I'm just so surprised at how these women be on here pop the balloon, drop Dead gorgeous! And men be still out here playing with these beautiful women! So what's the purpose of a man saying he want a beautiful woman only so he can play games with her! Now he know damn well if the shoes was on the other foot and she stayed in a hotel room with her ex-boyfriend he would have a problem with that! But some men think because they're the man, no rules applies to them.. as far as I'm concerned if he had a plan trip with his ex he shouldn't have came on the show! He's full of s***! PERIOD! So disappointing! So a waste of her time! If she wasn't serious about you she wouldn't invited you to her barbecue with all her family idiot!
@@AdamJones-w2q What she did was state that she has "love" for her baby daddy.....but then says she can't stand him. This man sniffed out the bullcrap and mentally checked out right away, and good thing he did.
Jeremy went on a dating show to find love, all while having a trip planned with his ex, staying in the same hotel room. That’s absolutely wild. Men, we’ve got to do better.
I love how this shows how some dating situations are. You meet a new person, trying to get to know someone & they're still mixing & mingling with their ex & wasting your time. Sums it up perfectly! 💯
@@Aaronlovefood truth. Shes not the brightest either if you want love why you allow your family to keep inviting your ex around wheres hes meeting your potentials. Definitely Hes not wrong to not cancel his plans. Especially when she obviously communicated she has feelings for her ex and feels she dont need to do call backs. Also she put up clear red flags that she wants to be an industry girl. So women have to do better as well if they want love. Cover up for one thing. Yikes
It’s odd but he not that crazy. You’re not guaranteed a match on the show. He moved based on his experience at the party. She had him go to the party to make her ex jealous.
No she had it right, it was a wrap to go on the vacation all together. It would have made me no difference if they stayed in different rooms. You’re not on a vacation with ur ex and I’m waiting for you to return. It’s a hell naw for me
Shout out to your wife because this man is my idea of hell. He deflects, projects and lies. This man just makes mess up at the drop of a hat and will say anything to your face it seems. I am honestly horrified. Yes, attraction is good but good character and morals has to be of higher importance.
@@indietee yoooo I said the exact thing!!!! He needs to get out of here with that. At least we got to see a real life example of how he interacts with women because a lot of these men on podcasts talk a certain way but in real life, date like savages which we don’t usually have the ability to see or hear about.
I said the same until I heard the full story why would you bring someone your just getting to know in a situation where you can barely see or spend time with him plus you and your baby father are going back and forth. I think he saw that she wasn't serious and told her about his ex and him going on a trip to let her down easy.
Anybody would see that as a red flag. Having peace between u and ur ex is different from being buddy buddy and going on a trip 😂 staying in the same room ? Damn only booboo the fool would try to contact him to see where things can go after that
All you ladies are dellusional , she's a baby mamma , The best that a baby mama can get is her baby daddy . Good looks only make it easy for you to get laid not getting a husband after carrying someone else's child please learn.
@@knowbeonekanobe5672if a women told you that she’s going on a vacay with her ex, while dating you, would you see as her someone you’d like to be serious with later on? Come on now be real.
@@DeeeeeKay392 Purely entertainment for me too, at this point...lol. This chick though, butterflies on her eyes, ridiculously long nails, and a big azz 69 tatted in the middle of her damn chest...CHICK PLEASE! 🤣🤣🤣
IDK how girls think y'all can date and be dating then soon as somebody dating with y'all and not y'all boyfriend then she still bringing her boyfriend around at BBQ 's 😂😂😂
The fact that Jeremy didnt even see the problem with him going on a trip with an ex sleeping in the same hotel room tells you everything you need to know. For the streets!
I would have been so cool if he was serious. I would have loved this! I like to know what I’m getting into and he had a front row invite, that’s an honor. I do think they should have made time for one another afterward. But again, he’s an unserious man. And quite the ⛽️ gaslighter I naught add. He knows it’s wild!
You wrong bruh I ain’t gone cap lol at no point should you pursue another relationship and still be going on trips with your ex. You don’t bring that baggage into soemthing
Only issue I have with her is still having love for her ex.. who she probably had the kid with. If a man still have love for his ex would be a big issue. So that shouldn’t be a thing in any relationship.
Having love for an ex dont mean you inlove it just means yall are cool with one another ... not to say they are in love ... its being matured about the prev situation... basically civil adults ending things on a respectful note ...THEY NOT IN LOVE ... BASICALLY THERE IS NO HATE ... YOU DONT HAVE TO HATE YOUR EX @amirken5309
It was about 3 guys in a row who asked some variation of that question . All have had catchups, one couple had a second catchup. All 3 guys was on some nonsense
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend. I would do the same.
She is absolutely beautiful and so mature! She handled this conversation so well. He has so much growing up to do & needs to go fix his relationship with his ex in Puerto Rico.
to be honest they are both walking red flags so i would not be picking sides here . they really "found" each other is all i´m saying . she is a stripper with baby daddy issues and he is "doing" his ex on vacation few days after he went on a dating show to "find love" ...
I just finished the whole thing and came away feeling like he’s probably a pretty intelligent dude. I can see why she would think the trip with an ex is a red flag situation, but I can also see where he’s coming from. He said the show was filmed in early August and his birthday/the trip was late August. I know I for damn sure ain’t canceling a trip to PR after dating some chick for a couple weeks, especially if said chick is giving off hella red flags herself like this one was.
