*The emphasis on emotional detachment and playful teasing is a powerful strategy that can be applied in a positive way. It’s all about creating excitement while still being respectful!*
“Think of yourself almost like a SECRET AGENT and that girls are like other agents who are trying to blow your cover” Can’t make it any more simple 🤣 listened and applying
As a former bad boy back in the day, I can 100% confirm that not smiling, being quiet, and acting intimidating will absolutely guarantee that you will not get ANY women whatsoever. Believe me, I had to train myself to be a completely different type of person before I had any success. Most women will be creeped out if you follow this videos advice. The trick is to be bad enough to command respect, while also being inviting. Acting like a creepy prick isn't going to get you the kind of woman you'd actually want.
Your not a former bad boy once a bad boy always a bad boy check your wife she was railed by bad boys I bet she was not your first and hasn’t cheat on you
Thanks for sharing your insight. I'm reminded of these models which have helped me focus my abilities & live up to my potential, in cultivating (1) Desire in women [which precedes (2) Love; (3) Commitment] by outgrowing by choice/design my dysfunctional trade-status-for-acceptance model and, instead, having/living effective plans: Pump attraction by demonstrating Model X: - Kindness; - Intelligence; - Adaptability; - Creativity; - Dominance [if ovulating]; - Humour [if ovulating]. Pump attraction by demonstrating Model Y: - Leader of men; - Protector of loved ones; - Pre-selected by women [Other women: "Oo- He's a catch/hot."]. Pump attraction by demonstrating Model Z: - Presence [Here-&-now, with her; Not daydreaming/ruminating/fretting/etc.; Connected; Grounded.]; - Intelligence; - Strength [Ex.: Physical; Mental; Emotional.]; - Passion [Has strong & barely controllable emotion, ex.: for or toward something, someone, etc.]; - Direction [Has goal(s) & is on his mission. ... THIS IS A GREAT WAY TO USE THE TOOLS DESCRIBED IN THIS VIDEO: Not swayed by the woman's hotness, interest/curiosity, or invitations to deviate unnecessarily from said mission. Discernment; Focus; Prioritization.] - Humour.
The bad boy uses: 1. Don't smile and nod your head every time a girl interacts with you 2. Talk less, be silent, silience is powerful because is mysterious. 3. 'The Long Pause': Pausing every time you're going to talk 4. Don't show too much emotion: when you display almost no emotion you're almost impossible to figure out. Behave like a secret agent 5. Be tougher: mental toughness, being tough is being brave and being able to take more risks (I.e not minding how she react to what you do or say). The difference between being very attractive and not being at all is a few little changes in your behavior ;)
Women (and men) are attracted to CONFIDENCE... who actually wants to be treated poorly? Of course don’t be a doormat and be selective of the other person’s character as well
I'm completely opposite of these archetypes. I'm damn talkative, laughs obnoxiously and do a lot of stupid things. Why do I need to be bad when I'm already unique? I can talk to girls confidently and I know to flirt well. Dude, you don't have to copy these archetypes just be yourself and improve yourself.
Yes, totaly agree, I´ve learnt some very usefull stuff from these "expert-guys n -galz in t 'community'", but I´ve also ignored a lot of stuff since it didn´t fit me for one reason or t other.
When I was young I was envious of bad boys. But then I figured it out. It’s not that they all like assholes. They just don’t want desperate, needy, uninteresting, boring guys. I’m a nice guy and I’ve done fine with women. I’m not a ladies man as I’ve been most of my time in serious relationships and then married but I don’t think I would have an issue if I become single. You have to keep women stimulated with either laughter or intelligence. I think that’s one of the reasons many women (not all) find me attractive
I wouldn't say these are relentless demands, some dude thinks this is what bad boys are. Women never said this. Plus they have their own expectations on them It's best we work on the deeper things about ourselves like Jordan Peterson says
Best on here is communication w/ long pauses between times to speak. 1) gives you time to think & absorb what that person said. 2) Completely unexpected, will catch her-anyone’s-attention. 3) Focuses the conversation on your points without have to say so 4),1-3 creates instant attraction. *5) walk away, SLOWLY. She WILL come & find you. You’re golden..
I am 17 years old in Sweden. I grew up this way bcuz i was born in africa where we Always get punished for our mistakes and i noticed when my Elder Brothers talk with chicks they Smile less while the girl laughs. They Look seriouse while the girl looks nervouse. They talk less while the girl talks alot. They talk on a low tone while the girl scrims. They learn back while the girl learn faward. I had all the trates but i lacked confident. But ive Been watching stuffs like this for a year. And now am the Most attractive guy in my school. When i pass by all girls and boys stare at me. When i talk to a girl she just start laughing and fliping their hairs bcuz i intimidate them. And i am spending all my money on my clothings. And this works 4 me alot.
Funny thing is I have noticed in myself that when I don't try to get a girl I'm naturally a bad boy but when I do try I overthink I'm too nice or act tough whatever. From personal experience when you don't try it works
Fun fact: i had a friend a few years ago that got all the girls meanwhile i was portraiting him like a God, because i never got particulary lucky with girls, so i learned that he was an Alpha and i was a beta seeing the Diference between our behavior thourds women. However One day a guy wanted to Kick his ass and he ask me for help and when me and the other guy that i didnt know got into a fight he left and later Said that he was scared. So guys its not just the behavior you have with girls that makes you an Alpha its about how you carry yourself in every situation.
