7 Ways We Sabotage Our Lives

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  • @bumpercoach
    @bumpercoach 3 місяці тому +23

    1- wasting time (scrolling/gaming/sports)
    2- destroying your health (food/movement)
    3- ungrateful/bad-attitude/victim-mentality
    4- lack/refusal of wise counsel
    5- burnout (overworked/under-rested)
    6- over-spending
    7- lack of MISSION

  • @AllAboutSurvival
    @AllAboutSurvival 3 місяці тому +21

    I’ve seen how discipline and responsibility play a huge role not just in the range but in life as well.

  • @kruppert54
    @kruppert54 3 місяці тому +8

    I’m a 70 year old retired farmer and I have to say this video was timely if not your best. That last one, you stomped on my toes man and so did your buddy! This one is going on my playlist. Thanks John!!

  • @kaelinfisher6813
    @kaelinfisher6813 3 місяці тому +6

    Hillsdale college videos are actually really good. They are free. It is worth the time

  • @THERESISTANCE762
    @THERESISTANCE762 3 місяці тому +4

    GREAT ADVICE JOHN! YOU MOTIVATE THE HELL OUT OF ME! AND I HOPE OTHERS ARE MOTIVATED BY YOU ALSO!!

  • @trainwreck2k2
    @trainwreck2k2 3 місяці тому +21

    I have my vices just like everyone else but the people who can binge watch shows for hours and hours blows my mind.

    • @balasaashti3146
      @balasaashti3146 3 місяці тому +2

      I honestly can't say much at times the other day on my day off finally got one I spent eight hours reading Crime and Punishment lol.

    • @American-131
      @American-131 3 місяці тому

      ​@@balasaashti3146did you beat off as well 🤔

  • @LibertyFrontier
    @LibertyFrontier 3 місяці тому +2

    John your channel has slowly over time become one of my favorites. Your videos are always entertaining as a fellow believer you’re a strong character that we need in this day and age.

  • @thadgomez8904
    @thadgomez8904 3 місяці тому +5

    Much RESPECT!!!
    A MAN MUST HAVE A MISSION, A CAUSE, A PURPOSE!

  • @justinw3279
    @justinw3279 2 місяці тому +1

    Love this! These are the types of videos that made me tune in nearly 8 years ago.

  • @teamsix7185
    @teamsix7185 Місяць тому

    Ok. Dare I say... this is the best video I have watched in a very long time. Thanks John. Perfect points made.

  • @SplashOfOrange
    @SplashOfOrange 3 місяці тому +10

    I needed to hear this... I spend too much time scrolling WPS videos. ;-)

  • @JohnMichael-to8cb
    @JohnMichael-to8cb Місяць тому

    Mr. Lovell, thank you for this and all the other videos of wise council that you put out. I very much appreciate them as much, if not more than the videos of tutelage on prepared citizen/minuteman/sheepdog experience that you give to us. And to Ben, thank you for the words of wisdom('A man wrapped up in himself is a small package.') WOW. Thank you both.

  • @xXE4GLEyEXx
    @xXE4GLEyEXx 6 днів тому

    Attitude is a massive thing. I lately found myself contemplating how many things i can be grateful for in my life. Even if I have things that are not good, not easy, I can be grateful for what I have and had, my experiences in life. When you feel gratitude you feel like you have not missed out on life, and that puts the mind at such ease. Negativity is a literal toxin, throw it far far away.

  • @akdefense
    @akdefense 3 місяці тому +1

    This guy, this channel, this movement; simply Amazing.

  • @svwanderlust9697
    @svwanderlust9697 3 місяці тому +7

    Great stuff! Thanks for posting

  • @IfereimiKoroiyale-pw6cl
    @IfereimiKoroiyale-pw6cl 3 місяці тому

    Amen brother.
    I love listening to content like this while I’m working.

  • @laumuseka
    @laumuseka 3 місяці тому

    You have totally nailed every point in this for me. Stuff I’ve already worked on and things I need to work on. For the record you are a massive influence in my life. I appreciate you so much!

