I don't know why, but I am actually getting obsessed with Madeline. I can actually listen to her for hours without feeling bored. She is becoming my weekly does of serotonin.
thats so true. i feel like specially when you have such high hopes and when you've like grown together, seen each other in their different phases and then suddenly its not the same anymore, its like you end up questioning if what you even had was real or not
my best friend for 4yrs(i only considered her as my friend),after all we've been through,she ended up being my biggest bully😅I was crushed mentally and no one understood that.
I once read that people who are afraid of abandonment make friends with people who cannot give you want you need, so when it ends, you’re not losing something you can’t live without. Felt that.
I think we should stop putting romantic relationships over platonic relationships. I think it should depend on how important a person as an individual is to you not which attraction you feel towards them in general. If we changed this mindset in society, i think way more valuable friendships and romantic relationships would be formed, because people would stop chasing for a romantic relationship in order to find „the one“ or feel validated. For me personally it made me appreciate my friendships way more and I realised how important they are. I wasn’t worrying about finding the one anymore and I could really rethink what’s important to me in a relationship.
I used to do this and put my platonic relationships over my romantic relationships, and some of my platonic relationships have ruined my romantic ones. I’m over it so I am now just doing me :(
Depends . I’ve had a friend dismiss herself because she didn’t like my now ex boyfriend when I literally prioritized her over him. And she told my business to her boyfriend then backstabbed me with someone I wasn’t cool with so both can be bad and can be heartbreaking
they are both important. romance and platonic bonds are totally different relationships with different expectations. i do however believe a marriage comes before a platonic friendship. a marriage is a legal (and sometimes even spiritual, if you are religious) bond. i would certainly prioritize a spouse over a friend, especially if i had children with said spouse. i also believe it is healthy to have a good balance and variety of relationships in life: platonic, romantic, professional, and so on.
"you should always be safe with yourself" really hit me hard and reminded me that healing is okay and taking time to check in with myself isn't selfish. Also, allowing yourself to be vulnerable *with yourself* is such an important lesson in order to grow as a person, luv ur self awareness
Podcast Title Ideas: - “Madeline’s Passenger Seat” or like “In the Passenger Seat with Madeline”, “Passenger Conversations”, ”Backseat Conversations” because Madeline is always in her car and I like the idea of thinking that I am in the passenger seat or like backseat with her while she discusses these intense ideas. A lot of important / deep conversations in my life happened in the passenger of a car so it seems fitting to represent that here.
the closing one door to open another is genuinely so true. like after losing a friendship i just had to let myself completely cut that entire part of my life out to be able to move on and heal.
As the father of two amazing teenage daughters who have suffered from anxiety and depression I completely understand that the quality of mental health resources is sketchy at best. Stay strong. You are amazing and have important things to say. xoxo
your mind comforts me a lot. you literally finished molding ideas that already existed in my head but weren't set yet. I felt better after seeing this. thanks. a. lot.
you've just explained how i've been feeling for months. I've been struggling to be able to explain it to someone even my therapist. i'm litteraly going to play this infront of her. thank you so much!
5 minutes in and I’m bawling. Shit you not. Keep giving us free amazing therapy advice. I struggle so much with policing my own thoughts and constantly feeling like I’m a bad person. “Be kind to yourself” wasn’t a phrase that ever stuck for me because I felt like I didn’t deserve to be kind unless I was actively trying to improve myself in whatever way. What you said was really eye opening and felt like it made a completely new neuropath in my fucking brain.
the comment about never needing to be on a constant self improvement kick to be worthy of love really hit home! i feel like at the moment i’m feeling so burnt out and so much is changing in my life, but i am noticing flaws but do not have the energy to focus my time on getting therapy. i’ve been feeling guilty about it for a while but you saying that has made me look at it differently :))
I completely relate with you when you say that you feel content and safe knowing the therapist is here for you if you need help. I had the same, and it’s about having the resources you need to feel good and supported at any time in life. Like a cushion
I love the podcasts it’s like an improtu therapy session for me where I get really introspective as I’m on my journey of not only self discovery but self improvement and seeing things from someone’s perspective who is the same age as me is really helpful in fully understanding the complexities of my own mind and being able to sit and break it down so for that thank you Madeline keep up the podcasts I really enjoy them and kinda seeing the journey you’ve been on
This is my therapy. Having someone who wholely relates to these thought processes and is working through them and sharing their experience and advice with the stuff I couldn't coherently communicate unless it was 3am at an afters and forget the next morning is so so amazing n magical for real. at 17:23 through to 17:29 YES, YES AND YES.
