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I have a query, that if someone attracted towards you then, how to be top on their list or how to handle new relation.... Should we give space to them or try to make them feel that I am always with you , should we compromise on our self-respect or should we keep forgetting things.... And so. please reply 😊😊😊😊 I know you are the person who can help me😊😊😊
Loved your complete video. I have a problem that I am a teen and don't exactly know how to talk and that's why people often describe me as an innocent person and that's why people also don't exactly feel like telling me there secrets. Even my closest friends. Now I am not telling that I want to know their secrets. I just want to become someone who can be trusted by everyone. I am kind as you said here cause I also often help people and yeah the problem is I just dont know how to talk to people. Plz Mr. Shayan solve this problem of mine if you can🙏🙏🙏
@Saket Joshi Well, that's because they're good with their words, and when you're good with your words, you can easily seduce women even if it takes time. Men who do anything to get in a woman's pants are not to be trusted, careful having those types of dudes in your circle
@@BulletTrainProductions I agree. Not every guy who uses manipulative techniques is good with words. I think it far ALSO to do with the preference of women about the looks & such material things. Who cares about the emotions these days & who thinks so much? 0.1% maybe. Harsh truth of the world. And later women blame boys for being bad.
@Saket Joshi It's quite unreal and disruptive that it's always been that way; unfortunately, it will never change. That is also a fair statement about how not all manipulators aren't good with their words
I usually don't watch these types of videos but this channel has information that is genuinely realistic and helpful and the entire channel screams quality over quantity and high quality production. Well done shayan
People have confused Nice and Kind. Niceness is a strategy for social interaction. Kindness actually requires a genuine interest in the wellbeing of other people; that cannot be faked. Actual kindness will shine through. David Buss’s work is a great read.
*one thing* that wasnt covered in this video is when to be nice and when to be cold to her. A research study shows that when women are high on estrogen (in their best mood) they want to be dominated and spoken to as if you are an alpha male. On the other hand when she's on her red, (progestogen levels are high), she wants you to be a beta male sort of (not literally) and treat her with gentleness and kindness. *if you want the reference please dont hesitate to ask me* a lot of the valuable things you covered in this video are absolutely on point. majority of them I read them in female anatomy books however, im still learning things I have never learned before from you
Much of what we saw there in latter part of the vid with Bond saying "Thank you" is a result of the most important thing we can have as a society; civility! Being polite, favoring others, and doing things like saying Thank You are indeed the outward manifestations of a civil society. Unfortunately we are going backwards. Yes, the world is becoming more brutish.
@@agungbaskovic Just to be clear, I can't agree that technology is in any way the problem. When you look through history you'll see there are periods of harsh brutishness and civility, regardless of technological know how. As a matter of fact, it's often times of increasing "know how" that facilitate periods of improving or increasing civility. You could argue that it was the increased understanding of warfare and tactics as well as the use of horses that led to the Kahns ruling much or Eurasia, which in turn led to the time frame when the silk road was it's safest! Where technology is concerned, it merely facilitates "the spread" of incivility in much the same way as modern air travel facilitates the spread of sickness or coffee shops facilitate the sharing of ideas among know it all intellectuals.
Truly bro.. I miss when kindness was considered a virtue. But today, you try being a gentleman, you even ask a girl if "they are okay" and they will say you are patronizing! Guys will say it is a simp behaviour. This social media gen is just too much
you can see in comment section we all want to watch you regularly with some great content like this and previous on this channel so please continue this regularity
Your takes on these topics are refreshing. Its not like men VS women, but its not the hyper modernised takes where it tries to make everything meaningless and errode any structures and foundations of society either. Genuine self improvement and advice here.
Ik had nooit verwacht dat je uit Nederland komt. Ik volg je kanaal al een tijdje, and I have to say; It really empowers men and therefore also myself to learn more about ourselves with a clear goal in mind. I love the way you articulate the deeper reasonings behind why you would want to adopt certain qualities, and how they benefit you. Het zou geweldig zijn om je ooit in het echt te mogen ontmoeten, waanzinnig karakter en kennis. Keep it going Shayan.
