Changed the gender but the soul and the spirit of the person is still the same. So when you connect with someone on a soul level. Gender doesn't matter.
That sounds nice and all, but I am sitting here trying to imagine my husband (with whom I have an amazing connection with on a mostly non physical level for nearly 20 years) turning into a wife and it's just not computing. I guess everyone is different, but my husband's spirit and soul is tightly wrapped up in his physical looks and gender traits I have known for years and if he just turned around and said he was always identifying as a gay woman I would feel betrayed.
I'm a middle aged woman, open minded but things are changing so fast I feel a little out of touch. Sometimes I don't fully understand or know enough about stuff but I do know love , it's beautiful and precious and you look like you got it. So enjoy, treasure and keep on loving.
I absolutely love your perspective. As a trans man in my early 20s I wish more people would think like you. Love is what matters the most. If the world ran on love instead of hatred it'd be a very different place indeed.
@@yardieforlife5189oh whatever, that isn't even true. Trans folks are just finally comfortable enough to be open about it. It isn't social media attempting to push the narrative that EVERYONE IS DOING IT.. trans folks just happened to also get Tiktok. And it's fine. We all deserve to feel comfortable in our bodies.
@@EveCole23yes. I fully support her choice to stay and assume she is happy until it’s shown otherwise. But I’d also support someone leaving, as this is a drastic change they did not sign up for. No judgement either way honestly. People should take an honest and hard evaluation before committing. Accepting doesn’t mean a romantic relationship is still on the table. But I am happy that things worked out and wish them peace and blessings ❤💜💚🩷💙🤍🧡🩶
@@kayla7562 exactly. And I bet you love him very much. You just love him as the man you know him to be. I'm not attracted to women, let alone a masculine man thinking he's a woman.
I feel this same way. I've resolved to give myself the best life I can until I cross paths with my future wife. Until then, I'm enjoying my life & not waiting on anyone to enjoy my life... NOW.
Quit looking. Not kidding. My daughter was stressed about not finding anyone. I told her quit looking. She quit looking and now my grandkids have a fantastic step dad! So don't stress yourself out about and enjoy life. When you least expect it, it will happen if it's meant to be. I wish you luck in your journey. 😊
First thing is to love yourself more than anything in the world and you won't give time to someone who doesn't deserve it. Second thing is to not look. Third is denied expect every single person you go on a date with to be the one. Dating so you can figure out what works for you and what doesn't. There are more but I think those are the most important❤
I’ll try to keep this short. I promise it has a positive side to it. My husband spent most of his time growing up at his best friends house. We call them his Mormon family. My husband gives them the credit for turning out the way he did. And they deserve it. It’s nothing against his biological parents, it’s just that they didn’t have the best parenting skills. Anyway, a few years ago Mormon dad transitioned. He had kept it a secret for most of his life, a few years after the death of their son (my husbands best friend) he/she came out with her feelings and plans. Their children do no talk to them, won’t acknowledge us, and that’s sad. But we refuse to walk away, we love her just the same as before. We didn’t know what to expect but she is so happy! They have stayed married like you have. They did a podcast and I just cried. It was just a beautiful love story. They have a marriage that most can only dream of. With all they have gone through, it has made them stronger. We love them, we won’t walk away, and can only hope this world sees all the amazing people in it for who they are. ❤❤❤
Life's literally too short, and true love is beyond hard to find. Soo if you find it hang on too it. If anyone judges you just smile and keep on walking with your head held high.
When I first started following your relationship, I found it very scary. It was very scary to me, because I was afraid of being witness to rejection and the pain of losing a spouse. I was very fearful for Amanda, because I thought Shaye would want to leave her for a man. I have my own baggage that made that so sad and frustrating and frightening for me. But as I’ve continued to follow you, I see that Shaye loves Amanda, just as she is and Amanda loves Shaye just as she is! You are such a beautiful couple and I am so glad you have peace and freedom and love and acceptance in your lives. I wish you beautiful ladies a lifetime of unending joy! Thank you for sharing your journey!
I couldn't have. I married a man so I wouldn't be attracted to my husband if he turned into a woman. I could still love the person but I don't think I could be in an intimate relationship with them.
A lot of couples stop having sex, at least having good sex, if it was ever good to begin with. I am not going to ask about their sex life but the cis wife has a video about how she's more attracted to her wife now than before.
when you truly love someone for who they are inside, it doesnt matter, they could gain weightm change their appearance fully (in this case transitionning) they are still the same inside. that love doesnt go away. I would understand if the partner suddenly reveals they pretended to like x and y or hid stuff but in this case the person is the same, they just matched the outside to how they've been inside.
Truth I tell people all the time live in your truth, because those people telling you what to do with your life are living their lives why not do the same.
@@artstudiogirl784 Yeah but there's so much societal pressure on them. Them coming out is releasing the "betrayal" as it were. They're no longer lying about themself.
@@matthewvivian7235 That feeling should be shared with your partner before marriage so they can make the choice of being with you for who you truly are or not. NOT wait till you been married and than decide you want a change.
@momsmusic8136 I was as honest with my partner as I was with myself. I hid nothing, lied about nothing. She and I journeyed and changed together. I'm fortunate she's been able to come along with me for better and for worse, thru thick and thin. I've been the best partner I know how to be and she treasures me for it.
A beautiful couple. My partner now wife is transitioning. Some of these comments doing not pass the vibe check. We care to see our partners happy more than anything. Gender is gender.. Means nothing to me.
@@keelyk3908 except the people who've thoroughly studied this for decades specifically say that for many the only actual "cure" is matching the body to the brain (as shown by brain scans) i.e. transitioning. This is not for all trans people, many trans people have no interest in transitioning. But in order to transition you're REQUIRED to go through intensive and invasive therapy and medical examinations. You can't just make the decision one day and do it. Trusted medical experts walk you through other treatment options and if that doesn't work, only then is transitioning an option. But I'm sure you, with all your medical expertise and experience in the scientific community, know much, much more than they do, right? I'm sure your heart and intentions are completely pure and you're definitely not coming from a place of fear or aversion to new things you don't understand.
@@juliaweigel9519 I get what you mean. I mean it means nothing to me in the sense of you be you as long as you’re happy. Tell me what to call you and that’s what matters to me.