Don't do drama or excitement, don't complain, don't explain , when you swear don't shout , don't clown people in a bad position , avoid cracking jokes and of course learn to use the word no when a scenario doesn't suit you or feel comfortable.
Hey man your channel is very nice and you have alot of great video however I don't agree with this one because of the following: There seems to be an obsession with being a "bad boy" however, some of these tricks if implemented would make the person appear so fake and people in general can feel when someone is being fake "like man why are you so fake ?". I think the key point is to establish a strong assertive character that goes after what it wants while still being true to its nature !
Don't forget to buy a leather jacket and motorcycle too,that usually helps with the whole Bad Boy vibe, lol,also watch a few Marlon Brando and James Dean movies,lol.
Its better for someone walk away because your personalities weren’t compatible, than for someone reject you for pretending to be someone you’re not... “To thine own self be true.”
Good point, but nobody is immune to change or improvement. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
@@wolfman231 It’s great to know your flaws, and working towards self improvement. I just don’t believe playing a role to attract the opposite sex. If you feel you need to do that, the best thing is to work on your self esteem and confidence. As I said, knowing your flaws is important, but also recognizing your strengths, helps build your confidence.
@@Barbara_Banks_1 Starting with infancy, humans emulate others to develop behaviors. A smart man changes his behavior if he isn't getting the desired outcome. Watch the video again. I think you missed the point.
no its better to change for the better. you shouldnt just accept yourself. I hate that so many people say that nowadays. What narcissism. Imagine thinking there is nothing you can improve on. Honestly, this is how a man should be. Not pleasing, stoic and strong.
You remind me of my nice beta friends he says the same like you and ended up crying in front of me hahaha keep up with that mentality until you see how rude people really are.
The take away from this is being the individual you are, and embracing that. Don't have expectation, and realize you will not please everyone. Having a military career, and getting a college degree, has given me much more confidence, and a greater sense of independence. Many people think "bad boy," and associate that with criminal. Then people are turned off. Don't go out of your way making this image obvious. Just be yourself, and people will like you, or they won't. Don't have expectations, or worry about outcomes in situations. Bad boys get burned too.
I think getting girls needs practice as everything you do in your life. You want to get good at math you start doing more and more exercises. You want to read faster you start reading more books. Same with girls. Putting yourself out there and talk to a lot of girls. Of course in the begging you will suck at it but in time you get better. It's a "numbers game". In time you will develop a pattern that seems to work. Of course for this method you need the courage and strong "heart" because you will be rejected many times. Yes u don't have to fear about rejection. U have to talk to the girl. That's how u get experience. But with time, u will start getting girls phone numbers you will get first dates, then seconds dates..... and slowly you will see a change in your dating life. It is not about the looks. It is about how much you care about your body. It is not really about the clothes either( but good looking clothes will help u in the beggining tho ). With every girl u fail u get experience and built confidence. And it is ok to feel bad after a rejection. It is normal. The more rejections the less time u feel bad about the girl u lost ( I hope that makes sense :)) ). Oh and when u start dating it is important to have at least two girls that u set up dates with. Because at least one of the will give u the second date. I really hope this help you if u read till here :))
As a teenager that’s what I always thought I needed. So glad I didn’t go. In hindsight I think that’s completely screwed up thinking. It’ll work but there are much better ways like mindfulness and self-mastery. Better to reprogram your mind on the other side of the bars with freedom in nature.
Not entirely true. I have a friend who did 3 years in prison and he has the balls to fight anybody but he's scared of approaching women because he's afraid of rejection. He doesn't take any shit from anybody but he also doesn't have any confidence in himself to do anything great or challenging to improve his life. Sometimes he acts like he's still in high school. It's really sad 😔
Be ûrself nice if u wanna be a jerk then be a jerk everytime √ that what means be urself ! If u r gentleman be a gentelman everytime thats what that quote means !
Yesn't. If u change yourself, it will be yourself. Only thing you couldn't change your past but your past shapes you. So if you had different past , you would be different now. "Be yourself" means be what you wanna be. You want girls, but your personality makes it difficult, CHANGE yourself to be yourself. You see?
Keep in mind some woman get turned off by bad boy archetypes. Some woman do seen to get over the top over it too. Depends who your going for so it can do the opposite effect. I know because I've seen girls go head over heels for this type and what I didnt tell them was it was a huge turn off to me. I've always been the setting down type name thats why. Either way it won't work on everyone but alot seem to like it. Great video
KC As Shawna said above, it friends on the type of girl. To expound, it depends on their mental and emotional maturity. Also a high educated lady would want somebody who’s a good conversationalist
@yungdre510 Actually women are not attracted to doormats. You can be nice and still be able to hold your own ground. Listening to those “red pill” channels teaching cavemen tricks won’t get you too far. Only works for low value girls
The thrust of this "Bad Boy" archetype is to be calm, not chatty, a bit glum, not animated, but still look in her eyes while speaking to her. Adopting these characteristics to the extent that you can meld them into your own game can be helpful but only if you can pull it of naturally. Plus, what ever persona you use to get her, you are going to have to keep up to keep her, there in lies the problem. The "Bad Boy" persona sticks out because regular guys see them with women that seem outside the Bad Boys perceived reach. It stands out in your mind but don't forget that for every unusual parring of a bad boy with a peach, you see dozens of regular guys with women who are perfectly fine. You do NOT have to be a bad boy to get the vast majority of women.
