Sex Workers Discuss Ins And Outs Of The Industry | Roundtable |
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- Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
- In our new show Roundtable we have people with similar life stories and experiences coming together to discuss the things that unite them in a group circle setting.
In this episode we sat down with OnlyFans creators, escort, porn star, dominatrix and stripper to talk about the ups and downs of the sex industry, the way people perceive sex workers, and what it means to their personal life to be engaged in sex work.
Thanks to Danny D, Eva Oh, Caroline B, Mercedes, Caramel and Belle Olivia for taking part in this.
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Caroline
AdultWork / CarolineVee
twitter.com/bustygranny
Caramel
Instagram - instagram.com/caramelbaba/ (@caramelbaba)
TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@caramelbaba
Twitter - twitter.com/caramelbaba
Only Fans - www.onlyfans.com/caramelxxxbaba
Danny D
Instagram - instagram.com/dannydxxx/ (@dannydxxx)
TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@dannyd_xxx
Twitter - twitter.com/dannydxxx
Only Fans - onlyfans.com/dannydxxx
Eva Oh
UA-cam - ua-cam.com/users/EvaOh
Instagram - instagram.com/youwillplease_me (@youwillplease_me)
TikTok - ttps://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme
Twitter - twitter.com/youwillpleaseme
Only Fans - t.co/pnDCJtrBVO
Mercedes
UA-cam - ua-cam.com/users/MercedesValentine
Instagram - mercedesthedancerxo (@mercedesthedancerxo)
TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@mercedes_bends
Twitter - twitter.com/dancermercedesx
Only Fans - onlyfans.com/mercedesthedancer
Belle Olivia
Instagram - instagram.com/belleolivia3x_ (@belleolivia3x_)
TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@belleolivia3_ / www.tiktok.com/@belleoliviatok
Twitter - twitter.com/belleolivia3?
Only Fans - onlyfans.com/belleolivia3
@@mpat100 sick????? 😂😂😂😂😂 So you've never ever watched porn ever in your life 😂😂😂😂 don't be such a hypocrite
@@mpat100 No they don't.
@@mpat100 yet you're still here
😊
A group of sex workers sitting in a circle discussing their escapades in detail and the word SHIT is bleeped.
What a world we live in.
That's hilarious lmao
🤣🤣🤣
on youtube as well???
It's just clever marketing. If they don't make it pg rated, you tube will demonetise it or ban them.
My thoughts exactly!
Not wanting to date someone who works in the sex industry doesn’t mean that person is insecure. Not many want to be with someone sharing what many consider an intimate part of themselves with anyone who will pay. You desensitising that part of intimacy for money doesn’t mean others should to.
Well said
Thank you for saying this
Exactly
In a nutshell....
Not to mention all the millions of spirits within them. Them putting that on you. There is nothing pure about such a relationship. So some people are not willing to risk that and always questioning is it possible my partner possibly caught and STI/STD
Caroline gives us women hope that we retain our feminine, sexual power at 70.
hell yeah!!
I've heard of prostitutes who are in their 80s so yes! Women can do that 🙌
fuck you should meet my grandmother... sex is alive and well in your older years. Just work to take care of your body and try to eat decent.
..My wife is 75 & loves sex. Orgasms just about every time, but who wouldn’t with me. I’m 60 yo. All True 😊
really ? most men will shag anything. It is not a flex.
That Granny made me laugh every time. :D Gosh, she's the best. :D
the granny lady is so funny
"I've been celibate for the last year"
"My name's Danny"
I was not prepared for that. His wit there was hilarious!
Danny really seems like a really down to earth guy and what he did at 16:55 was hilarious and that shows he’s got a sense of humour
I nearly fell out of my chair laughing.😂
Tbf, with that "weight" is easy to down to earth, basically dragging.
the old lady is the perfect person to interrupt Richard Dawkins in Ted Talk😁😁
I find it baffling that someone who would not be comfortable with their partner being fucked by random strangers everyday is labelled as insecure. It's got nothing to do with being insecure, it's completely understandable not to want different people sleeping with your partner
A lot of the time it is insecurity. It could just be a preference. You're taking it Hella deep and it ain't that serious
There is usually a double standard though. Some men will hate sex workers or wouldn’t date them but use their services, have affairs, etc
If both partners see sex as intimate and sacred, I understand. However most users of sex workers are married men. So… clearly they don’t think sex is a strong emotional connection. They are trying to bang.