Im so glad you guys are still together. I think this is really sweet. If my husband ever transitioned it would be really really really hard for me to stay. I just would lose all attraction to them and I would probably leave so that we both could have a better life, sad as it is. Thats also a reality of a situation like this.
Really? Two consenting adults making a decision that doesn't harm any one is the 'sickest.' 🙄 you are either being disingenuous or you're woefully ignorant to issues in the world
Not to be rude or mean or anything but I just don’t get all of this! Why all of a sudden in history are men wanting to be women and women wanting to be men?? Why is all this happening now?? Again I just don’t get it!!!!!
More and more people are just being open about it. Previously the expectation for trans people was to transition as quietly and as quickly as possible and to never be open about the "before." It's called being stealth but less people are feeling obligated to do that now.
I don’t think anyone is complaining, they put it out for all and I’m are sure “they” knew comments would be made whether your congratulating or have opposing comments.
@@Asta_Rose but if he really thought he was a girl he would have known that inherentley all his life and that is something he shouldhave discussed with her when thdy were dating.
@@michellespeight5972 Not necessarily. For some kids, they do feel that early on that they wish they could be a boy/girl, but many people it isn't inherent. Many people can't recognize immediately that the anxiety, or discomfort, they experience is coming from that gender dysphoria. They may confuse it for social anxiety. It can start off as simple as preferring their hair long or liking flowy clothes. They dated back in 2003, when being trans wasn't as well known. Many people don't recognize it in themselves until they learn the language later on in life. Even then, it could take longer to accept it for themselves.
@@Asta_Rose so was he at least honest from the beginning that he prefered female things and liked to dress as a female etc? Because he would have at least known that. If he wasn't then he was decieving her about who is personality actually was.
Yet men be like “dude she’s gained like 10 pounds since we met 10 years ago“ 🙄 meanwhile women will accept you chopping off your most prized possession.
I'd just like to add, not all trans people get bottom surgery, and for many trans people it's not something prized as much as a source of dysphoria. For me, I'm a simple trans man and I'm quite happy enough with my results from hrt 😅 I do get the tone and sentiment you're going for and mostly agree, cis men in my experience are less accepting of changes in a partner
I would never accept my partner cutting off his pen*s. And I think a lot women out there might feel the same. The physical intimacy is so important as well in a relationship. I just couldn't.
Not sure if i can get use to supposedly my husband isn't my husband anymore. 17 years is a long time and all of sudden i am with different shell but the same person. Too confusing for me.
And the homosexual couple raise the offspring that nobody wants. Highly look into homosexuality in the animal kingdom, like with Albatrosses and Penguins. “Survival of a species” is not just dependent on procreation, but caring for the young after parents die and adopting the young that are seen as weak and a detriment to the tribe.
It shows how sinful man has become that this is acceptable.we have no morals,no values and noGod in our lives.we twist scripture to accomodate our sinful lives.
Changing one’s gender presentation does not change one’s sexuality by default. This video makes it seem like sexuality is a choice, which is dangerous rhetoric.
I don't think that's necessarily true, especially with bisexual/bicurious or pansexual people. Sometimes the thought doesn't really cross someone's mind until they meet someone different that activates that attraction in them. After they realize they'd just never met someone of the other gender that they were attracted to and accept their open, more fluid sexuality, we tend to be more vigilant and look for attraction with broader horizons, now mentally attuned to the realization that it's an option. (Which starts to draw those relationships to us more frequently!) This definitely happened to me the first time I fell in love; a woman who was my best friend and a lesbian. I never thought I'd date a woman before her. I think it's difficult to understand if it doesn't apply to you or the sexuality you identify strongly with.
Dude have you heard that Bisexual, pansexual, ect people exist??? And a lot don't realize it untill they meet someone of the same gender they're attracted to and realize it. This is not someone saying sexuality is a choice. I HATE when people act like Bi/Pan ppl are straight if they're not in a queer relationship and suddenly "turn gay." She just most likely realized she wasn't straight when her partner came out as trans. I only realized I was Bi after meeting this girl while I was traveling. I started to question and realized so much about myself and my past relationships/friendships/crushes. I realized I had also had crushes on girls throughout my life and a huuuuge one on my best friend in middle school and high school but I had repressed it hard.
Always the woman sacrificing herself for some man. 🤦🏾♀️ Well at least you guys are happy but it sends the wrong message. When will a guy ever do that for a woman who wants to transition into a man. Heck, when will a man ever sacrifice anything for a womans well being. Very rare.
I wanted to type this but was afraid. Why do we never see the reverse of a man staying with his transitioned partner 👀? In my opinion all women know how to do is sacrifice themselves to be perceived as a Good Samaritan while also causing self harm to her and people around her which in a way *IS* egotistical. Not all sacrifices are done in good faith. Most men will be always be selfish. Trans/gay or not. Their ego is based on competing for validation while disregarding others feeling, but still wanting their support.
Emmm i think your forgetting about a little world war here and there. 1 or 2 sacrificing there i think for women no? How about when a man gets up a 5 in the morning to work a really hard job every day while you get your hair and nails done? When he puts in 50 hours work every single week so you can live without every doing a full days work. I 100% agree when the livestock gets too fat and lazy we need to reduce the food a little to wake them up a little. Be careful big grazing ladys.
The poor kids. I bet they will end up hating their parents because of all the bullying they will get untill they are outa the education system. Then they will have to keep it seceret for the rest of their lives. Only telling people who they really trust. They never know if that person will accept daddy in panties running about the grandkids or leave for a normal life.... i mean the only reason for someone to stay would be if you tricked then for long enough that they had already given their all to you. Its all very very selfish and childish.
@@mrspams3489Ah yes, it’s the *parents* fault for the hypothetical bullying the kids would face, and not the homophobic and transphobic programming that those bullies were indoctrinated into. Why do you have noting but hate in your heart?
This is what happens when youre in a relationship with and love someone for who they are as a *PERSON* and nothing else. Im so glad you both can continue to be happy with each other! ❤
I actually TRIED to do this for my gormer spouse but they went through a lit of emotional confusion during their transition and ran off. I would have had no problems staying with the but ghey had to go through their own journey. Oh well. Happy for you all though. I am since re-married.
