How America (USA) Messed Me Up PART 1|

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  • @monica_zielinski
    @monica_zielinski  3 роки тому +174

    Since y'all loved this compilation so much, here's a PART 2: bit.ly/2YGcKnL

    • @michaelnizza414
      @michaelnizza414 3 роки тому +5

      I love how people are comparing a place like america that gets 1 to 2 million immigrants a year to places that have super strict immigration laws and homogeneous populations. Of course everything works better in a place that doesnt need to subsidize half their citizens. Also, the liberals are the ones who let the medical industry stomp on us. Trump went after them. Biden is letting Merck charge 40 times cost for a drug that was paid for by taxpayer dollars. Yall complaining not realizing the left is the reason the US sucks.

    • @michaelnizza414
      @michaelnizza414 3 роки тому +2

      Even better. That new Merck drug. Is essentially the exact same thing as hydroxychloroquine

    • @TheGrmany69
      @TheGrmany69 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah, it sounds like what Venezuela does to your mind.

    • @TheGrmany69
      @TheGrmany69 2 роки тому +1

      @@michaelnizza414 Europe is homogeneous... another racist view on Caucasian - and not so Caucasian - nationalities.

    • @alia2ali
      @alia2ali 2 роки тому

      I actually did!

  • @asdjklzxcbnm4166
    @asdjklzxcbnm4166 3 роки тому +5619

    I finally found a Tiktok compilation that doesn't repeat the question every time before someone else speaks.

    • @WrenFairX
      @WrenFairX 3 роки тому +131

      The 👏 editing 👏 commitment 👏 shit makes me so happy to see 😩

    • @MindfulMatters734
      @MindfulMatters734 3 роки тому +27

      🙌🏾 I said that same thing

    • @richlaue
      @richlaue 3 роки тому +57

      A compilation done properly.

    • @glassdiamond2185
      @glassdiamond2185 3 роки тому +25

      That is so annoying! I have to scroll on by those.

    • @tomasteply1956
      @tomasteply1956 3 роки тому +7

      999 likes😁

  • @nesk2011
    @nesk2011 3 роки тому +3158

    The first time I heard that in America people have a limited number of sick days I was really confused.

    • @nightsgrow6575
      @nightsgrow6575 3 роки тому +346

      It’s so weird, like getting sick is just something that happens and you can’t control it. What are you supposed to do if you run out of sick days?

    • @nesk2011
      @nesk2011 3 роки тому +75

      @@nightsgrow6575 I did a little research and on average they have 10 paid vacation days but they can take 12 weeks unpaid vacation days.

    • @madkrakatoa
      @madkrakatoa 3 роки тому +244

      I read about school teachers donating their holidays to other teachers dealing with cancer as they run out of sick days...

    • @elinfelicia382
      @elinfelicia382 3 роки тому +69

      Same! Couldn’t understand the difference between that and a vacation day. Why would you count the number of times you can get sick in a year??

    • @nightsgrow6575
      @nightsgrow6575 3 роки тому +28

      @@nesk2011 12 weeks unpaid sounds like a lot tbh

  • @ziintle
    @ziintle 3 роки тому +8847

    This healthcare thing has really messed Americans up, it’s actually quite painful

    • @marleye5933
      @marleye5933 3 роки тому +79

      Very sad.

    • @AnakinandPadme1231
      @AnakinandPadme1231 3 роки тому +211

      Yeah when they are in other countries with affordable healthcare they won't go the doctors str8 away thinking they have to spend a large amount of money out of habit

    • @keombebe6243
      @keombebe6243 3 роки тому +114

      I’m actually concerned about getting sick there if I visit.

    • @velvetrose7729
      @velvetrose7729 3 роки тому +87

      @@AnakinandPadme1231 Sadly, Unless you're Rich/Wealth.... in "American" English...Str8 away.....Is 10 heartbeats away from Certain Death!
      But at least WE have Freedom!
      The freedom to Live with Crushing Medical Debt......Or Dying NOT knowing what preventable illness (we couldn't afford to get treated)....Killed Us!

    • @sissywizard1764
      @sissywizard1764 3 роки тому +147

      It's legitimately easier to stay broke and stay on benefits in America than it is to try and achieve anything, because they kick you off all assistance and slap a full price tag on services the second you make a survivable wage. I have seen people give up amazing opportunities for jobs, travel, moving just because they had to sacrifice their dreams in order to keep their medical funding. FUCK CORPORATE AMERICA we need healthcare badly!

  • @dalinkwent202
    @dalinkwent202 3 роки тому +146

    Americans. Just FYI:
    - Average cost of an ambulance(10ft or 10miles…doesn’t matter) is approx. $1,211
    - Avg cost of covid treatment: $34k - $45,600 (no insurance/out of network = $70,000+).
    - Note: If you’re put on a ventilator, the avg = $1,500+ PER DAY
    Just keep that in mind when the phony patriot in your life tries to brag about our healthcare system being the best in the world, or not to worry about covid or wealth inequality.

    • @norat3691
      @norat3691 2 роки тому +7

      @Xantair yep, debt til your dead tends to be how it goes in the good ol land of the free! MURICA! Someday I wanna move out of this country. I'm lucky to have been born into the middle class and not to have struggled with money too much yet, but as I prepare for college, I know I can't go to most colleges even if I get accepted because they're hundreds of thousands of dollars that I simply don't have. In my life so far, I have not had any severe health issues which is also extremely lucky. I'm not on debt yet, but it's very likely I will be soon

    • @jaysee2213
      @jaysee2213 2 роки тому +1

      That's just insane to think that would be the cost whereas in the UK you could need all of that and not pay anything at all

    • @Cheepchipsable
      @Cheepchipsable 2 роки тому

      @Xantair Actually hospitals do forgive a lot of debt because they know there is no chance of recovering the money.
      I did see a story of a woman who was mauled in a dog attack and was looking at $100 K+ medical bills.

    • @amobilway1032
      @amobilway1032 2 роки тому

      Also get 2x the take home salary of Europeans after taking into account taxes, wages, and purchasing power.

    • @davidjones332
      @davidjones332 2 роки тому +4

      Bonkers! Anywhere else in the world an ambulance is an emergency service alongside the police or the fire brigade, and they turn out for free when needed. To think here in the UK we're currently fretting because our ambulances sometimes miss their 6 minute target to reach a casualty.

  • @sweetpary
    @sweetpary 3 роки тому +5454

    "I was struggling and slaving for a dream that never existed and I thought that was normal." That cut deep.

    • @pjrodriguez386
      @pjrodriguez386 3 роки тому +79

      yea me too. as an american that also moved to Ireland and is now pursuing a postgrad degree back in the US, unfortunately, im back to struggling and slaving away

    • @nadiaishimwe3663
      @nadiaishimwe3663 3 роки тому +11

      @@pjrodriguez386 are you planning on ever moving away again?

    • @pjrodriguez386
      @pjrodriguez386 3 роки тому +44

      @@nadiaishimwe3663 I'm in law school in FL but I'm planning on taking the NY bar exam that way I could practice law outside the US. idk why but other countries let americans practice law if they passed the NY or Cali bar exam. so although I'm not planning on it per se, it's definitely a thought lol.

    • @nadiaishimwe3663
      @nadiaishimwe3663 3 роки тому +10

      @@pjrodriguez386 Ohhh, nice...Wish you luck!

    • @masterpig5s
      @masterpig5s 3 роки тому

      Yep

  • @Hustwick
    @Hustwick 3 роки тому +1557

    I'm from the UK but have lived/worked in many countries growing up and as an adult. Recently, I spent 2 weeks in the US to co-ordinate staff training for a new office in Ohio. After the first training session a guy came up to me and said, "So, how does it feel to finally be in a free country?"

    • @followedtodeath5850
      @followedtodeath5850 3 роки тому +258

      Ha ha ha that made me laugh

    • @misscurious9289
      @misscurious9289 3 роки тому +49

      😂🤣

    • @Hustwick
      @Hustwick 3 роки тому +23

      @Rita Roork 😂🤣

    • @marleye5933
      @marleye5933 3 роки тому +300

      @Rita Roork you couldn't pay me to live there. Did a road trip there and part of it looked like a third world country with a whole town of meth heads🤪(Kentucky etc
      Also we ran into a homeless veteran, who had cancer and no coverage🤪.
      NO THANKS. They brainwash you into thinking that the USA is the greatest country, but it's really one of the worst most corrupt countries 🤪

    • @konsti02
      @konsti02 3 роки тому +96

      Hahaha what?! Wait that's not a joke? He actually believed that?! 😶

  • @MarkArandjus
    @MarkArandjus 3 роки тому +1477

    As a European it's always fascinating hearing these stories.
    I feel like they're important too because you know what they say 'the first step to solving a problem is admitting you have a problem'.
    And I feel like so many Americans don't realize how DEEPLY and THOROUGHLY they are being CONNED and better things are possible.

    • @oliveraparicio8464
      @oliveraparicio8464 3 роки тому +19

      These Americans are just leftist. I've talked to Europeans that are centrist or right winged and prefer the American system better. "Free education" A Swedish guy told me it's a scam because it gives incentive for a student to pursue a "Liberal Arts degree" aka useless degrees for 5-8 years while getting paid for being a student and becomes a burden to society and not a contributor. Sweden is running out of money to fund education, retirements, and healthcare because of this and also other factors.
      Free healthcare doesn't function in a open border society because the healthcare sector becomes flooded with patients for a simple paper cut. Healthcare services becomes subpar because of this- Frenchman
      Safety has more to do with homogenous vs heterogeneous societies. I can compare Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan to any European countries and East Asian countries are far more safe.

    • @MarkArandjus
      @MarkArandjus 3 роки тому +112

      EVERY TIME I say something about US healthcare somebody like you comes out of the woodwork to make zero sense, it's amazing! :D Okay here we go:
      *"These Americans are just leftist."*
      No, wanting affordable healthcare doesn't make you a leftist, don't be silly. There are videos of American conservatives living in Europe talking about how they prefer healthcare over here. Even our right-wing politicians usually prefer our system.
      *"I've talked to Europeans that are centrist or right winged and prefer the American system better."*
      But have they actually lived in America and experienced both systems like these people have? I too have right wing friends that have some pretty shit socio-economic takes and think the American system is good, but they've never lived there, or even been there.
      *"A Swedish guy told me it's a scam because it gives incentive for a student to pursue a "Liberal Arts degree" aka useless degrees for 5-8 years while getting paid for being a student and becomes a burden to society and not a contributor."*
      See, this is what I'm talking about. Your Swedish friend thinks millions of people should switch to a demonstrably worse healthcare system because.... there are some potentially crap liberal arts degrees? And you thought this was a good argument?! :D
      *"Free healthcare doesn't function in a open border society because the healthcare sector becomes flooded with patients for a simple paper cut."*
      America isn't an open border society. Wait, are you talking about people from different US states? Okay if you're a resident of New York and break your leg in Jersey I'm pretty sure the economy of NJ won't tank because they need to treat a few people out of state, the same way European countries can take care of tourists and foreigners when they get injured.
      *"Safety has more to do with homogenous vs heterogeneous societies. I can compare Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan to any European countries and East Asian countries are far more safe."*
      Do races mixing causes diabetes and cancer to go up, what the fuck are you talking about? :D
      But okay, let's say 'homogeneity' actually effects safety and healthcare... Canada, for example, is even more heterogeneous than the US and their health is way better. There is no notable statistical differences in safety and healthcare from homogeneous first world countries like Slovenia or Norway and heterogeneous ones like New Zealand or Canada, you're just wrong, where do you get this stuff? :D

    • @oliveraparicio8464
      @oliveraparicio8464 3 роки тому +7

      @@MarkArandjus You must come from an insignificant european country that doesn't know or understand how complex the situation is. Universal Healthcare will never work in a very decentralized country such as the US. California is a perfect example of trying universal healthcare while also harboring 2.2 million illegal immigrants within their borders. The plan fell flat on its face while bankrupting 100's of hospitals all over the state. France, Sweden, Germany, UK, even Canada are in the same trajectory as California just 12-15 years behind. California is the only US state that tried to emulate European countries at every policy and failed miserably. Diversity has turned in tribalism and liberalism has turned into degeneracy.

    • @MarkArandjus
      @MarkArandjus 3 роки тому +118

      ​@@oliveraparicio8464 *"You must come from an insignificant european country"*
      I do! Slovenia - strategically unimportant and barely 2 million people, but we have astronomically low rates of violent crime and incarceration, free healthcare and college, maternity leave, paid vacation, pretty good infant mortality rates, low income inequality, and a strong welfare system. Most green European country after Norway BTW, also #5 in the global peace index, it's wonderful! If you're ever in the area check out lake Bled or Triglav national park 👍 it's so lovely they filmed those Narnia movies over here.
      *"doesn't know or understand how complex the situation is"*
      Uhuh, right. After reading your demographic heterogeneity argument, I don't think you get to judge other people for not understanding how shit works😄
      *"California is a perfect example of trying universal "*
      Forgive my small insignificant European country brain, but I'm pretty sure California is pretty fucking far from 'perfect example of universal healthcare' and more like a perfect example of 'they did a half-ass job of implementing it'. California is your perfect example of a European-style universal healthcare system, are you SERIOUS?! :D
      You should've pointed out Hawaii, which is the only US state that has something resembling universal healthcare. I'm sure it's just a coincidence that it by far has the best life expectancy out of all the states.🤙
      There is no reason why US states couldn't be run healthcare-wise like European countries. You pay a tax, get affordable insurance, and the government negotiates reasonable drug prices across the board, and viola. Both the government and people save money, the only ones that get screwed is big pharma heads and insurance companies who would become rich instead of insanely giga wealthy. Poor wealthy people :(
      And yeah, France, Sweden, Germany, UK, even Canada's systems aren't perfect, but nobody is going bankrupt, almost nobody is dying from preventable disease, traveling to neighboring countries to buy insulin, driving themselves to the hospital after getting stabbed because ambulances are expensive, or depend on pop up clinics in tents like some third world country. And perhaps most importantly the life expectancy of these countries hasn't been stagnating or even declining, which isn't something the US can say.
      Oh and if immigrants are such a problem, since you can't get rid of them because a) it's logistically impossible and b) parts of the US economy depend on them, why not, I dunno, give them work permits and tax them which would solve the healthcare aspect and they could pay into the system and fund the government. I mean they're already there and always will be. Make everybody's lives easier by giving immigrants a legit route to participate in the economy. But what do I know I'm just from a small country that used to be part of Yugoslavia, a federative network of countries where people would cross borders and work abroad all the time.

    • @ghost_pictures
      @ghost_pictures 3 роки тому +76

      @@MarkArandjus get it!! I'm tired of ppl blaming shit on illegal immigrants. They don't sit around and do nothing! They work and pay taxes!! These ppl who don't even have citizenship pay taxes just like any other American in this country. These ppl help the economy just like any other average person. If ppl really want to complain about them being illegal then they need to wake up and realize becoming legal is hella long and hard and needs to change.

  • @XavierMcQueen
    @XavierMcQueen 3 роки тому +222

    I had a severe asthma attack while doing yard work. I was on the ground and my neighbors called an ambulance. I was uninsured so when they showed up and tried to treat me I denied them because I couldn’t afford the ambulance ride or treatment. The EMTs looked mortified because I was dying on the ground. I was trying my damndest to stay conscious because I knew they’d treat me if I passed out. They told me that they could give oxygen for free so I took that instead. Healthcare is so expensive that I’d live in debt for awhile for any urgent treatment. In that moment I chose potentially dying than paying for healthcare. Yeah living here has fucked me up.