  • @mackbang
    @mackbang Місяць тому

    Watching this made me feel pretty good. Ive been working on making these changes in my life. Recently got a new home. On a meal plan and going to the gym 4 times a week. Spending more time with my kids and wife. And going to church regularly and seeking christ. I definitely have some stuff here i still need to work on but its a proccess. Thanks for the tips John. Been so busy i need to make time to train though

  • @scubasteve1236
    @scubasteve1236 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks John!

  • @andrewlrodrigues
    @andrewlrodrigues 3 місяці тому

    As soon as you mentioned wasted time, I opened my Google doc and started writing stories again. Thanks for the wisdom and motivation!

  • @TJDeez
    @TJDeez 3 місяці тому +2

    I tend to overuse UA-cam. It's great for staying current, learning about shooting, hunting, fishing and being entertained. I have little kids and work so I don't always have time to make it out fishing for long or time at the range. But I do have the ability to take little pockets of time to do this and it's free

  • @brettelizabethspore
    @brettelizabethspore 3 місяці тому

    Great list. I can totally see these issues playing out in our society and in my own life at times.

  • @StoneSalt
    @StoneSalt 3 місяці тому

    Hey John, I know you probably won't see this at all, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for being the man you are and sharing your wisdom, humor, and experiences with us all. I've been watching your content since I turned 21 and started carrying my first blaster back in 2021. You've not only helped me grow as a CCW holder, but as a man, and a Warrior Poet. This video in particular has hit a lot of points that relate to my personal life and struggles.
    I definitely look up to you as I never had much of a father figure in my life. You are the prime example of the man I want to be in life. So thank you, again, for all you do.
    God Bless you and your family. Much love brother. 🙏🫶✌️

  • @oldwestarmory
    @oldwestarmory 3 місяці тому +8

    I need this today

  • @kentstewart469
    @kentstewart469 3 місяці тому

    I like how you touch on everything fast. I could comment forever but it wouldn't matter. Your a good egg brother.

  • @leaveandneverturnback8226
    @leaveandneverturnback8226 3 місяці тому

    "Your pain will bei your healing".
    Wonderful video!

  • @Axis1337
    @Axis1337 3 місяці тому +10

    I agree with a lot of this but I think the biggest thing is moderation. Gaming, watching videos, scrolling, etc isn't inherently bad but if done to an excess THEN it is wasting time and can negatively affect your life. I myself am a gamer and do play quite a lot of hours of gaming but it is usually late nights when I have nothing going on or nothing to do. I don't see that as a negative, it's a way to destress, unwind, and have some fun. However, if you do these things IN PLACE of things you should/need to be doing then that is detracting from your life.
    Love your videos John and would love to have a conversation with you someday.

    • @scottboyce
      @scottboyce 3 місяці тому

      Screen time-in whatever form-carries a heavy opportunity cost. It’s not just that can crowd out necessities. You’re giving up time for recreation or relationships or personal development that would be way more valuable.

    • @TomahawkAssault
      @TomahawkAssault 3 місяці тому +1

      @@scottboyce Wrong. Exactly what you said applies to time spent reading books, or almost any other form of recreation. Almost everything you do in life, someone like you can come along and make an argument that there is probably something even better you **could** be doing. There is time enough for balance and moderation in all things. What you are assuming is that the person who is gaming hasn't already spent quality time with his family, or on personal development, which says more about your prejudicial view of others than anything. One can watch a movie, or play a video game with friends, while also consistently spending time with family and growing in life.

    • @American-131
      @American-131 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@TomahawkAssaultyou over think too much I think you're assuming that he's assuming

    • @scottboyce
      @scottboyce 3 місяці тому

      @@TomahawkAssault Hey man, I completely agree that every action has an opportunity cost and of course everybody has different value systems for finding balance in their priorities. But hey, we're all on YT and clearly find some kind of value so we can be friends here :)

  • @brianrowe8028
    @brianrowe8028 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the reminder! I’ve had four back surgeries. I was recently in the hospital and I’m on iv antibiotics through a picc line right now. You are so right on how when your body goes down it affects everything. I was in “fighting shape” doing martial arts and now I’m gaining weight while trying to heal. I’m reignited to spend my down time better with spending more time reading things that matter and less time mindlessly scrolling. I may be sick but I’m not out of the fight! Thanks for the encouragement I needed today! God is still on the throne of my life!