Precies dit! Mijn interesse in de invloeden en oorzaken van sociale hiërarchieën, lichaamstaal en menselijk gedrag is enorm. Daarom denk ik erover om psychologie te gaan studeren aan de universiteit of het HBO. Toch spreken de gebruikelijke beroepen binnen dit veld me niet echt aan. Wat me wel aantrekt, is mijn neiging om te presenteren, mijn creativiteit en mijn talent om leiding te geven. Vandaag kwam ik deze man tegen die op zo'n manier werkt dat het voelt alsof ik een spiegel voorgehouden krijg van wat er zou gebeuren als mijn eigen gedachten, neigingen en emoties vorm zouden krijgen. Het is een bijzondere ervaring om dat te zien. Ik herken mezelf erin, en ik kan mezelf zeker voorstellen iets soortgelijks te doen.
Very good bro! Finally someone speaking the truth. Kindness doesn't make you simp to women, it's makes you a desirable gentleman. Of course, nothing in excess is good but being rude and ignoring women is not the way to get them. If you get a woman in this way, she may not be the correct one.
It's all about matter for a men pursue the masculinity traits inside him. This video has really admired to show off our traits in our society - not just to attract womens but for a peaceful life for happiness.
Ohh.. Shayan finally you have uploaded the video after 3 months.. you dnt know how desperately i was waiting for your new video... But Thank You Brother 😊 for the videos and the knowledge you give.. love from India..
I think I've checked the channel every day for the last 3 months. I haven't had time to watch the video yet, but I'm sure it's of great quality and very informative, like all the other videos on the channel.
Finally a new videoI was waiting eagerly for this piece of art And I know you are really trying hard in these videos but,I want you to be a bit more consistent because I watch your videos on repeat most of time Thank you
This is the video that sold me on your channel. Keep it up mate, and I really hope you get yourself that psych degree to delve into attraction science further.
People will always judge you, but if there is one thing that I have learnt from reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius it is this, "No matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be good."
It’s funny because the opposite can work too depending on the situation For example one time I was walking home with a drunk girl from the bar and she was having trouble carrying all her stuff and was too stubborn to accept any kind of help so instead of being kind and helping her I laughed and said “I’d help you but I’m having too much fun watching you struggle like an idiot with all that stuff” She laughed and we went to bed that night
The thing is, you were kind! The opposite wasn't in play here. This literally, was the example in work. You just happened to know nuance of the person, that allowed you to dismiss the action of physically taking the burden. You recognized help could be useful to her. Then you used humor to deflect that proffer, in respect to her independence. Kindness on 2 levels. Then the humor....it is a top 5 things a woman looks for in a mate. So you sort of gave a clinic on this principle. 😂
Saying thank you a lot is genuinely good, because it means you have a lot to thank people for. Nice guys will say thank you for things that aren't worth thanking for, because they want to feel like they have something to thank people for.
Shayan in every video: This is a topic for another video Meanwhile: Shayan posting a video after 4 months PS: Not judging but love your videos Take your time
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May I have my answer
because I watch your videos on repeat most of time so can u be a bit more consistent?
Just asking
I have a query, that if someone attracted towards you then, how to be top on their list or how to handle new relation....
Should we give space to them or try to make them feel that I am always with you , should we compromise on our self-respect or should we keep forgetting things.... And so.
please reply 😊😊😊😊
I know you are the person who can help me😊😊😊
Loved your complete video. I have a problem that I am a teen and don't exactly know how to talk and that's why people often describe me as an innocent person and that's why people also don't exactly feel like telling me there secrets. Even my closest friends. Now I am not telling that I want to know their secrets. I just want to become someone who can be trusted by everyone. I am kind as you said here cause I also often help people and yeah the problem is I just dont know how to talk to people. Plz Mr. Shayan solve this problem of mine if you can🙏🙏🙏
I'm the 500th like 😏
When he said, "A high value man doesn't rely on manipulation tactics to get a woman", he earned my respect.
