf 6 років тому +4

    For sure I’ll start doing the IAP technique!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Thank for sharing. #Believe :) #BTA1023 Luka

  • @TejenderPrasad
    @TejenderPrasad 7 років тому

    GOOD MORNING EVAN, this is the first thing in the morning i did while having coffee, THANK YOU :D

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Awesome to know that Tejender. :) Thank you for making our videos part of your morning routine. Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @KrisSymmetry
    @KrisSymmetry 4 роки тому

    This was a very insightful collaborative video. it validates what I already understood about effective communication but I did learn I can work in the IAP and filler words.Thank you for putting this together it

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Glad you liked it, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1636 Veljko

  • @Newlifesaga
    @Newlifesaga 7 років тому

    Really nice video....the content was really necessary for all of us ...
    Thank you and much more videos to come

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad you liked it and you found the content valuable to you Abhishek. :) #Believe #BTA624 Shine

  • @venkataramudu4853
    @venkataramudu4853 4 роки тому +1

    😍😍😍😍

  • @4empion
    @4empion 6 років тому +1

    Hello, Evan. I will start using :listen to your partner and don't interupt them ,cause some time I get too emotional and start interuping.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Thanks for sharing and thank you for watching :) #BTA947 Luka

  • @riarivera8291
    @riarivera8291 7 років тому +4

    Good 😊 day Evan and team good advice. We all in a away have lost the art to communicate effectively, what with all the social media that contrent us to a few characters. Keep them coming ✋🏼💯🙏🏻👏👏👏👏

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts ria. :) Yes...hopefully we could still communicate effectively despite the effect of social media. #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @rana31ify
    @rana31ify 7 років тому

    Evan good job very informative

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you very much for the appreciation and for watching sai. :) #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @CliffordStarks1
    @CliffordStarks1 7 років тому +2

    Gotta go with think about others how can a person see you importance if you don't really see theirs👍

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Agree. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Clifford. :) #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @ronreysocial
    @ronreysocial 6 років тому +2

    Know you’re end goal and IAP, really good techniques

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for sharing :) #BTA825 Luka

    • @radhikasharma9612
      @radhikasharma9612 5 років тому

      Aaron Malabuyo hey I'm from India. I wanna learn to English language. Can you help me please

  • @TruptiJagtap
    @TruptiJagtap 6 років тому +1

    Thank you so much... This really helped me

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому +1

      Glad it's helpful to you :) #BTA884 Luka

  • @kathryncosta2323
    @kathryncosta2323 7 років тому +2

    I noticed my "filler word" is "so" while editing a video. I'm definitely going to practice pausing. I can't wait to try Marie Forleo's awkward pause.

  • @misstinytrader88
    @misstinytrader88 4 роки тому

    Every time I try to do what's good for the other person, I get told it wasn't good to assume or get told I'm trying to take control when I'm not. When I go with the flow of the other person's needs, I get called lazy. If I ask to clarify, so don't misunderstand I'm treated like I'm not listening. When I communicate thinking I did understand, I'm told I act like I know it all, which I absolutely do not. I am getting tired of even trying to communicate. I always end up on the short end of the stick.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому +1

      Sorry about that Miss Tiny. I know doing good makes you happy stop worrying what others people think. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

    • @misstinytrader88
      @misstinytrader88 4 роки тому

      @@EvanCarmichael Thank you! I have tried, and get told I don't care about their feelings. At 50 years old, it is becoming a losing battle. Damned if I do, damned if don't.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому +1

      Good luck Miss Tiny. Much love. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

  • @thanhnguyenxuan9721
    @thanhnguyenxuan9721 4 роки тому

    great video , it very useful and video helped me a lot . i hope you can have more video because i always watch and i want to improve english skills even more . thank you

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it, keep it up! #Believe :) #BTA1547 Veljko

    • @angelinaperalta1595
      @angelinaperalta1595 3 роки тому

      Hello what is the main idea of the video? Ty ❤️☺️

  • @CreativeQueenx
    @CreativeQueenx 7 років тому +3

    FIRST MOSTLY ☺😘

  • @damiancalzato6480
    @damiancalzato6480 7 років тому

    Communicating your vision effectively will inspire the people around you to believe in your dreams.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Congratulations Damian! You won the comment of the day for the most #Believe-worthy comment - here's what it is and how to claim your prize: ua-cam.com/video/fwkcPyPOVDg/v-deo.html Much love! :-) #BelieveNation #BTA619 Luka

  • @maheshpatil5022
    @maheshpatil5022 7 років тому

    Great stuff

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому +1

      Great to know you liked it Mahesh. :) Thanks for watching! #BelieveNation #BTA680 Shine

  • @AhmedShiran
    @AhmedShiran 7 років тому

    Very useful.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad to know you found it useful Ahmed. :) #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @annettesanchez4425
    @annettesanchez4425 7 років тому

    I think you're awesome! 😊

  • @MsPowerfull23
    @MsPowerfull23 7 років тому

    Thank you once again!!! Excellent tips.
    I specially like the "IAP" and Brian Traci with clarification question "how do you mean"

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad you liked it Nayibeth. :) Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and for watching! #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @nathanaelgeach3317
    @nathanaelgeach3317 7 років тому

    I will be practising the ......... IAP.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      All the best to you! :) #BelieveNation #BTA624 Shine

  • @cthezen5836
    @cthezen5836 7 років тому

    Inspire✌✌

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad you are inspired Positive Legend. :) #BelieveNation #BTA624 Shine

  • @ImWORTHITINC
    @ImWORTHITINC Рік тому

    over quick like a pap smear! ROTFLM BUTT OFF! haha I saw this episode from marie YEARS ago, I DON"T REMEMBER THAT PART! ha

  • @stopkevin
    @stopkevin 4 роки тому

    Being autistic I’m trying my best to communicate with people outside my friend group. It’s anxious and scary sometimes.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому +1

      You got this Kevin. #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

  • @wesleyy1691
    @wesleyy1691 5 років тому +1

    “Practise being the last to speak”

  • @kb81ccme15
    @kb81ccme15 5 років тому

    I use um a lot and pause when I talk but I'm a great listener.

