I'M A BAD FRIEND...?! FRIENDSHIP ANXIETY AND HOW TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS 💖💖💖
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In this video I talk all about friendship and cultivating new relationships in 2022!
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Hope some of you can relate to this. It’s weird because it might seem easy for me to be vulnerable, but it was kind of hard filming this…Hope it helped someone ❤️
I can definitely relate
I have the tendency to destroy relationships, especially if I feel like they are getting to close. I always had the mindset that having people get to close me scares me. During childhood, I had so many so called best friends gossip behind my back and have had group chats made about me that I just shut anyone down before they get the chance to. I would rather hurt someone else by deleting our friendship than to have someone so close to me emotionally and physically.
Thank you so much for sharing Barbara, it’s comforting to know others feel the way I do!! At 27 I find the biggest problem I have with maintaining friendships is I want the other person to put in as much energy to relationship as me. When that doesn’t happen I tend to push them away. I’m trying to work on that
I relate and have spoken about it in therapy. Most people feel like this and want a deep connection! Everyone is a little scared 😅 I always felt like I did all the work and always asked for a meet up but I learned that I need to let people have their space and the room to overcome their own fear to ask me to hangout. I think deep friendships are a lot like dating and the fear of feeling rejected by the other person. Building trust needs time and also clear communikation about your fears of this friendship. Last year I was able to rebuild a lot of deep friendships and over time I got my ladies together that i can speak to everyday (no friendgroup). Its hard work - like a romantic relationship. You have to really want to make it work and trust that the other person wants it too. 💛
Thank you so much for your comment so relatable my end!! X
You're honestly the most genuine person!.... I really need to find a person like You in my life! You're a GEM, wish more people were like you........ahhhh
Aww darling stop! I was so bloody nervous posting this!! Glad you related xx
@@ThePersianbabe My heart melted when you sent this response 💛
@@ThePersianbabe very beautiful💋💋💋👌😘
You had an amazing friendship with Shirleybeniang and this other influencer! I enjoyed watching you all
So nice hearing someone talk about this! ❤️ It’s definitely relatable and hard to talk about these things because it feels like no one can relate
I absolutely loved this conversation! I find deep, honest and real discussions like this so interesting and I totally relate to the feeling you’re talking about after spending time with someone when it’s a genuine connection you always leave feeling uplifted and happy inside. I wish we could meet in real life, I think we’d make great friends Barbs but I live in Australia! 💖💖💖
Maybe one day!!! Glad so many of you could relate ❤️
Realky interesting topic. I can relate as alot of friends I've made have been through work and then they ghost you once you've started a new job. It's a frustrating cycle
This is one of my favourite videos of yours, thank you for being vulnerable . I’ve never related to something as much 👏🏻 I would love some more like this please xxx
I'm having quite a hard time making friends right now, so I relate to a lot of things you say in this video xx
Something i've realised now im old, also 28 ;) is that TIME FLIES by. I recently text two friends after two years not speaking and it was soooo nice to reconnect, no problems, everyone is busy and has their own problems and it made me realise that i think everyone struggles with this topic
Awwwwwww Barbs! Can we be besties haha, but honestly from a person who doesn’t have any sisters or girl cousins, I grew up craving girl friendships, now I’m 29 and have an amazing group of friends. A lot of my friends are now married so we only see each other once every few months but that’s ok I think friends grow relationships grow and that’s ok. You seem like an amazing person so I hope you find your person, some of my best friends are girls I’ve met in my mid 20s
This resonated so well! 💖thanks for sharing hun! Been with you since you (and I) were both 17! Happy to connect if you like :)
Barbara, where’s your jumper from?! I don’t comment much, but I’m here since your last year in high school I think. I just love these kind of videos cause lot of us can relate. I just can’t watch anymore all of those vloggers who live lives most of us can only dream about. Wishing you all the best, lots of love from Croatia 🇭🇷💕🦄✨
My pisces queen! Love u
So relatable
Thank you so much x
You have no friends because you prioritise all your new relationships. No man can be everything for you. Friends are vital.
I sort of agree… I tend to focus on the people who I feel genuinely care ie mum, bf because I’ve been hurt in the past. My experience is that some people in my life just haven’t been happy for me and that’s why I push people away! Never ending circle that I’m trying to work on 😉
i like, am in love with you! even when i came to the clinic i felt we got on so well and i really resonate with this video. so hard to maintain and keep friends when you find it hard to be outspoken. just makes factual sense unless i’m asked i feel selfish to outrightly say what’s going on…tougher during covid times when we all have our own life’s going on. really sending you all the hugs in the world! always have my support 🥰
Wow this video was so relatable 🫶🏾
It's okay not to have "friends" :) besides - your mom, boyfriend, sister are also close people in your life and they are your friends
Great video Barbara I can relate to a lot of it . I also think it's hard when friends are in different stages of life such as having kids wtf. It can feel awkward if you are not at that stage and interests have changed
I have no friends and I’m ok with that. 🙏🙏
Im 28, im a Pisces, and i came to this country when i was 14 and omg have never related to everything you said so much in my life! thinking "im not going to message this person cause they probably dont want to hear from me" is such a Pisces things
Barbaraaaaaa! you are not aloneeeeee 💗💗💗💗💗
OMG sooo relatable! Thank you so much for this video
I totally feel you!!!!❤️
Thanks so much for sharing!! ❤️
So relate !! 😉
Jumper love where from ?
I think its from zara. Heres the number of the top 5536/122
I relate to this 100%
I relate so much 😔💕
where is your necklace from?😍
Please understand no friendship is perfect and you have to just work on it like a relationshioo
Totally agree! X
I love u Barbara
Hi Barbara, where is your jumper from please? It's a beautiful colour
Zara
@@ABCABC-vd6pl Thank you
I have people I talk to, but it's like if I had to cut them off tomorrow I would on a blink. It's extremely weird.