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  • @bl1429
    @bl1429 Рік тому +15

    Black women don't apologize. They explain the reason why they felt the way they did.
    THAT'S NOT AN APOLOGY.

  • @harrybawls4489
    @harrybawls4489 3 роки тому +576

    Hypocrisy 101: fat or unattractive guys are supposed to just deal with rejection from women. But fat and unattractive women expect men to just love them for who they are 🤔

    • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
      @mikhailabdurrachman2443 3 роки тому +59

      The double standard is at an all time high SMH 😒

    • @successfulchrist4112
      @successfulchrist4112 3 роки тому +33

      They don’t want equality

    • @BLKMENKINGS
      @BLKMENKINGS 3 роки тому +62

      But, if that fat or unattractive guy, especially BM, goes to date or marry a woman from another race or ethnicity, then they will get mad and angry.

    • @dewaynejames5470
      @dewaynejames5470 3 роки тому +56

      Yea they will say he’s weak and couldn’t handle a strong blk woman.. 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @sha_black
      @sha_black 3 роки тому

      Right, that's how it's supposed to be 🙄🤦🏿‍♂️😒

  • @Deshawn1
    @Deshawn1 3 роки тому +1193

    Time Stamps
    Introduction
    00:01 Pre show songs. My love by Adelyn Paik
    3:44 Don't Keep me down by Minsoo feat Adelyn Paik
    7:17 Giants Nest by Daphne Blue
    10:29 O Além é Aqui by Clara Mendes
    16:50 Opening show theme song. Good lies by Vividry
    21:54 Candle of the evening LE LABO LAURIER 62. Fragrance of the evening Roja Dove Diaghilev
    23:30 Tonight, critics and detractors welcomed
    25:34 Are you making men happy? Jeezy and Jeannie Mai Jenkins , Jazy and Beyoncé
    27:22 The gift of goodbye
    30:28 Get the likes up theme song
    32:16 Ladies, learn to apologize, Fellas, listen up
    39:12 AMS statement
    43:50 Who do you need to apologize to?
    51:30 Don't let it be too late
    53:49 1st Caller Brandy, married
    59:20 Kevin is the Antichrist
    1:01:22 Shoutout to Anton Daniels
    1:05:10 2nd Caller No sound, video will be uploaded later
    1:10:12 Divorce care explanation
    1:11:18 3rd Caller Yana age 42
    1:26:50 4th Caller Tiffany age 38
    1:39:40 5th Caller Ash age 27
    1:47:50 6th Caller Jemilla age 29
    2:15:57 7th Caller Tierre age 30
    2:25:00 Show shut down, next show is overtime.

  • @islandbound843
    @islandbound843 3 роки тому +649

    This is real. I have a female associate that would rather relationship hop than self assess, apologize, and adjust her behavior. As soon as her partner at the time calls her on her shit and demands changed behavior, she starts feeling the pressure and exits the relationship. Next relationship, same story. She won’t listen to me and her female friends support the behavior so the cycle continues.

    • @charliedelta4448
      @charliedelta4448 3 роки тому +23

      You have my condolences….

    • @sagatuppercut2960
      @sagatuppercut2960 3 роки тому +89

      I'll bet she says her past relationships were "toxic."

    • @islandbound843
      @islandbound843 3 роки тому +23

      @@sagatuppercut2960 “toxic” or “it just didn’t work out”

    • @fevrenevanescence6901
      @fevrenevanescence6901 3 роки тому +43

      I bet you she knows how to act at her job , and monitors her BS when she's at work.

    • @islandbound843
      @islandbound843 3 роки тому +23

      @@sagatuppercut2960 “controlling” is also another buzz word she uses

  • @barrycarrington5699
    @barrycarrington5699 3 роки тому +125

    My 33 years on this Earth I've never heard a woman apologize when she was wrong never on the other hand I seen men apologize when they're right including myself...🤔

    • @davewade6712
      @davewade6712 3 роки тому +13

      They apologize when they're out of options months or years later. Apologies don't guarantee getting back with someone.

    • @barrycarrington5699
      @barrycarrington5699 3 роки тому +16

      @@jesussdame7924 look you goofy ass keyboard gangster I said what i said you can't tell me about my life so go reply to someone that will go back and forth with you because I'm not...

    • @nrc91
      @nrc91 3 роки тому +5

      @@davewade6712 you’re right. That’s the only time I’ve had an ex apologize. Years later smh

    • @onikapinkk
      @onikapinkk 3 роки тому +2

      youre right women dont like to apologize but everytime im in the wrong i feel guilty and i do apologize

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles 3 роки тому +3

      @@jesussdame7924 your society is crumbling twat. enjoy it. hahaha

  • @REGALSUNFLOWER
    @REGALSUNFLOWER 3 роки тому +628

    It’s like poetry for me watching this man eloquently dismantle the problematic mindsets of modern day women. I appreciate his efforts and I continue to grow as I hear the logic and science behind his perspective!! I am adult enough to separate the entertainment aspects and take in the fundamentals. Grateful for this platform!! ❤️❤️❤️💪🏽💪🏽

    • @eastwood2414
      @eastwood2414 3 роки тому +18

      Well said 🙌🏿🙌🏿. YOU get it.

    • @gisselletoro
      @gisselletoro 3 роки тому +6

      Bravo! Yes!

    • @classicbullyprincesscarla1079
      @classicbullyprincesscarla1079 3 роки тому +12

      You are modern women. Get it together and apologize.

    • @REGALSUNFLOWER
      @REGALSUNFLOWER 3 роки тому +9

      @@classicbullyprincesscarla1079 👍🏾

    • @sedricclay3516
      @sedricclay3516 3 роки тому +9

      Thanks for understand and trying to grow from dis not be side track with the entertainment

  • @sincityquinn
    @sincityquinn 3 роки тому +48

    My girl literally just did what the 42 year old woman with a 2 year old did. She lied by omission. I called her out because I knew she wasn’t telling the whole story. And SHE got an attitude with me. You hit it on the head again!

    • @Zeeno
      @Zeeno 3 роки тому +3

      Then she shouldn't be your girl 🤷‍♂️. I don't know your situation but just don't put up with it

    • @sincityquinn
      @sincityquinn 3 роки тому +2

      @@Zeeno I didn’t. That’s why she got an attitude.

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming 3 роки тому +596

    It's funny how all of Kevin's enemies would hide in the corners and hate on him but wouldn't call in whenever he keeps his smoke show. They're just cowards

    • @AbhishekKumar7
      @AbhishekKumar7 3 роки тому +35

      To be honest- that’s because Kevin controls the show and will mute/voice over/talk over to make his narrative over power the caller, to make a point to his audience. It is entertaining. But if he wanted to really address his critics, he would relinquish control to a third party for his smoke show. That would be very interesting but he’d never do it ;)

    • @fread51
      @fread51 3 роки тому +90

      @@AbhishekKumar7 that wouldn't be interesting that will be stupid you calling into his show just like me coming to your house and just going in your refrigerator without asking you how the hell you going to let somebody else control your show you're smoking crack dude get the f*** out of here

    • @fread51
      @fread51 3 роки тому +20

      They're saving it for Instagram and Twitter and Facebook this guy openly advice them to come chat or debate they don't do it

    • @finished6267
      @finished6267 3 роки тому +19

      The Bullies are cowards. The rest are just scared.

    • @ssuleiman9052
      @ssuleiman9052 3 роки тому +12

      Hiding behind a keyboard throwing Stones and shade wherever they see an opportunity to troll and attack. Some ppl still need so much time to grow up and evolve

  • @heatherferguson9589
    @heatherferguson9589 11 місяців тому +2

    I am hooked on his videos. I love the directness you get from this man. He is what women need to listen to. I only wish I had this direction in my 20s.

  • @riosonko8103
    @riosonko8103 3 роки тому +809

    It’s CRAZY how accurate this man is..He is the voice for millions of us men..

    • @itsjmurray4176
      @itsjmurray4176 3 роки тому +24

      He is the voice OF millions of men. But I get what you saying brother.

    • @leichaurellelux7547
      @leichaurellelux7547 3 роки тому +2

      Very accurate she saying all they eat is salad. 😂😂😂
      God made you to overeat 😂😂😂
      We want to maintain our weight to be better and we the problem.
      When I was 30 I saw so many younger girls 8 to 20 overweight.

