I feel like sexual assault allegations are not as black and white as- either the victim or the alleged perpetrator is a liar, and whoever is ‘lying’ should face consequences. The justice system will base everything on evidence, it could be that it did happen, but there was not enough evidence, as is often the case with sexual assault cases unless there is literal CCTV footage. In which case the defendant is acquitted as ‘not guilty’ when in actual fact they may have committed the crime it’s just they didn’t meet that legal threshold of beyond reasonable doubt. And then to retraumatise the victim and label them as a liar just doesn’t sit well with me. In my opinion starting with the lens of believing victims rebalances the power imbalance.
You sound naïve. It's a cultural issue as well. A lot of Black men aren't taught about consent and find themselves in trouble when they push boundaries. It's not always about women 'lying,' that is a misogynistic take. Some Black men literally have problems keeping their hands to themselves, if you are ever around specific working class 'urban' environments, you will witness this first hand. Historically, Black women don't report them to the police, now that they are increasingly having more contact with women from other backgrounds- especially Wyte women- some of them are more likely to to report to the police. I don't feel sorry for these men at all. I've seen how some of them feel entitled to women's bodies, especially as it's been glorified in music videos etc for the past 25 years.
Why do some people talk implying that a whole group of people who share the same skin colour must think the same way about every subject and at the same time talk as if they represent these people ??? So weird.
As a sista from the US, I agree that Black men should not even think about voting for Trump! They don't need to vote for Kamala, but voting for Trump is absolutely mad. Just leave your damn ballot blank--periodt. Also, to be fair, the Israel policy is not really what's driving the Black male vote for the most part. Love the pod!
@@BrBr980 As a brother from the US, I have to say that in an election as close this one, every vote that isn’t cast for Kamala, is one less vote that Trump needs to receive. Please don’t leave your ballot blank. 🙏🏾
If there is any sort of legal repercussion for someone who is determined to have falsely accused someone of rape, won’t that make actual victims less likely to report being assaulted?
“I’ll thought out convo” I agree. There is a weird & small demo of black people who are voting for Trump the reasons are troubling. The most important thing Democrats should do is listen and cater to your base with the biggest voting power to date.
@@YourAuntiesCouldNever The children are company assets in the wife’s workplace. They’re like printers except instead of supplying them with ink and paper, you feed and clothe them.
Traditionally, doesn’t society view unmarried women as women who have not achieved a goal? Especially as people get married later in life, the common perception is that men ‘get married’ whereas women ‘finally found a husband’.
Sounds like you live in your own world. In the UK middle-Class women often wait until their late 30's early 40's in some cases to have children. They make sure they build up their careers and actually go 50/50 with their partners/husbands who also secure their careers/finances along with deposits from parents/grandparents- that's how they are able to come together to gentrify cities like London and Bristol etc. Only in working class ethnic minority communities do people see unmarried women as 'not achieving a goal' or 'ain't got no man'- these are ignorant-takes which leave people in our communities bickering with no resources whilst others are moving occupying the spaces we grew up in making them barely affordable. We worry about the wrong things.
@@user-dv3kq3rm4h Your disdain for 'working class ethnic communities' and their 'ignorant takes' is obvious. Are you aware that most of the working class people that you look down on don't have the option of building careers and going 50/50 with partners who can secure their finances along with 'deposits from parents/grandparents'? They are too busy living paycheck to paycheck and trying to make ends meet while you 'come together to gentrify cities'.
June Sarpong? I don't recollect ever seeing her with her natural hair on show. Stop being disingenuous Aunties. Infact I'm struggling to recall any black woman on UK TV primetime who ever wore her natural hair on a regular. Maybe I misunderstood this section of the video. You know what I can think of one, Pauline Black. Short cropped twa natural, a bit like AKs if I'm not mistaken. PS Pauline Black is Gen X so maybe way before your time. But June Sarpong? Come on! As for Lenny Henry ......! Really?
We weren’t talking just about hair. June Sarpong occupied a space on T4 that wasn’t safe. She was opinionated, dark skin, distinct style. If Angelica resonated with you that’s all good
@@YourAuntiesCouldNever I didn't say or imply that I preferred one over the other, so why end your comment like that? Very PA. PS despite June's trailblazing, she's still not brave enough to show up in public with her natural hair. It's not a criticism, it's a reality that is deeply saddening.
One of the best podcasts globally. Love everyone's opinions especially Nana's. Blessings to you all
Thank you for watching and commenting means alot xxx
Thank you so much 🧚🏾♀️
Love you all but Sade and Nana are my favs as a Labrish fan!!
I feel like sexual assault allegations are not as black and white as- either the victim or the alleged perpetrator is a liar, and whoever is ‘lying’ should face consequences. The justice system will base everything on evidence, it could be that it did happen, but there was not enough evidence, as is often the case with sexual assault cases unless there is literal CCTV footage. In which case the defendant is acquitted as ‘not guilty’ when in actual fact they may have committed the crime it’s just they didn’t meet that legal threshold of beyond reasonable doubt. And then to retraumatise the victim and label them as a liar just doesn’t sit well with me. In my opinion starting with the lens of believing victims rebalances the power imbalance.
