Just came to comment this. I was doing nightly closing duties after my kids went down and heard you say that to your dad like it was a common phrase you say to each other ❤
I could listen to your dad talk all day... He's funny, intelligent, and well-spoken, and phenomenal storyteller... I think you 2 having a podcast would be great!
I cried through this conversation, it made me miss my dad. I love the suggestions of "You're Doing Great Kid" for the title, please keep posting these Lizze!
It’s a good funny title but also at the crux of parenting is figuring out what triggered you as a kid and parent and how to tamper or correct that in the next generation.
Lizzie, you have to do a podcast with your Dad! He is so wise, sweet, and lovable! The bond that you share is beyond words! Sending love to y'all in the New Year ❤️
As a mother, you are gifted with a special gut sense. You are always right when it comes to your baby. Do what you’re lead to do and don’t question your confidence either. Go MAMA!
Lizzie, oh my godddddd 😂 I am absolutely pissing my pants with laughter while you’re talking to your Dad. You both have the most wild adhd experiences while having a conversation and bouncing from a million topics all wrapped around one main point. And how you both annoyed the hell out of one another but never let that emotion drive your conversations. Oh I miss my Dad so much. I appreciate watching this on a different level. I don’t have children and my father’s long gone in what I lovingly call his dumping grounds. I love this banter and it’s something I miss the most.❤
Mate, I was not ready to cry during this video, especially not more than once. Im excited to see this become a podcast. Your relationship is beautiful to watch ❤
Im pregnant with my first and would definitely listen to this podcast!! I always love the baby talk in the vlogs and on the Sip ❤️ Also the fact that her dad couldn’t stay on topic was hilarious and I love him lol
I just love listening to you and your dad talk to each other. He's awesome! Think about Billy being able to watch these podcasts between his mom and his grandpa when he gets older. So special! ❤
Yay! First thing that comes to mind for me is that I want you to look at me(camera) more. I know you are talking to each other, but I feel included when you are both looking at the camera. Or maybe have the camera up where the screen with your partner is located? I watch "all-in" which has four hosts from four different locations. Guess I hadn't realized how effective they are with camera location and keeping my attention . That said, I really enjoy your back and forth. Would people remember "Parent PaRANT" ? As in parenting and parent "ranting "talk? Prolly not. Spell check didn't like me typing
Omg Lizze you’re killing me. It’s too early for me to be this emotional. When your dad talked about being punished and locked outside in the middle of the night & you cried and validated him😭😭😭❤️
I absolutely love the Lizze and Dad chaos 😂 I would 10000% be interested in listening/watching the podcast. I think it's so cool to have the opportunity to talk to your parent openly about things, and even cooler to have it recorded to look back on. A lot of our job as parents is to heal that generational trauma, and I think it's the hardest job in the world. I didn't really "sleep train" my kids, but I got them onto a schedule of dinner, bath, bed at specific times really early on, and I think that really helped. But, sleep regressions still happened, although not as bad with my youngest. Also, every kid is different so there is no perfect method. Trust your gut, if it doesn't feel like something is working, try it a different way. You got this
I loved this so much. I love the idea of talking about traumatic events and how that shaped you and is making you a better parent. I also love how you are showing an open, loving, honest father daughter relationship that many would love to have or be part of. This is a 10/10 for me. Only thing I'd do different is have your dad put his phone on DND for future tapings.
Love it! I'm also a 34 year old first time mom of a 3 month old, this is extremely relevant to me! If I had some feedback, it would be to put both your dad and your screens side by side. I would love to see each other's reactions in real time, instead of going back and forth. Definitely do this podcast please!! ❤️❤️
As a parent with a 1 year old id love this podcast! I “sleep trained” my boy at 5 months once I knew he was no longer waking up in the middle of the night to nurse. I think every baby is so different and that’s what makes parenting so difficult. I will say that sleep training him changed my life! He falls asleep on his own with no pacifier and sleeps though the night ever since. Good luck!
LMAOOO “he can only soothe himself in private” 🤣🤣😭… im dyinggg.. this podcast is gonna be great!! immediately yes.😂❤ I love your dad’s social unawareness of his genuine mind.
What a great podcast idea and format. Generational experience and wisdom, plus your dad’s hindsight adds a great spin. You’re both great vulnerable storytellers and have a lovely relationship. Plus you will have these amazing memories, shared wisdom with your father and your growth and your parenting experience recorded. I’ve always enjoyed when you go into deeper emotional topics mixed in with your wit and humor. Please give it a go.
Thanks for the 27mins of distraction and entertainment. My dog passed away and I can’t do anytime but ball my eyes out - but this was a good distraction
Hun mama of six here, i feel mums now days give themselves a complicated time as parents. If i give u any advice do what works for u when it works for u , follow ur instincts , stop looking online, stop with the books extra and do you. I feel all this “new” crap causes so much anxiety and stress on mums. Imagine we use to let babies be babies and now we have to teach them to do sign language or use a potty fresh out the vag because its what is in. Go back to basics go back to being a mum and doing what comes natural . Oh and great idea with the podcast with dad he is soo funny i would subscribe for sure . A name could be - “generational views with my dad”. That way u can talk about different things not just parenting. Love you Lizzie hope u don’t see my advice as harsh , just sad to see mums struggle with all that pressure when it should be simple.