    • @andregolden5902
      @andregolden5902 3 роки тому +3

      @@leichaurellelux7547 potato salad, and taco salad are salads! Lol

    • @badaski4294
      @badaski4294 3 роки тому +1

      *billions

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 3 роки тому +3

      That's why these women run💯 get them Kevin

  • @Jimmy1K_
    @Jimmy1K_ 3 роки тому +228

    Bruh this is the uncle we needed growing up you cannot hate on this man I’m sorry 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @hugoveimau-contreras3944
      @hugoveimau-contreras3944 3 роки тому +3

      Fully agree

    • @pervertedatbest4117
      @pervertedatbest4117 3 роки тому +1

      @Andy Cane who they?...lol

    • @pervertedatbest4117
      @pervertedatbest4117 3 роки тому +1

      @Andy Cane unsure of your percentages. Modern "so called" independent feminazi...I would agree. BW hate just about everything - so they don't count.

    • @Bohemianbiker1k
      @Bohemianbiker1k 3 роки тому +3

      Wish I had this uncle

    • @malcM.A.D.E.
      @malcM.A.D.E. 3 роки тому +2

      That’s why I always call him Unc. Reminds me of the old heads I grew up with

  • @rochstan123
    @rochstan123 3 роки тому +95

    Problem is, a lot of black women never think they're wrong, so as far as they're concerned there's nothing to apologise for.

    • @JP-lw3bt
      @JP-lw3bt 3 роки тому

      Then that sends us to other races to be appreciated......give a damn what race they are

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 3 роки тому +2

      Reason I don’t deal with my mother now.

  • @ariyah84
    @ariyah84 3 роки тому +65

    “I apologize” 🎶
    By Anita Baker…classic song and still VERY true ❤️

    • @overcometru1
      @overcometru1 3 роки тому +4

      Your sooo beautiful

    • @ariyah84
      @ariyah84 3 роки тому +2

      @@overcometru1 thank you 🙏🏾❤️

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому +4

      Indeed. Anita is one of my four fave female voices of all time 😎👍🏿

    • @ariyah84
      @ariyah84 3 роки тому +4

      @@AffluentBlacks indeed! She’s up there with Sade for me ❤️

    • @mrdreloaded4049
      @mrdreloaded4049 3 роки тому +2

      Anita was a very classy lady! Her style, along with that of Sade and Stephanie Mills is needed to be more mainstream today more than ever....

  • @atstafford10
    @atstafford10 3 роки тому +63

    I am widowed, my husband and I would always apologize to one another. We never ever went to bed angry, never. We rarely even argued, I believe, because he did his man thing, and I did my woman thing so well. We laughed a lot and shared everything. His older brother stayed with us for a while and had the bedroom next to ours, he said he would miss most of all our laughter and love play in the morning and at night. He has been gone for 5 years now. I am certain I will never marry again, because I can't imagine being that close to another man, ever. What I've noticed about women is that they talk too much about nothing, and like to carry on, and on, and on... This is a turn-off for anyone let alone a man! Women will never share in a happy home with a man with that kind of behavior.

    • @Domestikos88
      @Domestikos88 3 роки тому +5

      Very touching to hear how loving, inspiring, and the sense of equanimity born out of the connection you had which obviously raised the bar for you both. What a special world the two of you created. Thank you for sharing that.
      I laughed a bit upon reading your final statement about talking too much about nothing. It resonated with me in this sense: I lived abroad in 2nd & 3rd world like environments for many many years without returning home and when I did end up coming back to live in the US, I had severe difficulties re-integrating back into 'modern' society. First and foremost, one of the toughest parts of being back home was noticing that people in general talked very loudly and generally about nothing. Hard not to notice how inflated people's sense of self was. At times, it was quite difficult to be around people in general because conversations seemed to reside on a superficial level. Despite the free flow of information at our fingertips here, we tend to live in and construct our own little bubbles that cater to distorted presumptions about the world and our sense of self.

    • @oxossindamanso6854
      @oxossindamanso6854 3 роки тому +3

      Peace to You My Sister ❣

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому +2

      Correct. God bless you. The apostle Paul, using the spirit of discernment, correctly said that single women are busy bodies who gossip and should get married. And that was 2,000 years ago so nothing has changed.

    • @redpillredpill3216
      @redpillredpill3216 3 роки тому +2

      Facts!

    • @brandysoyer487
      @brandysoyer487 3 роки тому +2

      Same ...it has been seven years since mine passed. Mine will say dont go ever go to sleep angry...i am 43 years old nw with a seven year old girl who grieves for her father...that forty something year old woman with the two year old and tbat attitude was so painful to watch!

  • @fairviewgreensmade
    @fairviewgreensmade 3 роки тому +28

    "Yo baby daddy don't even want to be wit you"😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tendaroni
    @tendaroni 3 роки тому +162

    I think the only thing that should come after an apology is consistency in changed behavior.

    • @darcsun9766
      @darcsun9766 3 роки тому +1

      Wrong

    • @detroitvcw
      @detroitvcw 3 роки тому +1

      Sincerity...display it in alignment with the offense.

    • @africancommunity8907
      @africancommunity8907 3 роки тому

      Precisely

    • @tendaroni
      @tendaroni 3 роки тому +1

      @@darcsun9766 No? You don’t feel like changed behavior is that important? Just apologize, pay your consequence? I guess I just believe the consequence should be changed behavior. Simply paying a fine is a system we already have that continues to produce repeat offenders.

    • @darcsun9766
      @darcsun9766 3 роки тому +4

      @@tendaroni Sorry is meant for spilled milked, inadvertently bumping someone. An apology is when you do something to intentionally hurt somebody for whatever reason. So not only have you misused someone's trust but you did so to cause pain. That is to egregious in nature to accept mere words when your word has been proven as untrustworthy.

  • @damongillian8446
    @damongillian8446 3 роки тому +51

    You always hear the saying "happy wife happy life". I say "happy Man Happy Fam"✊🏾

    • @leonoraknox679
      @leonoraknox679 3 роки тому +5

      Happy spouse, peaceful house.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles 3 роки тому +1

      happiness is NOT sustainable. that's the reality for many. sure you could be happy for a whole year nobody cares because there will be decades that follow where you can't reach that happiness (high) again but you may try. and chasing that high will only bring you ruin but that's okay. destruction is necessary part of a failed organization/union.

  • @terrencelee9366
    @terrencelee9366 3 роки тому +293

    Being short and being fat are not the same thing . Women literally disqualify men for things they can’t control or improve but expect men to accept things they do to themselves

    • @lightskinanticsjiggin8129
      @lightskinanticsjiggin8129 3 роки тому +5

      Yup

    • @roolyfe
      @roolyfe 3 роки тому +7

      So true!

    • @lyledavis7175
      @lyledavis7175 3 роки тому +9

      I think the short male comparison works better with pretty vs. ugly women.
      Women certainly can’t control that. BTW, I’m a 5’9” black male- can’t recall ever being called short or turned-down for being this height.
      However, I have definitely turned away women for not being good looking, even with a banging body.

    • @terrencelee9366
      @terrencelee9366 3 роки тому +19

      @@lyledavis7175 5’9 is average anything less women look at as less

    • @H..M..
      @H..M.. 3 роки тому +19

      A few friends and I ran ourselves through the Female Delusion Calculator recently. We are all 45-45, 3 of us married, all 6 figure incomes. The guy who made the most money was the least desirable because he is only 5’8”, and the guy who made the least money was most desirable(rarest) because he is the youngest and is 6’3”.
      Most of the guys women want by spec are in their 40’s and probably married. And part and parcel of being an HVT is usually taking care of ourselves physically, as well as taking care of business. The women calling in are like hunters who don’t know anything about their prey, and when Kevin explains it, they don’t know what he is talking about.

  • @dawnwells4581
    @dawnwells4581 3 місяці тому +2

    He's absolutely right especially when he talks about the weight so many women are fat are always wearing clothes that don't fit wow

  • @motherlifther955
    @motherlifther955 2 роки тому +3

    The music is always so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your impeccable taste.

