How to make a narcissist feel insignificant
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- Make them insignificant to your life #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic
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I totally agree and leaving them alone is the most loving thing you can do to a narcissist.
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No, the most loving thing you can do for yourself.
They are very disturbed beings..
Thank You.
Yes they re....at least are they beings or species lol😅?
The only life purpose a narcissist has is to punish you for you not making them YOUR life purpose! That's deep!
if you really want to run up the score on a narcissist:
-be sincerely happy without them, with other people, making organic, genuine connections. narcissists can't stand seeing you or other people happy.
-make tons of money without them
-succeed in a job or task where they previously belittled your confidence
-expose them covertly for who they are.
-in the event you actually have to interact with the narcissist... if initiate conversations first, and they try to play games with you, find their pain points and exploit them.
examples could be envy of other people's success, or the insecurity of not being as smart on a subject as they think they are.
make it a nuisance for the narcissist to interact you, that they want to sprint for the hills instead.
of course, safety first, if the narcissist is a threat to your mental/physical health.
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This will work with a narcissist, but not a psychopath.
Some people are mistaken and think they are with a narcissist when they are actually with a psychopath.
Unlike narcissists, psychopaths are unbothered if you are happier in life or have a better job.
For narcissists your happiness is like claws on a chalk board, a psychopath would be like "So? Who cares." or might even continue their bad behavior.
Just something to be aware of.
I get your point but in my experience doing this will just keep you tangled up with them emotionally, you have to let go of it all, they want you to be bitter and resentful, then turn you in to the aggressor, be warned !
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And a psycho might end your life too.
I’ve played detective with myself for over a decade, analyzing whether or not I’m a narcissist.
This story I’m about to share sounds like click-bait, validation-bait… as it borders victimization.
At this point (my) Awareness has expanded to seeing stories as just stories. Mental reconfigurations always arising after…
During the “dark night of the soul” phase, I spun out into a ptsd episode so manic and psychotic that I found myself in the mirror, rosy red from crying and screaming.
The reflection frightened me. It was that of a scared little boy I didn’t recognize. I went into repeating the phrase “I exist and I matter” over and over again… as I gushed over and felt like I was breaking into a billion little pieces.
Freaking fragmented, scary demented, psychotic, lamented, confused, terror… wanting to shut it all down.
I realized just the other day that I haven’t felt psychotic for a long while now. It’s strange, I nearly miss it… though I’d never wish it upon anyone… and I’m good for one lifetime 😅
They are driven by revenge even when you've simply reacted to something negative they did or said.
I told him that I finally found a job where I may be promoted as assistant manager, he said three words and didn't even sound great at pretending to be enthusiastic for me. Then all of a sudden either the very same day or day after, he tells me his job wants to make him regional manager and they wanna move him to minnisota. Im like, wow you're just now telling me this. He "joked" and said he will tie me up and kidnap me if that means I go with him to Minnesota and I'm just like wtf...I've already uprooted my life once to support him and now he wants me to do it again when I have my life on the right track and have plans of my own.
She said it so well thank you 🙏
Lies deception everywhere
Indifference. The narc is only concerned about themselves so let them go.Get out of their disturbing world and enjoy life without their toxic nonsense. God bless.
Once they got you in there bubble you're there for ever..fantacy bubble ..this worked for me as a get gone, " Im not attracted to you, I don't care about you anymore, you know as well as I do that you're a con".. that will do it
Ironically, the silent treatment is one of the weapons of a narcist
Give it right back and stick to it forever 😉 Nothing grates them more.
Go forward for yourself is always the right answer after any sort of break up
Easy said unless your broken up with them and they are weaponising your kids
Oh no! I wish for you that it's going to stop! Things like this can be a nightmare
@Franzifii completely. Thanks.
Listen to those red flags , you know your inner conciounce was screaming bloody murder when you met her and her first hoover occured (when she asked YOU out in text format)
This woman has brilliant insights
The problem is I don't think I can get to a point of indifference without some assurance of justice. I've been no contact for 12 years and it's still all I can think about every day.
Your closure is it's long over. It's never gonna happen and time has proven this. No point in hanging onto the past when it's already gone
Danielle, as usual the timing of your message is perfect, just what I needed to hear👍
As always extremely good video
Word!! Super empath standing firm👍
That's soon true ❤❤😊
It's my son, it's much more complicated...Sucks, How does one let they're son go??? 😢😢😢
I am sorry, hopefully he is still young and can get help or change. 🤞🏾
Letting go can be really hard but it is for the best.
Thanks for your advice! They will never change!
The Guardian and Protector of the King "Belteshazzar" Strikes Again....
Yes, thank you I'm dealing with one now this is crazy 🤪.
Thanks Danielle
Really appreciated
Thank you so much 💜
This is what I ve been doing for some good years😅..exactly they need validation as a ,supply,
Thanks
This best channel on this topic
Grey rock!
it's ok to be that way as long as you don't hide it and let the other ones know about your ways. I respect narcs that are open about their needs and desires/passions etc... that don't hide that about themselves. It's these so called spiritual/emphatic people you should be terrified of. Wolves in sheep clothing saying one thing, but feeling a whole another thing internally and hiding behind their shadow self. You've gotta own your true nature and who you truly are. PERIOD!
Perfect
Talk with them.
You can’t see your future when looking in the rear view mirror…😉🤔
that was pretty good Patricia
Why didn't they teach "Empathy 101 " in high school.
All it would of taken was to pass or fail an empathy test and so many of us would of avoided disasters.
.....Lets go get ice cream....Spring is coming!
Returning to an ex is like taking a shower and then putting on dirty underwear. Ew 🤢
Even fart has significant. Narcissist nah
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