Ted Lasso Forgives Rebecca - Full Scene

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  • @L1VE3V1L
    @L1VE3V1L 3 роки тому +3104

    Ted has made me rethink my entire life philosophy. No show has ever achieved this.

    • @michaelperson4117
      @michaelperson4117 3 роки тому +89

      Only other one for me was the Good Place

    • @L1VE3V1L
      @L1VE3V1L 3 роки тому +249

      @Baza theyoutubeaddict basically trying to attack a problem from a positive perspective instead of my usual pessimistic curmudgeon style. 🤣
      This show truly inspires you to want to raise people up instead of shoot them down.
      Be curious, not judgemental.
      Barbecue sauce.

    • @Scorpio--
      @Scorpio-- 3 роки тому +51

      "Fútbol is life."

    • @jamesclint2338
      @jamesclint2338 3 роки тому +2

      @@Scorpio--
      You mean football.
      Just kidding.😉

    • @assimpleassharma
      @assimpleassharma 3 роки тому +10

      Try Bojack Horseman..

  • @zipcity6720
    @zipcity6720 3 роки тому +3310

    The utter lack of cynicism in this show is gutsy and refreshing.

    • @discofighter6925
      @discofighter6925 3 роки тому +90

      This! This framing is what i was missing while i was relentlessly recommending it to everyone

    • @laluenbaires
      @laluenbaires 3 роки тому +26

      OMG yessss, it is truly refreshing and we need more of it.

    • @TexasTeaHTX
      @TexasTeaHTX 3 роки тому +13

      Ted himself isn’t much of a cynic probably because cynicism is frowned upon in our part of the country.

    • @celebrim1
      @celebrim1 3 роки тому +72

      The easiest thing in the world is to see how broken it is and how much is wrong with it.
      The second easiest thing in the world to do is get angry about it and shout and show how outraged you are.
      The third easiest thing in the world is to think that you have all the answers and everything would just get better if only you and people like you were making all the decisions.
      Actually being good though is hard. And being good involves standing up to those three easy impulses and finding a different way.

    • @mholtebeck
      @mholtebeck 3 роки тому +6

      Thank you. You try to explain what makes these characters special, and you lose them at the premise. Ted Laso only works in this quasi British-Kansas environment. It's a Chilli Chutney Sandwich. It works because it works, but that explains it best.

  • @StarCadet
    @StarCadet 3 роки тому +3255

    Ted Lasso is such an incredibly complex, nuanced character. You start out thinking he is just a two-dimensional, one-trick-pony and then you realize he has so many layers. He isn't just some grinning idiot with a heart of gold. He is a man that has been through incredibly rough times in life and he has come to appreciate people for who they are. He is legitimately grateful for what he has.

    • @Kas58223
      @Kas58223 3 роки тому +67

      Absolutely I thought this be a silly comedy it has funny moments but then realism added in and Ted Lasso panic scene were you felt something for him saying it ok to be vulnerable

    • @MrWhit-mp2vn
      @MrWhit-mp2vn 3 роки тому +1

      @Pedro Coleman The site is a scam that steals money from people. Do not trust this Pedro idiot.

    • @christianb572
      @christianb572 3 роки тому +8

      Yup. And that’s why the show works as well as it does. It takes that approach to every character that you see on screen. No wonder the show is as good as it is.

    • @KS-xk2so
      @KS-xk2so 3 роки тому +31

      Exactly this. I love that in the beginning you could mistake Ted for just a shallow grinning naive idiot, but little moments in the show, whether its his "we talking bout practice" moment with Jaime, or his panic attack, or him seeing right through Rupert, show that Ted is actually a smart, complex man, who feels all the emotions anyone else does, like anxiety, anger, contempt, but chooses to respond with positivity and optimism, because its the way he wants to live his life. It's awesome.

    • @Xvzfsd
      @Xvzfsd 3 роки тому +10

      It's great writing to add all those layers of complexity to a character that started off as UA-cam sketch. Also great work by Jason Sudekis to breathe life into it.

  • @stevenfisher8638
    @stevenfisher8638 3 роки тому +1561

    I love that you can see the moment Ted is hurt and is thinking about reacting in kind. But he stays quiet and listens for just a moment more, and in that moment Rebecca explains it all in a way that Ted gets. The whole character of Ted is that extra moment of listening.

    • @Trapper50cal
      @Trapper50cal 2 роки тому +86

      ...and an extra moment of processing through a broader lens than just self-focused. The old "Walk a mile in another's shoes" approach.

    • @Reyrocksall
      @Reyrocksall 2 роки тому +58

      Be curious

    • @adamscoll8791
      @adamscoll8791 2 роки тому +48

      This is an excellent observation. A character study on what it means to confess, to listen, and to forgive. Three things we all could work on.

    • @celticgibson
      @celticgibson 2 роки тому +63

      He's both TED Talk and TED Listens...

    • @collectivevision9884
      @collectivevision9884 2 роки тому +32

      Ted and Rebecca’s friendship is the best part of the show. She knows whenever something is wrong with him without him having to say a word, from his panic attack in season 1, to him spending Xmas alone and his 2nd panic attack in season 2.

  • @myrin265
    @myrin265 3 роки тому +866

    i’ve never felt safer than i do when i watch this show

    • @OmyDolphin
      @OmyDolphin 3 роки тому +29

      Yes. this.