  • @londonparker9716
    @londonparker9716 3 роки тому +85

    Damn hearing this man tell me about my life and pain and struggles and inner thought without ever meeting me or talking to me is unbelievable and a blessing . I wish this man was around when I was 18 . Man would my life have been different

  • @maarifawalcott5145
    @maarifawalcott5145 3 роки тому +57

    Mr. Samuels you are absolutely right about this: apologizing is one of the most difficult things for women to do - even when they know they are wrong - especially to a man.

  • @keybearer26
    @keybearer26 3 роки тому +104

    Hey ladies and gents...MTR just found out he has cancer....let's all head to his page and support that brotha even more than we do now because he definitely is gonna need the love..

    • @sreid6545
      @sreid6545 3 роки тому +7

      Oh no not MTR!! 😱 Lord cover this man, heal him and bless him so he can continue to do great work for our ppl, amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 3 роки тому

      Wait what

    • @keybearer26
      @keybearer26 3 роки тому +1

      @@grindhard4312 He just found out that he has testicular cancer

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles 3 роки тому

      @@keybearer26 wtf? no way!

    • @amani2222
      @amani2222 Місяць тому

      Who is MTR?

  • @cbpgmc
    @cbpgmc 3 роки тому +92

    To the girl that said she’s 29 almost 30 and she is who she is: that’s bullshit. My wife is 40 years old and weighs 140 lbs at 5’6 and we’ve had 3 kids. She works out daily and is fine as hell. She eats right and doesn’t let herself go. There is always room to work out and work on yourself. It’s not too late. Stop telling yourself that, hit the gym and stop making excuses!!

    • @suciojay1604
      @suciojay1604 3 роки тому +12

      that's easy for us to say, but these women are serious psychologically impaired. They cannot see themselves anyway, but what they are. Discipline for people who never had any real structure growing up, is very very difficult. I'm sure she wants to lose weight, but the work that is involved frightens her. Not to be mean, but this is how natural selection works. You pass this one by and she has to either do better, once she hits rock bottom, or sadly die alone. This is why women that don't have the will to change constantly change the terminology and other factors to satisfy their feelings.

    • @cbpgmc
      @cbpgmc 3 роки тому +4

      @@suciojay1604 maybe you’re right. It’s just sad. She’s cute and if she dropped some weight she could get the type of men she wanted.

    • @suciojay1604
      @suciojay1604 3 роки тому +2

      @@cbpgmc you and I both know this, but it doesn't matter until these women truly internalize and know it. They nod, but don't live the truth. I always hear push back about "well, you don't work out with me." Then when you do they don't want to be pushed, or complain about what it takes to lose weight.

    • @tymejefferson8515
      @tymejefferson8515 3 роки тому

      That's real talk

    • @visionsofablackherstorian
      @visionsofablackherstorian 3 роки тому +1

      She's not making excuses. Shes saying that she accepts being fat. Just because YOU hate fat people, don't mean that fat people hate themselves.

  • @redknight6077
    @redknight6077 3 роки тому +465

    Listening to how women were before and how they are now, how marriage took such a marked hit from the 1960's and onward, I can safely say that feminism did nothing but destroy the happiness of both men and women, mostly women.

    • @Saint-Christopher
      @Saint-Christopher 3 роки тому +73

      Feminism freed men for traditional roles and the sexual liberation gave men access to easy sex with no strings attached. Women pushed out men and GOT gov laws and support$ to place out men. It took years for women to realize how in the long run it hurt them the most. Devastating to modern children, family values and many wrecked the community value systems that maintain what's most important. Sad reality. Men can't be blamed anymore. It's what they wanted.

    • @Peacheswillalwaysloveyou
      @Peacheswillalwaysloveyou 3 роки тому +16

      It hurt in the long run as far as marriage and family but I think it got it all twisted back then man could be married cheat on you and leave you in the dirt with nothing after having their children and supporting them and or just keep cheating you and they in ew you couldn’t leave because you couldn’t work and a lot of men did not let their women work back then it wasn’t the norm I think feminism was just suppose to help women be independent as far as if you got married and had kids and you decided to be q traditional home maker and your husband decided to leave or is a frequent cheater that women would have a options to choose to stay or to leave and not be left with nothing but now a days women have taken Ada vantage of everything that was suppose to help us not take advantage of men and creating broken families
      Women now a days have all their priorities wrong and are abusing men same as men abusing women I feel like a lot of people just don’t have morals anymore or honor or any kind of decency

    • @user-rn3rn6nl3h
      @user-rn3rn6nl3h 3 роки тому +23

      That was the plan, the destruction of the nuclear family.

    • @Saint-Christopher
      @Saint-Christopher 3 роки тому +20

      @@Peacheswillalwaysloveyou that's when marriage was honored by women who'd allow a man to provide and protect. Moden women have abused marriage to death. Men have watched this for the past few decades and it became obvious. These women can't be provided and protected anymore. They are all about themselves. Protect and provide for your children not a woman.

    • @BegodeEx30
      @BegodeEx30 3 роки тому +21

      Those who initiated the 2nd wave of the Feminist movement encouraging women to be more promiscuous under the slogan of sexual liberation & instilling in them they don't need a man (the same men they'll carry out their sexual liberation with), they should be given the Greatest Pimp Award in the History of the World. No pimp in the history of pimping has ever smooth talk so many women to be prostitutes as the 2nd wave Feminist leaders & promoters have, not even remotely close.

  • @t.bjammer6236
    @t.bjammer6236 3 роки тому +327

    It’s crazy how women keep resisting the weight issue. I don’t want any woman that’s bigger than me. It’s not attractive but we can’t tell y’all that. Why is it so hard to understand that being obese is not desirable? It’s like we are villains telling simple truths.

    • @originaleverythingelseisca5977
      @originaleverythingelseisca5977 3 роки тому +36

      I agree I'm petite. But its because alot of black low earning men holler at everything and in our culture thick women get much more attention from men. And so women have been taught by yall that thick and fat us desirable even though folks ain't marrying them

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому

      @t.b jammer! How much do you weight

    • @markoslaguna2625
      @markoslaguna2625 3 роки тому +3

      it's not that you can't, you don't want and choose not to avoid dealing with them

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому +9

      Indeed. Answer: The delusion force is strong with modern women. Everything they do is acceptable in their own eyes but not everyone else's 👀

    • @redpillredpill3216
      @redpillredpill3216 3 роки тому +14

      @Jody Marshall Agreed! Women who are thick have feminine muscle mass. More muscle mass with a minimal layer of fat over it. Fat and sloppy is not thick! Just fat!!

  • @kenwilliams5048
    @kenwilliams5048 3 роки тому +75

    I've had to end a relationship because, Not only could she not apologize, but she also didn't know how to accept an apology. A relationship should not feel like doing prison time.

    • @onikapinkk
      @onikapinkk 3 роки тому +1

      toxic .

    • @jacksonquinn8744
      @jacksonquinn8744 3 роки тому +3

      I used to be in something like that. Definitely vet the next one to the best of your ability

  • @NorthridgeManorAlum
    @NorthridgeManorAlum 3 роки тому +7

    This is powerful. I gave my ex wife several chances to apologize before and after we separated. She either doubled down on her stance or gave an underhanded bootleg apology. She can keep them now because I don't want them or her.

  • @DeirdreSenior
    @DeirdreSenior 3 місяці тому

    I found Kevins page after his passing.He was a blessing to us all.I love his intro music, Good lies and Money World are my favorites .RIParadise❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BlkKnt69
    @BlkKnt69 4 місяці тому

    Shame, insults, guilt, need to be right and enthusiastically defiant.
    SIGNED

  • @kennyking4554
    @kennyking4554 3 роки тому +272

    Quote from a lady super-chat member called Mia Hariley:
    "Thank you so much for your content! I have learned so much!!! I started back training to get my weight down to the right KG and healthy BMI. I have taken etiquette classes and have made the changes forward. You are adored, honoured and appreciated! Peace upon you"

    • @ronaldmcdonald3965
      @ronaldmcdonald3965 3 роки тому +23

      A lot of people need etiquette classes

    • @ssuleiman9052
      @ssuleiman9052 3 роки тому +12

      I'm happy to hear you took action and are making the necessary changes for the outcome you desire. More power to you and god bless

    • @conscienceone1983
      @conscienceone1983 3 роки тому +7

      Beautiful, preparing herself for the Man She deserves, and go get him....and you will....and he will stay.

