Last night woke up and had a dream that my husband married another woman. I woke up crying with hiccups. I love my husband, he loves me alot too. Then, if he wills may be in future, I would allow him to marry. Reason being, I rather have him halal relation than haram.
@@sanayasid1629 think before you speak. Second marriage is allowed by the creator who create Men. The Creator knows what is best for his Creature. He allowed it on a condition that if you know that you can manage and make justice for both wife than you are allowed to do so... If you are doing justice Second or third Marriage is not disgusting. Disgusting is you'r thoughts for it. The disgusting thought say that Men can not feed his 2 wifes and can't bear their expenses right...!! While this one Men can feed his one wife 3 daughters 2 son and parents. Due to this disgusting mentallity many deserving and pious widowed or divorce women spend their all lives being lonely.
@@sarahusman6123 Salam to you on your great thoughts. Every loving wife will fell sad and cry on that occasion and it is the natural behaviour. The bitter Reality in our society is that some women's get comfortable if their husbands have affair other than Marriage but they are not comfortable if he make it in a Halal way. My wife also had a dream of seeing me getting second Marriage and she asked that am I not being a good wife to you, So I reply that you are good wife indeed. We both are happy Alhamdullilah.I wish the same to you InshaAllah.
Sir, nobody could have conveyed their views in such subtle words. I was offended at the title when I first came across it but I am genuinely impressed by your composure and eloquence.
Lovely advice . Thank you. Remember, statistically failure rate of 2nd marriage is higher. One might get in a position of ‘ out of frying pan into fire ‘
I have seen many videos on this subject but this really is explained in the most logical and eloquent way. Justice with balance takes alot of gutts and patience. Lastly the first wife's psychological health must be taken into consideration. Our beloved prophet's PBUH daughter bibi Fatima had emotionally expressed her dislike in Hazrath Ali's intent of a 2nd wife. Our Rasul PBUH told his son in law that of my daughter is unhappy you have made me unhappy. So Hazrath Ali never took a 2nd wife as long as his wife was alive. This means that a woman has that right and must be heard when her heart is full of grief about her husband's 2nd wife. It can't be ignored. Marriage is a bond blessed by Allah to bring you peace, to both partners. Unfortunately our current society treats women's right as if there are non. That is not true. I have a family member who took a 2nd wife but it was due to lack of children from the first. Also took 4 plus years to decide that. Again the love and understanding with his first wife made that possible. Subhanallah. Better to keep 1 wife and make a jannah for yourself.
MashaAllah Sir, great great and great. I love the way you acknowledged your team. This action shows your greatness. May Allah bless you with more success. I am loving bara admi program. I happy to see you coming forward. God bless you :)
@@knowledge_triumphantit's not true, for example I'm also a muslim but I can't bear it, most women aren't polygamous and u can't force us. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I might end up in a mental institution. Discuss these things before getting married instead of mentally harming someone.
@@frenzybuzz3703 what is true is not decided by humans when it comes to religious dos and donts. For reference just see Christians and Jews who tried their version of truths based on their tolerance level or what ever. They ruined themselves not only in this life but also in the hereafter. The ultimate authority on truth is Almighty.... He is right for all the times to come. Women who can't bear it needs to tell thselves the truth and submit to it. Since they are Muslims so by definition it means submission without question.
میں نے بھی دو شادیاں کیں ہیں دونوں بیویاں الگ الگ گھروں میں رکھی ہوئی ہیں پہلی بیوی سے ہمارے 3 بچے ہیں دوسری بیوی ڈائیورسڈ تھیں ان کے پہلے سے 3 بچے تھے وہ بھی ان کے ساتھ ہیں۔۔دونوں خوش اخلاق ہیں میں نے پہلی بیوی کو اعتماد میں لیا تھا ان کی چند جائز شرائط بھی قبول کیں تھیں تب ہی انہوں نے خود جا کر اپنی ہونے والی سوتن اور ان کے والدین سے ملاقات کی تھی تب ہی دوسری بیوی کے والدین نے رشتہ قبول کیا تھا چھپ کر شادی نہیں کی تھی مسجد میں نکاح پڑھا تھا الحمدللہ دونوں بیویوں کے بچے آپس میں ملتے ہنستے کھیلتے ہیں بڑی امی چھوٹی امی کہ کر بلاتے ہیں
me khud dosri shadi krna chahta ho meri pehli bivi b bohat achi he mery 3 bachay hain, me ne kai martba apni bivi se dosri shadi ka izhaar bi kia he wo ziada dfa ni manti kbi han krti he kbi ni... lihaza mje kya krna chaye meri is wqt umar 27 saal he. me ne sir ki guftago mukamal suni he plz guide me my whats app no. 03471416933
Aoa Sir apk liay bohattt sari dua'yn...! Kindly make a complete video on how to build confidence and self-esteem in a child at early stage. Bachon ki tarbiat..!!
Girls go get yourself a man who never look to another girl accept you no matter what happens ! And kindly avoid your eyes on the guys who are already married ! May Allah blessed every girl with a guy who never look on another girl accept her Aa'Meen ❤️ & protect from such girls who have eye on other's husbands Aa'Meen ❤️
Second marriage is as important as first marriage if person is capable. Ask the women who are being left due to shortage of the good men and widespread fornication and adultery among the people. Marriage is the solution to widespread problems.
@@aimenirfan8212 Anyone who thinks oneself more knowledgeable and more compassionate than God then one is corrupt, bad and transgressor and oppressor. God's words are above all the people.
@@julaibibmehboob2688 Jazak Allah. huh. It hurts na? It hurts women too when there husbands are to be shared with other.... Walk inn the shoe of women.
اگر ہر کوئی آپ کی طرح اگنور کرے گا تو بیوہ , مطلقہ اور بے سہارا کہ جن کی عمر نکل گئی ہے اور کوئی ان سے شادی کو اب تیار نہی ہو گا۔ ان سں کا کیا ھو گا ؟ کیا آپ اپنے بیٹے کی شادی ایسی کسی لڑکی سے کریں گئے ؟ اگر نہی تو پہر آپ یہ ذمہ داری نہی اٹھا سکتے تو دوسروں کو اپنے کمزور مشوروں سے مستفید نہ ہی کریں تو بہتر ہے۔
Ek haqiqi deendar hamesha duniyawi cheezon se compromise krke sirf Allah ki Rehmat se Khair Talab krta h...agar wo Zindagi k har masle ko sabr Aur shukrguzaari k darmiyan rakhe...
