Ten Warning Signs of Alzheimer's Disease

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  • Опубліковано 4 чер 2024
  • A lot of us have been home during the COVID-19 pandemic. Maybe you're interacting with your older relatives more than usual and you may be noticing some memory problems. If you're worried about somebody having an issue with their memory and want to have them checked, what are the top 10 warning signs that you should look for?
    In this week's episode, you’ll learn about:
    Alzheimer’s and/or other dementia/typical age-related changes.
    Part One of ‘Ten Signs of Alzheimer's Disease’
    The first question is, what is dementia? It's a broad umbrella term, meaning that many different symptoms go into this term. People are going to have difficulty with their memory. They're going to have trouble with language, but also problem-solving and executive planning.
    Alzheimer's is a type of dementia that accounts for about 60 to 80 percent of the different dimensions that we see. The other dementias that are most common are Lewy Body Dementia and Vascular Dementia. Those types of dementias tend to appear a little bit differently.
    You may have one type or a mix of things, particularly if you have high blood pressure or you've had many strokes in the past, and you may have Alzheimer's, you may have a combination of Alzheimer's type dementia and vascular dementia. For the most part, these symptoms are pretty similar.
    “They may tell you the same story or they may have difficulty finding the right word.” - Melissa Batchelor, PhD, RN, FNP, FAAN (09:10-09:15)
    Memory loss that disrupts daily life.
    Warning Sign: Forgetting important dates, repetitive, need more memory aids than before.
    Normal aging: Sometimes forgetting names or appointments but remembering them later.
    Challenges in planning or solving problems.
    Warning Sign: Trouble following a familiar recipe or keeping track of paying monthly bills.
    Normal aging: Making occasional errors balancing a checkbook.
    Difficulty completing familiar tasks at home, at work, or play.
    Warning Sign: Trouble organizing a shopping list or trouble driving to a familiar place.
    Normal aging: Occasionally needing help to use the settings on a microwave or to record a television show
    Part Two of ‘Ten Signs of Alzheimer's Disease’
    Confusion with time or place
    Warning Sign: Forget where you are or how you got there.
    Normal aging: Getting confused about the day of the week but figuring it out later.
    Trouble understanding visual images and spatial relationships
    Warning Sign: Trouble judging distance
    Normal Aging: Vision changes related to cataracts, glaucoma, or age-related macular degeneration
    New problems with words in speaking or writing
    Warning Sign: Trouble following conversation or forgets where they are in a story
    Normal aging: Sometimes having trouble finding the right word
    “These are only warning signs. They are not diagnostic.” - Melissa Batchelor, PhD, RN, FNP, FAAN (16:04-16:05)
    Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps
    Warning Sign: Put things in usual places, accuse others of stealing
    Normal aging: Misplacing things from time to time and retracing steps to find them
    Decreased or poor judgment
    Warning Sign: Less attention to grooming; giving away large amounts of money
    Normal aging: Making bad decisions once in a while
    Withdrawal from work or social activities
    Warning Signs: Starts to remove themselves from activities, social activities, or hobbies
    Normal aging: Sometimes feeling weary of work, friends, and social obligations
    Changes in mood or personality
    Warning Sign: Confused, suspicious, depressed, fearful, or anxious. Upset when out of their comfort zone
    Normal aging: Developing very specific ways of doing things, and become irritable when the routine is disrupted
    For more information on Alzheimer’s or related dementias, visit www.alz.org
    About Melissa
    I earned my Bachelor of Science in Nursing (‘96) and Master of Science in Nursing (‘00) as a Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP) from the University of North Carolina Wilmington (UNCW) School of Nursing (SON). I truly enjoy working with the complex medical needs of older adults. I worked full-time for five years as FNP in geriatric primary care across many long-term care settings (skilled nursing homes, assisted living, home, and office visits) then transitioned into academic nursing in 2005, joining the faculty at UNCW SON as a lecturer. I obtained my Ph.D. in Nursing and a post-Master’s Certificate in Nursing Education from the Medical University of South Carolina College of Nursing (’11) and then joined the faculty at Duke University School of Nursing as an Assistant Professor. My family moved to northern Virginia in 2015 and led to me joining the faculty at George Washington University (GW) School of Nursing in 2018 as a (tenured) Associate Professor where I am also the Director of the GW Center for Aging, Health, and Humanities. Find out more about her work at melissabphd.com/.

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  • @MelissaBPhD
    @MelissaBPhD  3 роки тому +72

    If you have specific questions about Alzheimer's or want me to talk on a particular topic, leave a voice message on melissabphd.com/podcast-blog/.

    • @Joeystro32
      @Joeystro32 2 роки тому +5

      Is it genetic?

    • @ellagrobler6982
      @ellagrobler6982 2 роки тому +4

      How will I know thats the end now ?

    • @ellagrobler6982
      @ellagrobler6982 2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for all the info
      . I would like to know the signs as the end comming near

    • @TopperPenquin
      @TopperPenquin 2 роки тому

      At the end of the day it's pretty obvious to me that:
      It is all a matter of sleep.
      Now, sleep yes you can sleep 8 Hours but like Bee Gees love just How Deep is Your Sleep?
      If a period of sleep is insufficient to wash the brain clean with cerebral fluid then dementia may result.
      HAS ANYONE EVER TESTED NOT JUST IF SOMEONE IS ASLEEP THOUGH JUST HOW LONG THEY'VE BEEN DEEPLY ASLEEP?
      As people age they tend to lightly sleep hence Grandpa Simpson regularly inadvertently taking a nap.
      I DO BELIEVE IF IF IF PATIENTS WERE GIVEN A SLEEP ASSISTANCE SUCH AS MAYBE POSSIBLY ALLEGEDLY "ZYPREXIA" OVER A PERIOD OF A MONTH SUCH THAT THEY SLEEP DEEPLY AND FOR PROLONGED PERIODS THAT DEMENTIA MAYBE ALLEVIATED ALL TOGETHER.
      Your friendly neighbourhood Spiderman.🕸️

    • @TopperPenquin
      @TopperPenquin 2 роки тому

      At the end of the day it's pretty obvious to me that:
      It is all a matter of sleep.
      Now, sleep yes you can sleep 8 Hours but like Bee Gees love just How Deep is Your Sleep?
      If a period of sleep is insufficient to wash the brain clean with cerebral fluid then dementia may result.
      HAS ANYONE EVER TESTED NOT JUST IF SOMEONE IS ASLEEP THOUGH JUST HOW LONG THEY'VE BEEN DEEPLY ASLEEP?
      As people age they tend to lightly sleep hence Grandpa Simpson regularly inadvertently taking a nap.
      I DO BELIEVE IF IF IF PATIENTS WERE GIVEN A SLEEP ASSISTANCE SUCH AS MAYBE POSSIBLY ALLEGEDLY "ZYPREXIA" OVER A PERIOD OF A MONTH SUCH THAT THEY SLEEP DEEPLY AND FOR PROLONGED PERIODS THAT DEMENTIA MAYBE ALLEVIATED ALL TOGETHER.
      Your friendly neighbourhood Spiderman.🕸️

  • @robbiethepict2783
    @robbiethepict2783 2 роки тому +187

    My father has the disease and had to go into a care home. I visited him once a week with the family photo album, and it helped him hold on to his memories. Then pandemic I couldn't see him for 18 months. He can't remember me now, but he remembers the photos. He still has feelings and he will always be my hero.

    • @myjeevie
      @myjeevie 2 роки тому +10

      God bless you and your sweet Dad. Thank you for writing this comment. I have no doubt your heart is broken, but I've also no doubt how much love you have within it and how you've helped your Dad. Love is forever and he will always be the same wonderful soul you've loved all your life. Easter blessings to you and him.

    • @conniepitts8392
      @conniepitts8392 2 роки тому +12

      I'm concerned about my husband,,,when I ask him something like about someone he knows,,,,he only gives me half the story,,,,he also can not get motivated to start doing a task he needs to,,,he can not put things he needs to do in order,,,,it's like he doesn't know where to begin,,,he's never been like that before,,,,,...

    • @BostonIce37
      @BostonIce37 2 роки тому +6

      I’m so sorry that happened. I talk to my dad every week, he lives too far away to visit now. I know it’s only a matter of time when he doesn’t remember me. He doesn’t remember that my brother and sister have died and if he asks I just say they’re not doing too well. There’s no point telling him over and over.