    • @antikkhan36
      @antikkhan36 3 роки тому +31

      I was having anxiety issues due to the fucked up situation in my country and in the world with the lockdowns and all. Binging this show made me hopeful and positive again. I will forever be grateful

    • @hello7032
      @hello7032 2 роки тому +4

      Didn’t realize it but yes, this describes my feelings about the show perfectly.

    • @dflowers4152
      @dflowers4152 2 роки тому +6

      That is exactly how I feel, safe! I didn't think it til I read your comment. I'm grateful for it

    • @AquaAtia
      @AquaAtia 2 роки тому +2

      Yes. That experimental episode in the Coach Beard episode that ends with all of the coaches in Lasso’s office? That scene just made me feel so warm and oddly nostalgic for a show I’ve watched over the last month. It’s just a familiar safe space

  • @incredelman11
    @incredelman11 3 роки тому +852

    Ted Lasso is a fucking gem. He makes me want to be a better person.

    • @Taylorbaby831
      @Taylorbaby831 3 роки тому +24

      Don’t forget he surrounds himself with great people too.

    • @adamscoll8791
      @adamscoll8791 3 роки тому +19

      @@Taylorbaby831 sometimes. Then sometimes, he’s in a stadium full of hostile football fans, calling him “wanker!”

    • @guitargod63
      @guitargod63 2 роки тому +10

      Same actually, this whole show if u think about it is about mental health and life tips etc

  • @yardsale49
    @yardsale49 3 роки тому +2243

    I know Jason deservingly won his Golden Globe, but can we discuss for a second how awesome Hannah was in this scene, and the whole show for that matter.

    • @sackman1886
      @sackman1886 3 роки тому +53

      Yes, she's incredible.

    • @RobbiePfunder
      @RobbiePfunder 3 роки тому +23

      well she won stuff too

    • @thecursor1
      @thecursor1 3 роки тому +34

      If she doesn't become a huge star after this, it's a crime.

    • @rlhicks1
      @rlhicks1 3 роки тому +16

      This was an awesome scene and she knocked it out of the park.

    • @James7995
      @James7995 3 роки тому +53

      The show hinges on her character. If the audience doesn’t go along with her journey then the show falls flat.

  • @ThatGuy-bp4gz
    @ThatGuy-bp4gz 3 роки тому +1061

    "I forgive you." Perhaps the 3 most powerful words you can put together. What an exquisite scene. Thanks for reminded me of it.

    • @julianbarriento516
      @julianbarriento516 3 роки тому +8

      like the scene in spiderman 3

    • @mohammadislam2324
      @mohammadislam2324 3 роки тому +6

      Some of the hardest words to say

    • @kenjisparks
      @kenjisparks 3 роки тому +13

      It's so great a thing because we know he truly MEANS it. Such a fantastic scene.

    • @Rufus6540
      @Rufus6540 3 роки тому +7

      What I love about it is, of course, the 3 words. But then he says why he forgives. It's hard to argue against it to begin with but once he explains it's impossible.

    • @vangeles11
      @vangeles11 3 роки тому +5

      also shows how the timing of it all impacted his perspective. him going through a divorce as well, he knows the pain and suffering first hand. such a powerful show.

  • @andrewpanebianco2742
    @andrewpanebianco2742 2 роки тому +622

    I adore how he plays this scene. It's the look on his face as he forgives her. He's so firm. So serious. Somehow I've been taught that to forgive is soft, in some way. Passive. But it isn't. Forgiveness is hard, brave, serious stuff. I love this scene for so many reasons... but that look is what really kills me.

    • @ScottGammans
      @ScottGammans 2 роки тому +5

      Well observed.

    • @Cyndib93
      @Cyndib93 2 роки тому +1

      Nice. 🙌

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 Рік тому

      I don’t know. I would have only faked forgiveness and called the press. Ted Lasso is TOO SOFT. NO woman or anyone can respect ANY man who forgave that kind of DISRESPECT. That’s the problem with my fellow man. TOO Soft. Should’ve made an example of her. Whatever happened to real masculine men?
      I don’t give an F how cynical and vindictive I am. In this case I’m CORRECT

    • @levilandes1719
      @levilandes1719 11 місяців тому +10

      ​@@brutustantheiii8477No, you're just sad and misguided. I'm sorry for whatever made you this way. If you look through the comments, you'll find a lot of people seem to respect the ideal representation in this scene, myself included. Strength is knowing the value of every asset in your playbook, that includes compassion.

    • @Mnkylord
      @Mnkylord 10 місяців тому

      ​@@brutustantheiii8477 Except in all the ways you aren't. Which is basically all of them. :P This is above and beyond the "masculine" or "femanine" context you're trying to force it into. It's about having the intellectual and emotional intelligence to know what's what, to be unburdened with pettiness and vindictiveness, and recognize that forgiveness can be the optimal way to move forward when those who spite you are genuinely remorseful. Being an idiot that holds onto a grudge for zero gain doesn't garner respect from anyone worthy of giving it; It just makes you look like an idiot.

  • @tarkjones
    @tarkjones 3 роки тому +893

    Back in episode 4, during the charity gala, Ted advises Rebecca to start off her speech with a joke at her expense to help break the ice. Rebecca starts her speech with "If I could hug each of you as a thank you for your kind donations, well, I probably wouldn't because as we all know I'm not much of a hugger." Which makes her act of hugging him that much more of a breakthrough for her. Just another example of the great writing in this show and how they bring things around full circle, like when Ted says "barbeque sauce" during the dart game.

