The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Alcohol With Author William Porter

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  • @sp40741
    @sp40741 Рік тому +73

    I am sober since last 5 months and very proud of myself

    • @kate60
      @kate60 11 місяців тому +2

      Never look back

    • @rodb66
      @rodb66 10 місяців тому +4

      I did dry January now I'm 46 days alcohol free. The longest I've gone is 2 months. I started drinking in my teens and was I party drinker throughout my 20s to my early 30s. My drinking decrease tremendously when I got married. I was no longer around a heavy drinking crowd and I was okay with that. More recently, I was only drinking on my off days but it Alcohol no longer is desirable to me. Even a glass a wine was giving me gut issues. It also disrupted my sleep and made very dehydrated. Since I've been into fitness as long as been drinking, I no longer wanted to compromise my health.

    • @yuliyayeudachenka297
      @yuliyayeudachenka297 10 місяців тому +1

      We are proud of you too!

    • @1Jason
      @1Jason 10 місяців тому +2

      You are getting near the dangerous point where your mind will tell you that you earned a few beers. Don't do it.

    • @BenMJay
      @BenMJay 9 місяців тому +1

      In 19 days it will be 4 years.

  • @corric80
    @corric80 6 місяців тому +9

    12 months sober, like coming back to these vids to keep me on track

  • @kevinandalicia8701
    @kevinandalicia8701 Рік тому +47

    Yes!! It is all bull****. We put this story around it, we romanticize it. It is terrible tasting crap, that we have been conned into drinking. I have said for years, I think it is the greatest con perpetuated on mankind.

    • @thomasschellberg8213
      @thomasschellberg8213 11 місяців тому +3

      Don't drink it if you don't like it. You have free will. Those of us truly love fine wine (or beer or scotch if that's one's preference) are not being conned into drinking it. We can sit back and laugh at the stupid people who can't control their drinking.

    • @kate60
      @kate60 11 місяців тому +1

      Correct. I work in the industry. We are not allowed to swallow at tastings. The industry doesn't care if you die. The volume of sales is shocking. It's not even safe to taste and spit as alcohol permeates the cells and blood quickly. Total poison.

    • @ohdwight
      @ohdwight 11 місяців тому

      many people have wet brain and don't know it ; 80 percent of wet brain is found at autopsy ; people just think they are getting forgetful ; memory isn't what it used to be ; it's an insidious poison pushed by our culture by big alcohol , big pharma ; they love people to drink , need meds, need hospitals and drs, etc.

    • @rodb66
      @rodb66 10 місяців тому +7

      There's also the pro alcohol campaign in the media and advertising. The mommy wine culture has really bought 40s and up women into the fold as well.

    • @CITYBEACHTV
      @CITYBEACHTV 9 місяців тому +4

      Facts!!!!!

  • @alienautopsy9326
    @alienautopsy9326 5 місяців тому +4

    Allen Carr’s book on quoting alcohol saved my life

  • @karenleboeuf8010
    @karenleboeuf8010 6 місяців тому +5

    This man is so smart and explains these things with such easy to understand metaphors. I’ve read 25 books about quitting or reducing alcohol, but this guy just “knocks it out of the park” Thank you

  • @futureofmoney3527
    @futureofmoney3527 Рік тому +10

    For me, I was more aware of the effects of drinking when I was drinking on my own. With friends, it was much more chaotic. I was preoccupied with socializing and the peer pressure of “keeping up” my drinking. I always drank more in a group than on my own.

  • @pippaboyd88
    @pippaboyd88 11 місяців тому +9

    This was brilliant. Very useful. Im nearly at six weeks and feeling so much better

    • @Gormo83
      @Gormo83 11 місяців тому +1

      Good on you! I'm around 6 weeks too. We got this 😊

    • @kate60
      @kate60 11 місяців тому +1

      It's death. Never touch it again.

  • @VictoriaOz
    @VictoriaOz 2 місяці тому

    Great interview! I learn something new every time I listen to William Porter.
    Both his books Alcohol Explained & AE 2
    are fabulous!