  • @rhythmicpoet528
    @rhythmicpoet528 3 місяці тому

    I've been watching your channel for a while now, and this is really the first time I've commented on anything in a long time. I greatly appreciate the content you have put out. When I had my daughter, my first child, I began looking to your channel for wise counsel on firearms and really the core of what you stand for; the warrior poet way. Now, being 24 with 3 children I am overwhelmingly greatful for the content you put out because in the world we live in now we need many more men like you leading from the front. And so, from a man who has struggled through much, I thank you for being a guide in these difficult times. Everything you do and say points right back to Christ.

  • @777SFINN777
    @777SFINN777 3 місяці тому +1

    Wasting time/ procrastinating hits me hugely as I'm sure it does for others. I get home from work, know I have to do this or that but say "hey, I work 10 hour days outside in Arizona. I deserve a rest before chors, working out etc." But I sit down on the couch, or in front of my PC and bam its 7pm and time for bed.

  • @benjaminbrothers1658
    @benjaminbrothers1658 3 місяці тому +15

    Got to meet John yesterday at pistol 1. And he is an awesome guy. What you see is what you get! Caring, friendly and funny. Would 100% recommend taking his firearm classes.

  • @DisciplesHyper
    @DisciplesHyper 3 місяці тому

    Great video Sir John Lovell, and Ben Kelms input is always knowledgeable and appreciated.

  • @countrybearassassin3098
    @countrybearassassin3098 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, sir. I'm pretty new to your following, but im here for good. You have a lot of very inspiring content.

  • @michaellautermilch9185
    @michaellautermilch9185 3 місяці тому +1

    We don't own a TV. Absolutely loving it!

  • @Wootangtw
    @Wootangtw 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks buddy

  • @ellennovicky8689
    @ellennovicky8689 3 місяці тому

    Onward and upward! No matter what. Very inspirational thoughts.

  • @Shonuff4
    @Shonuff4 3 місяці тому

    This was a great and very unique way of viewing things. Unfortunately, most self-sabotage happens on an unconscious level. This is why the most important step is to be highly self aware and knowing yourself. You must call your shots on why it is that you are doing what you do.
    Great list.
    Thanks

  • @christopherkoster7218
    @christopherkoster7218 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for all you do brother, I liked the PTSD analogy (actually truth), it explained a lot why some of my military friends, even after years, still have PTSD, and why others "no big deal".

  • @vagueoldloon7985
    @vagueoldloon7985 3 місяці тому

    Turning 50 today! This really hits home as I teeder over to what is definitely less than half of my life. I weight train and exercise daily but started later than I should have. Alot of great info here. If this doesn't hit home watch again and think deeply. Look forward then apply to your current position in life. I love every day I am not fertilizer for the next life. Arm yourself. Protect your family and love often.

  • @douglaskaplon2595
    @douglaskaplon2595 3 місяці тому

    I definitely need to hear this one

  • @fredir3596
    @fredir3596 3 місяці тому

    John, you ARE my wise counsel.

  • @griftopherhitchens9926
    @griftopherhitchens9926 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this.

  • @JIMJONES66
    @JIMJONES66 3 місяці тому

    Wow john ... this video hits hard, outstanding

  • @aliceburte9278
    @aliceburte9278 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank You sir always enjoy listening 👍🇺🇸

  • @trumpet5565
    @trumpet5565 3 місяці тому

    Words of wisdom. Thanks!

  • @officialtbhoops
    @officialtbhoops 3 місяці тому

    Right now I’m trying to figure out my mission. I need to set the career I want in stone and begin on that path. It’s the first time I’m making a major decision on my own, and I know it will be the official start of manhood for me. I know I’m not alone in this so men keep your head up and do not think you are stuck. Make a move.

  • @charliedarrow3048
    @charliedarrow3048 3 місяці тому +1

    Great information.