    • @BBFilms88
      @BBFilms88 3 роки тому +18

      DAYUM. That’s brilliant writing

    • @Afalstein
      @Afalstein 3 роки тому +36

      Also the moment when Ted lashes out at Nathan shows that he really means what he says here. Ted doesn't resent Rebecca for lashing out at a good man, because he's done it himself.

    • @mikeronquillo1451
      @mikeronquillo1451 3 роки тому +2

      Damn! That’s solid writing

    • @Kas58223
      @Kas58223 2 роки тому +1

      That’s just great writing right there able to start character in such a way and then a 180 happens to them

    • @arman8976
      @arman8976 2 роки тому

      @@Afalstein it begs the question: what if ted lasso hasn’t gone through a similar experience? Does he still forgive? If so why?

  • @marcsugi
    @marcsugi 3 роки тому +997

    This show surprise the hell out of me. I was looking for easy laugh about some Americans in football world, ended up having a 10 episodes marathon because of the great writing and character development itself. Deep and wholesome series, best of 2020 for me.

    • @ralphmacchiato3761
      @ralphmacchiato3761 3 роки тому +2

      Yup. Finally a show that deals FeelGood® I hope other shows take heed and the next season of Picard will have him fix StarFleet and make Star Trek a vision worth going for again.

    • @tarkjones
      @tarkjones 3 роки тому +18

      Same here. Thought it would be a fun fish out of water show with some soccer thrown in. Instead it was just a relentlessly positive story of one man making everyone around him better while just being himself. When I first watched it, I kept waiting for the usual Hollywood tropes to pop up like the simple misunderstanding that gets blown out of proportion, or the messy love triangle or any of the usual crap. The complete lack of all that and a simple focus on a good story and developing characters was absolutely great. I've watched the whole series I think 5 times now and individual clips I don't know how many times. Beautiful show.

    • @hellfish2309
      @hellfish2309 3 роки тому +2

      USA USA USA😉

    • @Trapper50cal
      @Trapper50cal 3 роки тому +1

      Yup, and it had me looking at AFC Richmond kit online :-) Jerseys up to 4XL...smart

    • @Moody2919
      @Moody2919 2 роки тому

      Yes!!! This show is awesome in every way!!!

  • @ltspeaks315
    @ltspeaks315 3 роки тому +356

    I have said it before, I will say it again. Ted Lasso is another superhero show, the difference is, his super power is empathy and it inspires you to achieve it. Great, great show.

    • @adrielsebastian5216
      @adrielsebastian5216 2 роки тому +1

      That's a brilliant observation. And it really says something about our society when being empathetic and compassionate is considered a superpower.

    • @DrLipkin
      @DrLipkin 2 роки тому +4

      Honestly, any portrayal of Superman on film needs to have a similar level of empathy. Otherwise its a failure.

    • @timmytang7965
      @timmytang7965 2 роки тому

      @@DrLipkin glad i’m not the only one thinking this!

  • @JamesDavis-mb1jw
    @JamesDavis-mb1jw 3 роки тому +187

    Man that delivery.
    “ Nope. That’s new.”

  • @siphillis
    @siphillis 3 роки тому +91

    "You liven up the place" is such a simple yet incredibly polite thing to say to someone.

  • @danielthorrens9626
    @danielthorrens9626 3 роки тому +297

    This apology is up there with Zuko and Iroh

    • @fletchy09
      @fletchy09 3 роки тому +48

      Iroh grabbing Zuko to hug him mid apology is the only moment in ATLA that made me tear up as both a kid and an adult. Incredibly well delivered scenes

    • @joehamersly1050
      @joehamersly1050 3 роки тому +11

      @@fletchy09 Iroh singing “Little Soldier Boy” didn’t?? That’s easily the most emotional part of the show, in my opinion. The mid-apology hug is a close second for me.

    • @fletchy09
      @fletchy09 3 роки тому +8

      @@joehamersly1050 Both moments are the only ones in the entire show that get me in my feels every time, they’re both great but Zuko tearing up as Iroh pulls him mid apology just hits me a little bit harder. Knowing Iroh had lost his son and basically lost Zuko too. Then Zuko felt like he lost his entire family but found Iroh again. There’s so much emotion from the course of the whole show that combines into one beautiful mf moment.
      But absolutely no hate towards you, glad I’m not the only one who loves both

    • @joehamersly1050
      @joehamersly1050 3 роки тому +5

      @@fletchy09 that’s a solid perspective there and agree wholeheartedly. Another one that comes to mind is the final Agni Kai between Azula and Zuko. The almost dance-like choreography, the swelling music, not much dialogue at all, and the evidence that Zuko has learned from his friends and Uncle by imitating their stances/styles and controlling his breathing…all of it is incredibly powerful. At the end of the day, ATLA remains top-tier television, just like Ted Lasso has. Have a great day/night!

    • @Claudefather
      @Claudefather 3 роки тому +1

      That scene with Iroh and Zuko genuinely made me tear up, amazing show

  • @chrisparkes
    @chrisparkes 3 роки тому +395

    Completely unexpectedly, this is the show I needed this year. It’s just full of love for human beings.

    • @nocplfs
      @nocplfs 2 роки тому

      Xiaomi Xiaomi

    • @nocplfs
      @nocplfs 2 роки тому

      Xiaomi is there

  • @brakesforsnakes757
    @brakesforsnakes757 3 роки тому +352

    I love this show so much and I literally had no expectations for it going in.

    • @jerrya6855
      @jerrya6855 3 роки тому +23

      same , caught me off guard , but damn.
      It was refreshing, and honestly , just good.
      Fully good.