Yeah, that is usually what this type of women say to blame shift. They want the man to look bad instead of them. What they do is not well regarded pretty much anywhere in any time in history. And there is a price to be paid for that, and they do not want to assume the consequences of their decisions, so they blame it on men. They can do whatever they want with their bodies and have their preferences and opinions, but men can also. And many of us wouldn't like to have such a woman. It's the the rules for thee but not for me thing.
@@Bellaa4578 It is both...
@@bluetheangelofdeath Stop your gaslighting, nobody believes you. Sex is the most intimate thing that has always been reserved for committed couples. It’s so powerful that sexual abuse has longer lasting psychological and emotional effects than physical. Acting like it’s nothing and then labelling somebody as ‘insecure’ for not wanting an unfaithful partner shows who YOU are.
Wish this was longer... I'm curious about for instance, how did OF impact stripping, and what made Granny want to enter this industry. So fascinating!
There are one on one interviews with the whole cast. Carolines' one is great.
She had a bad experience apparently n abstained for 40 years thats y lol
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverx some men can do that to a woman!
Danny seems like the most down to earth person never judge what someone does to the person they are
I just looked him up and he has a HUGE mini Danny 🫣
What?
His dong is the size of someone’s leg
@@Harsh_Singh1111 is that really hard for you to understand?
so you cool with hitler if he's "down to earth" too
This interview is so honest! Not to mention how chill they are. I truely enjoyed it.
These people certainly have very distinct and straightforward opinions and experiences to share. Bless them.
👍👍👍. They’re great
What a diverse group. Really enjoyed this discussion. Made me think about my own preconceived ideas about sex workers. Traditionally sex workers were seen as vulnerable or troubled and victims, this is outdated thinking as this group show very clearly. Not saying that doesn't apply to some people! Just not these people. They all seem comfortable and confident and in control of their careers. Very interesting.
Edit to add:
Wow, the negative comments... any need? Smh
Yeah, but it's also a bit of a self-selecting bias going on here. I live next to the red-light district in the capital of a European country where prostitution is legal, and the sex workers are nothing like these in the video by large. There are different categories of sex workers, of course, but those working the street, are almost always part of vulnerable groups (such as migrant women or people struggling with drug addiction) and you would never see them in these discussion rounds.
Many respects it is still the case.
@@Kaniballoy yeah I guess you are right on this. There are different levels of sex workers and the ones in this discussion are not maybe typical. Maybe i need to take off my rose tinted spectacles!
But i do stand by the fact that the sex worker industry has changed and attracts people from all walks of life now rather than it solely being people who are being taken advantage of in some way.
I don't see the problem as long as it's consensual from all parties involved (and of legal age). I live in Sweden where it's illegal to buy. The Swedish model assumes a woman selling sex has been coerced or is trafficked so legally speaking it's impossible to sell sex volunarily. However crossing the border into Denmark it's completely legal as long as you're 18+ and not trafficked. So naturally lots of Swedish people visit Denmark because it's a beautiful country. They have Legoland and stuff.
Traditionally sex was trade very early on and powerful without judgement. If we go all the way back in some tribes women were the shamanic healers who offered their services and were seen as priestess. It’s only when religion sought to take away the power implored through sex did it become shameful. I believe wholeheartedly that the judgements created have made it so the boundaries keep being pushed when actually sex used to be sacred and spiritual, no matter how many partners one had.
This is really well done. I've been working online SW for 20 years and as I grow into who I am, I've notice so do how I want to work.
I thought the older lady was going to say she's been doing it for decades. lol
@@lNowHerel knock yourself out
This was so interesting! Shoutout to everyone, it's not easy to openly talk about sex work - especially if you are one. I hope nothing but success and happiness for all these cool folks!