    • @lemecmortel490
      @lemecmortel490 3 роки тому +4

      These women have a hard time to answer a direct question.

    • @Oenomaus556
      @Oenomaus556 3 роки тому +1

      What the name of the cologne on the desk.

  • @Dwight_Chayer
    @Dwight_Chayer 3 роки тому +55

    Idk why but every time I see Kevin get up and walk around and I hear those hard bottoms clacking I say that's some grown man ish and dedication! Cause you never see his shoes but you can damn sure hear them!

  • @shellsopinion5837
    @shellsopinion5837 3 роки тому +36

    Kevin, when you mentioned that issue at Spellman College it reminded me of a Netflix show where they were following this college band at an HBCU. The Majorettes were so big that the Band director was worried they wouldn’t be able to fit in their uniforms before football season started. It’s a shame.

    • @jalil3579
      @jalil3579 3 роки тому +1

      Facts

    • @thabeatchef
      @thabeatchef 3 роки тому +1

      Pure Facts!!! I remember that show very well

    • @solosix3991
      @solosix3991 3 роки тому

      THAT show was absolute fire. I almost hurt myself with the laughs that took control of me.
      (I'm going to look that show up now, because by now I've repaired the damage done to my ribs and my furniture.)

  • @7RB373
    @7RB373 3 роки тому +27

    OMG it's ridiculous, does a woman WANT to be fat? Kevin's response to that woman was so effing ON POINT, it's truly amazing ! Just lose weight, ladies!! Why do you want to carry all that fat around? IT's exhausting! I was exhausted when I was only 10 pounds overweight. I just really enjoy listening to Kevin, he's really something else and really makes a person THINK. And also, you're losing weight for YOU! IT's not just to please a man, there's only good that will come of getting rid of the excess fat and being healthy! Win win.

    • @ethibodeaux7
      @ethibodeaux7 2 роки тому

      She tried so hard to excuse it

    • @gregh2880
      @gregh2880 Рік тому

      I lost count of the number of times I heard KS say, "Ladies, if you know what men want, why don't you give it to them!?" Truth bomb.

  • @zBryRobinson
    @zBryRobinson 3 роки тому +104

    Black men literally have the shortest life span because we put up with this madness

    • @leonoraknox679
      @leonoraknox679 3 роки тому +3

      I'm worried about you all getting gunned down for no reason.

    • @JazzyJeff910
      @JazzyJeff910 3 роки тому +15

      Facts. Not only from a dating perspective. These women are our sisters, cousins, mothers, aunts and etc. The cycle doesn’t stop with only the women we choose to date.

    • @redpillredpill3216
      @redpillredpill3216 3 роки тому +9

      @@JazzyJeff910 Exactly! That’s why I cut ties with my sister and my mother. It’s tragic but for twenty years I tried to have a balanced relationship with then but all they use is S.I.G.N. language to communicate. From the age of 20 to 40 they didn’t do the work to change. So I moved on with my family to a life of peace. I’m 51 now.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles 3 роки тому

      @@leonoraknox679 what are you going to do about it? cry more?

    • @whitehavencpu6813
      @whitehavencpu6813 3 роки тому

      Damn lmao...

  • @Zoofactory
    @Zoofactory 3 роки тому +64

    Celebrating 16 years of marriage today….We are in it to win it and it is so worth it! Highly Recommended! 😁

    • @successtosignificance
      @successtosignificance 3 роки тому +1

      Congrats 🍾🎊🎈🎉👰🏾‍♀️🤵🏾‍♂️❤️🙏🏾

  • @nicklausb
    @nicklausb 3 роки тому +86

    I feel for the big girl who was asking why men don't like big girls, but she is showing that she just isn't going to put in much effort to please a man.

    • @whatsyourculturebution285
      @whatsyourculturebution285 3 роки тому +20

      She acting like she plugged to a tube being force fed. Woman, stop eating! Damn!!

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому +10

      Exactly. I think her problem is that she's never had a real male role model figure around her to level set her.

    • @nicklausb
      @nicklausb 3 роки тому +6

      I've seen it over and over, and even in my family...... women bring kids up with 0 discipline and after they are grown, very few can muster the strength to acquire the discipline they need later in life. YOU HAVE TO TEACH KIDS DISCIPLINE EARLY.
      You can force them to get right later, but not in this society. Whatever drastic measures will get them in line will get you in jail. Only the system is allowed to straighten them out at that point.

    • @sreid6545
      @sreid6545 3 роки тому +1

      Never feel bad for fat women 🤮

    • @nicklausb
      @nicklausb 3 роки тому +3

      @@sreid6545 why? They often have parents who screwed them up in the first place. It's not totally their fault. But that argument can be used for serial killers and armed robbers, as well. So.. maybe you have a point.

  • @Cedric-Cortez
    @Cedric-Cortez 3 роки тому +529

    “Girl you’re not fat.” They’re literally out here lying to each other to not hurt feelings. People who care about you will tell you the truth, because they want you to succeed no matter how bad it is.

    • @cedrictaylor227
      @cedrictaylor227 3 роки тому +8

      Yep!!

    • @leichaurellelux7547
      @leichaurellelux7547 3 роки тому +22

      The reason most of us woman lie is we either do not care or want the energy other woman may give once we speak of an observable fat fact.
      Some woman talk nicely to there friends and it does not work at all what you get is excuses and resentment and ghosting you because they do not want to be around you because in their eyes you look confident and smaller even with your own flaws or you out here getting results.

    • @jasonvoorhies6431
      @jasonvoorhies6431 3 роки тому +46

      If women tell each other the truth they wouldn’t have any gossip or any friends. Then play shocked when their fat friend dies of a heart attack at 53.

    • @thechosenone7875
      @thechosenone7875 3 роки тому +13

      Yup! They say that because they don’t truly care or are afraid that she will actually lose weight and start getting more attention than them. Look how all these overweight women bashed Adele for losing all that weight. It’s because they aren’t willing to put in the work so they try to keep you on their level.

    • @KardiFan2000
      @KardiFan2000 3 роки тому +18

      @@leichaurellelux7547 Translation...the only way you can stay friends with other women is by making them "feel good" and not being transparent.

  • @Dadnatron
    @Dadnatron 3 роки тому +276

    The problem in my marriage, is that for several years before marriage, she showed care... everything I desired. Within 6mo of the ring going on, she had quit, become demanding and entitled, and we were in counseling at MY request. 4 years (too long) and 3 counselors later, I'm filing for divorce. That ring and piece of paper are NOT shackles and if you think you've won after getting the ring and we will tolerate bad behavior, you are mistaken. I'm currently divorcing this woman, but have felt divorced for the last 3 years. I just tried and tried and tried to NOT have been wrong. I was wrong... I chose poorly. But I've allowed myself the gift of goodbye, 2 years too late... but none the less. I'll take my 6/6/6 and be happier alone, at least for a while.

    • @morbidone88
      @morbidone88 3 роки тому +23

      Jesus.. Shes for the streets$

    • @thetruthhurts131
      @thetruthhurts131 3 роки тому +50

      Yup get out of there. Also get out the house and only be around her in public or with a recorder. This is when women start to make false accusations.

    • @morbidone88
      @morbidone88 3 роки тому +2

      @@thetruthhurts131 yuppppp

    • @ibrahimambodji3220
      @ibrahimambodji3220 3 роки тому +6

      Head up king👑

    • @YukoCute
      @YukoCute 3 роки тому +5

      What is 6/6/6 and where can I find more information

  • @calit5861
    @calit5861 3 роки тому +2

    The excuses for NOT losing weight are soooo frustrating!.. I'm soo tired of women not wanting to be healthy 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
    The lack of discipline is ridiculous and just a clear sign of laziness! 🤬

    • @andrewjackson9948
      @andrewjackson9948 3 роки тому

      She said food is a love language....