    • @lorraineemsley2992
      @lorraineemsley2992 2 роки тому +4

      So sas

    • @BostonIce37
      @BostonIce37 2 роки тому +5

      @@conniepitts8392 Take him in for testing. For us it was very easy to tell. He loved to drive and had an excellent sense of direction. When he got lost and couldn’t find his way home one day we called his phone for hours. 3 hours later he finally answered. He was 2 hours from home. It’s a little harder to tell in many. But they do have tests they do and I highly recommend it. If you have family and friends around, build your village now. It will help both of you. Bless you and your husband.

  • @peterwright9934
    @peterwright9934 3 роки тому +787

    I visited my mother in the dementia unit a few years before she died. We talked about her childhood which she remembered quite well. When I said I was leaving she said “well I don’t know who you are but thank you so much for visiting me”. She retained her sweet personality until the end. I am grateful for that.

    • @LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion
      @LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion 3 роки тому +9

    • @royharper2003
      @royharper2003 3 роки тому +38

      My mon was the same way, She had longtime memory from childhood years sometimes but could not remember what you or her just said. Your mom was still in there and I can assure you part of her remembered you.

    • @seamusic6627
      @seamusic6627 3 роки тому +29

      my mom might have dementia, i am very fucking scared i dont know what to do. i really am very helpless.

    • @conversationswithhollingsw4964
      @conversationswithhollingsw4964 3 роки тому +7

      @@seamusic6627 Have you looked into alternative treatments to remove heavy metals from the body? Also, try supplements that supports memory and brain health. Not claiming healing but they certainly lay can help.

    • @seamusic6627
      @seamusic6627 3 роки тому +11

      @@conversationswithhollingsw4964 she doesn't want to get help, she just keeps denying. she keeps thinking people are talking shit about her, she keeps forgetting what I tell her. things are just getting out of hand day by day

  • @donaldbeard6231
    @donaldbeard6231 3 роки тому +251

    My precious mother was in early stages of dementia at nursing home and I was blessed to see her almost every day. She passed away in September 2012 a few days after my older brother. I shed more tears that year than all my life before. Thank you Lord God for loving me and blessing me with my mother and older brother Amen

    • @amandaturner8928
      @amandaturner8928 3 роки тому +9

      God bless you Donald and give you peace.💟🐨

    • @barbaramason3145
      @barbaramason3145 3 роки тому +5

      Bless your heart ❤️

    • @alicesamekbenoit5990
      @alicesamekbenoit5990 3 роки тому

      *Check: **ua-cam.com/video/akuAUvYpZ6U/v-deo.html*

    • @ashersharif6264
      @ashersharif6264 3 роки тому +6

      God bless you and those who have departed

    • @usmarshall792
      @usmarshall792 3 роки тому +7

      No matter what God is faithful all the time and in any circumstances. God love you.

  • @julietpask2387
    @julietpask2387 3 роки тому +119

    My mum never forgot who I was just where I belonged in her life. The cruellest illness ever as you can't put a date on when you lost them.

    • @romans5859
      @romans5859 2 роки тому +2

      That's so sad. 😭

    • @leecowell8165
      @leecowell8165 2 роки тому +2

      She was unaware that you were her daughter. She knew you were somebody that she knew but she didn't know WHO that somebody really was. And sadly you can tell her but tomorrow you have to tell her again. Yep you lost her somewhere in time. Beyond sad what this horrible disease does.

  • @writemyselfaletter
    @writemyselfaletter 3 роки тому +201

    I'm a 79 year old male so naturally have an interest in anything you have to say about warning signs relating to Alzheimers. During a 35 year career I made hundreds of presentations. Your presentation here is excellent with just one exception. You will dramatically improve your communication if you post the ten bullet points on the screen as you present, either all ten at the beginning or start with #1 and add each bullet point as you get to it.

    • @CathyS_Bx
      @CathyS_Bx 3 роки тому +4

      Apparently you haven't checked out the description box.

    • @cheridehart7771
      @cheridehart7771 3 роки тому +5

      @@CathyS_Bx maybe he forgot.

    • @madeleinesutherland6323
      @madeleinesutherland6323 3 роки тому +30

      @@CathyS_Bx
      I believe he is referring to the visual presentation...so that you SEE and HEAR simultaneously.

    • @catajohnson1027
      @catajohnson1027 3 роки тому +9

      Yes, that would be very helpful. I am going to have to listen to the whole presentation again.

    • @donpatbeck
      @donpatbeck 3 роки тому

      @@CathyS_Bx i

  • @LordZontar
    @LordZontar Рік тому +61

    My mother had about four of those warning signs to varying degrees, mostly on/off though. Short-term memory problems did start cropping up toward the end, but she was aware she was having difficulties in that area. She largely remained able to take care of herself, converse intelligently and manage living in her apartment, and her visual problems were wholly age-related and her hearing remained excellent, but it was becoming increasingly apparent that she was reaching a stage where she couldn't live independently anymore. Originally my plan was to get her more involved with people and activities, then COVID hit and I didn't dare take the risk of exposing her to that as at her age COVID would have been a death sentence. Quarantine definitely was not good for her at that point but it beat the alternative. I had started planning for moving in to take care of her when the day after Christmas a year and a half ago she fell and couldn't get herself back up. She just couldn't get her legs to work for her and I took her to the hospital. Two days later she crashed mentally. A month of physical therapy failed to restore any ability to walk so I took her home and with the help of a hospice company stayed with her as her full-time caregiver. A month after that she was dead. Toward the very end I had difficulty getting her to swallow food and water, like she had forgotten how, and the hospice nurses who visited daily told me to concern myself only with her palliative medications at that point. I woke up one morning and found she had simply slipped away in her sleep. She had still retained awareness of herself and of people and things around her, and still knew who I was up to the end, at least she hadn't died with her mind completely melted away. It had happened fairly quickly and she still had some dignity when the end did come.

    • @margeritahorvath8306
      @margeritahorvath8306 Рік тому +5

      😭heart breaking to read this..I thankyou for opening up and sharing

    • @nenitapatindol525
      @nenitapatindol525 Рік тому

      Tc

    • @emmysue5414
      @emmysue5414 8 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @Mattlawton-ft6ew
      @Mattlawton-ft6ew 8 місяців тому +1

      Man I'm in tears reading this so sorry I hope your OK.

    • @joannemalton8494
      @joannemalton8494 5 місяців тому +1

      I believe our loved ones don’t need us to think about a ‘dignified’ death. Loving them accepts them no matter how death takes them…a dignified death happens 100% only in the movies. God bless you.

  • @whipchick90
    @whipchick90 3 роки тому +144

    My Dad was diagnosed with early dementia in his late 60's. I was with him at the VA when they were testing him, and a doctor took me alone in a room to ask about him. He questioned me for an hour and a half! My Dad ended up dying at 74 of a heart attack before it really set in. He was still living in his own apt and taking care of himself when he died. It was probably a blessing in disguise.

  • @chriskelly5127
    @chriskelly5127 3 роки тому +160

    In my nightmare of dementia I have a magic Angel. My daughter was caring for me long before I even understood I had issues. Sad it's happening but I am blessed that I can continue to love and laugh

    • @M.C.Blackwell
      @M.C.Blackwell 3 роки тому +18

      I'm glad you have your wonderful daughter! I wish you health and healing

    • @chriskelly5127
      @chriskelly5127 3 роки тому +7

      @@M.C.Blackwell thank you tons

    • @jeffreym68
      @jeffreym68 3 роки тому +17

      Blessings to both of you. I'm hoping your daughter has support as well, to keep her healthy enough to help you.

    • @chriskelly5127
      @chriskelly5127 3 роки тому +10

      @@jeffreym68 You bet. Set up time with caregiver so daughter finially gets down time.

    • @britishchickinusa
      @britishchickinusa 3 роки тому +15

      i care for my mum too. 11 years so far shes 91 and she came to live w us long before it kicked in. thank God. also made me her poa must have known someithing was happening she mnentioned to me a few times she thought she was getting alz and i being the stupid daughter never thought much of it. just thought she was beg to ge forgetful my mum was super sharp much more than i and now she can barely communicate w me which is destroying me but i adore her and i will care for her till the end hiring nurses and doctors to help along the way and buy her whatever she needs. she is my whole life.. ps shes been wc bound for 7 years now so its a huge job but doesnt matter to me.