    • @Panda-24
      @Panda-24 2 роки тому +30

      Good lord, you people deserve a little better.😬

    • @marilenaganea6578
      @marilenaganea6578 2 роки тому +20

      OMFG!!!! I'm asthmatic! I know what an asthma crisis means! But this is insane!
      I'm jobless for more than a year but my health insurance/care doesn't expire and never will. In my country, a little island in Mediterranean sea, you will have healthcare for close to nothing even if you are unemployed. My inhaler cost me around 8 euros per month and my GP's visits are free up to 12 visits per year and after that threshold a visit to GP or specialist cost 6 (six) euros.

    • @amobilway1032
      @amobilway1032 2 роки тому

      Just save up. For Europeans the cost of ambulances and medical services is paid many times over through taxes. If you aren't an idiot and know some basic home ec, you should have no problem setting up a rainy day fund. Also stop whining.

    • @kagitsune
      @kagitsune 2 роки тому +7

      ​@@marilenaganea6578 That's awesome, I wish I could afford to see doctor whenever I get sick. I didn't even see a doctor when I had Covid.

    • @USAFORBETTER
      @USAFORBETTER 2 роки тому

      @@Panda-24 you people?

  • @corinacerbu8266
    @corinacerbu8266 3 роки тому +6962

    I genuinely feel sorry for the middle and lower class Americans. I don’t feel sorry for the rich ones. No sarcasm. Imagine, as a parent, having to consider how to dress your child to help him blend easily in case of a school shooting...what!?

    • @kaiaswrld
      @kaiaswrld 3 роки тому +400

      Right that’s so terrifying. I feel so bad for the little boy not allowed to get the cool light up shoes, he probably doesn’t even understand why he can’t wear them:( I’m so glad I don’t live in the States.

    • @joylastname3035
      @joylastname3035 3 роки тому +519

      We moved to America in 2018 and my son started kindergarten and the first time he came home to tell me they had a drill in school. A school shooting drill. I was shocked, not because I wasn't aware America has a mass shooting epidemic but that they are so unwilling to take any firm action to curb it they'd rather subject 5 yr Olds to what to do in case of a school shooting. That's not normal. America has normalized mass shootings like rain. It's madness and it's not normal. Ppl should go to school worrying if there's going to be a pop quiz they didn't study for not if they will be body bagged by midday.

    • @rainyseason7134
      @rainyseason7134 3 роки тому +256

      (I'm from Europe) I clearly remember arguing with my mom about which backpack I'd get for school, I wanted the one with more pictures, she wanted the one with more reflective patches, so I'm visible in the dark and don't get ran over...
      It's wild to me how different these worries are

    • @mashedmashedptat
      @mashedmashedptat 3 роки тому +130

      yeah! when i was in elementary school, we had sh00ting drills so much that i would only wear dark colored versions of my uniform!
      (we had a uniform, it was just a plain polo tee-shirt, any color, and black or khaki pants)
      and my thoughts were always, “if someone dangerous enters the room, go under the teachers desk(or just anywhere that was a good hiding spot)”. it’s honestly so sad that a 7 year old had to think like this, everyday.

    • @SharRawr
      @SharRawr 3 роки тому +92

      @@kaiaswrld as someone who has lived in America my whole life, I've never thought of buying my kid light up shoes as a problem for school shootings. It's never crossed my mind. Personally I think its really weird that the people here say they dress their kid accordingly to avoid a school shooter.

  • @mrkennedy4394
    @mrkennedy4394 3 роки тому +1225

    So nice to see there are actually Americans out there that don't think their country's the greatest country in the world! You couldn't pay me to live there!

    • @jonalynbaldoza5508
      @jonalynbaldoza5508 3 роки тому +97

      I really believe that if Americans just travel outside America, they will have a change of heart about thinking they're the greatest country.

    • @mrkennedy4394
      @mrkennedy4394 3 роки тому +51

      @@jonalynbaldoza5508 I agree. But they need to do it properly. When I traveled the world a bunch of Americans in a tour would swoop in and out together. Wish they had taken the time at places and got to know the culture instead of ticking a place of their list. Although in saying that a lot of other people do it that way as well.

    • @mrkennedy4394
      @mrkennedy4394 3 роки тому +103

      @@libertylovingbeckles6797 darling you really have swallowed the 'american cool aid haven't you!' Bless your heart.

    • @mrkennedy4394
      @mrkennedy4394 3 роки тому +89

      @@libertylovingbeckles6797 you pay taxes right? Why can't some of that money go to hospitals and schools. Just as some of your tax money goes to roads and water etc. Spend less on your military and more on your children's education? You aren't relying on the government by getting 'free' Healthcare your taxes are paying for it.

    • @jonalynbaldoza5508
      @jonalynbaldoza5508 3 роки тому +79

      @@libertylovingbeckles6797 That's just being prideful and stubornly stupid. Countrymen should be able to depend on another and be depended on for help. You guys use the word "dependent" as if it's a crime... the only reason dependency becomes a burden to America is because it's citizens doesn't know how to do anything in moderation.

  • @teepssenju3411
    @teepssenju3411 3 роки тому +3446

    Maybe the world should start promoting the American nightmare

    • @thehoneyeffect
      @thehoneyeffect 3 роки тому +308

      We already know its a nightmare... its Americans that need to know, its like they are in a cult

    • @marproperty1
      @marproperty1 3 роки тому +17

      🤣🤣that should b a thing

    • @EveryDayALittleDeath
      @EveryDayALittleDeath 3 роки тому +135

      @@thehoneyeffect some of us know and want desperately to get out of here

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +5

      @@EveryDayALittleDeath just shut up and go study hard because my american friends studied hard and they are not worried about money also a north korean and two cubans on youtube said USA is great but the young Americans need to work hard so thats why china and india will start the apocalypse

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +3

      @@thehoneyeffect you should study hard in usa because one mexican doctor killed 10 people in mexico also USA needs more people to fix USA

  • @johnathonjordon8148
    @johnathonjordon8148 2 роки тому +34

    I live in New Zealand which is the second place where it is the safest country in the world and seeing this breaks my heart because I did not know this is what it was like in the states, seeing these people‘s experiences is just mind blowing.

    • @Jake-mi3bj
      @Jake-mi3bj 10 місяців тому +5

      It gets worse than you realize. America is an abusive country and me and my family want to leave so bad

    • @supertuber120
      @supertuber120 10 місяців тому +3

      I work in an office building in America. Within the first week of working there I started memorizing where all the exits are. I also started looking for good places to hide and figuring out where the nearest exit was to each hiding place so that if I had the opportunity I could get out the building. I really don't give it much thought, that's just normal here.

  • @CatfishMili
    @CatfishMili 3 роки тому +4297

    It’s shocking that Americans think they live in the best country in the world when most other countries feel bad for Americans. When I think of America I think of low quality food, poor education system, bad healthcare system, gun violence, high crime rates because of wealth inequality...

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +45

      USA has more gold and silver medals in sports also a lot of americans don't like studying

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +31

      Other countries have more crime

    • @oa194
      @oa194 3 роки тому +514

      @@estelaangeles2346 Hahahahahahaahhahaha!!! Really?? THATS your argument?

    • @oa194
      @oa194 3 роки тому +95

      @Robb Grey She does seem offended so..

    • @oa194
      @oa194 3 роки тому +75

      @Robb Grey Ow but I know that half of you are well aware of what’s happening, I truly dont say such thing to put anyone down, I might lack a better word than “brainwashed” in my vocabulary since English isn’t perfect. But I guess you know what I mean. I have empathy for people whose lives are made difficult by these factors without realizing that a country can do so much more for them, no laughing matter nor should it be ridiculed

  • @naturalhigh8359
    @naturalhigh8359 3 роки тому +1930

    All these stories make me think back to when I was pregnant with my first baby and I told myself “I’m glad I live a couple of blocks away from the hospital I can walk if I go into labor” WALK 😭

    • @grammatikaat4329
      @grammatikaat4329 3 роки тому +36

      😳😥

    • @Nnnmmmkkk
      @Nnnmmmkkk 3 роки тому +59

      W-what

    • @vapingcat9880
      @vapingcat9880 3 роки тому +170

      Im sorry, you were planing to WALK to the hospital while in LABOR?!?!?

    • @jimmyyounger618
      @jimmyyounger618 3 роки тому +41

      You had no neighbors? No cabs, Uber or otherwise? No access to 911? (I'm a retired Paramedic/FF - It was rare, but we'd transport for exactly this.) And when we were having our first child, progress at the onset was so slow and mild, (similar to Braxton Hicks contractions), we were sent for a walk.
      Also, the girl talking about needing a patient's permission in the context of CPR training... Hilarious! 😆 They weren't laughing at America's civil liability laws, they were laughing at her and her notion that an unconscious person would be able to give or deny consent in the first place. How in the world is she entirely ignorant about America's 'Good Samaritan Laws' and 'Implied Consent' that protects us from liability?

    • @ChocolateMuffin308
      @ChocolateMuffin308 3 роки тому +82

      @@jimmyyounger618 dude the very fact that you have to be protected by some special law in case you get close to another human being or try to do CPR is hilarious in itself

  • @nadine7293
    @nadine7293 3 роки тому +1689

    I remember seeing a video on UA-cam where a dunkin donuts employee was fired for giving leftovers to homeless ppl. I was startled at first cuz the dude was being kind and generous to offer the leftovers to the homeless which would otherwise be dumped in the trash.
    However, someone commented that the homeless ppl might sue the company by falsely claiming to be sick due to the leftovers given to em.
    You can't even be kind in America smh

    • @chadbigirimana5647
      @chadbigirimana5647 3 роки тому +55

      Well God damn

    • @jamssy3409
      @jamssy3409 3 роки тому +70

      I don't think Dunkin Donuts was at fault here, it's really just the country. Working here in McDonalds I can get leftover fries/burgers and give them to anyone I want.

    • @giovannagreeff2153
      @giovannagreeff2153 3 роки тому +145

      I worked at a sandwich shop and had so much bread leftover that I was forced to toss into the garbage. I asked if we could donate to homeless shelters and my manager told me they could get sued and from then on, they made me throw it away first and then pour soup over them to destroy the loaves.
      At one point I spent my own money to buy half the loaves at the end of the night just so that they wouldn't get tossed in the garbage.
      It's really sad that being nice can lead to more problems.

    • @nadine7293
      @nadine7293 3 роки тому +58

      @@giovannagreeff2153 oh my that's messed up. Sadly we prioritize money before humanity

    • @jamestaylor3805
      @jamestaylor3805 3 роки тому +33

      Wouldn't happen, homeless can't afford an attorney.

  • @Sulamenku
    @Sulamenku 3 роки тому +69

    Being sued for trying to save a life? That's messed up.

  • @zamiraarts5435
    @zamiraarts5435 3 роки тому +3403

    I was confused about college debt stuff cuz in our country college is free for a 4 year course xD

    • @zamiraarts5435
      @zamiraarts5435 3 роки тому +219

      @Rita Roork well that's the point of taxes. It's still for the benefit of the people of the country. Compared to the US where the taxes are very high they don't even have health or education benefits. I think the 'high' ( its not the high, our taxes, it's reasonable in my opinion)taxes served it's purpose. 😂

    • @misscurious9289
      @misscurious9289 3 роки тому +286

      @@zamiraarts5435 they spend most of their taxes on military and sending more to fund Israel instead of actually helping their own people. Like Yeah Education and Health.

    • @zamiraarts5435
      @zamiraarts5435 3 роки тому +82

      @@misscurious9289 well figures. Since they seemed to be the type of country that would want to be top of the military power.

    • @zamiraarts5435
      @zamiraarts5435 3 роки тому +40

      @Rita Roork right. It might be because of the overwhelming amount of people who complains about it that I thought it's like that but I wouldn't know. I'm not from there (thankfully) Also I might be wrong, Guns and Firearms are definitely much more important than Education and Health care 😂😂. Also the tax in a country is not unreasonable if the people actually benefit from it and knows where their money went. Can your tax pay for your child's college? Oh wait. No, they need to loan for it. 😂

    • @zamiraarts5435
      @zamiraarts5435 3 роки тому +41

      @Rita Roork also the best education system goes to the Nordic countries specifically Finland lol. They have free education there and I'm pretty sure Their teachers aren't starving. The best health care system is Sweden. 😂

  • @kaym1196
    @kaym1196 3 роки тому +1339

    I live in the Caribbean, in a so called 'third world/developing country where health care is basically free. For all ages. Ambulances too. There are paid private hospitals but all public hospitals throughout the island are free. It's sad that such a rich country doesn't offer free healthcare to its citizens.

    • @matt7185
      @matt7185 3 роки тому +38

      Your healthcare isnt free you pay for it through taxes, it's way lower quality than US healthcare and your population is very much lower than the US

    • @theweatherwitch2492
      @theweatherwitch2492 3 роки тому +168

      I live in the UK, so another rich country, and our healthcare is also free. Yes, we pay for it in our taxes, but we have to pay taxes anyway, so it doesn't really make a difference that we played for it in our taxes. Our taxes go to our quality healthcare. American taxes go to your military, which you don't need to be that large.

    • @matt7185
      @matt7185 3 роки тому +19

      @@theweatherwitch2492 american taxes don't go to our military it goes to our even BETTER quality healthcare and plus we have social programs for people social programs for people who can't afford it to go to so they can get care it's not like people are dying without care like in canada the US has 300 million people, to give free healthcare to everybody would be INSANELY expensive plus theres health insurance, and the US is the only country that pays its promised amount into NATO and the US provides military security and foreign assistance and economic aid to a fuckload of countries, and yes it's way better quality, in places like Canada or the UK survival rates for diseases like cancer or HIV more than 7 times lower than in the US, wait times for MRI machines are high as fuck over 7 months on average in canada, in fact canada was sued for human rights violations because they only had socialized healthcare and people were dying because they had to wait so long for treatment

    • @ishanipimpale
      @ishanipimpale 3 роки тому +27

      Health care is free in india too.. but the quality of healthcare matters

    • @AliceRinGameLand
      @AliceRinGameLand 3 роки тому +8

      The Caribbean isn't considered 3rd world. More like 2nd world

  • @GrasImOhr
    @GrasImOhr 3 роки тому +455

    I am studying a medical field in university in Germany and we just talked about international health care systems. It is really astounding how weird the US-system is. I am honestly sorry for u guys

    • @monica_zielinski
      @monica_zielinski  3 роки тому +69

      What’s astounding is that I don’t remember EVER learning about healthcare systems in other countries.

    • @danicleckley5404
      @danicleckley5404 3 роки тому +29

      You guys learn about other countries?

    • @Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman
      @Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman 3 роки тому +88

      @@danicleckley5404 Bro America purposely doesn’t teach about other countries to keep the “Greatest country” notion alive. If the American people really knew people all over lived well it would kill The “American Dream”.

    • @francheskabruni
      @francheskabruni 3 роки тому +7

      @@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman I guess that is the truth

    • @matt7185
      @matt7185 3 роки тому +2

      @@monica_zielinski and healthcare systems in ALL other countries are way worse then US healthcare with everything except prices

  • @thinktransnational
    @thinktransnational 3 роки тому +18

    I’m in tears. I’ve lived outside of America twice and am desperate to get back abroad cause of how traumatized I feel by this country. I could do a freaking series of these comparisons as well and that’s too sad.

    • @nahAlban
      @nahAlban 3 роки тому +1

      well do us a favor and this time don't come back. ok?

    • @thinktransnational
      @thinktransnational 3 роки тому +2

      @@nahAlban Oh man, don’t threaten me with a good time friend 🤗

    • @Driver2616
      @Driver2616 Місяць тому

      @@nahAlban: And you do all of us a favour. Stay there in your messed up country…..