This man is diabolical- he is really accusing this lady of still wanting her ex meanwhile he goes on a trip with his ex (building memories, staying in the same room, etc…) this is classic narcissist.
Yes Yes he may be that for sure But the is no way in hell she's gonna be held accountable for bringing a total Stanger to a family gathering that also included her ex-fiance/babyfather who is always around but never loved by the rest of the family 😅 As a man Would I want to accept that social contract either, noooooooo wayyyyyyyyy Brelaunte, no way 😅
@@ghaffarellis the child’s father is forever FAMILY they have a good co-parent relationship. She said she has tried to hook the child’s father up with other females. That means she is completely healed and fully moved on from that relationship. Inviting this guy to a family gathering on the first day was maybe a bit much. She has the cancer ♋️ tat, I’m a cancer too. Family is everything (which she stated). I know people like this…the best way to know if you’re good people is to bring you around family and see if it’s a vibe.
@@Quoteablemoments inviting him to the family BBQ with her kid , her ex and her family all at once just a few hours after the show was way over the line then he probably also witnessed some family drama or so called "parenting" after which the baby daddy got offended and left . so no wonder he was not all in for all the drama and i don´t blame him , i would think this girl is kookoo as well and run away as fast as i can if i was in his position . (that is why i have a rule never to date single mums)
At this point, I would not be surprised if Arlette starts dropping content every day of the week, and I will watch every single one. She's on top of her game, and I always use her shows like some teaching moments. So proud of her 🇨🇩 🇨🇩!!!!
SINGLE MOTHER WITH DRAMA COMING ON A DATING SHOW, AND BRINGING ALL HER BITTERNESS ONTO A DATING SHOW. NO MORE WOMEN WITH CHILDREN ON THIS SHOW AGAIN, PLEASE !! AN ABSOLUTE WASTE OF A CONTESTANT.
Her response was weak because she lied. He told her the truth, and she lied. He had enough maturity to be honest. She lacked the maturity to express her displeasure, and she made up some lame excuse to mask her low emotional IQ ... and ya'll are praising her. Be a grown up. Communicate how you feel. Be honest.
Women’s logic is nonexistent I swear you females have no logic or accountability having a trip planned before the show for months as opposed to bringing somebody you met on the show To your family’s barbecue knowing your accents and son’s father is going to be there to make them jealous of each other that’s a chicken head move
Not really. Her and her baby father is going beyond co-parenting. They hang out together still. What does coparenting have to do with going clubbing. And he just met her and had not even been dating yet. His trip was planned before meeting her. Did she expect him to cancel with his friend and take her?
And it was a pre planned tripe who cares !!! Plan your trip and don't go on the show . I'm wondering if he knows any female he just met that wouldn't have a problem with that set up smh
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend. I would do the same.
The kid was not alone with this man. He was with his family and father. It’s the best environment to see how a potential evolved around your family. And sooner is better.
She handled him very well. When people do things to you that are toxic, you dont owe them an explanation. Offering explanations leave the door open for more abusive behaviors! Well handled👍
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend. I would do the same.
@@claudeclaude9991He was going regardless 😂. He said the trip was already planned. He just can’t accept that he was wrong on the front. He has to throw it back at her because her bd was there but she wanted this guy still.
@@claudeclaude9991exactly....the audacity of this modern women. She wants to eat her cake and still have it. From her behavior here bro dodged a bullet. I still don't understand why some guys even give single mothers the time of the day. W for Jeremy
She told him she still love her ex and her BD was at the BBQ. Like he said she didn’t give him a reason to not go on an already planned trip. She’s a goofball
OK now this guy is a grandmaster at gaslighting he’s a professional. We can use this video as a training for those who wants to learn how to learn the art of gaslighting, she handled it very, very well (No Ni”@? I don’t wanna hug you) for the young lady I missed read her. I thought she was there for clout because she was too fine to be with him, but then I was wrong. She was authentic. She can do much better than that. And she appears to have a good heart more power to you. You know exactly what you want. Keep swimming queen.❤👍
Cmon cuhz, going on a trip with your ex and stayin in the same room is crazy lol and taking dude to meet the BD & Family the same day yall met is crazy as well.
Trust me if he was into her after their first encounter with her family and her baby daddy then he was going to cancel that trip and she was never going to know about it .He went ahead coz he checked out .
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend. I would do the same.
@@claudeclaude9991 That boy was thinking about his ex before the show, at the show , & after the show. Y’all gotta stop this. That man is like many men around, Deceptive Gaslighters. And FYI He could’ve told her how he felt off back if he knew he didn’t want to pursue any further. Duh
She was comfortable with bringing him to her family cookout, showinw that she was serious about finding love. Even comfortable bringing him around her baby daddy, speak volumes. And he, on the other hand, had pre-planned trip with an ex, showing down not serious he was taking it. That boy should know a good woman would not be okay with this. But maybe this was a test to see how gullible she was. But nope...she's not stupid! She bounced in a hurry. Proud of her.
That dude was either delusional or a sociopath. For him to keep a straight face the whole time gaslighting, rationalizing the most awkward behavior, and making up stuff is crazy work. She dodged a huge bullet.
She had a bbq planned with her ex. He saw the ex there and heard her comments and assumed it was okay for him to continue to hang out with his own ex. They both did the same thing. 🤷♀️ Stop simping.