I feel less alone with my struggles after watching this episode. Thank you for your vulnerability. :) I feel like it's normal for struggling with my issues, I just have to ride the wave and heal.
We change as we get older and our values systems adjust. Sometimes our friends or partners over time don't change as quickly. Hence, we lose some friends or grow away from them. I would say you have to stop thinking so deeply about it. However, we can't really change the way we think as our core ego or self ID wont allow us to change. So keep thinking and analysing the way you do but don't critique yourself so harshly for growing and growing away from some people. It's part of growing up and evolving.
im 18 in a couple weeks, and i was thinking of seeking therapy. I never felt the need of a therapist, or to talk about any problems I had, because I didn't think I had any. I tried to focus more on the people I cared for because they were struggling an incredible amount. In return I neglected my own emotions, and never really spent time to think about or work on myself. my feelings and thoughts are all over the place, and I feel like I have no one who genuinely wants to listen. I came across this video randomly and thought i'd watch it as I did some cleaning, and even if it was 30 mins, it helped me a lot, and answered a lot of questions i had - especially with friendships/relationships and boundaries, so thank you:)
The loss of my friendship with my best friend a few months ago is one of the main talking points with my therapist. It's honestly the worst pain I've ever felt.
I'm a pretty closed off person and this year I lost my best friend of 8 years because of a stupid mistake he made, I over reacted at the time but the more I reflected on it I realised that this is a different person to the person that I could talk to for hours and the only person on the planet that would just kind of get me. I had to just think about the kind of person that I wanted to be in life and it was hard to make the decision that this person isn't someone who I want to surround myself with anymore, this kind of led to a chain reaction with my friendship group and what you say about a new life and new person is something I'm trying to do, it hard trying to meet new people and not just go back to the ones I know but I'm forcing myself to just separate myself from those people. Just wanted to comment so I can get it off my chest, Love the videos and love listening to you, keep it up :)
Oh my god. Somehow the UA-cam algorithm got me to this video at the right time. I’ve been in therapy for a year and decided after EMDR during that entire year to stop for awhile because I was emotionally and mentally so exhausted from pushing myself and processing stuff, and I’ve been thinking about possibly getting back into therapy, but also been considering maybe going back AFTER I finish university (which I’m in right now) so it’s less disruptive to my education because that year I did was emotionally too much and I had to take a break from university to just focus on it and my mental/physical health. But I’ve been feeling bad about being too tired right now, to go back into therapy right now. So it feels so coincidental, for me right now, to be hearing you say “you’re not constant self improvement project” and that I still deserve to be happy and love even if I’m not working on myself. Thank you.
My best friend, whom I loved so deeply, with all my heart and with all my soul... He recently betrayed and abandoned me... The grief is unbearable. However, I have learned this: 1. The woman who has the power to walk away, gives her soul, the space to heal... 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value... 3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways... 4. She learns her own strength and power and femininity and divinity and magic... 5. She re-calibrates her soul, and moves back to the Creator's default... 6. She gives God the necessary space to bless her...
i find it really helpful to think about life as a series of cycles/seasons - you will always need periods of rest and there will always be periods of motion, the same goes for self improvement/care
I literally started my youtube channel so that I'd be motivated to complete the activities that I was too depressed to do. To cultivate the community I lacked in my life. I’ve had to overhaul how I approach work/habits by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits that give me stability (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my channel. I hope to find people to motivate me and I could motivate in return. It’s been really fulfilling so far. I succeeded in the corporate world/uni by not taking care of myself. I’d like any future sucess to come from taking care of myself and I would like the work I’m putting into myself will nurture the creative side of me I’ve repressed for so long. Loved the video
I relate so much with what you said at 4:20, it definetely feels exhausting to be always on that improvement path, and not take some time to accept what you are, in some kind of way, and to celebrate what you already achieved aswell.