Yeah so cool 🤡
bro danny has no right to be this funny and also wow what an insightful, elucidating video, thanks :)
There’s a full interview with him on the channel I think it’s really good
Really interesting! I work in the sex industry but as a photoshop retoucher so it's quite different... it's nice to watch interviews like this! Also the last thing they talked about is very important. I've seen many times models asking us to be removed from our websites because their family saw the content and it didn't go well... My bosses are nice people and they always remove it even if they are not obligated too, but I guess many owners of adult content wouldn't say agree to. And anyway, once you are on the internet, it can spreads on many MANY websites...
Hi I join how
interesting perspective. thank you!
There certainly is a niche for Grannie sex
How nice of your bosses.🙂
The ins and outs.. hahaha
funny
I entered ten of my best puns into a contest, thinking at least one of them would win. No pun in ten did.
@@StreetHierarchy😂
Literally
Danny D is a Legend
Big D
What a guy!!!
TOP D
Wish I could meet him so I could give him a fist bump and play playstation with
He is a genetic legend no one can mimic.
Danny D is a human highlight reel. Man is a legend
scary how young women seem to be obsessed with facial surgeries the way belle is. seeing too many people praising people for unnecessary surgeries and cosmetic procedures. just think pete burns, jackie stallone and mickey rourke. surgery eventually will ruin your face
its more about how addictive it gets and most of them that get this bad have body dysmorphia and dont really see how bad they look but yeah its sad
The Pete Burns story always saddened me a bit. I thought I had read that he had some underlying issues that caused him to make all those changes.
many people who work in the sex industry sadly damage their personal sex life for ever , but at the end end of the day we have to accept that we are all humans not just object´s ... there is a big philosphical debate about all of that and its a interesting topic that society should talk about ...
Working with something means you may be less interested in it personally. Like chefs buying takeways, cleaners not doing their chores at home or food processing people dislike whatever they work with. OTOH, they get experience. But working with sex means you can get lonelier off-work, and that's just a draw-back that some people are willing to accept. But poly people and SWers marrying another one from the industry is all too common. In porn, this seems to count for like half the population.
I loved this video! So insightful you can feel the freedom of them living in their truth. Many people hide behind a facade. I applaud those who stand in the light. If their choices/ careers were something people truly hate/ despise, it wouldn’t be so lucrative. Wishing many blessings & fulfillment to them ❤
This was great! I do not fit under the umbrella of any of this content. Fascinating!!! Not my jam. This group's confidence gives me confidence. Thank You for a great interview & participates!
*participants
I love the more unique content like this. The small focus group thing is great.
Was really clear that Danny and the Granny were saying their last bits to the onlyfans people.
'Danny and the Granny' sounds like the movie that needs to be made starring those two lol.
nice people. I couldn't be in a relationship with a woman who was in sex work myself, because I'd get jealous. but I wish them all happiness. Danny is a great guy, Michelle seems like she'd make a great friend, and I wish nothing but good things for the younger people here.
Don’t worry, SWers aren’t missing anything by dating you.
@@kolaoshun6298 why are you being so rude? all they said is that _they_ couldn't do it, not that it's a bad thing. and they were pretty respectful. so why the unnecessary toxicity?
@@deadbunnys I bet he/she is escort and got rejected by their partners
You must of dated a sex worker and suffered the insecurities as a partner, self projection dosnt come from no where😊@kolaoshun6298
Loser detected@@kolaoshun6298
Well done all! And so good to see Danny he here one of my favs! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🖤
I kinda feel wrong about how it still kinda misrepresents how the industry of sex workers is also run by ppl who never got a say in it
When the one woman said “my family doesn’t talk to me, and that’s fine with me”, I feel like that summarized everything. When all you have is superficial liaisons because you can’t maintain real ones.
Yeah, I didn't believe that either.
Of course one would state "this is me and makes me happy screw others" when they cannot, by other means, establish those real ones. People are forgetting it is easy to use sex work as a facade as well. To run away from problems. Which is almost always reason NUMBER ONE to go into this industry.
Her family was probably dicks tbh
Maybe her family is horrible?
