Amelia and Lucas | Grey's anatomy season 19x05 | scene 3

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  • @Kadasberry11
    @Kadasberry11 2 роки тому +119

    Some of y’all gotta grow up. Lucas starting that rumor mostly affects Amelia’s reputation- The CHIEF of Neuro. Add in the obvious fact that she’s a woman, it’s harmful to her credibility because the end of the day we still live in a very misogynistic society. At the bare minimum it’s disrespectful af for a man to tell, or even allude, that he slept with a woman when he didn’t.

    • @phoenixreborn6194
      @phoenixreborn6194 2 роки тому +14

      This!!! even if he didn't start the rumor on purpose(other interns assumed it) he is at fault for not shutting the rumor down.

    • @lauraschoenborn3544
      @lauraschoenborn3544 6 місяців тому

      @@phoenixreborn6194 And, there are a thousand different ways that he could have been connected to Amelia. Amelia could have been a family friend, or his Godmother. However, Amelia did not need to hover over Lucas. Also, why would you want that rumor to go around about you and your Aunt?? And Amelia was right to tell Lucas that it was his mess.

    • @CelticRuneSinger
      @CelticRuneSinger 3 місяці тому

      So we're not going to be looking or remembering when the female doctors acted chauvinistic at the male doctors

  • @annewitkowski7909
    @annewitkowski7909 2 роки тому +82

    I understand both points.
    Amelia is right in the fact that the rumor is harmful to both of them, since she is an attending and he's an intern. However Lucas is also right in that the other interns think this because its Amelia who has been hovering around Lucas not the other way around.
    I have a feeling we'll understand Lucas's reasons more when we get more of his backstory, like who his mother is and why he's seen as a screw up in the Shepherd family, and even possibly to himself. Maybe we'll even understand why he'd rather have people think he's sleeping with Amelia, instead of related to her. He did admit it's disturbing, but he's also not ready for people to know he's a Shepherd.
    Instead of giving Lucas 3 days to fix this on his own, Amelia could help Lucas come up with a way to squash the sleeping together rumor without outing him as a Shepherd.

    • @ggsooyoun
      @ggsooyoun 2 роки тому +6

      I agree theres definitely a way to cover it up as like a family friend thing or other platonic situation. But like- I don't think its bad of Amelia to want Lucas to step up and take responsibility for fixing it. It was his decision to try and keep it all secret and when it comes out- man the ribbing he'll get for letting everyone think he slept with his aunt and hiding that he's a shepherd is gonna be way worse than the fact that she's his aunt in the first place.
      And while Amelia was certainly not as discreet as she could've been, the surgery emergency leading to needing someone to take scout and being worried about her nephew living in the on call room are kinda valid.

    • @annewitkowski7909
      @annewitkowski7909 2 роки тому +1

      I didn't mean for my comment to make it seem like it was bad for Amelia to was Lucas to take responsibility for fixing it. Every reason she approached Lucas was absolutely valid. I agree with Amelia 100% that Lucas needs to be the ones to set the record straight with the other interns. I just wish Amelia could have been a little more understanding to Lucas's wishes of wanting to succeed without automatically being attached to the Shepherd name.
      I personally came to the conclusion or theory that Lucas wants to prove himself before his family connections are revealed , and that desire probably only got bigger and more important to prove after the patient next of kin mistaken identity error he made in the first episode of the season. I fully believe had the on-call room incident occurred, the apartment listing handoff, Kwan starting the rumor, and Lucas taking Scout to daycare all happened , but Lucas's mistake on their first day had not happened, then Lucas might have decided even though it was earlier than he wanted it out there he was a Shepherd, he still would have admitted that Amelia was his aunt on his own, with out her giving him the 3 day ultimatum. I hope what I'm saying makes sense and clarifies my original comment a little more.

  • @josiee1120
    @josiee1120 2 роки тому +22

    I really don’t understand why he couldn’t just say she was his parent’s friend or something who his mom asked to look out for him. That would keep him from telling everyone how they are actually connected but also allow her to not have to deal with the rumors.

  • @monalisasmile6629
    @monalisasmile6629 2 роки тому +53

    Meredith and Jackson would understand how Lucas feels.

    • @refelicia824
      @refelicia824 2 роки тому +9

      Yeah except Meredith never hid it or was ashamed that Ellis was her DOCTOR mother, regular mother on the other hand it’s different but yeah she would understand I guess

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 2 роки тому +7

      @@refelicia824 I don't think Meredith had the option to hide it. Everyone already knew when she started.

    • @refelicia824
      @refelicia824 2 роки тому

      @@junbh2 actually not right away

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 2 роки тому +13

      I think an additional problem Lucas has is that he isn't an obviously brilliant student like Meredith or Jackson were. Jackson's money sometimes created a distance from his classmates, and with both Meredith and Jackson I think they feared people would resent them for the advantages they had growing up - tutors, role models, no money worries... but I don't think anyone really doubted that they were good. With Lucas I wonder if he's afraid they will think he literally got in by nepotism and not just by having advantages growing up. I wonder if he even wonders that himself? He doesn't always seem very confident in his abilities.