Remember everyone is not for everybody and this is the problem with our culture today. What one girl might hate about you another one might love, just stay true to yourself and be confident and not needy and stay on your goals and purpose and the right one or ones will come into your life that matches your energy and if they don’t let them go. We men are the prize anyways always remember that.
This sounds good on paper but my suggestion is be the best version of yourself. I never had trouble attracting woman or getting into relationships. The single most important tip in this video is don't show females week emotions, no matter how far you are in your relationship. You can sympathize with there emotions, but you must stay strong. Be the rock, the man with the plan, or simply stay optimistic when things are looking bleak. Women like who they like and your turn will come, but you must be strong mentally. Stay off drugs and excessive drinking, be confident, be smart, be mentally strong and supportive, and be all these things consistently. The girl that you thought wanted that over confident bad boy over you, will soon be wishing she made a better choice. The man who shows his true personality, along with class and real confidence will always get the girl in the end.
Okay, these advice only help you if you want to attract a girl, but if she is attracted to you and she becomes something in your life, don't follow these rules. Then just love her, & she should get this feeling that you care for her.
Great video man awesome illustrations too. I think thoracic body type man is more likely to be a bad boy or have a more natural bad boy mentality, right ?
This mind tricks are very helpful for people who want to be the bad boy archetype thank you for the research I need to work on the first one everything else I got it under control. Nice video 👌👍🤔🤔
It's really not about being nice or bad it's about being disciplined and doing the complete opposite of what these Desperate so called Bad boy Alpha simps do
This was actually very good - make sense. I wil try to implement the Long Pause Method as being too talkative and replaying back too fast just doesn't work for me.
Just wanted to give a little psa to the men out there following on this stuff. While it's totally understandable you want to learn how to get women don't forget to not fall in love with your new world view. Genuinely ask yourself, why am I doing this? Do I want to meet women, gain confidence? Spin plates to gain experience in the game? Or am I doing this because I was burned by a woman and don't want to settle anymore so I'll just become the bad guy? Remember the point is to become a better person, not to fall into the void much like our female counterparts. Forgive the past, move on king 👑
Damn i didnt know..i am alredy the one shown in this video..i was thunkung about stop staying silent..lol bt now i wont! ..thanks alot for getting me a clear way about this..
Only works for girls/ women with low self-esteem and daddy issues... which aren’t the most stable. Once they level up mentally, emotionally and in other aspects of their life, high quality ladies look for high quality men, not boys
@@anav8598 I see you are the high quality woman who just reply to each and every commentto grab male attention. May be you think you are but you are not.
@ Sajith Menon | awww how cute is your attempt to bring me down with such an ignorant comment towards somebody you have absolutely no idea about. My dear, I don’t need any more male attention than I do have in real life. And I certainly don’t want ANY attention from wannabe alphas like most boys here who need cavemen tactics to actually get female attention 🤣 I shared my comments yesterday in many posts here because I thought it would be helpful for men to get a lady’s perspective. However, it’s clear that YOU specially are beyond help. Good luck catching those high quality women which you think you know what they’re all about 😂
I watch these as kind of a comparison to myself like comparing notes, kinda. Essentially it’s paleo psychology, be honest with yourself, don’t let the opinion of others or personal fears get in your way and just do you. I seriously have no idea why guys have so many problems with this. My hang up I guess is for example when I was in HS all the girls would cheat on their popular letterman jacket boyfriends with me but then literally tell me not to say anything or they’d deny it blah blah blah but they’d keep doing it so I guess I got a chip on my shoulder from it. I have literally done everything I possibly can to piss a chick off, we ended up bangin. I’m not trying to figure out how to get laid I’m trying to figure out how the hell to have a genuine conversation with a chick without them trying to inevitably “find the opportunity” to “nobody will know”. Luckily I’m married and we are good friends also she doesn’t get jealous, we discuss everything and she enjoys the occasional fruits of my apparent super power but it would be nice even though my wife doesn’t get jealous and I always see it coming a mile away if women would stop with all the lead up and just get to the point before it becomes some kind of a thing in their heads. Im happy with my current amount of wife I don’t cheat depending on your religious point of view and my wife and I discuss everything. I guess I’m just wondering if a chick wants to get laid and it’s obvious to the guy why does it have to play out like some murder mystery or whatever, why not just say so ? Why all the lead up?
I got invited drinking in one of my friend house. And i tried to act like what it said on the vid... after that the 2 girls i met started chasing me and they're fighting over me and time goes by i show my funny sides they lose interest.
The thing I will take from this is not blowing my cover. Although I tend to do that anyway I tend to get very excited about anything. Got high grades everyone around me shocked and proud. Me : ok nice, it's not that I don't care it's that it takes quite a bit to make me show more emotion.