@@sitcomsTV How often is problems the cause? Some people seem to come from other backgrounds. Like Dee Williams, Angela White, Casey Calvert, Cherie Deville, Rocky Emerson… And about what counts as "family"… Your family is the people that accept you for what you are, stand for and want to do. The other people don't share your worldview anyway.
Here I was looking on UA-cam for the dark side of sex work and some “how to ward people away” from this line of work material - but stumble upon this bunch just having a jolly time with it and enjoying their life
danny d is the most normal looking person with down to earth personlity in that group .. love him more ..
it makes me so mad when people involve animals in their kinks .
That’s the most annoying thing. Leave children and animals alone!
Love the age range and different stories here.
This was absolutely awesome!! Thank you so much for this video!
The Granny is really cool! Caroline I'll be your family if you need!
Aaawww thanks xx
Danny is so sensible! And I'd love to watch more of Granny, she should have her own channel!
"my names Danny" absolutely gold 🤣🤣
22:01 I'm glad he mentioned that day it flips because it will. The south asian guy isn't in complete agreement because he's not there yet.
This was absolutely fascinating! Thankyou!
When can we see you🎉
Sex work - if that's your passion, absolutely be honest and go for it, but don't give us this shit about relationship partners not being open enough or insecure. You're asking someone to give any sense of intimacy away because you've put something ahead of your partner - I'm sure you'd let the partner know in advance, but at least recognise how much you're asking of the other person.
There needs to be a legalised international union for all sex workers. These guys should be ambassadors.
Love how danny D says "my winky" when he has a third leg...bruh
Ha thought the same
I’ve never heard of him but I warmed to him immediately his “winky” was mentioned….😊
Good work to LADBible for hosting these discussions
Granny has the best advice. She's really cool. 👍🙂 Love her!
Friends are the family you choose. Just because you’re related to someone doesn’t mean you have anything in common. People who love you unconditionally don’t judge.
Wrong, people who love you unconditionally can and often times do judge, as they want what's the best for you and, if your not on that path, they will critique your choices in life in a heartbeat (aka judging).
Plus judging is a natural human instinct: you can't truly help it. If you judge in your subconscious, guess what? You still judges.
Note: this is not pointed toward the choices of the women in this video it's a general rule.
People who love yopu unconditionally look out for your best interests and can often judge a situation they believe may not be good for you. It sounds like you are trying to say that the only way someone can actually love you unconditionally would be for them to shut up if you don't like their opinion.
Kudos to these people! They're so strong and brave for being open and sticking to who they are and how they want to spend their lives, even when frowned upon by hypocritical politicians, religious lunatics, and pesky internet anons.
I went to school on a street where the sex workers are, downtown of a major city, and when I tell people about them, they're floored.
Are there young pretty women? Of course. But two of the nicest sex workers - who helped me buy cigarettes - that I met was a black trans woman with a thick full beard along with her sparkly little dresses and red lipstick. Another was a white man in his 60-70s who wore floral print smocks and straw woven hats like a British grandma.
There's a market for everything lol. They were obviously working like they were there everyday. They had clients. Some people want a thick beard and penis on a glam girl and some want a real life Mrs Doubtfire. It is what it is lol.
If had my experience with sex work and hearing this conversation is very relatable
Your pick would suggest you still do.
Not judging. Just stating.
@@sitcomsTV I couldn't understand what she was saying
This needs to become a podcast !!! ...
I have to say that as someone who was raised in a traditional, Christian home but has since become a more progressive, non-Trumpist Christian. This was really interesting to watch, simply to understand the lives of people that I have never encountered before. I will be honest and say that I still disagree with the idea of doing this but it was interesting to learn that there are sex workers out there who actually love what they do! The way it was presented to me when I was growing up was that it was people being taken advantage of and people who didn't have a choice but to do it to be able to survive but watching this showed me that that wasn't true. I have to say that this was a really fascinating video and it made me subscribe to the channel to learn more about things that were lacking in my education growing up!
@daemontargaryen6757 Because he ruined how people see Christians and stood for things that don't align themselves at all with Christianity but despite that, lots of Christian leaders followed him as though he were God himself.
