4 Steps to Mastering Your Emotions | Your Negative Attitude Blocks Your Blessings
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- Опубліковано 14 чер 2024
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My GIRLS! I absolutely loved making this video for you, and I know it's going to help so many of you. To get what you want in life, to receive what you pray for, and to attract beautiful things into your life, you will need to learn to understand and control your emotions. The importance of controlling your emotions cannot be overstated. What is in your heart is the truth; you can consciously choose to think, 'I am grateful,' but until you feel grateful and your body is in that same state, you will not know the benefits of gratitude. To 'become,' your mind and body must be in the same state, meaning you have to think and feel abundant, successful, and grateful to then experience that in your life. The power of controlling your emotions lies in the ability to direct your thoughts and feelings towards positivity. When you gain control over your emotions, you can navigate through challenges with resilience and maintain a positive mindset.I genuinely hope you enjoy this video and that it brings you benefits in every possible way! Much love to you all! ✨🧚🏽♂️
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♡ Contents Of Video ♡
00:00 - Intro
00:44 - Why I made this video
04:30 - “Just think positive” DOESN'T WORK
05:49 - Why is this important?
14:20 - How we get stuck in negative cycles
20:14 - Proof that change is possible.. Even if it doesn't feel like it
22:51 - Understand Emotions
25:01 - How to control your emotions - 4 Steps
34:11 - Benefits
34:49 - Get out of a negative headspace
39:43 - Outro
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I did this the other day! I got some “bad news”. Spoke to God about how I felt about it, cried and starting planning around an alternative solution (while crying lol) & there was a blessing right around that corner 🤗!
Yeah what God say? How does God sound? Female voice man voice? I'm curious 🤔
ليس كمثله شئ وهو سميع البصير،،،
Yes! Rumination is so hard to deal with, but it’s important not to let those negative experiences prevent you from growing.
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I used to be so ruled by my emotions… thank God for self realization 😌💕
Yes yes yess!! I love this so much for us 🥹 it truley is freeing
The fact that this video popped up in my feed seconds before I got out of iMessage ranting to my best friend about how hopeless I am about my life 🤣😭💀
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i want to recommend the book, 'the gap and the gain', which may be read to get more into depth about the topic tbh, but i find that if you implement this short belief into your daily life, that should be enough. so it essentially summarises to the idea that you need to measure your current self against the progress you have already made, going backwards in time. and not measuring yourself against your ideals, as this may lead to lack of motivation, burn out, self-doubt, etc. its honestly something that bahja has alr said but if anyone likes books, go ahead lol.
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all praise is due to god! how beautiful is it that so many of us needed to hear this same message 🥹🫶🏾
These are the khutbah we all needed.
This is so good I’m going to watch it until I get this concept habitually
You are a blessing, that's exactly what i was dealing with today, i go home and you're talking about exactly what I was feeling, I'm so grateful for you
🥺 I'm so glad this is what you needed, I'm grateful for youuu! And I pray Allah makes your journey easier 🤍
I started monitoring and noticing my emotions and where they stemmed from. I started journaling it out and I have noticed such a difference already. For some it may take time but it is an amazing feeling. Jazakallah Bahja for these amazing videos! Your my number one fave UA-camr at this point. Learnt so much from you. May Allah (s.w.t) continue to bless you so that you may flourish and continue to help us flourish and grow. ❤
Wrote 5 pages worth of notes on my journal while watching this because this time I really wanna change. I'll start with step 1 you mentioned. And yes journaling is the best thing I chose to do this year. I didn't start from the first day of January because of my studies, but I still did it. We also don't have to journal every single day. We can do it weekly depending on our time. But I'll make sure to make for myself 5-10 mins daily to feel better through journaling.
The guilt of not being okay🙁
This video open my eyes on how i can mastering my emotions becaus;e.Every single time when i was mad,people keep saying to me:Oh,focus on yourself,oh you are too sensitive,oh just think positive.But i didnt know how to doing this.I will follow this steps tysm may Allah bless you!
God is so strategic. He been on me heavy lately about this & working on becoming emotionally mature & i unintentionally ended up stumbling across this video. like this is real good. sooo perfectly said !! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Bahja you are such an amazing girl. I pray Allah always covers and protects you from every harm and evil in this world. you change my life and inspire me to work through my uglies so I can show up as the best version of myself every day 🥺 may Allah continue to bless you abaayo 🩷
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Masha Allah. I'm absolutely thrilled to see you again with a great topic. Your modesty, mindset and also your manners are incredible. May Allah prevent you all bad things insha Allah.
Btw, you look somalis by appearance, and your name sounds like somalis lool. Are you somali?
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Thank you so much for making this video, I was hoping you touch on this subject! Trying to get out of a negative mode of being is challenging but with the steps you've shared, I can see it's very much possible to transform into a positive person. Thank you so much again, this was very much needed ❤
Baby steps and I promise you'll get there, I'm so glad you found this video helpful 🥺 feel free to reach out with topics you'd like for me to cover, I'm always so happy to hear from y'all 🫂
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It is very difficult to constantly control, shift your thought and focus. And even harder to do so with emotions. But it’s definitely the most important thing.
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Asalam aleykum warahmatullahi wabarakatu jazakillahu khairan ❤my beloved sister may Allah preserve and bless you ameen ❤
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P.s. Day 22 of journaling going strong, it’s literallyy the best🌚
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I know when it comes to bad days or when I’m haveing a hard time I can just write my feelings down to get it off of my chest, but how about everyday things (other than journaling about how I’m feeling and what I’m thinking about)
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