@@khanhminhnguyen7274 Well, it’s obviously your business neither but you give your opinion when they post it publicly they get opinions from people it’s very simple
This is one of my favorite shorts. The "ask me why you deserve HELL" poster is the best irony ever. Some people don't actually understand commitment to another. Keep showin us all how its done.
Kudos to this wife. Much as an ally as I am, I might have some trouble with my husband transitioning to a woman. I mean, I would still see him/her as the same person whom I love, so I would still want to live together, share our life, raise our kids and consider us a couple, but I would probably struggle with the intimacy part... Probably I would ask him to accept that our relationship too transitions to an open one.
@@usahanagirlThis is about love? I thought it was about them telling us that it worked because she's into the transition and realized that she's "a little bit gay". So they both have sexual preferences and, in this case, it worked and they're happy. It's not an example of stronger love. Just regular people who like sex, in their particular way.
Cool you do you. Don't ask anyone else to accommodate this and get upset when they dont and most importantly that community needs to leave the kids alone.
If I'm being honest, I'd let my kids be around trans people more than a pastor. As from having met trans people myself, you'd find they're really sweet people, and who they are now doesn't matter.
It'd be sad for the wife as well if she had simply kept lying to her about her identity forever If she wasn't okay with it, they'd go their seperate ways and that's okay
The whole thing reeks of deception. He was willing to lose her if she didn’t accept his transition and he’s acting like she’s gay now because she chose to accept it. Narcissism.
Ngl this makes me happy. I'm so happy to see people like you and I'm so happy that there are as many trans-supporters (probably even more) as transphobes
The emptiness people feel, the need to change themselves all comes from the God size hole in their heart. Such beautiful people, all we have to do is "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".🙂❤💗
I honestly don't think she is gay she just loves her partner more than anything. If it was a different person, she would not be with them, only the person she married.
If they're happy, they're happy ‐ great! BUT... am I the only one creeped out by how the transwoman (sorry, don't know their names) keeps staring lovingly/self-importantly at the camera? (And barely looks at their partner.) I mean yes, it's good to love oneself but that look! And that self-adoring gaze is in every. single. video. There's one where the wife is trying to kiss but they can barely rip their eyes off the camera to give a chaste little peck. Reminds me of the story of Narcissus...
Is it my imagination or do they look like each other now? I'm sorry there's no way I would stay with someone who lied to me like that! If he lied about that what other things did he lie about!
How is it a lie when they didn't even know when they got married? That's called going through life with your partner. Someone changing isn't a lie, that's growing with your partner.
bro im so slow.. tell me why i thought the wife left her husband bc she realized she was gay.. it wasn’t until i watched it the second time and noticed the captions when it clicked 💀.. anyway im happy for yall ! that true love right there ! just beautiful to see :)) 💗💗..
It’s end of time for sure. In my religion, this is one of the major signs that the end of time is coming soon. Oh god protect us and our children from this disease. Ameen I do feel sorry for them too
well thank goodness your religion is just a made up bunch of nonsense invented to control people & justify horrific behavior. next time tho, try keeping your intolerance to yourself. even kindergarteners know that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all
This kinda happened to me and my hisband after six years of marriage, I knew he was bi when we got married but I was still so nervous the night I told him that I didn't think I was a woman. He said "You don't have to explain anything to me." And that's why I think we're going to be hisbands forever.
Love should actually start with ourselves, we should learn to love ourselves the way we are before loving others. You were meant to be who you are and that is why you were born like that. You are beautiful the way you are, don't let the society or people make you feel less.
I would have so many questions. Did he marry her bc he loved her or felt like he had to conform. Did he ask her about how she would feel. So selfish bc she had to transition her life for his transition.
@@allisonpettin3483 Ok fine, its like going into an eye appointment, getting new glasses, following up your appointment with a shopping spree to buy matching clothes, then maybe meeting up with the girls for lunch. Its not some life derailing surgery/treatment like yall are suggesting; honestly kinda troubles me this is how you react when someone wants to make changes in "THEIR LIFE" not yours.
@@makaylabyron972Ja, Gott und sein geliebter Sohn Jesus lieben alle Menschen aber nicht ihre sündigen Handlungen. Deshalb gibt er ihnen noch die Zeit, zu bereuen und sich zu ändern, und zu Gott umzukehren. Wenn sie es bis dahin nicht getan haben, werden sie von Jesus, wenn er bald eingreift, alles was in Gottes Augen böse ist, beseitigen ...
This in my eyes, is true love!! No matter what adversity you both faced, you never gave up on each other and you upheld your vows. God Bless you both and you are definitely a testimony of devotion ❤
Omg you guys should remarried again!! Did that already happened?
In the plans 🥰
@@GreatScottsI wish you happiness !!
Great Scotts look at the diversity I love it you guys are AMAZING 🤩❤ TRUE LOVE GOES THROUGH IT ALL AND COMES OUT MORE STRONG 💪🏻
@@KennethRachel-xi7dv I agree with you !!
You are living a modern day fairytale 🥰 thank you for sharing 😘
Changed the gender but the soul and the spirit of the person is still the same. So when you connect with someone on a soul level. Gender doesn't matter.
Well said. I wish I had connected with someone.
No it's not,that's why God destroyed Sodom and the other city.We are living in the last days.You should know better.
Then why pretend to change it???
That sounds nice and all, but I am sitting here trying to imagine my husband (with whom I have an amazing connection with on a mostly non physical level for nearly 20 years) turning into a wife and it's just not computing. I guess everyone is different, but my husband's spirit and soul is tightly wrapped up in his physical looks and gender traits I have known for years and if he just turned around and said he was always identifying as a gay woman I would feel betrayed.
You can't change your gender 🤦
I told my wife a little more than a year ago that I was trans, her reaction was to smile and say, "well it's a good thing I'm not straight,"
Ndi ala.
So sweet !
I once heard Sophie Turner say " I'm in love with a soul, not with a gender". This got stuck in my mind, such a good remark!
That's actually considered pan sexual.
@@erincoco612 ok, thanks!
It makes sense, doesn’t it? We are our souls housed in a body.