  • @sandraglunt7577
    @sandraglunt7577 2 роки тому +80

    My mother started with the rate early onset of 50. The gereatric doctor thought she may have slipped into it from the depression following my father's sudden death. Her cognitive thinking remained excellent for many years as she was also very intelligent but couldn't remember minutes prior. She died at the age of 71, having had early onset, long duration. Sadly my sister is now following the same path! I am 74 and so far no symptoms! Alziemer disease is the cruelest of diseases; it robs you of yourself and results in a slow death! God be with all of us!

    • @leecowell8165
      @leecowell8165 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah I believe it is at least somewhat inherited. I'm 79yo and haven't lost a step in the noggin department however my spouse died from vascular dementia. One reason is that she never went to doctors even though she allowed me to check her hypertension (which was through the roof). She was one of those people that steadfastly remained in denial about a lotta things she knew was amiss with her. Anyhow this horrible disease does not run in my family on either side but that doesn't mean of course that I won't eventually develop some form of dementia. And sorry for your loss. hopefully "they" will find something that delays or defers but we're dealing with a very complex organ here that is still not very well understood.

    • @vangogo6819
      @vangogo6819 2 роки тому +10

      I was told at age 51 that I tested positive for two genes that would lead to vascular dementia, plus there was family history on my father's side, including him. I am now 62 and becoming symptomatic, I find it scary and depressing. I am very blessed to have strong faith in Jesus and I have a loving husband who helps me and looks after me. If it wasn't for my faith I wouldn't make it. I am getting so that I can't remember names, what I had for breakfast or what was said to me five minutes ago. I am still aware enough to know what's going on, I don't feel bad for myself, it's my husband I am concerned for. God bless everyone who has a loved one struggling with this or who is struggling themselves. Sorry for the long reply.

    • @conniepitts8392
      @conniepitts8392 2 роки тому +2

      @@vangogo6819 🤗❤🙋🏻‍♀️🙏🏻

    • @vangogo6819
      @vangogo6819 2 роки тому

      @@conniepitts8392 😚💕🙏🙏

  • @howardmanley3388
    @howardmanley3388 3 роки тому +185

    I’m in my late seventies now, my former father- in law has this now, And He doesn’t remember me at at all .He’s 81 now, it’s so sad we had to stop him from driving because He would get lost all the time and we would have to go get him. It’s very difficult to have any type of meaningful conversation with Him also.. God help us all navigate through End of life journeys...✅

    • @sonjagatto9981
      @sonjagatto9981 3 роки тому +7

      💔

    • @kimroy6640
      @kimroy6640 3 роки тому +15

      I went through it with both my parents. Changed me forever. Life sure looks different.

    • @deborahlamartiniere6349
      @deborahlamartiniere6349 3 роки тому +8

      Prayers for him and you all.

    • @leahcookscreates3706
      @leahcookscreates3706 3 роки тому +9

      How can he be your Father in law if you are in your late seventies and he is 81? The numbers don't add up..

    • @elmaohalloran2247
      @elmaohalloran2247 3 роки тому

      Leah Cooks & Creates j

  • @olgatellomorrow5898
    @olgatellomorrow5898 3 роки тому +64

    I'M 71 YEARS OLD AND I LIVE ALONE , VERY CONCERN , MUST MY FRIEND PAST AWAY , ONLY FEW FRIENS.AND ALSO OLDER THAN ME. I'M TRYING TO MOVE BACK TO MY COUNTRY WICH MAKES ME VERY SAD I LOVE AMERICA. I DON'T WANT TO DIE ALONE IN MY HOME. ITS VERY SAD GETTING OLDER. I DO HAVE A LOT OF THE THING YOU MENTION.
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR INFO.😍

    • @lauramalizia9636
      @lauramalizia9636 3 роки тому +21

      I'm not as old, almost 44. But was covid 19 positive after getting tested April 13, 2021. Pray, talk to Jesus. He is the best friend you will ever have and he will never leave or forsaken and you and you will feel less alone..🙏✝️❤️

    • @eileendoherty2836
      @eileendoherty2836 3 роки тому +12

      Hi Olga I’m 66 and have depression I am the only one to care for my 28 yr old disabled daughter I am from Ireland 🇮🇪 I too would love to go home maybe we can talk we live in tempe arizona❤️🙏🤗☘️🥰

    • @MariaReyes-gv8ui
      @MariaReyes-gv8ui 3 роки тому +10

      Hi Olga, thank you so much for your comment. I am 68 years old.
      My mom was Diagnosed with Alzheimer's
      when she was 73 years and became totally dependent on others for her care.
      I live in Ca.and have only one son living in Seattle (no other relatives) and like you, l am at times afraid of having Alzheimer's. However as a Christian and having 100% TRUST IN MY HEAVENLY FATHER, GIVES ME A LOT OF COMFORT. PLEASE TAKE CARE 🙏💗🌻🙏💗🌻🙏💗🌻🙏💗🌻

    • @teresitauy5532
      @teresitauy5532 3 роки тому +5

      Olga, follow your heart . Getting old is hard especially when you're alone.
      Sometimes I think getting old is a payback. There's illness, no matter how much you live healthy . Then the scary part is losing your mind .
      God bless you & safe travel to your country .

    • @leegen5936
      @leegen5936 3 роки тому +3

      I hope you are still doing fine❤

  • @doublejake.4846
    @doublejake.4846 3 роки тому +58

    Both my parents have dementia, Dad is 87; Mom 81 I’m their son and I do everything for them, cook, clean, yard work, shopping, you name it. I’m constantly disrespected by my Dad, I have many dark days. I often wonder how the hell I am going to get through this. Dad was a fighter pilot, Mom was a high school teacher. Both of those people are gone.

    • @luciewood5698
      @luciewood5698 3 роки тому +23

      i looked after my dad for the last 18 months of his life which was dominated by his mixed alzheimers and vascular dementia. I was recommended a book called contented dementia and this changed things completely and we started to have fun. My dad also was aggressive verbally and physically-it was called sundowning as usually it happens (if it does happens) after the sun has gone down. His aggression started around 2 pm and lasted till he fell asleep. then he would wake up a new man till the next day at around 2pm. I got in help for the cleaning work and bought easy to prepare food. I stopped disagreeing with him completely and just went with his flow-agreeing and living as much as I could within his world. I stopped trying to tell him his mother and brothers and sisters had died as he was shocked every time he heard this. I accepted that he thought I was his sister sometimes or even my mother. When I stopped trying to make him different from what he was it was a lot easier and we had a lot of laughter as well as the tricky bits. You need help-make sure you ask for it-even if it is a volunteer from a church or helpful neighbour. I used TV a lot to get some free time which I felt guilty about at first. Your job is rather more difficult having 2 people to look after. You need to remember that your father's disrespect is not under his control. Take as objective a stance as possible and don't take it personally-forgiveness is a useful thing here. I joined a support group and took him with me so he could be entertained and I could talk with people going through the same thing-it helped and was fun for my dad too. I ended up feeling like I was giving back to my dad what he had given me-life itself and I ended up coming to terms with his death as well as the challenges we had had during his life. Best of Luck.

    • @lim4275
      @lim4275 3 роки тому +9

      @@luciewood5698
      Beautiful advice! Very kind of you to share it! 😍

    • @alicesamekbenoit5990
      @alicesamekbenoit5990 3 роки тому +1

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    • @jenhaganey
      @jenhaganey 3 роки тому +5

      So sorry - that’s a hard situation -prayers for all of you

    • @doublejake.4846
      @doublejake.4846 3 роки тому +6

      @@jenhaganey Thank You, I’m sitting in my room right now, just trying to collect myself, I have had a long bad day, and I finally have both of them in bed and all this months bills are payed. My Dad is so angry and he used to be a wonderful person, Mom goes with the flow, her thoughts are often somewhere else.

