Anna Sebastian: We are Sorry! | Madan Gowri | Tamil | MG Squad 🖖

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  • @madangowri
    @madangowri  Місяць тому +291

    What steps should an employee take to help change their workplace culture?

    • @indescribable5854
      @indescribable5854 Місяць тому +7

      😢

    • @goldengridss
      @goldengridss Місяць тому +55

      Saying no to overtime work.
      If everyone sets their own boundary so that their personal life isn't disturbed, it will make it hard for the employers to find people who work overtime.
      It might set a new healthier standard as no one will be willing to work overtime and the employers will have to settle with employees who prioritise their mental and physical health too.

    • @Kanavu-p3m
      @Kanavu-p3m Місяць тому +2

      😢

    • @Mahi-q9x7n
      @Mahi-q9x7n Місяць тому +30

      Not possible. workplace politics is there everywhere. People may act like supporting but they will play against us supporting the management😴

    • @keerthanaa5778
      @keerthanaa5778 Місяць тому +23

      Working hours should be within the shift times as government jobs
      Should hire more employees for extra work loads

  • @aswathikumaran5063
    @aswathikumaran5063 Місяць тому +611

    I cleared my CA exams in May month and got an offer from a Big 4 firm. After hearing about Anna Sebastian's case I and my mom got scared. But my dad and sister gave me the confidence to focus on my health first. They told me that if I can't handle the pressure, I can always leave the company and find another job. The point I want to make is that companies can easily replace employees, but family can never be replaced.

    • @durganandy1367
      @durganandy1367 Місяць тому +13

      You are absolutely correct.
      Take care

    • @ShantgiAnthony
      @ShantgiAnthony Місяць тому +9

      Is ca exam though?
      Because I'm gonna try that but everyone say that ca exam though can you please tell me

    • @abcd-zg5hq
      @abcd-zg5hq Місяць тому +8

      ​@@ShantgiAnthony Yeah, it's tough but it's not impossible to clear. If you're interested, give it a try

    • @ShantgiAnthony
      @ShantgiAnthony Місяць тому

      ​@@abcd-zg5hqty❤

    • @soundaryavembaiyan
      @soundaryavembaiyan Місяць тому +5

      Not all companies are the same, be brave.

  • @keerthivasangopalraj4273
    @keerthivasangopalraj4273 Місяць тому +145

    I worked at Deloitte in Australia as an intern, they definitely push more work to India and barely do any work themselves. Seeing this makes me sad really sad, Indians should be treated more fairly.

    • @bayernjames9546
      @bayernjames9546 Місяць тому

      I've read that the reason why the western, or certain countries have more "work-life balance" than others is that they push or outsource to Asia, hence.

    • @siraja8253
      @siraja8253 Місяць тому +2

      Work policy at Deloitte USI and other countries are different here we work for 14+ hours worst policy in all big fours where as US and on site folks chill at big 4's

    • @Sanji-n5f
      @Sanji-n5f Місяць тому

      True bro. ​@siraja8253

    • @satyashri4310
      @satyashri4310 Місяць тому

      Who said they r chilling ?? In US Deloitte employees work for 19 hrs countinuesly lot of work pressure

    • @siraja8253
      @siraja8253 Місяць тому +1

      @@satyashri4310 I agree but it depends on the project to be honest

  • @jayaprakasha6227
    @jayaprakasha6227 Місяць тому +65

    Indian Government should regulate the Private company work cultures 🤔

    • @karthikcm5168
      @karthikcm5168 Місяць тому +4

      Mandatory, well said

    • @tunanin
      @tunanin Місяць тому +3

      Panna maatanga. Donation to political party kodukaradhe nammala slave huh velai vaanganumnu dhan.

  • @kabithaak9552nagaratna
    @kabithaak9552nagaratna Місяць тому +253

    Poor part is that nobody came to her funeral..humanity dead.

    • @SUGANYA.7
      @SUGANYA.7 Місяць тому +7

      Join Pani 4 months dhan ga aagudhu friendship maintain panavae varamaatanga office la ellarukum permission kudukamaatanganu
      Indha ponnu ellarkitayum paesumoa Ila silent aana ponno therilaela
      Local la irundhalae leave thara maatanga andha ponnu kochi kondupoairupaanga apram avlo dhooram epdi allow panuvaanga

    • @shrirubi9977
      @shrirubi9977 Місяць тому

      Guilty, no one dare to show their face

    • @Kaviyashree0807
      @Kaviyashree0807 Місяць тому

      💔

  • @vandhanabalaji2979
    @vandhanabalaji2979 Місяць тому +183

    I was working with EY. I faced extreme pressure during my pregnancy and post ML. I can really feel Anna!

    • @plantcare6366
      @plantcare6366 Місяць тому +1

      😢😢😢

    • @coolguy0719
      @coolguy0719 Місяць тому +8

      I rejected the EY offer because of that reason

    • @Sus_Gamer7
      @Sus_Gamer7 Місяць тому +6

      Don't run behind the money.just take the best decision that you love

    • @coolguy0719
      @coolguy0719 Місяць тому +1

      @@Sus_Gamer7
      Yesssssssss

    • @VivekKumar-m7u5m
      @VivekKumar-m7u5m 21 день тому

      Always give priority to your health

  • @ShrimeenakshiAnand
    @ShrimeenakshiAnand Місяць тому +44

    Thank you anna na keta odane idha pathi pesinathuku.. oru CA student ah na romba depressed ah irundhen idha ketutu... Let her rest in "peace" atleast after her demise

  • @user-qu6ir9gt3p
    @user-qu6ir9gt3p Місяць тому +57

    I have literally worked 24hrs continuously In an IT firm in Chennai and still continued to work next day until evening. So totally from first day 9 to next day 9 without sleep and continued till the second day evening as work from home (sorry hostel), so total 33 hrs. I was a workaholic but the company used me to the very extent but even then only the appreciation mattered to me. Only when I asked for leave to visit hometown like sat sun and mon it was denied though I had not taken a single day leave. It shattered me to the core and only then I realised I have been used not appreciated or these so called “Employee of the Month” , “Star Performer” everything is an eye wash. I quitted the company very next day. Even my Pf is not settled until now.
    You are never going to achieve if you don’t balance work and life equally so
    Don’t spoil your health and work guys my small advice