@@jcfreak2007 which is weird for them bc Trump wasn't religious. But yeah! I did sociology research into SW and while there are still sex trafficking victims, some people did it willingly. But when it comes to economic pressures, who can say they weren't reluctant to do their job, eh?
@@jcfreak2007Well said. The Trump evangelicals have accomplished the biggest sin - driving people away from God rather than to God.
Like they said, not all Sex workers do it freely or even make a lot doing it. Not just anyone can do what they do so not all girls can make a ton of money on only fans or escorting etc.
@@edl6398 🙄🙄🙄 #Trump2024.
Well, as long as you're grown, do your thing. These people are necessary imo. There are lonely people out here who might need some companionship, or just need sex. If a person wants to pay someone to do shit on only fans, who am I to judge?
Lonely MEN. Not people.
Do you ever consider that by providing such services they're actively preventing these people from going out and forming actual fulfilling relationships? Because if they can scratch the itch with porn or prostitutes they have less incentive to seek out meaningful connections.
Let's be real, OnlyFans girls are just exploiting lonely men for money. They're not performing some act of community service out of the kindness of their heart. That's like saying drug dealers are pillars of society because smackheads need their heroin.
@@Feliciationsyou’d be very surprised to see how many women pay for OnlyFans.
Another brilliant respectful interview ❤❤❤
Wtf has the Irish girl done to her lip is that deliberate or is it a cleft palate
cleft palate 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this absolutely made my day, thank you!!
@@9teen9t4I know lolzzz. Wonder if they meant cleft lip. She obviously likes that look on herself.
This is delightful. Thank you.
Shit hit the fan when the granny's snapping in the beginning
Granny has more sex not thinking about sex than you have at all...thanks internet.
I love the diversity. It's a great view.
You already know that everyone who's leaving hateful comments actively watches porn.
I can tell your face doesn't touch concrete enough.
what an amazing video, thank you!
I think the shelf life isn't in terms of the person's age but more like how long you want to do it or not
Still waiting for the table to appear at some point 😅
Dam you reckon Danny D gets the badge in during the business
Danny D seems like such a great guy
Get the badge in Danny D 😂
Only Danny D deserves to be listen
@10:00 Caroline, honey, yes! The body keeps going, all parts working, until it decides it has had enough. I think you are the perfect example of what we all need in life - those who understand us at every life stage. It's fitting for a mature gentleman to want a mature lady for fun who understands him without generational gaps.
We are all soooo happy, honest!
I talk to sex workers every week on my podcast and overall, most of them LOVE THEIR JOB! So much so that they also love helping other cam girls, its a pretty amazing community 😀
Do you talk to many who have left the industry? Was in it for 17 years been out for a year but been working my way out of it for a few years. Could probably give you a perspective of the mental anguish that comes when you choose to take that mask off.
Yeah I'm guessing the ones who've been trafficked into sex work, are being abused and coerced or have been turned into drug addicts by their pimps probably aren't in a position to reach out and do podcasts. There's a very strong selection bias going on here.
Does anyone else think that Danny looks like a mix between Macklemore, Chris Martin from Coldplay?
Yes
Granny ain't playing no games baby.
Granny made all these other sex workers blush and giggle 😂😂
The fact the older lady is fine that she doesn’t speak to her family is super sad to me.
The fossil made her bed
Lots of people do not speak to their family and are not sex workers but were the scapegoat of narcissist then they escape and live their life away from the jealousy and backstabbing etc..
@@joyceanderson8648 ok but no one's talking about your family they're talking about how flippant she is about losing contact with HER entire family. She said it like it doesn't matter to her when it appears instead that she's taken an extra dose of Copium.
@@9teen9t4 I did not take it that way. It seems she just does not care that they do not talk and you should not judge her!! Maybe they always disagreed and hated on her so she got free from it. Just because her normal is not your normal does not mean anything other than you do not know her story.
All of them are sweet, especially the Granny.
listen, learn, and understand.
reflect why you feel so negatively towards these people who are living their lives.
Society has seen sex work as demeaning and the people within it lacking morals in some way. Which is very far from the truth. I have seen so much change in my lifetime. It's still evolving and long may it continue.