  • @sweetreat30
    @sweetreat30 3 роки тому +1836

    The person who said there are homes in America that have seen more guns than fresh vegetables just blew my mind

    • @SM-ot5rv
      @SM-ot5rv 3 роки тому +20

      It normal why are you shocked 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 people own guns Jesus the rest of the world need to learn about america I stead of judging first lol

    • @User-LS-n5m
      @User-LS-n5m 3 роки тому +7

      @@myinmyin1997 babe ur so naive 😂😂

    • @lilcomment
      @lilcomment 3 роки тому +4

      @@myinmyin1997
      Bruh stfu😂😂😂

    • @dlane7539
      @dlane7539 3 роки тому +40

      Guns are simply a tool. Its harmless. Just like a car. A gun cannot go off by itself. I live in Washington state. We have strict laws for owning guns. We are legal gun owners. I have them secured & not accessible to children, strangers. They are simply a tool to protect myself as a woman who lives in a rural area.
      There are guns in just about every house within 10 miles radius of me...and not one instance of Gun Violence. The issue with America is that guns are political. Period.

    • @Azmarov
      @Azmarov 3 роки тому +34

      More people in the US die from alcohol-related illnesses and accidents than guns, but no one bats an eye at tequila commercials on TV.
      More people in the US die from obesity than guns, but if you call someone fat you’re “body shaming”.
      More people in the US die in car accidents while driving a Prius than guns, but… you get the point.
      Hopefully.

  • @aleenaprasannan2146
    @aleenaprasannan2146 3 роки тому +3645

    Does Americans even realise that they have the same PTSD related reactions that people in war zones and places with violent border conflicts have?

    • @mishasamuel
      @mishasamuel 3 роки тому +288

      So many Americans served in the military, went to the war and came back with ptsd that it’s been a part of American life for a long time... it just spreads to more and more people now.

    • @snickerdoodle212
      @snickerdoodle212 3 роки тому +413

      So many of us have mental disorders due to the stress of life here and this country doesn't do much regarding treating or caring for the mentally disabled.

    • @sarcasm8007
      @sarcasm8007 3 роки тому +192

      @@snickerdoodle212 This.. Like almost everyone I know has some form of anxiety or depression and I'm not even kidding when I say that. In my elementary school I lived in a not so nice area and my mom literally had to go to court and fight with the school board just to get me the help I needed to learn properly which they didn't even follow which is illegal.. If a student has an IEP you're meant to follow it but they still would say "Just guess." When I couldn't read the questions on the test, it's not that I didn't comprehend the material I just couldn't read it, and they would yell at me when I didn't know how to spell words and they would say "sound it out" when nothing is spelled how it sounds. I eventually taught myself no thanks to rude and impatient teachers, now I'm in highschool in a much better area and it shocked me how different it was. Teachers are actually nice and accomadating, but they weren't when I needed it the most which gave me really terrible self esteem as I thought it was my fault. It's insane to me how in some areas the schooling absolutely terrible, and in others it is decent. One is unionized and one is not... It boggles my mind how a geographical area and the amount of income an area makes effects so much of your life. When I was younger fights were common at my school- fist fights, and I moved here and my friend who is very passionate about LGBTQ+ rights got mad at a kid for being homophobic, I was expecting them to start fist fighting to and was midly suprised when they didn't. I was shocked when I didn't have to hide my stuff in my car because it wasn't a bad area and I didn't have to worry about someone stealing it if they saw it through the car window...
      It's so shocking to me how different places can be here just on one small difference and it's honestly so sad, I hope to move away when I get older.

    • @IAmLeePeace
      @IAmLeePeace 3 роки тому +118

      I just told my daughter that! As I was watching the video I paused it and said to her omg it's PTSD. It's almost as if the government is conditioning and preparing All Americans for war or take over. As a Native American I can definitely say if they killed 22 million of my people they will definitely try and do it again but with Americans. Also, the government still has Native Americans imprisoned. They did it once! You think they won't do it again? What do think lock downs are? Just wait for the real thing, this is just the test run! Take it from a Native American.

    • @hainleysimpson1507
      @hainleysimpson1507 3 роки тому +27

      I Am Peace Lee And now that the US is pulling out of West Asia they are refocusing their terrorism onto the Caribbean and the rest of the mainland Americas. They've been focusing especially on Colombia and Venezuela.

  • @elvirashekeeva4242
    @elvirashekeeva4242 3 роки тому +1611

    Imagine someone unconscious needing CPR and you go “Sir, I need you consent to save your life”

    • @FarrahKeks
      @FarrahKeks 3 роки тому +73

      That's exactly what I thought when I watched that part

    • @juliamillis3078
      @juliamillis3078 3 роки тому +105

      I'm first aid and CPR certified for context and when someone is unconscious or unable to speak is the only time you can make the decision for them. You basically assume that they would want help if they were conscious. Its honestly crazy

    • @midnightmadness7156
      @midnightmadness7156 3 роки тому +38

      It's actually the same in Canada too. We are technically supposed to ask for consent as well here. So dumb.

    • @juliamillis3078
      @juliamillis3078 3 роки тому +20

      @@midnightmadness7156 oh wow I didn't know that, and it really is stupid I'm trained to help people not worry about being sued.

    • @midnightmadness7156
      @midnightmadness7156 3 роки тому +25

      @@juliamillis3078 yeaaaahhh... unfortunately people seem to think Canada is sooo different and superior to the US, and it's extremely, extremely similar in many ways. Including our legal systems and political agendas. We are drowning just as much as the US is, but Canadians like to try to perpetuate the "nice guy, utopia" persona it's got going for it. Unfortunately our PM Trudeau is very very good at fooling the rest of the world and presenting himself as a progressive, altruistic leader when that couldn't be farther from the truth. And I'm not even Conservative. Im liberal!
      Lol anyways... rant over 😅

  • @luciaherrerafuente9048
    @luciaherrerafuente9048 2 роки тому +24

    I remember as a child/young teen everyone being so in love with the idea of living in the US and when we grow old and our main source of information is not movies, disney channel tv shows and youtubers the idea of wanting to leave in the US goes from aspirational to utterly embarrasing to have ever wanted that, not to me but to mostly everyone I know - it must be said that 99.9% of the people I know are from somewhere in the EU, probably we would not feel the same way in a less provileged part of the words if that makes any sense

  • @perthrockskinda2946
    @perthrockskinda2946 3 роки тому +860

    I am a Nurse in Australia, I CANNOT BELIEVE IN AMERICA YOU CAN BE SUED FOR SAVING A LIFE!!! WOW!!!

    • @mirka
      @mirka 3 роки тому +103

      America became a country of under educated, over entitled.
      Crazy !

    • @helgaioannidis9365
      @helgaioannidis9365 3 роки тому +14

      That really shocked me, too.

    • @haileyt857
      @haileyt857 3 роки тому +38

      Yeah, it's sad. I just took a CPR/BSL course and during the videos we were watching I remembered hearing about possibly being sued by someone that I was actively trying to save. I then also questioned why I was even taking this course to begin with if me being a good person by saving someone's life meant I was going to go into debt being sued. I hate it here.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +2

      @@helgaioannidis9365 you should tell Americans that Americans should fix USA because china and india will destroy other countries

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому

      @@ikeu6433 other Americans dont know this

  • @carpediem4091
    @carpediem4091 3 роки тому +498

    Our laws actually protect anyone who is trying to do CPR or save someone.
    If you break a rib by doing CPR or you accidentally do something wrong while trying to save someone in life's danger you're protected by law of anyone trying to sue you because you were trying to help.
    On the other hand, not calling for help and denying help ( unless there's risk to yourself) is a crime.
    Edit: I think this law applies to all EU countries.

    • @deltaflute03
      @deltaflute03 3 роки тому +20

      I’m actually puzzled by that person’s training because it’s not accurate. In the US, we have Good Samaritan Laws that protect people attempting to offer help. There’s no liability to performing CPR.

    • @myprettypsych
      @myprettypsych 3 роки тому +21

      @@deltaflute03 That's actually partly true. Anyone can sue you for that in the USA. That doesn't mean it will be successful, especially given the Good Samaritan Laws, but I think the point is that the mindset in the USA is generally geared towards suing. And, if someone does decide to sue you, you may end up incurring legal expenses. People have been sued which is where I think the belief that this is required comes from. Also, different states draw the line of emergency care well, differently. Which means there are some caveats. That being said, I've been in a couple of situations where there were emergencies and I can tell you that being sued did not even cross my mind. I think most people either freeze or take action.

    • @IceQueenSW
      @IceQueenSW 3 роки тому +10

      @@deltaflute03 if I remember correctly from law school in California if you attempt to save someone but you end up injuring them you can be successfully sued. I remember those classes on Good Samaritan Laws blowing all of our minds! We couldn’t believe it. I want to say the primary issue was whether the Good Samaritan does more than necessary and ends up hurting the person worse than if they didn’t get involved. But I’m not entirely sure. Torts is some messed up stuff in the sue happy state of Cali.

    • @anotherunicorn8168
      @anotherunicorn8168 3 роки тому +1

      Also African countries....you can't get sued for that

    • @doobiedoobadayus7711
      @doobiedoobadayus7711 3 роки тому +2

      I dont know what they are talking about. Most states have the same laws. They are called good samaritan laws. Not sure what state they are in but all 50 states have them. No one has ever been sewed successfully for helping. Unless the victim does not consent to help. If unconscious that is implied consent. Also if you do more harm them help you can be held liable.

  • @MakaylaPaterson
    @MakaylaPaterson 3 роки тому +699

    All of these are extremely sad, but two really stick out; having an active heart attack and considering riding your bike to the hospital during an ACTIVE HEART ATTACK?!?! Don’t even get me started on waking up from the heart attack and the first concern being that you might loose your job.
    Also having to worry that if your kid has light up shoes they’re more likely to be a target of a shooting. Absolutely horrific.

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT 3 роки тому +10

      I'm a conservative BUT very strongly disagree with Republicans on 2 things = Healthcare & legalization of marijuana (I don't even smoke weed but would rather someone babysit a kid on marijuana than be drunk ect/ many other scenarios) I'm from Arkansas usa & for the past 10 months I have been in the most excruciating pain of my life bc of a toothache. I'll have about 4-6 days pain free or minimal pain&then it'll come back for 5-10 days. Like talking about feels like a screwdriver shaking in my ear pain. Worse than giving birth pain. I've been having to take fish antibiotics that I've been able to buy for $17-$21. I've taken them 4times& am afraid I've become antibiotic resistant. I went to a dentist about 5 months ago& the appointment was $160, xrays $180& I went there being told they would extract my very back top molar , they didn't & referred me to a orthodontist& I was told it would be $4,600-$5,000 FOR ONE TOOTH! needless to say I'm up at 6am in the morning due to being in severe pain all night. Fml. Have a appt for next tues/4 days from now. They said they would do it for $240 for the extraction & $160 for xrays& only $64 for the appointment. So wish me luck please!

    • @erihussain8007
      @erihussain8007 3 роки тому +19

      @@WarmongerYT I'm sorry.....did you just compare tooth pain to giving birth? Bruh you're really stupid. Giving birth literally feels like your entire body is turning inside out, your bones breaking. How are you going to compare that to childbirth if you've never given birth to a baby.

    • @vollzeitfaultier
      @vollzeitfaultier 3 роки тому +9

      @@erihussain8007 well, we don't know if they actually did give birth... but yes, i have to give it to you that it sounds unrealistic and was probably just a metaphor to give us an image on how they pressive their pain.

    • @erihussain8007
      @erihussain8007 3 роки тому +4

      @@vollzeitfaultier I know I just hate it when people give that specific example. Giving birth is hell tho

    • @kerricarroll7554
      @kerricarroll7554 3 роки тому +1

      @@erihussain8007 personally the worst pain I have ever experience was a tooth ache. I couldn’t even function I was in so much pain. I have given birth twice. My first one I never felt any pain. I had to set and watch for my stomach to tighten up to count how far contractions was apart because I couldn’t feel them. Now the second one I didn’t get so lucky but it was no where near the pain I had with that tooth ache. I can’t imagine anything hurting as bad as my tooth ache was. I don’t think I could survive it honestly.

  • @merncat3384
    @merncat3384 2 роки тому +15

    I remember meeting someone from France and they told me how they get an entire year off of work automatically for maternal and paternal leave.. the mother and father of the baby get the choice on how to share that time.. they could divide it up 6 months each or if Mom wants 9 months and Dad wants 3 months, it doesn't matter.. they both get a total of one year.
    This is why Americans are so stressed and one of the many reasons why we die younger

  • @johnlastname8752
    @johnlastname8752 3 роки тому +4259

    Every time I see videos like this it makes me feel sad for Americans. They're stuck in an abusive relationship with their government and get brainwashed into believing that it's healthy.

    • @Sataniikpaniik
      @Sataniikpaniik 3 роки тому +193

      And no one can leave unless you're already benefitting from the system

    • @ashhcatchemall
      @ashhcatchemall 3 роки тому +183

      their holding everyone hostage and profiting off of our lives or sickness. everyday almost it depresses me. some of us don't believe it's healthy but pretty much everyone has not enough power to do anything about it.

    • @_lil_lil
      @_lil_lil 3 роки тому +145

      @@Sataniikpaniik Stockholm syndrome should be renamed Florida syndrome.

    • @janoahlee7499
      @janoahlee7499 3 роки тому +50

      As an American it sucks getting others who want change but have more groups make sure you there isn’t change. If it doesn’t directly affect them or benefits everyone from people will go out their way to sabotage everyone else. They are so brainwashed it’s sad.
      Ex: During COVID the government gave out stimulus checks. There were people who qualified but refused it because that’s “welfare” and they aren’t “welfare kings/queens” or “illegal” immigrants. All that’s nonsense but we had people protest at our state capital in my city because they didn’t want any “illegal” immigrants and lazy people to get their stimulus.
      You may wonder why I keep using “illegal” immigrants not immigrants it’s because their are people here who associate any person not like themselves or bilingual are immigrants and if they look Hispanic/Latino they must be here illegally. Not everyone thinks that way but it’s a huge country and those people seem to be able come together quick for a vote/protest/parade/demonstrations…. etc. Hence why last vote we had so many campaigns for people to come vote.

    • @kristy5698
      @kristy5698 3 роки тому +13

      Yup, that’s the American dream

  • @fullmetaltheorist
    @fullmetaltheorist 3 роки тому +4290

    Sounds like just being alive is expensive in America.

    • @SariennMusic73
      @SariennMusic73 3 роки тому +268

      Yes and being sick is a death guarantee unless you're rich. And is a threat to one's continued employment. Etc.

    • @MrDtoldon
      @MrDtoldon 3 роки тому +50

      It is

    • @bpavilion8994
      @bpavilion8994 3 роки тому +49

      @Dank Poster, they literally forced everyone to get heath insurance that covered nothing (obamacare). If you didn't get insurance, they would charge you for not getting insurance - and the people who they are charging are the ones that literally couldn't afford it to begin with, but had to buy it because otherwise it would have cost more money if you didn't.

    • @lilacfairy.
      @lilacfairy. 3 роки тому +73

      Yup America sucks. I live in California and it sucks! Because everything is super expensive and national parks aren’t even free! You’ll have to pay to go these Parks.

    • @RainbowY0
      @RainbowY0 3 роки тому +5

      Yes

  • @pragatisingh6020
    @pragatisingh6020 3 роки тому +181

    I am from India, my dad used to work in America a few years back and he got really sick. We used to talk to him daily and he used to tell us that he couldn't afford to seek help. I remember asking him 'Why don't you go to a government hospital instead?' and he told me that they don't have government hospitals there. We were in such a bad position at that time. Eventually he had to leave his job and return to India.
    For those of you who don't know... India has government healthcare infrastructure where anybody can seek medical help for free or very cheap... its mostly for the people who cannot afford to go to a private hospital. And the audacity of America to lecture us on human rights!

    • @mylist0song
      @mylist0song 3 роки тому +4

      There are university hospitals that treat for free. Or you can go to the clinic/ hospital office and say that you can’t pay you bill.