    • @sydneemikumuren9812
      @sydneemikumuren9812 3 роки тому +1

      A lot of it is just poor education. You've got all these nonsense gimmicks on how to lose weight that sell you crap that helps temporarily or doesn't help at all. Calories in, calories out it's that simple, but these stupid weight loss teas, fat loss pills and other crap give people false hope and when it doesn't work they give up.

  • @chellebelle5743
    @chellebelle5743 3 роки тому +77

    It was a struggle for me to humble myself to truly apologize to my husband when I messed up. Thank God I learned how to apologize before it was too late. Godfather is speaking facts! Ladies, with all due respect, we HAVE to do better here. Admitting fault is not a sign of weakness, it is quite the opposite.

    • @alexblaze8878
      @alexblaze8878 3 роки тому +12

      That’s great that you learned before it was too late. Us men are very forgiving if we receive a genuine heartfelt apology but we hold a grudge that builds into resentment when our woman won’t own up to her wrongs.

    • @finished6267
      @finished6267 3 роки тому +5

      Good for you. Enjoy your marriage and cherish your duty. I'm sure your husband cherishes you.

    • @BigShowDoG
      @BigShowDoG 3 роки тому +12

      It's sad that that's even a revelation to grown women

    • @Lovely0714
      @Lovely0714 3 роки тому +2

      Why was it a struggle for u?

    • @trueindeed1569
      @trueindeed1569 3 роки тому +5

      @@BigShowDoG facts

  • @antonydrossos5719
    @antonydrossos5719 3 роки тому +12

    Even if they learn to apologize, that isn't the point. The point is ACCOUNTABILITY!
    My ex apologized to me once for her emotional & spiritual abuse (it's a thing; look it up), and went RIGHT BACK to the same behavior two days later.

    • @whatwhat4226
      @whatwhat4226 3 роки тому +2

      I literally just experienced this.

    • @keivaturner6251
      @keivaturner6251 3 роки тому +5

      The best apology is changed behavior, that’s how it’s noted that a person took accountability. Some people’s “I’m sorry” is so empty.

  • @darrenjoness2397
    @darrenjoness2397 3 роки тому +217

    This show confirms why I keep my engagement with women at an absolute minimum, apart from sex and just necessary interactions. Men who do the most work for women, get the most grief from women. Men who don't put in much work get most of the benefits. That's why most men can't be bothered dealing with them.

    • @jeffsmith8065
      @jeffsmith8065 3 роки тому +7

      Das facts bro

    • @miguelcastaneda19781
      @miguelcastaneda19781 3 роки тому +5

      So true!!!

    • @vanaphill2454
      @vanaphill2454 3 роки тому +8

      Men who provide and protect have no issues with the right woman.

    • @vanaphill2454
      @vanaphill2454 3 роки тому +4

      Darren women feel the same way about you. Some men want sex for free. Sex isn't free. So if you can't pay you can't play so stay away.

    • @riosonko8103
      @riosonko8103 3 роки тому +2

      Fact

  • @gregh2880
    @gregh2880 Рік тому +1

    This man is a true Blessing.

  • @pc7970
    @pc7970 3 роки тому +35

    People criticize this man for being divorced, yet the ones criticizing him have horrible track records themselves and have no substance. Imagine taking advice from Lisa Ray, Vivica Fox or a video vixen. These are the types that personally attack him.

  • @kennyking4554
    @kennyking4554 3 роки тому +562

    This amazing show will NEVER ran outta content. Mediocre callers will continue to prove The Godfather right that if they continue moving and/ or operating from a position of delusional entitlement, pride and ego which causes them to be UNACCOUNTABLE when they're wrong, it'll only get rough for them in the dating pool as they age.

    • @archanglemercuri
      @archanglemercuri 3 роки тому +30

      Some of them have learned how to responded with words of their own accountability…it sounds like this “okay… can I ask you question?”

    • @carlsmith2812
      @carlsmith2812 3 роки тому +4

      Good point Kenny!

    • @Ben-Ken
      @Ben-Ken 3 роки тому +8

      @@archanglemercuri LOL. That is so annoying. "Okay... but what about" is the same thing as "whatever". My kid does the same thing and I tell him it's disrespectful. Grown women often do the same thing.

    • @glennpassmore8441
      @glennpassmore8441 3 роки тому +3

      Not sure of using the word godfather, however and unfortunately it is going to take them (women) to hit rock bottom to turn it around. Won't happen in my lifetime but I hear you. And understand what you mean.

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 3 роки тому +10

      All they have to do is be nice and lose the damn weight. All those simps keep gasing up these sassy fat chicks, and this is where we are. 🤷🏻‍♂️😵‍💫

  • @jfelton3583
    @jfelton3583 3 роки тому +419

    How a woman can get mad at a man for asking her questions to learn about the woman he's dealing with is beyond me. Especially when she's 40+ with a toddler that ain't his. "Meep meep"

    • @AbhishekKumar7
      @AbhishekKumar7 3 роки тому +56

      Not only that, she got mad and started showing attitude when he CAUGHT her lying by omission and deceiving and asked for an explanation!

    • @finished6267
      @finished6267 3 роки тому +21

      Meep meep indeed.

    • @morbidone88
      @morbidone88 3 роки тому +27

      @Reality Not Considered logic my friend, PREACH. She for the streets! Oh, and a 2 year old with an attitude like that? Her man better un-man her, quick.

    • @designandart6808
      @designandart6808 3 роки тому +34

      Men aren’t supposed to ask tough questions… we are supposed to just let them be. But they can be all in our business

    • @ljthirtyfiver
      @ljthirtyfiver 3 роки тому +21

      That’s that man’s fault that be honest ….why would u date a woman
      Who at 39 years of age still didn’t know better than to have a baby out of wedlock . The 20 year sumtins I understand but 40? And act like a child when asked bout why she didn’t marry ? Yea the man ignoring the red flags until she take one and hit him over the dome with it .

  • @darrylmitchell4995
    @darrylmitchell4995 3 роки тому +84

    Men aren't asking all women to be the size of a Victoria's Secret model. But damn some of y'all don't even try to lose weight to set yourselves up for a better outcome. Men, we DO NOT have to just accept anything.

    • @donneljennings9228
      @donneljennings9228 3 роки тому +2

      I like bbw 🤷🏾‍♂️ Just be everything else.

    • @sreid6545
      @sreid6545 3 роки тому

      Why shouldn't men encourage us to get as close to that as possible since that's what most men like?

    • @darrylmitchell4995
      @darrylmitchell4995 3 роки тому +5

      @@sreid6545 you're wrong. Most men don't need you to be super model size. Just be average size

    • @jalil3579
      @jalil3579 3 роки тому +5

      @@sreid6545 A man shouldn't have to encourage you. You already. Take accountability and do it. It's called adulting. You wanna be a nurse, you study your craft, take classes. Take etiquette classes. Image consultant. Trainer. Life coach. Same as paying for a useless degree that you will dump after marriage, to be a housewife.

    • @markesblack
      @markesblack 3 роки тому +3

      @@sreid6545 Y’all don’t encourage men. You want us to be what you want already.

  • @JoeBlack540
    @JoeBlack540 2 роки тому +2

    She's a 42 year old single mother with a 2 year old child. She thinks she's the prize , you can't make this shit up. Run Forest Run 😂

  • @davidcolon9195
    @davidcolon9195 3 роки тому +4

    I've learned to become self sufficient, thanks to feminist, Karens, and divorce courts. I have a clean modern home (paid off in 12 years), retired, healthy (both physically & financially) and enjoying my life because everyday is Saturday. My grandkids love to spent time with me because I am as active and carefree as they are.

  • @chrisc8712
    @chrisc8712 3 роки тому +3

    Why is an overweight 38 year old woman with 3 kids and a single mom worried about fit childless young women getting men. Her priorities all messed up

  • @dandare9376
    @dandare9376 3 роки тому +21

    It's funny how they answer and admit to so much bull, still smiling.... meaning they don't care! It's all joke for them. We'll se who's gonna laugh last.

    • @inko123
      @inko123 3 роки тому +4

      Yes... The laughing and smiling just shows they don't care. No sense of remorse or accountability 🤦‍♂️

  • @marquis08
    @marquis08 3 роки тому +26

    "BUT THEY ATE SALADS." Four words to sum this episode up.