    • @noashom
      @noashom 2 роки тому +1

      @@junbh2
      I think he only got in because of nepotism! He seems kind and sometimes clever, but at the same time he seems completely incompetent, which is so different from how Amelia started out.

  • @junbh2
    @junbh2 2 роки тому +178

    I wasn't expecting to think so, but Lucas has a point. Amelia didn't honour her promise to leave him alone at work and let him be anonymous. She kept following him around all the time and now handing him her kid. She didn't take it seriously at all.

    • @lebrittineewithers1622
      @lebrittineewithers1622 2 роки тому +5

      I don't think she takes stuff seriously but she is still good at what she do

    • @tia4057
      @tia4057 2 роки тому +6

      Sounds like my auntie. She overstepped yes, but that's cause he's her nephew.

    • @ggsooyoun
      @ggsooyoun 2 роки тому +13

      I think she could've been more discreet for sure. However, I also think it could've easily been explained away by saying she was a family friend or something when he found out about the rumor. And she's definitely in her right to want those rumors squashed.

    • @nightengale10
      @nightengale10 2 роки тому +13

      The hovering around him was disrespectful to his request but handing off Scout is something that has happened before with other doctors and their kids. In season nine, Meredith handed Zola off to Edwards because she had to go into surgery, and Zola had a temp, so couldn't go to daycare. If I remember correctly, Zola got passed around to all the interns that episode and ended up being cared for by Owen. Arizona handed off Sofia to Deluca to watch when April came to her house and thought she was losing her daughter because she had never felt her kick. As Amelia said, handing off your kid to a trusted intern to watch because you are needed for an emergency is a thing the doctors do. But everything else he complained about is totally valid

    • @nialinder
      @nialinder Рік тому +2

      He should’ve tried to work at a different hospital why work somewhere where you have famous talented aunts especially Amelia who likes to overstep

  • @OffKiraDeux
    @OffKiraDeux 2 роки тому +3

    I snorted when she said there are rules in place about interns and attendings sleeping together lol

  • @thekid8832
    @thekid8832 2 роки тому +40

    I'm on Lucas side. Having been in this position with my dad I tried to hide it for as long as possible and by the time people started figuring it out there was no doubt on my ability but there were still some raised eyebrows

  • @lakeithiastoves4181
    @lakeithiastoves4181 2 роки тому +18

    While 2 things can certainly be true, Lucas is doing the most. Talk about not living up to family expectations, Amelia is a recovering drug addict whose mom admitted to not raising her and being there for her. Her siblings shunned her and wouldn’t even attend her wedding. So it’s kinda hard to see his perspective.
    He would rather people think he’s getting ahead because of what’s between his legs and allow his peers to keep disrespecting his aunt instead of him coming from a family of talented doctors as if it’s not common for professions to run in families.

  • @msfriendsfan4ever788
    @msfriendsfan4ever788 2 роки тому +44

    I love Amelia, but she has a tendency to hover and medle when it comes to the people she loves, and Lucas is exactly like her. While Lucas definitely shouldn't have let the other interns belive he was sleeping with Amelia, he wasn't wrong about her. She didn't respect his boundaries, something that she doesn't always do when she loves someone. She did it with Owen when they were newly weds

  • @luvsoojins1816
    @luvsoojins1816 2 роки тому +3

    i get her not respecting his boundaries but at a certain point you gotta be the adult and fix the problem - Lucas needs to suck it up fr

  • @Izzy_Innabi0325
    @Izzy_Innabi0325 2 роки тому +16

    Amelia is in a relationship so for him to not tell them would be bad

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 2 роки тому

      She should be with him imo.

    • @il3171
      @il3171 2 роки тому +10

      @@IWantToMature85 that’s literally her nephew??

    • @Izzy_Innabi0325
      @Izzy_Innabi0325 2 роки тому

      @@IWantToMature85 DISGUSTING

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 2 роки тому

      I mean Kai knows Amelia isn't sleeping with Lucas. So do most of the attendings I'm sure, at least anyone close to Amelia. It's really just the interns, and they don't know she's in a relationship.

    • @princelevi3733
      @princelevi3733 11 місяців тому

      ​@xc377 This is not a game of Thrones, buddy 😂

  • @xxkillerdogxx
    @xxkillerdogxx 2 роки тому +2

    Amilia uses the attendie card when it benifits her. They attendies don't follow residene around or have them watch their kids.

    • @erikpersoon
      @erikpersoon 2 роки тому +1

      Haha they do actually. Meredith did it with all of the residents. Even Bailey did it as a resident with her interns (George and Cristina) hahaha

    • @annam5647
      @annam5647 2 роки тому

      Isn’t Lucas a intern??

  • @agata590
    @agata590 2 роки тому +8

    He isn't a shephard, I mean he probably had his father's name (Adams) his whole life, so it's not like it's obvious. And if people found out in the past somehow (like in med school), then it was always just a matter of time before they found out *in the hospital where half his family works/worked*!