    • @donnycooke56
      @donnycooke56 3 роки тому +2

      Look. Nobody goes Untreated in the United States of America. All of you people have lost your minds. Let me Repeat anyone and everyone will be treated in the United States Nobody is ever turned away.

    • @masterofnations9508
      @masterofnations9508 3 роки тому +7

      Lecture you on human rights? Bruh, most of us don’t even know our human rights.

    • @foxyowo4368
      @foxyowo4368 3 роки тому +11

      @@donnycooke56 and when you are,you are either put into debt or slave away with your under minimum paying job to be able to pay for it,shut up

    • @MrBlakeleyden
      @MrBlakeleyden 3 роки тому

      As an American, for me, I am a little surprised at how much of these were about shootings and guns. I never had to deal with that fear much growing up. In Colorado, we had a few lock down drills here and there maybe a couple times a year, but it was never a big deal/ threat in my mind. I guess I grew up in a good community in Denver. But i can see a lot of the points being made about guns. It is an interesting conflict - between not having another unchecked government with absolute power like Britain had over its people before America began. Or like Germany and Hitler had for that matter, who disarmed all of its people. Or if you live out on farmland in the middle of nowhere, there are wild animals like bears that could attack your children. But wouldn't it be nice if not just anyone could have the ability to get guns? Each state is more like its own country. Each state has its own laws, and each of them has different issues because according to the constitution, each state has the authority to override federal laws, as it so chooses. (that can affect the state's funding and protection provided by the government, but it is totally constitutional.) All of the clips that were about not wanting to get fired, the vacation time, sick days, working ourselves "to the bone", debt, and the last one, about talking about not bothering other people with our problems, was very eye opening and good to hear other people talk about those same struggles. In relation to all of this, my sister lives in Haiti as a missionary, and while I was there visiting her, I asked a Haitian staying with her if he would ever consider moving to the United States. He is married to an Asian-American, so he actually has the real potential to get there. The Haitian government often won't hand out passports to their own citizens because they know they probably will not come back. He told me no because all we do in America is pay bills. That is coming from a 3rd world country where school is not free, political corruption runs deep, riots happen somewhat often, thievery is very common, and there is trash everywhere. It is very poor. A lot of them actually would LOVE to come to America. But there are still plenty of them that would rather stay there. Then take a look at all of the illegal border crossings that people from Mexico risk their lives to do so. America isn't all bad. But it definitely has some very deep grooves that have been worn into its people that don't value the people correctly. My brother once said that America is about individual success. It's much less community oriented than other countries. We are very materially blessed in America, but we pay for that in other ways such as our relationships and our health. It was good to hear a discussion about this. Thanks for the video!

  • @nappytonatural23
    @nappytonatural23 2 роки тому +14

    Man that last one shook me to my core. Why is it the American way to hold everything inside ? Personally I feel a lot of shootings might not happen if we had the ability to open up and not get shamed for it. I’m a massage therapist and I once had a client tell me that I ruined his massage because when he asked me how I was doing I told him I was having car trouble. It made me feel like I was supposed to be subhuman or something. From that day forward when asked how I am I say I’m good even if I not. Why is it the American way to hold it all inside then when we see people from other countries expressing emotions it makes us uncomfortable?

  • @glitchedartistx7964
    @glitchedartistx7964 3 роки тому +715

    Fun fact: the us healthcare system actually saved my life from suicide. Not because they treated me or brought me back, because I was too scared that if I attempted and failed that my family couldn’t afford the hospital bill. I hate this

    • @meh5069
      @meh5069 3 роки тому +65

      I hope you are able to receive help ♥️

    • @Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman
      @Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman 3 роки тому +106

      If this comment doesn’t tell you how fucked up this country is nothing will.

    • @scp--297
      @scp--297 3 роки тому +19

      I felt this.

    • @glitchedartistx7964
      @glitchedartistx7964 3 роки тому +36

      Yeah, I’m still suicidal but a little better, I’ll probably wind up thankful that I didn’t succeed, but I’m not quite there yet

    • @Piinkypanter
      @Piinkypanter 3 роки тому +6

      The thumbs up is moral support to keep going. The song 'mika-relax' helped me when i was at a suicidal point

  • @an1614
    @an1614 3 роки тому +272

    This is why starting to live in the US as a European can be mentally exhausting because you know how good it could be but everyone around you think you're just sensitive because they think this crap is normal!!!

    • @norandmurr1432
      @norandmurr1432 3 роки тому +5

      So, stay in Europe then.

    • @artsilk2944
      @artsilk2944 3 роки тому +3

      I understand what you're trying to say. it's difficult to put into words.

    • @an1614
      @an1614 3 роки тому +4

      @@artsilk2944 i see americans who struggle so much and they think they should because they don't know anything else. They deal with not being able to go to the doctor, having managers who take advantage of them and gets away with it, being homeless, poverty, being in a lot of debt, having to be scared of their child getting shot or kidnapped etc.

    • @oswaldrabbit1409
      @oswaldrabbit1409 3 роки тому

      Yeah, then head on back to your welfare states, with oppressive tax levels that discourage business growth.
      We are fine with you being here, but we don't care about the opinions of someone who left their supposedly better country to come here.

    • @Riptor1998
      @Riptor1998 3 роки тому

      My country is so good that I moved out of it and won’t go back, bruh

  • @legacyhome1780
    @legacyhome1780 3 роки тому +541

    We lived in Germany for four-years and I will never forget when returning to the states in 2003, it was a complete culture shock. It was terrifying. Bright lights, 24-hour television, constantly on the run... In Germany, pretty much everything shut down on the weekends at 1:00 pm in the small town where we lived. Kids would play outside without being yelled at; we would walk or ride our bikes to the grocery store with a basket; and we would interact with friends every single day. Here, everyone is always so busy doing absolutely nothing, we've become disconnected as a society.

    • @KikiMeowKitty
      @KikiMeowKitty 3 роки тому +59

      “Busy doing absolutely nothing” so true

    • @zarasipagan
      @zarasipagan 3 роки тому +7

      This is so true and sad

    • @kavami11jams30
      @kavami11jams30 3 роки тому +3

      I absolutely agree!

    • @Irishjay-gu5pb
      @Irishjay-gu5pb 3 роки тому +18

      Omg yes, "we've become busy doing absolutely NOTHING!!!" That sums it up perfectly!!!! I'm really happy that more and more people are waking up to this!!! It's awful when I think about how much time I've wasted on trivial bs!!! Now I go outside and just putz in my garden, try to not plan my son's life every second! Just to have to "plan" time to do nothing says it all.

    • @legacyhome1780
      @legacyhome1780 3 роки тому +1

      @@Irishjay-gu5pb Absolutely...sometimes we have to just take a moment and...breathe 😌

  • @jinkazama9017
    @jinkazama9017 2 роки тому +6

    Been living in Eastern Europe some time now. I remember when I went to the ER back in the US for when I split my finger. They charged me 400 dollars just to wait, and 700 more for putting fucking iodine on my open wound..
    Where I am now in Eastern Europe, I had something similar happen again. 12 euros to be seen (immediately), and then 7 euros for antibiotics..

  • @abqannie5052
    @abqannie5052 3 роки тому +184

    I took a friend to a health clinic in Canada. When she was done I was confused, and asked the nurse where we were supposed to pay. Everyone looked at me like I was crazy. “Why would she pay?” The nurse finally said.

    • @a.m.9993
      @a.m.9993 3 роки тому +18

      Well that really does a number on your mind.

    • @starburst9053
      @starburst9053 3 роки тому +17

      My grandpa got a pacemaker for his heart and lived and extra 20 or so years, and wasn't in debt for the rest of his life. It was free 🤯

    • @liagamer4265
      @liagamer4265 3 роки тому +8

      ITS ACTUALLY FREE?!

    • @user-il4ec9iq9m
      @user-il4ec9iq9m 3 роки тому +6

      @@liagamer4265 Yup. I've been to the hospital and emergency room a few times (overnight and multiple day stays) as well as to walk-in clinics numerous times. Zero charges.

    • @aliciabyul9550
      @aliciabyul9550 3 роки тому +1

      You pay to go to a clinic?

  • @sophiafried_
    @sophiafried_ 3 роки тому +1105

    almost all of these are about europe so id just like to add we have free universal healthcare in Brazil and free universities as well. both are being threatened by our trump supporting president

    • @kuroshiro6188
      @kuroshiro6188 3 роки тому +1

      Quando são as eleicoes no brasil?

    • @maggieb2661
      @maggieb2661 3 роки тому +1

      @@kuroshiro6188 para presidente só em 2022, mas o presidente atual ainda pode ter um segundo mandato, infelizmente

    • @mercurious5053
      @mercurious5053 3 роки тому +42

      Don't fold. Feal sorry for you guys cos that Bolsonaro guy is crazy, like litteraly mad, he has to go. Turning your beautiful country to a savanna, pissing on regular people.

    • @velvetstorm4563
      @velvetstorm4563 3 роки тому +13

      Get that bird out of office!

    • @mottedreissig7874
      @mottedreissig7874 3 роки тому +13

      I am begging you, please get rid of this psychocriminal Bolsanaro.

  • @kimberlyh.1090
    @kimberlyh.1090 3 роки тому +1123

    Culturally engrained PTSD on a societal level.

    • @m1ssk1k0
      @m1ssk1k0 3 роки тому +16

      shit dude…you ain’t wrong but, you didn’t have to say it lol

    • @kimberlyh.1090
      @kimberlyh.1090 3 роки тому +13

      @@m1ssk1k0 I kinda did though.

  • @genv9404
    @genv9404 2 роки тому +8

    The story with the woman living in Portugal and the light up shoes broke my heart

  • @bloodsord9
    @bloodsord9 3 роки тому +680

    I fly to Europe for medical stuff. I get the highest quality care and all the trip expenses including living and fun is a fraction of a cost of just the medical bill in US

    • @Ryosuke1208
      @Ryosuke1208 3 роки тому +26

      @@marypalmer00 Yeah well, maybe if the US had a culture of prevention, and did more exercise and stopped eating junk food they would have a higher chance of preventing a stroke.

    • @jamestaylor3805
      @jamestaylor3805 3 роки тому +20

      Most of us wish we could afford the flight...

    • @UnicornsPoopRainbows
      @UnicornsPoopRainbows 3 роки тому +33

      @@Ryosuke1208 It would be amazing if the working poor could afford healthy food. I’ve had $10 to last the weekend for food since my employer missed pay day. I lived on cereal that weekend. Later, when I could afford to eat healthier, my grocery budget doubled just from replacing junk food with fruits, veggies, and meat.

    • @its_just_seb
      @its_just_seb 3 роки тому +39

      @@UnicornsPoopRainbows Honestly this is crazy to me. Where I live junk food and ready made meals are really expensive, but raw ingredients are cheaper. There's so much backwards in the US, it's sad

    • @bookwormgirl1852
      @bookwormgirl1852 3 роки тому +19

      In Ireland, we have medical cards. If you have one, pretty much everything essential is covered. When I broke my arm, everything was free. Doctor visits, completely free, medicine and prescriptions, either free or don't cost more than €4. I'd never move out of Europe

  • @hellofellowhumans549
    @hellofellowhumans549 3 роки тому +836

    As a third world country citizen I genuinely feel sorry for americans for having to think about somebody SHOOTING their kid to buy clothes and for having to think about the ambulance bill before their health

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +8

      My american friends don't think about school shootings because they didn't get shot

    • @urbutholstinks2304
      @urbutholstinks2304 3 роки тому +38

      @@estelaangeles2346 its so obvious you are an American, if you're gonna act like you're not an American and your American friends are happy with this US atleast make it sound believable

    • @sarcasm8007
      @sarcasm8007 3 роки тому +26

      My brother used to get bullied because he had enough money for nice shoes, he would try not to wear them to school and my mom refused explaining how she worked hard for those shoes for him, and don't let anyone not let you wear them.
      I remember one time when I was younger, the school counselor took me for a walk and gave me the optional school uniform and said "I think you should start wearing this because we don't want other kids to feel bad that someone has nicer clothes." Obviously I was younger but I still stood up for myself as that confused me, why would I? I said "But these are my clothes, why would anyone feel bad because I have nice clothes?" The fact that they tried to strip away a child's self worth and individuality still confuses me.. If someone worked hard to get their children what they have, they should never be ashamed to wear it.
      I know this is a bit off topic from school shootings and clothes but it's still about school clothes and honestly it was super weird.

    • @bigboymooz
      @bigboymooz 3 роки тому +10

      lol when I was in hs we had a shooting threat and my mom said she didnt care and was gonna send me to school anyway. a bunch of ppl were planning how to ditch before school started so we wouldn't die. we were told over the intercom that the suspect was arrested but in an alternate universe I'd be dead

    • @stevemasterson7776
      @stevemasterson7776 3 роки тому

      Lol those people are just being paranoid about it... rural America doesn't have those problems

  • @packleader1215
    @packleader1215 3 роки тому +3221

    "It's called the American dream, but you have to be asleep to believe it." - Carlin

  • @checksyllabus4062
    @checksyllabus4062 3 роки тому +55

    People don’t talk enough about how weird the pledge of allegiance is

    • @theksheedz6185
      @theksheedz6185 2 роки тому

      Cult mentality

    • @MajinxDrolta
      @MajinxDrolta 2 роки тому +2

      I remember my senior year 2017-2018 a lot of other kids and myself decided to protest the injustice against black people yada yada so we decided not to stand or recite the pledge. The teacher we had for that period tried to tell us it was illegal

    • @ines1084
      @ines1084 Рік тому

      @@MajinxDrolta "hey siri, how long would I be in jail for if I refuse to be forced to swear my loyalty to country with one of highest numbers of anti black and racist attacks?" (I'm European but this srsly screams cult mentality to me, or noble and slaves situation where politicians are nobles and slaves are being gro0med into thinking they are free.)

    • @andreasanchez1453
      @andreasanchez1453 Рік тому

      @@MajinxDrolta If that’s the case then every kid in my religion would be in jail. In my religion we don’t do flag worship/ pledge allegiance to the flag .

    • @ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13
      @ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13 7 місяців тому +1

      Yeah that cultish you'd expect that from a COMMUNIST COUNTRY like RUSSIA and CHINA or 1940's GERMANY not AMERICA

  • @MissJellybean
    @MissJellybean 3 роки тому +2822

    “The reason they call it the American dream is because you have to be asleep to believe it.” -George Carlin

    • @SunkissedMalice
      @SunkissedMalice 3 роки тому +12

      I just commented the same thing.
      ✌😘

    • @mics1694
      @mics1694 3 роки тому +7

      Nah you just have to work hard for it.

    • @mics1694
      @mics1694 3 роки тому +5

      @@bearwhiteraven4820 Living the dream right now and I am no one's slave. Wish you the best in your endeavors.

    • @aishulko6169
      @aishulko6169 3 роки тому +40

      @@mics1694 for the most people it is. Not an American but it’s far harder to succeed and live the so called “American dream”. Just because you’re apparently in that stage doesn’t take away that fact that there are people suffering and are not as privileged. Instead of denying the facts how about doing something to create change. Don’t be so ignorant.

    • @mics1694
      @mics1694 3 роки тому +2

      @@aishulko6169Sorry but that is a poor argument. It's like saying I am fat and it is impossible for me to lose weight. Just because you lost weight doesn't mean everyone can.
      With that logic you set yourself up to fail before you even attempt to succeed.

  • @jupep8772
    @jupep8772 3 роки тому +824

    wait, Im confused. Im in a developing country and my family status is between poor and middle-class(according to my country's statistics), 4 kids in the house, never had school debt or never worried about heath finances. What's happening to US?