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JazakALLAH! Sir mjhy apse aik bht imp matter mn opinion leni hai....mn chahti hun ap os topic pe bhi video bnyn..i need guidance...how may i contact you for my query?
Meri exactly yehi situation Hy sir Isi silsily m AP sy counseling chahti thi Allah NY sabeb bna dia Jzaak Allah khair Apk sb maswry (for 2nd wife) bilkul drust hyn smjh b aty hyn Dil ko bhi lgty hyn Per amer bohhhhhhhhhttttt mushkil Hy Apna AP marna perta Hy her Roz bhi nhi her lamha Allah apko bht jza dyn or mujhy himmet
Hope that situation is improved by now. Just a small piece of advice. This life is too temporary and we all have to go sooner or later, devote urself to get real gain that is Akhirat! Allah Dil ko sakoon se bhar dega or Zindagi mai bakrat hojayege. May Allah make it easy for u!!
کبھی بھی کسی دو شادیوں والے کو سکون میں نہیں دیکھا، اپنے اردگرد نظر دوڑائیں ، ہر طرف بے سکونی ہی ملے گی۔ اولاد کا نہ ہونا بھی اللہ کی مرضی سمجھ کر قبول کر لینا چاہیے۔
Mhr abu na b dosari shadi ki hoe dakna k lia b hum tarasta hai hum apna abu ko.... Allah na krh kbi b kise ka abu dosari shadi krha we miss him Allah..... Ye comment krta hoa b mhr eyes mai pani aagye plz Allah.....
Sir I m also a 2nd wife but now I am separated with 2 kids due to domestic issues I never meet his first wife my issue is that my husband's is very irresponsible towards me
Hi @Nazish Aslam I have a question for those girls who have been a second wife: If a man marries two girls,do they all 3(2 wives+1 husband) live in the same room? And is it possible that the two wives live together like sisters and without any ego and quarrel?
Aoa bhot achi bt ki ha apny. Question ye ha ky dosri shadi krny walla murd phli bivi ky haq aur usy kusyn porri ni kr sckta tu pr api khushi aur jannt ky lia dosri shadi shadi krta ha Lakin phli ka kya kassur ha jis ki zindagi ky 12 saal waste Kia hn aur usy kio khusi ni di
Mere shohar n bina ittla diye doosri shaadi kr li aur Ma'Sha'Allah 3 bachhe mere paas h. Allah rabbul izzat ka shukr h ki govt job thi teacher hon to maali dikkat n hui mager zehni tour p BAHUT ZYADA disturb hon . Mujhe samjhayein jazakallah
Our Holdings of Our Authentic & Beautiful Islamic teachings must be Superior over our desires. A true Muslimah who holds the true knowledge of Deen knows the importance and needs of more than one marriages.... May Allah SWT bless The Believers (Men & Women) of Current times around the Globe, and especially in the Sub-Continent of India with Guidance and Understanding of this issue with wisdom. Ameen🤲
100 percent agreed with docter sahib. r jo mard es procedure ko follow nahi kurtey un ka pehla ghur r buchey disturb hotey hn aur finally wo khud b sakun se nahi reh saktey.
ماشااللہ بہت زبردست میسیج دیا ہے حقیقت کے بارےسہی کہا ہے اس برداشت صبر انصاف شچ کی بہت ضرورت ہے اس میں بہت سی پیچیدگیاں ہوتی ہیں آپ کی ہر ویڈیو بہت اچھی سبق آ موز پیغام ہوتا ہے اللہ تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ اللہ تعالی آپکو آپکے اہل و عیال کو سلامت رکھےاور خوشیوں سے نوازے اللہ تعالی کے بعد بہت سے گھرانے آپکی ویڈیو کلیپ دیکھ کر اپنے مسائل کو حل کرلیتے ہیں میں آپ کی میسیج والی کلیپ دی🌟💯✍کھتی ہوں اللہ تعالی آپ کو جزاے خیر عطاء فرمائے آمین یا رب العالمین 😇👉💐🤲😇👉
نعت رسول مقبولﷺ یری خوشبو، میری چادر تیرے تیور، میرا زیور تیرا شیوہ، میرا مسلک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میری منزل، تیری آہٹ میرا سدرہ، تیری چوکھٹ تیری گاگر، میرا ساگر تیرا صحرا ، میرا پنگھٹ میں ازل سے ترا پیاسا نہ ہو خالی میرا کاسہ تیرے واری ترا بالک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک تیری مدحت، میری بولی تُو خزانہ، میں ہوں جھولی تیرا سایہ، میری کایا تیرا جھونکا، میری ڈولی تیرا رستہ، میرا ہادی تیری یادیں، میری وادی تیرے ذرّے، میرے دیپک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک تیرے دم سے دلِ بینا کبھی فاراں، کبھی سینا نہ ہو کیوں پھر تیری خاطر میرا مرنا میرا جینا یہ زمیں بھی ہو فلک سی نظر آئے جو دھنک سی تیرے در سے میری جاں تک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میں ہوں قطرہ، تُو سمندر میری دنیا تیرے اندر سگِ داتا میرا ناتا نہ ولی ہوں، نہ قلندر تیرے سائے میں کھڑے ہیں میرے جیسے تو بڑے ہیں کوئی تجھ سا نہیں بے شک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میں ادھورا، تو مکمل میں شکستہ، تو مسلسل میں سخنور، تو پیمبر میرا مکتب، ترا ایک پل تیری جنبش، میرا خامہ تیرا نقطہ، میرا نامہ کیا تُو نے مجھے زیرک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میری سوچیں ہیں سوالی میرا لہجہ ہو بلالی شبِ تیرہ، کرے خیرہ میرے دن بھی ہوں مثالی تیرا مظہر ہو میرا فن رہے اُجلا میرا دامن نہ ہو مجھ میں کوئی کالک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک
سر میری دو شادیاں ہیں اور ایگو کے معاملے میں یہاں سب الٹ ہے پہلی فل برداشت کرتی ہے لیکن دوسری بہت جیلس ہوتی ہے پہلی سے بیٹا بیٹی ہے اور دوسری سے بھی بیٹا بیٹی ہے رہتی ایک ساتھ ہیں ایک دن ایک کھانا بناتی ہے دوسرے دن دوسری۔ دونوں ایک دوسرے کے بچوں سے بھی پیار کرتی ہیں۔ دوسری بیوی بہت زیادہ قربانیاں دیتی ہے میرے گھر میں سب کا خیال رکھتی ہے امی ابو بہن بھائی سب کی کئیر کرتی ہے لیکن میرے معاملے میں اس میں بلکل بھی برداشت نہیں میرا تجربہ یہی کہتا ہے کہ پہلی شادی سوچ سمجھ کر کرنی چاہیے اور شادی صرف ایک ہی کرنی چاہئیے۔ باقی حقوق دونوں کے برابر دیتا ہوں اور بہت خوش بھی ہوں۔
wassay allah na ap ko phli wali wife sa beta or beti dono deay .to baki issues ko insaan handle kr lata or usi k sath guzara kr lata .khawateen b to kuch assay mardoon ko bardasht krti hn jin k sath kabi wo rhna b ni chati or sirf bachon k leay
Aurton ki gila hi time na deny ka hota ha Bhai ap ki bat baja ha Shadi kren tu ek hi kren Q k ek bv razi ho tu dusri naraz ho jati ha Te tu Imam Ali as ka qoul ha Ap as se dunia o akhrat ki misaal 2 bivion se di Ek ko razi kro tu dusri naraz ho jati ha Meri b shadi ek shuda bndy sy hui Wo b is waja se pehly waly shohar kbhi bap nhi ban sakty thy or ilzam bv par dal dia Ek orat ki zindgi b mard ki waja se kharab ho jati ha Lehaza mard ho ya aurat Shadi kren tu ek hi Q k is hal me teeno hi khush nhi reh paty
I think before going into second marriage, couple should talk it out as explained by Dr SB. Both should contribute to sort things out. For example try to find out the reason why man have lost interest, what can be improved to make the things work? And vice versa
Please clarify, what about a man who married two wives without information to each other. Now the man is not in a position to manage two wives - financially, emotionally and mentally. He is in a huge trouble now. Both the wives are not accepting the betrayal and do not want the other woman to be in his life. What suggestion is to be for him?