Now, will you keep that same energy when you reflect on people of faith as well?
Just curious how much money they all make in their own niche
I work in health care specifically for adults with minor learning difficulties . So many of my patients would like to experience a sexual encounter . I can't arrange anything because I would be considered a pimp ! I truly wish I could set up some sort of service for them 😶 Isn't it natural to want that encounter / it's perfectly normal to want that
its ripe for sex workers to service Special Needs clients. i hope someone out there specializes in this.
@@judescinnamon There are a few private services , but sadly only for clients with physical disabilities . Learning disabilities is a minefield 😥 It's very sad .
I can’t see a problem with helping them find services for that part of their mental well-being! Having a functional sex life is a vital part of anyones mental health and there shouldn’t be any stigma attached to helping people with disabilities find those services if they want them 💜
Same, especially supporting younger lads in their late teens / early twenties whose hormones are in a full rage and who desperately want that contact and can't express it properly. You can feel their frustrations.
@@DoctorBastard I totally understand, I have a son in his early 20’s and it’s hard for young men now with the way they are treated and looked down on for being men! And dating is a minefield of rules, my heart goes out to teens and young men in today’s society
I think it’s unfair for the girl on the left to call her parents ignorant. They could say the same about her. Also, none of them really seem all that happy. Except for the 70 year old.
The people saying they wouldn’t date a sex worker, sex workers couldn’t give a shit. They don’t want you anyway, you’re not that special.
I keep seeing you making that point. Clearly you give a shit.
They are missing out. Sex workers make pretty amazing partners.
You got that right👍
I mean, if that's what you need to tell yourself, then cool!
They may not want the people who comment indeed, but I think deep inside we all need or want someone special. And being rejected for their decisions must hurt somehow. So, I don't totally agree with you.
A man not wanting an intimate relationship with you because you are a s worker doesn't mean he is weak or insecure or any other bs, he clearly has higher standards that you cant fulfill. Bid difference
Danny saying “winky” made me laugh aloud 😂
Eva o's voice sounds exactly like dita von teese
That danny dude wields mjolnir
Loved this 🙌🏾
As a stripper/onlyfans model, this video is so validating
"so validating" 🙄
@@abceckswhyzee7169 LOL
If you really want validation, you'll find it. The fact that you're apparently seeking external validation is quite telling though. It suggest you have some degree of guilt and deep down feel like what you're doing is wrong.
After ten years of being Polyamorous, I can confirm that opening with, "Yeah, my wife and my boyfriends took me to dinner last night and it was AMAZING," is a phenomenal filter for preventing judgmental/bigoted people from getting close to me and wasting my time or emotional energy.
I love how nobody in this group judges
Love this video ! ❤
How iconic it's an industry in your open society
The granny used to do it for free 😂
I used to be a swinger if that's what you mean
Sex can be free or pay
I love how Caroline just casually bulldozed the other five with her dog story, just telling it like she was popping out for some milk yet leaving them speechless.
I have a question: how many of these workers are on antidepressant/ anti anxiety medications?
Or the heavier, street versions ...
Even if it's all of them... What would that prove? I'm on anti-depressants - does that mean I'm not allowed to make my own life choices? Should I quit my job and rethink my life because I'm on medication?
Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't Mercedes on a blind date show too? I think it didn't end up working out between her and the dude
Are you proposing - maybe rightfully so - that on main reason why a person may go into this business is the understanding that otherwise it would not receive the praise and attention they crave for?
Real talk...great people
Young kids doing Onlyfans is just depressing.
They’re not kids, they are legal 18 year old adults
TBH its super annoying with the *beep* over cursewords... Come on man
Must be real bad in Ireland when you feel UK is open minded :D
Everyone knows everyone in Ireland
i don't understand why sex workers are stigmatized, but not johns
What are johns
@@i_am_b1anca_207 the clients
because women having any degree or autonomy scares the shit out of a lot of men. So you demonise people to make it more difficult for them to pursue independence.
Wonder how many people would be ok if they find their partners to be regular customers of sex workers. And a habit is a habit, it wouldn’t stop just because you got married and especially when it is considered acceptable and rendered legal.