I lost my Dad suddenly when I was 14 seeing the way you guys love and support each other is so beautiful 🥹 There are so many convos I never got to have with my Dad watching you and your Dad talk about life is really healing 🙏❤ I appreciate you both and can’t wait to continue on this awesome podcast journey with you both 🥰🎙️💕
You and your Dad are the absolute best duo thank you both for this awesome dose of realness, laughter, and heart 🙌💕 Looking forward to loads more amazing convos with you and your Dad 🤩🎙️❤️
I love your dad so much and i think this podcast will be amazing, I love everyone’s idea of the name ‘you’re doing great kid’ it feels sentimental. I hope the podcasts will be together too, not just on video call, but good luck always routing for you!! 😊
I’m sorry it took me so long to watch. I’m usually watching as soon as you upload, but it’s been a busy week. I just want to say you and your dad are such gems. 💎 I could listen to Yall talk for hours. Great idea to have a podcast with him.. my favorite type of content from you.
This was such a wholesome conversation between a father& his daughter!! I love that you had to keep him on track& he'd have to mention it was sleep related haaha. I think you should do a happy medium when it comes to rescuing your crying baby. Answering too quickly doesn't allow them the opportunity to comfort themselves, while letting them cry for 30 minutes might make them feel abandoned. It was fun watching you both& I look forward to seeing this podcast!! ✌️🩷
The minute I heard that you and your dad are planning a new podcast, I was all in. I love your familial parent-to-parent dynamic and realness, with some comedic genius on the side! I love the content you shared today because it went deeper than just “sleep training”. I also love the format of the Google meet. And the fact that I got so teary for you and your dad when he told his story of being left outside as a child 😭🩷 You both are so genuine, funny and so relatable! Love it. Winning! Can’t wait for the next ep.❤ ❤
Well..... I only cried 3 times. I love your and your Dad's relationship. This coming from a daughter that has zero relationship with her dad. It was healing and heartbreaking hearing such a great father daughter relationship. I also agree with "You're doing great kid!" As the pod title. Love you and you Dad.❤️
I love the relationship that you have with your father. This made me smile so much!! I cannot wait to see more conversations like this. It brought me so much joy and he’s right you’re doing a phenomenal job mama❤
Love the idea of a Podcast!!!! As far as the sleep training...when i had my boys in 2009 and 2011 i didnt know about this so i just let them do whatever esp since once you have more then one child theres no way you can keep a scedule only focused on one child!!!!!...i think you should do whatever you want and as his mom you will know whats best for him...MOTHER'S INSTINCT is such an amazing thing...USE IT!!!
I think a podcast with the two of you would be absolutely amazing I love all your content but you and your dad is the greatest thing ever! Please make this all the time!
I love that your dad said “the uniqueness of your kid”. This is 1000% true. Every baby is different. Every household is different! He did a great job of showing you that he was always there for you, just as you will do with Billie. You’re doing a great job, Lizzie.
This is ABSOLUTE GOLD!!! I love your Dad and easily see why u r so funny, witty, amazing, and easily liked!!! I lost my Dad suddenly when he was only 52, cherish these moments and hold each other close!!! ❤❤❤
SAFE, SECURE & FUN is all I could ever wish my children will say about my parenting them❤ Lizzie the fact that u care so much about what ur son needs and not traumatizing him shows what an amazing mom you are and will continue to be. That MEANS UR DOING THE VERY BEST FOR YOUR BABY. TRUST YOURSELF AND YOUR BABY.
Girlie you do what feels right to you when it comes to your baby sleeping. If you think you can be just as good of a momma by going off of his gives and his wants than stick to that! If you need or want that scheduled and anticipated recoup time than I would push hard on that schedule. You have to take care of yourself to be the best momma for baby Billy ❤️ as always love any content you make and will definitely be supporting the dad and daughter pod
Edit to add as I’m watching, I soo strongly support babies learning sign language!! It’s so amazing to KNOW that you know what your baby wants. Even just a handful of things is all he really would benefit from at this point. Don’t overwhelm yourself with it! Good luck girlieeee!
I loved this and will DEFINITELY be watching your new podcast. Also, fellow mom here, when your little one cries at night it may not always be for food or a diaper change it may just be for comfort, so you are not suppose to sleep train that young. Sleep training is more for the ages of 1-2 when they start manipulating you at nap and bedtimes to hold them longer or to come in and pick them up when they get upset. You have to teach them they cannot get their way and must go to bed. I am currently doing this with my two year old. He went through many sleep regressions but would still put himself to bed. During his most recent sleep regression I started rocking him for up to 20 minutes to get him relaxed and ready to fall asleep and it has turned into him wanting to be rocked to sleep every night instead of falling asleep on his own. So now we are starting the sleep training. Sleep training is hard. But necessary, had to do it with my first son too.