  • @marmeelynsinocruz9461
    @marmeelynsinocruz9461 2 роки тому +12

    Lucas needs to resolve his issue of being a Shep. Would have been easy to correct the misconception.

    • @sarahjames927
      @sarahjames927 2 роки тому +1

      Look at the grief Meredith went thru for being her mom ‘s kid. Amelia crossed his boundaries … that’s on her.

  • @asmafayaz
    @asmafayaz 2 роки тому +25

    Lucas needs to grow up and more specifically get rid of that chip off his shoulder. Talking like Amelia has no idea what it’s like to be considered the families disappointment.

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 2 роки тому +3

      That's why she should understand though.

    • @liaevergreen332
      @liaevergreen332 2 роки тому +2

      @@junbh2 I personally would want my nephew to be proud of our family name and just show the other people that he deserves where he is. Of course people will still question him but I dont support the thought of him hiding who he really is. Amelia has been in his position but she worked her way out of Derek's shadows.

    • @omarcogle1965
      @omarcogle1965 2 роки тому +5

      @@liaevergreen332 True, but I think with Lucas, he'd be in a similar situation like Meredith or Jackson, like if Lucas was chosen to do a surgery, the other interns would assume it was because he's a Shepherd, similar to how Meredith got picked by Derek for a Surgery, and Cristina & Izzie felt some type of way back in the Season 1 pilot.

    • @gailelliott8792
      @gailelliott8792 2 роки тому

      Also, didnt Meredith say that she picked him because he reminded her of Amelia? Whether he likes it or not, the Shepherd connection may have got him where he is now too.

    • @elysiafisher7081
      @elysiafisher7081 2 роки тому

      @@gailelliott8792 yep when Amelia talks about his personality in the gallery and asks if it reminded Meredith of Derek and she says no.... you don't see it hey... reminds me of you.

  • @carolinacardenas8490
    @carolinacardenas8490 Рік тому

    Been related to both chief of surgery and neuro of the hospital he works at i can understand, but the whole “i’m a Shepard” not so much. Never thought Derek’s sisters where a big deal, plus they are all married and possibly have taken their husband’s name 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @SalGersGirl
    @SalGersGirl 2 роки тому +14

    He's selfish like his uncle Derrick to a degree, It's ALL about HIM and I'm pretty sure there were OTHER programs out there so if he chose the one where his AUNT works that's ALL on him. Jackson and Meridith had to deal with being related to some of the most ICONIC surgeons of all time and while they didn't advertise it and wanted it kept quiet, when people DID find out they didn't act like little babies they set out to PROVE they EARNED the right to be there. Hell Jackson started at Mercy West trying to keep a low profile

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 2 роки тому +2

      He didn't choose this one. It was the only one he could get into. That's true of all the interns.

  • @SayanHaqueOfficial
    @SayanHaqueOfficial Місяць тому +1

    wwwwww

  • @AggyMariii
    @AggyMariii 2 роки тому +6

    Ngl lucas is annoying he’s definitely buggin letting ppl spread rumors

  • @Christine-ne4yf
    @Christine-ne4yf 2 роки тому +1

    His face looks weird

  • @RPRJack21
    @RPRJack21 2 роки тому

    I’m on Lucas’ side. There would not have been a rumor in the first place if Amelia would’ve saved all her hovering and helping for outside of work. But she didn’t. She was unprofessional. And the people that think Lucas is annoying for pointing that out are delusional.

    • @josiee1120
      @josiee1120 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah, but could you imagine seeing your nephew living in the hospital? Or not feeling like you could talk to him ever? And if he and Derek had a special bond, that’s even more of a reason Amelia would want to protect him. And the fact that Amelia sees herself in him and has that instinct to protect him. And, Amelia’s relationships with her sisters are complicated and though she tells herself she doesn’t care how they look at her, she also knows if something happened to her nephew when she was around and she didn’t help, she would be given hell. It’s a complicated situation.

    • @RPRJack21
      @RPRJack21 2 роки тому +1

      @@josiee1120 I understand where you’re coming from, but Amelia jumps the gun. She could do everything she did and spoken to him and called him - after work. Emailed/texted him the information. For me, I could love my nephew and respect his wishes at the same time while also persuading him to eventually tell the truth. I think a lot of people are different in that they would’ve made sure Lucas was ok before he got there and this became an issue. And Amelia’s lack of consideration/overzealousness in my opinion lead to this point. However, I do agree that it is a complicated situation.

  • @refelicia824
    @refelicia824 2 роки тому +4

    I thought I’d love him but he’s annoying. I get not wanting people to know but this is. Little extreme

    • @AggyMariii
      @AggyMariii 2 роки тому

      That’s how I feel he’s annoying asf he needs to grow up

    • @Melanie-jy2nw
      @Melanie-jy2nw 2 роки тому +4

      That’s on her for not respecting his boundaries. It was bound to happen.