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      What u said is correct bro

    • @Pirppokkum_Ella_Uyirkkum
      @Pirppokkum_Ella_Uyirkkum Місяць тому +1

      What you said is correct. I have faced the same situation

    • @boomiboomi376
      @boomiboomi376 Місяць тому

      This is the difference between corporate and government

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому +1

      @@boomiboomi376
      In gvt sector also work pressure is there

    • @tk6376
      @tk6376 Місяць тому

      Don't hesitate to say name
      Burst out in linked in or glassodoor

  • @bavadharinis9123
    @bavadharinis9123 Місяць тому +68

    This is happening to all the corporate employees. My brother was working in Kyndryl (child company of IBM) for 2.5 yrs. He was experiencing too much of work pressure along with loads of excess work. The manager who was also an Indian gave him extra work which were not even assigned for him and said to do all those works. When he asked pay for those works she said that they won't pay him but this will be experience for him. He felt too low because of this and we asked him to quit immediately and supported him saying that we can look for another job.Corporate should treat people as human beings especially Indians must supported each other rather than pulling other Indian down. Indian who have migrated abroad think themselves as foreigners treat Indians cheaply. This mentality of people should change.
    Even medical field has hierarchy system were the senior doctors add too much of patient stress to junior doctors and interns.

    • @BalajiJ2
      @BalajiJ2 Місяць тому +2

      IBM=SITHAN

    • @gopinathlakshmanrao
      @gopinathlakshmanrao Місяць тому

      It's our own Indian bosses who harass employees. The foreigners are much more humane in their approach. It's not that foreign bosses are lenient lenient

    • @Rose-sd5jv
      @Rose-sd5jv Місяць тому

      Bhavadharshini from virudhunagar

  • @Sobika983
    @Sobika983 Місяць тому +47

    Not the work...CA course itself more stressful we have to study numerous things...pass percentage also too..less...
    As a average student i took many
    Attempt to clear inter level...

  • @geethabalachandran7771
    @geethabalachandran7771 Місяць тому +253

    100 - க்கு 99 பேர் Private கம்பெனிகளில் இப்படிதான் வேலை பார்க்கிறாங்க மதனு? Stress ரொம்ப இருக்கு, 10 பேர் செய்ய வேண்டிய வேலையை 3 பேரை வைத்து செய்ய சொல்றாங்க.😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

    • @supergamer4015
      @supergamer4015 Місяць тому +8

      You are telling my story, My team has only 3 members and 1 TL we are doing work of 8 members combined and still I get scolded by manager for not doing pending work😢

    • @supergamer4015
      @supergamer4015 Місяць тому +5

      I am giving my 100℅, they are still not satisfied

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      @@supergamer4015 in which company bro

    • @vadivuilango4095
      @vadivuilango4095 Місяць тому

      Correct

    • @rajavelsubbuvaiyapuri5001
      @rajavelsubbuvaiyapuri5001 Місяць тому +4

      Don't give up human rights and basic needs of any Employee. Try to say NO for extra time and work. Time schedule must for any type of job.

  • @coolyoutuber6237
    @coolyoutuber6237 Місяць тому +110

    Problem in Corporate world is whoever works hard and showing enthusiasm, they get loads and loads of work. Really toxic work environment, groupism spoiling work culture. Corporate jobs are not for introverts, hard working people.

    • @Its4you_
      @Its4you_ Місяць тому +3

      So what introverts will do living

    • @daldacare7973
      @daldacare7973 Місяць тому

      Sad😢😢​@@Its4you_

  • @DhananjayaDevata
    @DhananjayaDevata Місяць тому +40

    I have worked in EY for 2 years.. I know few people got heart attacks and health issues.. its high time for big 4s to treat employees as humans..

  • @Stickylesli
    @Stickylesli Місяць тому +185

    நான் அனுபவித்து இருக்கிறேன் 😢😢😢நல்லா தூங்கனும் ஆசையா இருக்கும் ஆனால் முடியாது 😢😢ஒரு சில நேரங்களில் ஸ்கூல் போற மாதிரி பயமா இருந்தது எனக்கு 🥲🥲🥲 யார்க்கிட்டையும் சொல்ல முடியாது வீட்டு சூழ்நிலை 😢

    • @CricManiac143
      @CricManiac143 Місяць тому +5

      Are you serious.

    • @Stickylesli
      @Stickylesli Місяць тому +10

      ​@@CricManiac143yes now I resigned that job Amma ku health issues relocate aahitom kojam days 😢😢 resignation kuduka ponapo situation ah sonnen adhuku deen sonnaru that's not my problem that's your problem nu😢😢

    • @jayaprakasha6227
      @jayaprakasha6227 Місяць тому +7

      @@Stickylesli It’s good to leave the toxic environment. End of the day peaceful and health is more important 😊

    • @sandhiya.m2668
      @sandhiya.m2668 Місяць тому +2

      Are you in work now?

    • @Stickylesli
      @Stickylesli Місяць тому

      @@sandhiya.m2668 yes I'm ok🙂

  • @blesses-q6s
    @blesses-q6s Місяць тому +126

    yella ca students oda dream eh BIG 4 dan..including me....but eppe venam nu tonudu...
    ca padikumbodum dan pressure nu paatha eppe after ca also became pressure...🤕🤧💔

    • @subavarsha2994
      @subavarsha2994 Місяць тому +6

      Entha velaiku ponalu stress and pressure athigam tha ma athuku yetha mari namba athigama pressure and stress agama life ah balance ah kondu poga therinja pothum kastam tha ana vera vali ila…. Ithukagala dont low your aim. Best luck for your future

    • @blesses-q6s
      @blesses-q6s Місяць тому +1

      @@subavarsha2994 ....😥👍🙏

    • @sreeprasannapandian4935
      @sreeprasannapandian4935 Місяць тому +5

      @@subavarsha2994Aana Big 4 Mari pressure Varadhu

    • @dineshpkm
      @dineshpkm Місяць тому +1

      Studied polymer science... Enjoying my life😂

  • @vikram12lite
    @vikram12lite Місяць тому +99

    Actually Madhan after 2000s we are all in a trap.. no way to escape. Just work work work, and work only , for survival, and if u have luck u will be alive. Companys need only money. They dont care about current and future generations