  • @AthleticEducation
    @AthleticEducation 10 місяців тому +4

    28:03 I stopped drinking and my sleep hasn’t improved at all. I eliminate the blue lights, I read before going to bed, I get morning sunlight but yet I struggle to fall asleep and wake up multiple times throughout the night. Now I’ve never used alcohol to try and “sleep” I was a weekend binger when I go out. But honestly I was hoping by stopping my sleep would improve. In any case I don’t plan on going back. Other benefits are great.

    • @_noahrh
      @_noahrh 10 місяців тому +3

      Try cutting caffeine, if you drink coffee keep it to one cup in the morning. The difference is huge.

    • @AthleticEducation
      @AthleticEducation 10 місяців тому +3

      @@_noahrh i prob drink about 400-500mg of caffeine a day because I never sleep so I’m dead tired. But I don’t drink any after 12pm. But tomorrow I’ll keep it to 60mg, a black tea

    • @_noahrh
      @_noahrh 10 місяців тому +3

      @@AthleticEducation it’s the caffeine - 100%. It’s hard to cut back but you’ll see the differences almost immediately, at least within a few days. 400-500 is a lot. I went from waking up a few times a night to once (or not at all) after quitting. Then a couple weeks ago I decided to start caffeine again, and it’s the same thing I wake up a few times each night now. You’ve got it!

    • @smoozerish
      @smoozerish 10 місяців тому +2

      Quit caffeine in all forms and see what happens.

    • @HonkerTonic
      @HonkerTonic 4 місяці тому

      If caffeine cutting doesn't work, it might be gastric or liver related sypmtoms which the alcohol would have sedated you through (whilst making the problem worse). Maybe try a short course of Omeprazole for a while to see if your sleep improves (if it does you might have some sort of "invisible" reflux) or try dietary changes to help your liver? Both of those approaches have helped me in the past.

  • @julijuls7271
    @julijuls7271 Рік тому +5

    I'm so glad I happened upon this. The book is aptly named. This is one of the best explanations about the effects of alcohol and our perceived notions of different aspects of it. Thank you!

  • @GethinJames
    @GethinJames Рік тому +5

    Good to see you Will! Been missing your podcasts on UA-cam.

  • @kenxclout
    @kenxclout 6 місяців тому +2

    I never been drunk in my life! As a kid I took a sip of my grandpas beer and it was the most disgusting thing i ever drank. Now at 25 I see how my friends drink and how bad they feel the next day and I read Williams book on alcohol and it helps me understand rather than judge.

  • @davesage4931
    @davesage4931 10 місяців тому +3

    My journey to sobriety started with the exact same Nikki Glaser clip. Alan Carr led me to Annie Grace and her book completely changed my mindset. Recently started Mr Porters book as well.

    • @karenleboeuf8010
      @karenleboeuf8010 6 місяців тому +1

      Loved Naked Mind. I’m definitely reading this guys book. Cheers

  • @stixsta6007
    @stixsta6007 11 місяців тому +2

    Most excellently explained Mr Porter 🙏👍💪

  • @Dat_Dude_Danny1
    @Dat_Dude_Danny1 Рік тому +4

    This was a great podcast! Subscribed

  • @GRasputin91
    @GRasputin91 Рік тому +7

    I keep going back to this shit even though it does this to me. I'm always craving that endorphin rush even though I know I'm going to pass out and forget stuff

    • @kate60
      @kate60 11 місяців тому +6

      Get rid of it. Get a friend. It's poison. You are killing yourself. Be your best. You have no idea how good you can feel and all the money that you will save. Be well. Be rich

    • @silviahoffmann158
      @silviahoffmann158 7 місяців тому +2

      🙏

  • @Astral_Dusk
    @Astral_Dusk 8 місяців тому +4

    The drinking often feels like a lifestyle - ahh dealing with life, empowered by alcohol - all a massive illusion that's causing the worst problems in life all along.

