How to talk to men! Jaki Sabourin - Engaged at Any Age-

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  • Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
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    Do you find it hard to ask a man for what you want? Most women are afraid to ask hard questions for fear of rejection because the answers may be disappointing. The fear makes them stay in their comfort zones because they waste time in relationships that are not serious.
    How to Ask For What You Want from a Man
    How to ask a man for what you want is a major conundrum for most women. The burning questions touch on the long-term goals of the person you are dating or planning to date, where he sees himself in the next five years or what his plans are for the future, and his intentions in dating you. Sometimes this can be hard because we are not ready to risk rejection, and as a result, we hesitate to ask for what we want. We end up feeling resentful down the road because we have not established from the very beginning what it is that we want in the process of not asking and not being transparent and upfront. In this video, I give you some guidelines and tips so that you can have these courageous conversations, as I like to call them.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 56

  • @simplyimpish1055
    @simplyimpish1055 3 роки тому +1

    I know there are great men out there, I have 2 wonderful brothers and a very special father.

  • @cynthiaeckstine8532
    @cynthiaeckstine8532 5 років тому +4

    I love your advice in general just for how to be a positive and happy person, even if we aren’t dating! You are very inspiring!

  • @jodirowe2996
    @jodirowe2996 3 роки тому +2

    I keep finding men just talk about themselves, and don’t let me interject or share about me. They also do not ask any questions about me, or do, but then interrupt & answer their own questions, talking more about themselves! I feel talked AT

    • @EngagedAtAnyAge
      @EngagedAtAnyAge  3 роки тому

      Boundaries! I know it's hard but "intervening" is a skill you can develop. "Would you like to ask me any questions?" smiling. "I'd love to share something about [fill in the blank] smiling. "Would you let a girl talk?" smiling I know it's awkward but men like to peacock on dates to impress you. Lean back and enjoy but at some point go ahead and intervene!

  • @sandyshorewalker5364
    @sandyshorewalker5364 6 років тому +7

    I may not be ready to date but I am still enjoying your videos. Thanks. I am dealing with my feelings and find gatherings Information from your videos will be helpful.

  • @kathrynharris3636
    @kathrynharris3636 6 років тому +8

    I love your energy. I've watch a lot of your video's and your consistently the same. Thank you for the great advice

  • @lamandadavis9135
    @lamandadavis9135 6 років тому +2

    In agreement. Listening is always attractive to me too. Enjoying our conversation and actively contributing.

  • @alaiaadam5767
    @alaiaadam5767 2 роки тому +1

    🌙🌙🌙
    05:30 on
    *Don’t be anxious* 💥
    15:00 💥
    18:00 💥
    Bss

  • @Katie-tc3pc
    @Katie-tc3pc 6 років тому +8

    Wow this is awesome advice for us ladies over 40

  • @kimora7964
    @kimora7964 6 років тому +8

    Your a great coach

  • @lidiaphan4972
    @lidiaphan4972 6 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for all of your amazing videos. I've been listening to you for about 2 months now and I've learned a lot. You gave a lot of great tips. I applied it to my life and the an amazing that come out from it I'm able to attract this amazing man the love of my life. He said, Lidia a room full of people but I only noticed you he said I'm glow from within." Thank you for teaching me how to have great and positve mind set.

    • @EngagedAtAnyAge
      @EngagedAtAnyAge  6 років тому

      You're welcome and do continue to accept and love yourself Lidia!

  • @queenhelene1288
    @queenhelene1288 4 роки тому +1

    Music--anything that can be danced to!
    💃🏽🕺🏼

  • @suzannem8265
    @suzannem8265 5 років тому +2

    Love the practical examples! Thank you!:)

  • @luciem5372
    @luciem5372 5 років тому +1

    I love that response-- thank you for revealing to me who you are-- great for the past and the future!

  • @mindylacey5180
    @mindylacey5180 6 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for this Jaki! I sooooo needed to hear this tonight! I posted in our group about something that happened to me today, and Maria suggested I watch this video. She was right! Thank you!

  • @Scary_asmr101
    @Scary_asmr101 6 років тому +3

    Your advise is so perfect

  • @khunjulwapeter8431
    @khunjulwapeter8431 6 років тому +3

    This is what I need at my age.

  • @tiffanywoods8110
    @tiffanywoods8110 6 років тому +4

    Jaki, You are so funny! I love it when you said there are men everywhere! Really? Are there women think men are no where to be found? Ha ha ha!!! They are everywhere!!! My problem is they show up all the time and I have to keep running. They are just NOT the one... oops...yes, I know, I have more work to do within myself... But my manifestation is getting better and better though..!!!
    So if anyone shows up and he is still NOT the one, I said to myself in my head... I need to fine tune my alignment... how can I improve myself!!! Seriously, I am really doing this....Big Big hugs to you in helping us who have not thinking right... But we will!!

  • @marcielleb
    @marcielleb 4 роки тому +1

    you helped me understand about being slightly aloof to create that tension. Thank you, Jaki.

    • @EngagedAtAnyAge
      @EngagedAtAnyAge  4 роки тому

      You're welcome. Detached involvement. It's about not attaching to the outcome. This may seem like being aloof, but it's you not going to the end of the story, allowing things to unfold organically so you can watch his behavior over time.