  • @dejonsmall9886
    @dejonsmall9886 2 роки тому +58

    My mother didn't know who I was 99% of the time. Many times I cried on the way home because it hurt so much, however she knew my wife every time she saw her. They both had the same birthday. For two years my brother, sister and I did the watch before we had to put her in a facility as it got too much for us. I was relieved when she passed. June 14 was 4 years ago. She was 82. I wouldn't wish this disease on my worse enemy...

    • @matthewbrown6163
      @matthewbrown6163 2 роки тому +3

      45 years ago it hit my nanna. We were clueless as to what it was or why she would do silly things or talk 30 mins on the phone & then whom it was who called. To the family she was just an old lady in her 70's but we all noted these changes. To visit my friend's Grand Pa was very hard as he slowly forgot people. I visited every Sunday with 2 beers & a few cigarettes he enjoyed. I then switched to McDonald's Sundae & Apple Pie as he refused to eat their food. He called me a grandson's name (my friend) & got to the point where he became paranoid about WWII (he was a Polish resistance fighter sent twice to the camps but a crashed train saved him with a switch of his papers to a dead man's.

    • @pamabbey3057
      @pamabbey3057 2 роки тому +5

      God bless everyone who is writing about this. If I get this illness, I have options. I do not want to say though becuz who knows who is reading this. God bless everyone who knows and cares for their loved ones.

    • @matthewbrown6163
      @matthewbrown6163 2 роки тому +4

      @@pamabbey3057 At least we know but 45 years ago it was just people getting older. My Nanna shut down her memory at her daughter's funeral. 24 hours later she was different to what we knew her.

    • @pamabbey3057
      @pamabbey3057 2 роки тому +3

      @@matthewbrown6163 Yes, positive point. We used to call this senility. My friend still uses that term. I am a bit concerned. Almost every day he calls me and asks what day is this. Yes, I believe many sad things can really trigger this. I have seen it happen when someone loses a loved one, too. Serious illness seems to occur. I have seen people get cancer after a loss of a loved one. Like I said, I already have a Living Will, which discusses this. I hope everyone out there has a Living Will, too.

    • @matthewbrown6163
      @matthewbrown6163 2 роки тому +3

      @@pamabbey3057 In my facilities I added huge Analogue Wall Clocks to many of the walls. Not to give staff the time but to reassure the residents. It won't stop memory loss but it will stop just one resident feeling lost then my job is done. I had massive calendars that clicked over to the day of the week. Once again it was for their sake & not the staff. Keeping residents safe is the priority & you aid them to feel comfortable then you have achieved your goal.

  • @lexfip7515
    @lexfip7515 2 роки тому +37

    Thank you kindly for this presentation. Although both my parents had different forms of dementia, I continue educate myself on any and all current updated information on this dreadful disease. My Mother lived until 102 however, the first noticeably signs were approximately mid to late seventies. The painful part in all of this was her not knowing who I was for the better part of twenty years.
    I now know why it's called "the long goodbye"

    • @Andy400ss
      @Andy400ss 2 роки тому +3

      I feel like I have memory loss and I’m only 14😕

    • @barbaralong3151
      @barbaralong3151 Рік тому

      I love it when people can except it as normal .like the beggining of life,just another chapter . Nothing their when we come we had to learn everything ,maybe we are ment to go out with nothing ?

    • @leecowell8165
      @leecowell8165 6 місяців тому

      Wow that sucks! it doesn't run in my family, fortunately. My Mom lived until 87 she had absolutely no sign of it at all. My Dad passed at 68 from a Myo but he had no sign of it either. None of my brothers have it either. Just doesn't run in the family on either side. I believe its strongly hereditary myself. Yep you need to be very concerned. Horrible disease my spouse passed from Vascular dementia she had no idea who ANYONE was the last few months. She didn't even know her own name and regressed all the way back to babyhood.

  • @teresaj4876
    @teresaj4876 3 роки тому +71

    The first thing I noticed with my mother in law that alarmed me was not using names of people - instead she would say he or she. Often switching from one to the other mid sentence.
    She also got angry at doctors and even her long time friends for saying something that she misinterpreted.
    Then she started hording mail from scams or from "groups" asking for money. When I would offer to put in the recycling she would get angry and say they were important and not to touch them. I was so concerned about her spending on scams or things like publishers clearing house that I asked various family members if they thought it was odd. No one else was concerned. I know her well and I should have listened to myself and investigated sooner. By the time I got involved she had spent all their savings and nearly every month was overdrawing their account.
    Thank you for this guide it hopefully will help others.

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      @cathypurnell9331 3 роки тому +10

      My mother is trying to give her money to the church. The bad thing is these people in the church know she's got a problem, but they still take her money.

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  • @georgemansfield7736
    @georgemansfield7736 3 роки тому +62

    The best description of old age mind problems i have ever heard. Thanks Doctor.

    • @isobelstaude3541
      @isobelstaude3541 3 роки тому +6

      This has been a totally brilliant unemotional description comparing normal aging & early signs of dementia. Thank you!

    • @rosariobanda3910
      @rosariobanda3910 3 роки тому

      @@isobelstaude3541 ook

  • @memee1488
    @memee1488 2 роки тому +18

    Thank you. This is so helpful, and I love how you explain that some things are just normal things that happen to all of us.

  • @jeanlennox6867
    @jeanlennox6867 2 роки тому +14

    My husband has been diagnosed with dementia and the amazing thing is he appears more relaxed and happier now than when he was younger. I believe that is because he has relinquished all responsibilities and nowadays has no worries. He knows he has dementia but he only laughs at his bad memory!

    • @susansimpson3395
      @susansimpson3395 2 роки тому +1

      Happening to my husband too! Thanks for sharing. 😊

    • @nosuchthing8
      @nosuchthing8 11 місяців тому

      That's early dementia. When he can't talk, keeps calling to cancel Dr appointments, etc...

    • @rivergladesgardenrailroad8834
      @rivergladesgardenrailroad8834 9 днів тому

      that's not really Dementia my friend.

  • @lyndamitton4496
    @lyndamitton4496 Рік тому +5

    You are a very big help! Thank you for understanding some of the clues telling us that things are changing,
    and helping us get prepared! I hope my kids see this video ‘cause I think I’m on the road there!

  • @larryboysen5911
    @larryboysen5911 3 роки тому +41

    I know those steps...as my late mother went through them all. At times I do forget minor things, but so do a number of my senior contemporaries!

    • @butchyshoe
      @butchyshoe 3 роки тому +4

      Yes, but u can't help but worry about Alzheimer's with us living longer !!

    • @karinlarsen2608
      @karinlarsen2608 2 роки тому +1

      I learned our brain starts shrinking when we're 30

  • @cybergen2K
    @cybergen2K 3 роки тому +20

    Thank you. This is so informative and such a relief in stopping my paranoia getting the better of me.

  • @Passion535
    @Passion535 3 роки тому +5

    I appreciate the Heads Up! I'll start paying more attention.. Thanks again!!

  • @bevshafer1623
    @bevshafer1623 Рік тому +9

    Lost my soulmate 6 months ago on the 30th March. What a terrible disease. We kept him at home he wanted that. We almost didn't make it. It was so overwhelming. Hospis was great. Only two days a week. Prayers to everyone going through this. Bless you.

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 29 днів тому

      Hi Bev, how's your day going with you?

  • @bettyshaffer8289
    @bettyshaffer8289 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you! You explained what other people didn't...now I understand what my mom is going through better...God bless you❤

    • @blackfeel9172
      @blackfeel9172 Рік тому

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 3 роки тому +221

    May 2021 as I write. Some years ago, New York University Geriatric Service pompously told us with unquestioned medical 'gravitas': our mom, then 92 - had the beginnings of 'symptoms and cognitive losses consistent with AD." They insisted - that, was the case. They said it twice, over a period of several years. Only one problem. She did not HAVE Alzheimer's. She had mixed dementia. So, after Medicaid refused us for being "too rich" (mother had $29,000 total in the world in a Citibank checking account)..we said, "Screw y'all.." and moved her in with my sister, where my family rolled up our sleeves and assumed complete care for her. We kept her fed, healthy, socially and intellectual engaged, took her out and about, let her share everything we did as much as possible.... till she passed, peacefully in her sleep, at 95. (June, 2017.) In a clean, comfy room, with regular meals, a devoted dog, daughters who loved her, and a full, rich life. She was the woman who brought me into the world. Helping her leave it in peace and dignity? It was an honor. It altered the trajectory of my life for good and all. The medical community is full of pompous, self-involved idiots who haven't a clue. Many times we were disappointed along the way by bureaucracies/Doctors who didn't care, were rule bound and heartless, wouldn't go that extra mile, disbelieved what we said, or simply treated mom as a non-individual, a statistic. So glad we avoided 'experts' like the plague. And that we were there for our mother till that last day and beyond. Many of those know it all Doctors in fact - have quite a lot to learn...