Same, because what value do you have if you have to be a manipulator to sleep with other women?
@@BulletTrainProductions well said.... Although, women do get impressed by manipulators & later they realise & it's too late.
@Saket Joshi Well, that's because they're good with their words, and when you're good with your words, you can easily seduce women even if it takes time. Men who do anything to get in a woman's pants are not to be trusted, careful having those types of dudes in your circle
@@BulletTrainProductions I agree. Not every guy who uses manipulative techniques is good with words. I think it far ALSO to do with the preference of women about the looks & such material things. Who cares about the emotions these days & who thinks so much? 0.1% maybe. Harsh truth of the world. And later women blame boys for being bad.
@Saket Joshi It's quite unreal and disruptive that it's always been that way; unfortunately, it will never change. That is also a fair statement about how not all manipulators aren't good with their words
You can't even imagine how long I'm waited for a single video of yours
Love that 😍😍
Hope you enjoy!
Me also bro
For everyone
Rule 1: Be attractive
Rule 2: Don't be unattractive
I usually don't watch these types of videos but this channel has information that is genuinely realistic and helpful and the entire channel screams quality over quantity and high quality production. Well done shayan
🙏🏽🔥
People have confused Nice and Kind. Niceness is a strategy for social interaction. Kindness actually requires a genuine interest in the wellbeing of other people; that cannot be faked. Actual kindness will shine through.
David Buss’s work is a great read.
Exactly
From all of us for once again giving enlightening advice to add value to our lives - 11:49 to 13:09 ❤️❤️
I... a gentleman... approve this message, and proved for myself that this knowledge works.
I started being in isolation and now I am connecting more to the extraordinary world and life, deep peace + Shayan wahedi = Power (Power of thoughts)
*one thing* that wasnt covered in this video is when to be nice and when to be cold to her. A research study shows that when women are
high on estrogen (in their best mood) they want to be dominated and spoken to as if you are an alpha male. On the other hand when she's
on her red, (progestogen levels are high), she wants you to be a beta male sort of (not literally) and treat her with gentleness and kindness.
*if you want the reference please dont hesitate to ask me*
a lot of the valuable things you covered in this video are absolutely on point. majority of them I read them in female anatomy books
however, im still learning things I have never learned before from you
provide reference
Shayan is back💖💖💖
Love you so much bro💖💖💖
Hope you are regular now, your comeback sparked fire in my heart and motivated me in my self improvement journey
Shayan this was an extraordinary video! I am truly looking forward to your upcoming uploads
This was one of the best videos I ever saw about charisma. The fact you included actual scientific evidence was TopTier. Subscribed.
Much of what we saw there in latter part of the vid with Bond saying "Thank you" is a result of the most important thing we can have as a society; civility! Being polite, favoring others, and doing things like saying Thank You are indeed the outward manifestations of a civil society. Unfortunately we are going backwards. Yes, the world is becoming more brutish.
agree brother technology up humanity down.
@@agungbaskovic Just to be clear, I can't agree that technology is in any way the problem. When you look through history you'll see there are periods of harsh brutishness and civility, regardless of technological know how. As a matter of fact, it's often times of increasing "know how" that facilitate periods of improving or increasing civility. You could argue that it was the increased understanding of warfare and tactics as well as the use of horses that led to the Kahns ruling much or Eurasia, which in turn led to the time frame when the silk road was it's safest!
Where technology is concerned, it merely facilitates "the spread" of incivility in much the same way as modern air travel facilitates the spread of sickness or coffee shops facilitate the sharing of ideas among know it all intellectuals.
Truly bro.. I miss when kindness was considered a virtue. But today, you try being a gentleman, you even ask
a girl if "they are okay" and they will say you are patronizing! Guys will say it is a simp behaviour. This social media gen is just too much
you can see in comment section we all want to watch you regularly with some great content like this and previous on this channel so please continue this regularity
Patrick Swayze has a relevant line in the movie Road House. He says, "I want you to Be Nice. Until it's time to Not Be Nice."