Loved it. Your Dad seems like such an intelligent man,and I love the way he explains things. That being said I did get distracted halfway through and only realised I hadn't watched the end 7 hrs later when I opened UA-cam again. BUT my kids are in their early 20s so I'm a bit out of the sleep regress stage (no I'm not 60,babies having babies and all that 🤦). But could see a podcast with you and your dad talking about other topics going to the top of my listen list at work for sure. Just my 2 cents from a random from Australia 👋
Really real and raw and I wish u had this with my dad and I’m 61 lol😂 thanks for being honest and raw and love this infant stage of ur workshop I love it Lizze and you
It's amazing to watch Lizzy be the Rylan of the podcast. Very fun start. Any feedback is just audio type production stuff which I think you're aware of. You two are sweet. I would say feel free to let it flow off topic and find ways to swing back. Love ya
All this triggered and training your baby and putting them on a schedule is fine if you are parents like Ryland and Shane and have nannies so can keep a rigorous schedule. But when you are a mom and dad doing it solo you can forget it. And all you get is depriving yourself from so many memories and things you could be doing instead of some schedule. I mean i live Ryland but when i see they had a total of 4 birthday cakes and let it be known that their kids didnt eat candy or cake i thought omg... Enough! Look a baby will sleep when hes tired than you sleep. None of us that had kids your age never had a schedule. You ate when you were hungry, you slept when you were tired and eventually everyone gets on the same schedule. This is nuts. Enjoy the baby. Somedays you might not like him but youll always love him. And the only training we did was like dad said was potty training.
Lizze, your Dad is a wonderful man & I am SO happy you have created this vlog w him ! He made me smile, laugh & then shed tears about how he was treated as a child. I am SO sorry that happened to him & he deserves ALL the great things in life & knowing you both had each other is SO special 🥺 I love you both ! ❤❤
i feel like sleep training is completely up to the parents. i never sleep trained my daughter (she’s 14 months and sleeps totally fine) but i know that’s not how it is a majority of the time. Some parents don’t have a choice and have to. If there’s anything i’ve learned about parenting is you have to do what you feel best in your heart for your baby. you know your baby the best. being a mom is so scary and it’s even worse when everyone on the internet has an opinion on what to do and thinks they know best. just know we are all killing it as moms ❤️
From one mother to another mother. I did the best I could with what I knew at the time with my first child. I slogged the new born stage to age 1,2,3 now 4 winging my daughter’s routine and adapted to what fit us best! I knew my daughter que and followed a google search and doctors who ever time schedule of what awake windows should be for each age ect. And yes over the past 4 years I have heard majority of negative comments about ‘sleep training’ and thought shieeet it must be bad blah blah blah. Long story short I’m now pregnant with my second and to hell what anyone thinks. If I feel I want to sleep train my second (I’ll cross that bridge when I get there) I bloody will. In a gentle way though of course. I’m from Australia and have followed “The midwife mumma” for maybe 2 years now and she is Aussie and a sleep consultant and she has completely changed my view on things and has helped drown out all the BS that comes with it. Much love girl ❤❤
Before even watching I can confidently say that what you SHOULD do... Is try a couple things, then, whatever works best for YOUR family and YOUR own personal well being and health... That's the thing you should do. Love, support, and encouragement for continued strength always ❤
Oh I love you and your dad together! I love how you both are squirrels! I was laughing and then crying! I didn’t have a dad growing up so seeing this duo is incredible special and how lucky to have such an opened minded dad who loves you fiercely. As a mom of 3 I love this idea of parenting advice with you and your dad! ❤
‘Can Ryland show me?’ ‘Ok Dad, back to me.’ All of these conversations are great. Lizzie chose violence since she was a baby. 😂 Chucking the bottle as a baby is hilarious! I love your Dad saying triggering. Love this!
I have memories of having terrors like that as a child. I screamed nobody came. When I look back I see a brave terrified little girl feeling abandoned . Then looking closer I taught myself there is nothing to be afraid of, all I need is me to feel safe and secure. I think you do what's best for you and your schedule. The only way to do it is to do what's right for you in that moment. I loved hearing your affirmations for Billy and his ability to adapt to new schedules . You are doing it right girl. ( he's your baby boy and if you want to pick him up when he's crying girl do that, and if you don't do that too) it won't ruin his life. 😉 Promise.
I would DIE for this podcast. I am so much you and your dad is so my dad except we’ve never had emotional conversations but I’d love to and I know this is exactly how they’d be. This is healing ❤ When you teared up over him being outside at night destroyed me as a boy mom and as a daughter with a father.
Lizze do you have the Wonder Weeks app? I like the terminology that they're sleep PROgressions because they're learning and processing something & therefore their sleep is affected. My kids are 5 & 8 and I never sleep trained or sleep shaped, I just boobed and cuddled and got nap trapped. My parents never sleep trained me or my older brother either, I remember my Mum saying "you'll never regret the time you spent cuddling & comforting your baby". Ferber himself regrets his own methods that sleep training is based on.
When can I hear more? When you gave us a video about your dad remodeling your son’s room and putting furniture together for you and your family, I knew then that I wanted more. Thank you for sharing.