    • @nanaofaiden9743
      @nanaofaiden9743 3 роки тому +24

      May God bless you for caring so well for your mom!

    • @llrblaylock9451
      @llrblaylock9451 3 роки тому +14

      Hi Cynthia, thanks for sharing the narrative about your family and taking care of your Mom. Indeed, it is an honor to serve our parents. My Dad is 80 and at this point shows no sign of dementia. My sister was one of his primary caretakers, however she left this left journey at the tender of age 56 in 2020. She will always be with us. You never lose someone that you love. Your Mom's spirit will always be with you. I am now having to get more engaged with my Dad who lives about 2 hours from me. He's a very independent man and gifted storyteller. Your narrative was inspiring and thanks for sharing.

    • @scottb4579
      @scottb4579 3 роки тому +11

      You're mom was very blessed to have a daughter like you.

    • @donnahalsted7718
      @donnahalsted7718 3 роки тому +9

      Oh, my, Cynthia. Your story warms my heart! I hope this rare virtue grows and spreads!
      You have certainly given us a beautiful "definition" of honoring your parents!
      God bless you as you both work through, and enjoy these cherished moments together on Earth!

    • @juliacole4287
      @juliacole4287 3 роки тому +3

      Ok

  • @MudlarksAlmanac
    @MudlarksAlmanac 3 роки тому +13

    my mother's lost her awareness of dangerous behaviour, and became angry if I tried to stop her doing things. She started to develop Alzheimer's in her late 80s, and spent a lot of time staying with me and my family because of illness, but after her last stay in hospital (for a broken wrist) she went home, where she lived alone. (She didn't like living with me and my sons, unless she was unwell, because she said we were too noisy for her. She wanted to be in her own home, and was scared in case she had to go into a residential home, so I decided it would be easier for me to care for her in her own home) I walked around to her house to see her usually twice a day, to give her her medications, and cook meals, tidy up etc. but we often clashed because she thought that I was interfering.
    On one occasion I found her trying to boil a pan of water on a tripod, over about 10 nightlight candles. She had spoilt her kettle by scrubbing the inside with washing up liquid, because she thought it was dirty. When she was still using her kettle, she would pull the plug from the live socket rather than wait for the kettle to turn itself off. When I said she should be careful as she might get an electric shock this way, she angrily told me she was 90 and had done this all her life! Another time she lit around 30 night light candles in a room because she thought the air was damp. I removed them when she wasn't looking. I was terrified that she would burn her house down! I was her only child, and my father died in the 1980s, so I was the only one around to help her, but she resented me being in her house, and became very unpleasant to me. I recognise other points from your list too. I went on a short course for carers, provided by the Alzheimer's Association, which gave me a lot of information, but caring for a parent alone is hard.

    • @alexmorgan3435
      @alexmorgan3435 Рік тому +3

      Athough not an only child, I am in a similar position to what you were with your mother. My brother and sister emigrated and live in Australia and Malaysia. My brother doesn't visit, he's not really interested but my sister does once or twice each year. My mother dotes on her having previously fallen out with her daughter big time, but now I am the enemy in her eyes and yet it is me who cares for her and runs her life. She is no longer able to manage. She argues with EVERYTHING I tell her or ask her to do, everything, however big, small, trivial or important. It is a major battle to get anything done with her. She was a prolific hoarder. Anyway her cognitive impairment is now pretty noticeable and affects her ability to manage her affairs and daily tasks. I need a PoA but she REFUSES to give it to me. It's her loss as I could just walk away and leave her to it. She has taken over my life in the last 3 years and there is no relief in sight.

    • @leecowell8165
      @leecowell8165 6 місяців тому +1

      Yep they often become VERY argumentative. No sense in even talking with them they've completely lost any sense of reality at that juncture. Sad when you only mean well for them.

  • @leandrobaluyotjr5181
    @leandrobaluyotjr5181 Рік тому +5

    Very informative ! The narrative is clear and precise and easy to understand even for a lay person like me.Thank you and more success to your personal & professional endeavors Ms.Melissa B!

  • @ericheine2414
    @ericheine2414 3 роки тому +132

    Excellent and well-presented overview Melissa. I'm older but I make up for it by being immature.
    I withdrew from Social Circles because they were boring and I get tired of pretending to be interested.
    I backed off of work because it's tiring and it makes me sore. I stopped following politics because it was hard to take seriously and I found it unbelievable. Reading seems to be worthwhile

  • @nonoingridmfolwe1144
    @nonoingridmfolwe1144 3 роки тому +17

    Thanks doc you ate spot on .You have thoroughly explained the major symptoms.

  • @jill7111
    @jill7111 3 роки тому +14

    I have bipolar disorder and was also diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment. But my neurologist told me it could be my bipolar meds or the bipolar itself that could be causing my symptoms. It made me feel better even though he didn’t completely rule out vascular problems. COVID has really scared me though. I had it in April and the brain fog is unbelievable, way worse than any MCI symptoms I had before. I really hope it goes away soon.

    • @lerebox
      @lerebox 7 місяців тому

      how's it going?

  • @susanstehlik8189
    @susanstehlik8189 3 роки тому +6

    wish i had seen this video years ago, when all these signs were present with my stepmom and i ignored them until the dementia was severe. i thought i was being supportive and helpful. when the wandering started we were already in triage mode. thank you for making this video.

    • @fredjohn9722
      @fredjohn9722 3 роки тому +1

      Hello Susan.... How are you doing today....
      And I hope you do stay safe due to the pandemic over there.?

    • @fredjohn9722
      @fredjohn9722 3 роки тому

      Hello Susan.... How are you doing today.... 💕💕💕
      And I hope you do stay safe due to the pandemic over there.?

  • @cierakitty
    @cierakitty 2 роки тому +3

    I can see every one of these signs in a couple of friends in mt neighborhood. One gets really angry at her changes, the other finds it all really funny. It is getting to a point where it is difficult to even have a normal conversation anymore. They forget they even called me, repeat themselves over and over, lose things right in plan sight, forget where we are going (in route), roam around in a store not remembering why they went there, moody, oh gosh it goes on and on. Recently while out, one asked when were we going to go eat.....we had just pulled out of the resturant parking lot. It's hard on them...yes...but it's hard on us who know them as well.

  • @Saucyakld
    @Saucyakld 3 роки тому +20

    My mother died of altzheimers so I made myself join clubs, especially quilt clubs but now at 73 I just can't be bothered anymore, wasn't very good at it anyway. Started a new hobby, aquarobics. Three times a week but I am peeling, must be the clorine in the water. But after going 20 times am bored with that, 20 times repeating the same thing. I love my choir and my prem baby crocheting and quilting . Hope this coming summer I can go out again and meet my friends, too cold now.

    • @MelissaBPhD
      @MelissaBPhD  3 роки тому +3

      Great to hear that you are mixing it up to stay engaged with life (except for the peeling part :)) #Kudos to you for being proactive to stay active!! Thank you for listening

  • @zombiejashin4635
    @zombiejashin4635 Рік тому +2

    My grandad is getting tested for dementia on Wednesday and I’m so scared. I’m hoping it’s just normal forgetfulness with his age. Alzheimer’s runs in our family but I’m praying for a miracle. 😭

  • @tedsullivan4353
    @tedsullivan4353 3 роки тому +24

    Thank you so much for all the efforts you and your team have put in, and for enabling us to be part of their research .Merry Christmas to all of you and your families.have

  • @juditrotter5176
    @juditrotter5176 2 роки тому +4

    With my Mom the hard part was in the middle when she knew something was wrong and was terribly frightened but wouldn’t admit it. I took her into my home for a time but the availability of a support person was really difficult so finding the right place was needed.