@@huzaifashaheer724 She is asking that what should a man do if he is not in a condition of managing both the wives equally..?isme wives ka pyar kahan se agya
Sir I want to meet you as I have many medical issues but nobody can recognize accurately and I fed up by taking lots of medicines but root cause cannot b catch
Sir mjhy b guide krden plzzzzzzzz mery hzbnd n 14 sal bd shdi krli hy 3 bchy b hn r mera Dil nhi manta hzbnd k7 rehny ko bt bcho ko dekhti hn to tars ata hy ap kia kehty hn mjhy kia krna chahey 15 din s m n room b separate krlia hy bat cheat b bnd hy bt us bndy ko blkul b frq nhi prrha wo Khush h mjh s aalg ho k b
Dusri shadi kerte howay ziyda mehnat pheli wali per kerna chahiya q k usne hi apna haq chorna hota hai uska hi denay wala waqt, tawajha ,khyal ehsaas bati hai us se liya jata hai
Javed sb You are such an enlightened person. Today, I found you a bit apologetic regarding plural marriage. You are guarded in your opinion. You advocate single marriage but...... Javed sir, we need to educate masses to come out of jhalia. Regards
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Sir ek Sawal hy apse Quran me dusri tisri choti shadi ka Jo Ayat he wo Ayat kab Nazil huwa ta Khadija (RAU) ki wafat ke baad Nazil huwa ta ya ussy pehle nazil huwa ta?
Assalaam U Alaykum I am married since last 15 years but have no kids So looking for second wife , my wife insists me for second marriage a lot I need someone Islamic and practising Muslima Is that right for me? Jazak Allah Khair
Beautifully explained. Very scholarly talk indeed. *Wise talk that weighs millions time more than all Sermons of Fasaadi Sectarian Mullahs.* However instead of seeking Guidance from Book of Allah, our Mullahs and Imams seek guidance from Oldi Mullahs like Abu Hanifa etc. but Allah has told us to use reason and follow his Book; not Mullahs blindly 9:31, 2:170, 7:179. When we see Quran's internal context, up to four Wives were permitted in that situation which existed after Battle of Ohid, when many Muslim Women and Children became orphans. Now Quran ordained to support that Orphans. But during such activities, one have to contact/meet widow too, and people can start to talk bad things; why does this man meet this and that widow!. So in this situation, Quran has told: you can marry them up to 4 but main purpose behind that marriages is not mere sex pleasure but to support Orphans. As you have already explained beautifully: Quran tells: Better to have just one wife because Quran justifies this point by saying: It is not possible to keep balance between wives. So indirectly; Quran is supporting just one wife. It was much better not to refer Mullah Ashraf Ali Thanwi. Seem: you have not read all his works in Full. He was one of the biggest disciples of Iblis and used to write/tell: how to do Jadoo from Sura Yasin and Sura R'ad. For example: Stay naked and recite Sura Ra'ad on a Leg of Goat and cook it and say against your enemy; he will be have disease on his skin. Read Sura Yasin as naked and do this and that and Person whom you love will come to your feet. For references, you can read this page wp.me/p4GOwI-lk
What ever it may be , please respect our ladies , they too have a heart and a soul, and are the storehouse of civilisation. A wounded female is a curse for the society , as a witness to the silent torture, feel like reaching out to and comforting the souls suffering in extreme sorrow, desolation, anguish, regret and despair. Therefore, no societies can be at peace if the weaker sex is treated as a commodity. I feel , eating habits is one of the cause, eating wild, acting wild ! In this playground of marriages , no one can do justice to the family , to the society and to their conscience.
عموماً دیکھا گیا ھے کہ دوسری شادی نرا رولا ھی ھے کیونکہ ایک لڑائی جیلسی شروع ھو جاتی ھے اور عموماً دیکھا گیا ھے کہ پہلی بیوی اور بچوں کے حقوق پامال ھو جاتے ھیں اور دوسری اُن پہلوں کے تمام حق چھین لیتی ھے جو کہ بُہت بڑا گناہ ھے کسی کا حق مارنا
Kbhi aysy bhi hota jo ourat darti he kisi ke huqoq chenny se wi majbori me dosri bv bany to usko pehli bv or disri shadi keny wala mard hi jeety jee mar dety hain
Why does second marriage have to be associated with dissatisfaction with the first wife? Why can't a happily married man want to have another wife? Rahi baat hukook ki, tou unki adaigi aik biwi k liye bhi lazmi hai...
Dr Javed could you explain,, what is mean of society in Islam?? How we can create a halal understanding being Muslim.. my answer is 2nd 3rd and 4th marriage.. Please visit local school,, college,, university and every single person.. they are all involved in multiple relationships..😐🤔🤔
Agar husband dosri shadi kary tu wife ko b apny shohar ko chorh ker dosry kisi acchy mard se shaadi ker leni chahiye.aur baccho ki responsibility tu Allah ne aadmi k sar rakki hy.bacchy b baap k pas chorh dy.