Well this is great and all, but i find most girls think when you look emotionless and don't talk a lot that you're some form of antisocial and boring, then they move on to a more fun and lively guy. Im not saying its wrong, I'm just laying down my experience
You can let a girl know that you're interested, but don't try to hard. You don't want to look desperate. If she's into you, cool. If not, it's her loss. There's a lot of other girls out there.
Here I'll give you guys the real code.... be confident not cocky! be yourself be authentic If you're a "nerd" be the most Confident nerd in the Room...We can tell when you're not genuine
That last one I would question, simply put... You can say the right thing, but said at the wrong time. One of my favorite Bible quotes is (to everything there's a season). Timing is crucial. Know when the time's right .
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Be a bad boy with a good heart.
No, be a dck and don't give a fk
You guys both are right
Those are my exact words 😇😈
NO, DON'T HAVE A HEART
@@HipHopFanatic-s8y exactly, that's how you get hurt or worse
When you truly stop caring, and your not faking it, you will have more success with the ladies
Preach! Brother!
Yes if you truly have a lot of good qualities to offer-then you’ll be very popular and attract higher quality ladies
Also be attractive
Indeed! It’s fucking incredible how that works, huh!!
Except you wont give a shit if a girl likes you anyways because you truly stopped caring. This shit is designed to kill us inside and its stupid.
*The emphasis on emotional detachment and playful teasing is a powerful strategy that can be applied in a positive way. It’s all about creating excitement while still being respectful!*
“Think of yourself almost like a SECRET AGENT and that girls are like other agents who are trying to blow your cover”
Can’t make it any more simple 🤣 listened and applying
Yeah
This is easier done with "purpose" to complete your mission through life.
As a former bad boy back in the day, I can 100% confirm that not smiling, being quiet, and acting intimidating will absolutely guarantee that you will not get ANY women whatsoever. Believe me, I had to train myself to be a completely different type of person before I had any success. Most women will be creeped out if you follow this videos advice. The trick is to be bad enough to command respect, while also being inviting. Acting like a creepy prick isn't going to get you the kind of woman you'd actually want.
Your not a former bad boy once a bad boy always a bad boy check your wife she was railed by bad boys I bet she was not your first and hasn’t cheat on you
Thanks for sharing your insight.
I'm reminded of these models which have helped me focus my abilities & live up to my potential, in cultivating (1) Desire in women [which precedes (2) Love; (3) Commitment] by outgrowing by choice/design my dysfunctional trade-status-for-acceptance model and, instead, having/living effective plans:
Pump attraction by demonstrating Model X:
- Kindness;
- Intelligence;
- Adaptability;
- Creativity;
- Dominance [if ovulating];
- Humour [if ovulating].
Pump attraction by demonstrating Model Y:
- Leader of men;
- Protector of loved ones;
- Pre-selected by women [Other women: "Oo- He's a catch/hot."].
Pump attraction by demonstrating Model Z:
- Presence [Here-&-now, with her; Not daydreaming/ruminating/fretting/etc.; Connected; Grounded.];
- Intelligence;
- Strength [Ex.: Physical; Mental; Emotional.];
- Passion [Has strong & barely controllable emotion, ex.: for or toward something, someone, etc.];
- Direction [Has goal(s) & is on his mission. ... THIS IS A GREAT WAY TO USE THE TOOLS DESCRIBED IN THIS VIDEO: Not swayed by the woman's hotness, interest/curiosity, or invitations to deviate unnecessarily from said mission. Discernment; Focus; Prioritization.]
- Humour.
You need to know HOW to use it.
@@oooonnn7050 😭😭😭😭😭
@@oooonnn7050 lol
Tricks are used by good boys (if you called them so).
Bad boys are the way they are. They don't copy.
Exactly right for who's father is naturally alpha
Not necessarily copying, but learning to be a bad boy. It's not good to copy, but it's good to get inspired
Copying is different from gaining knowledge bud!
Exactly. This just pretending to be someone you not
The good boys are smarter then
The bad boy uses:
1. Don't smile and nod your head every time a girl interacts with you
2. Talk less, be silent, silience is powerful because is mysterious.
3. 'The Long Pause': Pausing every time you're going to talk
4. Don't show too much emotion: when you display almost no emotion you're almost impossible to figure out. Behave like a secret agent
5. Be tougher: mental toughness, being tough is being brave and being able to take more risks (I.e not minding how she react to what you do or say).
The difference between being very attractive and not being at all is a few little changes in your behavior ;)
Amen!!
Woman is not attracted to bad boys...they are attracted to the personality and attitude.
Women (and men) are attracted to CONFIDENCE...
who actually wants to be treated poorly?
Of course don’t be a doormat and be selective of the other person’s character as well
Woman ❤ men who are different:; Dennis Rodman;;;
Being nice limits funny moments , bad boys just kiss , hug have sex because they don't give a fuck what the girl thinks
Some guys are fun to gang out with : dress nice : kind
Sports athletes ❤️ going into away Sports stadium people booing and winning the game :;;woman ❤️ bad guys write men in prison ;;; send 💰
I'm completely opposite of these archetypes. I'm damn talkative, laughs obnoxiously and do a lot of stupid things. Why do I need to be bad when I'm already unique? I can talk to girls confidently and I know to flirt well. Dude, you don't have to copy these archetypes just be yourself and improve yourself.