“In order to get Ryland to help you need to get him on the phone and in order to get him on the phone you need Ryland’s help.” As someone who is also technologically impaired I found this hilarious 😂😂😂
I’m in love with this idea!! I could listen to you two for hours! I also agree with others comments on the title being “you’re doing great, kid” It has a great personal touch! I’m looking forward to hearing more! 🥰🥰
This was so sweet! ❤ I loved listening. As a person who wants kids one day, I’m looking through the lens of learning through your experiences and tips as a mom. But, I think having your dad as part of the podcast adds some humor and relatability. (I also have a dad who loves corny dad jokes). Excited for more!
Yes sleep train! We did it with our oldest at around 3 months because he hit a big sleep regression. He was so tired and so were we. Best decision ever! I used the Ferber method but choose what works best for you all of course. He is so good at sleeping and he knows how to put himself back to sleep when he wakes in the night and he is 2 now. It was challenging in its own ways but worth it!
And i really feel that by patterns it is meant routines in general, as opposed to chaos. Estimates, not alarms going off. You can’t compare yourself to ryland, they’re not feeding as you are, both parents are working full time and they have hired help who work certain hours. 😊
At first, I just chuckled because your dad is so silly in such a wonderful way, and I just love him. But then I got sad and a little worried about you being so scared at night in bed. But once your dad admitted that when he was little, his parents put him outside at night, in the dark, by himself, I cried with you. That's such a horrible thing to do to a child, and knowing your own father was treated that way is kinda devastating. I wanted to give you both hugs. 🫂And I agree with others here. "You're doing great, kid," would be an excellent name for the podcast.
I love love love it!!! I’m so happy you are talking PARENTHOOD with your dad. It’s so awesome to get a dad’s POV and also from a different generational POV. Raising babies now is so unlike anything what our own parents did and what their parents did and it truly is so interesting to pick their brains about it! I’m so excited for this podcast! DO THIS LIZZIE 🥰🫶🏽🙌🏽
I loved listening to this! It reminded me so much of me having a “focused” convo with my dad! Keep it up, can’t wait to hear the discussion on social media next Thursday lol 💖
Lizz, you struck gold! I don't have kids and might not have them in the future, but i really enjoyed it ❤ Such an honest format about subjects that are so serious online. The perspective from different generations is very intruiging! Please make this a thing ❤ my best new years wishes to you all 🎉❤🎉🎉
"you're doing great, kid" would be a great name for the pod. or something with father figure/figuring it out
Love it
Perfect!
I love it! Gives Taylor Swift, but positive!
Just came to comment this. I was doing nightly closing duties after my kids went down and heard you say that to your dad like it was a common phrase you say to each other ❤
yesss!!
Love this conversation Lizzie!
At 20:24 when you said,“YOU’RE DOING GREAT KID” I thought that would be a great name for the podcast lol
Yes!!!!
I like this name suggestion. Also, It takes a village is good!
So cute!
Divine ✨
I could listen to your dad talk all day... He's funny, intelligent, and well-spoken, and phenomenal storyteller... I think you 2 having a podcast would be great!
I cried through this conversation, it made me miss my dad. I love the suggestions of "You're Doing Great Kid" for the title, please keep posting these Lizze!
Well, 10 minutes in I’m thinking the podcast should be called Triggered. 😆 BRB
😂 omg not a bad idea
Love it! Call is “Getting Triggered with Lizze’s Dad” or “Get Triggered with us” lol 😂💜
Love this!!!! Esp cuz between the generations...each seem to trigger each other
It’s a good funny title but also at the crux of parenting is figuring out what triggered you as a kid and parent and how to tamper or correct that in the next generation.
YAS
“Let’s fukus” 🤣🤣🤣 because the ADD in this ep has me cackling.
Also “Trying to break the cycle” stuck out to me.
After hearing your guys, I like “Let’s Focus” as the name for your podcast!
They say ADHD is hereditary... Lizze yours is a gift from your dad lol Love you both ❤
Lizzie telling her dad to focus and then constantly changing the subject is having my dying laughing!! Love you Lizzie, definitely do the podcast! 😂
I love your dad’s personality.
What a precious and beautiful relationship you have with your dad. He seems like a wonderful man 💕
Lizzie, you have to do a podcast with your Dad! He is so wise, sweet, and lovable! The bond that you share is beyond words! Sending love to y'all in the New Year ❤️
I love your dad and I love this podcast for you. Makes me feel like I have a good supportive dad that listens so this content is needed! haha
He’s pretty great
As a mother, you are gifted with a special gut sense. You are always right when it comes to your baby. Do what you’re lead to do and don’t question your confidence either. Go MAMA!
Lizzie, oh my godddddd 😂 I am absolutely pissing my pants with laughter while you’re talking to your Dad. You both have the most wild adhd experiences while having a conversation and bouncing from a million topics all wrapped around one main point. And how you both annoyed the hell out of one another but never let that emotion drive your conversations. Oh I miss my Dad so much. I appreciate watching this on a different level. I don’t have children and my father’s long gone in what I lovingly call his dumping grounds. I love this banter and it’s something I miss the most.❤
Mate, I was not ready to cry during this video, especially not more than once. Im excited to see this become a podcast. Your relationship is beautiful to watch ❤
This was one of my favorite videos you’ve posted. You and your father relationship is so beautiful to see.