This is such an underrated channel, and im sooo happy that i found it early before it blows up
Hey Mr. Wahedi glad you’re back uploading! Hope you have been doing well
Your takes on these topics are refreshing. Its not like men VS women, but its not the hyper modernised takes where it tries to make everything meaningless and errode any structures and foundations of society either. Genuine self improvement and advice here.
Ik had nooit verwacht dat je uit Nederland komt. Ik volg je kanaal al een tijdje, and I have to say; It really empowers men and therefore also myself to learn more about ourselves with a clear goal in mind. I love the way you articulate the deeper reasonings behind why you would want to adopt certain qualities, and how they benefit you. Het zou geweldig zijn om je ooit in het echt te mogen ontmoeten, waanzinnig karakter en kennis. Keep it going Shayan.
🙏🏽🔥
Precies dit! Mijn interesse in de invloeden en oorzaken van sociale hiërarchieën, lichaamstaal en menselijk gedrag is enorm. Daarom denk ik erover om psychologie te gaan studeren aan de universiteit of het HBO. Toch spreken de gebruikelijke beroepen binnen dit veld me niet echt aan. Wat me wel aantrekt, is mijn neiging om te presenteren, mijn creativiteit en mijn talent om leiding te geven. Vandaag kwam ik deze man tegen die op zo'n manier werkt dat het voelt alsof ik een spiegel voorgehouden krijg van wat er zou gebeuren als mijn eigen gedachten, neigingen en emoties vorm zouden krijgen. Het is een bijzondere ervaring om dat te zien. Ik herken mezelf erin, en ik kan mezelf zeker voorstellen iets soortgelijks te doen.
Very good bro! Finally someone speaking the truth. Kindness doesn't make you simp to women, it's makes you a desirable gentleman.
Of course, nothing in excess is good but being rude and ignoring women is not the way to get them. If you get a woman in this way, she may not be the correct one.
It's all about matter for a men pursue the masculinity traits inside him. This video has really admired to show off our traits in our society - not just to attract womens but for a peaceful life for happiness.
I count myself lucky to have found this great channel.
The tips so far learned are quite invaluable.
Welcome aboard!
I truly love your channel. Keep doing the best work.
The quality of your video is just wow 👏
Ohh.. Shayan finally you have uploaded the video after 3 months.. you dnt know how desperately i was waiting for your new video... But Thank You Brother 😊 for the videos and the knowledge you give.. love from India..
I think I've checked the channel every day for the last 3 months. I haven't had time to watch the video yet, but I'm sure it's of great quality and very informative, like all the other videos on the channel.
Your channel starting from last year has been transforming my life.
Finally the wait is over
Great to have you back shayan.
Finally a new videoI was waiting eagerly for this piece of art
And I know you are really trying hard in these videos but,I want you to be a bit more consistent because I watch your videos on repeat most of time
Thank you
Please can you do a room tour. I love that dark ambience vibe in the background where it feels like you can sit down and focus on anything for hours.
James Saves the world! There is alot of kindness that he does!
Thank you for coming back brother!
Welcome back Shayan it's good to have you back
Absolutely cracking videos Shayan🤜
Ur attitude is killing bro...I love your style of delivering the content
Good to have you back Shayan, I was concerned about you stoping to upload videos
"Thank you " Sir.
You never cease to school us.
Well done.
Oh my god the king is back!!!!!!!
Great to have you back Shayan
Boss is Back
Missed you man
I never get a notification even though everything is switched on. love the content
so happy for you uploading again
Your content is amazing shayan ❤️❤️
Love from Haiti
Genius as always! Keep em coming Mr. Shayan and thank you. 👌👍
Welcome back! Looking forward to the future projects
Great to have you back
Waiting for that charisma video🧘🏽♂️
Thank you for this video Shayan and I look forward to the next one!