  • @Astral_Dusk
    @Astral_Dusk 8 місяців тому +2

    Consider the blackout episodes PTSD that only disrupts the ability to ever drink again. Post-Traumatic Sober Drive

  • @danvenning6279
    @danvenning6279 7 місяців тому +2

    61 days today. Feeling flat. Worried that life enjoyment will lessen. I know that will change but doing it tough at present

    • @ChrisBird1
      @ChrisBird1 6 місяців тому

      Billions upon billions of people have enjoyed alcohol throughout their life with no ill effect.. if you have a problem with alcohol ,then we must stop . But if you simply enjoy a drink sometimes ,then do it 😂😂😂 alot of these influencer's have taken it too far ,simply jumping on the alcohol free bandwagon,for UA-cam likes .

    • @corric80
      @corric80 6 місяців тому +1

      Keep going. 12 months sober now, life is so much better than when I was drinking. I didn't feel good until at least the three to six month mark.

  • @OnlyThroughConflictDoWeEvolve
    @OnlyThroughConflictDoWeEvolve Рік тому +4

    The audiobook is even better

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 10 місяців тому +3

    Everyone wuotes Allen Carre but nobody mentions Jason Vales bokk on the subject written two years before Allens .
    Vale used to work in Carres clinic by the way..

  • @walterwally983
    @walterwally983 10 місяців тому +1

    Had this book on my list to read. Already read Stop Drinking Now the Easyway so this book should be a great follow up. Hopefully it'll help crush my live for beer which is definitely turning into a nasty habit.

  • @maxwillson
    @maxwillson 3 місяці тому

    My taste changed after a month of going sober. I tried a beer and it was nasty! I could taste the alcohol in it and this was a light beer. I was kind of shocked because I'd drink this beer like it was water. It only took a month to lose the taste.

  • @Astral_Dusk
    @Astral_Dusk 8 місяців тому +2

    Our subconscious can be likened to a caveman seeking immediate gratification, even if it means harm in the long run. Unfortunately, alcohol can lead to not just slow deterioration but also immediate, often indirect, fatalities in various ways. This reality demands careful consideration. The more comforting alcohol feels, the greater the peril it poses.

  • @chrishancock6728
    @chrishancock6728 Рік тому +2

    Fantastic book!

  • @BlueT1000
    @BlueT1000 3 місяці тому

    Robert DeNiro has really perfected his English accent.

  • @silviahoffmann158
    @silviahoffmann158 7 місяців тому +4

    1 wk 1 day 17 hrs

  • @billmoore1936
    @billmoore1936 8 місяців тому

    Yes very good keep going I have been sober for going on 7years and is fantastic but not to let your guard down or you start from day one

  • @karenleboeuf8010
    @karenleboeuf8010 6 місяців тому +1

    Seriously one could simply say to those freaks that are saying come on just have one beer, Oh I’m doing a sleep study to see if zero alcohol might improve my sleeping. That this particular study requires zero alcohol consumption. Pathetic I even think about things to say to people but they do pressure.

  • @mehDOGIESRATS2222
    @mehDOGIESRATS2222 7 місяців тому +4

    After a while the booze is just drinking itself .

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 10 місяців тому

    I wake up like that lately early in morning amd cant go back to sleep due to cycling testosterone for the gym...

  • @KnigelD
    @KnigelD 9 місяців тому +2

    Why do all these comments come from people that have given up alcohol????
    Why are they still watching these videos???
    Surly when your sober you have better things to do 🤔

    • @kleek9581
      @kleek9581 8 місяців тому +1

      What? 😂

  • @kevinsmith5318
    @kevinsmith5318 Рік тому +6

    Both his books are excellent.
    Btw, grown men shouldn’t wear little boy hats backwards. Grow up, eh.

    • @bonatshilombo3976
      @bonatshilombo3976 Рік тому +7

      If someone is okay with their hat.. odd that it would bother you.

  • @a68rebel
    @a68rebel 9 місяців тому +1

    Folks in Spain and Italy drink red wine all day long, every day and are generally happier and healthier than most Americans. This tells you that factors that having nothing to do with alcohol are responsible for American's problems.