Who goes on a dating show knowing they have a preplanned vacation with an ex ...now contestants really about to start asking about preplanned trips or attachments to exes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She has explained to him in so many ways concerning her relationship with her child’s father, and he keeps twisting the narrative because he is actually messing with his ex. This type of person will drive you insane 🤦🏽♀️
I think he is the smartest asshole ever. He is ignorant. He is evasive. She is out of his league. I would totally date her. What's does he expect from her of he was not clear from his previous relationship. He is a liar. He sought to deceive her. She is so mature. She will find a person who will value her. God bless you Lady ..
@@TorriKnowles lol, she’s definitely not “out of his league” at all, imho they both big a$$ weirdos! he 30 & she 28 responsible for raising another human being and they both acting like two big goofy 2yr olds.
@@TorriKnowles but hey i’m a grown man tho, no way in hell im going to meet someone i jus met family, baby and ex-fiancé who she still kicking with and love 2nd itha he could have jus said he had pre-planned bday trip and will follow up with her when he back intown or jus not told her anything cuz they jus met and its none of her business. But like i said they both goofballs
She fucked up when she brought this man around her baby daddy y'all don't know what was said what happened between with him and her baby daddy at the end of the day these folks single ash
The IRONY that he claims she has an emotional attachment to her ex who is her BABY FATHER since 17 years old but can't see the problem with going on a solo vacation, just him and his ex, and they stayed in the same room. Make it make sense!
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend. I would do the same.
@@Usersomethingsomethunless it was the child’s birthday party or a holiday, I think that’s kind of weird even if everybody is just cool with each other. But dude is trifling for that. If that’s an ex there shouldn’t be any vacation time together. I doubt that was an ex then because let’s be real they weren’t just going to be looking at each other. I think single parents should be with single parents and Ik they have no way of verifying people real relationship status but if after the match they’re found to have wasted each other time, they shouldn’t be allowed to come back for the show not even an update
Bro..... A trip with your ex? Your EX?? After you went on the show AND got a match? You knew damn well you were gonna go on that trip with your EX regardless and knock her ankles loose in Puerto Rico. Ngl that was some sleazy behaviour. Stop waste people kissmeass time! Edit: I must add though, inviting him to a FAMILY cookout 17 seconds after matching is absolutely deleterious work. What?? 😂😂 Gyal your head en good nah. But then again her doing that showed him up much sooner rather than later so there's that.
I always think they do way too much on these dates. if it's not meeting the entire family, it's spending the night at each other's house in the first week. 😑
This is the type of women men in general go for. Not trying to be mean but a lot of women with this aesthetic have no personality of their own. Very materialistic and vain. That gets tiring fast.
She ain’t worth a bag of peanuts..She got a dysfunctional baby daddy and another man’s child, She needs to be on her knees, thanking God that she still get the time of day From anyone..
He could've changed his mind had things gone differently that night. There are things he learnt, that he can't mention that are too real. The story is very different, if he mentions those things, notice how he protects her privacy. It's easy to throw shades and feel sorry for the lady in the court of public opinion. He chose not to expose her, he didn't want another Jerry Springer show type of situation. Trust me on this. Look at how come, and clear he was.
He’s a Professional Gaslighter. He started it on the show 😅 I do remember having a uncertain feeling about him while watching the show, like he plays games and was feeling the women out with his questions, preparing for the gaslighting to come! 😂
@jasonMB999 yall be so paranoid about a child's father, and it's pathetic. They were cordial with the man cause they want and need him to be more active in the child's life. Grow tf up. Yall tell on yourselves that yall aren't "pickable." Remember, women are supposed to "choose" better, right? 🤣🤣🤣 child's play
so the reason he asked that question on the show because he had an ex hes stringing along and he wanted to make sure they didnt have that same situation...whew hes something elseee!
Trust me, that is not his ex. They are very much dating. The guy is not it at all. The girl dodged a bullet and she is so mature. I will never go on a trip with an ex and that is periodt!
Nah it’s a good way to test a man’s intentions. A lot of players are gonna run before he faces your father, brothers, uncles, male cousins. But a date shouldn’t meet your child so early until it’s serious and going somewhere.
Who goes on a trip with an ex who's also a friend? Bruh 😂 Update: This bro is wild 😂 Another update: Is this bro listening to himself? 😂😂😂 What do bros expect when they choose baby mamas? You must clearly understand that the baby daddy will ALWAYS be in the picture. Jeez!
He was going to cancel that trip had he liked her but he told her about it coz he already knew after knowing her a lil bit more that it was not going to happen.
They have only been separated for “one year”, they are basically on/off. They like the idea of not being monogamous, no responsibility, no accountability to a partner. Sounds like Will & Jada 🫣
I bet they still linking on the low 😅 She wants him even though she’s not happi with his actions. She’s so beautiful and well spoken, lord bless me with a Good one like this ❤️😇
*No sir, her child's father being at a birthday party and you going on vacation with your ex/ "friend" sharing the same room is totally different. Let's not play dumb!* 🙄😒
feel like he’s being dense on purpose tbh, like yes it’s odd to have your ex at some of the families functions and you can address that but to say it’s the same as sharing a room and going on a trip with someone you haven’t been in a relationship with for a year is crazy. We know they def did stuff🤣🤣
What’s different about it? No different at all. She still connected to her ex in her own way. And the guy is still connected to his ex in his on way. Stop with the B.S. have your cake and eat it too frameworks. Either cut off your Ex completely, or dont get mad when the other guy does not cut off his ex.
he's trying to act like he's being respectful , but in reality he knows he's on BS. She's in the wrong too tho, a family cook out is wayyy too much for a 1st date.