  • @Joker4ultr4
    @Joker4ultr4 3 місяці тому

    As a professional self saboteur, I appreciate that you deliver content that applies to real life. There are other types of self sabotage. It’s a darker topic and requires reflection. 🃏

  • @jeffpaul6252
    @jeffpaul6252 3 місяці тому +1

    Good talk!

  • @blackhat2005
    @blackhat2005 3 місяці тому +24

    Im listening to this on my phone while doing dishes... check mate

  • @robtalbot4594
    @robtalbot4594 2 місяці тому

    This is very wise counsel

  • @ChristopherCrawford-q8b
    @ChristopherCrawford-q8b 2 місяці тому

    I’ve always been a firm believer of the saying every “everything in moderation“ except for my job. I’ve been forced to work six days a week, 78 hour work weeks for about 14 months now. I’d have to say I’m starting to feel burned out!

  • @Texas_Pride
    @Texas_Pride 3 місяці тому +1

    Good talk. 👍🏻

  • @wanderer3591
    @wanderer3591 3 місяці тому

    Good list.

  • @DanielRyanScott
    @DanielRyanScott 3 місяці тому +5

    The less BS I have, the more time I gain for what really matters. Sometimes less is more.

  • @avideezplayz6807
    @avideezplayz6807 3 місяці тому

    Hey John, I'm a student at Hillsdale College who loves what you do, and I was wondering if you'd consider coming to speak here. The college frequently hosts speakers such as yourself, and your knowledge would greatly benefit the students here.

  • @steveknecht3091
    @steveknecht3091 3 місяці тому

    Build-a-Bear mentor! That might be the greatest phrase I've ever heard!

  • @Eyesontheprize27
    @Eyesontheprize27 3 місяці тому

    *more than interesting. This is a message from the Lord. God used this man to speak to us. Blessings upon blessings. Amen.

  • @travisgregg4582
    @travisgregg4582 3 місяці тому

    Thanks dad!

  • @lukehill1779
    @lukehill1779 3 місяці тому

    Awesome video!

  • @bobmarquardt393
    @bobmarquardt393 3 місяці тому

    Attitude, burnout and mission are my 3.

  • @AltaSurvival
    @AltaSurvival 3 місяці тому

    Amen! Good video!

  • @braker3589
    @braker3589 3 місяці тому +4

    I had to quit social media about 12 yrs ago. It was impacting my mental health. It was making me depressed. Iwas constantly seeing people’s fun, exciting, amazing parts of their lives and not acknowledging my own highs.

  • @travisbuscholl2479
    @travisbuscholl2479 3 місяці тому +1

    Good wisdom

  • @goodcitizen64
    @goodcitizen64 3 місяці тому

    Amen and God bless y'all

  • @Popeye12340
    @Popeye12340 3 місяці тому +76

    I find myself watching UA-cam videos. I guess like I am now but I try to keep myself informed as far as world events. We could talk about the digital ID, digital currency, war in Ukraine or even the Middle East like what is going on in Israel. I personally try to share Jesus Christ whenever I can because He is the only hope people have. Jesus Christ is Lord!

    • @Eyesontheprize27
      @Eyesontheprize27 3 місяці тому +3

      That's awesome dude. Keep striving for perfection. Your sound like your on the right track.

    • @HotelCharliHill
      @HotelCharliHill 3 місяці тому

      Amen!

    • @seanthegod4585
      @seanthegod4585 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, I don't watch any television or movies, only UA-cam. UA-cam premium to watch exactly what I like, without any advertisements.

    • @American-131
      @American-131 3 місяці тому

      Same here only UA-cam brother ​@@seanthegod4585

    • @American-131
      @American-131 3 місяці тому +1

      Just so everyone is on the right track be sure and vote Donald j Trump as jesse lee Peterson says the great white hope 👍🏻

  • @ryanhart7392
    @ryanhart7392 3 місяці тому +39

    I've gone from 260lb down to 203lb in the last year by going carnivore.

    • @eriklambert3809
      @eriklambert3809 3 місяці тому +2

      Carnivore is awesome. I tell guys to at least do it for 8 weeks and see the difference. Anyone with any autoimmune issue needs to try it.