Im pregnant with my first and would definitely listen to this podcast!! I always love the baby talk in the vlogs and on the Sip ❤️
Also the fact that her dad couldn’t stay on topic was hilarious and I love him lol
He’s the best in such a goofy way
Me too! How far along are you??
@ 16 weeks today! How about you??
23! Congratulations 🤗 All the best to you! @@caseygrubb415
@@LizzeGordonVlogs “Baby Talk” would also be a very fitting name for the podcast.
“If I may interrupt” rang through my head a few times whilst watching, that and “adhd interruptions” 🤣🥰 I loved the conversation between you two.
I just love listening to you and your dad talk to each other. He's awesome! Think about Billy being able to watch these podcasts between his mom and his grandpa when he gets older. So special! ❤
As someone who no longer has their father.. I loved this. This was great and so beautiful. I love y’alls relationship.
Yay! First thing that comes to mind for me is that I want you to look at me(camera) more. I know you are talking to each other, but I feel included when you are both looking at the camera. Or maybe have the camera up where the screen with your partner is located? I watch "all-in" which has four hosts from four different locations. Guess I hadn't realized how effective they are with camera location and keeping my attention . That said, I really enjoy your back and forth. Would people remember "Parent PaRANT" ? As in parenting and parent "ranting "talk? Prolly not. Spell check didn't like me typing
Oh this is really helpful!!! Thank you
This is so clever!! Parent PArant ..like PA for your dad, and RANT!
25:24 sending hugs to your dad after that story 🥹🥹🥹
I’m absolutely in love, more dad podcast please
Omg Lizze you’re killing me. It’s too early for me to be this emotional. When your dad talked about being punished and locked outside in the middle of the night & you cried and validated him😭😭😭❤️
I absolutely love the Lizze and Dad chaos 😂 I would 10000% be interested in listening/watching the podcast. I think it's so cool to have the opportunity to talk to your parent openly about things, and even cooler to have it recorded to look back on.
A lot of our job as parents is to heal that generational trauma, and I think it's the hardest job in the world. I didn't really "sleep train" my kids, but I got them onto a schedule of dinner, bath, bed at specific times really early on, and I think that really helped. But, sleep regressions still happened, although not as bad with my youngest. Also, every kid is different so there is no perfect method. Trust your gut, if it doesn't feel like something is working, try it a different way. You got this
I am here for ALL of this!! Your dad is ADORABLE!
I loved this so much. I love the idea of talking about traumatic events and how that shaped you and is making you a better parent. I also love how you are showing an open, loving, honest father daughter relationship that many would love to have or be part of. This is a 10/10 for me. Only thing I'd do different is have your dad put his phone on DND for future tapings.
Love it! I'm also a 34 year old first time mom of a 3 month old, this is extremely relevant to me!
If I had some feedback, it would be to put both your dad and your screens side by side. I would love to see each other's reactions in real time, instead of going back and forth.
Definitely do this podcast please!! ❤️❤️
Pod cast name idea “Parenting Unfiltered: Milestones, stories and Chaos”
As a parent with a 1 year old id love this podcast! I “sleep trained” my boy at 5 months once I knew he was no longer waking up in the middle of the night to nurse. I think every baby is so different and that’s what makes parenting so difficult. I will say that sleep training him changed my life! He falls asleep on his own with no pacifier and sleeps though the night ever since. Good luck!
What a great, funny and at times tear jerker video. I love your dad....so funny and interesting !!
Need more of you two. I laughed and cried. Sure makes me miss my father.
LMAOOO “he can only soothe himself in private” 🤣🤣😭… im dyinggg.. this podcast is gonna be great!! immediately yes.😂❤ I love your dad’s social unawareness of his genuine mind.
What a great podcast idea and format. Generational experience and wisdom, plus your dad’s hindsight adds a great spin. You’re both great vulnerable storytellers and have a lovely relationship.
Plus you will have these amazing memories, shared wisdom with your father and your growth and your parenting experience recorded.
I’ve always enjoyed when you go into deeper emotional topics mixed in with your wit and humor.
Please give it a go.
Lizze that was AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So wonderful. Yes please. A podcast with you and your dad would be great!!!
Thanks for the 27mins of distraction and entertainment. My dog passed away and I can’t do anytime but ball my eyes out - but this was a good distraction
Hun mama of six here, i feel mums now days give themselves a complicated time as parents. If i give u any advice do what works for u when it works for u , follow ur instincts , stop looking online, stop with the books extra and do you. I feel all this “new” crap causes so much anxiety and stress on mums.
Imagine we use to let babies be babies and now we have to teach them to do sign language or use a potty fresh out the vag because its what is in.
Go back to basics go back to being a mum and doing what comes natural .