Yes yes yes yes YES! The worst part of dating is how many sucky people they are out there and they’ll try their best to convince you they’re not what you see
Love how she’s standing up for herself and stood on business. Noticed the first red flag and DIPPED. Good for you girl! 🎉🎉
I would’ve done the same thing too
I'm just so surprised at how these women be on here pop the balloon, drop Dead gorgeous! And men be still out here playing with these beautiful women! So what's the purpose of a man saying he want a beautiful woman only so he can play games with her! Now he know damn well if the shoes was on the other foot and she stayed in a hotel room with her ex-boyfriend he would have a problem with that! But some men think because they're the man, no rules applies to them.. as far as I'm concerned if he had a plan trip with his ex he shouldn't have came on the show! He's full of s***! PERIOD! So disappointing! So a waste of her time! If she wasn't serious about you she wouldn't invited you to her barbecue with all her family idiot!
She must’ve looked in a mirror bcuz she is the red flag
@@vincewilson8969 …how so Vince? ..let’s hear it..
What did the “modern woman” of this generation do this time ?
@@AdamJones-w2q What she did was state that she has "love" for her baby daddy.....but then says she can't stand him.
This man sniffed out the bullcrap and mentally checked out right away, and good thing he did.
Jeremy went on a dating show to find love, all while having a trip planned with his ex, staying in the same hotel room. That’s absolutely wild. Men, we’ve got to do better.
Right 💯
True that sacked
Bro you’ve hit the nail on the head!!!
So trash
And the fact that he’s laughing about it
I love how this shows how some dating situations are. You meet a new person, trying to get to know someone & they're still mixing & mingling with their ex & wasting your time. Sums it up perfectly! 💯
Exactly... ! It's really exhausting even attempting to date in these times now.
The wild part is that both of them have problems with each other mixing and mingling with their exes
Yes or they lie lie lie
He should’ve lied and not said his ex
That part.
I really like this lady. Bring her back... she's very intelligent and beautiful.
don’t invite your date’s to meet your old boyfriends it’s that simple 😂😂
don’t invite your date’s to meet your old boyfriends it’s that simple 😂😂
@@Aaronlovefood truth. Shes not the brightest either if you want love why you allow your family to keep inviting your ex around wheres hes meeting your potentials. Definitely Hes not wrong to not cancel his plans. Especially when she obviously communicated she has feelings for her ex and feels she dont need to do call backs. Also she put up clear red flags that she wants to be an industry girl. So women have to do better as well if they want love. Cover up for one thing. Yikes
@@AaronlovefoodI was waiting on this comment
She definitely bad
Meeting the fam, baby daddy, and kid in one night is crazy. He's even crazier for having a trip with his ex booked before going on the show
Damn even you on here now? Lmaoo.
That’s what I’m saying. They were both buggin
All this
It’s odd but he not that crazy. You’re not guaranteed a match on the show. He moved based on his experience at the party. She had him go to the party to make her ex jealous.
@@JudasKissNoMidasTouchexactly
Bro’s mental gymnastics about going on a trip with his ex being ok should be studied by scientists. 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Gasssslighter
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
hahahaha
Like he’s so full of sh*t trying to justify it. BOY BYEEEE
My guy a world class gaslighter😂bro you tried it though.😂😂
to be honest she was no better ...
they really "found" each other .
😂 they deserve each other
That’s tough 😂
1000% garbage
It’s good to see a man clock his bs instead of deflecting
When he said they stayed in the same room it was a complete wrap 😂
Wiiillllddd!!!!!
It is a dump.
No she had it right, it was a wrap to go on the vacation all together. It would have made me no difference if they stayed in different rooms. You’re not on a vacation with ur ex and I’m waiting for you to return. It’s a hell naw for me
This just made me appreciate my wife more. Faithfulness and honesty are priceless qualities in this generation.
Shout out to your wife because this man is my idea of hell. He deflects, projects and lies. This man just makes mess up at the drop of a hat and will say anything to your face it seems. I am honestly horrified. Yes, attraction is good but good character and morals has to be of higher importance.
The last thing we need is a podcast from this man...
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We dont need it at all
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@@indietee yoooo I said the exact thing!!!! He needs to get out of here with that. At least we got to see a real life example of how he interacts with women because a lot of these men on podcasts talk a certain way but in real life, date like savages which we don’t usually have the ability to see or hear about.
These people come on this show with the pure intent to waste somebody’s time 😂😂 I’m convinced!
Absolutely!
For real! @@NicoletteLawrence-q4i
Facts💯 just to see themselves on TV nothing else🤣
Dude fumbled 😂😭 point blank period
Facts!!!!!!! I here,looking at my phone WISHING to meet her.Man,I would settle and go full throttle with her❤
She pretty asf
BIIIIGGGGGGG TIME!!!!
She’s a single mom. If he can get her he can get another baddie without kids
I said the same until I heard the full story why would you bring someone your just getting to know in a situation where you can barely see or spend time with him plus you and your baby father are going back and forth. I think he saw that she wasn't serious and told her about his ex and him going on a trip to let her down easy.
I don’t say this often, but that guy is FRIED. bro was really tryna’ gaslight her. 😂
Multiple times
Right!!!