bro u got acid reflext i get those little burps ahaha also...i think people (me included) feel as though they need to get to the big stage of self actualisation and if you havent reached it we never feel complete or believe we are worthy of certain things because theres always something to improve or change. ESPECIALLY people that go to therapy because steps are being made to improve bigger issues, but it doesn't mean every tiny part has to be perfect..its not realistic. like some people have more issues and are WAY more unaware of it but the fact your self aware and improving is so good !!! whoever needed to hear that. secondly on the topic of friendships its crazy how much ive realised how obvious situational friendships are! like ive lost friends because i dont fit in with their situation anymore - too much effort for them. friendship breakup are 100% more hurtful, im literally amongst one now. no answers or closures. Now i expect less from people bc i crave strong connections. But those connections do happen, they just dont happen often sadly. all growth babey
the fact that i am experiencing the exact same thing as you at the same university living in the same accommodation as your first one freaks me out but makes me feel so much better that i am actually not the only one. i am really considering changing accommodation because first of all it’s bloody expensive and second of all my flatmates are awful mad you are honestly such an amazing human being and you have no idea how much this podcast helped me
Girl I’ve found a deep sense of connection to your videos! Keep it up! I stumbled across you on TikTok a couple times and finally watched some of your podcasts! I’m picking up women who run with the wolves because of you! You speak my language!
wait she's a new channel on yt? holy shit man I thought that i'd seen a few of her vids before somehow.. Anyways please keep doing this because you're helping so many people.. Your presence feels very safe and sharing your experiences is very inspiring. Thank you
This week I had to say goodbye to two friendships that were not healthy for me and this was perfect timing to find. Absolutely love your podcasts 😊 keep it up girl
Honest analysis here. I love the fuck out of you. Yes the TikTok’s are fun and you are funny and fun, but I honestly believe this is where you truly shine. Long form is where you belong. Smart, funny, beautiful, it’s crazy! ALWAYS BE YOU! You are a leader. You have an army of people who hear you speaking to their soul. I, personally, would love to see you have some guests on the podcast. Whether it’s a family member, a friend from university that you talk about, or even just a pet. OK, I’ll shut up now. Can’t wait to see how everything turns out for you in the future! Sky is the limit for you kiddo. Keep up the good work. :)
You’re gonna hit 100k soon!!! I wish I had a therapist as a kid that would’ve helped my sexual traumas n other stuff! I used to have a best friend at school and when that ended it was still worse than my breakups I had after school and college lmaoo but like now I’m like it’s whatever but female friendships are interesting for sureee
Thank you, this is all SO relatable, and really well expressed. I really relate to the part of being too afraid that people will hurt me again if I let them in, ect.
I think u should do a podcast with Kennady Walsh, she's one of my favourite UA-camrs. She's 22, loves cats and I think u 2 are a lot alike, I also find a lot of comfort in both your and hers videos and relate to them. I think u guys would make a really great duo.
girl im 32 and just learnt about boundaries 2 years ago.. thank god for tiktok and social media haha so many A-HA moments, wish I had them earlier.. would have saved myself a lot of agony
I feel so lucky to have stumbled across your videos. omg i am obsessed, you are an incredible person i can already tell. also girl let us in on those makeup products you got, i love your lip you have on here. also apple podcasts pleaseeeeeeee!!!
I honestly don’t get why a big deal is made of friendship , I have work friends and that’s it.Out of work I have my family.When I was younger friends were just natural at school .I prefer to be friendless I think.Therapy is good if you have a good one, but after you opened your heart to them there’s no point in continuing to go over the same material again, at that point it’s just about recomputing your emotions and coping mechanisms.I think half the battle of feeling good about yourself is excepting the way you are and not doubt your qualities.
Off topic but can you do a video where you do your makeup routine!!! You look absolutely breathtaking !!! Love the video, I could listen to you talk about anything for hours without getting bored! You've helped me understand myself and all the events in my life alot better so thank youuuuuu
I just randomly got here... And listening to Madeline... I could not relate more. We have a similar thought pattern and I also talk a lot with myself with this kind of insights and conclusions. I've got plenty of them, and I feel heard just by the fact that I am in fact talking to my own true self. Seeing so much people on the comments supporting you, makes me feel as I am also heard outside of me. I might just no be aware of it yet. Keep sharing ☮ thank you ❤
one of the hardest things you can go through as a teenager is being in a best friend trio of girls. i am in one and i love them all too death but i am always scared that i am going to ruin it and that they will leave me if i do something wrong. i really care about both of them but i don't know what to do because i don't want to leave my original best friend and i don't want to leave my other best friend, but its not really working as a trio.
Your nails look so good 😻 I was one of those ppl that felt so free at uni because of living in a toxic home! And having so many people around me was the best change- I miss uni so much but first year was my favourite because of my roomies in halls!