    • @Kas58223
      @Kas58223 3 роки тому +3

      @@jerrya6855 absolutely wasn’t expecting a gem of a show like this highly recommended in the goodness in people that is needed

    • @wyprman
      @wyprman 3 роки тому +5

      Me too. I have no interest in pro sports in general, much less soccer but my friends insisted I watch. “Why?” I asked, but all they would tell me is “watch the first episode and you won’t be able to stop.” And they were right.

    • @itsjonathangray
      @itsjonathangray 2 роки тому

      Same here. Turned out to be the best show I've seen out of the pandemic. 👏

    • @AlexanderrRobinEvans
      @AlexanderrRobinEvans 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely. I was just expecting a cute comedy but instead I got one of the most wonderful things that I’ve ever experienced. What an incredible piece of art this show is.

  • @sillythingsme186
    @sillythingsme186 3 роки тому +206

    It’s so refreshing they did not follow the old trope:
    Person 1 has a secret that would make person 2 mad
    Persons 2 and 1 grow together
    Person 2 finds the secret and gets mad
    Person 1 needs to make some grand gesture to get forgiveness
    It’s like, nobody thought of the power of simply admitting the mistakes at once and possibly being forgiven. It was not Hollywood enough. Well lookie here

    • @zacheryacuff8070
      @zacheryacuff8070 3 роки тому +21

      Couldn't agree more. That trope is so common and so lazy. It was far more impactful that Rebecca decided to come clean and apologize of her own accord and that Ted was understanding and forgave her.

    • @Dreamfyre_
      @Dreamfyre_ 3 роки тому +6

      I very much agree! This was very refreshing

    • @Sestze
      @Sestze 3 роки тому +7

      It's so much more realistic, too.

    • @rickkopfler8447
      @rickkopfler8447 2 роки тому +3

      @@zacheryacuff8070 keeley did force her hand, but I kinda think after what Rupert just did to her this would have happened anyway. In fact, I would have enjoyed the scene even more then I did if keeley had not played a part.

    • @tommoncrieff1154
      @tommoncrieff1154 2 роки тому +3

      Yes, I agree. Producers usually demand that no tension gets resolved this easily and certainly not in one scene. At least the phone should ring or something stop her, or him.

  • @prisonerofcapitalism
    @prisonerofcapitalism 2 роки тому +69

    I love that Ted doesn't say, "It's okay." Because, it's really not. And they both know it. What he says is, "I forgive you." Because, even though it's not "okay", he really *does* forgive her.

    • @captross07
      @captross07 Рік тому +5

      That’s the power of forgiveness. It’s just as much for the forgiver as it is for the one being forgiven.
      Carrying around a grudge is just as toxic as carrying around guilt. Ted knows this. He knows that carrying anger in your heart helps no one, least of all you.

    • @agoo7581
      @agoo7581 Рік тому +1

      @@captross07 Not necessarily, forgiveness is not always a necessary path to healing.

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 Рік тому

      I don’t know. I would have called the press. Ted Lasso is TOO SOFT. NO woman or anyone can respect a man who’d tolerate THAT kind of DISRESPECT. That’s the problem with my fellow man. TOO Soft. Should’ve made an example of her. Whatever happened to real masculine men?
      I don’t give an F how cynical and vindictive I am. In this case I’m CORRECT

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 Рік тому

      @@captross07nah, “forgiveness” is too often weakness. Just like “compassion”. It allows too many to get away with anything

    • @captross07
      @captross07 Рік тому +7

      @@brutustantheiii8477 Dude…are you okay?

  • @curbgrinder111
    @curbgrinder111 Рік тому +75

    The way he walks away from Rebecca with a little swagger in his step is just perfect. He's feeling good cause he knows he just helped lift a massive weight off his friend's shoulders. Did she betray him? Yes. Did she attempt to make it right? Yes. And that's more than enough for Ted

  • @bombshellmusical9566
    @bombshellmusical9566 3 роки тому +224

    The thing about this scene is Rebecca confessing & Ted forgiving her were predictable. What makes it special is they connect both to something deeper. Rebecca reacts to the deep pain & cruelty of her ex, and Ted reacts to his own very painful experience with divorce.

    • @alexandradaniels6048
      @alexandradaniels6048 3 роки тому +4

      This show does such a brilliant job at showing how good coaches act because media tends to show the “Bobby Knight’s” of the world. Being a coach, doesn’t mean you have to be an asshole.

    • @Afalstein
      @Afalstein 3 роки тому +16

      The scene would, I think, come across as forced, if it weren't for Ted's earlier outburst at Nathan. Ted knows, very well, that divorce makes you do crazy things and even hurt good people on occasion. You wouldn't be able to believe Ted's forgiveness if you hadn't seen his own divorce.

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 Рік тому

      I don’t know. I would have only faked forgiveness and called the press. Ted Lasso is TOO SOFT. NO woman or anyone can respect a man who’d tolerate THAT kind of DISRESPECT. That’s the problem with my fellow man. TOO Soft. Should’ve made an example of her. Whatever happened to real masculine men?
      I don’t give an F how cynical and vindictive I am. In this case I’m CORRECT

  • @devlin7575
    @devlin7575 2 роки тому +55

    You can tell she’s an experienced theatre actress … very good casting

    • @sweeney60
      @sweeney60 Рік тому +2

      Tell me about it. She has a face that can communicate emotion half a kilometer away!