You were always attracted to her feminine side. ❤️❤️❤️❤️so happy for you both. Much love and happiness.
That's bs
I'm a middle aged woman, open minded but things are changing so fast I feel a little out of touch. Sometimes I don't fully understand or know enough about stuff but I do know love , it's beautiful and precious and you look like you got it. So enjoy, treasure and keep on loving.
I love ❤that perspective you’re amazing for thinking that way. And many others should do the same 🙏🙏
You'll be fine, social media wants to push this like everyone is doing it!
You’re a sweetheart x
I absolutely love your perspective. As a trans man in my early 20s I wish more people would think like you. Love is what matters the most. If the world ran on love instead of hatred it'd be a very different place indeed.
@@yardieforlife5189oh whatever, that isn't even true. Trans folks are just finally comfortable enough to be open about it. It isn't social media attempting to push the narrative that EVERYONE IS DOING IT.. trans folks just happened to also get Tiktok. And it's fine.
We all deserve to feel comfortable in our bodies.
Neither of you look old enough to have been in a relationship for 17 years!!! 😳 What a beautiful couple 🥰
That's what I was thinking too.
They were Mormon, they usually get married super young.
He did when he was a dude
They are! Definitely look 30s - look closely. Some buttocks in there too
I read it as they married 17 years ago, so probably longer.
When you marry your best friend and true soul mate with unconditional love nor judgement. It’s a beautiful thing to love freely.
I love my husband, and he is 100% my best friend and soulmate- but I am not attracted to women. That doesn't make my love and feelings any less.
Just because someone doesn't want to be with someone who transitions in the middle of their relationship doesnt mean they're judging.
@@EveCole23yes. I fully support her choice to stay and assume she is happy until it’s shown otherwise. But I’d also support someone leaving, as this is a drastic change they did not sign up for. No judgement either way honestly. People should take an honest and hard evaluation before committing. Accepting doesn’t mean a romantic relationship is still on the table. But I am happy that things worked out and wish them peace and blessings ❤💜💚🩷💙🤍🧡🩶
@@EveCole23I’d be so bummed if my man of 8 years decided to change up like that. Defintley a case by case thing 😩
@@kayla7562 exactly. And I bet you love him very much. You just love him as the man you know him to be. I'm not attracted to women, let alone a masculine man thinking he's a woman.
How do people meet people who just love them no matter what and I can’t find anyone 😅
I feel this same way. I've resolved to give myself the best life I can until I cross paths with my future wife.
Until then, I'm enjoying my life & not waiting on anyone to enjoy my life...
NOW.
Hang in there Bunny, there is someone for everyone!
RIGHTT
Quit looking. Not kidding. My daughter was stressed about not finding anyone. I told her quit looking. She quit looking and now my grandkids have a fantastic step dad! So don't stress yourself out about and enjoy life. When you least expect it, it will happen if it's meant to be. I wish you luck in your journey. 😊
First thing is to love yourself more than anything in the world and you won't give time to someone who doesn't deserve it. Second thing is to not look. Third is denied expect every single person you go on a date with to be the one. Dating so you can figure out what works for you and what doesn't. There are more but I think those are the most important❤
I’ll try to keep this short. I promise it has a positive side to it.
My husband spent most of his time growing up at his best friends house. We call them his Mormon family. My husband gives them the credit for turning out the way he did. And they deserve it. It’s nothing against his biological parents, it’s just that they didn’t have the best parenting skills.
Anyway, a few years ago Mormon dad transitioned. He had kept it a secret for most of his life, a few years after the death of their son (my husbands best friend) he/she came out with her feelings and plans.
Their children do no talk to them, won’t acknowledge us, and that’s sad.
But we refuse to walk away, we love her just the same as before. We didn’t know what to expect but she is so happy! They have stayed married like you have. They did a podcast and I just cried. It was just a beautiful love story.
They have a marriage that most can only dream of. With all they have gone through, it has made them stronger. We love them, we won’t walk away, and can only hope this world sees all the amazing people in it for who they are. ❤❤❤
True unconditional love 🙌🏼🫶🏼
there are so many ways to be in this world. The important things is to be good people, be kind and if you find good love, take care of it.
Life's literally too short, and true love is beyond hard to find. Soo if you find it hang on too it. If anyone judges you just smile and keep on walking with your head held high.
Beautiful ❤❤❤❤
She did not do all that to be with a female. She gets it in with dudes somehow.
people see a happy couple and be like “ITS THE END OF THE WORLD!!” literally 😂
But it is the end of the world 😵💫
@@mobany2027 please explain to me your thought process there (if there is one)
@@mobany2027 ...as we know it, but I feel fine! 🎶
Because their world is whole! 😍🥹💜💙🌹
Says every cult leader since 1100 AD@@mobany2027
When I first started following your relationship, I found it very scary. It was very scary to me, because I was afraid of being witness to rejection and the pain of losing a spouse. I was very fearful for Amanda, because I thought Shaye would want to leave her for a man. I have my own baggage that made that so sad and frustrating and frightening for me. But as I’ve continued to follow you, I see that Shaye loves Amanda, just as she is and Amanda loves Shaye just as she is! You are such a beautiful couple and I am so glad you have peace and freedom and love and acceptance in your lives. I wish you beautiful ladies a lifetime of unending joy! Thank you for sharing your journey!
Thank you for having an open heart 🥰♥️
This probably wouldn't have worked if she were the one who transitioned.
This usually doesn't work. I don't think my girlfriend would stay with me if I'd change sex. She's not a lesbian. Likewise if she'd change sex.
That's for sure.😅
I couldn't have. I married a man so I wouldn't be attracted to my husband if he turned into a woman. I could still love the person but I don't think I could be in an intimate relationship with them.
A lot of couples stop having sex, at least having good sex, if it was ever good to begin with.
I am not going to ask about their sex life but the cis wife has a video about how she's more attracted to her wife now than before.
😂 Science deeply disagrees with you. @@Alight86
@@Alight86your right. Thats because she always was a woman
@@Alight86it would be she now, dear. Have a little respect why don't you
@@Alight86thankyou.