    • @Hex_Hub_Plus
      @Hex_Hub_Plus 3 роки тому +1

      I love your profile picture so much.

    • @chrisdudleyart
      @chrisdudleyart 3 роки тому +1

      Metabolism, in short, is the process by which our body breaks down food to make it available as energy. Then you either use that energy or it gets stored. Don’t blame metabolism.
      Fast or slow: It’s up to us make sure when consume the fuel we take in and not take in excess amounts.

  • @indelible6798
    @indelible6798 2 роки тому +1

    Re watching. Love the music as usual. Continue to rest well King 💯🙏🏾🕊🇨🇦

  • @luluxinator7935
    @luluxinator7935 Рік тому +1

    I miss u so much kevin I wish u could read this but ur energy will live forever if I can help it I promise. Godfather never out❤

  • @caesar3909
    @caesar3909 3 роки тому +34

    They drag Mr Samuels on +2hr videos on UA-cam . Start petitions. Write damning essays on social media. Vilify him on blogs. Throw dirt on his name every Saturday at brunch. Say he's the coming of the end times in church sermons. But when he opens up his show for a whole week & invites them on...its nothing but crickets. They are all nowhere to be seen. Man, these people are a joke 😂😂

    • @antoniowilson1696
      @antoniowilson1696 3 роки тому +1

      Facts bro. Gave them a week bring the smoke 💨. ** crickets **

    • @Exxperiment626
      @Exxperiment626 3 роки тому

      I'm a fan of Kevin but I understand his critics not coming to his show. Can't have a FAIR debate on his show, when he can talk over them and mute them any second. He should debate them on neutral ground.

    • @kingleox9
      @kingleox9 3 роки тому +1

      Women over talk and talk in circles. Less is more, quality over quantity

  • @HireCoop
    @HireCoop 3 роки тому +10

    Mr. Samuels you are doing great deeds for the world 🌎

  • @sassyaimz
    @sassyaimz 3 роки тому +26

    The 42 year old woman with the 2 year old has so much attitude for no reason. You could hear it all in her voice and see it all in her face. Smh

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo 2 роки тому +2

    My grandpa would say “know when to back up from the table” 😂 younger me thought this was harsh ADULT ME soooo thankful!!!

  • @SunshineLady365
    @SunshineLady365 3 роки тому +173

    Hopefully this will be my last fall season as a single woman, keep your"foot on our necks" Godfather! You are very much appreciated ❤️

    • @mj7335
      @mj7335 3 роки тому +5

      For good results read: Laura Doyle
      "First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors", and then put it into
      practice.

    • @piplyf
      @piplyf 3 роки тому +10

      "Your man is in your friend zone". KS
      Get rid of all your male orbiters, and all the nonsexual attention they provide and you'll find him. Women have to be willing to be ALONE ALONE.

    • @overcometru1
      @overcometru1 3 роки тому +3

      Yep this is your last year let's get married now, then we can meet later

    • @kashnation8980
      @kashnation8980 3 роки тому +2

      That is, very well said my brother

    • @Malibukenn
      @Malibukenn 3 роки тому +2

      @@piplyf I second that sentiment. And also keep it natural that man your longing for will be ready and willing.

  • @johnmaddern933
    @johnmaddern933 3 роки тому +36

    Staying single and building bank is a smarter choice for a man in this climate, free to travel and do as he enjoys

    • @ripDenmarkVesey
      @ripDenmarkVesey 3 роки тому

      I’m so glad my 24/7 Father didn’t think like that. I guess it depends on personal experiences sometimes.

    • @johnmaddern933
      @johnmaddern933 3 роки тому +1

      @@ripDenmarkVesey Times have changed and men are enjoying all that extra money and freedom. The old model is almost over

    • @ripDenmarkVesey
      @ripDenmarkVesey 3 роки тому

      @@johnmaddern933
      That’s always an option. Must be an Black American thing because most other cultures in the WORLD are still based on family units. Is it a society of baby mama’s you wish to create ? Family unit or baby mama culture ? Last thing Black folks need is a society devoid of Fathers in the home. The negative consequences are a known fact. Is that how your father did you ?

    • @johnmaddern933
      @johnmaddern933 3 роки тому +1

      @@ripDenmarkVesey Any man who marries in this climate is a fool. I will keep building Bank travelling and enjoying my freedom, the rest of you can do things your way

  • @greatestlifts7161
    @greatestlifts7161 3 роки тому +3

    I have been saying this stuff for years and I finally get to hear someone older than me validate my outlook on these women. It is truly an answer to my prayers.

  • @DDalton59
    @DDalton59 3 роки тому +13

    "My metabolism is dormant".....because you are sedentary🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂😂😂

  • @carringtonlovejr2325
    @carringtonlovejr2325 Рік тому +1

    RIP KEVIN.. I remembered this video today and looked it up. I’m going through this man.. my girl started disrespecting me so much.. I should’ve cut her off man.. she gave me basic sorries.. never really sincere.. killed my confidence and I became frustrated and angry… started verbally abusing her, when I should’ve just left. I’ve made half a million dollars for 3 years straight, I’m black and only 30. Top G… I met her in right before Kevin died.. We was on top, when Kevin died I lost my way a bit. Rip Kevin. I will make you proud brother

  • @DrEricSmithakaDjHawkk345683
    @DrEricSmithakaDjHawkk345683 3 роки тому +1

    Kevin, you are dropping so much knowledge, many won't take it in, because of being selfish.

  • @adrianprince7266
    @adrianprince7266 3 роки тому +55

    The sad part is that men have gotten so desperate these days that we're stupid enough to deal with nonsense from a 42 year old woman with a 2 year old. We're literally at the bottom of the barrel.

    • @nattyb2924
      @nattyb2924 3 роки тому +3

      Please say what kind of man because a high valued man would never!

    • @alexblaze8878
      @alexblaze8878 3 роки тому +8

      I’m single and 44 and I’ll stay single forever rather than deal with a woman with a 2 year old. I’ve raised my kids well and now they’re adults and out on their own. There is no way in hell I’m raising some other man’s kids.
      I got my retirement pay from doing 24 years in the Air Force-enough to live off of and travel abroad…and I’ll do that until I’m too old and stay single rather than deal with these ratchets of ANY race.
      I’m telling you fellas that you’ll reach an age where you don’t want a woman living with you anymore. I get some lovin from a few friends with benefits, we go out have fun, etc but marriage or living together is NOT happening. It’s not worth the trouble gentlemen.

    • @BigShowDoG
      @BigShowDoG 3 роки тому +1

      @@nattyb2924 Exactly & The youngest of us Wouldn't breath her way

    • @hiphopchild9540
      @hiphopchild9540 3 роки тому

      IMO, the barrel has no bottom any more, once you get there is no end to the fall

    • @LouStreets
      @LouStreets 3 роки тому

      No the hell im not. Speak for yourself fam, I’d never do that

  • @fabroney5780
    @fabroney5780 3 роки тому +48

    As a women, there was a teaching moment for me Yana admitted that if a man responded the same way as she did when asked to be transparent we would call that man a liar. Truth.

  • @jerryc5743
    @jerryc5743 3 роки тому +158

    34:45 - when a woman says, if she says, “I’m sorry” does so with all of the lack of compunction of a five year old who says it just to appease their parents. Then she will react indignantly by saying, “I said I’m sorry! What else do you want?!” while still showing no sense of compunction or shame. Vapid. No self-awareness.

    • @ZAKAR777
      @ZAKAR777 3 роки тому +11

      Yea i that's so messed up is one of the things i can't put up with so i don't even go there with women is like trying to teach a child how to talk business it won't work if they are always wanting to play

    • @inspiringminds7284
      @inspiringminds7284 3 роки тому +5

      My ex-wife tried to come back to me and though she stroked my ego and all that her apology was weak and not sincere for the things she did so I ghosted her. Women I have dealt with in life can't apologies and don't have the ability to make up so in the long term it won't work unless you want to be their doormat.

    • @oddstuff6137
      @oddstuff6137 3 роки тому +2

      Yup... its embarrassing to watch. Or its the other way around 'i don't accept your apology'. Literally like someone is at the emotional age of 3 and stuck in it

    • @jalil3579
      @jalil3579 3 роки тому +2

      It's because they live in an alternate reality. It's sad.

