The Ideal Husband
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The true Muslim is an ideal husband. He cannot be other than an ideal husband, so his wife enjoys his gentle company and close companionship, no matter how long they stay together. When he comes home, he greets his wife and children with a smiling face, He should lend a hand if he sees that his wife needs his help, and he should say some words of comfort if he feels that she is complaining of tiredness, weariness or boredom.
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Arguing with people about their religion never works, but being a good role model definitely works!!
Exactly!! I totally agree with you
True
As this good role model has been done by our prophets that's why people accepted their religion.
There is no God but Allah and prophets are the prophets of God Allah
Star Cherry Masha Allah
Actions always speak louder than words
Ya Allah, grant me a righteous wife so that I may smile at her endlessly
If you want her to be like an angel, create a paradise for her first
May Allah grant your du'a
Ameen
Ya Allah accept this brothers dua, AMIN!
Ameen
Ameen
Sometimes i wonder if there are still good muslim men out there.....and am pretty sure some men are also wondering if there are still good muslim women out there.
May Allah make it easy for us all singles and grant us patience....Aameen
This is so true coming from a guy who have seing this from both the women and men side. Its so heartbroken that some men and women don't want to marry anymore because they don't believe there is someone outhere for them.
Very true. It feels really hopeless.
Ainahu Abdul Hamid Ameen 🙌🏾
Aameen
ameen ya allah
I wish that my future husband will be the best man to me, the most beautiful gift in my life
yes I will! I will be your prince 💪😉
@@ezwalduzumaki3161 lmao 😆
Inshallah
Ameen
@@ezwalduzumaki3161 May Allah have mercy on you
May Allah guide men to understand n implement this in their lyf Ameen
May Allah grant married men patience and good character to deal with their spouses irrespective of their flaws
I love ❤️ my wife
Work on yourself... love and respect yourself and you will have a partner that reciprocate that same energy. Everyone wants love and honesty but few wants to give it.
Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member..
Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain.
But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife..
My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her..
Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all..
I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me.
I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired.
Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister.
Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too..
Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do
@@onaction9677 Sister you are codependent and probably have unhealed childhood trauma. Please heal so your human dignity is restored so you know your own worth. May Allah heal you and heal your marriage. Aameen
@@M.Sid9.3 @M. Karim Assalamualaikum. Allah Swt showed mercy on me brother.. Allah Swt accepted my duas.. My husband is now transferred to UK London. As of now Iam in my mother's house after few months my husband will take me to UK and alhamdullilah I will live happy life with my husband and my son there..
Other family members who all took advantage of me are now struggling Esp. Cooking,cleaning.. They have to cook now.. No other options for my sister in laws.. Allah Swt helped me.. It's all about our intentions brother..
Thank you for replying. Iam happy in my mother's home now taking rest as I had severe leg pain standing so long long hours in the kitchen.. Now Iam free and after few months I will go and live with my husband.. Remember me in your duas.. I pray Allah Swt gives you load loads of happiness and success. Ameen. Jazakallah
You want to be the best you can of anything you do? Want to be a good leader? teacher? friend? general? ruler? imam? father and husband?
Be what ever you want to be and the best you can learn from is learn how prophet did.
*Best human ever walked the earth had set the example, but we muslims never learn to be like him*
We should learn they’re are some people tho
But why prophet Muhammad marry eleven wives if islam permits only four marriages?
Please make video series of our Prophet (peace be upon him)... it would be great !
- lailahe illallah muhemmedun rasulullah -
Ya Allah grant us goodness and happiness and make us from those who succeed. I’m really thankful I’m a Muslim love you Allah (swt) ❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊
May God bless me with best husband I'll be the best and loving wife ameeen
Ameen
@@mohamedriyas4527 no bro
@@mohamedriyas4527 lol
"Just be the best husband you can be"
I'M FINDING THESE FOR MYSELFE.
Your own behaviuor is a more reliable way to spread what you know.
This video moved me so much
Once again,great series
MaashaaAllah!
May Allah Subhanahu wa taala grant you brothers and sisters more of His fortunes and blessings and may He grant us more !!!
Soooooo beautiful Ma Shaa Allah! May Allah bless you all, Ameen!!
Tears in my heart♥️
🌹Beautiful message
Nice clip, may Allah bless you all
May Allah Bless me With a great and Sincere husband Soon Aameen
May Allah grant all spouses and marriages blessings as well as the ability to live happily and peacefully together.
May Allah bless us all to be the best husbands like prophet SAW
The best meal got me
TheUrduQuran 😅
O Rasuallah you're the most romantic man of the world 💞💖💝💗😍📿🕋💙
Woov such a nice bayan
Ya Allah grant me a righteousness wife who has taqwa in her heart so that I can love her and honour her and build a family with her ameen.
SubhanAllah! How lovely~💕
Ajie I saw your name under another muslim vidéo too salam alaikoum
Ma Sha Allah
Jazak Allah Khayr
Mashallah 🌹
I will treat my woman like a queen
The husband, should yes love her but also his religion as that would make him love his wife more. His deen is more important than money. Money is all root of evil because it will never be enough. To find a good righteous man to go to jaanat, he needs to have a good relationship with Allah swt.