Y’all look like twins now 😂
My thoughts exactly. I couldn't tell which were which😮
@blackdiamond696 I could just from the heights 😊
@@Bird1964
I was looking when they were lying down
@@blackdiamond696 difficult to know exactly 😊
Wow, subconsciously married a lookalike. I don't think it's just coincidence. There's probably some fascinating psychology behind it.
I’m sorry people are just weird these days. I don’t get any of this and why we are insisting it’s normal and okay.
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when you truly love someone for who they are inside, it doesnt matter, they could gain weightm change their appearance fully (in this case transitionning) they are still the same inside. that love doesnt go away. I would understand if the partner suddenly reveals they pretended to like x and y or hid stuff but in this case the person is the same, they just matched the outside to how they've been inside.
We're insisting it's normal and ok because IT IS normal and ok. Must be hard to find real love when you don't understand what it truly is
@2004dale Can't agree with you more
I’m genuinely happy that they found each other. I wish nothing but the best for them as a couple, as well as individuals ❤❤❤
Not the "ask me why you deserve hell" sign in the background 💀
It’s facts tho
Yeah… Almost called off my whole transition over it 🫢
@@GreatScottsNever let this type of people stop you from being yourself. 💖
@@sweettexast2894not at all
😂@@GreatScotts
This is what loving the PERSON, not the Gender, looks like! 🥰
Good for them, but this shouldn’t be the expectation for everyone else.
I could not go it. I could love them as a friend but no I would not be attracted to them. Happy it worked out for them ❤
What even is gender?
@@iCanFlyWatchMe ...Not the GENITALS they had, have or will have!
Truth I tell people all the time live in your truth, because those people telling you what to do with your life are living their lives why not do the same.
The plot twist had me - 💀💀💀 what the fuck just happened.
And the people in chat section, 😂😂 man y'all are so open minded that your brain fell out.
Exactly.
Glad someone said it 😅
or you’re just dumb !
Haha! So true 😂
i think you are too closeminded that your brain is lacking oxygen
I'm dorry but if my "husband" wanted to change sexes I would feel betrayed
In what fucking way would they be betraying you?
@@matthewvivian7235 not being who they presented themselves to be.
@@artstudiogirl784 Yeah but there's so much societal pressure on them. Them coming out is releasing the "betrayal" as it were. They're no longer lying about themself.
@@matthewvivian7235 That feeling should be shared with your partner before marriage so they can make the choice of being with you for who you truly are or not. NOT wait till you been married and than decide you want a change.
@momsmusic8136 I was as honest with my partner as I was with myself. I hid nothing, lied about nothing. She and I journeyed and changed together. I'm fortunate she's been able to come along with me for better and for worse, thru thick and thin. I've been the best partner I know how to be and she treasures me for it.
This entire world is doomed
why
It’s getting worse. As expected 👹
@@Allthingsgreat1so dramatic for no reason 😐 there are worse things in the world right now and your complaining about this 😅
With that attitude, why yes, yes it is. Not for everyone, though. Love, progress, acceptance are wonderful evolutions of this human state.
@@ElyssiumEarth agree agree AGREED
A beautiful couple. My partner now wife is transitioning. Some of these comments doing not pass the vibe check. We care to see our partners happy more than anything. Gender is gender.. Means nothing to me.
@@kzzroxx7721it's not important to the one who truly loves someone, but it is important to someone that lives in this body.
@@keelyk3908 except the people who've thoroughly studied this for decades specifically say that for many the only actual "cure" is matching the body to the brain (as shown by brain scans) i.e. transitioning. This is not for all trans people, many trans people have no interest in transitioning. But in order to transition you're REQUIRED to go through intensive and invasive therapy and medical examinations. You can't just make the decision one day and do it. Trusted medical experts walk you through other treatment options and if that doesn't work, only then is transitioning an option. But I'm sure you, with all your medical expertise and experience in the scientific community, know much, much more than they do, right? I'm sure your heart and intentions are completely pure and you're definitely not coming from a place of fear or aversion to new things you don't understand.
@@mamabear558You are truly ignorant. There is a raaaange of intersex people which are actually not XX nor XY.
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@@juliaweigel9519 I get what you mean. I mean it means nothing to me in the sense of you be you as long as you’re happy. Tell me what to call you and that’s what matters to me.
Im so glad you guys are still together. I think this is really sweet. If my husband ever transitioned it would be really really really hard for me to stay. I just would lose all attraction to them and I would probably leave so that we both could have a better life, sad as it is. Thats also a reality of a situation like this.
I've never seen anything sicker in my life...
Finally someone is making sense
Really...? Smh
Look at domestic and sexual violence. Those hurts the innocent, and are way worse than anything in this video.
Really? Two consenting adults making a decision that doesn't harm any one is the 'sickest.' 🙄 you are either being disingenuous or you're woefully ignorant to issues in the world
@selina1156 what a plastic world you must live in
He doesn’t look at her! He loves only himself
Of course a transphobe would assume that
She's looking at the camera, taking pics and recording, not just staring at herself😂 She's looking at her wife lovingly through the camera❤
You know the camera reflects both of them right? So she is looking at her through the camera lens.
Come on! It’s a 3 min video and you’re confident in knowing he doesn’t look at her?!😂
@@mariesmith4344 *she
Not to be rude or mean or anything but I just don’t get all of this! Why all of a sudden in history are men wanting to be women and women wanting to be men?? Why is all this happening now?? Again I just don’t get it!!!!!
More and more people are just being open about it. Previously the expectation for trans people was to transition as quietly and as quickly as possible and to never be open about the "before." It's called being stealth but less people are feeling obligated to do that now.
It's the end of the age.
Only the future will tell us.
Can't really do anything.
Every society ended this way. Even Rome. Sexuality is the downfall of every nation
It's not new!
The new world truely out of control.
Yes
Lord please come we are ready.
So of all the wars, genocides, poverty, mass murder, slavery, and the death of the planet, trans people existing was the final straw?
Its not new. It's always been this way. People are just more open now....
@@kage5995 How about you just live your life and ignore other people, hm? God doesn't like your judgement.
F’d up world we live in. 😔
because of people life you -.-
Two consenting adults being in love and happy no matter what is fcked up how exactly? Are you lonely ?
Exactly
ikr, these transphobes have got to stop like how does this affect your personal life?