    • @joshuacalig3144
      @joshuacalig3144 3 роки тому +3

      I'm at the point where I don't even allow people to practice their witchcraft by saying "I'm sorry". They think those words are magical. Back it up or STFU.

  • @finallyanime
    @finallyanime 3 роки тому +26

    I appreciate Kevin because honestly without any of this so many men would be gaslit until the house explodes - which many already have

    • @kingleox9
      @kingleox9 3 роки тому +2

      Man you telling the absolute truth, never listen to what women say but what they do.

    • @Erica_Cherelle
      @Erica_Cherelle 3 роки тому

      Very true

  • @matthew8661
    @matthew8661 3 роки тому +1

    i love the music on this channel

  • @Dcalderon1901
    @Dcalderon1901 3 роки тому +12

    Love his intro music. Thank you KV. Love your podcast. Making me a better man

  • @StylingOnYou
    @StylingOnYou 3 роки тому +49

    Damn you spitting knowledge. Apologize 5x's harder than the offense.

  • @tiffanyg5108
    @tiffanyg5108 3 роки тому +13

    I love when he says ma’am 😂😂😂 I say it the same way

    • @ethibodeaux7
      @ethibodeaux7 2 роки тому +1

      Still miss this man. His truth will live on!

  • @Thelightballer1
    @Thelightballer1 Рік тому +2

    If you're afraid of getting a rotten apple, don't go to the barrel, get it off the tree. Sean Connery, The Untouchables.

  • @zellyzell1993
    @zellyzell1993 3 роки тому

    Thank you for the upload

  • @carriemcknight4168
    @carriemcknight4168 3 роки тому +3

    I LOVE ❤️ KELVIN!! KEEP GOING DO’NT STOP!!

  • @vesubioromo9425
    @vesubioromo9425 3 роки тому +36

    Believing someone who's been divorced can't give solid advice is a silly notion.
    It's like saying, "Doctor, you can't treat me for my lung cancer because you've never had it."

    • @BlueIchigo528
      @BlueIchigo528 3 роки тому +5

      Don’t tell them that they won’t believe you and swear you have a problem with all women

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому +4

      That’s not really the best analogy but I get what ur trying to say

    • @joyslove3858
      @joyslove3858 3 роки тому +2

      ​@@reese85 I think Vesubio meant, "Doctor, you can't treat me for my lung cancer because you HAVE had it". I think. lol

    • @SuperShepard1
      @SuperShepard1 3 роки тому

      Same with Derrick Jaxn! Just because he's a cheater doesn't mean he can't give game! He was still telling the truth.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому

      @@SuperShepard1 way better person comparison, but his downfall wasn’t the cheating! It was coming off like he was better than every other dude on earth

  • @BeardGawd88
    @BeardGawd88 3 роки тому +3

    I’m blessed, my wife is pretty good at apologizing and making up for things when she does wrong. Other women I’ve dated on the other hand, I don’t even think they knew what the word sorry or apologies meant 😂. Them bitches still single till this day 😂😂

  • @teejohnson9160
    @teejohnson9160 3 роки тому +21

    My mother is a big woman, meaning above average height (5'8"), and was never "skinny" but definitely wasn't fat. She ran track and did martial arts as a teen. She got "fat" after her 2nd child (me) and has pretty much been blaming me ever since. Lol. I developed a fear of fat early in life. I never ate salads. Instead, I ate 80/20 healthy my whole life. That means 80% healthy, and 20% whatever tf I want. I a 5'6" and the heaviest I've ever been was when I was in my 3rd trimester (I started out at 140 and got up to 165). 2 years later, I was back down to 145. When my kid was 4, I was on stage in a bikini (1st time in my life) at 10% body fat, doing my first figure competition. I've been a solid, athletic build since I was about 15. I still work out, but my diet is not nearly as disciplined as it used to be, which has resulted in my body fat percentage going from 16% to 21% (still very low for a woman), but I want it back to 16%, and I'm gonna get there. I know what it takes, and I don't need some family member, or some man telling me I need to lose weight. I KNOW when I'm getting heavy. I fix it on my own.
    I know a LOT of (black) women who just give up because they don't see results after a crash diet for 7-10 days and walking on a treadmill at speed 3 two to four times per week. That's not gonna work. You gotta go hard, and you gotta be consistent. Yes, it's harder for women, but NOT impossible. Too many women accept excuses and give up too easy, and that's why they stay fat. I can't stand hearing "Well, I have health problems", yeah... probably caused by your eating habits. Stop eating convenience foods and start eating fresh foods. Cut the fast food mess. It's not even real food. Cook and eat at home more, and 1/2 your plate should be veggies, 1/4 lean protein, and 1/2 healthy starch (sweet potatoes, quinoa, wild rice, or even brown rice). Back off of the condiments and butter. Switch your deserts for protein smoothies. Boom, you just gave yourself a serious leg-up on the weight loss journey. Can't get to or afford a gym membership? No problem! There is a plethora of workouts on UA-cam. Check out BullyJuice, JaneKate, Chloe Ting, ATHLEAN-X, Self, Juice & Toya, & if you're feeling froggy, AshtonHallOfficial, and Millionaire Hoy. The last two are for experienced fitness folks, not novice. Anyway, thank me later. I just wrote a darn book & didn't mean to, so peace out.

    • @lenav.420
      @lenav.420 3 роки тому

      Thank you!

    • @ronzh9646
      @ronzh9646 3 роки тому

      @ Tee Johnson. I love Juice and Toya workouts. They are fast and effective when I can’t make it to the gym.

    • @gregh2880
      @gregh2880 Рік тому +3

      As a former gym trainer let me clear about weight loss: 90% of your goal can be accomplished at the dinner table, not the gym. The gym helps of course, but you can accomplish all of your goals without working out. Seen it, done it myself. You must cut carbs and sugar. Eat fatty meats (yes fatty) and leafy greens. That's it.

  • @Misskitty550
    @Misskitty550 3 роки тому +5

    I've had a change of heart regarding Kevin S. Keep up the good work man.

  • @DonAllen80
    @DonAllen80 3 роки тому +56

    Grim Reaper: Concede or Die.
    Modern Women: Hello, yes I’d like the white casket and the plot overlooking the city.

    • @truthreigns3465
      @truthreigns3465 3 роки тому

      Grim

    • @smvgrv1624
      @smvgrv1624 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣👍🏽

    • @brandonsample1
      @brandonsample1 3 роки тому

      I'm done 😂

    • @billellis3397
      @billellis3397 3 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣 Ok, that made me chuckle because it’s so vivid! I can see the city and the the head stones! Bunch of stubborn mules!

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому

      😂😂 💀

  • @fgcpeak9591
    @fgcpeak9591 3 роки тому +63

    "Every relationship where you're putting in more than youre getting you need to stop". Literally not a single man on this planet doesn't put in more than he gets from a female, Kevin...

    • @mizzcashmoney1
      @mizzcashmoney1 3 роки тому +3

      I'm a woman and in my last relationship with my ex I was putting way more into the relationship than him

    • @danieldavidson5273
      @danieldavidson5273 3 роки тому +1

      @@mizzcashmoney1 that's why he is your ex , well done.

    • @mizzcashmoney1
      @mizzcashmoney1 3 роки тому +1

      @@darealtruth3095 As a woman I'm curious to know this...during your 20's why were you doing the bare minimum?

    • @fgcpeak9591
      @fgcpeak9591 3 роки тому +1

      @@darealtruth3095 yours is an exceptional case. the general rule is they put in the bare minimum. and you are talking about women well before dating apps. social media and the astronomical options women now have, was not around. THAT is the true game changer

    • @fgcpeak9591
      @fgcpeak9591 3 роки тому +3

      I can actually guarantee even now Kevin puts way more into trying to get with women than he would like to admit. even now... im talking from talking phase to meeting her

  • @joejoerunya8908
    @joejoerunya8908 3 роки тому +49

    The woman that asked why men don’t accept fat women was nothing but excuses smh

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому +3

      Yes this is when delusion becomes dangerous for one's health. She was pretty respectful with KS, which is cool, but she has a lot to unpack. This is why women who push men away from the children they have with them do significant harm on multiple levels

    • @7RB373
      @7RB373 3 роки тому +6

      That was really pathetic. After all he said to her, then she comes back with well why shouldn't the men lead me to work out?? come on.