I couldn’t agree more with her pov about the breakups from friends being more painful than actual breakups from lovers. My “bestie” has succeeded giving me my first panic attack at 21 yo and over 2 weeks of insomnia. No boy put me in that position ever 😂
man everything about this podcast you've got going on is TOP TIER. your voice is so calminga and the biggest thing is you've got such good things to say. i love me a convo like this, random stuff just thought through and explained well. best of luck for spotify! so excited
Nothing better than a cup of tea sunset with lake or sea view As a mental therapy Therapist is just using science they learned to explain something maybe it has nothing to do with the main problem Best thing to do everyday watch sunset for an hour
I encourage you for your future projects, whatever direction they take if they are conducive to you and the good people who surround you in your environment or follow you on social networks. Cheers
i'm 18 and i just can't find my type of people to be close friends with. and that really sucks. i have a few friends but i don't feel comfortable around them to the extend of being close with them. i just hope i find my people soon because as much as i love my own company, i don't think i can survive life being so lonely lol.
Nar it’s brilliant! 1st year compared to 2nd 3rd etc tho isn’t usually remembered to be as great due to the big adjustment to uni life and trying to find your people (Especially if you move away from home it can feel quite intense). But first year is also really fun and exciting in various ways, just wait until second and third because it gets even better:)). It really helps to constantly meet new friends & find people that make you feel at home. Uni can be a lot mentally particularly for a 17/18/19 year old as you’re thrown out of your comfort zone and some people you meet are just dickheads. It’s all character building tho lol. Make sure you’re doing what makes you happy and you’ll have a blast x
I don't know why, but I am actually getting obsessed with Madeline. I can actually listen to her for hours without feeling bored. She is becoming my weekly does of serotonin.
YESS
i do agree 😂❤
You are so real for this
fr she's amazing
SAME i’ve been waiting for a video
Female friendships are just so profound, one of the deepest possible relationships. That shit stings
thats so true. i feel like specially when you have such high hopes and when you've like grown together, seen each other in their different phases and then suddenly its not the same anymore, its like you end up questioning if what you even had was real or not
frrrrr
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Lol
my best friend for 4yrs(i only considered her as my friend),after all we've been through,she ended up being my biggest bully😅I was crushed mentally and no one understood that.
I once read that people who are afraid of abandonment make friends with people who cannot give you want you need, so when it ends, you’re not losing something you can’t live without.
Felt that.
This is so true
I think we should stop putting romantic relationships over platonic relationships. I think it should depend on how important a person as an individual is to you not which attraction you feel towards them in general. If we changed this mindset in society, i think way more valuable friendships and romantic relationships would be formed, because people would stop chasing for a romantic relationship in order to find „the one“ or feel validated.
For me personally it made me appreciate my friendships way more and I realised how important they are. I wasn’t worrying about finding the one anymore and I could really rethink what’s important to me in a relationship.
I used to do this and put my platonic relationships over my romantic relationships, and some of my platonic relationships have ruined my romantic ones. I’m over it so I am now just doing me :(
My friendships have all failed me. My romantic ones have not. Agree to disagree
@@jamesr.g.2320 both have failed me, but yes I agree with you romantics most of the time didn’t fail as much
Depends . I’ve had a friend dismiss herself because she didn’t like my now ex boyfriend when I literally prioritized her over him. And she told my business to her boyfriend then backstabbed me with someone I wasn’t cool with so both can be bad and can be heartbreaking
they are both important. romance and platonic bonds are totally different relationships with different expectations. i do however believe a marriage comes before a platonic friendship. a marriage is a legal (and sometimes even spiritual, if you are religious) bond. i would certainly prioritize a spouse over a friend, especially if i had children with said spouse. i also believe it is healthy to have a good balance and variety of relationships in life: platonic, romantic, professional, and so on.
Madeline has been continuing to touch to people who suffer from toxic relationship, this is so impressive
I just love the way shes able to express herself so clearly. I can never get out the things im thinking into something thats understandable
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Please never ever stop doing this podcast. Its so calming and relatable. Thanks for being vulnerable infront of the cam and your viewers
I checked her channel there are only a few videos... is that it or were they removed or something?