Agar ap jo ideal situation bta rahay hein k dosri wife ko aesa hona chahye or aesa ho bhi phr bhi b dosri ki life hell ho then? Kya dosri insaan nhi hai? Kya jeenay ka huq sirf pehli biwi ko hai or wo apnay apko Khuda samjhny lgy... es muashray me jo taqatwar hai bus ussi ki jeet hai
sahi likha behn .aik to mardon ki tadad kam hy larkiya ziada .to agar 2nd marriage na ho to baqiarkiyan kiya kunwain main chalang laga dain.compromise ziada 2nd wife karti hay bata howa admi milta hay sharafat say guzara karti hay phir b.per masharay main buri kehlati hay k pehli ka ghar barbad kar diya
Assalam walaikum sir. Mujhe aapke videos bhut inspirational lagte hain. Main sir ye janna chahti hun.. Ki mere husband ne mujhe bataye bagair dusri shadi ki hai. Lekin wo mera har tarah se khayal rakhte hai.fir bhi kabhi na kabhi mujhe dissatisfaction rehta hai... Aur main har trh se koshish krti hun bachho k ander unke baap k liye respect barkarar rakhun... Mere is mushkil situation me mujhe advice den... Ki mujhe kaise life ko happily guzarna hai
Aur sath me bchhon ki achhi tarbiyat bhi karni hai.. Meri love marriage hai. Kabhi koi jhagda bhi nahi tha. Bachhe bhi alhamdulillah 2 hain. Beta beti. Aaj bhi jhagde ka mudda jalan hi hai doosri shadi ki wajh se... Sir plz guide karen. 🙏🙏🙏
میں ایک سوال اگر کوئی اسلامی سکالر جواب دے سکتے ہیں۔ میرے میاں کی پہلی بیوی 3 بچے چھوڑ کر فوت ہو گئی ہے۔بچے بالغ ہیں اور 2 کی شادی ہو گئی ہے۔کیا ان بچون کی خدمت کرنا میرے پر فرض ہے اور کیا میں علیدہ گھر کی ڈیمانڈ کر سکتی ہوں۔پلیز اس ٹوپک پر روشنی ڈالیں
Sir aap ne bht achi bat ki hy magar islam mai 4 biwiyon ka barabar haq hy to 2nd ko 1st k aagy keu jhukna hoga, ? Is tarhan karny se us ki koi qadar nahi kary ga balky usay haqeer samhaj k side pe kardia jy ga aur har cheez mai pechay rakha jy ga ,
Dr sab young generation ka sochain.old generation Umar guzaar chuki hy.youngster k msail py video bnain.Waldain ko doosri shadi ki targheeb Matt dain balkay aulaad ki jald Shaadi ka kahain mean Matt dain shukriya.
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Last night woke up and had a dream that my husband married another woman. I woke up crying with hiccups. I love my husband, he loves me alot too. Then, if he wills may be in future, I would allow him to marry. Reason being, I rather have him halal relation than haram.
Hat's off to you MashaALLAH @ Sarah usman
Second marriage is disgusting,sick people do second marriage
@@sanayasid1629 Well that is what you think.
@@sanayasid1629 think before you speak. Second marriage is allowed by the creator who create Men. The Creator knows what is best for his Creature. He allowed it on a condition that if you know that you can manage and make justice for both wife than you are allowed to do so...
If you are doing justice Second or third Marriage is not disgusting. Disgusting is you'r thoughts for it.
The disgusting thought say that Men can not feed his 2 wifes and can't bear their expenses right...!! While this one Men can feed his one wife 3 daughters 2 son and parents.
Due to this disgusting mentallity many deserving and pious widowed or divorce women spend their all lives being lonely.
@@sarahusman6123 Salam to you on your great thoughts. Every loving wife will fell sad and cry on that occasion and it is the natural behaviour.
The bitter Reality in our society is that some women's get comfortable if their husbands have affair other than Marriage but they are not comfortable if he make it in a Halal way.
My wife also had a dream of seeing me getting second Marriage and she asked that am I not being a good wife to you, So I reply that you are good wife indeed. We both are happy Alhamdullilah.I wish the same to you InshaAllah.
Dill ko baag baag kar gai hen sir apki baten aur bohat hi imotional b😌😌😌 jazakAllah.
100% correct excellent explanation Doctor Sahib
Sir, nobody could have conveyed their views in such subtle words. I was offended at the title when I first came across it but I am genuinely impressed by your composure and eloquence.
Bht hi nazuk topic ko bht hi achy tareeqy sy explain kia..jazak Allah sir
Waqai , itne achhe tareeqe se aalme Deen b nhi samjate , May Allah keep them safe
Lovely advice . Thank you.
Remember, statistically failure rate of 2nd marriage is higher.
One might get in a position of ‘ out of frying pan into fire ‘
A very important issue of society discussed in an interesting way 👏. Thank You
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I have seen many videos on this subject but this really is explained in the most logical and eloquent way. Justice with balance takes alot of gutts and patience. Lastly the first wife's psychological health must be taken into consideration. Our beloved prophet's PBUH daughter bibi Fatima had emotionally expressed her dislike in Hazrath Ali's intent of a 2nd wife. Our Rasul PBUH told his son in law that of my daughter is unhappy you have made me unhappy. So Hazrath Ali never took a 2nd wife as long as his wife was alive. This means that a woman has that right and must be heard when her heart is full of grief about her husband's 2nd wife. It can't be ignored. Marriage is a bond blessed by Allah to bring you peace, to both partners. Unfortunately our current society treats women's right as if there are non. That is not true. I have a family member who took a 2nd wife but it was due to lack of children from the first. Also took 4 plus years to decide that. Again the love and understanding with his first wife made that possible. Subhanallah. Better to keep 1 wife and make a jannah for yourself.
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Apka dimgh sahi ha ya kharab no apne apni traf se BIBI FATIMA k liye k wo naraz thi YE mHAZRAT ALI ka apna decision tha k onho ne dosri shadi nai ki
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Sir u r great. I really impressed ur ideas. I also want to take a such step but today onward finished.
Great words sir I appreciate
As a women I give one advice to men that if you want second marriage you’re first wife must be a believer of polygamy.