They do it all the time , she received her own medicine
@@MaryMac04So
@@GladToBeNaturalgood , she a bird 🐦 anyway
Im floored how he is trying to gaslight her to believe that going on a vacation with your ex isn’t a reason to cut things off
And saying at the same time that her baby daddy that she hasn’t had a relationship with an eight years is a problem. Men these days, make me sick.
Anybody would see that as a red flag. Having peace between u and ur ex is different from being buddy buddy and going on a trip 😂 staying in the same room ? Damn only booboo the fool would try to contact him to see where things can go after that
All you ladies are dellusional , she's a baby mamma , The best that a baby mama can get is her baby daddy . Good looks only make it easy for you to get laid not getting a husband after carrying someone else's child please learn.
It wasn’t it. They are dating. Not serious.
@@knowbeonekanobe5672if a women told you that she’s going on a vacay with her ex, while dating you, would you see as her someone you’d like to be serious with later on? Come on now be real.
Dating in this generation is so EXHAUSTING!😭😩
It is
On both sides!! I'm damn near giving up
Im exhausted and Im just watching. Lol
@@DeeeeeKay392 Purely entertainment for me too, at this point...lol. This chick though, butterflies on her eyes, ridiculously long nails, and a big azz 69 tatted in the middle of her damn chest...CHICK PLEASE! 🤣🤣🤣
It’s more like a waste of time
Her views and feelings on their situation are 100% valid.
This man is delulu. How he kept a straight face is beyond me. 😂
❤x100
He just came on the show for some booty while still trying to get back with his ex.
IDK how girls think y'all can date and be dating then soon as somebody dating with y'all and not y'all boyfriend then she still bringing her boyfriend around at BBQ 's 😂😂😂
@@StevenHenry-j4lyeah a few hours after the show with the baby daddy around 😂
How are u this delulu ??? She’s the ONE THAT INVITED HIM TO A FAM BBQ AFTER THE FIRST MEET ….. with her baby daddy THERE ! Who does that ??
The fact that Jeremy didnt even see the problem with him going on a trip with an ex sleeping in the same hotel room tells you everything you need to know. For the streets!
Diabolical for real
I would have been so cool if he was serious. I would have loved this! I like to know what I’m getting into and he had a front row invite, that’s an honor. I do think they should have made time for one another afterward. But again, he’s an unserious man. And quite the ⛽️ gaslighter I naught add. He knows it’s wild!
Exactly
Insane
You wrong bruh I ain’t gone cap lol at no point should you pursue another relationship and still be going on trips with your ex. You don’t bring that baggage into soemthing
She’s beautiful and definitely stood on business! Hope she finds real love! ❤
Who go want a baby momma trying to rap @OliyaRoche
So true this guy is a clown
The evil laugh he did at the end was the most genuine thing that came out his mouth
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This guy is playing games, I love the maturity of this gal
Only issue I have with her is still having love for her ex.. who she probably had the kid with. If a man still have love for his ex would be a big issue. So that shouldn’t be a thing in any relationship.
Right !
Maturity? 🤣
Mature? Did u see the end she petty tbh He's awful yeah but she just as bad tbh
Having love for an ex dont mean you inlove it just means yall are cool with one another ... not to say they are in love ... its being matured about the prev situation... basically civil adults ending things on a respectful note ...THEY NOT IN LOVE ... BASICALLY THERE IS NO HATE ... YOU DONT HAVE TO HATE YOUR EX @amirken5309
Those girls that popped their ballon on his question dodged a bullet!
It was about 3 guys in a row who asked some variation of that question . All have had catchups, one couple had a second catchup. All 3 guys was on some nonsense
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend.
I would do the same.
@@claudeclaude9991the trip with his ex was pre-planned, so… 🤷🏾♀️
This gaslighter asked that to gage which of the girls would be most down on herself to pick the best victim for gaslighting
@@droosyg252They had a year to change those arrangements if his lie was true. He was still dating his ex at the time.
I'm a guy and i can't even defend this man. That's nasty work, a whole vacation with your ex's and on dating platform at that is wild.
As a fellow guy, lol I absolutely cannot defend this guy even if I tried to use the same mental gymnastics as him. Lol diabolical 😂
100% man here and I 100% agree. I wouldn't allow (sorry, I would HIGHLY discourage) my daughter, sister, niece, cousin, etc to date him.
Facts!!!!
I was trying to have his back, but He lost me when he said they stayed in the same room in PR 🤦🏾♂️
@@_CPerk you can't make this stuff up 🤣
She is absolutely beautiful and so mature! She handled this conversation so well. He has so much growing up to do & needs to go fix his relationship with his ex in Puerto Rico.
He's full of SH!T ! 🤣 Lmaoooo
Lol
He probably liked men too 😂
They both are
😂😂😂
He Was Deflecting From His Vacation Trying To Make Her Baby Dad An Issue.
But Honestly She Dodged Him & Good For Her!
to be honest they are both walking red flags so i would not be picking sides here .
they really "found" each other is all i´m saying .
she is a stripper with baby daddy issues and he is "doing" his ex on vacation few days after he went on a dating show to "find love" ...
On some Star Wars shi he was deflecting doe
don’t invite your date’s to meet your old boyfriends it’s that simple 😂😂
@@darkglobe406I agree 100%
He needs justification for his bad behavior!!
The way he was throwing out all these big words trying to make it seem like he really knows what he’s talking about is crazy 😂😂😭😭😭🫠
Fr he just love hearing him himself talk 😂😂 ain't even talking about none
I just finished the whole thing and came away feeling like he’s probably a pretty intelligent dude.