"you should always be safe with yourself" really hit me hard and reminded me that healing is okay and taking time to check in with myself isn't selfish. Also, allowing yourself to be vulnerable *with yourself* is such an important lesson in order to grow as a person, luv ur self awareness
Podcast Title Ideas:
- “Madeline’s Passenger Seat” or like “In the Passenger Seat with Madeline”, “Passenger Conversations”, ”Backseat Conversations”
because Madeline is always in her car and I like the idea of thinking that I am in the passenger seat or like backseat with her while she discusses these intense ideas.
A lot of important / deep conversations in my life happened in the passenger of a car so it seems fitting to represent that here.
Thats wet
the closing one door to open another is genuinely so true. like after losing a friendship i just had to let myself completely cut that entire part of my life out to be able to move on and heal.
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my day has been horrible but this has improved it heaps, thank you madeline
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Madeline has this incredible ability to verbalise my unconscious thoughts
sameeeeeeee ❤❤❤❤❤😂
As the father of two amazing teenage daughters who have suffered from anxiety and depression I completely understand that the quality of mental health resources is sketchy at best. Stay strong. You are amazing and have important things to say. xoxo
There's something so therapeutic and soothing about this video, thank you!! Loving your content xx
your mind comforts me a lot. you literally finished molding ideas that already existed in my head but weren't set yet. I felt better after seeing this. thanks. a. lot.
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you're such a comfort person I love these I can't wait to listen
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you've just explained how i've been feeling for months. I've been struggling to be able to explain it to someone even my therapist. i'm litteraly going to play this infront of her. thank you so much!
thank you so much for this video madeline, and your podcast episodes in general. you don’t know how many people you’re helping
name twins!!
@@sorayaperry9314 omg that’s so cool i never meet anyone with my name haha!
@@sorayasdiary SAME LOL
whats her podcast on Spotify called
@@sorayasdiary ur name is common here in Brazil
5 minutes in and I’m bawling. Shit you not. Keep giving us free amazing therapy advice. I struggle so much with policing my own thoughts and constantly feeling like I’m a bad person. “Be kind to yourself” wasn’t a phrase that ever stuck for me because I felt like I didn’t deserve to be kind unless I was actively trying to improve myself in whatever way. What you said was really eye opening and felt like it made a completely new neuropath in my fucking brain.
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the comment about never needing to be on a constant self improvement kick to be worthy of love really hit home! i feel like at the moment i’m feeling so burnt out and so much is changing in my life, but i am noticing flaws but do not have the energy to focus my time on getting therapy. i’ve been feeling guilty about it for a while but you saying that has made me look at it differently :))
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I completely relate with you when you say that you feel content and safe knowing the therapist is here for you if you need help. I had the same, and it’s about having the resources you need to feel good and supported at any time in life. Like a cushion
i love how madeline talks it's just the right speed for my brain to process
I love the podcasts it’s like an improtu therapy session for me where I get really introspective as I’m on my journey of not only self discovery but self improvement and seeing things from someone’s perspective who is the same age as me is really helpful in fully understanding the complexities of my own mind and being able to sit and break it down so for that thank you Madeline keep up the podcasts I really enjoy them and kinda seeing the journey you’ve been on
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This is my therapy. Having someone who wholely relates to these thought processes and is working through them and sharing their experience and advice with the stuff I couldn't coherently communicate unless it was 3am at an afters and forget the next morning is so so amazing n magical for real. at 17:23 through to 17:29 YES, YES AND YES.
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I feel less alone with my struggles after watching this episode. Thank you for your vulnerability. :) I feel like it's normal for struggling with my issues, I just have to ride the wave and heal.
We change as we get older and our values systems adjust. Sometimes our friends or partners over time don't change as quickly. Hence, we lose some friends or grow away from them. I would say you have to stop thinking so deeply about it. However, we can't really change the way we think as our core ego or self ID wont allow us to change. So keep thinking and analysing the way you do but don't critique yourself so harshly for growing and growing away from some people. It's part of growing up and evolving.
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it feels so relaxing the moment when she said "you are not a constant self development project"
Honestly love these podcasts and you! I relate to you on so many levels, you’ve actually taught me stuff that no one ever has. You are amazing
Madeline, you are what we all need today!! and possibly forever, please don't stop doing podcasts lol 💮
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im 18 in a couple weeks, and i was thinking of seeking therapy. I never felt the need of a therapist, or to talk about any problems I had, because I didn't think I had any. I tried to focus more on the people I cared for because they were struggling an incredible amount. In return I neglected my own emotions, and never really spent time to think about or work on myself. my feelings and thoughts are all over the place, and I feel like I have no one who genuinely wants to listen. I came across this video randomly and thought i'd watch it as I did some cleaning, and even if it was 30 mins, it helped me a lot, and answered a lot of questions i had - especially with friendships/relationships and boundaries, so thank you:)
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The loss of my friendship with my best friend a few months ago is one of the main talking points with my therapist. It's honestly the worst pain I've ever felt.