  • @_.dixieland
    @_.dixieland Місяць тому +74

    EY Haters ---->

    • @navaneethakrishnannaiker8227
      @navaneethakrishnannaiker8227 Місяць тому

      The problem is not with EY its all because of the toxic management. Those people has planted something worst only they are going to harvest .👹

  • @sameeranazubby3960
    @sameeranazubby3960 Місяць тому +54

    I'm facing this currently🙂thanks for voice out this🙏ITlife...Yesterday i quit my job

  • @jr.23
    @jr.23 Місяць тому +50

    We, as Indians, often face exploitation because we tend to stay silent 🤐. It's time we raise our voices 📢 and urge the government to implement reforms that hold corporations accountable and protect workers from exploitation 🛡

    • @tunanin
      @tunanin Місяць тому +1

      Adhuku oru strong aana workers union venum

  • @vigneshdontstop
    @vigneshdontstop Місяць тому +47

    Brother😢neraiya per v2la ulla kastathunala IT company innum ippadu work pandranga...ippadi stress panni work pannanum avasiyam illa kasukkaga uyira vitrathinga...namma valrathu santhosama irruka....health wealth romba important❤❤❤😢

    • @jsrintegratedfram4911
      @jsrintegratedfram4911 Місяць тому +3

      No Wealth No health Bro reality

    • @RohithKumaran-dn6ch
      @RohithKumaran-dn6ch Місяць тому +1

      It's real but wealth is not important than health ippo nee night time travel pannura 100 rupee vachuruka in your pocket onnala thonga mudiyuma bro

    • @vigneshdontstop
      @vigneshdontstop Місяць тому

      @@RohithKumaran-dn6ch good🫡

  • @aravinthselvaraj5966
    @aravinthselvaraj5966 Місяць тому +35

    Even in public sector banks presure is very very high nowadays 😢😢...You wont believe on average every banker working 10+ hrs in very very high pressure 😨😨😨😨...

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      For clerical level .... work life balance is ok na bro

    • @suriyasaga3215
      @suriyasaga3215 Місяць тому +2

      Yes regardless of any sector, 5 day work week to be made mandatory. Also fixed working hours to made, it is all time high.

    • @santhu2687
      @santhu2687 Місяць тому +3

      10 hrs ah, yov banking backend we are working for 12 - 14 hrs. Moreover, we are working on weekends too.

    • @jananiporkodi4331
      @jananiporkodi4331 Місяць тому +2

      Yes working for 12 hours

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      ​@@jananiporkodi4331
      Officer or clerk

  • @satheeshk5313
    @satheeshk5313 Місяць тому +45

    In IT world this is common, wherever we joined people use to say company is good but manager/project should be concern

  • @vijayakumarm1423
    @vijayakumarm1423 Місяць тому +17

    In chennai, lot of MTC drivers are doing more than 16 hours( full shift) duty due to lack of drivers and conductors.we can do more than 16 hours in computer system, but in chennai road, drivers are doing more than 16 hours duty. Tamilnadu peoples never support drivers.

  • @medharithu6952
    @medharithu6952 Місяць тому +39

    After some days all will forget about this letter and incident, again the same routine

    • @sugunamuthusamy6694
      @sugunamuthusamy6694 Місяць тому +2

      Most underrated but bitter truth

    • @tunanin
      @tunanin Місяць тому

      Oru workers union venum. Epdi start panradhu nu therila.

    • @santhu2687
      @santhu2687 Місяць тому

      Truth. Aaga motham kaasu mukkiyam pangu

  • @mrulaniarravind5405
    @mrulaniarravind5405 Місяць тому +43

    It is really hard to clear an exam like CA. So many things and joy must be sacrificed for the course. The volume of the syllabus is like ocean. It is worrying to hear issues she faced after clearing CA.

  • @divip4370
    @divip4370 Місяць тому +33

    Tirupur la CA ellam own office vachu good earnings la irukanga, why stress full ah work poganum own office vakkalamla

    • @sureshrs2981
      @sureshrs2981 Місяць тому +1

      No not everyone...

    • @ea-us7bj
      @ea-us7bj Місяць тому

      Big 4 is actually waste u get around only 10lpa but u can get around 20-30 Lpa in bank and investing companies ​@@sureshrs2981

  • @058merlinlisyagnanavel5
    @058merlinlisyagnanavel5 Місяць тому +18

    Sleep yevaloo important nu entha video la tharinjikitten.
    RIP Anna ka . Now she went to eternal Sleep 😢

  • @lokeshramesh5937
    @lokeshramesh5937 Місяць тому +279

    All CA aspirants assemble here❤

  • @sreedharjana9732
    @sreedharjana9732 Місяць тому +19

    Infosys Narayanan murthys 80 hr work
    Plan suggestion can bring more death. Guys do exercise or just walk 30 min after work you will feel better

    • @daldacare7973
      @daldacare7973 Місяць тому

      Narayana Murthy will never change

    • @daldacare7973
      @daldacare7973 Місяць тому

      @@Home-o2v4h oh I agree men also struggling a lot..but you should have some humanity atleast,see a person whether he is girl /boy .the point is that We have lost her this is a big lesson for all

    • @sandeeepr2935
      @sandeeepr2935 Місяць тому

      Narayana Murthy serupala adikanum

    • @sreedharjana9732
      @sreedharjana9732 Місяць тому

      @@sandeeepr2935 blood suckers

  • @Ramanathan-f5p
    @Ramanathan-f5p Місяць тому +105

    My personal advice:
    1) Don't waste your money, don't take loan.. If anyone asks, why no car no home, have this in ur mindvoice (otha avlothaan da yennala mudiyum)
    2) Don't work hard in corporates...
    3) Don't stay more than 2 years, don't seek validation from ur reporting manager....

    • @ranjith8422
      @ranjith8422 Місяць тому +1

      Bro promotion kedaikathe😢

    • @NehaRajkumar-rw3jy
      @NehaRajkumar-rw3jy Місяць тому +1

      First comment is very true ! Satisfaction is main

    • @rameshsubramanian6146
      @rameshsubramanian6146 Місяць тому +1

      ( ) la erukarathu super bro

    • @tunanin
      @tunanin Місяць тому

      ​@@ranjith8422promotion lam oru maayai bro. Dash huh pochu nu switch adichite irunga.