Im sorry people being happy and living their best lives upsets you
If the partner is okay with it i dont know what yall are complaining about-
I don’t think anyone is complaining, they put it out for all and I’m are sure “they” knew comments would be made whether your congratulating or have opposing comments.
All I have to say is ….. GOD DONT MAKE MISTAKES
Exactly, he gave us the ability and the brains to be able to change and adapt
@@shauniiii961 Adapt to our surroundings, such as developing medicine for disease, help for mental health, and social landscapes.
well he made you
God definitely doesn't make mistakes but human beings been making mistakes for years, this is just one more.
@@desleyrosas117 most definitely humans thinking they know better then god 🤦🏻♀️
Did he tell her he felt like a girl when he first met her? If not then he decieved her n that in itself would make me walk.
It took her years to even accept it until years into marriage, that's not deception, that's growing with your partner
@@Asta_Rose but if he really thought he was a girl he would have known that inherentley all his life and that is something he shouldhave discussed with her when thdy were dating.
@@michellespeight5972 Not necessarily. For some kids, they do feel that early on that they wish they could be a boy/girl, but many people it isn't inherent. Many people can't recognize immediately that the anxiety, or discomfort, they experience is coming from that gender dysphoria. They may confuse it for social anxiety. It can start off as simple as preferring their hair long or liking flowy clothes. They dated back in 2003, when being trans wasn't as well known. Many people don't recognize it in themselves until they learn the language later on in life. Even then, it could take longer to accept it for themselves.
@@michellespeight5972 That doesn't even start on the social conventions that we're raised to uphold. That's a whole rabbit hole in itself.
@@Asta_Rose so was he at least honest from the beginning that he prefered female things and liked to dress as a female etc? Because he would have at least known that. If he wasn't then he was decieving her about who is personality actually was.
Two happy people. I wouldnt be that happy if my wife wants to transition, though
Yet men be like “dude she’s gained like 10 pounds since we met 10 years ago“ 🙄 meanwhile women will accept you chopping off your most prized possession.
I'd just like to add, not all trans people get bottom surgery, and for many trans people it's not something prized as much as a source of dysphoria.
For me, I'm a simple trans man and I'm quite happy enough with my results from hrt 😅
I do get the tone and sentiment you're going for and mostly agree, cis men in my experience are less accepting of changes in a partner
So much cap here. Women cheat more than men and initiate 80% of divorces.
I would never accept my partner cutting off his pen*s. And I think a lot women out there might feel the same. The physical intimacy is so important as well in a relationship. I just couldn't.
Not sure if i can get use to supposedly my husband isn't my husband anymore. 17 years is a long time and all of sudden i am with different shell but the same person. Too confusing for me.
A sperm does not chase another sperm, it chases an egg
Nice to know..?
These are two women? You're doing the wrong kind of homophobia?
Ok and?
It's always then men doing the chasing...
And the homosexual couple raise the offspring that nobody wants. Highly look into homosexuality in the animal kingdom, like with Albatrosses and Penguins. “Survival of a species” is not just dependent on procreation, but caring for the young after parents die and adopting the young that are seen as weak and a detriment to the tribe.
It shows how sinful man has become that this is acceptable.we have no morals,no values and noGod in our lives.we twist scripture to accomodate our sinful lives.
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You are correct
Absolutely
Changing one’s gender presentation does not change one’s sexuality by default. This video makes it seem like sexuality is a choice, which is dangerous rhetoric.
I don't think that's necessarily true, especially with bisexual/bicurious or pansexual people. Sometimes the thought doesn't really cross someone's mind until they meet someone different that activates that attraction in them. After they realize they'd just never met someone of the other gender that they were attracted to and accept their open, more fluid sexuality, we tend to be more vigilant and look for attraction with broader horizons, now mentally attuned to the realization that it's an option. (Which starts to draw those relationships to us more frequently!) This definitely happened to me the first time I fell in love; a woman who was my best friend and a lesbian. I never thought I'd date a woman before her.
I think it's difficult to understand if it doesn't apply to you or the sexuality you identify strongly with.
Yeah dangerous all right but not for the reasons you are saying.
As a lesbian I 100% agree. If gender isn't real, neither is sexuality.
Dude have you heard that Bisexual, pansexual, ect people exist??? And a lot don't realize it untill they meet someone of the same gender they're attracted to and realize it. This is not someone saying sexuality is a choice. I HATE when people act like Bi/Pan ppl are straight if they're not in a queer relationship and suddenly "turn gay." She just most likely realized she wasn't straight when her partner came out as trans.
I only realized I was Bi after meeting this girl while I was traveling. I started to question and realized so much about myself and my past relationships/friendships/crushes. I realized I had also had crushes on girls throughout my life and a huuuuge one on my best friend in middle school and high school but I had repressed it hard.
Yet presenting how she wanted to made her happy. Anything else just shouldn't matter. They aren't hurting anyone.
Always the woman sacrificing herself for some man. 🤦🏾♀️ Well at least you guys are happy but it sends the wrong message. When will a guy ever do that for a woman who wants to transition into a man. Heck, when will a man ever sacrifice anything for a womans well being. Very rare.
I wanted to type this but was afraid. Why do we never see the reverse of a man staying with his transitioned partner 👀? In my opinion all women know how to do is sacrifice themselves to be perceived as a Good Samaritan while also causing self harm to her and people around her which in a way *IS* egotistical. Not all sacrifices are done in good faith. Most men will be always be selfish. Trans/gay or not. Their ego is based on competing for validation while disregarding others feeling, but still wanting their support.
Emmm i think your forgetting about a little world war here and there. 1 or 2 sacrificing there i think for women no?
How about when a man gets up a 5 in the morning to work a really hard job every day while you get your hair and nails done? When he puts in 50 hours work every single week so you can live without every doing a full days work.
I 100% agree when the livestock gets too fat and lazy we need to reduce the food a little to wake them up a little. Be careful big grazing ladys.
I love my partner for his soul, not his gender. I am glad to see I am not the only one. ❤
This world needs more ( i dont know what) but something is so wrong now days.
The world needs JESUS!!!
@@lindsaymacklin8220👍👍👍
Ja, er wird bald eingreifen ...