Ok chad
Yes, totaly agree, I´ve learnt some very usefull stuff from these "expert-guys n -galz in t 'community'", but I´ve also ignored a lot of stuff since it didn´t fit me for one reason or t other.
When I was young I was envious of bad boys. But then I figured it out. It’s not that they all like assholes. They just don’t want desperate, needy, uninteresting, boring guys. I’m a nice guy and I’ve done fine with women. I’m not a ladies man as I’ve been most of my time in serious relationships and then married but I don’t think I would have an issue if I become single. You have to keep women stimulated with either laughter or intelligence. I think that’s one of the reasons many women (not all) find me attractive
'Appeasing women's relentless demands is like feeding fish to a cat and expecting it become a vegetarian'.
I wouldn't say these are relentless demands, some dude thinks this is what bad boys are. Women never said this. Plus they have their own expectations on them
It's best we work on the deeper things about ourselves like Jordan Peterson says
People will be jealous. As an attractive man you can have few friends or a lot of friends. The beauty is you get to choose whatever friends you want
Best on here is communication w/ long pauses between times to speak. 1) gives you time to think & absorb what that person said. 2) Completely unexpected, will catch her-anyone’s-attention. 3) Focuses the conversation on your points without have to say so 4),1-3 creates instant attraction. *5) walk away, SLOWLY. She WILL come & find you. You’re golden..
I am 17 years old in Sweden.
I grew up this way bcuz i was born in africa where we Always get punished for our mistakes and i noticed when my Elder Brothers talk with chicks they Smile less while the girl laughs.
They Look seriouse while the girl looks nervouse.
They talk less while the girl talks alot.
They talk on a low tone while the girl scrims.
They learn back while the girl learn faward.
I had all the trates but i lacked confident.
But ive Been watching stuffs like this for a year. And now am the Most attractive guy in my school.
When i pass by all girls and boys stare at me.
When i talk to a girl she just start laughing and fliping their hairs bcuz i intimidate them.
And i am spending all my money on my clothings.
And this works 4 me alot.
I was with you until you admitted to your poor financial decisions.
I am also 17, we must enjoy our youth
Men with hardcore don’t wear tough shells cuz they crack, a man with a soft core desperately seeks harder shells cuz they’re irreparable
That actually makes a lot of sense
Indeed. 💪🏾
Incredible video. Exactly what I needed. I slip up on these sometimes but having them in mind will do the trick
Funny thing is I have noticed in myself that when I don't try to get a girl I'm naturally a bad boy but when I do try I overthink I'm too nice or act tough whatever. From personal experience when you don't try it works
Totally agree. Then the solution is to polarize in the “not trying to get a girl all the time and let the girl come and still remain in that state.”
Bruh same
Fun fact: i had a friend a few years ago that got all the girls meanwhile i was portraiting him like a God, because i never got particulary lucky with girls, so i learned that he was an Alpha and i was a beta seeing the Diference between our behavior thourds women. However One day a guy wanted to Kick his ass and he ask me for help and when me and the other guy that i didnt know got into a fight he left and later Said that he was scared. So guys its not just the behavior you have with girls that makes you an Alpha its about how you carry yourself in every situation.
yup you gotta be Alpha against other men as well
Nice integrity, boundaries, courage & growth. Nice modelling of the behaviours. Respect.
These are general rule of thumb, rather than absolutes.
Don't do drama or excitement, don't complain, don't explain , when you swear don't shout , don't clown people in a bad position , avoid cracking jokes and of course learn to use the word no when a scenario doesn't suit you or feel comfortable.
Hey man your channel is very nice and you have alot of great video however I don't agree with this one because of the following:
There seems to be an obsession with being a "bad boy" however, some of these tricks if implemented would make the person appear so fake and people in general can feel when someone is being fake "like man why are you so fake ?". I think the key point is to establish a strong assertive character that goes after what it wants while still being true to its nature !
Don't forget to buy a leather jacket and motorcycle too,that usually helps with the whole Bad Boy vibe, lol,also watch a few Marlon Brando and James Dean movies,lol.
Exactly. The whole bad boy thing is so unnecessary
And a Smith & Wesson for those who wants the smoke
@@richardramfire3971 no its not. its what gets girls. if you're not a bad boy, enjoy some used up roastie who's 40 yrs old.
A chick shouted ' I love your bike, man!" as I was rolling by in town one day. It's true, they love powerful, shiny bikes.
Got the sarcasm 😂
“If you are going for long term then be kind not nice and make a balance between nice and bad boy.”
I’m not good at expressing emotions and I’ve been getting better at not showing emotions. It really is beneficial.
Speak slowly and use your hands when talking
Its better for someone walk away because your personalities weren’t compatible, than for someone reject you for pretending to be someone you’re not... “To thine own self be true.”
Good point, but nobody is immune to change or improvement.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
@@wolfman231 It’s great to know your flaws, and working towards self improvement. I just don’t believe playing a role to attract the opposite sex. If you feel you need to do that, the best thing is to work on your self esteem and confidence. As I said, knowing your flaws is important, but also recognizing your strengths, helps build your confidence.