  • @grandfathergeek
    @grandfathergeek 3 роки тому +73

    I. Forgive. You.
    Three words that hold so much strength, mercy, empathy and wisdom. What a show.

  • @petersherman2187
    @petersherman2187 3 роки тому +163

    Probably the best scene in TV from last year.

    • @TexasTeaHTX
      @TexasTeaHTX 3 роки тому +9

      You wouldn’t be wrong.

    • @iHaWkS15
      @iHaWkS15 3 роки тому +19

      It’s this or the darts scene for me

    • @johnlawson910
      @johnlawson910 3 роки тому

      What episode is this?

    • @petersherman2187
      @petersherman2187 3 роки тому +2

      @@johnlawson910 last episode. The finale.

    • @karmrajgor7498
      @karmrajgor7498 3 роки тому +1

      This and the Mandalorian finale scene- Luke coming back, and grogu saying goodbye. I couldn’t stop crying

  • @ramonalejandrosuare
    @ramonalejandrosuare 2 роки тому +9

    "The only thing evil can't stand is forgiveness.”
    --Mr. Fred Rodgers

    • @miguelservetus9534
      @miguelservetus9534 14 днів тому

      Evil doesn’t really care if forgiven or not. Evil is just evil.
      Evil does not see the other.
      Forgiveness blesses the good, the forgiver. It delivers us from evil.

    • @josephmanno4514
      @josephmanno4514 14 днів тому

      @@miguelservetus9534 Obviously you need to do a little more forgiving.

    • @miguelservetus9534
      @miguelservetus9534 14 днів тому

      @@josephmanno4514 Sorry my post wasn’t as clear as I hoped.
      I was just cautioning not to expect much from the evil.
      Funny because my parents and spiritual mentor tell me I am too forgiving.
      But I stand by my statement that forgiveness blesses the forgiven.
      I find that evil doesn’t want, nor ask for forgiveness.

  • @cmbuelow
    @cmbuelow 3 роки тому +139

    Don’t ever underestimate how difficult it was for each of them to do what they do in these three minutes
    How difficult it is to accept responsibility for your own errors
    How difficult it is to apologize
    How difficult it is to forgive
    What an incredible scene

  • @OmyDolphin
    @OmyDolphin 3 роки тому +57

    I live my life with what i call cautious pessimism and this show broke me. It broke me on an existential level.

    • @ChrisColeChicago
      @ChrisColeChicago 11 місяців тому +1

      As Roy Kent says later in the series, "I give you love."

  • @vangeles11
    @vangeles11 2 роки тому +72

    this scene with two emmy award winning actors ladies and gentleman. i've watched this scene so many times and it was like a good punch in the gut when ted instantly said "i forgive you". it's almost like a fantasy you have when you know you really messed up. such powerful words that can change lives. also love how much acting jason was doing with just his eyes/face in the first half of the scene. brilliant.

    • @FabbyTravy
      @FabbyTravy 2 роки тому +3

      These two were the MOST deserving winners that night. The entire show hinges on them. Especially Rebecca.

    • @TheUSDebt
      @TheUSDebt 2 роки тому +4

      I cry every time I watch him say “I forgive you”.

  • @skylaryoung3819
    @skylaryoung3819 3 роки тому +55

    I wish this world, myself included, was as good at “taking a breathe and trying to understand” as Ted Lasso is.

    • @whytemyke
      @whytemyke 3 роки тому +9

      It's awesome because when you really think about it, the show makes it a point that Ted embodies that whole "Be curious, not judgmental" ethos that he spoke about in the darts scene with Rupert.

    • @BBFilms88
      @BBFilms88 3 роки тому

      @@whytemyke YES

    • @skylaryoung3819
      @skylaryoung3819 3 роки тому

      @@whytemyke Well said.👍👍👍

  • @righteousduke2704
    @righteousduke2704 3 роки тому +34

    “Divorce is hard.”
    Man, what the actor brought to say that line… I felt that.

    • @adrielsebastian5216
      @adrielsebastian5216 2 роки тому +2

      Not to mention that he'd lived through one in real life.

  • @jamesgoines7663
    @jamesgoines7663 3 роки тому +80

    Divorce is hard
    Doesn't matter if you are the leaving or the one who got left.
    If you care about someone and you have a little love in your heart... there's nothing you can't go through together.
    Such powerful statements.

  • @deanouellette1868
    @deanouellette1868 3 роки тому +27

    "You liven up the place."

  • @pebblesanddirt
    @pebblesanddirt 3 роки тому +60

    The first time seeing this scene is the hardest I’ve cried in years. I’m crying again now lol.

    • @ScottGammans
      @ScottGammans 2 роки тому

      It is, simply, an amazing show with an incredibly gifted cast and writing team. And wait till you see S2!

  • @Nabiki73
    @Nabiki73 2 роки тому +36

    Kudos to the writers of this show for taking what was supposed to be just a caricature character in a series of commercials and turning him into a human being that we could all relate to. No wonder this show got nominated for those Emmys.

  • @NavBeach20
    @NavBeach20 3 роки тому +45

    A modern day Andy Griffith show...just outstanding on so many levels.

  • @treetheoak8313
    @treetheoak8313 3 роки тому +72

    Never would have thought that apple above all productions would Create such a cute and diabetically sweet show.

    • @Mabus16
      @Mabus16 3 роки тому +12

      Well it wasn't really Apple who made the show, they just funded it. It was Bill Lawrence/Doozer Productions who made it, and they have history with seemingly simple comedy shows that turn out to be far more complex and life-affirming as they go on, thinking of Scrubs in particular.