    • @nosuchthing8
      @nosuchthing8 11 місяців тому

      How did you afford the care for her

  • @phalinimcleod8819
    @phalinimcleod8819 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you SO MUCH, Melissa. Very, very helpful. I'm so looking forward to hearing all of your podcasts!

    • @MelissaBPhD
      @MelissaBPhD  3 роки тому

      Appreciate your kind words, Phalini! A new episode is released every Tuesday at 8am PT. Be sure to subscribe to receive updates.

    • @blackfeel9172
      @blackfeel9172 Рік тому

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @m.pixley8413
    @m.pixley8413 3 роки тому +29

    As a dyslexic I have had trouble with name and nouns recall and executive functioning for my entire life.

    • @lauramalizia9636
      @lauramalizia9636 3 роки тому +1

      That's what I mean. I'm almost 44 and have ADHD. I mean I was misdiagnosed bipolar but yeah, my point is these are all signs of other issues as well.

    • @m.pixley8413
      @m.pixley8413 3 роки тому

      @@mheile11 you are right it may be a little different for dyslexics . The ordering issue may just be a propensity to tackle tasks differently. But I have read a few articles where researchers have "shown strong correlations between dyslexia symptoms and deficits in short-term memory and executive functioning". There are probably big differences between what they see in dyslexics vs. Alzheimers maybe they just need to do more research.

    • @rosemaryscott4776
      @rosemaryscott4776 3 роки тому

      My partner has severe dyslexia and terrible short term memory. I'm sure he would be diagnosed with dementia if he saw a dr, but he's been like it for years and not getting worse. This issue needs further investigation. There must be a strong link between short term memory and language processing. PhD anyone?

    • @squeek5810
      @squeek5810 3 роки тому

      Me too my regards and respect to you from Australia.

    • @jamesmiller1501
      @jamesmiller1501 2 роки тому

      @@m.pixley8413 Certainly sounds like his safety is an issue. Given that, you could also see if your local Adult Protective Services would be able to advise you on your options.

  • @ma7608
    @ma7608 2 роки тому +2

    I'm a PCA and I take care of many people with dementia and usually they are worse in the morning than evening. I have one person who she became very attached to me and she tells me every day to please not leave her alone that she can't remember what she has to do next. It truly breaks my heart when it's time to leave because I can't imagine what she's going through in her head.

  • @yolandanower722
    @yolandanower722 2 роки тому +4

    My dad died from Alzheimer’s December 6th 2012 😢
    I and my brother are concerned that we or our kids can inherit it.
    I’m 63 yr old female, have to write down names of new people, I always write lists.
    I have decided to get walking with my dog 4xs a day, changed my eating habits and have now gotten to my goal weight.
    I have lost 60lbs now, and just pulled out my old bike, next level of activity.
    I’m starting to have problems with my vision, I wear glasses too. I get nervous driving at night.
    I say words that I don’t mean to say, wrong words.
    I miss place things, but I do find them.

  • @saraceciliarosarioramos5190
    @saraceciliarosarioramos5190 3 роки тому +14

    Thank you, Melissa,very helpful video.

    • @MelissaBPhD
      @MelissaBPhD  3 роки тому +1

      You are very welcome!

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you liked this video, you may also be interested to know about possible root causes behind Alzheimer's! For this, look at the work of Dr. Dale Bredesen at Duke University! He looks at possible causes like: pathogens/gut infections, intestinal permeability of the gut (leaky gut), microbiome imbalances, insulin resistance, nutrient deficiencies, hormone imbalances, and toxin exposures!

  • @Joleve
    @Joleve 3 роки тому +39

    It’s more emotional if you take care of your own family and if you can find some therapy program please do. Thank you Doctor

    • @fredjohn9722
      @fredjohn9722 3 роки тому +1

      Hello vhangee.... How are you doing today... 💕💕💕💕
      And I hope you do stay safe due to the pandemic over there.?

  • @brigidcannon8130
    @brigidcannon8130 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, I found this helpful, Melissa.

  • @maureenhannivan8043
    @maureenhannivan8043 3 роки тому +57

    Very good information.. as a senior now, I use my dining table for notes ,calendar meds, etc. This way when I have my breakfast everything that is important is right in front of me....

    • @wendybrierley5412
      @wendybrierley5412 3 роки тому +5

      Isn't it Dementia in old age mainly? If we are still working, this can be picked up by work friends. But when you are retired, living on your own - less social interaction, not easy to notice someone is developing it. Unless we go out often, socialise and keep active. It is a crippling disease like Parkinson's.

    • @Kman.
      @Kman. 3 роки тому

      Ugh...but you've got to remember to HAVE YOUR BREAKFAST or you'll be in a heap of trouble~~~:)

    • @butchyshoe
      @butchyshoe 3 роки тому +1

      @@wendybrierley5412 Don't know why they show my photo in the army and my name is definitely not wendy brierley !!!!

    • @cynthiasoroka1838
      @cynthiasoroka1838 3 роки тому +2

      My Cat would have fun KNOCKING OFF ALL That’s IMPORTANT STUFF THE
      TABLE! THEN FIND PLACES
      TO HIDE THEM!

    • @MelissaBPhD
      @MelissaBPhD  3 роки тому +3

      #Smart. I have notes all over my desk to keep me organized too! That's normal :)

  • @nadaruiz8752
    @nadaruiz8752 3 роки тому +8

    Thanks a lot Melissa. You are helping a lot of people like my age 69 on how to slow down the development of Alzeimers Disease. I will take note on your suggestions. Great day ahead. All my best wishes to you. God bless and more power to you.

  • @suesartor4376
    @suesartor4376 2 роки тому +2

    I just lost my husband of 58 years to Alzheimer's. The warning signs Melissa gave were spot on. He exhibited all of them and the final one was severe aggression.
    Alzheimer's is dying by inches so being aware is very helpful.
    Melissa, please try to eliminate verbal pauses (ah, er etc.) and look at the camera rather than up. The information is great but you seem nervous in the delivery. Alzheimer's is a cruel master that takes life from a vital person. Caregivers need support and prayers.

    • @aslmad1
      @aslmad1 2 роки тому +4

      I wonder if Melissa asked for a critique because I’m seeing several.

  • @roderickisaacs7841
    @roderickisaacs7841 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks very much for this valuable information!
    Blessings in your teaching 🙏

  • @WayTooSuppish
    @WayTooSuppish Рік тому +4

    This explanation between the contrast of Alzheimer's to normal aging was very helpful. Thank you for this content, very well explained and well done.

  • @mjones1122
    @mjones1122 3 роки тому +37

    I have changed my mom's diet and eliminated sugar and refined carbohydrates. She is now getting good quality food with protein and fat, lots of bone broth. She was not eating any protein because someone told her it was bad for her. She did not eat any salt, so very dizzy and falling. The doctor told her to eat salt and her dizziness has gone away. She also drinks high fat coconut milk with hot water and that has helped with her memory. She was not taking her meds consistently and that has been straightened out. Plus she was able to get off of her statin which was causing some severe side effects. Because she didn't really want to share these issues with her doctor, she endured the pain. Her leg pain was debilitating, so not exercising or moving around, just sitting in her recliner all day. Now she says her legs don't hurt and can do some exercises, progress. Doctors talk using a high level clinical language. After we leave the appointment, my mom asks me, "what did they mean?" This is such a journey for the patient and the caregiver.

    • @elisafrye2115
      @elisafrye2115 3 роки тому +9

      It is a WELL-KNOWN FACT that Statins can contribute, not just to muscle pain, but to DEMENTIA! And there is very limited evidence that they are helpful to older women! 😱. 😰.
      I’m 87, and in pretty good shape( I still drive, etc and my kids keep an eagle eye on me and my aging brain.) My LDL is bit high, but my doc admits that otherwise my lipids are perfect. And he is OK with my decision that I will NEVER take a statin.
      Your mother is SO blessed with your loving concern and your wisdom in helping her! ❤️

    • @virginiarogers9564
      @virginiarogers9564 3 роки тому +1

      I started taking a statin drug when I was in my forties. I could not remember anything I was doing going room to room in my house. One day my tank was empty and I stopped to get gas. I went in and paid for it and then got in my car and drove away. I Did not even remember it untill later that day the gas station called me and told me what I had done. That was the day I quit taking statins. I rather die of a heart attack. My memory is fine now.