Polygamy is something else madam ...stick to one is always a better option
Of course, she needs to be Muslim or the country needs to be a Muslim country ... otherwise, girlfriend system will work as the westerns r doing it
By being Muslim it's an onus on women to be a believer of polygamy. Why? Because Allah said so. Period
@@knowledge_triumphantit's not true, for example I'm also a muslim but I can't bear it, most women aren't polygamous and u can't force us. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I might end up in a mental institution. Discuss these things before getting married instead of mentally harming someone.
@@frenzybuzz3703 what is true is not decided by humans when it comes to religious dos and donts. For reference just see Christians and Jews who tried their version of truths based on their tolerance level or what ever. They ruined themselves not only in this life but also in the hereafter. The ultimate authority on truth is Almighty.... He is right for all the times to come. Women who can't bear it needs to tell thselves the truth and submit to it. Since they are Muslims so by definition it means submission without question.
میں نے بھی دو شادیاں کیں ہیں
دونوں بیویاں الگ الگ گھروں میں رکھی ہوئی ہیں پہلی بیوی سے ہمارے 3 بچے ہیں دوسری بیوی ڈائیورسڈ تھیں ان کے پہلے سے 3 بچے تھے وہ بھی ان کے ساتھ ہیں۔۔دونوں خوش اخلاق ہیں
میں نے پہلی بیوی کو اعتماد میں لیا تھا
ان کی چند جائز شرائط بھی قبول کیں تھیں تب ہی انہوں نے خود جا کر اپنی ہونے والی سوتن اور ان کے والدین سے ملاقات کی تھی تب ہی دوسری بیوی کے والدین نے رشتہ قبول کیا تھا چھپ کر شادی نہیں کی تھی مسجد میں نکاح پڑھا تھا
الحمدللہ دونوں بیویوں کے بچے آپس میں ملتے ہنستے کھیلتے ہیں بڑی امی چھوٹی امی کہ کر بلاتے ہیں
Ap ne sahara dia unko specially along her kids.. Allah pak apko iski jaza de
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me khud dosri shadi krna chahta ho meri pehli bivi b bohat achi he mery 3 bachay hain, me ne kai martba apni bivi se dosri shadi ka izhaar bi kia he wo ziada dfa ni manti kbi han krti he kbi ni... lihaza mje kya krna chaye meri is wqt umar 27 saal he.
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Complete topic hona chahye Respected Sir, first wife sab responsibilities puri kry zindagi day apni, husband enjoyment k lye dusri biwi lay aye, tab kya karna chahye?
آپ کا مشورہ بہت مناسب انداز میں ہے
Great man pahli dafa suna k mard 1 shadi kary wow..live long
Sahi baat hai
Sir ka ek ek word is so expensive as always.....Allah apko sehat wali Zindagi dain ameen
Jazaka Allah khair. Allah apko berkat day Aameen.
Aoa
Sir apk liay bohattt sari dua'yn...!
Kindly make a complete video on how to build confidence and self-esteem in a child at early stage. Bachon ki tarbiat..!!
اس کے لئے آپ کو میرا چینل وزٹ کرنا ہوگا۔۔۔
Allah apko salamat rakhhe bhot achii baten ki ap ne
Girls go get yourself a man who never look to another girl accept you no matter what happens ! And kindly avoid your eyes on the guys who are already married !
May Allah blessed every girl with a guy who never look on another girl accept her Aa'Meen ❤️ & protect from such girls who have eye on other's husbands Aa'Meen ❤️
Ameen
Ameeen
Second marriage is as important as first marriage if person is capable. Ask the women who are being left due to shortage of the good men and widespread fornication and adultery among the people. Marriage is the solution to widespread problems.
Agree
@@aimenirfan8212 Anyone who thinks oneself more knowledgeable and more compassionate than God then one is corrupt, bad and transgressor and oppressor. God's words are above all the people.
Then polyandry Must be allowed
@@sidratulmuntaha4050 start with your womenfolk I beg you pardon.
@@julaibibmehboob2688 Jazak Allah. huh.
It hurts na? It hurts women too when there husbands are to be shared with other.... Walk inn the shoe of women.
دوسری شادی سے ہر صورت اگنور کرنا چاہیے اگر آپ مختصر سی زندگی کو سکون سے گذارنا چاہیتے ہیں تو ہر صورت دوسری سے پچنا چاہیے ( ذاتی تجربہ)
Aur Allah Quraan Mai Kia farmaya hai Zara wo bhi Kisi say pata karlo
اگر ہر کوئی
آپ کی طرح اگنور کرے گا تو بیوہ , مطلقہ اور بے سہارا کہ جن کی عمر نکل گئی ہے اور کوئی ان سے شادی کو اب تیار نہی ہو گا۔ ان سں کا کیا ھو گا ؟
کیا آپ اپنے بیٹے کی شادی ایسی کسی لڑکی سے کریں گئے ؟ اگر نہی تو پہر آپ یہ ذمہ داری نہی اٹھا سکتے تو دوسروں کو اپنے کمزور مشوروں سے مستفید نہ ہی کریں تو بہتر ہے۔
@@scholarlyscholar aqal mand orat 2nd hand mard pay thokti bi nehi hai
AP ki to pur sakun Zindagi guzar jai gi. To un ke sakun ka kia ho ga Jo larkian arsay se rishty ke intezar main Hain?
@@newideas2800 Sharam Ani chahiay esi bat karty. Hazoor SAW aur sahaba se shabiat se 2nd 3rd nikkah bhe kiay
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Step children k bad behavior k baray me b btaye. Koi step mom acha salook b krna chahy to agy se negative behavior ka kese muqabla kry?
Ek haqiqi deendar hamesha duniyawi cheezon se compromise krke sirf Allah ki Rehmat se Khair Talab krta h...agar wo Zindagi k har masle ko sabr Aur shukrguzaari k darmiyan rakhe...
Jo Allah ne diya hai, usse mai Khair or barkat atta karay Allah! Ameen!🙏
Ya Allah tera shukar
Kya khoobsort alfaz men smjhaya hai...... MashaAllah.
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Agree
Aur agar pehle bv ko dosre ke sath rehna hi na ho dono ko alag ghar alag cities ma rehna ho phir bhi ja ker pehle bv sa ku milay
If 2nd wife is love of husband then what will a girl do??? Girl is young but boy is elder than her like 10 years
JazakALLAH!
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Great discourse sir. Jazak Allah Khair.
equality is very very important.