    • @darthkek1953
      @darthkek1953 3 роки тому

      Candy Apple

  • @tbirdguy1
    @tbirdguy1 3 роки тому +183

    It is so easy to hold a grudge when you find out someone has had it in for you, to be angry, to be outraged, to demand justice. But there is a simple and healing power of forgiveness. It's not religious or metaphysical. It's 100% real and true, that being forgiving makes your life easier, and overall better. Grudges eat away at you, they poison you. Anger destroys your heart, hurts your physical being. Be be willing an open to forgive is an antidote to so much negativity in the world.
    This simple scene where he forgives her is so powerful.

    • @caitlinelgin8691
      @caitlinelgin8691 3 роки тому +1

      couldnt agree more

    • @patrickbaumgardner2765
      @patrickbaumgardner2765 3 роки тому +5

      I have forgiveness tattooed across my chest, I wasn’t always a good person, little daily reminder to not dwell

    • @mywifesboyfriend5741
      @mywifesboyfriend5741 3 роки тому

      Not a believer in forgiveness, but I like your message.

    • @remindyouofwho7201
      @remindyouofwho7201 3 роки тому +4

      @@mywifesboyfriend5741 You don’t believe in forgiveness? I’m willing to bet you’re a pretty bitter person. I say that because I used to be the same way. Once I started to forgive and let go, I was able to live.

    • @mywifesboyfriend5741
      @mywifesboyfriend5741 3 роки тому

      @@remindyouofwho7201 Forgiveness is an invitation for a knife in the back. I'm not bitter, just wise. Besides, there's plenty of time for forgiveness once the person who offended you is dead. Till then? Nah.

  • @BrandonMason
    @BrandonMason 3 роки тому +65

    The compassion showed in this scene is just...wow. Floors me every time I watch it

  • @chikushodiz91
    @chikushodiz91 3 роки тому +18

    This moment here is all you need to see to know how amazing Ted lasso is

  • @cocoacoconuts24
    @cocoacoconuts24 3 роки тому +30

    I love how this show depicts several apologies, all sincere and all met with compassion and forgiveness. As if the show is drilling it into our heads like “See? It can be this way.”

  • @Victoria-creates
    @Victoria-creates 2 роки тому +23

    This show has me going from belly laughing to crying in an instant and I absolutely LOVE it!!

  • @jonalread
    @jonalread 3 роки тому +35

    Great, I'm crying again

  • @sgtlamancha805
    @sgtlamancha805 3 роки тому +34

    "You and me? We're ok" What a mensch

  • @carlevans8825
    @carlevans8825 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm so glad people watch Ted Lasso bc yall are getting the magic that Bill Lawrence gave us in spades through Scrubs. Heart, depth, and tone shifts on a dime without being saccharin or maudlin. Complexity delivered in refined simplicity.

  • @meowbauh
    @meowbauh 3 роки тому +39

    Ted is such a good fking guy, we dont deserve him 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @rlopezosorio1975
    @rlopezosorio1975 10 місяців тому +2

    Ted Lasso, is the story of one person healing a team and of a team healing a person.

  • @tefweebz
    @tefweebz 2 роки тому +15

    This scene crushes me, not only Ted’s character, but the relief he gave Rebecca when she expected the worst. Forgiveness is hard. We can all learn from this fictional character.
    “All you good people, just trying to make a difference.” Heartbreaking line and delivery was when her character leveled up for me. This hug and the warmth is why TV exists.

  • @emorydaniel9084
    @emorydaniel9084 3 роки тому +23

    To err is human, to forgive is divine.
    And that’s what separates people like Ted Lasso

  • @jsmcguireIII
    @jsmcguireIII 10 місяців тому +3

    Someone else is always hurting too. Never forget that. Forgiveness is freedom.

  • @thunderlighting2006
    @thunderlighting2006 10 місяців тому +3

    Its incredible how these writers have done what every Disney movie fails at having a strong independent women who rich and probably has most things most people want but at the end of the day everyone can connect with her because shes human not perfect

  • @ugoeze7360
    @ugoeze7360 3 роки тому +273

    Who’s talking here about divorce being hard: Jason or Ted? 😩

    • @TheKirbyT
      @TheKirbyT 3 роки тому +100

      Yes.

    • @sleepinggorilla
      @sleepinggorilla 3 роки тому +2

      Found marriage much harder. Divorce has been great.

    • @Figs3
      @Figs3 2 роки тому +4

      Makes you wonder if Olivia was falling out of love with Jason? Just how much of Ted the character, a representation of what is going on with Jason, the man.

    • @Miblive
      @Miblive 2 роки тому +2

      Ted, because Jason wasn't married.

    • @Figs3
      @Figs3 2 роки тому +2

      @@Miblive but he was in a relationship for years. Which was what Jason was going through. A break up. At least publicly.

  • @Pete_Finch
    @Pete_Finch 3 роки тому +14

    Ted's face as Rebecca was confessing killed me, and then he did the most Ted Lasso thing possible: forgave her immediately.

  • @mauricetober
    @mauricetober 3 роки тому +20

    This show surprised the hell ouot to me. I knew Sudeikis was good, but here is downright amazing. Hats off to the rest of the talented cast as well. Waddingham is a tall, blonde goddess. Brendan Hunt as his assistant also draws top marks.

  • @thecursor1
    @thecursor1 3 роки тому +92

    Even if the show changes the energy and makes them a couple (which I don't want), I still kind of trust they'd do it right. Like it wouldn't be a schmoopy romance but a complex, layered example of two friends becoming more.