  • @dianac.9219
    @dianac.9219 6 років тому +9

    I understand the fact you have to listen him and show interest in what he said...but (almost) all my datings they want to talk , talk, talk about them, when i have the chance to talk in the end their story its more important than mine..of course its my last date, no more people that cant stop to speak about themselves...I wondering sometimes..can i meet someone normal...

    • @EngagedAtAnyAge
      @EngagedAtAnyAge  6 років тому

      I totally understand and I hope you can keep working through it Gta until you find Mr. Right!

    • @gemmster14
      @gemmster14 6 років тому +4

      The truth is in a dating moment, men talking about themselves can actually be a positive thing. They need to get their pats on the head and feel positive about themselves and your response to them before they can ever begin to listen to you/us/as date-partners. That's just the way it is!

    • @bonniel4325
      @bonniel4325 5 років тому +3

      Yes it is that way with guys who are profoundly self-absorbed. Diana, trust your observations. People who cannot take turns in a conversation have issues. I dated someone like that. It just goes from bad to worse. You are right to throw those fish back in the water.

    • @joeldwest
      @joeldwest 5 років тому +1

      Men think they deserve all the attention. Forget them

    • @dianaevans7102
      @dianaevans7102 4 роки тому

      Narcissists!! Dump and run away, fast!!

  • @Mirage238
    @Mirage238 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much 😊 you are really inspiring 🙏 I’m not good in making conversations 🤔I talk a lot about my work🤯please make more videos on interesting topics to talk about 😋maybe tou could give us some book tips📚Gos bless you😇

    • @babyqueen2030
      @babyqueen2030 4 роки тому

      Ask him about his family. Those relationships tell you a lot... Especially mom, dad and sister.

  • @westace8056
    @westace8056 6 років тому +2

    I have a lot to learn such an amazing Channel 😉

  • @sanctuaryspothome
    @sanctuaryspothome 6 років тому +2

    Jaki, you are a beautiful person inside and out. I really get a genuine sense of care from you..giving such valuable advice to other ladies. You are really helping us beyond words. Thank you 😚

  • @colleenpetrie1031
    @colleenpetrie1031 5 років тому +1

    You are so helpfull!!

  • @heidibedoya
    @heidibedoya 6 років тому +2

    I am fascinated by all your topics Jaki! You are adorable! ❤️ :)
    I need to practice the smile while talking part because it doesn’t came natural to just smile without reason unless I really feel it.

  • @lisasunshine7654
    @lisasunshine7654 4 роки тому +1

    Jackie, how would I reach you for help? A book or training?

  • @gabrielamartinyuk6438
    @gabrielamartinyuk6438 5 років тому +1

    I say be yourself. Be smiling and be joyful and be in the moment .

    • @luzrodriguez1439
      @luzrodriguez1439 4 роки тому

      I need hepl Iam Latin woman I like to have one serious Man I lisen you audio thank please

  • @lmsshade6733
    @lmsshade6733 6 років тому +1

    Some good advice👍

  • @marcielleb
    @marcielleb 4 роки тому +1

    You are a dear, Jaki.

  • @babyqueen2030
    @babyqueen2030 4 роки тому

    If we don't agree on religion, he's not the one. Why stay away from a foundational trait for many? Why build infatuation (which is superficial) if the fundamentals aren't in line?

  • @Light_Worker
    @Light_Worker 6 років тому +4

    Successful, good looking man want if not a TV star than someone who can be his daughter age with the model look like. P.S. there is more good looking woman then good looking man in the USA. Go to the gym and you will see more woman there than guys, that's because man are so lazy even to brush their hair if they still have some left. I am not even talking about clothes. Even doctors says that man are very difficult work with because they are totally addicted and willing to give up their health for eating crappy food.

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 5 років тому

    Hi, I have a question: how do I stop thinking about my last boyfriend who dumped me. I try to keep busy, but I still think about him a lot. Patricia

  • @kleopatrarn135
    @kleopatrarn135 6 років тому +1

    I tried to register
    It doesn’t work

  • @paulquerengesser2926
    @paulquerengesser2926 3 роки тому

    If you maintain eye contact as you talk about beer and transmissions I'll follow you anywhere.

  • @doloresamaya6331
    @doloresamaya6331 6 років тому +1

    Hello.

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 5 років тому

    Hi Jaki,

  • @holafamilia2758
    @holafamilia2758 6 років тому +6

    We don't want to look desperate or needy...

    • @albertogarcia9250
      @albertogarcia9250 6 років тому +1

      That's true, just try to make a good conversation about any topic.

  • @queenhelene1288
    @queenhelene1288 4 роки тому

    The dude cancelled and said “call me sometime”. Heck no! Not calling HIM, he’s the one who cancelled. Adios

  • @pamm8333
    @pamm8333 4 роки тому

    So we are supposed to persue w online dating?
    And also other books state do NOT let a man do all the talking on a date.... “men are from mars...” and “why men marry bitches” say dont let that happen.
    I like the detatch from outcome

  • @donnawoodford8145
    @donnawoodford8145 6 років тому

    I'm in the divorce process still after two and one-half years expecting finalization in April. I met someone from Romania, so I'm not sure about the protocol. I don't want to remarry. What do you suggest?

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 6 років тому +5

      Stay away from them.all what they need is the green Card

    • @joeldwest
      @joeldwest 5 років тому +2

      Do not give a man money. They will never respect you

  • @callaquynh3409
    @callaquynh3409 6 років тому

    ❤🌹❤🌹❤🌹❤🌹