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Meri exactly yehi situation Hy sir
Isi silsily m AP sy counseling chahti thi
Allah NY sabeb bna dia
Jzaak Allah khair
Apk sb maswry (for 2nd wife) bilkul drust hyn smjh b aty hyn Dil ko bhi lgty hyn
Per amer bohhhhhhhhhttttt mushkil Hy
Apna AP marna perta Hy her Roz bhi nhi her lamha
Allah apko bht jza dyn or mujhy himmet
Sabar
abcd abcd ye sabar ki talqeen srf aurat ko hi q?? kbhi koi mard ko sabar ki talqeen q nai krta
Hope that situation is improved by now. Just a small piece of advice.
This life is too temporary and we all have to go sooner or later, devote urself to get real gain that is Akhirat! Allah Dil ko sakoon se bhar dega or Zindagi mai bakrat hojayege.
May Allah make it easy for u!!
@@Jannatkhan-vz1nj true
کبھی بھی کسی دو شادیوں والے کو سکون میں نہیں دیکھا، اپنے اردگرد نظر دوڑائیں ، ہر طرف بے سکونی ہی ملے گی۔ اولاد کا نہ ہونا بھی اللہ کی مرضی سمجھ کر قبول کر لینا چاہیے۔
Kamran Aziz bhai Kabi b koi chez perfect nahi hoti Shadi na kerna Na umeedi smaj lena hai
Right
Mhr abu na b dosari shadi ki hoe dakna k lia b hum tarasta hai hum apna abu ko....
Allah na krh kbi b kise ka abu dosari shadi krha we miss him Allah.....
Ye comment krta hoa b mhr eyes mai pani aagye plz Allah.....
Esme koi galat kaam nahi kiya
@@edwardlawrence8448bilkul galat kaam kiya hy unhon ney .phli bivi aur bachon ko haqooq nhi dey rahay woh .toh ye insaf toh na kiya unhon ney phli aur doosri bivi mn
Sir I m also a 2nd wife but now I am separated with 2 kids due to domestic issues I never meet his first wife my issue is that my husband's is very irresponsible towards me
Hi @Nazish Aslam
I have a question for those girls who have been a second wife:
If a man marries two girls,do they all 3(2 wives+1 husband) live in the same room?
And is it possible that the two wives live together like sisters and without any ego and quarrel?
@tiktik9413 hi
Actually it is preoccupation of mind which keeps anyone absolutely struck off understanding an easy and very simple matter.
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Yes
Yes
Aoa bhot achi bt ki ha apny. Question ye ha ky dosri shadi krny walla murd phli bivi ky haq aur usy kusyn porri ni kr sckta tu pr api khushi aur jannt ky lia dosri shadi shadi krta ha Lakin phli ka kya kassur ha jis ki zindagi ky 12 saal waste Kia hn aur usy kio khusi ni di
I like his way of explanation
Mere shohar n bina ittla diye doosri shaadi kr li aur Ma'Sha'Allah 3 bachhe mere paas h. Allah rabbul izzat ka shukr h ki govt job thi teacher hon to maali dikkat n hui mager zehni tour p BAHUT ZYADA disturb hon . Mujhe samjhayein jazakallah
Thank You asir for he right direction.
Our Holdings of Our Authentic & Beautiful Islamic teachings must be Superior over our desires.
A true Muslimah who holds the true knowledge of Deen knows the importance and needs of more than one marriages....
May Allah SWT bless The Believers (Men & Women) of Current times around the Globe, and especially in the Sub-Continent of India with
Guidance and Understanding of this issue with wisdom.
Ameen🤲
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ماشااللہ بہت زبردست میسیج دیا ہے حقیقت کے بارےسہی کہا ہے اس برداشت صبر انصاف شچ کی بہت ضرورت ہے اس میں بہت سی پیچیدگیاں ہوتی ہیں آپ کی ہر ویڈیو بہت اچھی سبق آ موز پیغام ہوتا ہے اللہ تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ اللہ تعالی آپکو آپکے اہل و عیال کو سلامت رکھےاور خوشیوں سے نوازے اللہ تعالی کے بعد بہت سے گھرانے آپکی ویڈیو کلیپ دیکھ کر اپنے مسائل کو حل کرلیتے ہیں میں آپ کی میسیج والی کلیپ دی🌟💯✍کھتی ہوں اللہ تعالی آپ کو جزاے خیر عطاء فرمائے آمین یا رب العالمین 😇👉💐🤲😇👉
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میری منزل، تیری آہٹ
میرا سدرہ، تیری چوکھٹ
تیری گاگر، میرا ساگر
تیرا صحرا ، میرا پنگھٹ
میں ازل سے ترا پیاسا
نہ ہو خالی میرا کاسہ
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تیری مدحت، میری بولی
تُو خزانہ، میں ہوں جھولی
تیرا سایہ، میری کایا
تیرا جھونکا، میری ڈولی
تیرا رستہ، میرا ہادی
تیری یادیں، میری وادی
تیرے ذرّے، میرے دیپک
وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک
تیرے دم سے دلِ بینا
کبھی فاراں، کبھی سینا
نہ ہو کیوں پھر تیری خاطر
میرا مرنا میرا جینا
یہ زمیں بھی ہو فلک سی
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میری دنیا تیرے اندر
سگِ داتا میرا ناتا
نہ ولی ہوں، نہ قلندر
تیرے سائے میں کھڑے ہیں
میرے جیسے تو بڑے ہیں
کوئی تجھ سا نہیں بے شک
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میں ادھورا، تو مکمل
میں شکستہ، تو مسلسل
میں سخنور، تو پیمبر
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تیری جنبش، میرا خامہ
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کیا تُو نے مجھے زیرک
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میرا لہجہ ہو بلالی
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نہ ہو مجھ میں کوئی کالک
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Great example by molana ashraf ali thanvi.....