I'm a pretty closed off person and this year I lost my best friend of 8 years because of a stupid mistake he made, I over reacted at the time but the more I reflected on it
I realised that this is a different person to the person that I could talk to for hours and the only person on the planet that would just kind of get me. I had to just think about the kind of person
that I wanted to be in life and it was hard to make the decision that this person isn't someone who I want to surround myself with anymore, this kind of led to a chain reaction with my friendship group
and what you say about a new life and new person is something I'm trying to do, it hard trying to meet new people and not just go back to the ones I know but I'm forcing myself to just separate myself
from those people. Just wanted to comment so I can get it off my chest, Love the videos and love listening to you, keep it up :)
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Oh my god.
Somehow the UA-cam algorithm got me to this video at the right time.
I’ve been in therapy for a year and decided after EMDR during that entire year to stop for awhile because I was emotionally and mentally so exhausted from pushing myself and processing stuff, and I’ve been thinking about possibly getting back into therapy, but also been considering maybe going back AFTER I finish university (which I’m in right now) so it’s less disruptive to my education because that year I did was emotionally too much and I had to take a break from university to just focus on it and my mental/physical health. But I’ve been feeling bad about being too tired right now, to go back into therapy right now.
So it feels so coincidental, for me right now, to be hearing you say “you’re not constant self improvement project” and that I still deserve to be happy and love even if I’m not working on myself.
Thank you.
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My best friend, whom I loved so deeply,
with all my heart and with all my soul...
He recently betrayed and abandoned me...
The grief is unbearable.
However,
I have learned this:
1. The woman who has the power to walk away, gives her soul, the space to heal...
2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value...
3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways...
4. She learns her own strength and power and femininity and divinity and magic...
5. She re-calibrates her soul, and moves back to the Creator's default...
6. She gives God the necessary space to bless her...
i find it really helpful to think about life as a series of cycles/seasons - you will always need periods of rest and there will always be periods of motion, the same goes for self improvement/care
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I literally started my youtube channel so that I'd be motivated to complete the activities that I was too depressed to do. To cultivate the community I lacked in my life.
I’ve had to overhaul how I approach work/habits by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits that give me stability (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my channel. I hope to find people to motivate me and I could motivate in return. It’s been really fulfilling so far.
I succeeded in the corporate world/uni by not taking care of myself. I’d like any future sucess to come from taking care of myself and I would like the work I’m putting into myself will nurture the creative side of me I’ve repressed for so long. Loved the video
my friendship with the person I considered my best friend recently blew up and I have to see her everyday all day. this video definitely helped me
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this podcast keeps me sane i swear. even rewatching old episodes.
you were made for podcasts. theyre so comforting! ty
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I relate so much with what you said at 4:20, it definetely feels exhausting to be always on that improvement path, and not take some time to accept what you are, in some kind of way, and to celebrate what you already achieved aswell.
I love these car podcasts their honestly so fun to listen too ngl
i swear I LOVE when i find these kind of female youtubers!!!! keep going Madeline!
love these videos! thanks for uploading them :)
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your energy is so chaotic and relaxing at the same time - in love!!