Welcome back bro! This was a Banger
This is what we call BALANCED OPINIONS. this is the type of stuff that should be important
You make such underrated content. So much value on your channel, keep going you will grow big time if you upload consistently!
Finally your are back
Happy to see you....❤️❤️❤️
This is the video that sold me on your channel. Keep it up mate, and I really hope you get yourself that psych degree to delve into attraction science further.
Welcome back 🖤
I was waiting for your video Shayan 🔥🔥🔥 Let's go
People will always judge you, but if there is one thing that I have learnt from reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius it is this, "No matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be good."
Bro i literally finished my high school and inow I'm in high secondary S, please upload often your content is very rare...!
Which is a topic for another video...
This man literally knows a lot....
A bow to Shayan
glad to see you again shayan, props to you and wishing a long and happy life for you!
No simps, just helpful people for both men and women
Welcome back man!
Finally 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I was waiting for your video since long ♥️
Lots of love form India 🇮🇳
Glad to see you again
This is an amazing channel, glad I found it. and this kind of information is what the "red-pill" is lacking.
I am very glad that you uploaded but be consistent bro
It’s funny because the opposite can work too depending on the situation
For example one time I was walking home with a drunk girl from the bar and she was having trouble carrying all her stuff and was too stubborn to accept any kind of help so instead of being kind and helping her I laughed and said “I’d help you but I’m having too much fun watching you struggle like an idiot with all that stuff”
She laughed and we went to bed that night
That won't work with everyone, did you say it as a joke or in a blunt manner?
I just re read your comment and you said you laughed so that means she interpreted it as a joke but did you mean it as a joke?
The thing is, you were kind! The opposite wasn't in play here. This literally, was the example in work. You just happened to know nuance of the person, that allowed you to dismiss the action of physically taking the burden. You recognized help could be useful to her. Then you used humor to deflect that proffer, in respect to her independence. Kindness on 2 levels. Then the humor....it is a top 5 things a woman looks for in a mate. So you sort of gave a clinic on this principle. 😂
Bro i am happy to see you back
It’s been a while but I’m glad to finally learn from you again 😁
Finally!!😂
Missed your videos man
Looking forward for this series!!!
FINALLY U ARE BACK
No 1 kindness - ‘Nice Guys finish last because THE BEST IS ALWAYS SAVED FOR LAST “
Thanks you are back man!
It has been a long wait.. Shayan is back 🎉🎉🎉
Excellent Bro. As all of your content is. 👌🏾🏆
Saying thank you a lot is genuinely good, because it means you have a lot to thank people for.
Nice guys will say thank you for things that aren't worth thanking for, because they want to feel like they have something to thank people for.
Ayyyyyy! I for real like da part where my playah James said "thank you".
Your videos are very high quality. Wish you would upload more often, but it seems you are increasing upload frequency so that is great to see
Nice to see you back. Oh man that 'thank you' lines🤣
Anyway we want the peaky blinders body language video you promised
Finally your back 😌❤
Suit dressing guide please. Love your outfit and as always great video! ❤️🇮🇳
Be kind and understanding to others
I am very happy to see you again
Thank for being back Shayan
Love From SENEGAL
Infinite love from India 🇮🇳
I'm 13 hours late, but hey you're back mate good to see you back! do more of Body language analysis it's Hella gud
Your wisdom is inspiring, thank you for being here for us!
Good content "Thank you ".
Thanks so much brother 😊
Keep going bro ur videos are fire💥💥
Your content is pure gold. Please keep it coming
Thank you Shayan.
Love from Nigeria
New video after long time and such a good quality sir
Excellent work here as always.
Bravo.
Shayan in every video: This is a topic for another video
Meanwhile: Shayan posting a video after 4 months
PS: Not judging but love your videos
Take your time
You deserve 1M followers and I just subscribed to your channel and liked your video
i was eagerly waiting for your video ❤❤