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سر میری دو شادیاں ہیں
اور ایگو کے معاملے میں یہاں سب الٹ ہے
پہلی فل برداشت کرتی ہے لیکن دوسری بہت جیلس ہوتی ہے
پہلی سے بیٹا بیٹی ہے
اور دوسری سے بھی بیٹا بیٹی ہے
رہتی ایک ساتھ ہیں ایک دن ایک کھانا بناتی ہے دوسرے دن دوسری۔
دونوں ایک دوسرے کے بچوں سے بھی پیار کرتی ہیں۔
دوسری بیوی بہت زیادہ قربانیاں دیتی ہے میرے گھر میں سب کا خیال رکھتی ہے امی ابو بہن بھائی سب کی کئیر کرتی ہے
لیکن میرے معاملے میں اس میں بلکل بھی برداشت نہیں
میرا تجربہ یہی کہتا ہے کہ پہلی شادی سوچ سمجھ کر کرنی چاہیے
اور شادی صرف ایک ہی کرنی چاہئیے۔
باقی حقوق دونوں کے برابر دیتا ہوں اور بہت خوش بھی ہوں۔
وقت میں بھی اعتدال سے کام لیں۔۔
اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو خوش رکھے
Biwi ko pyar kam do bardash kar lati ha lakin lakin agar izat kam do bardash nahi kar sakti ha is laya donu do time barabar da
wassay allah na ap ko phli wali wife sa beta or beti dono deay .to baki issues ko insaan handle kr lata or usi k sath guzara kr lata .khawateen b to kuch assay mardoon ko bardasht krti hn jin k sath kabi wo rhna b ni chati or sirf bachon k leay
Aurton ki gila hi time na deny ka hota ha
Bhai ap ki bat baja ha
Shadi kren tu ek hi kren
Q k ek bv razi ho tu dusri naraz ho jati ha
Te tu Imam Ali as ka qoul ha
Ap as se dunia o akhrat ki misaal 2 bivion se di
Ek ko razi kro tu dusri naraz ho jati ha
Meri b shadi ek shuda bndy sy hui
Wo b is waja se pehly waly shohar kbhi bap nhi ban sakty thy or ilzam bv par dal dia
Ek orat ki zindgi b mard ki waja se kharab ho jati ha
Lehaza mard ho ya aurat
Shadi kren tu ek hi
Q k is hal me teeno hi khush nhi reh paty
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nice and informative explaination
MashaAllah you are blessing dear sir
Hi
You r saying 100%right but MostOfPakistanies husband r not performing perfect duties with first wife n childrens so how can he able to merrige second
I think before going into second marriage, couple should talk it out as explained by Dr SB. Both should contribute to sort things out. For example try to find out the reason why man have lost interest, what can be improved to make the things work? And vice versa
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True
Yes right,
Please clarify, what about a man who married two wives without information to each other. Now the man is not in a position to manage two wives - financially, emotionally and mentally. He is in a huge trouble now. Both the wives are not accepting the betrayal and do not want the other woman to be in his life. What suggestion is to be for him?
Both wives should respect each other.
@@huzaifashaheer724 haha That's not the Answer
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You mean thats not possible, haha.
But sisiter this is the only solution.
@@huzaifashaheer724 She is asking that what should a man do if he is not in a condition of managing both the wives equally..?isme wives ka pyar kahan se agya
Divorce both of them and marry a old woman
Nice 👍 good topic . We all should come out of hindu influences ❤️❤️❤️
Love from England ❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇵🇰🇵🇰🏴🏴🏴
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Will you be my 2nd wife?
Nabeel Khan hahaaa sorry m already taken brother
@@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576 That's wholesome you replied simply coz I expected a "simp" aka "tharki" shout-out lol
@@deebakapadia sorry if i hurt u, I should not have written hindu. With time we all learn.
No reason required to 2nd...
But equally is required ...
According to law
You are a legend sir
inspirational approach
Mentoring indeed
MashaAllah great 👍🏻 ❤
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ماشاء اللہ گریٹ سخو کمیونیٹی کہ لئے
Dusri shadi kerte howay ziyda mehnat pheli wali per kerna chahiya q k usne hi apna haq chorna hota hai uska hi denay wala waqt, tawajha ,khyal ehsaas bati hai us se liya jata hai
Mera pehli wali ne jina haram kar rakha hekyakaru
abcd abcd tu app alehda ho jao q sath reh rahay hooo
Javed sb
You are such an enlightened person. Today, I found you a bit apologetic regarding plural marriage.
You are guarded in your opinion. You advocate single marriage but...... Javed sir, we need to educate masses to come out of jhalia.
Regards
کس کس کو سدھارو گے۔بہتر ہے ایک پر ہی اکتفا کرو
Equality is very very difficult
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Sir ek Sawal hy apse
Quran me dusri tisri choti shadi ka Jo Ayat he wo Ayat kab Nazil huwa ta Khadija (RAU) ki wafat ke baad Nazil huwa ta ya ussy pehle nazil huwa ta?
Assalaam U Alaykum
I am married since last 15 years but have no kids
So looking for second wife , my wife insists me for second marriage a lot
I need someone Islamic and practising Muslima
Is that right for me?
Jazak Allah Khair
Beautifully explained. Very scholarly talk indeed. *Wise talk that weighs millions time more than all Sermons of Fasaadi Sectarian Mullahs.* However instead of seeking Guidance from Book of Allah, our Mullahs and Imams seek guidance from Oldi Mullahs like Abu Hanifa etc. but Allah has told us to use reason and follow his Book; not Mullahs blindly 9:31, 2:170, 7:179. When we see Quran's internal context, up to four Wives were permitted in that situation which existed after Battle of Ohid, when many Muslim Women and Children became orphans. Now Quran ordained to support that Orphans. But during such activities, one have to contact/meet widow too, and people can start to talk bad things; why does this man meet this and that widow!. So in this situation, Quran has told: you can marry them up to 4 but main purpose behind that marriages is not mere sex pleasure but to support Orphans.
As you have already explained beautifully: Quran tells: Better to have just one wife because Quran justifies this point by saying: It is not possible to keep balance between wives. So indirectly; Quran is supporting just one wife.
It was much better not to refer Mullah Ashraf Ali Thanwi. Seem: you have not read all his works in Full. He was one of the biggest disciples of Iblis and used to write/tell: how to do Jadoo from Sura Yasin and Sura R'ad. For example: Stay naked and recite Sura Ra'ad on a Leg of Goat and cook it and say against your enemy; he will be have disease on his skin. Read Sura Yasin as naked and do this and that and Person whom you love will come to your feet. For references, you can read this page wp.me/p4GOwI-lk
Where does Qur'an say it's impossible to keep justice between wives? Don't lie about Allah's words.
You seem like a fasaadi. Speaking utter non sense about Ulama.
My best opinion single his best about married life tensn .depression I think singel life best happy life.
Asslamo alikum mujhe apny liye rishta chiye he koi Talaq yafta ya bewah ka bacho wali ka ya single ho Whats app 03182069077.
Salam, Sir sorry to say, but sure Baqra nhi sure Al-nissa main detail i hai.
I am so sorry for interptin.
What ever it may be , please respect our ladies , they too have a heart and a soul, and are the storehouse of civilisation. A wounded female is a curse for the society , as a witness to the silent torture, feel like reaching out to and comforting the souls suffering in extreme sorrow, desolation, anguish, regret and despair. Therefore, no societies can be at peace if the weaker sex is treated as a commodity. I feel , eating habits is one of the cause, eating wild, acting wild ! In this playground of marriages , no one can do justice to the family , to the society and to their conscience.