    • @potatowarrior747
      @potatowarrior747 3 роки тому +8

      Where you from? Cuz..😯

    • @farout4708
      @farout4708 3 роки тому +41

      Maybe America is an undeveloping country lol. Mainly Americans think America is great, a few other people around the world believe that lie

    • @bonappetit7522
      @bonappetit7522 3 роки тому +8

      Capitalism in essential things

    • @vengefulkiwi20
      @vengefulkiwi20 3 роки тому +54

      @@farout4708 undeveloping country is honestly the best term I’ve heard to describe the US

    • @lukelyon1781
      @lukelyon1781 3 роки тому +13

      Fascist Corporate Oligarchy

  • @Yourlocaltrashgoblin
    @Yourlocaltrashgoblin 3 роки тому +821

    I started crying watching this, I’m lower class American in a really expensive city, I’m severely ill and the thought that healthcare could be free or I could get an ambulance without worrying about my mom going into debt
    Edit: because everyone is saying “move” no I can’t I’m a minor I do not get a say in that

    • @InesUOI
      @InesUOI 3 роки тому +57

      I wish you all the best! Praying for you 🙏🏽

    • @LadyPinkster
      @LadyPinkster 3 роки тому +21

      Yep and the crazy part is that we used to have something like that here in the US until Nixon took it away

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 3 роки тому +10

      @@LadyPinkster Nixon gave us a small taste of socialized healthcare. Because of Nixon, anyone who needs dialysis can get it for free. Idk what you are talking about...

    • @Yourlocaltrashgoblin
      @Yourlocaltrashgoblin 3 роки тому +3

      @jhon.maycor j huh I’m confused

    • @reuberndoesthingsthathemig1025
      @reuberndoesthingsthathemig1025 3 роки тому +3

      Well migrate to the United Kingdom

  • @coricruise2894
    @coricruise2894 3 роки тому +39

    Imagine not being stressed about medical bills. That's my largest bill after rent and it's not much less.

    • @theksheedz6185
      @theksheedz6185 2 роки тому +1

      Rent in many states around going up by $300 recently due to inflation and all the mess going on

    • @LMB222
      @LMB222 2 роки тому +1

      I'm pissed off with my medical costs in Germany, but never worried.

  • @wwkcd7657
    @wwkcd7657 3 роки тому +1383

    It's crazy as Americans how much of our behavoir is survival mode. Can't go to the doctor or else I wont make rent, can't go to the mall or buy my kid fun shoes incase theres a shooter.

    • @bpavilion8994
      @bpavilion8994 3 роки тому +11

      FRFR!!!

    • @paulinebeal5808
      @paulinebeal5808 3 роки тому +51

      That women who mentioned the not buying her kid light up sneakers because of school shootings broken my heart. I don’t know how my friends are ok in the states.

    • @johnstevens9803
      @johnstevens9803 3 роки тому +8

      The people believe the news channels far too much..
      most shooters are either fake or hired actors (fake) lol

    • @donnycooke56
      @donnycooke56 3 роки тому +5

      OMG. Shut the fuck up. Stay where you are at. Less of you little whimps the better.

    • @bobby0081
      @bobby0081 3 роки тому +5

      Go study to be a doctor and then give away your services for free or STFU and quit your bitching.

  • @brendacastro9069
    @brendacastro9069 3 роки тому +819

    Im horrified about the fact that shootings are so common that a mother has to buy clothes based on someone starting to shoot children. And the thought of thinking first about the cost of an ambulance instead of your health...its just sad.

    • @allisonroggen7773
      @allisonroggen7773 3 роки тому +27

      I’m starting my senior year in high school. Over the course of my schooling, I’ve had more lockdowns(soft and hard) than I can count and a few shooting threats. During some of them the teachers would just continue teaching but quietly. We have quarterly drills for various scenarios like fires, shooters, and bomb threats. My school has a locked gate around it. Multiple school shootings have occurred recently in my state. I go to what is considered a good school. This is all considered normal. I didn’t even realize until recently that other countries don’t have this. And people still want their guns. Even people I’m friends with who are aware of it being abnormal just kind of shrug it off because what can we do when half of the population would die to keep a gun on them.

    • @sugakookies8063
      @sugakookies8063 3 роки тому

      @@allisonroggen7773 honestly tho. I’m so glad my youngest sister just graduated high school since I don’t have to worry about that anymore (but then there’s still college, unfortunately😕). And I can relate to the teachers still teaching - my class was literally watching a movie during lockdown, while one of my sisters had to keep playing her trumpet with everyone else in the band room😑

    • @brendacastro9069
      @brendacastro9069 3 роки тому +1

      @@allisonroggen7773 OMG that sounds horrible, my heart goes to you the only thing I experienced was a "bomb thread" in my country kids will pull this prank to get away from school and even then it isn't that traumatic event, even then it's very uncommon that this happens.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому

      @@allisonroggen7773 russia has school shootings

    • @lisaa4446
      @lisaa4446 3 роки тому +2

      We have 5 year olds do school shooting drills
      Never questioned it until I realised......

  • @vanilla6326
    @vanilla6326 3 роки тому +251

    My mom moved to NZ when she was 30 and the first thing she remembered being floored by was her dad having a heart attack and her boss and coworkers being worried for her and asking if she needed the day off

    • @BeeGee1004
      @BeeGee1004 3 роки тому +3

      Hello from NZ!! 👋

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 3 роки тому +3

      Is he doing fine now?

    • @yeti6601
      @yeti6601 3 роки тому +1

      is he okay?

    • @E.S.K.
      @E.S.K. 3 роки тому +8

      ...and that's not normal in the USA? Sad :(
      My mother's friend from work asks her every now and then about my rabbit's health, and that's normal!
      When I was a teenage girl I thought that USA is the best place to live but now...not so much. Poland isn't perfect but is better than that...

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 3 роки тому +4

      @@E.S.K. Poland is indeed miles oh wait I meant kilometers ahead of the US!

  • @sukiBambina
    @sukiBambina 3 роки тому +11

    Wow wasn’t expecting all that. Kinda made me emotional. I’m Canadian and it’s not perfect but still grateful for the health care and maternity leave.

  • @-----REDACTED-----
    @-----REDACTED----- 3 роки тому +213

    Holy shit…in Europe it’s often even illegal to not help when witnessing an emergency (as in at the very least contact emergency services)

    • @Unknown-qb3xf
      @Unknown-qb3xf 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah civil courage.

    • @Katiee0592
      @Katiee0592 3 роки тому +6

      As it should be.

    • @ricardon8869
      @ricardon8869 3 роки тому +4

      America could neverrrr

    • @lo4568
      @lo4568 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly, if you don't help, you can get in trouble.

    • @williamking6787
      @williamking6787 3 роки тому +3

      You can't get sued for helping someone who was drowning or through CPR or whatever there are laws protecting you if you're helping, it's not illegal to not help somebody because there wouldn't be a way to enforce that but you are protected if you do help somebody no matter what you were doing (unless you were the cause of their problems) so for example if you and a friend are doing drugs and they overdose you won't get in trouble for calling 911 even though you were technically committing a crime because you were calling to help your friend

  • @firstbornunicorn6619
    @firstbornunicorn6619 3 роки тому +662

    "No one here is going to sue you for trying to save their life." Bruh if a burglar falls through your roof they can sue you for having a faulty roof. I remember the skater dudes at my community college being harassed about skating in the school parking lot. It was a tiny college, the parking lot was mostly empty and they really just wanted to glide around. One of the admins came out and said something like "y'all can't be skating out here. The second you fall and hurt yourself you're going to try to sue the school!" And they were so taken aback. Those dudes wear their injuries with pride. They hadn't even thought of that lol

    • @AllWIllFall2Me
      @AllWIllFall2Me 3 роки тому +68

      There's two components going into this that help explain the difference:
      1. In the UK, it's the norm that whoever loses a lawsuit has to pay BOTH parties' legal fees. This means that frivolous lawsuits are much harder to pull off there: in the US, you can cheat the system by suing someone in the hopes that they will pay you off rather than face the cost of winning the case.
      2. In many places in the US, our healthcare system actually makes this worse. The burglar who falls through your roof now has a 10k medical bill, and is about to go to jail, so he's got no way to pay it. So what does he do? He sues you, in the hopes he can get something. OR even worse, sometimes insurance refuses to cover medical bills without a legal finding/lawsuit. There was a famous case of an aunt who sued her nephew for hugging her too hard: the kid knocked her over, and she broke her wrist, so she sued the nephew...because her sister's home-owner's insurance refused to cover the medical bills without a legal finding of culpability. the COMPANY forced her to sue her nephew if she wanted her medical bills paid.
      Since the UK fixed both of these, they don't have the same mania for suing people.

    • @folkloreevermore2797
      @folkloreevermore2797 3 роки тому +7

      Wait what??? Is this burglar thing really happening or just an example??

    • @AllWIllFall2Me
      @AllWIllFall2Me 3 роки тому +22

      @@folkloreevermore2797 I wasn't referencing a specific case, but it's the kind of story you'll eventually hear about happening on the news as an American.
      A quick google search showed me it's happened at least once, and been referenced numerous times, though the circumstances are at least somewhat more complicated than the stories present them as (another common American legal discussion trick: reduce any lawsuit you don't like the outcome of to its most ridiculous framing).
      See, often times in American courts, you can find where the court essentially uses a lawsuit like this as a way to impose a fine on an entity for violating civil standards. Like, the whole "woman gets millions for suing McDonald's because she burned herself with their coffee" story is actually about how it was discovered McDonald's KNEW their coffee was burning dozens of people a year, and just felt it was cheaper to pay them off than serve slightly cooler coffee, so the court fined them 2 days of coffee sales for refusing to help this woman.
      Similarly, the "burglar falls through roof, sues owner" story is based on a teenager back in the 80's who was stealing some lights from a high school gym, and fell through a skylight: it turns out the district had installed the skylights, and then found them to be leaky nuisances, but rather than remove them, they'd just painted over them. This had quickly been shown to be dangerous, as kids sometimes would sneak up onto the roof: Another teen had, just the year before, died by falling through one of the skylights at another school in the district. So the teen fell through, and sustained brain damage severe enough to render him a mute quadriplegic , and his family, desperate to find a way to provide for him, sued the school, noting that, given the accident of the year before, the school should have done something to make the skylights safer. The court agreed, and boom, "Burglar falls through roof, sues owner"

    • @folkloreevermore2797
      @folkloreevermore2797 3 роки тому +5

      @@AllWIllFall2Me oh i see. This is more complicated 🤔

    • @_lil_lil
      @_lil_lil 3 роки тому +4

      They're afraid one of then will take off his cap and reveal a Karen haircut or some shit.

  • @rebeccamadsen4509
    @rebeccamadsen4509 3 роки тому +1713

    Woman: I got into student debts in america and here in Ireland I don't pay even close to that amount.
    *Me laughing in swedish cause I get paid to go to school*

    • @kati192
      @kati192 3 роки тому +103

      Wait what? Why do ya'll get paid and how much? 😅

    • @jaminwaite3867
      @jaminwaite3867 3 роки тому +103

      Stares in $50k student debt 😐

    • @hah-no.
      @hah-no. 3 роки тому +93

      Excuse me,
      *…What.*

    • @rebeccamadsen4509
      @rebeccamadsen4509 3 роки тому +115

      Well you can take a student loan and you will obviously have to pay it back but the interest rate is like really low so it's not too bad.
      But if you for example live at home you can simply get a student allowance from the state and it's around 345-400 us dollars if I'm converted it correctly (it's a bit more than 3000 swedish krona). It's not enough if you need some place to live but as I said, if you live at home and don't need to pay rent and stuff it could be enough, and you don't need to pay it back.
      Also we don't have a tuition fee or anything like that either, it's all free, paid by taxes. We do have to pay for books which can be expensive but you can buy used books that are cheaper and many just skip the books completely, often you don't need them. 😅👍🏼
      Oh and why we get the allowance I simply think it's cause the government want people to get higher education.
      People who have kids get a contribution, sum of money for each kid per month (it's like 1800 sek or something). When the kid get's older and goes to high school it's the same sum but we change the name calling it student allowance and when you're at university you can apply for student allowance which is a bit more than 3000 sek as mentioned before.
      Student loans are encouraged in Sweden, if there is one loan you should take it's this one cause the interest rate is so low to avoid students getting into student debt.

    • @teodora5377
      @teodora5377 3 роки тому +125

      Here in Serbia (which most of Americans think as a 3rd world country) college is free if you have mediocre and above grades, which most ppl get anyway. And if your grades are high, you even get a stipend (not high but it will cover monthly food expenses for example). If your grades are bad and you have to pay for it, an average cost will be around 800 euros per year, that you will pay in 3 or 4 parts usually. I've literally never ever heard of college debt before learning about the American system.

  • @LivingItUp810
    @LivingItUp810 2 роки тому +1

    I live with PTSD and a physical disability. My doctor made a huge error and changed my medications (extremely powerful medications). It threw me into a terrible mental where I was having panic attacks every day and horrible nightmares every night, for an entire month. I was calling a local suicide hotline who asked me if I had any family and to please call them as well. I started calling my uncle and younger sister whom I was closest to. Although I have always tried to keep my medical business mostly to myself, this time I followed the hotline’s advice and put myself out there. For a while my uncle and sister seemed to try to be there to listen but eventually they started to become impatient. They started telling to call the hotline instead of them and that they only wanted to hear positive things from me. The hotline service then questioned me about why I wasn’t calling my family more often and I told them that they clearly told me not to and to call them instead. The person on the phone paused for a moment and then said “okay…fine”. I felt stupid and cast aside with nowhere to turn to. One day I woke up from another nightmare especially panicked and horrified, I felt it was an emergency so I called my sister. I tried to stay calm but I began to sob again. She exploded into a screaming rage, calling me a Narcissist that was bothering her just to get attention. The next I called my uncle about something unrelated to my health situation. He brought that my sister called him the day before and immediately said “What did you expect?”. Even after I tried to explain that I was dealing with a dire situation that involved the influence of powerful drugs coupled with a mental and physical disability, he still held onto the notion that I got what I deserved. I couldn’t talk to them after that.
    Over the next six months without the medication I needed, my body exploded into a state of constant pain so severe I had to eventually take opioids. Before I was given access to a pain specialist I was constantly in the emergency room for level 10 pain so severe it made walking almost impossible. With no one to take me to the ER I had to call an ambulance every time. Eventually they kept asking me every time I called if whether or not I had family to take me instead of them. As a survivor of family domestic violence, I did not. When I would say no they would then begrudgingly oblige to transport me. I’ve also been kicked out of an ER with level 10 pain. After waiting five hours in the waiting room curled up on a metal chair quietly sobbing in agony the doctor told me he wouldn’t treat me. I had a panic attack and started sobbing uncontrollably, they called a security guard to escort me out.
    I’m moving to Germany to finish my education, I don’t think I’ll be coming back.

  • @Claire-zu5jx
    @Claire-zu5jx 3 роки тому +63

    I'm crying so much, this sounds like paradise. I broke my arm when I was ten and I convinced the people around me, and then my dad, not to call an ambulance because I was so worried about the cost of it. My current high school gets a shooting or bomb threat at least once a year. During active shooter drills (and threats) I've always tried to take the front spot so that if a shooter came in, I'd get shot first instead of my friends. Whenever I think about going to college, I'm worried that I'll become homeless because of all the student debt. This made me realize that moving to another country is something that I'd actually want to do. Thank you.