I can see why she would think the trip with an ex is a red flag situation, but I can also see where he’s coming from. He said the show was filmed in early August and his birthday/the trip was late August. I know I for damn sure ain’t canceling a trip to PR after dating some chick for a couple weeks, especially if said chick is giving off hella red flags herself like this one was.
If you think any word he used was big 😖
I was thinking the same thing 😂😂 this man slow
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Arlette’s reaction to crazy shit is the best part😂
This man is diabolical- he is really accusing this lady of still wanting her ex meanwhile he goes on a trip with his ex (building memories, staying in the same room, etc…) this is classic narcissist.
Yes Yes he may be that for sure
But the is no way in hell she's gonna be held accountable for bringing a total Stanger to a family gathering that also included her ex-fiance/babyfather who is always around but never loved by the rest of the family 😅
As a man Would I want to accept that social contract either, noooooooo wayyyyyyyyy Brelaunte, no way 😅
@@ghaffarellis the child’s father is forever FAMILY they have a good co-parent relationship. She said she has tried to hook the child’s father up with other females. That means she is completely healed and fully moved on from that relationship.
Inviting this guy to a family gathering on the first day was maybe a bit much. She has the cancer ♋️ tat, I’m a cancer too. Family is everything (which she stated). I know people like this…the best way to know if you’re good people is to bring you around family and see if it’s a vibe.
I'd say narcissism is a bit deeper than that, but he's definitely manipulative
@@Quoteablemoments inviting him to the family BBQ with her kid , her ex and her family all at once just a few hours after the show was way over the line
then he probably also witnessed some family drama or so called "parenting" after which the baby daddy got offended and left .
so no wonder he was not all in for all the drama and i don´t blame him , i would think this girl is kookoo as well and run away as fast as i can if i was in his position .
(that is why i have a rule never to date single mums)
At this point, I would not be surprised if Arlette starts dropping content every day of the week, and I will watch every single one. She's on top of her game, and I always use her shows like some teaching moments. So proud of her 🇨🇩 🇨🇩!!!!
Our congolese pride
@@gabrielmakonda2656 You're damn right, she represents us so well. So happy to see her every week.
Me as well I learned so much about myself just from this show
@@gabrielmakonda2656Is she originally from Congo??
Yes @@childrentoys4537
"I think My Phone is dying!"
She gotta make Merch 4 dat!!!
Lmfao!!!!!!!
😂😂
Right I be like let me call you back then blockedtttttt!!!
SINGLE MOTHER WITH DRAMA COMING ON A DATING SHOW, AND BRINGING ALL HER BITTERNESS ONTO A DATING SHOW. NO MORE WOMEN WITH CHILDREN ON THIS SHOW AGAIN, PLEASE !! AN ABSOLUTE WASTE OF A CONTESTANT.
Right that comment was so underrated 😂😂😂
Her response was weak because she lied. He told her the truth, and she lied. He had enough maturity to be honest. She lacked the maturity to express her displeasure, and she made up some lame excuse to mask her low emotional IQ ... and ya'll are praising her. Be a grown up. Communicate how you feel. Be honest.
I had to pause to do something, right after he mentioned his vacation with his ex. Arlette's face is hilarious during that part!!
Idc idc idc I love her personality 😂❤ please have her back on for her own blind date episode or something!
Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent.
Simp
Yes ❤
I agree!
They both weren't looking for love. They were there for exposure, and its obvious, so i wouldn't bring her back either!
Why is no one talking about how gorgeous she is. Like oh my😍
Rubi rose
She’s literally so beautiful 😍
date her
Gay
Rite!😍🔥
Comparing co-parenting to going on a vacation with an ex is a new level of gaslighting.
@@sunsetnwaves Women wanting commitment after one family BBQ while simultaneously dating 10 other dudes is a new level of narcissism.
Women’s logic is nonexistent I swear you females have no logic or accountability having a trip planned before the show for months as opposed to bringing somebody you met on the show To your family’s barbecue knowing your accents and son’s father is going to be there to make them jealous of each other that’s a chicken head move
@@ilovekitteys what....ho is you coo?
@@ilovekitteys???? What are you talking about?
Not really. Her and her baby father is going beyond co-parenting. They hang out together still. What does coparenting have to do with going clubbing. And he just met her and had not even been dating yet. His trip was planned before meeting her. Did she expect him to cancel with his friend and take her?
Girl, you dodged a huge bullet 💯im so happy you did👏👏👏 You value yourself 🌹
Dude you went on the show !! If you were not ready to move on you should not have been on the show
THAT PART! So tired of all these guys and their games !!!!
And it was a pre planned tripe who cares !!! Plan your trip and don't go on the show . I'm wondering if he knows any female he just met that wouldn't have a problem with that set up smh
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He made the decision after the first link up w her.
@christine2952 The ladies play games too
As a man, going on a vacay with your EX while trying to find love is diabolical.
So is inviting a man you just met to a family function where your baby daddy is.
Periodt
@brandonpky8229 exactly crazy this is why no one is getting very far in dating! 😮
She handled this so well. She needs a Blind Date episode!!
Completely agree!! He tried all that mental gymnastics and wordplay. Dangerous guy.
Last thing she needs on top of this is to get set-up with Eric 😭
@@kennyquesadilla LMAOOO that will be her 13th reason 💀🤣
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend.
I would do the same.
Fa real im ready to sign up
Sister girl, stop bringing all of these random men around your son!