Oh and great idea with the podcast with dad he is soo funny i would subscribe for sure .
A name could be - “generational views with my dad”.
That way u can talk about different things not just parenting.
Love you Lizzie hope u don’t see my advice as harsh , just sad to see mums struggle with all that pressure when it should be simple.
I lost my Dad suddenly when I was 14 seeing the way you guys love and support each other is so beautiful 🥹 There are so many convos I never got to have with my Dad watching you and your Dad talk about life is really healing 🙏❤ I appreciate you both and can’t wait to continue on this awesome podcast journey with you both 🥰🎙️💕
You and your Dad are the absolute best duo thank you both for this awesome dose of realness, laughter, and heart 🙌💕 Looking forward to loads more amazing convos with you and your Dad 🤩🎙️❤️
Overthinking.... relax, he will be fine.
I love your dad so much and i think this podcast will be amazing, I love everyone’s idea of the name ‘you’re doing great kid’ it feels sentimental. I hope the podcasts will be together too, not just on video call, but good luck always routing for you!! 😊
I’m sorry it took me so long to watch. I’m usually watching as soon as you upload, but it’s been a busy week.
I just want to say you and your dad are such gems. 💎 I could listen to Yall talk for hours. Great idea to have a podcast with him.. my favorite type of content from you.
I am loving these random discussions with your dad, you’re both hilarious. Please keep this kind of format 😊
This was such a wholesome conversation between a father& his daughter!! I love that you had to keep him on track& he'd have to mention it was sleep related haaha.
I think you should do a happy medium when it comes to rescuing your crying baby. Answering too quickly doesn't allow them the opportunity to comfort themselves, while letting them cry for 30 minutes might make them feel abandoned.
It was fun watching you both& I look forward to seeing this podcast!! ✌️🩷
I would love to see a podcast of you and your dad!!! He’s the best and his wisdom needs to be heard!!❤
I cried T_T the love between the two of you is extremely precious! T_T
The minute I heard that you and your dad are planning a new podcast, I was all in. I love your familial parent-to-parent dynamic and realness, with some comedic genius on the side! I love the content you shared today because it went deeper than just “sleep training”. I also love the format of the Google meet. And the fact that I got so teary for you and your dad when he told his story of being left outside as a child 😭🩷 You both are so genuine, funny and so relatable! Love it. Winning! Can’t wait for the next ep.❤ ❤
Well..... I only cried 3 times. I love your and your Dad's relationship. This coming from a daughter that has zero relationship with her dad. It was healing and heartbreaking hearing such a great father daughter relationship. I also agree with "You're doing great kid!" As the pod title. Love you and you Dad.❤️
I love the relationship that you have with your father. This made me smile so much!! I cannot wait to see more conversations like this. It brought me so much joy and he’s right you’re doing a phenomenal job mama❤
Ohhhh your dad 🥺 that broke my heart. I couldn’t imagine my kids standing outside at night and crying for me. Ohhhh my heart. Big love to your dad xxx
Loved this! I lost my dad when I was little, so watching this did something for my soul. You two are amazingly sweet and funny. Can't wait for more ❤
I would love this to be a weekly podcast! ❤ I have to say, your dad cracks me up 😆“That Being Said” would be a fantastic name! 😂 Seriously, perfect!
Love the idea of a Podcast!!!! As far as the sleep training...when i had my boys in 2009 and 2011 i didnt know about this so i just let them do whatever esp since once you have more then one child theres no way you can keep a scedule only focused on one child!!!!!...i think you should do whatever you want and as his mom you will know whats best for him...MOTHER'S INSTINCT is such an amazing thing...USE IT!!!
I really hope you and your dad keep doing this podcast. It was amazing! You are doing a great job kid!!
Love the prospective of you and your dad on parenting. It is very interesting the differences plus the respect of understanding ❤❤
Definitely some kinks to work out but YES YES YES I’m here for it and your dad is phenomenal and you are just my favorite!!!❤️❤️
I LOVE your Dad!!! I'll definitely be subscribed in seconds!!! Love your back and forth banter!! ❤❤
What a great chat with your awesome Dad. Would love to see more!
I think a podcast with the two of you would be absolutely amazing I love all your content but you and your dad is the greatest thing ever! Please make this all the time!
I love this !! I will be a faithful watcher for sure!! your dad is an absolute hoot!! I love him lol
I love that your dad said “the uniqueness of your kid”. This is 1000% true. Every baby is different. Every household is different! He did a great job of showing you that he was always there for you, just as you will do with Billie. You’re doing a great job, Lizzie.
This is ABSOLUTE GOLD!!! I love your Dad and easily see why u r so funny, witty, amazing, and easily liked!!! I lost my Dad suddenly when he was only 52, cherish these moments and hold each other close!!! ❤❤❤
My heart goes out to that little boy crying in the night outside. That is terrifying. Thank you for sharing that and breaking the cycle of abuse
SAFE, SECURE & FUN is all I could ever wish my children will say about my parenting them❤
Lizzie the fact that u care so much about what ur son needs and not traumatizing him shows what an amazing mom you are and will continue to be. That MEANS UR DOING THE VERY BEST FOR YOUR BABY. TRUST YOURSELF AND YOUR BABY.