    • @Lstractorman
      @Lstractorman 3 місяці тому +1

      Lost 45 in 6 months but stalled need to lose another 30

    • @zacharyrowe8667
      @zacharyrowe8667 3 місяці тому

      If you source good meat it's about the only way to eat healthy anymore.

    • @918Mitchell
      @918Mitchell 3 місяці тому +2

      Good job losing the weight, I'm in the same fight

    • @jerzfiveohthree
      @jerzfiveohthree 3 місяці тому

      I would like to do carnivore but I have gout and too much red meat will make it flair up

  • @Cageey1117
    @Cageey1117 3 місяці тому

    you convinced me. 1219hrs, 01Oct24, 2:38 into the presentation.
    P.S. Later today passing my time running 200 rounds through my CR920P War Poet.

  • @veugeler72
    @veugeler72 3 місяці тому +2

    I feel the same way about work

  • @paulwilliams5800
    @paulwilliams5800 3 місяці тому +1

    I need to add earphones so I can listen to you and work and others

  • @matthewharper7333
    @matthewharper7333 2 місяці тому

    Wow, I check every one of these boxes. I have got to make a change.

  • @donaldanderson7410
    @donaldanderson7410 3 місяці тому +2

    I don’t have an attitude problem, it’s supposed to be this way.

  • @richmarko8704
    @richmarko8704 3 місяці тому

    The FDA, who is supposed to make sure our food is safe & those who profit economically from us being sick, sit together at the dinner table.
    John , you are certainly your brothers keeper, we need to hear this from time to time.
    And with that being said , Let's not let our stomachs rule over us !

  • @NafetSoma
    @NafetSoma 3 місяці тому

    I want to start my own podcast and follow the footsteps of this great guy and many others but I find myself in constant battle with myself and the people closest to me. Almost like I’m my own worst enemy in form of my day to day life vs my thoughts and true intentions in life. God has a calling for me. My life experiences and my intuition all are screaming at me to do something but I don’t know where to start.
    I looked at microphones and cameras today and all I could ask myself is “where does this lead for my life?”
    Please pray for me

  • @stephenboldrey9973
    @stephenboldrey9973 3 місяці тому +12

    Is it a waste of time watching UA-cam videos if your educating yourself on certain topics and then putting it to practice . Is there a point were your spending so munch time on education it’s a waste of time. If you spend 20 years educating your self on one specific topic. & then you find your self to old or out of shape to put what you studied to use . I think if there something you want to do or see before your time is up on earth. You should make that priority number one in your life . Live life like there is no tomorrow.
    . I’m 52 years old I found Iv put so munch on hold for one thing or the other . I now know I’m past the better half of my life . Time is not slowing down . I’ve spent my life planning for old age . Now I’d rather say I did nothing to prepare for older age and did everything before it was too late .

  • @raccoon6072
    @raccoon6072 3 місяці тому

    8. Collecting fire arms

  • @masterofnone87
    @masterofnone87 3 місяці тому

    Shots fired

  • @josiahmay5270
    @josiahmay5270 3 місяці тому

    I think that’s the first time I have heard “cradle to grave” in the proper context.

  • @BlueberryPiez
    @BlueberryPiez 3 місяці тому

    Cmooooonn man, yeah this is hitting home hard, gentlemen. Never isolate yourself from wise strong men like this, it will be your downfall. Put your ego aside. Be teachable. And again. Don’t isolate yourself from men like this. Like this tho. Not the dirtbags a good percentage of our “friends” are.

  • @aarondaigle8412
    @aarondaigle8412 3 місяці тому

    Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University and the baby steps is life changing, truly!

  • @WallabieMcDee
    @WallabieMcDee 3 місяці тому +6

    I'll be watching baby hippo attack videos after this

  • @Curious-Mr.-Lee
    @Curious-Mr.-Lee 3 місяці тому

    "I'm landing this plane."
    So I learned of John from warrior poet society, then I found out he's a pastor 🤩, now I am wondering if he is also a pilot.