    • @nekochadechu
      @nekochadechu 3 роки тому +3

      And knowing english comes handy if you move haha

    • @mellobii
      @mellobii 3 роки тому +4

      I plan on moving to the UK at 19-21 exactly for these reasons. In middle school, some dumbass made a bomb threat after a big shooting that happened at another school bc they wanted to look "hardcore" or smthg. A lot of kids used that to stay home that day, including me and my sister 😭- Also, last year in 9th grade, the principal stormed into my classroom because a kid was joking that he had guns in his backpack, and someone overheard and told him I believe. He had to get searched by an officer right after. AND FINALLY, the medical bills here are absolutely ridiculous. My grandpa, who has Alzheimers and is non-verbal and cannot even walk without assistance, was billed around $500 for an ambulance ride to a normal check-up that he had to go to.
      I can't fucking wait to get out of here

    • @zandila
      @zandila 3 роки тому +2

      It's a big, beautiful world! In the US there is so much crazy propaganda saying everywhere but there is dangerous and dirty. Not. True. Travel! It's by far the best thing you can do for your heart and your mind.

    • @nightmare3691
      @nightmare3691 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah when I finally graduate highschool I’m getting the hell out of America. Yeah I would miss some of the nasty food and some comfort places where I live but I’ll of course find different comfort places in the country I’m going to. I’m thinking of going to college in Japan! Not really sure what I’ll do afterwards but I just cannot live in America any longer 😬

  • @schwarzerregen9338
    @schwarzerregen9338 3 роки тому +862

    US healthcare worries -"Will this cost me $5000 or $50,000"
    UK healthcare worries "Damn I hope the hospital has wifi"

    • @johnnyc.1878
      @johnnyc.1878 3 роки тому +16

      Germany aswell.. :'D

    • @labaccident2010
      @labaccident2010 3 роки тому +13

      Me: broken foot for six years: “i cant drop forty thousand on an “elective” surgery so i can actually walk and be out of work for several months”
      My boss: WHy dOnt yOu GEt It FiXed

    • @dannytonnessen6896
      @dannytonnessen6896 3 роки тому +8

      British healthcare is DOG SHIT. I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ ANYONE who has been healed of anything more than a broken bone or a flu. I WATCHED midwives spend the night sat on their fat arses stuffing their faces with tea and cake while THEY LEFT A NEW BORN BABY TO DIE ALONE IN A COLD DARK ROOM! I know women who were DEAD at 22! Because the nhs fncked up their CAESAREAN! We don’t have healthcare. We have HIGH TAXES. But I’m soo glad so many Americans get to enjoy a few nice freebies from a system they haven’t paid a penny to and enjoy exploiting a system that can’t even afford the people who HAVE PAID IN FOR >GENERATIONS!< I would rather PAY for my healthcare than BEG FOR IT! Do you know you have to APPLY for the FUNDING for any treatment above a flu/broken bones...? A 20 year old mother has to BEG for M.S treatment then gets denied 🙅‍♀️ because every fncker who visits jumps the damn queue. Women flying in IN LABOUR. Yea I CAN’T WAIT TILL THE NHS COLLAPSES! The ONLY people getting ANY advantages are FOREIGNERS who NEVER EVEN PAY IN! Why the fnck does EVERYONE TRAVEL TO AMERICA FOR ANY SPECIALIST CARE...? YOU IDIOTS CAN’T EVEN SEE WHAT YOU’VE GOT!
      ALSO THANKS TO OUR LAWS PREVENTING US DEFENDING OURSELVES LOOK AT THE RAPE RATES! Almost ALLLLL the women I know have been raped... Even if you have a knife near you during the rape and you USE IT... Well... YOU’RE THE ONE GETTING CHARGED! We CAN’T even defend ourselves if OUR HOMES ARE BROKEN INTO! And our police don’t even prosecute cases on VIDEO because they’re too busy policing TWATTER! 🤦‍♀️🤯🙅‍♀️ Yea they DON’T need guns to police speech on the internet! It’s not like they’re policing REAL crime and facing violent criminals. The police told my partner just this Saturday that even though he was on THEIR CCTV cameras being attacked by guy’s with KNIVES they PURPOSELY didn’t turn up till AFTER MY PARTNER DEALT WITH THEM BECAUSE THEY DIDN’T WANT TO RISK THEIR SAFETY! ALLLLL WHILE ADMITTING THAT IF HE HAD HAD TO USE FORCE... THEY WOULD HAVE ARRESTED HIM! AND NOT THE SCUMBAGS WITH THE KNIVES! 🤦‍♀️🤯🤷‍♀️ Our leaders are traitors and OUR country’s being DESTROYED.

    • @mikewade777
      @mikewade777 3 роки тому +17

      @@dannytonnessen6896 you know you can go private and... pay for it don't you!
      Also no the NHS is just fine.

    • @pigs18
      @pigs18 3 роки тому

      There is zero reason either that they can't tell you the out of pocket cost than the insurance companies don't want to. If I need dental work done they can tell me right then and there what my insurance will cover. But an EKG to determine that it's not a minor heart attack? Who knows? Might be a hundred bucks or you might lose your house.

  • @megmon6197
    @megmon6197 3 роки тому +269

    Damn...we are all so brainwashed here in America. I believed for longer than I would like to admit, that we were the best country to live in. Now as an adult, I'm definitely rethinking things....

    • @missmillennial1242
      @missmillennial1242 3 роки тому +8

      Oh I have said multiple times that I am considering moving to a different country.

    • @obsidianbeau4087
      @obsidianbeau4087 3 роки тому +7

      Seriously, I wish I could move to Nigeria or something. Because America is proving everyday that it is not worth existing.😑

    • @jhart1127
      @jhart1127 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah, no shit! I live in the UK and yes the NHS can be insane but it's saved my life when I needed a blood transfusion and my son when he had to go the NICU. We walked out the hospital not spending a penny.

    • @danidejaneiro8378
      @danidejaneiro8378 3 роки тому +2

      @@obsidianbeau4087 - you sound Nigerian

    • @kORIY__
      @kORIY__ 2 роки тому +1

      Not to be rude but Why don't u just leave?

  • @tubetaz
    @tubetaz 2 роки тому +1

    Monica, I need more of these MESSED ME UP videos...

  • @KostantisX
    @KostantisX 3 роки тому +173

    I lived in the US for 3 years. I've met so many good-hearted, genuinely nice people. I say they deserve better

    • @smallandstressed2364
      @smallandstressed2364 3 роки тому +6

      Why did you decide to move here?? It’s a horrible place that I can’t wait to get out of.

    • @hermeslein6614
      @hermeslein6614 3 роки тому +3

      @@smallandstressed2364 CAN WE SWITCH I CAN APPRECIATE AMERICA I WANT TO MOVE IN AMERICA NOT IN NEW YORK OR CCALIFORNIA BUT SOME OTHER STATES

    • @sofiah.5820
      @sofiah.5820 3 роки тому +2

      @@hermeslein6614 please don't come to Texas almost every texan you meet will tell you "well I'm glad you came to texas its the best in the world" it's annoying, and I lived here my whole life. I hate it when I gesr adults say that it's the best place to be

    • @hermeslein6614
      @hermeslein6614 3 роки тому

      @@sofiah.5820 then we should switch places I will America and appreciate it all the time

    • @sofiah.5820
      @sofiah.5820 3 роки тому +1

      @@hermeslein6614 yeah actually that seems like a good idea. Bye America, bye not free healthcare, bye getting yelled at for not standing for the pledge of allegiance, bye!

  • @imabitgae1575
    @imabitgae1575 3 роки тому +97

    I just started this video and I was listening to her story and she said, “that shooting in vegas” and I thought, ‘which one’. Thats so fucked up.

  • @justynamaria0333
    @justynamaria0333 3 роки тому +256

    “I was struggling for a dream that never even existed” that’s eye opening.

  • @FLEABONE
    @FLEABONE 3 роки тому +34

    Here's how gun culture screwed me up. This happened this week. I saw a guy walking down the road with a HUGE hand gun on his hip. I live in Idaho now, open carry is legal and common. The guy made me feel dread, his expression really crreeped me out. I was with a friend who is pro gun, she consealed carries herself. I had an internal argument, chastised myself, deciding my bad feelings were my gun prejudice. I didn't call the police. I filmed him for 2 seconds. My friend and I debating racism and gun ownership as we carried on down the road. 30 mins later the same man went into Boise Towne Square Mall and opened fire. What if I had called the police based on my intuitive, gut feelings instead of dismissing it? 3 people might be alive today.

    • @Panda-24
      @Panda-24 2 роки тому +2

      That is insane.🤯

    • @Rose-jz6sx
      @Rose-jz6sx 2 роки тому +8

      You can't blame yourself. You don't know that the police would have taken you seriously for one thing.

    • @nmgr30
      @nmgr30 2 роки тому +4

      I call, even if it turns out to be nothing, you never know. It is sad using this second ammendment that goes back to ancient times! Even Constitutions may be revised!

    • @oliviafernandes9195
      @oliviafernandes9195 2 роки тому +2

      Don't blame yourself, even if you called the cops they might have not done anything

    • @boomwizardyt7228
      @boomwizardyt7228 2 роки тому

      Please no that’s really bad survivors guilt is not a good thing

  • @tadomifu
    @tadomifu 3 роки тому +608

    The mum with the light up shoes broke my heart. Not being able to get them so her child isn't more of a target to get shot whilst at school is insane. Jesus, that seriously broke my heart.

    • @christopherland2846
      @christopherland2846 3 роки тому +8

      That's on her false fear most of these people have no idea what the real problem is, and neither do I.

    • @carolynt8864
      @carolynt8864 3 роки тому +14

      I think that is how she internalized it. I am about 2 hours from Chicago and I know quite a lot of kids with the light up shoes when i worked in a preschool.

    • @thisisaname4409
      @thisisaname4409 3 роки тому +6

      I was checking the comments to see if anyone else heard this one.. I never have and my boys have light up shoes currently

    • @carolynt8864
      @carolynt8864 3 роки тому +5

      @@thisisaname4409 I never have and was raised in the States.

    • @jesusismyking4345
      @jesusismyking4345 3 роки тому +4

      I don’t even understand her mind to be able to have that in there to turn down a child for a pair of SHOES 😭😭😭🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴🥴

  • @vicmarc4984
    @vicmarc4984 3 роки тому +761

    Things are SOOO broken in the U.S., and selfishness and GREED has destroyed all what made America charitable and good.

    • @deviantmoore9744
      @deviantmoore9744 3 роки тому +81

      When was America ever charitable and good?

    • @Nothingatall1984
      @Nothingatall1984 3 роки тому +46

      @@deviantmoore9744 right….. this place is crazy and ass backwards

    • @Ominiumshadow24
      @Ominiumshadow24 3 роки тому +11

      Baby Boomers made it worse.

    • @elinfelicia382
      @elinfelicia382 3 роки тому +29

      Americans are quick to agree that America is terrible but when we actually state what’s horrible about it there’s so many that starts aggressively defending it.

    • @agrapeeeee
      @agrapeeeee 3 роки тому +4

      @@Nothingatall1984 then leave lol

  • @anyaoblon7720
    @anyaoblon7720 3 роки тому +306

    It's really messed up, america lies so much to us in school. No we aren't the worst in education. Yet we are not the best. Many things are messed up with america. No not the worst place in the world. Yet again we are not the best. It's getting harder to survive. To be comfortable seems crazy to many of us now

    • @thetiredworm2100
      @thetiredworm2100 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому +3

      @@thetiredworm2100 a north korean and two cubans said USA is great but the young Americans need to fix USA because young Americans are lazy also china and india will start the apocalypse so thats why people should boycott china and india

    • @eunoia991
      @eunoia991 3 роки тому +1

      @@estelaangeles2346 haha what? girl you make me laugh

    • @eunoia991
      @eunoia991 3 роки тому +2

      @@estelaangeles2346 spreading wrong information, only to defend USA in others’ comment box is highly inappropriate. Mostly because of your acquired distasteful false reports, without any considerable and proven facts and to justify the whole of USA in terms of its dependability on their indolent (as you mentioned) youths.

    • @cilokmozzarella2049
      @cilokmozzarella2049 3 роки тому +4

      @@estelaangeles2346 why are you like literally everywhere in the reply section repeating "china and india blablabla"?

  • @victinim2512
    @victinim2512 2 роки тому +4

    From Chile here: I do see how we have certain disadvantages compared to the states as an underdeveloped country (even if it's not that much) but I really appreciate as a college student, Uber delivery that if I crash on my motorcycle, working or not, I'm not gonna have to pay more than my tuition to get transported to a medical facility and, you know, not die.

  • @k1dn3mesis50
    @k1dn3mesis50 3 роки тому +168

    Even as an American, listening to some of these stories, like the mom talking about telling her son ‘no’ when he asked for light up sneakers… Absolutely surreal and heartbreaking. This is definitely not normal.

    • @anadavidovic9748
      @anadavidovic9748 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah, I got my light up Twinkle Toes when I was little but my mom heard about a lot of school shootings afterward, so we had a long talk about how if there is ever a shooting for me to play dead and never open my eyes until the police get there (mind you I was in kindergarten). It’s sad but I’ve been raised like that

    • @samfisher4247
      @samfisher4247 3 роки тому +3

      Know what's funny? If politicians would not make it harder and more expansive to be a gun owner then criminals (who largely get guns via theft) who don't obey thease damn laws anyway would think twice bout this type of shit. Maniac's don't want to die they want a body count. Why do you think 95% of mass shooters surrender to police after they murdered people

  • @Skepticalraven
    @Skepticalraven 3 роки тому +1259

    Man even as a Canadian, most of these stories are wild to me. Y'all living in hard mode

    • @the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I
      @the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I 3 роки тому +24

      why I'm moving there at 18

    • @Skepticalraven
      @Skepticalraven 3 роки тому +55

      @@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I rent is going crazy though so make sure you have good funds

    • @the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I
      @the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I 3 роки тому +13

      ok thank you

    •  3 роки тому +3

      Programming like our left will bring the struggle to you very soon tbh. Good luck though, hope I'm wrong, but we weren't like this until they forced their policies.

    • @mics1694
      @mics1694 3 роки тому +9

      Not really. I started with nothing and am now doing very well. It takes hard work, taking risks, sometimes failing and starting again, telling yourself no when it comes to getting in debt and working hard.
      Many of these kids have just stopped nursing off their parents. Many are entitled believing they should have a 500k house, 2 cars, a vacation home and jobs offering 150k a year for a college degree that is overstaurated. Add to that the person holding it has zero experience and now a ton of debt. Because they decided to pull massive amounts of loan to go to their preferred college.
      Not saying changes need to be made sure anything can be improved. But asking the government to do it is not the right way. They can't even run the postal service.
      Stop hoping the government will fix it for you by giving you "free" stuff and go make it happen. That is the American way.

  • @PropheticEnvy
    @PropheticEnvy 3 роки тому +112

    Its so damn sad that like 80% of these are healthcare related. WE SUCK in the USA. And I also realized some of these things also as I started to learn Italian and exchange ideas and things with my Italian language partners. One of which partner was in the medical field and had to study our health system because She wanted to come work abroad and she was AMAZED at how much money it cost us.

  • @LoveAndSnapple
    @LoveAndSnapple Рік тому +1

    As someone born in 1990, active shooter drills and threats made to schools is STILL something that I’m coming to grips with.
    The only time we heard about a school shooting on a mass scale was Columbine and that was THE most talked about thing regarding schools for YEARS.
    At the time it was just a horrible one-time tragedy we thought we’d never have to encounter again. Little did we know…

  • @benj9380
    @benj9380 3 роки тому +166

    Active shooter drills EVERY MONTH?? WHAT THE FUCK?? I mean obviously it’s good that they have processes to try and keep kids safe but the fact that they even need it in the first place is just terrible. These people are really prioritising guns over children...