Ps my son had stolen my UA-cam that's why it's his picture. But I'm a mom of 3 and my oldest is 23 today🎉 ur doing great
Girlie you do what feels right to you when it comes to your baby sleeping. If you think you can be just as good of a momma by going off of his gives and his wants than stick to that! If you need or want that scheduled and anticipated recoup time than I would push hard on that schedule. You have to take care of yourself to be the best momma for baby Billy ❤️ as always love any content you make and will definitely be supporting the dad and daughter pod
Edit to add as I’m watching, I soo strongly support babies learning sign language!! It’s so amazing to KNOW that you know what your baby wants. Even just a handful of things is all he really would benefit from at this point. Don’t overwhelm yourself with it! Good luck girlieeee!
yeah girl, your dad rocks. i’ll listen to him talk about anything
I loved this and will DEFINITELY be watching your new podcast.
Also, fellow mom here, when your little one cries at night it may not always be for food or a diaper change it may just be for comfort, so you are not suppose to sleep train that young. Sleep training is more for the ages of 1-2 when they start manipulating you at nap and bedtimes to hold them longer or to come in and pick them up when they get upset. You have to teach them they cannot get their way and must go to bed. I am currently doing this with my two year old. He went through many sleep regressions but would still put himself to bed. During his most recent sleep regression I started rocking him for up to 20 minutes to get him relaxed and ready to fall asleep and it has turned into him wanting to be rocked to sleep every night instead of falling asleep on his own. So now we are starting the sleep training. Sleep training is hard. But necessary, had to do it with my first son too.
Loved it. Your Dad seems like such an intelligent man,and I love the way he explains things. That being said I did get distracted halfway through and only realised I hadn't watched the end 7 hrs later when I opened UA-cam again. BUT my kids are in their early 20s so I'm a bit out of the sleep regress stage (no I'm not 60,babies having babies and all that 🤦). But could see a podcast with you and your dad talking about other topics going to the top of my listen list at work for sure. Just my 2 cents from a random from Australia 👋
Really real and raw and I wish u had this with my dad and I’m 61 lol😂 thanks for being honest and raw and love this infant stage of ur workshop I love it Lizze and you
I’m SO SO EXCITED FOR THIS ! you guys should do a little side instead of back n forth but that’s up to yall I’ll watch eitheerrr way ! Your dads funny
Good idea ! So it looks like we’re talking to each other?
@@LizzeGordonVlogs yessss
It's amazing to watch Lizzy be the Rylan of the podcast. Very fun start. Any feedback is just audio type production stuff which I think you're aware of. You two are sweet. I would say feel free to let it flow off topic and find ways to swing back. Love ya
All this triggered and training your baby and putting them on a schedule is fine if you are parents like Ryland and Shane and have nannies so can keep a rigorous schedule. But when you are a mom and dad doing it solo you can forget it. And all you get is depriving yourself from so many memories and things you could be doing instead of some schedule. I mean i live Ryland but when i see they had a total of 4 birthday cakes and let it be known that their kids didnt eat candy or cake i thought omg... Enough! Look a baby will sleep when hes tired than you sleep. None of us that had kids your age never had a schedule. You ate when you were hungry, you slept when you were tired and eventually everyone gets on the same schedule. This is nuts. Enjoy the baby. Somedays you might not like him but youll always love him. And the only training we did was like dad said was potty training.
Title suggestion "Dad, focus!" Lol loved this. Want more need more
Lizze, your Dad is a wonderful man & I am SO happy you have created this vlog w him ! He made me smile, laugh & then shed tears about how he was treated as a child. I am SO sorry that happened to him & he deserves ALL the great things in life & knowing you both had each other is SO special 🥺 I love you both ! ❤❤
i feel like sleep training is completely up to the parents. i never sleep trained my daughter (she’s 14 months and sleeps totally fine) but i know that’s not how it is a majority of the time. Some parents don’t have a choice and have to. If there’s anything i’ve learned about parenting is you have to do what you feel best in your heart for your baby. you know your baby the best. being a mom is so scary and it’s even worse when everyone on the internet has an opinion on what to do and thinks they know best. just know we are all killing it as moms ❤️
From one mother to another mother.
I did the best I could with what I knew at the time with my first child. I slogged the new born stage to age 1,2,3 now 4 winging my daughter’s routine and adapted to what fit us best! I knew my daughter que and followed a google search and doctors who ever time schedule of what awake windows should be for each age ect. And yes over the past 4 years I have heard majority of negative comments about ‘sleep training’ and thought shieeet it must be bad blah blah blah. Long story short I’m now pregnant with my second and to hell what anyone thinks. If I feel I want to sleep train my second (I’ll cross that bridge when I get there) I bloody will. In a gentle way though of course.
I’m from Australia and have followed “The midwife mumma” for maybe 2 years now and she is Aussie and a sleep consultant and she has completely changed my view on things and has helped drown out all the BS that comes with it. Much love girl ❤❤
Would love a podcast with you and your dad. He’s awesome and I love that he listens to radio dramas to fall asleep
I love dad
This podcast will be golden. I loved everything about it Lizze.