    • @joejoerunya8908
      @joejoerunya8908 3 роки тому +1

      @@7RB373 right. You shouldn’t need another person to work out

    • @joejoerunya8908
      @joejoerunya8908 3 роки тому

      @@joyduniquebeauty3056 that wasn’t the question though. It was why don’t men ACCEPT fat women

    • @Lionheart1221
      @Lionheart1221 3 роки тому +2

      @@joyduniquebeauty3056 they may get love (sex), but are they getting married?

  • @finished6267
    @finished6267 3 роки тому +2

    I'm morbidly obese with garbage manners and a lame education. I deserve a decent woman. Imagine a man feeling this way.

  • @thewinnerslegion
    @thewinnerslegion 3 роки тому +38

    Who here has heard a logical, well thought out argument from any of KS's detractors?

    • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
      @mikhailabdurrachman2443 3 роки тому +4

      NONE 😏

    • @Flameofblaze7
      @Flameofblaze7 3 роки тому +1

      Nope I just went 30 replies deep on Facebook . Moral of the story if they don’t show respect for the conversation block em.

    • @jhnxavier
      @jhnxavier 3 роки тому +5

      Well thought out & *logical* arguments are rare from women in general.

    • @damienthrash2202
      @damienthrash2202 3 роки тому +1

      0

    • @chumajamesnxele106
      @chumajamesnxele106 3 роки тому +3

      ME!
      When I was exploring the multiverse with Rick's portal gun. 🙄😂

  • @b.chordial958
    @b.chordial958 3 роки тому +49

    I felt bad for the girl at 1:48:00 (Jemila). Not so much for her situation, but for her outlook on her situation. She’s only 29 and feels it’s too late for her to lose weight & become fit. Believing is half the battle. How does she expect to be a helpmeet for a husband, when she can’t be one for herself? There’s no medical condition that allows for women in their 20s to work for 4 years to get a degree, while prohibiting them from working for 4 months to lose 40 pounds. It’s not her metabolism hindering her weight-loss journey, it’s her mindset.

    • @simonehigginson4165
      @simonehigginson4165 3 роки тому +2

      Well said...Never too late

    • @b.chordial958
      @b.chordial958 3 роки тому +7

      @@ShaunHensley Nah. I'm talking about for her to lose weight. No 29 year old should believe it's too late for them to get fit. In my opinion that's just an excuse to not try at all

    • @morybatbard5686
      @morybatbard5686 3 роки тому +5

      I felt sympathy for her too. She had a cute face (minus all the fat), had a pleasant demeanor and soft tone for the most part. Wasn't combative, just umm... excuse-making, but clearly willing to listen. The BW age much better than Becky. She stands a pretty good chance of fixing her stuff and maybe get a Henry, or close to that, before it's too late.

    • @terrencelee9366
      @terrencelee9366 3 роки тому +1

      I felt bad until she tried to compare being short to being overweight and basically telling average men that you ain’t good enough to expect a in shape woman

    • @finished6267
      @finished6267 3 роки тому +2

      She will just gain it all back and more once some chump makes her comfortable

  • @rplayer360
    @rplayer360 3 роки тому +38

    she is essentially saying "I can't get past me lying" 😂😂😂

    • @ESmorgue
      @ESmorgue Рік тому

      I think she is more upset at the fact that someone knows something about her that she didn't want known. She wanted to appear as some scarred woman and that went out the window when she had to give up the ghost.

  • @ijackerijacker4034
    @ijackerijacker4034 3 роки тому +2

    Remember what the Willie Lynch Letter said who would support his theory generation after generation single-handedly‼️🤔

  • @bboss7874
    @bboss7874 3 роки тому +8

    Talked to a 72 year old man today. Told me he takes the bus to work even though he has two cars. Retired veteran. Collects social security. Job is under the table. His wife asked him why he moves that way. He said because he's a man and he doesn't like sitting down to long. His wife if is the same way. Always on the move. They have been married for 30 years. 🤔

    • @hr9336
      @hr9336 3 роки тому

      There was a study that most people that catch public transportation were much more in shape than people who drive everywhere. Imagine that.

  • @traderhines76
    @traderhines76 3 роки тому +22

    “My metabolism is dormant” aka I’m a lazy ass😂😂😂😂

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 роки тому +2

      lmao exactly. if her metabolism was dormant she'd literally be dead

    • @chrisdudleyart
      @chrisdudleyart 3 роки тому +1

      Metabolism, in short, is the process by which our body breaks down food to make it available as energy. Then you either use that energy or it gets stored. Don’t blame metabolism.
      Fast or slow: It’s up to us make sure when consume the fuel we take in and not take in excess amounts.

    • @chrisdudleyart
      @chrisdudleyart 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂

  • @I_Am_The_Barz
    @I_Am_The_Barz 3 роки тому +5

    Kevin, keep on being strong and consistent brother! The tide is turning and everyone will catch wind of what you're truly doing here! Great content sir! 💯💯💯

  • @aaronwilson2988
    @aaronwilson2988 3 роки тому +27

    Saying you didnt know Men liked fit women at age 29???? Bullshit

  • @babydriver8134
    @babydriver8134 2 роки тому +2

    My wife and I were vetting each other for the position of husband/wife starting on the first date! We made it plain to each other we were not playing games, that life is serious business. We were married in three months. 35 years and counting.

  • @rodg2812
    @rodg2812 3 роки тому +14

    It’s crazy how these other platforms piggyback off his content

    • @JazzyJeff910
      @JazzyJeff910 3 роки тому

      Right! It’s needs to be stopped

  • @thePraddagee
    @thePraddagee 3 роки тому +31

    I got left by a woman for trying to influence her to get in the gym with me lol 😂 she was not having it at all. Wasn’t even willing to try. Now she’s morbidly obese lol

    • @PPE707
      @PPE707 3 роки тому +5

      You dodged a bullet

    • @CrackyCartoons
      @CrackyCartoons 3 роки тому +2

      *tuba song*

    • @LouStreets
      @LouStreets 3 роки тому +1

      W

    • @bawsnitti
      @bawsnitti 3 роки тому +2

      You got lucky it sounds like

    • @bruceleroy5585
      @bruceleroy5585 Місяць тому

      Same brother. I got told, “that’s your lifestyle not mine”

  • @joshuaperry4112
    @joshuaperry4112 3 роки тому +3

    So basically, the 42yr old was asked to talk about a sensitive topic; she withheld some of the story because it was sensitive, so he pushed the subject - which made her get defensive and snippy. They then fought because he wanted the truth and she didn't want to talk about it.
    They've been together for a year and are raising a child together. How much longer should they wait before they bare it all to each other? He's vetting here last bits before marrying her and she doesn't want to tell him; meaning she doesn't want to marry him.
    The real issue is that he wants a wife NOW but she doesn't want him as a husband NOW. That's the crux.

  • @TheTsugnawmi2010
    @TheTsugnawmi2010 3 роки тому +54

    1:57:17 “God made you this way”
    Me: “Gluttony, Greed and Sloth are deadly sins and the 2nd Commandment says you shouldn't use God's name in vain".

    • @A....S....
      @A....S.... 3 роки тому

      That whole conversation w/ the young overweight sister was one to bookmark.

  • @lionelchikozho8764
    @lionelchikozho8764 3 роки тому +1

    Your starting song hits different

  • @DjBrownSugarV
    @DjBrownSugarV 3 роки тому +1

    I know a female like that who don’t listen to understand herself. Run from conflicts if it doesn’t go as she planned it out in her head. That’s the big issue. Females, get stuff out your head. The world does NOT live in your head. Things will happen that you have to handle and grow from. If you get a cut on your arm, do you cut the arm off or get that cut healed by any means. Same in relationships, instead of running, find out how to fix it and heal it. From there I have no doubt that you will grow better than you were yesterday.

  • @RebelRebel-rz6cd
    @RebelRebel-rz6cd 3 роки тому +12

    Ive neva heard a woman say sorry on her own it have always been a shut up apology...no accountability🙄