    • @vengefulkiwi20
      @vengefulkiwi20 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah… watching all these videos I’m realizing it’s a really messed up system. I can’t wait until I can move to another country

    • @ErutaniaRose
      @ErutaniaRose 3 роки тому +8

      Yep, that's exactly why I am moving to Australia. I remember sitting in a room close to the other students, all of us shushing each other, as the loudspeaker kept blaring, "INTRUDER ALERT, STAY IN YOUR CLASSROOMS" over and over. Plus, security went to every door and shook it, raddling the knobs to make sure it was locked.
      I was always the kid that took it seriously and was instantly scared when it started. But, a lot of people didn't take it seriously and would just play on their phones... My first thought was how to make a trap or weapon for an intruder.
      I had to do this since I was six years old...till I was eighteen.

    • @frogieZ
      @frogieZ 3 роки тому +2

      I know right. Still cant wrapped my head on that. Im in developed country, never worried about gun, had only seen it so far on TV & on soldiers / policemen 😂 maybe sometimes on news but veeeeeery rare. Let alone teaching kids they need to be on their toes all the time as some crazy nuts can walk and shoot them anytime.

    • @deltaflute03
      @deltaflute03 3 роки тому +3

      I don’t know about that specific area but active shooter drills are typically only yearly.

    • @Unknown_101_
      @Unknown_101_ 3 роки тому

      When I left high school my junior year they started doing bomb threats. 2017

  • @meh7497
    @meh7497 3 роки тому +67

    As a citizen of a third world country, i started to think maybe my small poor country is not that bad. The living condition is average but at least we're happy.

    • @Wulfgang_Gardens
      @Wulfgang_Gardens 3 роки тому +7

      Honestly? Most citizens of almost every other country are better off than your average American. I'm ex-Army, and have lived and worked all over the world. I realized when I was a kid that the "American Dream" was a lie to controll the masses. Now I am making my plans to move to Vietnam as soon as the borders open, and only ever return home to America once a year for Thanksgiving. I still love my country and would defend it again, but I despise my government and what it's been doing to the people.

    • @SteppingStonevlogs
      @SteppingStonevlogs 3 роки тому +2

      That is what I was thinking when going to visit the USA in 2018....the border control questioned me for an hour, claimed my visa was Incorrect, and forced me back on a flight to London. I thought, "Do you really think your country is a place I want to run away to? I am literally from a decent country. I just want a holiday"!
      The staff said, "Well at least you're not spending a night in the airport cell".
      Treated like some criminal!

    • @Wulfgang_Gardens
      @Wulfgang_Gardens 3 роки тому

      @@SteppingStonevlogs The sad thing is that even people from "3rd world" countries are generally happier than most Americans. I've traveled extensively around the world, and in the States as well. What I noticed was that even people living day to day on the streets of Guatemala were generally happier than a lot of Americans I've met. There are people living in the provinces of Vietnam and Philippines who, by American standards, are literally "dirt poor" but live happier lives. Thanks to the government, the media, and systematic (brain washing is the best word I can think of here) Americans are raised to believe it is their 'patriotic' duty to go to school, put themselves in massive debt, and work like a dog for the rest of their lives only to end up living out their final years without much to their name.... The only ones I see living the "American Dream" are the politicians who go to school, lie to get elected, work for a couple of years, then live extremely comfortable for the rest of their lives. It's a scam, and while yes there are some immigrants who come here, start a business, and love happier lives than they had before, it is not common.

    • @JW-uy2on
      @JW-uy2on 3 роки тому

      @@Wulfgang_Gardens Can you cite any specific examples?

  • @lechatlola
    @lechatlola 3 роки тому +458

    I'm from Germany and had an American flat mate a few years ago. His family always feared for his safety here, but he actually never felt safer in his life. The American mindset is so fucked up and most of them don't even have a clue about other countries, they think the US is the best, when in fact, it's a 3rd world country.

    • @amandabisby3546
      @amandabisby3546 3 роки тому +28

      I can’t shake my scared mentality either. We’ve been conditioned to think America is the safest place to be, so when my family and I even consider traveling abroad, we’re terrified of terrorism and crime in other countries without considering what the US is like. Granted my area is comparably safe compared to the rest of the US so many cities seem more intimidating regardless of country, but I still can’t shake being scared of traveling to other countries even though they’re not even that bad. For example, I’m planning on studying abroad in England and we’re paranoid about the terrorism.

    • @lilcomment
      @lilcomment 3 роки тому +4

      Every country have these people called kidnappers and murders, so his family was right to be worried 🙄😒

    • @blacksheep1069
      @blacksheep1069 3 роки тому +22

      @@lilcomment we don't have shooting accident.. because gun or weapon is illegal here..if police knew u own gun.. u got arrested (even u paid for it) yes we can purchase but not easy we must have license.. similar to car license..we have to learn to shot and safety.

    • @serenitymoon825
      @serenitymoon825 3 роки тому +35

      When I found out that German cashiers get to sit down at their registers and American cashiers have to stand up for 8+ hours, I cried like a baby

    • @AA-vr8ve
      @AA-vr8ve 3 роки тому +18

      A lot of us still think germans are nazis when there's more of them here then the rest of the world-

  • @JohnBread-bj1cr
    @JohnBread-bj1cr 3 роки тому +97

    America has never been great it just had great marketing.

    • @marymoon5020
      @marymoon5020 3 роки тому +3

      They don't even have to try hard anymore...

    • @johnwhit74
      @johnwhit74 3 роки тому +5

      That must be why so many people are flooding the border... because of the marketing 🤡

    • @JohnBread-bj1cr
      @JohnBread-bj1cr 3 роки тому +1

      @@johnwhit74 must be

    • @danidejaneiro8378
      @danidejaneiro8378 3 роки тому +4

      Well no it is pretty great in lots of things, that's why only the same three things were mentioned repeatedly: guns, healthcare and education.

    • @marymoon5020
      @marymoon5020 3 роки тому +2

      @@danidejaneiro8378 wow! You set the bar real high huh?

  • @livingskeleton319
    @livingskeleton319 3 роки тому +571

    The last one floored me. I genuinely didn’t know that not wanting to bother others with your own problems was an American thing. I just assumed it was a human anxiety thing. The feeling that if you say anything to anyone they’ll judge you or hate you for speaking up. I sometimes forget that that stuff is learned behavior.

    • @this_is_not_my_real_name
      @this_is_not_my_real_name 3 роки тому +69

      Gotta admit, I don't tell other people my problems and I'm not American. It just depends what kind of person you are.

    • @zarasipagan
      @zarasipagan 3 роки тому +42

      Yes, I noticed this too. I’m Filipino and culturally, it is okay to be asked and talk about hardship and a myriad of topics even with someone you’ve just met whilst here in the States, so many things are considered “offensive” or “inappropriate”

    • @popmybubblegum
      @popmybubblegum 3 роки тому +38

      Sorry if it's TMI but my whole family (except for my uncle in law) is American, as well as all my friends
      Literally everytime I tell them my emotions and feelings, even if it's dire like if I'm feeling suicidal, they will literally be like
      "You have nothing to be depressed or anxious about, you're so ungrateful, stop complaining"
      ???
      I'm literally traumatized from my abusive deadbeat father, grew up almost completely socially isolated and developed social anxiety bc of that, was born into poverty, and was literally bullied all of middle school, and I have nothing to be depressed about? 😂

    • @adlinajazz719
      @adlinajazz719 3 роки тому +11

      @@popmybubblegum It wouldn't hurt anyone to talk about your problems bcuz when you do so, yes ur problems won't disappear, but somewhere in your heart you would feel this calm feeling making u feel much better. We're only humans, and we need each other to live and if listening to others problems r troublesome than how r we going to expect them to help us later. I'm sorry that you have to go through those kinda stuff and I hope u'll find some peace 🙂

    • @livingskeleton319
      @livingskeleton319 3 роки тому +6

      @@popmybubblegum dang i am so sorry to hear that. You have every right to be feeling how you’re feeling. I hope you have really good friends there with you.

  • @JokeShinet
    @JokeShinet 3 роки тому +803

    Surprising how many non-Americans have been saying this for years, but America never learns

    • @marilynmorgan7704
      @marilynmorgan7704 3 роки тому +49

      Trust me. Gen Z and millennials know. It’s everyone else that’s been brainwashed by the government.

    • @corieydadon
      @corieydadon 3 роки тому +19

      @@marilynmorgan7704 gen z is the main ones brainwashed by the government

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 3 роки тому +53

      @@marilynmorgan7704 Most people of Gen z actually know that the US isn't that good of a country.

    • @CruzeeStar
      @CruzeeStar 3 роки тому +8

      We know don't worry
      I know we're idiots haha

    • @SSSS-wq4vn
      @SSSS-wq4vn 3 роки тому +6

      We know. But, we didn’t know at first. When you find out you to far in and just have to pretend I fine, when you not really fine.
      I’m currently looking for a way out, too.
      I’m a blk woman and I am in constant fear in America.
      Just feel being blk I don’t have many options aboard.
      Many opportunities but, the health care, lack of gun control, flat out no concern for the mistreatment of minorities and the slowly taking of our freedoms like vaccine mandates and abortion laws got me wanting out.
      Don’t get me started on the public school system and expensive ass colleges.

  • @smp6565
    @smp6565 3 роки тому +876

    As a European hearing these things is horrifying! The American "normal" is as far from normal as I've ever heard 😢

    • @sherrir2531
      @sherrir2531 3 роки тому +20

      These teenagers are a bit dramatic

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 3 роки тому +32

      @@sherrir2531 So you think they lie...?

    • @noortaher5586
      @noortaher5586 3 роки тому +25

      @@whyparkjiminnotridejimin as an American woman I’ve been here my whole life yes they are being very very dramatic and attention seeking

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 3 роки тому +6

      @@noortaher5586 Oh okay that might be. It's different in Europe I guess.

    • @popmybubblegum
      @popmybubblegum 3 роки тому +59

      @@sherrir2531 I'm an American teen and I've had like 2 school shooting threats (in elementary and high school)
      My step dad is the only one in our family that can have a job and his cancer bills take up all the money (not saying it's his fault, it's the government's)
      So we can barely afford food, bills, clothes, anything
      They are definitely not being dramatic
      (All my friends have similar problems)

  • @amandawalski4407
    @amandawalski4407 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! 😥 This is incredible. I'm sending this to everyone I know!

  • @ashleighh2417
    @ashleighh2417 3 роки тому +92

    i am studying for a job in healthcare, and when my lecturer run through the cost of healthcare in America i feel so sad and upset for its citizens, my country have free healthcare and to know a 1st world country treat health like a commodity to get rich off of is disgusting. I know not everything can be free but affordable healthcare should be a MOST in all countries

    • @AM-wz8qr
      @AM-wz8qr 3 роки тому +7

      So interesting (sad) that a sizeable percentage of US citizens fight to keep healthcare costs extremely high. They believe the con that for-profit insurance companies, lobbyists, and paid-for politicians have sold them for decades.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 роки тому

      @@AM-wz8qr not really but people think Americans need to fix USA instead of being lazy

    • @stphilomena911
      @stphilomena911 3 роки тому

      We use to have a good system once, even if it was for profit. $20 for a general visit. $300 for an open heart surgery. Insurance companies insisted on getting a fifty percent discount on those prices which wouldn't cover the cost of materials. Try watching Adam ruins hospitals. He explains why everything is so fucked up here really well.

  • @katiaaskildt7830
    @katiaaskildt7830 3 роки тому +335

    When i lived in norway I was drinking with my now ex husband and his friends at a pub. They wanted to go bowling after but my stomach was hurting (i have celiac disease but at the time no one knew i had celiac and so i didn't know why i would get these random intense stomach pains but everyone thought i was just being dramatic). I needed to go home but it was night so i didn't feel safe walking home alone at night from a bar. All the norwegian woman looked at me like I was crazy. Norway has such a low crime rate that women often walk home alone at night without worry. That blew my mind because where i lived in America, being a woman walking home at night was the quickest way to end up on the news.
    My appendix burst. I didn't want to call an ambulance because i was a new immigrant that didn't have insurance so I walked 3 miles in the snow instead. Only to eventually realize ambulance were free in norway.
    I would read all the ingredients in food items. In america there is often unexpected items in the ingredient list. In Europe i looked crazy because when they say 100% flour there is just flour in it.
    Norway hadn't had a shooting in 6 years when i lived there. There was a shooting every night in my city.
    They weren't afraid of being shot by police. I would announce everything i was doing when interacting with police and would be shaking. I didn't have to. They were safe.🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @aamateur-artist
      @aamateur-artist 3 роки тому +48

      I’m so sorry that you went through this. I’m still a teen in America but when I get older I’m definitely leaving the country for college & probably never coming back..

    • @E.S.K.
      @E.S.K. 3 роки тому +31

      I was always shoked when I was watching an americans' movie and saw that they are announcing everything they do when they been pull over by a cop. why in hell they are doing that?!
      In Poland the worst thing in routine police check is... getting a ticket for speeding!

    • @jojoc326
      @jojoc326 3 роки тому +38

      Omg! You walked for 3miles with a burst Appendix 😳😳😳😬😬 thank God you survived. That is insane! BTW, my dream has always been to go to norway!!

    • @girlieonyt
      @girlieonyt 3 роки тому +11

      oh god this is such an eye opener

    • @missl.3343
      @missl.3343 3 роки тому +6

      Oh my god, that is insane.

  • @AbderrahmanFodili
    @AbderrahmanFodili 3 роки тому +1412

    Growing up in America then moving abroad must be like doing the boss level then playing the rest of the game

    • @zeldajayde7136
      @zeldajayde7136 3 роки тому +58

      Absolutely how it feels

    • @KikiMeowKitty
      @KikiMeowKitty 3 роки тому +17

      Omg

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 3 роки тому +17

      Well said👏🏻😂

    • @brenos.5017
      @brenos.5017 3 роки тому +37

      Kim, people are living in poor countries

    • @KikiMeowKitty
      @KikiMeowKitty 3 роки тому +90

      @@brenos.5017 just because people are living in poor countries doesn’t mean American doesn’t need to fix some things Karen

  • @itzJuztThomas
    @itzJuztThomas 2 роки тому +2

    Am so glad I live in a country where I've never once had to worry about my children dying from gunshot wounds at school.

    • @h0neym00nl0ve0
      @h0neym00nl0ve0 3 місяці тому

      it can happen at any moment in any country btw
      and if it happens once it could happen again
      america just have it (much) worse

  • @Pikachuwhereareyou
    @Pikachuwhereareyou 3 роки тому +253

    Every country has its pros and cons. Always good to hear people’s stories, to share a perspective we might not have understood otherwise.

    • @hanskover
      @hanskover 2 роки тому +20

      Well Murcia has a lot of pros for very wealthy people and a lot of cons for poor to average people. It depends on politics who will get the positives and who has to suffer the consequences.

    • @nightowl334
      @nightowl334 2 роки тому +23

      I wouldn't exactly overgeneralize a country in which carrying guns around and school shootings are normal with "every country has pros and cons".
      You gotta do something about this not just accept it, you know.

    • @jmlepunk
      @jmlepunk 2 роки тому +8

      America has more cons than pros.

    • @muzzeina4987
      @muzzeina4987 2 роки тому +9

      It’s not about pros and cons, it’s about the lack of basic human/citizens right, it’s about the lack of freedom that America claims. The rest of the countries are not proud and egoistic like America, other countries don’t claim to be the powerful, the most advanced and the most wealthiest when in fact their citizens have to think twice before calling for an ambulance.