Before even watching I can confidently say that what you SHOULD do... Is try a couple things, then, whatever works best for YOUR family and YOUR own personal well being and health... That's the thing you should do. Love, support, and encouragement for continued strength always ❤
Oh I love you and your dad together! I love how you both are squirrels! I was laughing and then crying! I didn’t have a dad growing up so seeing this duo is incredible special and how lucky to have such an opened minded dad who loves you fiercely. As a mom of 3 I love this idea of parenting advice with you and your dad! ❤
‘Can Ryland show me?’ ‘Ok Dad, back to me.’ All of these conversations are great. Lizzie chose violence since she was a baby. 😂 Chucking the bottle as a baby is hilarious! I love your Dad saying triggering. Love this!
NEED THE PODCAST!!!!! I could listen to your dad all day! He just knows “stuff”b
I have memories of having terrors like that as a child. I screamed nobody came. When I look back I see a brave terrified little girl feeling abandoned . Then looking closer I taught myself there is nothing to be afraid of, all I need is me to feel safe and secure. I think you do what's best for you and your schedule. The only way to do it is to do what's right for you in that moment. I loved hearing your affirmations for Billy and his ability to adapt to new schedules . You are doing it right girl. ( he's your baby boy and if you want to pick him up when he's crying girl do that, and if you don't do that too) it won't ruin his life. 😉 Promise.
Would love to keep tuning in to watch you and your Dad ❤❤❤
I would DIE for this podcast. I am so much you and your dad is so my dad except we’ve never had emotional conversations but I’d love to and I know this is exactly how they’d be. This is healing ❤ When you teared up over him being outside at night destroyed me as a boy mom and as a daughter with a father.
Lizze do you have the Wonder Weeks app? I like the terminology that they're sleep PROgressions because they're learning and processing something & therefore their sleep is affected.
My kids are 5 & 8 and I never sleep trained or sleep shaped, I just boobed and cuddled and got nap trapped.
My parents never sleep trained me or my older brother either, I remember my Mum saying "you'll never regret the time you spent cuddling & comforting your baby".
Ferber himself regrets his own methods that sleep training is based on.
When can I hear more? When you gave us a video about your dad remodeling your son’s room and putting furniture together for you and your family, I knew then that I wanted more. Thank you for sharing.
“In order to get Ryland to help you need to get him on the phone and in order to get him on the phone you need Ryland’s help.” As someone who is also technologically impaired I found this hilarious 😂😂😂
I’m in love with this idea!! I could listen to you two for hours! I also agree with others comments on the title being
“you’re doing great, kid”
It has a great personal touch!
I’m looking forward to hearing more! 🥰🥰
This was so sweet! ❤ I loved listening. As a person who wants kids one day, I’m looking through the lens of learning through your experiences and tips as a mom. But, I think having your dad as part of the podcast adds some humor and relatability. (I also have a dad who loves corny dad jokes). Excited for more!
you look so much like your Dad! Great sample show, the adhd is real lol. Love it
Yes sleep train! We did it with our oldest at around 3 months because he hit a big sleep regression. He was so tired and so were we. Best decision ever! I used the Ferber method but choose what works best for you all of course. He is so good at sleeping and he knows how to put himself back to sleep when he wakes in the night and he is 2 now. It was challenging in its own ways but worth it!
I listen to friends series too to fall asleep, I have a serious issue where I rewatch the entire series nonstop, I watch everyday
And i really feel that by patterns it is meant routines in general, as opposed to chaos. Estimates, not alarms going off. You can’t compare yourself to ryland, they’re not feeding as you are, both parents are working full time and they have hired help who work certain hours. 😊
At first, I just chuckled because your dad is so silly in such a wonderful way, and I just love him. But then I got sad and a little worried about you being so scared at night in bed. But once your dad admitted that when he was little, his parents put him outside at night, in the dark, by himself, I cried with you. That's such a horrible thing to do to a child, and knowing your own father was treated that way is kinda devastating. I wanted to give you both hugs. 🫂And I agree with others here. "You're doing great, kid," would be an excellent name for the podcast.
I love love love it!!! I’m so happy you are talking PARENTHOOD with your dad. It’s so awesome to get a dad’s POV and also from a different generational POV. Raising babies now is so unlike anything what our own parents did and what their parents did and it truly is so interesting to pick their brains about it! I’m so excited for this podcast! DO THIS LIZZIE 🥰🫶🏽🙌🏽
I literally think you should just call it ‘We’re focused?” You said it so many times 🤣
I loved listening to this! It reminded me so much of me having a “focused” convo with my dad! Keep it up, can’t wait to hear the discussion on social media next Thursday lol 💖
Lizz, you struck gold! I don't have kids and might not have them in the future, but i really enjoyed it ❤ Such an honest format about subjects that are so serious online. The perspective from different generations is very intruiging! Please make this a thing ❤ my best new years wishes to you all 🎉❤🎉🎉