    • @carlmartin1
      @carlmartin1 8 місяців тому +4

      Evidence? Lol

    • @iridescent880
      @iridescent880 8 місяців тому +1

      There’s more factors that are to be more considered such as diet and lifestyle that play a far bigger role than alcohol. Any benefits from alcohol are minuscule at best and doesn’t contribute to happier and healthier living.

    • @hymen2393
      @hymen2393 6 місяців тому +1

      They are happier and healthier because they eat propper food!

    • @SoberingThoughts
      @SoberingThoughts 6 місяців тому +3

      They don’t drink wine “all day long”, “every day.”

    • @rdsunshine34741
      @rdsunshine34741 4 місяці тому

      There's alcoholics in Spain and Italy too. There's all these weird romantic myths about Spain and Italy being magically healthier without knowing why. The reasons why are simple - they eat well, exercise and drink alcohol in a different way to other countries in general. But there's still plenty of people that don't follow that. There's plenty of alcoholics dying in their 40s and 50s from liver damage. The ones who "drink wine all day" are known as the drunk or are suffering from ill health. Also this whole red wine thing - why is it everyone says red wine!? Like people in these countries don't drink vodka, beer, or white wine!? Non alcoholic beer is massive in Spain, you can get it on tap in many bars now - what does that tell you? 😂 They know it's a drug.

  • @ChrisBird1
    @ChrisBird1 6 місяців тому

    I've been drinking and enjoying nights out for 35 year's . I have no idea what these two are talking about .

  • @colleenpollock2908
    @colleenpollock2908 11 місяців тому +2

    I stopped watching within 5 minutes of watching, because you didn't give me any eye contact. Just read from your screen.

    • @Gormo83
      @Gormo83 11 місяців тому +5

      Calm down, apart from the spiel about their business model at the start, they are not reading off a script. They are looking at each other on their monitors. And they probably go back to their notes from time to time. Sorry you feel triggered for them not looking into the camera 😂

    • @smoozerish
      @smoozerish 10 місяців тому +1

      You probably forgot to take your medication again. The medication that keeps you sane.

    • @poliziagrammaticale9430
      @poliziagrammaticale9430 10 місяців тому

      Have a drink. It will calm you down.

  • @thomasschellberg8213
    @thomasschellberg8213 11 місяців тому +1

    This is not an honest treatise about alcohol. This is a propaganda campaign. I enjoy wine with a meal for the taste. I drink it most nights and pick the wine to complement the meal. But I keep to one or two glasses. I don't hangovers, nor I get increased anxiety because I don't drink to excess. Your comment about not enjoying alcohol except to get drunk is telling. I did this in my college days and cannot see the point of drinking to excess at my advanced age. In summary, your discussion is more about your preferences than it is about actual science. What a disappointing talk.

    • @Gormo83
      @Gormo83 11 місяців тому +13

      Newsflash: This podcast is not aimed at you. Good on you for sticking to 1 or 2 over dinner to compliment meals, but there are many more drinkers out there that, for one reason or another, do not stop at 2. This podcast is for them. Stop making everything about you with your negative, subtle flex of a comment.

    • @kate60
      @kate60 11 місяців тому +14

      There is no safe amount of alcohol. Wine every night is excessive and dangerous. Your defensive attitude says a lot.

    • @kate60
      @kate60 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Gormo83Correct

    • @ohdwight
      @ohdwight 11 місяців тому +7

      most drinkers have an UNHealthy relationship w/ alcohol and drink more than they want / should ; habitual addiction . All drinkers I know are addicted.

    • @thomasschellberg8213
      @thomasschellberg8213 10 місяців тому

      @@ohdwight All drinkers YOU know are addicted. Hardly a scientific statement supported by evidence.

  • @kevinsmith5318
    @kevinsmith5318 6 місяців тому

    Weating your hat like ten year old child… grow up

    • @most-days
      @most-days  6 місяців тому

      People really hate the backwards hat🤣