Think if you was given all the money in the world a) it wouldn't be enough b) what's the point of jaanat.
As, muslims our life starts after death. So the more trials and tribulations we get we should have sabr and say alhumdolilah because Allah tests the ones he loves. He chose you because he wants to give you your reward in jaanat which is forever not this life which is temporary.
Sara ali , My sister PLEASE watch my playlists
@@kitkatpleasesubscribe6720 send me the link and I will watch it
Sara ali , sister what link?
May Allah guide us
I really want to get married Ya Allah grant me a good husband
So many good brothers around, lower your standards.
@@htmoh8115 You don't know her standards. Why blame something you don't know about? AND WHY SHOULD SHE LOWER HER STANDARDS?? WHY NOT THE OTHER WAY? WHY NOT WE MEN SHOULD INCREASE OUR GOOD POINTS SO THAT HER STANDARD GETS COVERED?
Sister are you still looking?
@@htmoh8115 I can give you a lesson in abusing, be thankful this is the comment of a woman and i would avoid doing so here. As for why it matters to me, that's none of your fucking business.
@@htmoh8115 Stop being rude for no reason
Yaa Allah I need marry next year and protect my relationship till wedding day Allah protect Mr griffin for me
Loving it lol❤️🌹👍
goose bumbs on 50000000%
Mash’allah tabarakallah ♥️😇
Idk why I'm watching this I'm still to young to marry 😂.
Subhan ALLAH 🎉
#guidancepoint
MA Sha Allah
How can we find the full videos for the marriage series?
Its there in FreeQuranEducation channel there is a playlist or just search ‘blessed home series’
Anyone have sources for that last part? Got a lot of people I want to share this with
If someone doesn't like me or reject me, does that define me? I'm on trial its seems to endless
6:34-7:00Honest question, but wouldn't that be wasting food? That's why i want to know did this actually happen or is it something the speaker just said in the moment?
Assad Khalif I'm thinking more like...that would be a lie and hypocrite if you don't like the food and pretend to your wife it's good
@@sarahjames5673 it's haram to lie in every situation.
Except, if you want to strengthen the relationship between you and your husband/wife.
Inshallah 😊
Ya Allah please guide me to be like him, i'm so awful that even the girl I guided to Islam and I wanted to marry left me.
Pray for me please brothers and sisters, insha'Allah I will learn to be this way
Ameen 😭💔💔💔
Momo Asraf toughen up. There’s 3billion women on this planet. Don’t lose your mind over 1. Move on.
I have since I wrote that, doesn't excuse the fact that I love the girl.
I used to think the same as you dude, but I've come to the realisation that not everyone is replaceable... and I just have to live with that. 3 billion other girls, but she was my girl and I'll always care about her even if it's at a distance :) Inshallah our hearts reunite but if we don't I still pray Allah keeps her safe for me so we may meet again in Jannah
@@momoasraf3348 That's nice of you. I understand your pain. But what is meant for us will never miss us and what is not for us we will not get. Trust Allah. No point dwelling on the past. If someone wants to be with you they do whatever it takes. Loyalty is everything in this game.
@@awakenthegreatnesswithin Thank you for taking the time to share good words with a stranger on the internet, it says alot about you as a person. God bless brother :) Assalamualeikum
Momo Asraf glad to help my brother walaikum as-salaam
اهدنا الصراط المستقيم
We're hotoshoni we don't live by book it's considered wrong
السلام عليكم Assalamo Allaykom
Wa alaykum Salam wa RahmatUllahi wa Barakatuhu
W alaykom aslam w Rahmat Allah w barakato
ServantofAllah
A hadith narrated by Abu Huraira, Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ ) said, “Whoever says, Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi (Glory and praise is to Allah) one hundred times a day, will have all of their sins forgiven, even if they were as much as the foam of the sea. (Bukhari)
Abu Hurairah also reported:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "He who utters a hundred times in a day these words: La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli sha'in Qadir (there is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner with Him; His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent),' he will have a reward equivalent to that of freeing ten slaves, a hundred good deeds will be recorded to his credit, hundred of his sins will be forgiven, and he will be safeguarded against the devil on that day till the evening; and no one will exceed him in doing more excellent good deeds except someone who has recited these words more often than him.
[Al- Bukhari and Muslim].
About to get married soon
The religious, religious men a blessings in awoman life they fear nothing but Allah and solid against any satanic temptations i really admire that dont look or gets attracted to only a religiously comitted women and treat with respect. Now i see why Allah and prophet highly stressed on a believers to couple only with religious and fight for them till get one . Just listening to this make feel good , i confirmed what i already been thinking of that anything Allah disapproved is no Good and i be damned if i desired it which i dont and so greatfull to Allah .thank you for lovey reminders this should show true believers how much they are protected and they shouldnt worry if they chose single hood than to couple up with hell daggers and that is a blessing Allah dont give it to all people by the way .