MADELINE I LOVE THIS BUT PLS PUT THIS ON SPOTIFY I NEED IT ON THE GO
Omg I’m the opposite, I have a whole podcast series on Spotify called Nih’s Chai and Chats, but I need to figure out how to put it on UA-cam !🤣🫶🏻
“i wasn’t seen a human i was seen as a girl” that one hit a little hard
bro u got acid reflext i get those little burps ahaha
also...i think people (me included) feel as though they need to get to the big stage of self actualisation and if you havent reached it we never feel complete or believe we are worthy of certain things because theres always something to improve or change. ESPECIALLY people that go to therapy because steps are being made to improve bigger issues, but it doesn't mean every tiny part has to be perfect..its not realistic. like some people have more issues and are WAY more unaware of it but the fact your self aware and improving is so good !!! whoever needed to hear that. secondly on the topic of friendships its crazy how much ive realised how obvious situational friendships are! like ive lost friends because i dont fit in with their situation anymore - too much effort for them. friendship breakup are 100% more hurtful, im literally amongst one now. no answers or closures. Now i expect less from people bc i crave strong connections. But those connections do happen, they just dont happen often sadly. all growth babey
Well said agree on most of what you said
the fact that i am experiencing the exact same thing as you at the same university living in the same accommodation as your first one freaks me out but makes me feel so much better that i am actually not the only one. i am really considering changing accommodation because first of all it’s bloody expensive and second of all my flatmates are awful
mad you are honestly such an amazing human being and you have no idea how much this podcast helped me
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Girl I’ve found a deep sense of connection to your videos! Keep it up! I stumbled across you on TikTok a couple times and finally watched some of your podcasts! I’m picking up women who run with the wolves because of you! You speak my language!
wait she's a new channel on yt? holy shit man I thought that i'd seen a few of her vids before somehow.. Anyways please keep doing this because you're helping so many people.. Your presence feels very safe and sharing your experiences is very inspiring. Thank you
This week I had to say goodbye to two friendships that were not healthy for me and this was perfect timing to find. Absolutely love your podcasts 😊 keep it up girl
This was so therapeutic and comforting. Please make more podcasts, you feel like an older sister
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I have to agree.. losing a friend is just as painful if not more than a breakup.
Honest analysis here. I love the fuck out of you. Yes the TikTok’s are fun and you are funny and fun, but I honestly believe this is where you truly shine. Long form is where you belong. Smart, funny, beautiful, it’s crazy! ALWAYS BE YOU! You are a leader. You have an army of people who hear you speaking to their soul. I, personally, would love to see you have some guests on the podcast. Whether it’s a family member, a friend from university that you talk about, or even just a pet. OK, I’ll shut up now. Can’t wait to see how everything turns out for you in the future! Sky is the limit for you kiddo. Keep up the good work. :)
I love her energy so much oh my gosh
You’re gonna hit 100k soon!!! I wish I had a therapist as a kid that would’ve helped my sexual traumas n other stuff! I used to have a best friend at school and when that ended it was still worse than my breakups I had after school and college lmaoo but like now I’m like it’s whatever but female friendships are interesting for sureee
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your literally the only thing keeping me going rn because i relate to you sm. ily
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I had the best time watching this video you literally talk at exactly the right speed for my brain 💗
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i look for her videos on every platform everyday, her talking is the most like interesting thing that makes me feel human i love her
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Thank you, this is all SO relatable, and really well expressed. I really relate to the part of being too afraid that people will hurt me again if I let them in, ect.
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im so excited for your podcast to come to spotify !! could listen to you talk for hours
and the topic about friends and uni really gave me hope
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I think u should do a podcast with Kennady Walsh, she's one of my favourite UA-camrs. She's 22, loves cats and I think u 2 are a lot alike, I also find a lot of comfort in both your and hers videos and relate to them. I think u guys would make a really great duo.
girl im 32 and just learnt about boundaries 2 years ago.. thank god for tiktok and social media haha so many A-HA moments, wish I had them earlier.. would have saved myself a lot of agony
Madeline, why did i have to wait so long for this. Slay but i nearly died waiting, this is my only will to live each week.
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You just such a calming person I just calms me down after a stressful day and I'm obsessed with these podcast love you x 💓
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Such a good listen while at work it’s like your expressing my internal thoughts
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I feel so lucky to have stumbled across your videos. omg i am obsessed, you are an incredible person i can already tell. also girl let us in on those makeup products you got, i love your lip you have on here. also apple podcasts pleaseeeeeeee!!!
I honestly don’t get why a big deal is made of friendship , I have work friends and that’s it.Out of work I have my family.When I was younger friends were just natural at school .I prefer to be friendless I think.Therapy is good if you have a good one, but after you opened your heart to them there’s no point in continuing to go over the same material again, at that point it’s just about recomputing your emotions and coping mechanisms.I think half the battle of feeling good about yourself is excepting the way you are and not doubt your qualities.
Madeline and emma chamberlain >>>>>
LITERALLYYY
she wants to be emma so bad😹
@@annalavigne629 girl no one was comparing, we love both
@@annalavigne629 get outta here now.