Man,and I am here in another country WISHING I could meet her😥This foolish man fumbled her
@@juniorfletcher8256 simp she a red flag
The kid was not alone with this man. He was with his family and father. It’s the best environment to see how a potential evolved around your family. And sooner is better.
Its mighty funny Mr. Accountability can't take accountability 😂😂😂😂. I knew it wasn't going to go right...
Shit crazy
They’re always the main ones preaching about accountability. 😂😂😂
Right! Those are the main gas lighters
Right!
@@ginabelle7 facts💯
She handled him very well. When people do things to you that are toxic, you dont owe them an explanation. Offering explanations leave the door open for more abusive behaviors! Well handled👍
100% this! She knows her worth and said NEXT!!!
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend.
I would do the same.
@@claudeclaude9991 I'm not surprised by your response!
@@claudeclaude9991He was going regardless 😂. He said the trip was already planned. He just can’t accept that he was wrong on the front. He has to throw it back at her because her bd was there but she wanted this guy still.
@@claudeclaude9991exactly....the audacity of this modern women. She wants to eat her cake and still have it. From her behavior here bro dodged a bullet. I still don't understand why some guys even give single mothers the time of the day. W for Jeremy
This catch up is the definition of "Boy, Bye" & "Girl, RUN" LOL
😂
He’s a goofball!
She told him she still love her ex and her BD was at the BBQ. Like he said she didn’t give him a reason to not go on an already planned trip. She’s a goofball
Even if he didn’t go to the cookout, the trip with his ex was ALREADY booked. He was going regardless 😂 why are we playing mental gymnastics.
This!!!!
Exactly, a co-parent is not the same as an Ex. Co-parenting is mandatory when you make a child unless you’re married. He tried to play her.
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Right, acting like he only went because the ex was at the bbq or that the bbq at all influenced his decision to go.
OK now this guy is a grandmaster at gaslighting he’s a professional. We can use this video as a training for those who wants to learn how to learn the art of gaslighting, she handled it very, very well (No Ni”@? I don’t wanna hug you) for the young lady I missed read her. I thought she was there for clout because she was too fine to be with him, but then I was wrong. She was authentic. She can do much better than that. And she appears to have a good heart more power to you. You know exactly what you want. Keep swimming queen.❤👍
She literally has a 69 tattoo splitting her coconuts
She is not a victim, she wanted to test him and it failed ... miserably😊
💯
Cmon cuhz, going on a trip with your ex and stayin in the same room is crazy lol and taking dude to meet the BD & Family the same day yall met is crazy as well.
Trust me if he was into her after their first encounter with her family and her baby daddy then he was going to cancel that trip and she was never going to know about it .He went ahead coz he checked out .
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend.
I would do the same.
Big Brazy
@@claudeclaude9991 That boy was thinking about his ex before the show, at the show , & after the show.
Y’all gotta stop this.
That man is like many men around, Deceptive Gaslighters.
And FYI He could’ve told her how he felt off back if he knew he didn’t want to pursue any further. Duh
Also, NO MORE PODCASTS!
"You don't have to fall out to walk out." Is a bar❤
His tiny bun said everything we needed to know😂
The best comment!!😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao
😂😂😂😂😂
Right read the signs ladies
She was comfortable with bringing him to her family cookout, showinw that she was serious about finding love. Even comfortable bringing him around her baby daddy, speak volumes. And he, on the other hand, had pre-planned trip with an ex, showing down not serious he was taking it. That boy should know a good woman would not be okay with this. But maybe this was a test to see how gullible she was. But nope...she's not stupid! She bounced in a hurry. Proud of her.
It shows that she likes to play with fire, some things can’t be reversed.
Women will bring you around the men they f-ing, f-ed, would like to f, so yeah speaks volumes.
And then to hop on a podcast and speak poorly on her family is crazy!!!
Mike and Khe are probably boo'd up watching these catch-ups like “damn, that's crazy”. 😂😂😂😂
😂💯
😂 true
They will be divorced before you know it
😂😂😂😂😂
Wow… who hurt you?
She hate bruh😂😂😂rolled her eyes at the end
he wasted her time that ante cool i think some of these guys just coming to chase clout
That dude was either delusional or a sociopath. For him to keep a straight face the whole time gaslighting, rationalizing the most awkward behavior, and making up stuff is crazy work. She dodged a huge bullet.
The are both weird...you never bring a stranger around your kids and family on the first day!
Dude knew he was never going to take her serious after that BBQ.
My boy went looking for love while having a trip planned with his ex 😂
@@ClearThirty right what a goofy.
She had a bbq planned with her ex. He saw the ex there and heard her comments and assumed it was okay for him to continue to hang out with his own ex. They both did the same thing. 🤷♀️ Stop simping.
The craziest ish ever
@busymike no bc her ex is her baby daddy and she's not going on trips with him and sleeping in the same bed. Stop gaslighting weirdo.
Real life clown
Who goes on a dating show knowing they have a preplanned vacation with an ex ...now contestants really about to start asking about preplanned trips or attachments to exes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
THIS!
💯
Men...🙄
@@creativepassionsfloraldesigns 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bm about to add that question real quick to the application 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I like her she made the Best decision she could have made Bring her back 💚💚🔥🔥🔥🔥
She’s gorgeous though and seems like she really wanted to find someone she deserves better
Totally
She cute but imho she look and give off “fun girl” vibe
No she doesnt. Shes a mother and still in love with him.