Yeps 👍👍
Ya rabbi Alhamdulillah for blessing me with more then I deserve...especially for blessing me with a beautiful,kind, compassionate, smart deen conscious husband ....I hope he knows, his where my love story begins.H&A
EXCTLY, I totally agree & beautifully explained each true golden wrdx in the end 👍👍👌👌😍😍👏👏😍😍🙏🏻😢today's sad reality instead f offering her gud wrdx r rose thy offer only there anger Ness r either thy be with there own gadgets as if wives are only strangers tobe were as wives wanted whl life frm there hus only these small pretty things nt demanding fr somethng whch there hus get embarrassed no way 😂😂still wives hve to sacrifice but tht atleast the creator Allh swt & his apostles knw verywell tht wives r hus fullfill there duties whther the hus accepts r nt bith f them hve to agree on this 😊
I have a question
- is it obligatory for my wife to look after my mother ?
Ebu Qble
No it’s not obligatory for your wife to look after your mother, don’t even ask her to do that because had she wanted and knew Jannah would be beneath her feet, she would look after your mother.. May Allah’s mercy and blessings be upon you ameen.
@@happygame1599 don't assume like that. Many in laws that I've seen go over board. If she's nice they take advantage of it an start treating her like dirt or slave. It's nice if she looks after your mother but it's not wrong if she doesn't. As long as she's not stopping you from taking care if your mother she's doing her job right
No. It’s YOURS. She is not your servant, and if she asks for payment for her to do housework/breastfeed your children/ raise your children, it’s her RIGHT.
But if all those she does willingly, it’s a form of VOLUNTARY work as a charity for YOU, to which Allah will reward her immensely, as she is actually taking over your responsibility. Which was why Umar ibn Khattab was silent when his wife was angry at him. BarakAllah brother
Not me wanted to get married at the age of 15 rn😌
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatallahi wa barakatahu... Question : how do brothers and sisters communicate in halal, who do not have parents and mahrams, living in foreign nations as foreign workers waiting the day to afford marriage???
May Allah make it easy for you.. just lower your gaze,fast and pray to Allah.. In sha Allah it'll be kheir
salam alaykom, i have a question i hope someone can help me with, i was married before, and have my grown up kids, is it obligatory to marry again?as im happy as i am, and do not want to marry again
Walaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu. Welcome to Islam!!! It's not obligatory (fard) to get married. However, marriage to a Muslim is said to be half of your deen.
Salam. Hope you are doing well. it is only fard (obligatory) if you fear committing zina (illegal intercourse). If you have no fear of that and are fine being single, then marriage only becomes highly recommended, but not obligatory.
The husband should love her and give her lots and lots of money 😂 I hope I can find someone to help me go jannah ameen 🤲🤲🤲
layek ali money?
The husband, should yes love her but also his religion as that would make him love his wife more. His deen is more important than money. Money is all root of evil because it will never be enough. To find a good righteous man to go to jaanat, he needs to have a good relationship with Allah swt.
Think if you was given all the money in the world a) it wouldn't be enough b) what's the point of jaanat.
As, muslims our life starts after death. So the more trials and tribulations we get we should have sabr and say alhumdolilah because Allah tests the ones he loves. He chose you because he wants to give you your reward in jaanat which is forever not this life which is temporary.
@@sarahexample2141 she didn't say anything about not following his religion...?
The woman have a handicap that is not able to work by herself and get her own money?
mier exactly I don’t understand why it’s the guys job to provide money for the famiy. I feel like they should be equally doing house chores and working.
Allahu Akbar
😭😂😂it’s funny though
Yesss!! I've never dated any girl, nor passed any comments 💪💪 What if I'm asexual??? 😱😱😱
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Can you answer me that why has a sister got so much privilege ?
and if a sister has got so much privilege then why will a man Mary a woman ?
2.2k likes for the ideal woman video, 1.8k for the ideal husband video🤣🤣
Not sure which gender watched which video
I am very much worried
Anyone can help me?
J D Allah can
@@awakenthegreatnesswithin Yes but The Noble Man of Allah Almighty can assist me
Can you please assist me how can I find the Bride??
@@JDFromAnotherPlanet What have you tried?
@@awakenthegreatnesswithin Well I tried from halfourdeen but I hadn't find it
J D try muzmatch
Although Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi was sallam was charismatic and romantic, he was physically attractive. How do I stand a chance if I'm not physically attractive? It's all good admiring all the qualities of an ideal husband, but I feel physical appearance plays a big part and turns off women.
Go to the gym brother
No excuses
@@awakenthegreatnesswithin you don't even need a gym, you can jog outside. Its not that difficult
@@thamazightgirl yeah you can jog, but to build muscle we ideally need to lift weights
Sisters don't worry your turn for this is coming next ahah
JUST BE LOYAL TO ISLAM AND NEVER UNDERESTIMATE HER
Y’all want ideal husbands but can’t be ideal wives. Get outa here.
so true the double standards are real
True words right there
Show good and learn and practice deen together. Insha'Allah you will see, what goes around comes around, the Goodness that is.
It’s actually the opposite
Chimmy Q no it’s not. So you’re telling me all women out there are ideal wives?
Women say one thing but want another thing.