    • @Baababaadu
      @Baababaadu 3 роки тому +15

      I totally second and agree

    • @Afalstein
      @Afalstein 3 роки тому +11

      I don't think they will and I certainly hope they don't. Honestly I'm not sure there's really a woman who could handle Ted's relentless optimism.

    • @binarystar300
      @binarystar300 3 роки тому +6

      I don't think a boss dating a subordinate would be received well, particularly in the MeToo era (even when the sexes are reversed)

    • @rickkopfler8447
      @rickkopfler8447 2 роки тому +3

      I don’t it is Ted she is talking to on Bantr. I think it’s Sam. Maybe Nate. Nate said he deleted the app but I don’t believe him.

    • @Zack_410
      @Zack_410 2 роки тому +2

      @@rickkopfler8447 I thought it was Ted originally. Laughed my ass off when it was revealed to be Sam.

  • @randyranderson5981
    @randyranderson5981 10 місяців тому +3

    This moment changed Rebecca’s life. Not only did it lift a huge weight off her shoulders, it showed her that she finally had someone in her corner. Amazing show

  • @laluenbaires
    @laluenbaires 3 роки тому +13

    What a freaking amazing beautiful piece of a show! Congratulations to everyone involved.

  • @alexmacgillivray3095
    @alexmacgillivray3095 2 роки тому +6

    This exact scene told me this was something refreshing, something different.
    Love Ted Lasso and everyone behind this show!

  • @maxxfisher1936
    @maxxfisher1936 3 роки тому +67

    God I love this show

  • @JR-bj3uf
    @JR-bj3uf 3 роки тому +43

    Forgiveness seems to be such a strange concept these days.

  • @videopost3376
    @videopost3376 2 роки тому +4

    Just got Apple TV this past weekend and watched the entire two seasons in a day and half stopping only to sleep. Absolutely terrific show. I kept finding myself smiling from start to finish.

  • @adelaferreira4575
    @adelaferreira4575 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Jason S. For writing such profound beautiful show which has made me not want to watch anything else ,and thank you for introducing to the world the amazing Hanna Waddingham ,she is such a joy to watch along with this incredible cast !

  • @Cynthia10tj
    @Cynthia10tj 2 роки тому +3

    Instead of being angry, Ted not only forgives her but he also thanks Rebecca for giving him the job. WOW , never see this level kind of kindness!

  • @eduardocalvo
    @eduardocalvo 3 роки тому +9

    This scene is just perfect, from the music transitions and the superb acting of both Hannah and Jason, to the meaningful power of forgiveness. They accomplished one of the most human scenes I've watched, topped by a fantastic and immersive sound editing, this is one of those scenes to watch over and over.

  • @kdmdlo
    @kdmdlo 2 роки тому +6

    Ted, offering forgiveness so quickly and without reservation, is such a window into the soul of a truly good man.

  • @KrixSolith
    @KrixSolith 3 роки тому +11

    By the way, this is the same actress who yelled "shame" and rang the bell in Game of Thrones. Let that sink in....

  • @TheMelbournelad
    @TheMelbournelad 2 роки тому +9

    Love the acting from about 1:20 to 1:40. The relief of letting out the secret, to Ted taking it in, to the forgiveness, her shock at why so easily off the hook, to the understanding of why he forgive.

  • @manut4470
    @manut4470 3 роки тому +4

    I like the fact her character is not only a woman, but a fkin bastard team owner with balls!

  • @samjones6603
    @samjones6603 3 роки тому +6

    This is the show that everyone didn’t realise they needed.

  • @olavodias
    @olavodias 3 роки тому +9

    I love this show. The moment he puts himself in her shoes and shows he understands what she is going thru, it’s freaking awesome.

  • @josemata7755
    @josemata7755 10 місяців тому +2

    Never seen the show but my God are the performances incredible just in this one scene. Really had me tearing up. I can definitely see why she won those awards

  • @ThisIsRebs
    @ThisIsRebs 3 роки тому +6

    The world doesn't deserve Ted Lasso! Just what 2020 needed.

  • @Winter-The-Masquerade
    @Winter-The-Masquerade Рік тому +2

    Some people just don't understand Ted Lasso, Asami Sato or Superman. There are so many people who think that the world so cruel and terrible so we must be cruel and terrible in return so when we see good people come around and be kind so many of them just assume it's an act because no one can be that kind or caring. And that's what makes them great. they're not cynical, or mean or anything else. They see the best in others and do all the can to help others.
    I love Ted, Asami and Clark, the world would be a better place if we had more people like them.

  • @remindyouofwho7201
    @remindyouofwho7201 3 роки тому +8

    “Don’t humanize him!” 😂💕

  • @elisomethingorother
    @elisomethingorother 10 місяців тому +2

    Rebecca was a damaged person who tried to get revenge on her ex-husband, but ended up hurting other innocent people in the process, including Ted. Rebecca, at heart, is a good person, and what makes this scene so powerful is that Ted recognizes that, and knows that her actions were done out of pain and spite towards Rupert, not towards him or Keeley.

  • @erickelly8875
    @erickelly8875 2 роки тому +2

    This scene is beautiful

  • @mastrohip2669
    @mastrohip2669 2 роки тому +5

    Ted Lasso is truly a gem of a show with a fantastic cast, It makes you laugh and cry all with in one episode. Can not wait for season 3

  • @PixlPutterMan
    @PixlPutterMan 2 роки тому +7

    Imagine the weight lifted off Rebecca when Ted said "I forgive you"

    • @Fakeaorta
      @Fakeaorta 2 роки тому

      I imagine she has not heard that in a couple decades. Here she is admitting to being a bitch, making his life a challenge, and he forgives her. She was absolutely gobsmacked!