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  • @willycat7445
    @willycat7445 3 роки тому +153

    Shoot I've been putting things in safe places for my entire life, then forgetting where I put them. 🤣🤣

    • @lauramalizia9636
      @lauramalizia9636 3 роки тому +9

      Right?! Same here! It's called hiding it from the kids.

    • @dingodave9160
      @dingodave9160 3 роки тому +13

      Me too! But on a positive note, with Alzheimer we'll be able to hide our own Easter eggs! 😃🤣🤣

    • @sootuckchoong7077
      @sootuckchoong7077 3 роки тому +5

      @@lauramalizia9636 And the kids has taken them.

    • @ibdalia69
      @ibdalia69 3 роки тому +4

      I remember starting that when 4 years old....now what did I do yesterday?

    • @sharonzielinski3955
      @sharonzielinski3955 3 роки тому +6

      Me too.

  • @nanaofaiden9743
    @nanaofaiden9743 3 роки тому +1

    Very very helpful info! Thanks so much!

  • @limsakow3720
    @limsakow3720 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for whole lot of info ! Hope to remember all!

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you liked this info, here's a quick fact: it's estimated that 45 million out of the 328 million people in the U.S. will have Alzheimers! That's 13.7%!!

  • @pastorjan7104
    @pastorjan7104 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you so much for this concise, valuable information and your personal insights. Great job! Subscribed.

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you liked this video, you may also be interested in research that looks at possible root causes for Alzheimer's! Check out the work of Dr. Dale Bredesen. He had a 2018 study in the Journal of Alzheimers Disease & Parkinsonism. The study is titled: "Reversal of Cognitive Decline: 100 patients." It's fascinating stuff!

  • @janepatel2536
    @janepatel2536 3 роки тому +12

    really helpful , thank you

  • @TheVidusi
    @TheVidusi 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Melissa, I enjoyed your talk and found it useful. I have just had an assessment ( In the UK NHS) and I am waiting for their findings. It does sound as if I am just starting with dementia of one type or another.

  • @justmeagain9051
    @justmeagain9051 2 роки тому +1

    My brother passed from dementia November 2 2021 at the age of 61. He had paranoia and unusual phobias . My grandmother also had dementia. She had hallucinations and memory loss. I'd visit them as much as I could when they were home. Always were happy to see me. Oddly enough out of all my cousins ( whom didn't visit except on special occasions ) she lost her memory of except me. I was the last one that she forgot. Also my uncle had it but could bowl 200+ point games as he did when he was well but he couldn't figure out how to get on the lanes or how to pick up the ball . Goes to show that what you do when they're well may follow them into this horrible disease. 😢

  • @fathimahassan3150
    @fathimahassan3150 3 роки тому +14

    Feeding the brain with correct food is very important and specially cutting down the Carbohydrates.

  • @mottledbrain
    @mottledbrain 3 роки тому +14

    I'm glad you kept pointing out that many of us (or we all) go through these memory problems, sometimes simply with aging. At first this video was reminding me too much of COVID, where we all get some of the symptoms now and then. But here, um, here, um ... what was I saying? ;)

  • @lindav3455
    @lindav3455 2 роки тому

    Thank you, this really enjoyed this video. Very helpful

  • @mtlim9146
    @mtlim9146 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for giving such detailed behaviour changes as compared to normal ages setting at ease for so many suffering from normal forgetfulness ... thank you again for the clean description and comparison . Have a nice day ...bye

  • @joanbrewster576
    @joanbrewster576 3 роки тому +6

    I really enjoyed watching that article on Alzheimer's disease. It helped to to understand the condition a lot better.

  • @Melodie007
    @Melodie007 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video

  • @juanacostilla
    @juanacostilla Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this video! Blessings!

  • @ericdemilo2497
    @ericdemilo2497 2 роки тому

    Your signs are very helpful. Thank you!

  • @Letscurealzheimers
    @Letscurealzheimers 3 роки тому +15

    Great advice and informative video. I Looked after my dad for 2.5 years as he suffered from Alzheimer's disease. Found out he was having memory problems when we were on a trip. The caregiving journey was tough for me. The social workers suggested that my dad should be put in a care home.
    When he was put in there he was placed on too many meds. His bill for Zyprexa was $700 month. The over medication and neglect put him in the geriatric psyche ward at the regional mental hospital in 107 days.

  • @lotocho
    @lotocho 6 місяців тому +45

    Alzheimers had its grip, but igrotum is providing a strong counterforce. Encouraged by the improving cognitive abilities.

  • @brusselssprouts560
    @brusselssprouts560 Рік тому +2

    Very very insightful, from someone who has been in UK social care for 15 years. Thanks very much!

  • @davidlevesque9137
    @davidlevesque9137 2 роки тому +1

    I think one helps to remind older people to not only function on hope and happiness. There also has be something practical in the functionality of stuff. Solving puzzles, doing bookkeeping, sewing or drawing.

  • @yawn8598
    @yawn8598 3 роки тому +41

    I found the comparing of altz with normal ageing of each sign very helpful. Thank you!

    • @MelissaBPhD
      @MelissaBPhD  3 роки тому +3

      You're welcome!

    • @greensandridge1018
      @greensandridge1018 2 роки тому +1

      I also found this aspect of your talk very helpful indeed, along with the rest of it actually. It made me think of how I could best help my husband who, I’m told I’d in the early stages of AD. In order stop myself getting so stressed about his behaviour towards the care I give him, the more I can learn about the disease and it’s progression the easier I will find t to come to terms with. Thank you so very much for your video, it has helped me already.

    • @yawn8598
      @yawn8598 2 роки тому

      @@greensandridge1018 My mother had dementia for 15 years, so I understand what you're saying. I hope you're getting help and support from family and from friends, as well as from health professionals, so you don't feel all alone in coping. Even knowing I could lift the phone to the Alzheimer's society and just talk to someone used to help me.

  • @joanledgister6033
    @joanledgister6033 3 роки тому +16

    God bless you.

  • @sunshinedays893
    @sunshinedays893 Рік тому +1

    I like this lady, I’m always worried about getting dementia especially as I’ve been like a lot of these points my whole life 😭

  • @AdamB12
    @AdamB12 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks, this gave me a lot of insight of what to expect with my father. Could be vascular dementia seeing as he has had cardiovascular problems (triple bypass in spring of 2021)

  • @Anna.Mason151
    @Anna.Mason151 3 роки тому +24

    Anxiety, reactive defensiveness, becoming fixated on a thought, compulsive explosive outbursts directed at you but do not make sense, behaviour related to delusional thought process, ie hiding things that they feel might get stollen. Accusing you of stealing an object that they cannot remember the whereabouts of.

    • @rebelqueen3875
      @rebelqueen3875 2 роки тому

      Ty for posting this my father who is 84 had an explosive and violent out burst the other day directed at my 80 yr old mother....I have been speechless and devastated ever since.

    • @marykinuthia6067
      @marykinuthia6067 2 роки тому

      I have all that, am 60 years.

  • @angelagreco2734
    @angelagreco2734 3 роки тому +12

    I have to admit doctor my husband is going through most of these tips you are mentioning! He has been diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimer's but his driving is still perfect!

  • @wilmabryce4727
    @wilmabryce4727 3 роки тому

    Very informative and helpful information thank you

  • @madhusudan6129
    @madhusudan6129 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks Dr. Malissa for an elaborate coverage.

  • @jacquelinemiller240
    @jacquelinemiller240 3 роки тому +9

    Was feeling realllly worried as the doctor was going through the list. Then I looked up the word circumlution which she said was a sign of dementia, and sure enough, spellcheck changed it to circumlocution! So glad I’m not the only one....

  • @annhinkelman8729
    @annhinkelman8729 3 роки тому +33

    Thank you for this brief & succinct video. First time I've heard about the vision issue, significant reduction in peripheral view, & the eventual limit to (almost) binocular size vision (width/height wise). No wonder an Alzheimer patient doesn't see the plate in front of them. Thank you again.

    • @yoboatsummer
      @yoboatsummer 2 роки тому

      Agree- I worked as a nurse in nursing homes and on dementia units for 26 years and never heard about the peripheral vision- if I did, I forgot about it. Great info!