    • @amobilway1032
      @amobilway1032 2 роки тому

      Finally a sane person in the comments

  • @earthspiderweaver4965
    @earthspiderweaver4965 3 роки тому +1644

    In America, we have 3 rules:
    Don’t get sick. (too expensive)
    Don’t let your guard down. (stay alert)
    Work your ass off. (40-60 hours per week)
    Edit: Obviously 40-60 hours per week isn’t literally working your ass off for SOME people (especially if you are sitting most of the time and not having to use your brain as much). I mean you had better be working somewhere with enough hours and pay that will help you afford a shelter, food, utilities, etc. 🙄🙄

    • @CT-uf4fb
      @CT-uf4fb 3 роки тому +33

      😭😭😭😭😤 RIP.. from New Zealand

    • @BlueViolet13
      @BlueViolet13 3 роки тому +7

      @@CT-uf4fb Thank you

    • @snickerdoodle212
      @snickerdoodle212 3 роки тому +112

      Also try to die before you get to retirement age because they treat the elderly like shit.

    • @talea9593
      @talea9593 3 роки тому +5

      There are so many ways to make medical cheap or free in the US. If you can't figure it out you're an idiot.

    • @chrissytolley
      @chrissytolley 3 роки тому +1

      Correct

  • @lucyann1573
    @lucyann1573 3 роки тому +298

    I did the opposite. Moved from the UK to America 20 years ago and I gotta tell y'all...the weird Cold War style fearmongering around universal healthcare is the most disgusting and infuriating thing. The idea that folks in in this country see nothing wrong with healthcare being a privilege and not a right is something I'll never be able to understand. Edit: so I thought this was relevant. Yesterday (on my bday) I found a lump in my breast. I don't have insurance. Am now absolutely petrified because I have no idea how I'm going to pay for this, even if it's benign. Went into a coma in my 20s that bankrupted me. I am...so so scared

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 3 роки тому +13

      What made you decide to move to America?

    • @lucyann1573
      @lucyann1573 3 роки тому +13

      @@prncessbaby16 My mum's from East Atlanta and all her family was over here

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 3 роки тому +4

      @@lucyann1573 that makes sense

    • @SeptemberStranger28
      @SeptemberStranger28 3 роки тому +19

      Hey!! We know that universal healthcare fails!! After all, only 32 of the 33 developed nations have it! >:/ xD I can't- I lived in America for my entire life and within months of being in Germany, I began to see how messed up my life was before.

    • @katielee7364
      @katielee7364 3 роки тому +4

      yeah it really sucks that since I am poor my mentality is (no doctor unless you are dying) Like In high school I had a horrible deep cough for three months but since We couldn't afford my dad being ill and me being ill I just powered through it.also My husband moved to America and doesn't want to go back to his country because both of our countries have their pros and cons

  • @CatLittlepage
    @CatLittlepage Рік тому +3

    I can't be the only American (US) that feels like I'm trapped here. 😢

  • @joyjordan5479
    @joyjordan5479 3 роки тому +396

    My mom said to me once: “building America is like building a home; if the foundation is bad, the whole thing is bad.”

    • @sreeshankar1201
      @sreeshankar1201 3 роки тому +8

      Well i love ur mum for making something beautiful like u

    • @joyjordan5479
      @joyjordan5479 3 роки тому +4

      @@sreeshankar1201 well thank you. 🥰

    • @brendenhenry3552
      @brendenhenry3552 3 роки тому +2

      the foundation is good. The problem is we are and have been in the middle of a war due to tyrannical, illegal, unconstitutional powers that are not what the foundation was built on at all. Every 50-100 years a depression or revolution happens. Unfortunately we are nearing that peak in what's looking to be a violent revolution where patriots and tyrants blood will be spilled in order to refresh the tree of liberty and what made Americas founding so great, once again.

    • @joyjordan5479
      @joyjordan5479 3 роки тому +15

      @@brendenhenry3552 idk man. The founding of America was also the genocide of Native Americans and their land being stolen from them. & then there was that couple hundred years of slavery thing that people get upset about when brought up. Doesn’t really seem like “liberty and justice for all” if you ask me.

    • @brendenhenry3552
      @brendenhenry3552 3 роки тому

      @@joyjordan5479 well tried to reply twice with some historical facts but i guess my right to free speech does not exist on this channel. Sad indeed. Thats part of whats hurting america as well, when we cant even have the right to speak and our voices cant be heard because we are censored and blocked, it causes even more violence in America.

  • @rijoconjota
    @rijoconjota 3 роки тому +397

    I remember growing up in the 90s moving to the US was the ultimate success. Now that I'm getting close to 40 I feel relieved I never got the chance to do it. It's such a messed up society, I couldn't imagine raising my kid there 💔

    • @nikab.7917
      @nikab.7917 3 роки тому +44

      Sadly this is what I’m struggling with now… My parents moved here in the late 90s to pursue the “American dream” which let’s face it.. is long dead. Now as a new mother I’m constantly thinking how to escape this country. SMH

    • @the_expidition427
      @the_expidition427 3 роки тому +6

      @@nikab.7917 The world is sinking ship other than Canada which is just an off brand U.S. and sometimes the off brands are better at what they do

    • @sm3675
      @sm3675 2 роки тому +6

      @@the_expidition427 Canada isn't any better tbh. Be ready to pay 2000 dollars for a 2 bedroom apartment in the bad part of town. Not to mention food and utilities are way more expensive.

    • @keychain3039
      @keychain3039 2 роки тому +5

      @@sm3675 and literal murderers walk free...

    • @greenlime1997
      @greenlime1997 2 роки тому +11

      The 90’s was probably America’s at its peak, then came 9/11, the war on terror, 2008 financial crisis, the tea party, and finally Trump

  • @fleurpouvior2967
    @fleurpouvior2967 3 роки тому +80

    I used to live in Krakow poland! I miss it so much, I hated moving back to the states, it was like walking back into a cult, everyone only knew or cared what was going on in this country, and propaganda was everywhere! Even now, years later, I'll mention it, and my american friends argue that every other country, except maybe Britan and Australia, are warzones with people dieing on the streets, and thats why they all want to live here.
    There's this weird notion in people who live here full time, that the american way of life is the only good one, and no other system that isnt 100% american, could possibly work. And no ammount of evidence otherwise will convince them otherwise

    • @monica_zielinski
      @monica_zielinski  3 роки тому +7

      It’s quite sad actually and when you leave the US, it’s impossible to move back and think like an American again.

    • @zandila
      @zandila 3 роки тому +2

      The propaganda is reeeeaaal. I did a lot of travel 5-6 years ago and initially had a really hard time reacclimating to the US. For, you know, reasons. 🙄 I didn't realize how much that propaganda had seeped into me until about a month ago, as I was planning to fly to Turkey, and I found myself thinking about how dangerous it was going to be. Now, two weeks into my stay, I've remembered: most places are way safer than where I was raised.

    • @jibber2000
      @jibber2000 3 роки тому

      Hey Im moving to Krakow in a month!! Any tips for getting to know people or enjoying the city?

    • @fleurpouvior2967
      @fleurpouvior2967 3 роки тому +2

      @@jibber2000 there is always something happening at the rynic. Always, you dont have to spend a dime, to wander around and have fun there.
      The open markets are better than tesco, and worth going to as often as you can, my favorite was a few blocks behind tesco by the koscluszko mound. Next to the same tesco, there's a small resturant, they have the best perogi in the city.
      Go to Auschwitz, and dont do the tour, its not worth the money. Walk around yourself, and really take the time to explore, and read. You will not leave the same person you were when you entered.
      On halloween just before sunset, go to the graveyard. I recomend the one near the base of the mound. It's a tradition, and a beautiful experience. Take money, there are street venders with candy, and pastries and things.
      Most of all, 'soe toe yes' is your friend. If you don't know how to say a word, ask, and point. Most people i met were happy to help, and genuinly excited that i was trying to speak polish.
      Ooh, also, if you dont like carbonated water, order nei gassovana, or it'll be default carbonated.

    • @1MsHannah9
      @1MsHannah9 3 роки тому +1

      @@jibber2000 are moving there for studies? if so, if you're gonna live in a dorm - no worries, you'll be surrounded by people and parties haha

  • @SimPilotMika
    @SimPilotMika 2 роки тому +6

    I genuinely feel sorry for people who live in America, you don’t have to put up with that

  • @GhoulishThing
    @GhoulishThing 3 роки тому +474

    "The American dream!"
    Well, all nightmares start as dreams...

    • @lexicast2608
      @lexicast2608 3 роки тому +3

      ALL LOVE STARTS AS A SCHEME

    • @ohhaiJess96
      @ohhaiJess96 3 роки тому +3

      It just goes to show how much privilege you have. Let’s hear from the people who had such horrible lives in their country and is so grateful to be in America but try talking all this cramp from North Korea or China and let me know how that goes. You’d guys are sad

    • @GhoulishThing
      @GhoulishThing 3 роки тому +6

      @@ohhaiJess96 Lmao idk where this came from. No idea where you would get the idea I was privileged but ok

    • @whoopsie-daisy
      @whoopsie-daisy 3 роки тому +7

      @@ohhaiJess96 dude just because others have it worse doesn't make other people's problems any less valid

  • @XieronDraxin
    @XieronDraxin 3 роки тому +478

    When I was living in Japan, which is a VERY low crime country, I got really used to not having to watch out for my own safety, especially as a woman. If I wanted to go out at night and walk 2 blocks down to the convenience store for a drink or a slice of cake, I could without having to worry about being hurt. Cut to my return to the US and I quickly developed a full anxiety disorder complete with nearly giving myself an ulcer because I had to go back to a US college campus and was terrified to go out at night for fear of being r*ped. I wouldn't take any night classes which I had previously loved as a night owl and would just go to class and back to my dorm every day because I was too afraid to be out of my dorm room. I'm better now, but I literally wasn't aware of how constantly vigilant I had to be until I didn't have to anymore.

    • @gabrielamartinez7553
      @gabrielamartinez7553 3 роки тому +18

      Woah! That’s my usual mentality in regards to r*pe but I still near the lighted area to feel safe.

    • @frieda9745
      @frieda9745 3 роки тому +11

      Wow I didn't know this about Japan! I am currently looking into travelling on my own but as a girl I am always worried especially when I'm abroad... could you recommend some places?

    • @littlebear3554
      @littlebear3554 3 роки тому +7

      I really couldn't fear rape any less. I live in a small town where nothing really happens and nobody has ever messed with me in any way.
      But I dare a dude to try and rape me. Hope they fucking have insurance because I might break a few bones

    • @zanizone3617
      @zanizone3617 3 роки тому +43

      @@frieda9745 Japan is the safest place you can go. The first hotel I stayed at was in Shinjuku (the red light district of Tokyo). It is considered the most dangerous place in Japan. They had loudspeakers repeating, every few minutes, warnings to visitors about... Being overcharged for drinks in bars. That's it. The worst imaginable thing that could happen to you is being scammed on your cocktail bill. The horror.
      Generally speaking, the worst you will come across is some drunk salaryman stumbling towards the subway station to go home at 3am. Beware, they might start singing loudly a bad Japanese pop song to you! It happened to me!
      In all seriousness, they do have a problem with gropers on trains, but I'm told they only target local women, as they are unlikely to make a fuss, out of embarrassment, and don't do it to tourists because they know they are going to react instead.

    • @nekochadechu
      @nekochadechu 3 роки тому +9

      That's weird, i feel like it's common sense in Japan that going out at night as a woman is dangerous? I've never been there so i can't really say that for sure tho

  • @t.h.8475
    @t.h.8475 3 роки тому +132

    My sister lived in Florida. Her routine healthcare was done in a mobile clinic (an RV). She died of kidney cancer in 2017. She told me you had to be there at 6 a.m. with your lawn chair to sign up and be seen that day. Her poverty literally killed her.

    • @naaomi777
      @naaomi777 3 роки тому +13

      So sad. Sorry for you loss :(

  • @Michelle_Schu-blacka
    @Michelle_Schu-blacka Рік тому +3

    As a Brit, I'm kind of choking back tears listening to this.
    This is genuinely heartbreaking.

  • @melomana91
    @melomana91 3 роки тому +586

    "Uhm, you guys didn't have to swear loyalty to your country before you started school?" 😂😂😂 that made me laugh more than it should've. no, we did not.. wth 😅

    • @TomJones-op9nj
      @TomJones-op9nj 3 роки тому +1

      Sorry ….what impeccable Country that has no inherent corruption or gigantic issues of any kind do you hail from??…..I would just like to know so that a proper response to your erudite post can be made with a touch more…..how you say……context

    • @ShanteRoxxane
      @ShanteRoxxane 3 роки тому +61

      It’s not even to the country. It’s to a flag. lol it’s pure idolatry.

    • @ShanteRoxxane
      @ShanteRoxxane 3 роки тому +4

      @@TomJones-op9nj Lol 🤣

    • @TomJones-op9nj
      @TomJones-op9nj 3 роки тому +7

      @@ShanteRoxxane well …..some people seem to be incapable of understanding the concept of symbolism…..what a completely moronic thing to say……would it be more accurate for you if instead of a flag it was a high resolution picture of the country from space? Also you throw the term idolatry very casually …..care to share some opinions or ideas…..I mean other than the inane comment you already made ….I await your brilliance

    • @TomJones-op9nj
      @TomJones-op9nj 3 роки тому +2

      You feel like that’s a gotcha moment ? That’s hilarious….”even without your cool emojis “

  • @antonioroman8660
    @antonioroman8660 3 роки тому +179

    Growing up as a kid, my parents would always administer “Home remedies” before we ever went to the doctor. Even to this that I’m hesitant about going to the doctor when I’m sick.

    • @-randomlemon-216
      @-randomlemon-216 3 роки тому

      My parents never do that but it always text at least two weeks for my mom to take me to the doctor after I've been throwing up

    • @TheRedTigon
      @TheRedTigon 3 роки тому +4

      Same here- I once had a health crisis in my family and the ambulance bill (keep in mind the family member in question did not go to the hospital)
      JUST the bill to call an ambulance and have EMS workers come over to my apartment was over $2000 (1689 euro)
      I still feel guilty for calling the ambulance in the first place :(

    • @jbrown4137
      @jbrown4137 3 роки тому +1

      Thats actually normal to not run to the doctor for every single ailment. If you have a cold, it does its thing and goes away. Going and getting a prescription for every sniffle is how we create super bugs. Now if you sick for extended period or have something that actually requires a treatment for what it is or your own health issues thats fine. But telling students that if you're sick just go to the doctor is foolish. I got a fever 1.5 years ago and was sick for 3 days...guess what, I went home early from work one day, called out the following Monday and was back to work Tuesday with no doctor needed, being sick does not require a doctor.

    • @AnadyiaHowell
      @AnadyiaHowell 3 роки тому +1

      @@jbrown4137 is absolutely correct!
      Being a military brat, i grew up with free medical care. Even then we rarely went to the doctor because it wasn't necessary. Why go to a place, full of sick people, when your immune system is already working hard to kill the bug you have? If it's minor, I'd rather stay home.

  • @xhogun8578
    @xhogun8578 3 роки тому +413

    Heartbreaking that a country as wealthy and advanced is so behind in the emotional and physical care of their citizens.

    • @Sataniikpaniik
      @Sataniikpaniik 3 роки тому +41

      Why take care of your citizens when you can continuously make money off of them? I hate it here

    • @oliviayoung8040
      @oliviayoung8040 3 роки тому +12

      Yeah. It is sad but we still have individualism. Yay. This is the reason. There can be too much individualism. I could be wrong. Its my right to hurt you. Said some southern Christian who has money coming out of their ass. Its sick how us Americans think.

    • @thomasengelman2815
      @thomasengelman2815 3 роки тому +3

      That’s something I have to agree with on many levels

    • @AllIAm1
      @AllIAm1 3 роки тому

      Very few ppl have all the wealth

    • @leeofdoom4452
      @leeofdoom4452 3 роки тому +4

      Emotional and physical care?
      Do you believe paying 90% tax is care? That's what happens in the Scandinavian countries...
      Mainland Europe, 40% - 60%, UK 20 - 40%
      The government's massively tax pensions! Pensions lol, old people pay for your 'free healthcare'
      Nothings free, costs are just hidden