ہماری قوم میں آکڑ بہت زیادہ ہے - یہ کسی سے معافی نہیں مانگ سکتے
Well said
واقعی آپ کی بات درست ھے ھم انا پرست متکبر گھمنڈی لوگ ھیں اور اس وجہ سے ھم ساری زندگی اذیت میں گزار دیتے ھیں۔
Jazakallah khair un kasira
عموماً دیکھا گیا ھے کہ دوسری شادی نرا رولا ھی ھے کیونکہ ایک لڑائی جیلسی شروع ھو جاتی ھے اور عموماً دیکھا گیا ھے کہ پہلی بیوی اور بچوں کے حقوق پامال ھو جاتے ھیں اور دوسری اُن پہلوں کے تمام حق چھین لیتی ھے جو کہ بُہت بڑا گناہ ھے کسی کا حق مارنا
Lagta hai ham to single hi jain ge es dunia se
Kbhi aysy bhi hota jo ourat darti he kisi ke huqoq chenny se wi majbori me dosri bv bany to usko pehli bv or disri shadi keny wala mard hi jeety jee mar dety hain
Often second wife is kept a secret and she is not given equal rights and respect etc. Though it depends upon cases
Shi kaha Apne
I m facing that nd its very painful for me nd kids😢
Excelent sir
Agar pehli shadi se khush hony k bawjud b dosri shadi krna chahy?
Super sensible answer!
Assalam u Alaikum
Sir kindly Athra ke Bemari aur us k solution k Reladed b ek Interview record kerwa dain Plz
Why does second marriage have to be associated with dissatisfaction with the first wife? Why can't a happily married man want to have another wife? Rahi baat hukook ki, tou unki adaigi aik biwi k liye bhi lazmi hai...
Very well said Sir✌🏻
You are lit👍🏻
I will recommend for multiple marriage as really healthy habits,, financial support and social security. Thanks
I have a question regarding ur lecture kindly provide me any platform... Where I can share my problem..
Dr Javed could you explain,, what is mean of society in Islam?? How we can create a halal understanding being Muslim.. my answer is 2nd 3rd and 4th marriage..
Please visit local school,, college,, university and every single person.. they are all involved in multiple relationships..😐🤔🤔
Mashallah bahut acche se samjhaya aapne sir
Orat ki dusri shadi per video bnaen
K agar wo apnay shohar ko chor kar dusri shadi karay to kya maamlaat hon gay
Koi aurat ni krti asa.. 100 ma sy 0.001 asi aurat hu gi
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@@theworldaroundus2352 jab aik jaga rishta khtm ho gaya to phr agr aurat doosri shadi ni krti to bht ghalat krti hai
Agar husband dosri shadi kary tu wife ko b apny shohar ko chorh ker dosry kisi acchy mard se shaadi ker leni chahiye.aur baccho ki responsibility tu Allah ne aadmi k sar rakki hy.bacchy b baap k pas chorh dy.
App ne baja farmya sir k aik he shadi rakhni cheay...mery father ne second marriage ki ha or hamari zindgi jhanam jesi ha i repeat jhanem jesi 😥
I can feel you.. Stay strong use your pain to achive massive success like i do...
Sabar
Oho sorry to hear this bad news mam....
Kya aap Karachi se belong karti hai please reply me
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AA Good Content and Informative.....
Agar ap jo ideal situation bta rahay hein k dosri wife ko aesa hona chahye or aesa ho bhi phr bhi b dosri ki life hell ho then? Kya dosri insaan nhi hai? Kya jeenay ka huq sirf pehli biwi ko hai or wo apnay apko Khuda samjhny lgy... es muashray me jo taqatwar hai bus ussi ki jeet hai
sahi likha behn .aik to mardon ki tadad kam hy larkiya ziada .to agar 2nd marriage na ho to baqiarkiyan kiya kunwain main chalang laga dain.compromise ziada 2nd wife karti hay bata howa admi milta hay sharafat say guzara karti hay phir b.per masharay main buri kehlati hay k pehli ka ghar barbad kar diya
Great lecture sir
Assalam walaikum sir. Mujhe aapke videos bhut inspirational lagte hain. Main sir ye janna chahti hun.. Ki mere husband ne mujhe bataye bagair dusri shadi ki hai. Lekin wo mera har tarah se khayal rakhte hai.fir bhi kabhi na kabhi mujhe dissatisfaction rehta hai... Aur main har trh se koshish krti hun bachho k ander unke baap k liye respect barkarar rakhun... Mere is mushkil situation me mujhe advice den... Ki mujhe kaise life ko happily guzarna hai
Aur sath me bchhon ki achhi tarbiyat bhi karni hai.. Meri love marriage hai. Kabhi koi jhagda bhi nahi tha. Bachhe bhi alhamdulillah 2 hain. Beta beti. Aaj bhi jhagde ka mudda jalan hi hai doosri shadi ki wajh se... Sir plz guide karen. 🙏🙏🙏
Ye kesa mard hai sis aap se bhi love marriage ki or ab 2nd marriage? How its possible???
Divorce is the only option.aisy aadmi k sath rehny se aqaila rehna behtar hy.
میں ایک سوال اگر کوئی اسلامی سکالر جواب دے سکتے ہیں۔ میرے میاں کی پہلی بیوی 3 بچے چھوڑ کر فوت ہو گئی ہے۔بچے بالغ ہیں اور 2 کی شادی ہو گئی ہے۔کیا ان بچون کی خدمت کرنا میرے پر فرض ہے اور کیا میں علیدہ گھر کی ڈیمانڈ کر سکتی ہوں۔پلیز اس ٹوپک پر روشنی ڈالیں
Sir aap ne bht achi bat ki hy magar islam mai 4 biwiyon ka barabar haq hy to 2nd ko 1st k aagy keu jhukna hoga, ? Is tarhan karny se us ki koi qadar nahi kary ga balky usay haqeer samhaj k side pe kardia jy ga aur har cheez mai pechay rakha jy ga ,
What for those women who are the second wife of a divorced man? And not married before..
جزاك الله خير كثيره
Mashallah beautifully explained....
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Dr sab young generation ka sochain.old generation Umar guzaar chuki hy.youngster k msail py video bnain.Waldain ko doosri shadi ki targheeb Matt dain balkay aulaad ki jald Shaadi ka kahain mean Matt dain shukriya.
Hahahaha i was much stressed but ur comment force me to smile
hahahaha