You sound naïve. It's a cultural issue as well. A lot of Black men aren't taught about consent and find themselves in trouble when they push boundaries. It's not always about women 'lying,' that is a misogynistic take. Some Black men literally have problems keeping their hands to themselves, if you are ever around specific working class 'urban' environments, you will witness this first hand. Historically, Black women don't report them to the police, now that they are increasingly having more contact with women from other backgrounds- especially Wyte women- some of them are more likely to to report to the police. I don't feel sorry for these men at all. I've seen how some of them feel entitled to women's bodies, especially as it's been glorified in music videos etc for the past 25 years.
Why do some people talk implying that a whole group of people who share the same skin colour must think the same way about every subject and at the same time talk as if they represent these people ??? So weird.
New here, Nana is my favourite.. defo could be a news presenter
Ahh Thank you ❤❤❤
Your fave will change weekly😂
Once again, a great episode ❤
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As a sista from the US, I agree that Black men should not even think about voting for Trump! They don't need to vote for Kamala, but voting for Trump is absolutely mad. Just leave your damn ballot blank--periodt. Also, to be fair, the Israel policy is not really what's driving the Black male vote for the most part. Love the pod!
@@BrBr980 As a brother from the US, I have to say that in an election as close this one, every vote that isn’t cast for Kamala, is one less vote that Trump needs to receive. Please don’t leave your ballot blank. 🙏🏾
If there is any sort of legal repercussion for someone who is determined to have falsely accused someone of rape, won’t that make actual victims less likely to report being assaulted?
Ittt shouldn’t take 20 mins to discuss filly aunties… should take 10 seconds “ filly found out to be nonce” enddd
13:57 As they say, if you never go there your name couldn't call.
“I’ll thought out convo” I agree. There is a weird & small demo of black people who are voting for Trump the reasons are troubling. The most important thing Democrats should do is listen and cater to your base with the biggest voting power to date.
I love these ladies❤❤❤❤
@@michaeltunsil2730 ❤️❤️❤️
Nana, if the opportunity presented itself would you consider performing on stage or screen?
I’m up for both really. I love theatre , I haven’t been on a stage acting since my 20s though
Why are you even entertaining the thought that she could be lying it’s very dismissive and statistically futile
I’ve asked this question before: Isn’t a stay at home wife actually a paid employee of the husband?
@@ronalddobbins6431 are children paid employees?
@@YourAuntiesCouldNever The children are company assets in the wife’s workplace. They’re like printers except instead of supplying them with ink and paper, you feed and clothe them.
Traditionally, doesn’t society view unmarried women as women who have not achieved a goal? Especially as people get married later in life, the common perception is that men ‘get married’ whereas women ‘finally found a husband’.
Sounds like you live in your own world. In the UK middle-Class women often wait until their late 30's early 40's in some cases to have children. They make sure they build up their careers and actually go 50/50 with their partners/husbands who also secure their careers/finances along with deposits from parents/grandparents- that's how they are able to come together to gentrify cities like London and Bristol etc. Only in working class ethnic minority communities do people see unmarried women as 'not achieving a goal' or 'ain't got no man'- these are ignorant-takes which leave people in our communities bickering with no resources whilst others are moving occupying the spaces we grew up in making them barely affordable. We worry about the wrong things.
@@user-dv3kq3rm4h Your disdain for 'working class ethnic communities' and their 'ignorant takes' is obvious. Are you aware that most of the working class people that you look down on don't have the option of building careers and going 50/50 with partners who can secure their finances along with 'deposits from parents/grandparents'? They are too busy living paycheck to paycheck and trying to make ends meet while you 'come together to gentrify cities'.
His finish Guilty or not guilty no coming back
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June Sarpong? I don't recollect ever seeing her with her natural hair on show. Stop being disingenuous Aunties. Infact I'm struggling to recall any black woman on UK TV primetime who ever wore her natural hair on a regular. Maybe I misunderstood this section of the video. You know what I can think of one, Pauline Black. Short cropped twa natural, a bit like AKs if I'm not mistaken. PS Pauline Black is Gen X so maybe way before your time. But June Sarpong? Come on! As for Lenny Henry ......! Really?
We weren’t talking just about hair.
June Sarpong occupied a space on T4 that wasn’t safe. She was opinionated, dark skin, distinct style.
If Angelica resonated with you that’s all good
Great show. Aunties, when you were in your early teens, who was your celebrity crush and was there a female celebrity that you idolized?
@@YourAuntiesCouldNever I didn't say or imply that I preferred one over the other, so why end your comment like that? Very PA. PS despite June's trailblazing, she's still not brave enough to show up in public with her natural hair. It's not a criticism, it's a reality that is deeply saddening.