@@Barbara_Banks_1 Starting with infancy, humans emulate others to develop behaviors. A smart man changes his behavior if he isn't getting the desired outcome. Watch the video again. I think you missed the point.
no its better to change for the better. you shouldnt just accept yourself. I hate that so many people say that nowadays. What narcissism. Imagine thinking there is nothing you can improve on. Honestly, this is how a man should be. Not pleasing, stoic and strong.
Just be you dude.. If you're nice and they don't like you.. F them Atleast you have you.. Just be you
Man if I’m a loser I don’t want to keep being a loser what are you saying
@@Poop-sr9sn you are what you think you are.
Be the best version of “you”
You remind me of my nice beta friends he says the same like you and ended up crying in front of me hahaha keep up with that mentality until you see how rude people really are.
@@Poop-sr9sn😁
The take away from this is being the individual you are, and embracing that. Don't have expectation, and realize you will not please everyone. Having a military career, and getting a college degree, has given me much more confidence, and a greater sense of independence. Many people think "bad boy," and associate that with criminal. Then people are turned off. Don't go out of your way making this image obvious. Just be yourself, and people will like you, or they won't. Don't have expectations, or worry about outcomes in situations. Bad boys get burned too.
I think getting girls needs practice as everything you do in your life. You want to get good at math you start doing more and more exercises. You want to read faster you start reading more books. Same with girls. Putting yourself out there and talk to a lot of girls. Of course in the begging you will suck at it but in time you get better. It's a "numbers game". In time you will develop a pattern that seems to work. Of course for this method you need the courage and strong "heart" because you will be rejected many times. Yes u don't have to fear about rejection. U have to talk to the girl. That's how u get experience. But with time, u will start getting girls phone numbers you will get first dates, then seconds dates..... and slowly you will see a change in your dating life. It is not about the looks. It is about how much you care about your body. It is not really about the clothes either( but good looking clothes will help u in the beggining tho ). With every girl u fail u get experience and built confidence. And it is ok to feel bad after a rejection. It is normal. The more rejections the less time u feel bad about the girl u lost ( I hope that makes sense :)) ).
Oh and when u start dating it is important to have at least two girls that u set up dates with. Because at least one of the will give u the second date.
I really hope this help you if u read till here :))
Very well said many guys just wait for the girl to start convo and expect her to propose like bruh, u need to start and practice
These plays only works on girls over 18.
For teens,be cheerful and centre of attention never forget to smile when you look at her wonderful face.
So the girls at school r scared of me cause I'm naturally an alpha and a bad boy? Just a natural gift
no ,girls not scared of alphas/bad boys,,,youre giving them the shits thats why
Thats y ur watching this video
@@rickmorgan1441 I legit don't give anyone the shits
You should make more archetype videos would love to see it
Be not "too" nice or bad. That is the key. Balance.
Wear a leather jacket, instant game changer
Facts n cologne that smelks good we like complicates that not chessy n genuine
Works only with simple wimen 😂
Up to a certain age, then it looks like you're trying too hard.
Lol hell yeah 🤙🏼
Wtf... tactics NEVER work if the core personality is not on point
If you pretend hard enough, you'll turn into a bad boy eventually. By retirement for sure.
I can already tell you i've done most of this my whole life and it has gotten me nowhere.
Useful tip: just go to prison, let the other inmates "toughen" you up a bit, there! Bad boy!
Right🤦🏿♂️
As a teenager that’s what I always thought I needed. So glad I didn’t go. In hindsight I think that’s completely screwed up thinking. It’ll work but there are much better ways like mindfulness and self-mastery. Better to reprogram your mind on the other side of the bars with freedom in nature.
Not entirely true. I have a friend who did 3 years in prison and he has the balls to fight anybody but he's scared of approaching women because he's afraid of rejection. He doesn't take any shit from anybody but he also doesn't have any confidence in himself to do anything great or challenging to improve his life. Sometimes he acts like he's still in high school. It's really sad 😔
Falcon 69 Exactly. But hold on to hope for him and plant seeds of encouragement and wisdom.
What crazy is this isn't bad advice women love criminal 😂
So the ”just be yourself” saying was a huge lie 🤔
Be ûrself nice if u wanna be a jerk then be a jerk everytime √ that what means be urself ! If u r gentleman be a gentelman everytime thats what that quote means !
Well, that applies to your inner self not the alpha brhaviour and mindset that you adapt
Yesn't. If u change yourself, it will be yourself. Only thing you couldn't change your past but your past shapes you. So if you had different past , you would be different now. "Be yourself" means be what you wanna be. You want girls, but your personality makes it difficult, CHANGE yourself to be yourself. You see?
Basically
Just add confidence to it
Keep in mind some woman get turned off by bad boy archetypes. Some woman do seen to get over the top over it too. Depends who your going for so it can do the opposite effect. I know because I've seen girls go head over heels for this type and what I didnt tell them was it was a huge turn off to me. I've always been the setting down type name thats why. Either way it won't work on everyone but alot seem to like it. Great video
Do ya think this guy is just asking to be an introvert ? Cuz I think girls don't like guys who don't talk.