    • @Kenny42078
      @Kenny42078 Місяць тому

      @@ranjith8422if you have skills and knowledge then you can expect the promotion

  • @Rehaj-r8v
    @Rehaj-r8v Місяць тому +6

    I am also working in an IT company for 2+ years. As a fellow worker my advice is to follow the shift timings (8/9hrs) . Say 'No' to overwork. Shut down the laptop after your shift timings. I don't know whether this work for others but I follow this. I thought it might help to share this info. RIP Anna😞

  • @VMFoodsvillevlogs
    @VMFoodsvillevlogs Місяць тому +11

    It's not only about CA aspirants EY le everyone facing this issues. Rombo work pressure and stress bro. Restless nights and no food on time, always work work bro.

  • @sangeeth75
    @sangeeth75 Місяць тому +16

    This is a fact. I worked in banking collection field of 18 years. I never had a weekend off. In this year. As a result I had a stroke after that I never used to perform in my job. As a result I quit my job. And now I am job less for last 4 years. Now I am 43 years old and now I have no Idea as to what to do. Now I am undergoing mental depression

    • @nandhiniishu7476
      @nandhiniishu7476 Місяць тому +4

      Hi dont worry you took a right. Please take a medical help...get help from your family

    • @mangaivenkata7608
      @mangaivenkata7608 Місяць тому

      @@sangeeth75 Don't loose hope.. We have vast opportunities.. Start from a small investment & smart work as an entrepreneur.. Trust me it works like a magic!

    • @daldacare7973
      @daldacare7973 Місяць тому +2

      Hi please take care of yourself and health.. health is first..I also got health problems just in my 1st year of new job but see we can get replaced easily in job but not in home or family..WE HAVE ONLY ONE LIFE

  • @SsS-xl4tp
    @SsS-xl4tp Місяць тому +14

    In my previous corporate role, I faced stress and shared my concerns with my manager. They dismissed it, saying I was the only one stressed. But I knew many colleagues suffered in silence. I realized that unless everyone spoke up, my solitary voice wouldn't prompt change. Change requires collective voices, solo complaints fall on deaf ears.

    • @vidhya5377-l1n
      @vidhya5377-l1n Місяць тому

      Yes i voiced out but they said I am not supporting the company but i strongly denied.

    • @thilaksaravanan7873
      @thilaksaravanan7873 Місяць тому

      Same was told was only one stressed, other people suffering in silence

  • @georgevilliam7523
    @georgevilliam7523 Місяць тому +102

    CA padichirukkange, apram ethukku ivalo struggle pannurange?? Mudiyalena vittittu vara vendiyathu thaane? 😢😢

    • @graciafiona3341
      @graciafiona3341 Місяць тому +10

      Yes she can start her practice

    • @georgevilliam7523
      @georgevilliam7523 Місяць тому +3

      @@graciafiona3341 yes bro, oruthangale dump panni vele vaangarathu,
      Athu tha avanga pannirukaange

    • @graciafiona3341
      @graciafiona3341 Місяць тому +5

      @@georgevilliam7523 yes sad thing after qualifying CA she was like I must adapt to that toxic environment which cost hee life practice,starting academy, so many options she had we can now say only to Rest her in peace

    • @comeclashwithme4371
      @comeclashwithme4371 Місяць тому

      Money is always Ultimate🎉🎉

    • @sunshine-s4c
      @sunshine-s4c Місяць тому +1

      Ellaralayum apdi mudivu panna mudiyathu bro...Neraiah middle class family avanga Economic status ah improve panrathuku than kasta pattu padikaranga vela paakaranga...Apdi maranum na kuda enga poga mudiyum...Most of the jobs ipdi than...Even 15k monthly salary vangaravanga kuda stressful and monotonous work than paakaranga

  • @abavananbharathi
    @abavananbharathi Місяць тому +9

    It breaks my heart. I saw her post in linkedin. She posted 5 months ago that she got a job at EY.

  • @1eyexgaming984
    @1eyexgaming984 Місяць тому +3

    Recently I quit my job due to the over work load 😢

  • @bhalajitvelu9156
    @bhalajitvelu9156 Місяць тому +11

    உரக்க குரல் கொடுத்தமைக்கு நன்றி. அடுத்த follow up மூலம் தொடர்ந்து உண்மையை வெளிக் கொண்டு வாருங்கள்.

  • @dineshpkm
    @dineshpkm Місяць тому +6

    இறுதி சடங்கு போக லீவ் தரலை 😢 அதான் யாரும் போகலை

  • @Kavitha_AV
    @Kavitha_AV Місяць тому +57

    The energy of the Boss Matters ..... We had a lady boss who had no child, she was appointed after my Italian boss left.....Bruno in his fifth month could not walk, another colleague who was close to this lady boss had a baby and this baby in his 3rd month developed asthama and had breathing problem, yet another colleague's son developed pneumonia in his 5th month....all three of us had a problem working in office worried about our babies health.

  • @navamanidavid6979
    @navamanidavid6979 Місяць тому +8

    IN T.C.S. CHENNAI FOR ABOUT MORE THAN 15 TO 16 HOURS OF WORK. NO INCREMENTS. NO LEAVE FOR URGENCY. THE MANAGER IS VERY CRUEL PERSON. WORK, WORK, WORK,............MANY OF THE EMPLOYEES PUT PAPERS. ONE OF THE BEST CORPORATE COMPANIES IN THE WORLD. WEEKEND DAYS ALSO WORK. NO LEAVE....

  • @AruNMaxwell
    @AruNMaxwell Місяць тому +8

    Talk about kanyakumari IREL issue

  • @gokulnathramasamy2960
    @gokulnathramasamy2960 Місяць тому +5

    Almost same situation happened to me in my office. Pushed all pressures into my head, asking me to work day & night, including weekends. My parents, sisters asked to adjust and complete alteast 1 year of experience.
    But, I decided to quit though my parents & sisters are against my decision. I told to me," My life, My decision", and boldly initiated the process of quiting the company inspite of no alternative job. Suprisingly, my manager stopped giving pressure, now working 9-6 only. So, continuing the work and postponed the decision of quiting to future... 2 months doing normal job. Good experience in my job now, infact it is actually give chance of working smarter rather than harder.
    We have to stick with our terms of only 9-6 working hour and how effective we utilise those time.