  • @HOMETHEATERBOY
    @HOMETHEATERBOY 3 місяці тому +4

    Take every thought captive in obedience to Christ

  • @stevebozsa6666
    @stevebozsa6666 3 місяці тому +22

    Can't find a single thing wrong with what you're saying

  • @646-fq7
    @646-fq7 3 місяці тому +2

    Interesting

  • @goosecouple
    @goosecouple 3 місяці тому +16

    "A large and increasing US population cannot even tell time from an analog clock. Good luck !!"

    • @aaronfox5559
      @aaronfox5559 3 місяці тому +4

      It’s like the old people of the day saying “ a large population can’t tell time from the shadow rock!?!” All I’m saying is time moves on gramps

    • @JohnTheRevelator11
      @JohnTheRevelator11 3 місяці тому

      @@aaronfox5559-15 experience
      gramps makes it through Armageddon, however Your character experienced lag and got wacked.

    • @dashcammer4322
      @dashcammer4322 3 місяці тому +2

      Reading an unmarked analog clock is part of a quick test for dementia.

  • @xrfy5653
    @xrfy5653 3 місяці тому

    Hello sir I was wondering if you guys still sold your appendix carry holsters, the ones that have a slot for your firearm and a slot for an extra magazine?

  • @RodneyGrefalda
    @RodneyGrefalda 3 місяці тому

    On the overspending category, if you are accumulating things that are just collecting dust, you are also sabotaging yourself because on top of debt and savings for retirement, you taking time from yourself because you will need to clean up that junk. If you don't clean up that junk, then who ever cares enough in your life after you've passed away will have to take time to clean up your junk.

  • @bryguy1725
    @bryguy1725 3 місяці тому

    It is crazy what consumerism does to people. I've seen people blow their budget just by getting snacks from the corner store, every other day. That 20 or 30 bucks makes a huge difference over time.

  • @TheMacsLife0
    @TheMacsLife0 3 місяці тому

    👏

  • @DanielJones-cl6kp
    @DanielJones-cl6kp 3 місяці тому +1

    So, Pastor Lovell what do you think about 3 of 11 project's vid on USA is gone because 1/2 of us have turned their back on God so we need to just constraint on Yeshua & what comes next?

  • @JT-xo4hq
    @JT-xo4hq 3 місяці тому

    8. Making yourself vulnerable to the criminal justice system by operating outside the law. Some things can take years to resolve or "pay" for, and may follow you for the rest of your life.

  • @thiagobryan1958
    @thiagobryan1958 3 місяці тому +1

    💥

  • @hanselito2416
    @hanselito2416 3 місяці тому

    14:00 its because mixing with civilians who expect them to be same same makes it worse
    humans also when they see someone struggling they attack the weakness. that makes it worse. its not weakness, but it sure as fuck looks like it.

  • @Sherlynn-b8b
    @Sherlynn-b8b 2 місяці тому

    ...and nobody cares Lovelle lmfao 😅🎉wasting this time on you is what it is.❤love it

  • @brettbuckmaster5128
    @brettbuckmaster5128 3 місяці тому +3

    I work too much but I also need to provide for my family financially. It is a tough balance.

  • @M_White_VA
    @M_White_VA 3 місяці тому

    Where's the video you did of hurricane?
    Who are those 4 accounts you said to follow?

  • @troycroft2515
    @troycroft2515 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey I love all your videos. I will like to see you have a conversation with this UA-camr Whatifalthist about topics about the American youth mintal health. That will be educational to see. And keep up the good work 👏 ❤

    • @SSPspaz
      @SSPspaz 3 місяці тому +1

      @@troycroft2515 I’d recommend Nick Freitas’ Making the Argument Podcast. He’s a former Green Beret, shares almost all the same values as John and he’s had at least couple episodes with WhatIfAltHist. Definitely worth a watch.
      PS - Nick has also done at least one episode (if not more) with John Lovell too.

  • @christopherkey3488
    @christopherkey3488 3 місяці тому +1

    hear hear 🍻

  • @jusme8060
    @jusme8060 2 місяці тому

    I think you may be speaking to people on fire about how great the smoke is.