  • @adrielsebastian5216
    @adrielsebastian5216 2 роки тому +4

    This, and the dart scene, are the reasons why I binged Ted Lasso. And I can safely say after 2 seasons later, it's one of the best show ever. Ted is such a joyous and human character and Jason absolutely deserved all of the Emmys he won for Ted.

  • @LD-bv1pm
    @LD-bv1pm 3 роки тому +17

    This is one of the most beautiful scenes. Her incredible honesty despite how terrible it may have revealed her to be and his instant and unconditional forgiveness despite how crappy things have been for him.

    • @guyiaccarino6057
      @guyiaccarino6057 2 роки тому +2

      And I love that to show how hard it truly was, they had her try once before this and not be able to do it.

    • @sweeney60
      @sweeney60 Рік тому

      Well if I may offer a different take, I don’t think she was terrible, just her actions. By coming forward and admitting to those actions it’s actually showing what a good person is that she’s willing to correct her mistakes.

  • @jakeuzamaki4083
    @jakeuzamaki4083 3 роки тому +5

    If more people were like Ted lasso, the world would be so much brighter

  • @klausweasley
    @klausweasley 3 роки тому +7

    When I first started watching "Ted Lasso", I thought Rebecca was gonna be a villainous shrew....but I grew to love her as much as Ted!

  • @spc1612
    @spc1612 2 роки тому +5

    makes me cry every time I rewatch this scene!! Such a brilliant show on SO many levels.

  • @superduper5494
    @superduper5494 3 роки тому +6

    thought of this scene and started crying out of the blue. cheers

  • @zacbarber6769
    @zacbarber6769 2 роки тому +3

    This scene is so powerful. I think about it a lot and how well written both sides are. Rebecca’s apology was so sincere and genuine; no excuses, no rationalisation. How an apology should be. And Ted’s ability to forgive is perfect: understanding that people are hurting inside and instead of dismissing her remorse, he tries to help and support her through her pain. A truly good person. This show is full of so many life lessons and shows the power of kindness in such a great way.

  • @Afalstein
    @Afalstein 3 роки тому +10

    Just imagine learning that you left your home and endured weeks of taunting and insults for a job you thought you were crazy to take, only to learn that the person who offered it to you thought you were an idiot and brought you in specifically to ruin you--to learn that one of the few people you thought had your back was in fact behind some of your greatest problems. That your very boss tried to sabotage not just you, but the hopes and dreams of all the young men you were struggling to keep together...
    It's easy, with the forgiveness, to overlook the magnitude of what Ted is forgiving here. He learns all this (he seems to mostly react to the news about Jamie) in a few moments, but the divorce helps him realize exactly the pain that made Rebecca lash out in this very insidious way.

    • @JDog2656
      @JDog2656 10 місяців тому

      Partly because he realized she wasn't really out for him so much as her ex.

  • @sudhirpakala388
    @sudhirpakala388 Рік тому +2

    "Divorce is hard" - Boy, he hit the nail on that one and for that matter everything he said during that scene.

  • @evanfinch4987
    @evanfinch4987 2 роки тому +1

    that lady is really good at acting

  • @internetpeople6113
    @internetpeople6113 2 роки тому +5

    Hannah is one of the best actresses I have seen in a long time. She is right up there with the bests. She would be a late bloomer in Hollywood but better late than never.

  • @SuniKayLou
    @SuniKayLou 2 роки тому +3

    I love the blocking/framing of this scene, especially at 1:29 where it shows them meeting each other half way. The moment that their dynamic shifts and they truly become allies.

  • @captain4318
    @captain4318 3 роки тому +8

    I was hoping so hard she would have a change of heart. God this show is amazing.

  • @fernandocesargenari7589
    @fernandocesargenari7589 2 роки тому +2

    If she doesn't win an emmy today I will be very pissed

  • @corvus2512
    @corvus2512 2 роки тому +6

    She does something awful because of the pain she is dealing with.... Ted has experienced the same pain and realizes it makes people act crazy and forgives her..... the empathy in this show is amazing. To recognize anothers struggles and empathize with them is sorely lacking in the real world

  • @properviolence
    @properviolence Рік тому +1

    It's incredibly fitting that the very next suggested video is Hannah Waddingham accepting an Emmy for her role.

  • @GeraltOfArabia
    @GeraltOfArabia 3 роки тому +6

    Ted Lasso needs to try Uncle Iroh's tea for a change

  • @yankeesouth
    @yankeesouth 3 роки тому +4

    Season 2 cant get here soon enough

  • @brandons4477
    @brandons4477 2 роки тому +3

    Even as she tells him that she was trying to hurt him, he still has a look of genuine concern on his face for what she’s going through and automatically empathizes with her. Love seeing that in a character.

  • @lazynomad42
    @lazynomad42 2 роки тому +2

    Ned Flanders coaches soccor

  • @beatsprodbycm9455
    @beatsprodbycm9455 3 роки тому +4

    The shows way better then expected. Has a lot of heart..

  • @KizzyLou88
    @KizzyLou88 2 роки тому +1

    This scene is EVERYTHING! 😍❤️xxx

  • @fratburger09
    @fratburger09 3 роки тому +17

    Hoping this show has a good long run. Would love to see a prequel of Ted Lasso’s football coaching career.