  • @v.kamaleshwar6760
    @v.kamaleshwar6760 Місяць тому +52

    Mg squad 🖖🏻
    ~ By CA aspirant

  • @rujhanmr
    @rujhanmr Місяць тому +12

    This is the true reality of all corporates, especially the big4 firms (audit firms), ExY KxPMG pcW are all very famous for this toxic culture...the working community has to rise up and protest against this kind of culture, the important thing is that governments across the globe should enact laws to protect workers and bring in strict laws to prohibit weekends works. True, these Westerners are treating these Asians (Indians, Sri Lankans, etc) in a very bad colonialism manner in all organisations..this has to end. This new form of colonialism has to end, people have to learn what is dignity in life and not accept any form of discrimination by Westerners.

  • @ashwini6740
    @ashwini6740 Місяць тому +9

    This is so common on IT , they demand us to work early morn + late night . the question is why should we have to work for 12+ hours every day for a 7 hours paying job. This should be taken concern very strictly..... I see so many rules, policies and establishments under MNC'S telling us what to do and not all ..... why work life balancing is not being addressed is the biggest question?

  • @uafrin9367
    @uafrin9367 Місяць тому +5

    Hi anna. Thanks for this video. I can relate. I got all india rank 12 in November inicet mds exam and got selected in aiims delhi. Went there with so much hopes and dreams. My seniors and professors were very toxic. I didn't know hindi that much so had to face racism there. Even if they know english they wantedly talk to me in hindi only and get irritated if I didn't understand them. I had to do seniors work also. It was a norm there for juniors to work till 2 in the night everyday (for lab work of seniors mostly) . Exploitation of juniors is a norm there. If we didn't abide by their demands they'll corner us and blackmail us by telling if u have any problem with patients who's gonna help you. Professors also support this culture by asking seniors everyday if we are staying till night. That department should have dental technicians to do lab work for doctors but they were not working properly. So doctors and mostly juniors are expected to do all those works which is of no use academically. Professors used to tell us even sundays we have to come to lab and work no leave for us. I was very stressed and as a student from tamil nadu who doesn't know hindi I faced so much racism that too especially from people from tamil nadu who are working there. I was stressed, sleepless, anxious, scared, demotivated, depressed. Lost 10 kg in 5 months . Got suicidal thoughts too. Thats when I decided it's better to leave aiims than to die. I gave my resignation on June and came back to chennai. In that same department there was a student who already left before me I wonder if this was his reason. But anyways it feels like all our hardwork is of no use. 😢

  • @usharaju1147
    @usharaju1147 Місяць тому +14

    Ur true madan even I work for a stress full company in Bangalore,this video shud be a warning to all corporate hitlers,

  • @user-yachu
    @user-yachu Місяць тому +7

    bro காசு தான் முக்கியம்னு நீங்க நினைக்குறீங்க. Foreign la எல்லாம் அப்படி இல்ல bro. இந்த Company இல்லாடி இன்னொன்னு. நாங்க எங்கள நம்புறோம்..🫣

  • @cbalaji83
    @cbalaji83 Місяць тому +8

    There is no work-life balance in India. Employees are just looked upon like machines for generating cash for the owners. It is not just the IT and corporates. Even small businesses have the same issue. I see such work culture in small shops, restaurants and SSIs.

  • @Shanmuga1419
    @Shanmuga1419 Місяць тому +23

    என் பொண்ணும் இதே பிரச்சனைல ஒரு வருஷமா கஷ்டபட்டு இருந்தா என்ன நான் என் பொண்ணு கூட இருந்தேன் அதை கண்டுபிடிச்சி அவங்க சார்ரை திட்டி இப்போ கொஞ்சம் கொஞ்சமா என் பொண்ணு சரி ஆகிட்டு வரா 🥹🥹🥹 நன்றி மதன் இதை நான் சாதாரணமா எடுத்து கொண்டேன் ஆன உங்க வீடியோவை பார்த்து தான் நான் இப்போ விழிப்புடண் இருக்கிறேன் 🙏🙏

  • @hercules9282
    @hercules9282 Місяць тому +10

    I'm damn sure that every corporate employee can relate to what madam said in this video. I'm recently graduated in 2021, since then I started working in BPO sector. The amount of pressure we get from our managers in order to achieve their so called targets is so stressful. This is high time and needs to change.

    • @daldacare7973
      @daldacare7973 Місяць тому

      😢

    • @user-pb8uu3xc7x
      @user-pb8uu3xc7x Місяць тому +1

      Learn some other skills of your interest and switch to better jobs. Target based job is one of the most stressful jobs

    • @prabhahaashini9166
      @prabhahaashini9166 Місяць тому

      Same feeling bro

  • @artjacks4645
    @artjacks4645 Місяць тому +3

    I was working as a teacher in a private school that school gave me weekly 36 classes + substitution also but others 28 or 29. I am asking leave they are not giving me. There won't be any leisure. When I said them I will resign, they said they would reduce class, after 3 months I quit.The work pressure is horrific. My colleague got stroke by overworking.

  • @sivasankariganesh8330
    @sivasankariganesh8330 Місяць тому +6

    My maanaseega brother MadanGowri. Sivasankari's maanaseega brother Madan. I told to my son Madan as my brother. Your explanations and your normal style of speech me, my husband and also my son likes much.

  • @TravelsOfMSD
    @TravelsOfMSD Місяць тому +20

    Thanks for covering this topic madan

  • @ReshmaA-s8v
    @ReshmaA-s8v Місяць тому +1

    Bro inga irukara IT company la namma evlothan work pannalum namma worthless employee bro.. Ana onnumay pannama irukaravan than good employee bro... Good manager and team lead kidaika than bro inka kastam.. Avanga reward vanga namma la use pannipanga.. Ana good team lead iruka poithan nmala konjam improve pannika mudithu... Current ta irukara team lead worst.

  • @justamazing9219
    @justamazing9219 Місяць тому +18

    She died 2 months ago😢

    • @ABC-gg8if
      @ABC-gg8if Місяць тому

      What

    • @annmaryjohn3258
      @annmaryjohn3258 Місяць тому +3

      ​@@ABC-gg8ifShe died two months ago, but now only things are coming to light.

    • @ABC-gg8if
      @ABC-gg8if Місяць тому

      @@annmaryjohn3258 ok

  • @sasilathu8073
    @sasilathu8073 Місяць тому +2

    No proper transfer policy in bank..for even lady staff ..no prior information from hr.. no proper response...even we r suffering from any illness... politics also here for favorite staff... administration policy.. applied for their convenience..so humanity nowadays in banking sector . ..
    Even holidays too calls for attending ATM..no work-life balance..because of stress and not taken water..more health issues now i am facing ..also i am. Away from my family especially from my childrens for work ..

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      I am preparing for bank exam only 😢can u give any suggestions sister,?

  • @oneminuteboss641
    @oneminuteboss641 Місяць тому +5

    It's completely govt responsibility. 95% companies like that only. No one going to raise voice against corporate since their tax needed for govt.

  • @RamKumar-rq8qc
    @RamKumar-rq8qc Місяць тому +1

    Very good video, Your way thinking is correct, keep rocking and bolt speech like this for your future video.. Love u bro❤

  • @kumaran9779
    @kumaran9779 Місяць тому +22

    i am a CA and work in one of the big 4 (not EY) . tbh ella big 4 laiyum ida bro case . Its a deadline diriven companies , we work like 14 hrs a day. It cannot be changed bro . all CAs are in the same case. This shld change very honestly. From outside it seems like CAs earn good , but fr that money we have to slog like anything. not sure when it will change or if it will change

    • @Ramanadhan2023
      @Ramanadhan2023 Місяць тому +1

      CA work is difficult or not? salary?it's stressful job?

    • @kumaran9779
      @kumaran9779 Місяць тому +2

      @@Ramanadhan2023 Its not difficult , its bit stressful if u want to earn good
      Its upto us , if we want to earn good , we will hvve to work a lot ,
      i know CAs easing in lakhs and also in crores. u get good salary whwn compared to average profession in India

    • @Thushaa_TK
      @Thushaa_TK Місяць тому +1

      Deloitte Thane 💥l🥲😢

    • @kumaran9779
      @kumaran9779 Місяць тому

      @@Thushaa_TK Illa bro , one amg the remaining 2 😅

    • @kumaran9779
      @kumaran9779 Місяць тому

      @@Thushaa_TK NO , one amg the remainng 2

  • @ranganathanpavishnath915
    @ranganathanpavishnath915 Місяць тому +8

    3 body problems pathi sollunga ❤

    • @suryakumar-li5zh
      @suryakumar-li5zh Місяць тому

      Yes, very nice series….
      Good starting…
      Mid ok tha….
      Ending nala panerukala…

  • @mrleokarthik
    @mrleokarthik Місяць тому +2

    I too faced this problem in E&Y (IT division) when I worked in USA in 2018 and quickly developed diabetic for over stressed. It depends on Project you work for. When your lead\manager is not efficient it builds pressure on team members. Don't stay long in such project when it is not managed efficiently. you cannot blame the company for it, its department problem.

  • @paxtonmarshall
    @paxtonmarshall Місяць тому +3

    Neengalum rummy circle add kodukka aaramichitinga..remember what u told before bro

  • @___Nila
    @___Nila 19 днів тому +1

    The reality is that "work pressure" has become normalized. When I started my first job, I was underpaid despite having significant responsibilities. Even after a year and being promoted, my salary remained unchanged. Usually the victims are those who starts their first job.

  • @Arunkumar-xm4wx
    @Arunkumar-xm4wx Місяць тому +6

    CA pass pandrathu evolo kastam..intha company ellana vera comapany..near work with stress just find new company in side and say bye bye

  • @dr.greeshmanair1102
    @dr.greeshmanair1102 Місяць тому +2

    When My brother joined KPMG he was also over worked. He used to be so stressed due to work, used to work all night all day and even while driving by taking small breaks. But that job , that salary , that growth was needed for a middle class boy.
    Now he got another job in a big company with comfortable working hours.
    It used to stress me and my mother that my brother is over worked during that time. I feel the same for her family.

  • @arunaparivallan6917
    @arunaparivallan6917 Місяць тому +3

    I am part of EY last 8years i know Anna felt we are all going with full stress and no time for personal stuffs. This news scares me and my family

  • @patriciawinfred8329
    @patriciawinfred8329 Місяць тому +2

    We should all learn to say “NO” when it’s our family time.

  • @Siddarth24-m3f
    @Siddarth24-m3f Місяць тому +11

    CA aspirants here 🥶🔥

  • @dhanalakshimi9954
    @dhanalakshimi9954 Місяць тому +1

    Not only IT company as a preschool teacher also having same problem. Giving 1 teacher to teach 3 subjects for 4 classes. Before going for lunch need to shower kids set up bed, let them to sleep. Get half hour lunch break after that need to prepare for next weeks lesson plan. Kids wake up clean up their beds, prepare tea break and extra activity until the kids go back. We will be working from 7:30am till 7:40pm until all kids go back. I left the job because of doctor advice to stress until been admitted at hospital 2 times. I will fetch son from babysitter house around 8pm. Even I cannot spend time with son and husband because of tired straight sleep off.

  • @RanGanesh123
    @RanGanesh123 Місяць тому +19

    En husband work pannura company um appadithan...afternoon 12 maniku start pannuvanga apram morning 4 maniku veetuku varuvanga veetuku vanthum work pannuvanga... apran enga veedu single room than.. engaluku rendu kids pappa 6 vayasu paiyan 3 vayasu....en hus ah thoongavay vidamatanga....paduthurunthanganna appa enthiri pa nu tholla pannitu iruppanga sonna puriyura vayasum illa...en hus ku thoongurathu illa..sappadu olunga sappidurathu illa...velaiya vidavum mudiyathu... Enna panrathunu Theriyama vera state la pudikkama valnthukittu irukkom.... Neenga ellam sonninga manager ivlo velai vangirukanganu en husband manager than ... Nalla work pannuravanga... But en hus ivlo kasta padurathuku karanam avangaluku keela velai pakkuravanga thaan... Avangaluku kudutha work ah avanga 10 percentage kooda mudika matangalam..ethukku work pannalanu keta ethuvumay pesama silai mathri ukkanthu irupangalam..thittunalum no response ...ivangaluku mela irukuravanga neegathan avangala velai vanganumnu solluranga...evlo pesinalum thittunalum work panathavangala enna panna mudiyum...so ivanga apram senior manager ellarum sernthu ella velaiyayum iluthu pottitu pannuvanga.. karanam ivangaluku yarukitayum thittu vangi palakkam illa😢😢😢😢😢sami kitta vendatha nal illa engaloda intha kastathuku ethachum vali pirakkathanu😢😢😢😢en husband en kooda time spend panni 3 years aaguthu... 😢😢Higher position vanthu ithuku karanam illa...thanakku kudutha work ah sariya pannathathu thaan karanam...inga kuduththa work ah sariya pannanumnu nenaikuravangalukku than neraya problems iruku😢😢

    • @rajeshwari8311
      @rajeshwari8311 Місяць тому +1

      Take care sis

    • @RanGanesh123
      @RanGanesh123 Місяць тому +1

      @@rajeshwari8311 ok sis ❤️

    • @Thirupi_podu
      @Thirupi_podu Місяць тому +2

      Salary ah cut panna sollunga akka antha uthavakarangaluku..

    • @RanGanesh123
      @RanGanesh123 Місяць тому

      @@Thirupi_podu apd panna mudiyatham....extra bonus venumna cut pannalam...athayum panniyachu but no use...

  • @harishantosh2228
    @harishantosh2228 Місяць тому +3

    Yes. In Singapore there is a stereotype against Indian IT aka CECA employees. Chinese heavily target them, even on social media.

  • @Shorts_tamilachi
    @Shorts_tamilachi Місяць тому +3

    Yes na tech mahindra la work pani eruka antha branding name mattum tha athukaga work pona work pressure athigam .but salary 10 to 12 k tha enaku viral fever vanthucgi nu leave keta dr report sent pana sonamga ellam send pana last la na abscond nu potutNha

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      Are u continuing the work

    • @Shorts_tamilachi
      @Shorts_tamilachi Місяць тому

      @@thinkdifferent8933 no avanga abskont potanga so nanum pola

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      @@Shorts_tamilachi ok sister ...work timing sola mudima?

    • @AntonyAnto-c3x
      @AntonyAnto-c3x Місяць тому +1

      Startup company nalum work pressure ilama irukanu parunga

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 Місяць тому

      @@AntonyAnto-c3x
      Start up la tha bro work pressure kuda erukum

  • @pavithran9611
    @pavithran9611 Місяць тому +1

    Bro unmailaye neenga vera level
    Nethu oruthangga intha topic pathi pesunganu comment potranthatha pathen
    Neenga irukkura busy-la engga ithelam pakka porarunu nenachen
    But video pannitingga

  • @mathisuba3190
    @mathisuba3190 Місяць тому +4

    Madhan anna most ah IT company's la work la eruka yellarum over work pressure la than work panranga anna.. ennoda husband morning 7.30 ku work start pannuvanga night 10 clock vara work pogum anna.. pakkave kashtam ah erukum

  • @hemajasmy5407
    @hemajasmy5407 Місяць тому +2

    I agree with ur point madan...this is big eye opening video 😢

  • @lakshmia4054
    @lakshmia4054 Місяць тому +3

    Anna na IT company ku tha ponum nu nenacha. But intha video va paathathum enakku romba kashtama irukku.

  • @estheranto372
    @estheranto372 Місяць тому +1

    True, in my IT company, per day we have to work 10 hr - but in timesheet we have to mark as 9 hr. And in reality my manager is asking to extend working... which means more than 10 hrs. If we log off on time(10hr), in some way or other will as us to work... Which is stressing out.

  • @codelyokofan1092
    @codelyokofan1092 Місяць тому +3

    Bro i myself know soooo mant people overworked and brutally lost their health later but they cant officially blame company for it due to the timeframe , as in they will say lifestyle fault but compamy cant do much.
    rest in peace to her but ONLY BECAUSE A GIRL DIED (LIKE IN OTHER CASES) THIS IS BEING ADDRESSED

  • @karuniyavelu2544
    @karuniyavelu2544 Місяць тому +1

    Ithellam govt sila rules and regulations kondu varnum full private corporate companies seirathhu iithu thaan... Leave kedaikathu stressah irukum avlo work panalum salary not that much.... But foreignla irukavanga work pressure athellam maintain panni nalla salary kudupanga... Intha Team leads and managers podra pressure romba athigam... Palu ilukura maaadu aaitom... Velaiyilla thindaaatam😢😢 govt thaan neraiya awareness create panni job opportunities career thingsnu aim explore pandrathuku options kudukrathunnu thaniya schools even govt schoolsla awareness create panum... Kekavae kavalaiya iruku entha govtum kelvi kekathu😢😢

  • @kamalamalagar8718
    @kamalamalagar8718 Місяць тому +5

    Anna nanum oru jewelry shop la work panninen anna... Romba romba mosam anna because silver la target gold la target chit podrathula target anna kevalama thittuvanka target achieve panlenaaa enaku thookam kude varaathu anna nanume oru one yr poirppen enku pressure thanga mudiyamma poindathu nimmathi poindathu sooo enaku en body than important nu antha work a vendam nu veetuku vanthunden anna morning work time 8.30 ithellam kude k salary very low anna😢😢😢😢

  • @gokulakrishnan8571
    @gokulakrishnan8571 Місяць тому +4

    Naanum big4 la dhan vella seiyaren. Naa oru Marriage LA poi vella paathurken, oru death la poiyum vella paathurken.
    All big4s are the same. Funeral yen yaarum attend pannalana, September month lam veetuku poradhe very late dhsn, avlo work pressure irukkum, Apram epdi pune to kerala Poitu funeral attend pannuvanga?

    • @keer5
      @keer5 Місяць тому +1

      She passed away in July. Not in September. Don't glorify overwork and greed of corporates.

    • @ranjith8441
      @ranjith8441 Місяць тому

      😮@gokul Advance RIP..

  • @zipzap1906
    @zipzap1906 Місяць тому +4

    Companies: treats their employees like a slave and leads to unfortunate events.
    Also companies after the incident : oh we are really sorry...... Anyways

  • @chamundeswaris2903
    @chamundeswaris2903 Місяць тому +1

    This is not only in the corporate world it happens in every other field. In educational institutions also. Teachers work even on Saturdays and Sundays. No time to be with family or able to go out. In case we say it's Sunday we planned to go out then institutions say it will be considered as CL.

  • @ganeshsharmakrishna6166
    @ganeshsharmakrishna6166 Місяць тому +3

    To all CA's just walk out and no manager can do any thing to you. Health is wealth.

  • @michetessenis
    @michetessenis Місяць тому +2

    I also resigned my job in 2022 August due to work pressure then i found a good job, if we are capable of working hard in such company then we can find a good job that's good for our mental health....Even it pay less mental health is more important.

  • @Mahi-q9x7n
    @Mahi-q9x7n Місяць тому +4

    atleast experienced employee can manage or they can try to switch. But freshers pavo. I can see many freshers struggling. Romba vachi seiranga😢

  • @arunkumar7804
    @arunkumar7804 Місяць тому

    Its true madan gowri even i also face the same. I worked 8years in a company Now i left but end of the last day my manager simply said need to develop ur skill apo skill ilama 8years work paniruka pola nama talents break panidovanga. Even monthly monthly scorecard nu oru running race vaipanga athula green la kaatanum 6months ku apotha increament ku peasavamudium suppose 1month scorecard red la kattitom athuku extra ah input podanum ilana red la vachirukinga nu next time increament ku hardwork panunga nu solitovanga. So namma evalo nalla work panalum etho 1month dumb analum simple ah oru word la improve panunga nu soli soli dump panidovanga ungalku skills knowledge ilatha pola ungalaya namba vaipanga

  • @0neman4rmy
    @0neman4rmy Місяць тому +3

    Oru company, Water purifier vangunalum adhu "expense" dha, Oru person uh velaiku hire pannalum adhu "expenses" (salary) apdi nu dha kamikka mudiyum. Private company karan Chitha padathu le kamikira "koli kunju vyapari" madhri. Aasai kaati mosam pannura category. Intha reality uh youngsters eppo purinjikirangalo, appo dha sila vishayangal puriya varum. Posh life ku aasai pattu, health uh kandukkama irukuradhuku, sondhama startup vechutto illa, tutoring pannito valndhuralam. Ni uyiroda irundha dha un account le salary credit ahum. adha first purinjikanum

  • @SparkleSoulTravel
    @SparkleSoulTravel Місяць тому +2

    Idhu maari yevlovo nadakkudhu brother... private companies la...yaedhaavadhu kaetaa incentivela kai vechruvaanunga..apdiyum illayaa..retention bonus la kai veppaanunga.....Ishtamnaa iru...illaatti poitae irunu soluvanga..adhumattum illaama appraisal nu solli andha timelayum nammala stresslayae irukka veppaanga....apdiyum illannaa engineer vaelaya degree mudichavangala vechu vangikaraenu solluvaanga ...adhanalayae enginnering mudichavangalaam verum 5000 ,7000 ku varuvaanga...kodumai dhaan...yenna pandradhu...?? Naamalaa sondhamaa yedhaachum pannalaamnaa adhuku naalu payaluga muttu kattai poduvaanunga... Family kaagavae yellaathayum thaangikitu poga vaendiyadhudhaan...

  • @dhineshkanna5202
    @dhineshkanna5202 Місяць тому +3

    The Government needs to step in and ensure the minimum wages are higher and inflation adjusted, create laws which will make it harder for companies to hire individuals out of town, increasing employee s worth to organization. Employees need to step up and put up a case in front of the company if they’re over exploited or made to work in inappropriate hours of the day. One needs to fight for their own rights and not have low self esteem like this Anna. She still felt insecure after achieving so much in a young age, which is a result of being over ambitious. Way to protect oneself from such a case, is to have self-introspection where you give yourself some time to analyze what happened over the day and how to proceed for next day, if not possible daily, then do it on a weekly basis. This same Anna could have become a CFO for any smaller organization in Cochin, but attributed her own self worth in working around the financial capital of India, Mumbai or Pune.

  • @anu-sk3jc
    @anu-sk3jc Місяць тому +1

    I have worked 5 year in big four before .Yes the work pressure is always there . Not only in India but all the big 4 in other country too . i still remember morning need to be at client place at 8 am till 7pm ( that time all the client always off from office ) then go back to office continue pervious client work till 3am . then go back home take bath and sleep at 4am . wake up at 7am and its all continue . Even Saturday and Sunday also have to work all day along. and one day i fall ill and the management still enquiry about my job progress. that the moment i realized its not worth , this pressure and stress. i take a decision to quit my job and move to a job in which salary is much lower. suicide is not a best decision. once you leave they job there sure will be a replacement but just think about your parents.

  • @keerthana56
    @keerthana56 Місяць тому +8

    just expecting this topic😢

  • @kids97171
    @kids97171 Місяць тому +2

    Not only indians bro even srilankan also facing same stress and situations. My frd also working in it company, and she doesn't have leave or weekends. Some days she stays at office night also. So much of burden. However she wants to make her family settled down, that's why she's running 😢

  • @sabitharaj2534
    @sabitharaj2534 Місяць тому +5

    Kanniya kumari soil exploration pathi pesuka please

  • @ashuyash564
    @ashuyash564 Місяць тому +1

    In Sri Lanka, we are also suffering a lot, Anna. Today, I am also going to resign from my job. This is the worst feeling, bro.

  • @AsmitaR.S
    @AsmitaR.S Місяць тому +8

    Inaaiku video mrng vanthutu vanga ❤❤

  • @The_confused_duck
    @The_confused_duck Місяць тому +1

    Same here, I worked in one of the IT companies you mentioned. Daily I used to work on difficult tasks around 12 hrs, without any additional pay or recognition. It's all because of poor team management and delegation. I mostly used to eat once or twice a day. My health got deteriorated, due to lack of sleep and food. Daily used to feel dizzy, had hand, shoulder and back pain along with stress. It's been more than 3 months since i left my team, still didn't get recover from health issues. People in corporate should start behave like humans. There will be one person in every team, who is dumped with lot of work (reward for good work is more work) and rest of the team will be having fun. And TL and managers just want the work to be done, no matter who dies or lives. If there is any fresher reading this, try not to do more work just because you love the job or thinking that you'll grow or appreciated. Just do the same amount of every one does and record every evidence and try to point out to your supervisors on what are all the work you did whenever you get chance.

  • @gayathrivelayutham4989
    @gayathrivelayutham4989 Місяць тому +3

    All over Asia. Where ever Indians working with Indian managers facing same problem