KC As Shawna said above, it friends on the type of girl. To expound, it depends on their mental and emotional maturity. Also a high educated lady would want somebody who’s a good conversationalist
U don't like them because u can't control them.
@yungdre510 Actually women are not attracted to doormats. You can be nice and still be able to hold your own ground.
Listening to those “red pill” channels teaching cavemen tricks won’t get you too far.
Only works for low value girls
Most women like the bb archetype. It’s just a guy with a fake girl account again don’t believe it
The thrust of this "Bad Boy" archetype is to be calm, not chatty, a bit glum, not animated, but still look in her eyes while speaking to her. Adopting these characteristics to the extent that you can meld them into your own game can be helpful but only if you can pull it of naturally. Plus, what ever persona you use to get her, you are going to have to keep up to keep her, there in lies the problem.
The "Bad Boy" persona sticks out because regular guys see them with women that seem outside the Bad Boys perceived reach. It stands out in your mind but don't forget that for every unusual parring of a bad boy with a peach, you see dozens of regular guys with women who are perfectly fine. You do NOT have to be a bad boy to get the vast majority of women.
The second you try to be cool, is the second you aren't.
Remember everyone is not for everybody and this is the problem with our culture today. What one girl might hate about you another one might love, just stay true to yourself and be confident and not needy and stay on your goals and purpose and the right one or ones will come into your life that matches your energy and if they don’t let them go. We men are the prize anyways always remember that.
No need to be intimidating,just be relaxed and dominant
This sounds good on paper but my suggestion is be the best version of yourself. I never had trouble attracting woman or getting into relationships. The single most important tip in this video is don't show females week emotions, no matter how far you are in your relationship. You can sympathize with there emotions, but you must stay strong. Be the rock, the man with the plan, or simply stay optimistic when things are looking bleak. Women like who they like and your turn will come, but you must be strong mentally. Stay off drugs and excessive drinking, be confident, be smart, be mentally strong and supportive, and be all these things consistently. The girl that you thought wanted that over confident bad boy over you, will soon be wishing she made a better choice. The man who shows his true personality, along with class and real confidence will always get the girl in the end.
Okay, these advice only help you if you want to attract a girl, but if she is attracted to you and she becomes something in your life, don't follow these rules.
Then just love her, & she should get this feeling that you care for her.
True that, love her but still play bad boy every now and then so she not bored of your niceness. They grow tired of it, trust
I feel like this isn't my archetype, plz make vids on the other archetypes so that I can find mine
Great video man awesome illustrations too. I think thoracic body type man is more likely to be a bad boy or have a more natural bad boy mentality, right ?
May be it is time for me to talk less. Haha 😂
Which software so you use to edit your videos🎥, i hope you reply😊
Am not gonna do this I’ve just got time to spare
This mind tricks are very helpful for people who want to be the bad boy archetype thank you for the research I need to work on the first one everything else I got it under control. Nice video 👌👍🤔🤔
It's really not about being nice or bad it's about being disciplined and doing the complete opposite of what these Desperate so called Bad boy Alpha simps do
If you have to be someone else, is this really the person for you and how long do you want to pretend to be cold
This is one of your best videos !!
YesSirrr 💪💪💪💪💪this video still a 🅿️
Fantastic video 📹 👏
Spot on 👌
I didnt knew it all along that i was a bad boy who was constantly failing at the 2nd point you mentioned in video.
This was actually very good - make sense. I wil try to implement the Long
Pause Method as being too talkative and replaying back too fast just doesn't work for me.
If a man hesitates before answering a simple question, I'm most likely going to assume he's lying.
He may be pondering your motivation behind the question and therefore will pause before answering.
@@Earlvis If he has nothing to hide, why would he care about my motivation?
I ain't belong to any archetype. Coz i am unique. And i know i am here to do something more than just get a girl.
*smirking*
Just wanted to give a little psa to the men out there following on this stuff.
While it's totally understandable you want to learn how to get women don't forget to not fall in love with your new world view.
Genuinely ask yourself, why am I doing this?
Do I want to meet women, gain confidence?
Spin plates to gain experience in the game?
Or am I doing this because I was burned by a woman and don't want to settle anymore so I'll just become the bad guy?
Remember the point is to become a better person, not to fall into the void much like our female counterparts.
Forgive the past, move on king 👑
^^ Take notes boys, these are words of a real and quality king 🤴
@@anav8598 more so in thought than application. But I'm at least honest to the girls I talk to I don't want anything serious than to lead them on
I'm learning this to avoid women at all costs. I learned my lessons and women only view me as a beta because of my height and voice. I'm good.
@@Tailionis that's good too. Come 30 years you'll have a smokin hot concudroid to keep you company that will always look young
Salpertia Being honest with your intentions will always be appreciated
Damn i didnt know..i am alredy the one shown in this video..i was thunkung about stop staying silent..lol bt now i wont! ..thanks alot for getting me a clear way about this..