Im glad there are no kids involved
There are, and their very happy
The poor kids. I bet they will end up hating their parents because of all the bullying they will get untill they are outa the education system.
Then they will have to keep it seceret for the rest of their lives. Only telling people who they really trust. They never know if that person will accept daddy in panties running about the grandkids or leave for a normal life.... i mean the only reason for someone to stay would be if you tricked then for long enough that they had already given their all to you.
Its all very very selfish and childish.
they do have children
@@mrspams3489Ah yes, it’s the *parents* fault for the hypothetical bullying the kids would face, and not the homophobic and transphobic programming that those bullies were indoctrinated into.
Why do you have noting but hate in your heart?
@@freddiemeyer4563very convenient
Stay out of the ladies bathrooms
and you stay away from everyone else, jesus. why are you so interested in a stranger's genitals?
You first
I still can't digest, that a Fully grown male is so insecure that he has to transition to live rest of his life on meds!
Some people do live their lives on meds for various reasons. You're just jealous bc no woman wants you, huh
Not you being a sad bitch under a vid of married happy couple 🤣
U not alone, I can't understand it either
@@catjaorsino8252 Congrats, you're cis, you want a gold star for never having gender dysphoria?
and biological women can't even get hrt medicine
Okay but you are both absolutely stunning!!
This is what happens when youre in a relationship with and love someone for who they are as a *PERSON* and nothing else. Im so glad you both can continue to be happy with each other! ❤
I actually TRIED to do this for my gormer spouse but they went through a lit of emotional confusion during their transition and ran off. I would have had no problems staying with the but ghey had to go through their own journey. Oh well. Happy for you all though. I am since re-married.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope your former spouse has healed, you have healed, and everyone is happy and well
I do think it's admirable tho that you loved the person so much and tried to keep your wedding vows.
From one trans person to another…I see you! Love this video. Instantly subscribed! ❤
"Whata if we kissed under the homophobic protest signs" 👉👈
Ilysm
It’s simply wrong
Why cause YOU don’t think it’s right. Just keep scrolling dude stfu
who determines what is wrong and what isn‘t
@@aliiirxsa4235 God ! There’s a book called bible ! He created man and woman! Plain simple!
It is between the couple. It is none of your business.
@@khanhminhnguyen7274 Well, it’s obviously your business neither but you give your opinion when they post it publicly they get opinions from people it’s very simple
This is one of my favorite shorts. The "ask me why you deserve HELL" poster is the best irony ever. Some people don't actually understand commitment to another. Keep showin us all how its done.
Kudos to this wife. Much as an ally as I am, I might have some trouble with my husband transitioning to a woman. I mean, I would still see him/her as the same person whom I love, so I would still want to live together, share our life, raise our kids and consider us a couple, but I would probably struggle with the intimacy part... Probably I would ask him to accept that our relationship too transitions to an open one.
If you ask me, marrying a man but getting a wife is the ultimate win.
They're both consenting adults who were already married. No harm, no foul.
Nope! That is not who I married...moving on. Such a selfish human.
How is it selfish to love your partner and accept them?
You describing yourself?
sad that you don’t love your partner as much as they love each other but that’s not their problem
Selfish how?
@@usahanagirlThis is about love? I thought it was about them telling us that it worked because she's into the transition and realized that she's "a little bit gay". So they both have sexual preferences and, in this case, it worked and they're happy. It's not an example of stronger love. Just regular people who like sex, in their particular way.
Cool you do you.
Don't ask anyone else to accommodate this and get upset when they dont and most importantly that community needs to leave the kids alone.
Finally some sane person in the comments section
No one asked.
If I'm being honest, I'd let my kids be around trans people more than a pastor. As from having met trans people myself, you'd find they're really sweet people, and who they are now doesn't matter.
@@aidasalazar9702 We can tell you are a lunatic just by your hair, you dont really need to express opinions.
We haven’t been doing anything to the kids genuinely what are you even talking about
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But you could have lost her and you were willing to take that risk? She's not gay she just loves you.
She's a woman...who is in love with and attracted to another woman. That's pretty gay.
She's definitely a little gay, she looks hot
You know this woman? You know her sexuality?
It'd be sad for the wife as well if she had simply kept lying to her about her identity forever
If she wasn't okay with it, they'd go their seperate ways and that's okay
The whole thing reeks of deception. He was willing to lose her if she didn’t accept his transition and he’s acting like she’s gay now because she chose to accept it. Narcissism.
What’s “a little bit gay”?
Idiotic
Bisexual, pans sexual, heteroflexible... take your pick!
Bisexuality
Then he will leave her for a man
How if this video technically means she is a lesbian in love with her wife.
@aidensalazar9702 no, that's not a thing
@@sweetthunderoflove1 Lesbains don't exist...um...m'kay
Ngl this makes me happy. I'm so happy to see people like you and I'm so happy that there are as many trans-supporters (probably even more) as transphobes
the world needs more love like this. Love that doesn't see with it's eyes but with it's heart and soul
This is insanity not love. 😂😂
NO!🪴😎✌🏾
No it doesn’t. It started w a big lie
OMG really!!
The true meaning of UNCONDITIONAL love.
I agree… it’s looking past everything and embracing the bond between two people. It’s probably a deeper love than most can comprehend ❤
What a disgrace
Who you?
To have a loving marriage?
Aww don’t talk about yourself like that
Eww.
Talk about unconditional love.
You aint lying. What a handsome husband she had,I'd be devastated 😢
@@kimberleeberry2039I don't think you understand what they mean
Yes it's so sweet!!
@@kimberleeberry2039 Good thing this isn't about you
@@Kays_corpes Thank heavens
The emptiness people feel, the need to change themselves all comes from the God size hole in their heart. Such beautiful people, all we have to do is "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".🙂❤💗
Did you use straight as a metaphor? 😂😂
Beautiful before and after!!! I would still have been in love too. ❤
Nope
Ur in a cult
Well she tried to do this her whole life, probably harder than you can possibly imagine.
She didn’t want to split assets
damn yall are beautiful wtf😭
He fell in love with her years ago, and secretly wanted to be her...twins
What if she wasnt a little big gay? You would separate?
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Well yeah
The attraction is not going to be there so definitely going to have to separate.