  • @Lalrosiama453
    @Lalrosiama453 7 років тому

    thanks van

  • @ak-qp6is
    @ak-qp6is 5 років тому

    I am going to try to express more clearly at he end of conversation

  • @shan-pv8zz
    @shan-pv8zz 5 років тому

    how can I get a link with these business people

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 років тому

      Try to contact them through social media :) #BTA1288 Luka

  • @peboflorida10
    @peboflorida10 6 років тому

    6:01 prime example

  • @alexuwerasemananiyo
    @alexuwerasemananiyo 6 років тому

    I didn't know that about Nelson Mandela. He was the son of a chief. So he had leadership skills in his blood.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA766 Luka

  • @ernawiyati9161
    @ernawiyati9161 5 років тому

    Thanks very much more than this so good idea but you so much more than this 👌👌👌👌👌👌🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @antoniobradiano
    @antoniobradiano 4 роки тому

    as an NLP practitioner I find it still hard to talk to others.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Hope you overcome that #Believe :) #BTA1544 Veljko

  • @robertocarloslatini9909
    @robertocarloslatini9909 7 років тому

    Listen before you talk. That's way the brain is in the middle of the way!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Agree. :) Thank you for the comment and for watching Roberto. #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @raphaelsolomonjr.7056
    @raphaelsolomonjr.7056 5 років тому

    I appreciate men my girlfriend says i need too communicate better and i really do im a cancer shes an Aquarius shes older then me im 34 shes 42 and i really love her with all my heart please help me become a better communicater

  • @Logicalpsycho2323
    @Logicalpsycho2323 6 років тому

    To be interesting...be interested.

  • @KimYang888
    @KimYang888 7 років тому

    Wow every world Star start for make more Tree for #GreenPlanet

  • @marcusward6235
    @marcusward6235 4 роки тому

    After always getting sucked into my phone. I kind of forget how to communicate with people

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Hope this video helped #Believe :) #BTA1503 Veljko

  • @DawnPeed
    @DawnPeed 7 років тому

    I try to listen carefully... then use the "So what your saying is"? And then repeat back With my husband but he gets furious and says I'm not going to repeat myself ... you don't listen to me and it starts an argument! :/

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thanks for sharing dawnpeed. I guess sometimes it might seem like that to others specially the one we love but for sure you could sort it out eventually...understanding and love always prevail. All the best! :) #Believe #BTA625 Shine

  • @anaisbkiss920
    @anaisbkiss920 7 років тому

    no #coffee #vegan ! :P makes me headache all the time ... only tee :)

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you for sharing A G. :) #Believe #BTA624 Shine

  • @MsPinamalakas
    @MsPinamalakas 7 років тому

    Julian Treasure should be here.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts Jeric. Thank you very much for the suggestion and if you like, you could post your request under the comments of this video: Top 10's - Who Should We Profile NEXT - ua-cam.com/video/0arZb0xLIDM/v-deo.html if more people would vote or like your request and there are available videos/clips, we might do a Top 10 rules video for it. Much love. #Believe :) #BTA625 Shine

  • @Eule153
    @Eule153 5 років тому +1

    Casey

  • @FangOliver
    @FangOliver 6 років тому +2

    “How do you mean exactly?” Pause

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Thank you for sharing with us. #BTA993 Luka

  • @blackjackyat-yas6442
    @blackjackyat-yas6442 7 років тому

    Be the last to speak! BTA01

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Thank you for the comment and for watching Jack. :) #BelieveNation #BTA632 Shine

  • @steffih9734
    @steffih9734 6 років тому

    Canto you make a
    How to be ambitious AND have a family?
    How to have an own life AND have a family?
    How to make little ones listen without becoming a horror clown?

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 років тому

      Thank you for the suggestions Steffi :) #BTA854 Luka

  • @andreysharp4551
    @andreysharp4551 7 років тому

    Nice video! Such useful tips "Listen" #BTA33

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Glad you liked it and you found the tips useful Andrey. :) #BelieveNation #BTA625 Shine

  • @rubpc245
    @rubpc245 7 років тому

    Hi Evan! I don't want to bother you but I will post this on every video I can until you answer to my message on facebook! Its a kind of threat really I guess...anyway 😁hope to know from you soon #Believenation #Help me

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 років тому

      Your message was already replied. Thank you very much for reaching out. #BTA622 Shine

  • @mrbigbear07
    @mrbigbear07 4 роки тому

    Don't you mean what do you mean?

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Thanks for watching Adam ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

  • @katrinianelson9314
    @katrinianelson9314 5 років тому

    Time

  • @jervi_sir
    @jervi_sir 7 років тому +2

    please hide alpha m"s wife s . he wont to show her on his videos

  • @30daynopornchallenge75
    @30daynopornchallenge75 4 роки тому

    stop using filler words thats a big one for me

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 роки тому

      Glad it helped. Thanks for watching. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon