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"Envy is wanting something that someone else has. And you may actually want that person to have it too but you also want it. Jealousy is the fear of loosing what you have to someone else. Malicious envy is not only do you want what someone else has but you don't want them to have it." Brene Brown
I ran across this quote & thought what a great way to ease the burden of envy. It also aligns with the admiration idea. "Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well" - Voltaire.
Thank you Mom Oprah and Arthur Brooks I have forgotten how Awesome it is to watch you Madame. Thank you once again for this 3 part Episodes with Arthur Brooks. All the way from South Africa. Much love and respect 🙏 ❤❤❤
I love this series. Need to get the book. I searched for a couple years for a home. I used a popular home search site but refused to save homes that were listed as contingent. In my mind that’s wanting something that’s not available. It’s coveting - and would have been toxic amidst the already stressful exercise of trying to find a home. God switched the perfect home for me from contingent to available at the exact moment that I asked Him to take over.
I love what a Human Design person said that Giving from the 3rd Chakra is from the Ego and from the 4th is from the Heart so it is discernable. So nice to get a visual and visceral internal reference. peace
Beautiful, beautiful conversation! Would love some feedback on forgiveness and ‘letting go’ when parents haven’t taken accountability, haven’t changed, sometimes deny traumatic experience, and are still exhibiting the same hurtful behavior years later. Though the violence has disappeared as we’ve gotten older and found our voices, my brothers and I still find it incredibly difficult to have a relationship with our parents. I love that Oprah mentioned the story about her friend and the husband saying he “didn’t want to talk about it”. It’s easy to forgive but it makes it feel impossible to move forward.
What if you are the only one who devotes random acts of kindness? After awhile, it would be great to surround yourself with others who give, too. I completely love, love and giving. I believe giving is an addiction, because it feels so good. I have bought groceries for the person behind me in line. And I don’t have large sums of money, like Oprah.
You don’t need this book if you read the bible . Forgiveness,hope, love and faith is everything in the bible…happiness and so on.People find God while you can and before is too late.
Question on envy - my partner’s ex tried to break us up because of envy. Never apologized. Where was there supposed to be admiration? For my partner or for me? I don’t get it. Because it seems selfish and conniving to try to win my partner back and stemmed from jealousy.
I think they may have missed the point from the one caller with six kids. My guess is she is envious of people who handle stress well and manage people well BECAUSE she feels she’s drowning in a sea of chaos and six kids. They seemed to not get that. That was her cry for help. 😢
When you referred to doing things for others both of you reffed only to monetary ‘doing’ listening and asking how one can I help might also be an option
He said being kind to others can help you achieve contentment. In this context do hear and help people who are suffering in the world. How about helping kids in Gaza and support ceasefire efforts? However, if you justify their state then don’t bother for everyone one day will die. Death will come for Gaza children it’s in their 2, 10. 15 years age for others it can be in their 90s, but at least gazans didn’t turn deaf to cries of help.
I’m financially struggling, how can I give money to charity ? I used to give a small donation to homeless on the street. Now I’m broke and husband left me and two daughters for another woman.
Thank you for this specific video about family dynamics...we unconsciously know, but we remain stubborn to the fact that as family unit we really do love each other and we will always love each other, despite what we do to each other too. Thank you for the message about the ones who need the quiet, the 1:1's when things are resolved in time and with time. Time is healer of all things...time is the grace of humanity and forgiveness is the essence of our humanity. The gravity of the universe is as deep and complex as forgiveness.
He says when you’re doing well and you’re confident or if you’re securing your relationships, you don’t have to ask Problem is you have to ask observe learn from your loved ones from trusted, bosses, coworkers, customers, internal and external you have to learn how to help them how to meet or at least understand their expectations . so before you can be confident before you can be secure in your relationship before you can be doing everything “”right and the people you work with to be very good and thorough about communicating expectations. Please do not fall for the myth that you don’t have to speak or listen or watch that other people will just know .
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"Envy is wanting something that someone else has. And you may actually want that person to have it too but you also want it. Jealousy is the fear of loosing what you have to someone else. Malicious envy is not only do you want what someone else has but you don't want them to have it."
Brene Brown
Family is one of the institutes we live in without education. From Ethiopia 🇪🇹
I ran across this quote & thought what a great way to ease the burden of envy. It also aligns with the admiration idea. "Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well" - Voltaire.
Kindness is everything… when you smile to someone is already a gift of kindness. And this person will smile back it’s very magnetic😊
I loved this author. All he said is [living in my spirit
Thank you Mom Oprah and Arthur Brooks
I have forgotten how Awesome it is to watch you Madame.
Thank you once again for this 3 part Episodes with Arthur Brooks.
All the way from South Africa.
Much love and respect 🙏
❤❤❤
I love this series. Need to get the book. I searched for a couple years for a home. I used a popular home search site but refused to save homes that were listed as contingent. In my mind that’s wanting something that’s not available. It’s coveting - and would have been toxic amidst the already stressful exercise of trying to find a home. God switched the perfect home for me from contingent to available at the exact moment that I asked Him to take over.
Faith over hope! Jim Carey said “Hope is a beggar”…. Optimism houses hope! 🙏🏾☀️
I love this series its so encouraging and educative but am learning something new
I love what a Human Design person said that Giving from the 3rd Chakra is from the Ego and from the 4th is from the Heart so it is discernable.
So nice to get a visual and visceral internal reference. peace
Thank you!! You 2 are great humans to share and work so hard in sharing great data
came to this from the add I WAS HOOKED THO ENTIRE TIME GREAT INFORMATION I LOVE IT!!
Beautiful, beautiful conversation! Would love some feedback on forgiveness and ‘letting go’ when parents haven’t taken accountability, haven’t changed, sometimes deny traumatic experience, and are still exhibiting the same hurtful behavior years later. Though the violence has disappeared as we’ve gotten older and found our voices, my brothers and I still find it incredibly difficult to have a relationship with our parents.
I love that Oprah mentioned the story about her friend and the husband saying he “didn’t want to talk about it”. It’s easy to forgive but it makes it feel impossible to move forward.
I believe there’s a spiritual economy, that causes abundance when you give ….. ❤
So many books to choose from! This one is at the top of my list now. Hoping Amazon has it 😇❤️ Can’t wait for episode 3!.
He spoke so fast, I don’t know which book he mentioned that everybody should read about letting their childhood grudges go.
It's a book with Bruce Perry - learnt that through the transcript
WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU?
Book is called "what happened to you".
Amazing book. Highly recommend.
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I love affirmations- living a good life is what you deserve - gratitude is powerful ❤
Wahooo!! Been waiting for this second episode.
Thank you.
Thank you so much, Oprah and Arthur! It was very enriching!
I love you Oprah and Arthur. ❤❤❤❤
In Islam, they say.. if you give, God gives you more. That explains 7:40. One of the 5 pillars of islam is to give.
As usual....Insightful and eye opening.... Thank you both for this episode.
Thank you so much for this podcast! Just ordered the book today.
Thank you. I love the lobster imagery. Reading the book currently and gaining and reinforcing many insights.
That was so good! ❤
Thank you both.
Thanks for the great discussion!
Missy Starr and I watched that together we were very inspired we love you Oprah
This is Soo good as usual
Oprah's come thru once again
Fix my life 🥹
Thank you for this information and love ❤
Slide in the shaden fruider phrase. Cool. Was it the Boston Legal episode. Awesome.
Hi Oprah 👋 A new read you should definitely add to your book 📚 club collection. It’s entitled ‘Burn Back Better’. It’s a real page turner!! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Happy holidays Own 🤗
So insightful ❤❤❤
Am truly learning :)
❤🎉 Thank you very much 🎉❤
All what you talked about is amazing and it is part of Islam religion ❤
That what I want to say ❤
Along with admiring-their personal cheer leader and jealousy disappears.
Wow, i really learned a lot thank you so much
Thank you
I love this series!! I gifted this book in its audio version to my friend🤍
I am deeply grateful ❤
This conversion is so profound. I just got the book and I plan to start asap.
What if you are the only one who devotes random acts of kindness? After awhile, it would be great to surround yourself with others who give, too. I completely love, love and giving. I believe giving is an addiction, because it feels so good. I have bought groceries for the person behind me in line. And I don’t have large sums of money, like Oprah.
Bom dia Opraha Winfrey eu só Victoria Deus ti a bênção e toda a sua família e sua vida 🎉❤❤❤
We don’t choose our families and so what if we all don’t have this close, loving family? Most don’t. This shouldn’t be a pillar.
Well.. this is what ISLAM about! That's great to hear the way Arthur is explaining ISLAMIC way to behave scientifically ♥️✨️
How bout being mature enough to just get off social media. That's definitely good for your mindset ☺️
I believe he is speaking of the Law of attraction, even though he hasn't mentioned "THAT" .
You don’t need this book if you read the bible . Forgiveness,hope, love and faith is everything in the bible…happiness and so on.People find God while you can and before is too late.
Hi Arthur Brooks ...how can i get your book ?
How , where to purchase it in Cairo, Egypt ?
The book NAME ?
It is written by and about Opera
I like their clothes. Can you do a hall of PHIX
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Question on envy - my partner’s ex tried to break us up because of envy. Never apologized. Where was there supposed to be admiration? For my partner or for me? I don’t get it. Because it seems selfish and conniving to try to win my partner back and stemmed from jealousy.
I think they may have missed the point from the one caller with six kids. My guess is she is envious of people who handle stress well and manage people well BECAUSE she feels she’s drowning in a sea of chaos and six kids. They seemed to not get that. That was her cry for help. 😢
No kid needs a perfect parent.
Oprah looks 20 years younger here🤗🤗🤗🤗
HE fine ❤
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Praying there is no plagiarism in this book. Oprah.
When you referred to doing things for others both of you reffed only to monetary ‘doing’ listening and asking how one can I help might also be an option
He said being kind to others can help you achieve contentment. In this context do hear and help people who are suffering in the world. How about helping kids in Gaza and support ceasefire efforts? However, if you justify their state then don’t bother for everyone one day will die. Death will come for Gaza children it’s in their 2, 10. 15 years age for others it can be in their 90s, but at least gazans didn’t turn deaf to cries of help.
Why are most of the comments being deleted deleted and monitored what are you afraid of Oprah
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I would consult a skilled Prolotherapist and if I qualify as a good candidate I would have comprehensive Prolotherapy using PRP or Stem Cells.
I can put this enormous bag of childhood emotional abuse down? Ok, I'll try that. Thanks for giving me permission.
I agree the family part was way too simplistic and it come across dismissive.
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I’m financially struggling, how can I give money to charity ? I used to give a small donation to homeless on the street. Now I’m broke and husband left me and two daughters for another woman.
Save Maui! What have you done?
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Thank you for this specific video about family dynamics...we unconsciously know, but we remain stubborn to the fact that as family unit we really do love each other and we will always love each other, despite what we do to each other too. Thank you for the message about the ones who need the quiet, the 1:1's when things are resolved in time and with time. Time is healer of all things...time is the grace of humanity and forgiveness is the essence of our humanity. The gravity of the universe is as deep and complex as forgiveness.
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Bruce Perry
He says when you’re doing well and you’re confident or if you’re securing your relationships, you don’t have to ask
Problem is you have to ask observe learn from your loved ones from trusted, bosses, coworkers, customers, internal and external you have to learn how to help them how to meet or at least understand their expectations . so before you can be confident before you can be secure in your relationship before you can be doing everything “”right and the people you work with to be very good and thorough about communicating expectations.
Please do not fall for the myth that you don’t have to speak or listen or watch that other people will just know .
He could have spoken a little bit slower.
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I think you gave it wrong about families!
lol they are talking about compassion at the same time Oprah is lying to people in Maui. Disgusting.
Some of this is rubbish.
They’re only human, people. Not gods.
I cannot and will not EVER watch anything to do with Oprah.
But you here..😂
Why leave a comment
Why though
Then why you here😂
I thought hope was a crutch for weak minded men lol