I honestly don't think she is gay she just loves her partner more than anything. If it was a different person, she would not be with them, only the person she married.
If they're happy, they're happy ‐ great! BUT... am I the only one creeped out by how the transwoman (sorry, don't know their names) keeps staring lovingly/self-importantly at the camera? (And barely looks at their partner.) I mean yes, it's good to love oneself but that look! And that self-adoring gaze is in every. single. video. There's one where the wife is trying to kiss but they can barely rip their eyes off the camera to give a chaste little peck. Reminds me of the story of Narcissus...
You realize cameras also are mirrors a lot of the time? They're looking at themselves, as in the both of them, with love. They're loving their love.
Narcissism/autogynophilia
😮 wow- strange flesh. Come Lord Jesus 🙏
Who?? 😂😂
And she a baddie? win.
Elohim have merci on us, look what pride has done to your creation, have merci😢
But it all comes in LGBTQ ,as a gay myself I am clearing the difference ❤❤❤❤
What absurdity
It wont last. I promise you that.
This is incredibly wholesome. You two are fortunate to have found each other and to have grown with each other throughout the years.
It's not gay when she simply loves you for you!! Plus you transitioned beautifully!!
Is it my imagination or do they look like each other now? I'm sorry there's no way I would stay with someone who lied to me like that! If he lied about that what other things did he lie about!
How is it a lie when they didn't even know when they got married? That's called going through life with your partner. Someone changing isn't a lie, that's growing with your partner.
Love this. Marriage IS a promise a vow to love and cherish each other for all eternity ❤️ (minus abuse of any kind of course) I so adore you guys.
Yeah and he clearly broke it
@@sabcam2000they're still married and they clearly still love each other. What vows were broken?
@@sabcam2000and it's she
@@aaronjames3228 It's actually not, but whatever dude wants.
@@aaronjames3228no it’s not a she…..or he or them they. It’s an it.
bro im so slow.. tell me why i thought the wife left her husband bc she realized she was gay.. it wasn’t until i watched it the second time and noticed the captions when it clicked 💀.. anyway im happy for yall ! that true love right there ! just beautiful to see :)) 💗💗..
It’s end of time for sure. In my religion, this is one of the major signs that the end of time is coming soon. Oh god protect us and our children from this disease. Ameen
I do feel sorry for them too
May Allah SWT save our ummah from end time's fitnah
well thank goodness your religion is just a made up bunch of nonsense invented to control people & justify horrific behavior. next time tho, try keeping your intolerance to yourself. even kindergarteners know that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all
I feel sorry and pity you.
Fall in love w the soul not the body. These things are just meat suits. Soul is forever. ❤
If only soul is important why he changed his physical looks?
@@sasapejcin3568 everyone changes their physical appearance though, and typically for themselves, not anyone else.
@@Ayyylien51 I know but not that drastically!
@@sasapejcin3568 Maybe not in your small bubble, but across history and cultures yes, yes they do.
Why say she's gay? She loved him, and realized she was ready to accept him no matter what. She's very brave and this needs to be acknowledged.
How is she a little bit gay though? He probably still has a penis and she doesn’t care what he dresses like bc she loves him anyway haha
Because she is attracted to her wife
This kinda happened to me and my hisband after six years of marriage, I knew he was bi when we got married but I was still so nervous the night I told him that I didn't think I was a woman. He said "You don't have to explain anything to me." And that's why I think we're going to be hisbands forever.
Love should actually start with ourselves, we should learn to love ourselves the way we are before loving others. You were meant to be who you are and that is why you were born like that. You are beautiful the way you are, don't let the society or people make you feel less.
Good for you but I just despise how social media reduces complex issues to little sound bytes
That's so much of the problem. Little clips and fake smiles. Any talk with intellectually honesty is avoided
@@Abi-hu1eh Then go watch a actual video of them (not a short) and experience the "talk with intellectual honesty" you are looking for.
Humans don't change sex
Live your life and be happy but gay means same-sex attracted, not opposite sex like u2
The ignorance of some people is unreal
Say it louder !
@@moniqueabundancefor the people in the back!!! 😅😊
Maybe he loves looking like a woman, not physically being one.
Period. HOMOSEXUAL. They always wanna say they're gay or like here he says " a bit gay"
Omg love your story. Very close to mine and my husband who is now transitioning into a female. We just started our journey 8 months ago. Thanks
New fear unlocked 🙂🙃🫠
I would have so many questions. Did he marry her bc he loved her or felt like he had to conform. Did he ask her about how she would feel. So selfish bc she had to transition her life for his transition.
She really didn't though; its about as much of a life changing event as going in for an eye appointment and getting a new pair of glasses.
It’s way more than going to a damn eye doctor for F sake!!!
@@allisonpettin3483 Ok fine, its like going into an eye appointment, getting new glasses, following up your appointment with a shopping spree to buy matching clothes, then maybe meeting up with the girls for lunch.
Its not some life derailing surgery/treatment like yall are suggesting; honestly kinda troubles me this is how you react when someone wants to make changes in "THEIR LIFE" not yours.
This isn’t what our Lord had in mind just not normal 🤮
Isn't the "lord" supose to love all?
Well ur not going to heaven
@@makaylabyron972Ja, Gott und sein geliebter Sohn Jesus lieben alle Menschen aber nicht ihre sündigen Handlungen. Deshalb gibt er ihnen noch die Zeit, zu bereuen und sich zu ändern, und zu Gott umzukehren. Wenn sie es bis dahin nicht getan haben, werden sie von Jesus, wenn er bald eingreift, alles was in Gottes Augen böse ist, beseitigen ...
You two are awesome!!! so sorry for all the hateful comments
When 2 souls love each other, the power outfit doesn't matter. Bless you both ❤❤
Shes been totally gaslighted
How? She learned she was a woman, and accepted it.
Cool for them, i personally prefer my husband looking like a man because thats what im attracted to, that doesnt make my love for him "fake"
I love this. They're both so stunning ❤️
I’m LDS and you have it!!! The everything!!! The support and love….🥰
This in my eyes, is true love!! No matter what adversity you both faced, you never gave up on each other and you upheld your vows. God Bless you both and you are definitely a testimony of devotion ❤