Can you make a video about the different archetypes
Women make rules for nice guys and break them for bad boys👌
That’s call an alpha man
Only works for girls/ women with low self-esteem and daddy issues... which aren’t the most stable. Once they level up mentally, emotionally and in other aspects of their life, high quality ladies look for high quality men, not boys
I totally agree with that bro. I think I’m the nice guy in my situation rn😔. I’m on the journey to being an alpha
@@anav8598 I see you are the high quality woman who just reply to each and every commentto grab male attention. May be you think you are but you are not.
@ Sajith Menon | awww how cute is your attempt to bring me down with such an ignorant comment towards somebody you have absolutely no idea about.
My dear, I don’t need any more male attention than I do have in real life. And I certainly don’t want ANY attention from wannabe alphas like most boys here who need cavemen tactics to actually get female attention 🤣
I shared my comments yesterday in many posts here because I thought it would be helpful for men to get a lady’s perspective. However, it’s clear that YOU specially are beyond help.
Good luck catching those high quality women which you think you know what they’re all about 😂
Excellent content. Very short but power-packed!
Rule#1: She's not the prize. YOU ARE!
Thank you
I watch these as kind of a comparison to myself like comparing notes, kinda. Essentially it’s paleo psychology, be honest with yourself, don’t let the opinion of others or personal fears get in your way and just do you. I seriously have no idea why guys have so many problems with this. My hang up I guess is for example when I was in HS all the girls would cheat on their popular letterman jacket boyfriends with me but then literally tell me not to say anything or they’d deny it blah blah blah but they’d keep doing it so I guess I got a chip on my shoulder from it. I have literally done everything I possibly can to piss a chick off, we ended up bangin. I’m not trying to figure out how to get laid I’m trying to figure out how the hell to have a genuine conversation with a chick without them trying to inevitably “find the opportunity” to “nobody will know”. Luckily I’m married and we are good friends also she doesn’t get jealous, we discuss everything and she enjoys the occasional fruits of my apparent super power but it would be nice even though my wife doesn’t get jealous and I always see it coming a mile away if women would stop with all the lead up and just get to the point before it becomes some kind of a thing in their heads. Im happy with my current amount of wife I don’t cheat depending on your religious point of view and my wife and I discuss everything. I guess I’m just wondering if a chick wants to get laid and it’s obvious to the guy why does it have to play out like some murder mystery or whatever, why not just say so ? Why all the lead up?
The reason am always smiling is because it makes me look less ugly😐
lol a girl told me i'm less ugly when i smile
I got invited drinking in one of my friend house. And i tried to act like what it said on the vid... after that the 2 girls i met started chasing me and they're fighting over me and time goes by i show my funny sides they lose interest.
Plenty of fish in the sea darius. They're just apart of them.
You spoiled it😂😂
The thing I will take from this is not blowing my cover. Although I tend to do that anyway I tend to get very excited about anything. Got high grades everyone around me shocked and proud. Me : ok nice, it's not that I don't care it's that it takes quite a bit to make me show more emotion.
Keep making videos man! You're brilliant!👍
@farfromavrage Why Some of your videos are private?
What app do u use bro?
I love these videos!
Great video....😂
I already do this 🤔 but I don’t consider myself a bad boy, just a good man with good intentions, trying to abstain from evil and negative vibes.
Be about your life, and learn not to care. If its something you cant control, dont let it get to you.
if yt had a laugh react, this would be the appropriate video to use it on lmao
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What?
I’m confused on why this would need a laugh react?
This whole channel is a laughing stock
Is this a channel only for male? What about tricks for women. I did not find any one of them
Girls can pretty much just stand there and eventually a dude will talk to u
Thank You 😆
Nice guy finish last , silence is the key but always listen and pay attention with out them noticing it .
Good compilation!
I’m one of them guys-some what of a bad boy type and I’m benefiting from this video thx 🙏
Well this is great and all, but i find most girls think when you look emotionless and don't talk a lot that you're some form of antisocial and boring, then they move on to a more fun and lively guy. Im not saying its wrong, I'm just laying down my experience
You can let a girl know that you're interested, but don't try to hard. You don't want to look desperate. If she's into you, cool. If not, it's her loss. There's a lot of other girls out there.
My smile doesn’t look good, so haha I can already see this falling into place.
In a group, you're not gonna get a word in edgewise if you do the long pause I would imagine
that's the point your presence must be so big and powerful that people in the group will lean in and wait for you to finish
Then just randomly leave, better things to do. 😎✔
You just gave me the ultimate weapon, thank you
The fifth point is also described as INTERNAL STRENGTH
#3 was amazing
Good tips, but just the tip of the iceberg. Introspection is the key to self discovery. Keep up the journey.
I use bad boy techniques and kindness. I am kind bad boy.
Wonder what the other Archetypes are.
Thank you,
bro you really help me a lot
Be a badass and act like you gotta pair
got to keep that alpha male confidence to DOMINATE the competition, stay strong alpha's!
cringy as fuck
No, thank you for such an amazing video
Thank you for this video and for the Information
Here I'll give you guys the real code.... be confident not cocky! be yourself be authentic If you're a "nerd" be the most Confident nerd in the Room...We can tell when you're not genuine
That last one I would question, simply put... You can say the right thing, but said at the wrong time. One of my favorite Bible quotes is (to everything there's a season). Timing is crucial. Know when the time's right .