The TOP SECRET to get over a narcissist
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- Опубліковано 25 лис 2023
- Do this one thing for yourself today to heal #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic
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The hardest part for me isn't the lack of closure, it's the lack of justice. I want to believe that her actions will catch up to her one day. But I never got the chance to see it.
I think that a majority of narcissistic abuse survivors think and feel like you. Ultimately, burning with an unanswered desire for justice IS a lack of closure.
My need for justice has always been a combination of wanting to witness the narc getting harsh consequences/punishment AND suffering the equal amount of pain that they caused me. (Pain, including the level of harm they caused physically, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and financially.)
One aggravating narcissist I knew died unexpectedly, in their sleep. While they consciously never experienced the pain, consequences or punishment - they will never victimize again.
The relief I continue to feel is worth the trade off of never witnessing justice.
Even if survivors never know exactly when a narcissist has died, it is inevitable. That fact is the ultimate closure.
I have used Zen Liberation hypnosis to distance my feelings towards them. Bypassing the conscious mind, and going straight into the unconscious mind.
@@allisonnovak500 I guess, but that makes them no different than anyone else. For all I know she might live to 90.
disrespect is all the closure that you need from a narcissist.
meaning, you can see them for who they truly are, and it's time for you to move on and live your best life, without the narcissist.
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Narcissists are 2 steps ahead, because they are so aware of how their toxic behavior impacts interactions and relationships. People are born with the disposition to be toxic but the traits and tactics are learned over time, usually from a narcissistic elder/ superior in their youth. Walk away peacefully, God and the universe will close in on them.
They are mean and cruel and that's also reason why you never get closure. They go and move on to new people and act like you never existed is to make you feel like you never mattered which you don't.
The common factor in all of their 'relationships' is THEM. Great channel, very helpful.
Amen. Unapologetically walk away and close this abusive evil relationship. I totally agree with you!
9 months this is the perfect Explanation from to me I don't owe her anything
I really appreciate you young lady, keep doing this great work, what a great service you do for so many. God bless you and yours.
Yaa...she is damn good 🙏❤️
"We've spent our whole lives waiting for some Thunderbolt to come/we could spend our whole lives waiting for some justice to be done- unless we make our own." -New Model Army, 'The Hunt'
Lord help my son
She literally admitted that she can't stop herself from texting me...otherwise she will get overwhelmed with her own negative emotions.
Smart lady, narrative backed up with a lot of common sense. Thank you.
She is so right she has the logic pinpointed down to the exact
The narc I knew was online and I believed we were friends & like sis & bro. I finally got fed up with his criticizing me & putting me down, then he did a reverse discard but hoovered me several times. Then he posted a video & song on a public sm site with my first name and even announced it was for me! The lyrics sound like a breakup song! “Maybe You’re Right Maybe You’re Wrong” by Cat Stevens. Can ya dig it⁉️ 🤣🤣😆
God showed me how to do this exact thing 2 days ago and you are 100% on point, I got the you are immature response to which I instantly blocked them..
ty for sharing
Same here. Almost 5 months later, he's still blocked.
crazy huh?
thanks for sharing and confirming
One narcissus i knew, would fall out with everyone, so thats what i tell myself, she has problems....she didn't communicate, it was always me reaching out, very often not even replying back... just had an argument now with her, never ever going back... she makes no effort whatsoever...keep your distance
Yes, we want closure. But God doesn't give us what we want. God gives us what we Need & Peace was needed in our life ,so God removed them. But, God Now I Need closure to get over the trauma-bond which comes in flashes.
I had an issue that my partner said she didn't want to be with me and that im evil and whatever else but then said that i was pathetic to block her on all channels, needed to grow up, and then added that she still wanted to be friends because I'm funny.
I'm so broken I just wanna see her again I wanna talk to her again I wanna see my step son again my pets everything. I dont think I'll ever heal
Thank you, Sister 🙏🏻.
Radical acceptance and unapologetically go no-contact and walk away👏🏿🔥. I've done this and at times I feel like taking it up a notch and block her from all my social media but I'm concerned she might try go crazy and try to reach out to me knowing I blocked her as she'd feel rejected/ abandoned. Current situation is better and healthy for me as they say, keep your enemies close and your friends ... what do you guys think of this?
This world is in so much pain but we really need to forgive. This movie "Can't buy me love" from 1987 should be watched with a sincere sense of prayer.
Reciprocating understanding is good.
Cain offered his worst.
Abel offered his best.
“Your brother's blood is crying out to me from the ground. And now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother's blood from your hand” - Genesis 4:10-11 - You have come to Jesus, the one who mediates the new covenant between God and people, and to the sprinkled blood, which speaks of forgiveness instead of crying out for vengeance like the blood of Abel. By faith Abel brought God a better offering than Cain did. By faith Abel was commended as righteous, when God spoke well of his offerings. And by faith Abel still speaks, even though he is dead. Hebrews 11:4
You are so right and so smart, love your videos, and you are educating people like me who have experienced all of this in the past. Thank God I got out, and yes, without closure from them. Thank you.
Thank you this is what I have been doing.
Thank you so much!!!!!❤❤❤
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I don't feel like that is the reason though. They did check off some boxes, but their behavior blew everything up (of course they don't see that) and I don't have anyone else to fill that void (though of course they claim they are in a new relationship a month later).
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