    • @mjorgensen6303
      @mjorgensen6303 2 роки тому

      I have questioned our opthamologist every 6 months about this and he doesn't seem to have ever heard of it!

  • @ethelangelo5236
    @ethelangelo5236 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for the information very useful knowledge esp for seniors like me..

    • @Jenifer_G
      @Jenifer_G 3 роки тому

      Speak more slower and clearly.

  • @juliazembe2162
    @juliazembe2162 3 роки тому +2

    Its a very informative session indeed

  • @suecastillo4056
    @suecastillo4056 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you SO much! Sending health and peace to you♥️I’m a new subscriber now! YAY!!! Learned a lot on my first video here! 🤗

  • @lauramalizia9636
    @lauramalizia9636 3 роки тому +14

    Interesting about the food on your own plate not being visible in front of you. When I was in college I did do dietary aide in a nursing home. I always wondered why some residents would go after others' plates of food and if they were still able to walk, it was hard to get them to sit down and show them the same thing really is on their plate too.
    Thank you for explaining that so well 👍❤️

    • @mjorgensen6303
      @mjorgensen6303 2 роки тому

      This really is happening in our family and makes the "patient" very angry when reminded to turn their head to see what is around them.

    • @lauramalizia9636
      @lauramalizia9636 2 роки тому

      @@mjorgensen6303 😢

  • @ruthportway5198
    @ruthportway5198 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you, dry helpful

  • @gerardrikken
    @gerardrikken 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you! That was very informative.

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you enjoyed this video, you may also want to know that there's been recent research that uses a functional medicine approach to find possible root causes of Alzheimer's Disease!

  • @marlenemcmillan8891
    @marlenemcmillan8891 3 роки тому +3

    Very helpful information.
    I.have a friend who has some of these things

  • @sidoniewinterpasternak9938
    @sidoniewinterpasternak9938 3 роки тому +102

    Almost all of those are also the symptoms of being stressed out, distracted, overworked, pulled to too many directions

    • @jmj1546
      @jmj1546 3 роки тому +6

      ABSOLUTELY !

    • @enfield7123
      @enfield7123 3 роки тому +4

      Good comment I understand that

    • @alicesamekbenoit5990
      @alicesamekbenoit5990 3 роки тому

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    • @normagutierrez1627
      @normagutierrez1627 3 роки тому +2

      No..entirely different symptoms.

    • @oceanbrzzz
      @oceanbrzzz 3 роки тому +2

      @@normagutierrez1627 I agree. Stress, overwork causes temporary challenges and I’ve been there! My mother has Alzheimer’s where she completely forgets most short term info and a few of the others on this list. Very helpful video to just help me understand dementia and Alzheimer’s. My mother in law had dementia, when she talked it was “word salad” and she exhibited every one of these 10 signs. Such a sad time.

  • @paddyboycooper8858
    @paddyboycooper8858 2 роки тому +1

    my 71 year old mother has early stage dementia. her doctor said it was depression(her partner of 20 years passed away last year). i started noticing' she was forgetting what day of the week it was and keeping tons of notes for reminders. she still drives which worys me still pays the bills. i went to visit other day and she asked how was i related to her. that was heartbreaking now I'm really concerned

  • @marciamellow1211
    @marciamellow1211 3 роки тому +2

    Very informative ,Thank You...

  • @JP-dw1fp
    @JP-dw1fp 3 роки тому +160

    Why is this woman in a cage? She seems like a very calm nice woman. FREE MELISSA!

  • @annweinerth888
    @annweinerth888 2 роки тому +3

    The visual part I did not know. Having poor vision my whole life, I personally feel for those whose vision diminishes in such a way.

    • @jamesmiller1501
      @jamesmiller1501 2 роки тому

      Certainly sounds like his safety is an issue. Given that, you could also see if your local Adult Protective Services would be able to advise you on your options.

  • @jovi031566
    @jovi031566 2 роки тому

    I enjoyed watching and it’s very informative .

  • @EarlWallaceNYC
    @EarlWallaceNYC Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the insights.

  • @sheilalarkin1291
    @sheilalarkin1291 Рік тому +4

    For me at 72 aging has affected my cognitive abilities. Many of these symptoms describe my difficulties. Neurologist diagnosed aging. Frustrating to once have enjoyed a photogenic memory to searching for words to finish a sentence or research a topic for hours and yet later not have any recall of the subject matter. Now I make notes in an effort to forge the information to a state of permanence in my mind. Must say I resent these difficulties as I do not consider myself old. Oh well, one must charge ahead regardless of physical or cognitive problems. Such is life.

    • @nosuchthing8
      @nosuchthing8 11 місяців тому

      Photographic, not photogenic memory.
      You sound like you have fairly normal abilities now. I wish you well.

    • @sheilalarkin1291
      @sheilalarkin1291 11 місяців тому

      @@nosuchthing8 Siri thinks I speak Chinese, lol I know it’s photogenic thanks.

    • @sheilalarkin1291
      @sheilalarkin1291 11 місяців тому

      @@nosuchthing8 oops, did it again, lol “photographic”🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @nosuchthing8
      @nosuchthing8 11 місяців тому

      @@sheilalarkin1291 no worries, just go back and edit it. I'm on my phone making innumerable mistakes.

  • @susancampos8959
    @susancampos8959 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing warning signs of dementia . Helpful to know as I have aging family in California that I communicate with so asking general question s to see how they are doing will let me be aware of any health attention to be aware of. And it's informative as well for neighbor s around me also. Good to know.

    • @charlielanguellholt3877
      @charlielanguellholt3877 3 роки тому

      Hello how are you doing 😊😊

    • @blackfeel9172
      @blackfeel9172 Рік тому

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  • @pauline1791
    @pauline1791 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for easing my mind.

  • @michaeljonesdougherty.209
    @michaeljonesdougherty.209 2 роки тому

    Iam in the medical field & i use to worked with dementia and Alzheimer's disease .i Have older friends thats are HUSBAND and wife her husband is in a brain HEALTH home and now shes haveing trouble now . With her mind health i see a change in her. Scary stuff . Ive a busy work schedule at work ive been really not focus ¬ rembering had a TEST couple weeks ago at my.pcp i didnt do 100% on it😓 iam only 45yo . Gr8 video thankyou for shareing. I like yours & Tippy SNOW videos so gr8 helpfulness learning .

  • @susiethomson4483
    @susiethomson4483 2 роки тому +7

    unless you have taken care of a loved one with this horrible disease you have no idea how hard it is. There are times they seem normal, and other times they can be very mean and turn on you. It takes a lot out of you mentally and physically.

    • @douglasgriffiths3534
      @douglasgriffiths3534 Рік тому

      It happened to my mom, who was taking care of my dad who had Alzheimer's. I didn't witness the event, but mom told me what happened when I gave her a call. Seems dad got mad when he couldn't find the car keys (they had sold the car, since mom didn't drive, and dad was no longer capable of it). She reminded him that the car was gone. He got really angry and punched her in the face. She reacted, and decked him. Out cold. Of course, she was sorry and upset---I told her that maybe he was getting too much for her to deal with, and maybe he should go to a facility that deals with Alzheimer's patients. I live in another state, so I was not able to help them. I never blamed her for defending herself, and dad did go to a facility where he lived the rest of his life. My mom told me that her life was much better, and she could visit him, and not have to deal with his day to day care. (Jan Griffiths).

    • @alexmorgan3435
      @alexmorgan3435 Рік тому

      @@douglasgriffiths3534 OMG that was awful. Must have been very hard to deal with.

    • @alexmorgan3435
      @alexmorgan3435 Рік тому

      100% agree. It consumes your whole life. Your life is no longer your own.

  • @fifthof1795
    @fifthof1795 3 роки тому +7

    My cousin's husband developed early onset Alzheimer's at the young age of 54. He's 62 now , looks eighty and has no knowledge of who he is, who anyone is, can't speak or do anything for himself. He's needed 24 hour care for four years. So sad. I've known him almost as long as my cousin has. I got on with him so well and we had some good times over nearly four decades.

  • @rigon77
    @rigon77 Рік тому +1

    Found your video very interesting on Alzheimer’s. I’m 68 y/o and doing very well still as far as I can tell. My Dad has severe Dementia and talks to himself or persons who are not there. My dad is 89.