@@coraline3690 goofy
"I didn't feel like a human being, I felt like a girl." PREACH ❤❤
ive been waiting for another podcast i really enjoy these madz
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Off topic but can you do a video where you do your makeup routine!!! You look absolutely breathtaking !!! Love the video, I could listen to you talk about anything for hours without getting bored! You've helped me understand myself and all the events in my life alot better so thank youuuuuu
Literally nobody believes me when I say friendships hurt more 😭😭😭
love listening to you .. great topics and your voice is just comforting
been waiting for your next post for so long, obsessed w you 😭😂
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I just randomly got here... And listening to Madeline... I could not relate more. We have a similar thought pattern and I also talk a lot with myself with this kind of insights and conclusions. I've got plenty of them, and I feel heard just by the fact that I am in fact talking to my own true self. Seeing so much people on the comments supporting you, makes me feel as I am also heard outside of me. I might just no be aware of it yet. Keep sharing ☮ thank you
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one of the hardest things you can go through as a teenager is being in a best friend trio of girls. i am in one and i love them all too death but i am always scared that i am going to ruin it and that they will leave me if i do something wrong. i really care about both of them but i don't know what to do because i don't want to leave my original best friend and i don't want to leave my other best friend, but its not really working as a trio.
The fact that ur pretty funny and smart is actually mind blowing to me
This is actually helpful and comforting im setting alone wanting for my class and uni and my relationship with friends been hard so yes this helpful
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so excited for this one ugh ily
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Your nails look so good 😻 I was one of those ppl that felt so free at uni because of living in a toxic home! And having so many people around me was the best change- I miss uni so much but first year was my favourite because of my roomies in halls!
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this is my fave thing ever, thank you so much madeline
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I couldn’t agree more with her pov about the breakups from friends being more painful than actual breakups from lovers. My “bestie” has succeeded giving me my first panic attack at 21 yo and over 2 weeks of insomnia. No boy put me in that position ever 😂
I’m going through the same thing!😭😭
Madeline I'm listening to you - and let me tell you I have never felt more understood and validated even in the way you're communicating your thoughts
man everything about this podcast you've got going on is TOP TIER. your voice is so calminga and the biggest thing is you've got such good things to say. i love me a convo like this, random stuff just thought through and explained well. best of luck for spotify! so excited
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I had a really though day at work and this made my day Madaline :) You are such a comfort creator
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Such a fun podcast I didn’t want it to end tbh
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I love the way your brain works so much. Ik you're gonna be making podcasts but I would love more vlogs like the last one!!!! They're so fun!!!!
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I have never felt so connected to a youtuber in such a short time.
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I love how honest she is. Like if the person is a horrible human being she will SAY!
Dude I can’t burp either and my throat does that too I’ve never heard of anyone else this makes me SO HAPPY WHATS WRONG WITH US THO FR??????
Nothing better than a cup of tea sunset with lake or sea view
As a mental therapy
Therapist is just using science they learned to explain something maybe it has nothing to do with the main problem
Best thing to do everyday watch sunset for an hour
Learning how to be a good person is so hard
I encourage you for your future projects, whatever direction they take if they are conducive to you and the good people who surround you in your environment or follow you on social networks. Cheers
i'm 18 and i just can't find my type of people to be close friends with. and that really sucks. i have a few friends but i don't feel comfortable around them to the extend of being close with them. i just hope i find my people soon because as much as i love my own company, i don't think i can survive life being so lonely lol.
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everytime you said “is this making sense” i was like YES YES SO TRANSFERRABLE !!!
this is the safe space for early 20s Gen Zs :)
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The point you made on “bad therapist” is sooooo true! I went thru 3 of them before I got a decent one
I’ve been so excited to go to uni next year but now I keep seeing so many people saying how bad it was and it’s making me so nervous😭
Nar it’s brilliant! 1st year compared to 2nd 3rd etc tho isn’t usually remembered to be as great due to the big adjustment to uni life and trying to find your people (Especially if you move away from home it can feel quite intense). But first year is also really fun and exciting in various ways, just wait until second and third because it gets even better:)). It really helps to constantly meet new friends & find people that make you feel at home. Uni can be a lot mentally particularly for a 17/18/19 year old as you’re thrown out of your comfort zone and some people you meet are just dickheads. It’s all character building tho lol. Make sure you’re doing what makes you happy and you’ll have a blast x
@@Eva-wn2xf ahh thank u so much! makes me feel a bit better hahah xx
some therapists need A THERAPIST
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