@@tmston2 what does that even mean? Did you watch the episode?
A man needs more than "gorgeous" in a woman. She comes off as entitled and will be trouble for any man looking to genuinely wife her.
Arlette and BM have been on top of their game uploading videos
yessssssssss i love it
It's called employees
who is BM tho?
@@chinedufelixie7814 her husband who films and produces the show
@@chinedufelixie7814her husband
She has explained to him in so many ways concerning her relationship with her child’s father, and he keeps twisting the narrative because he is actually messing with his ex. This type of person will drive you insane 🤦🏽♀️
He's chasing the ex that treats him like dirt!
I think he is the smartest asshole ever. He is ignorant. He is evasive. She is out of his league. I would totally date her. What's does he expect from her of he was not clear from his previous relationship. He is a liar. He sought to deceive her. She is so mature. She will find a person who will value her. God bless you Lady ..
@@TorriKnowles lol, she’s definitely not “out of his league” at all, imho they both big a$$ weirdos! he 30 & she 28 responsible for raising another human being and they both acting like two big goofy 2yr olds.
@@TorriKnowles but hey i’m a grown man tho, no way in hell im going to meet someone i jus met family, baby and ex-fiancé who she still kicking with and love
2nd itha he could have jus said he had pre-planned bday trip and will follow up with her when he back intown or jus not told her anything cuz they jus met and its none of her business.
But like i said they both goofballs
She fucked up when she brought this man around her baby daddy y'all don't know what was said what happened between with him and her baby daddy at the end of the day these folks single ash
Bravo.... Bravo!! Arlette's show will never get old or tried
The IRONY that he claims she has an emotional attachment to her ex who is her BABY FATHER since 17 years old but can't see the problem with going on a solo vacation, just him and his ex, and they stayed in the same room. Make it make sense!
once you have baby by someone - u are attached to them for life -- ontop of that, the baby daddy showing up...ohh hell nah
@@michaele5588 showing up where? The baby daddy was invited to a family gathering by her family.
This is all wrong. You're meeting a potential boyfriend, and then you decide on the first date to leave your ex-boyfriend at your house with your future boyfriend? That's really stupid. I believe that's exactly why the guy decided to go on a trip with his ex-girlfriend.
I would do the same.
@@Usersomethingsomethunless it was the child’s birthday party or a holiday, I think that’s kind of weird even if everybody is just cool with each other. But dude is trifling for that. If that’s an ex there shouldn’t be any vacation time together. I doubt that was an ex then because let’s be real they weren’t just going to be looking at each other. I think single parents should be with single parents and Ik they have no way of verifying people real relationship status but if after the match they’re found to have wasted each other time, they shouldn’t be allowed to come back for the show not even an update
@@babyt556 yeah I cant down with that kumbaya everybody hangs thing myself
He’s a JOKE! You are ABSOLUTELY beautiful! She sounds very likable and family oriented. Girl be on your way!!! You will be scooped up in no time.
why wasnt she already scooped up
why women so delulu
a rapper single baby momma no one taking her serious thats why she is on pop the ballooon
That's right, he's a big joke
She will be scooped in no time right? Then why was she on a dating show if she was in demand? 😂you women are so delusional
Lolll nah she’s a player that got played
@@LOOKING-FOR-GLAZE-GALAXY
Are you aware that the men who be on pop the balloon are single as well?…
The body language always gives it away on these vids first few seconds,😂😂😂
On another note, she look like Ruby rose.
@@geraldtone5914 🔥🔥
Right. Both were looking the other way while the other was talking.
@@tropicallymixed. I mean sheesh dude is odd and trying to use big words to justify lol
Yess
Why tf would you take someone to meet your family the first day you meet them? 🤦🏽♀️
It wasn’t to meet her family with the intentions of oh this is my man. She invited him to a bbq, to continue the day off and get to know each other.
@@Asdfg292yeah but would def ask how they met. Especially if you come a super family oriented family. I would’ve held off
To “Calmly” Defend Going On A Trip With An Ex Is Wild.. It Doesn’t Matter How Eloquent You Articulate It- Wrong Is Wrong!!!!
Right! Tried all that mental gymnastics. Boy shut upppp
And that goes for BOTH men AND women.
She’s just as dirty as him🤦🏿♂️😂
@@danielleblake1358 Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent.
@@DLCOrganization Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent.
Bro..... A trip with your ex? Your EX?? After you went on the show AND got a match? You knew damn well you were gonna go on that trip with your EX regardless and knock her ankles loose in Puerto Rico. Ngl that was some sleazy behaviour. Stop waste people kissmeass time!
Edit: I must add though, inviting him to a FAMILY cookout 17 seconds after matching is absolutely deleterious work. What?? 😂😂 Gyal your head en good nah. But then again her doing that showed him up much sooner rather than later so there's that.
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@@chenni4127 ah glad yuh know 😂😂
Exactly 💯
Sounded Guyanese with that kiss me ass time😂
@@sheena.m7802 Tobago born and raised 😂😂🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
He met the family, friends, baby father, and kid in one night. GHEESH 😔.
This!!! I thought that was way too much after only knowing that man for a few hours. 😩
Run
I always think they do way too much on these dates. if it's not meeting the entire family, it's spending the night at each other's house in the first week. 😑
That was nutz, i can’t believe she offered & I cant believe he showed up!!!
This was a cop out because he still wanted to go on that trip but needed a reason to break it off or we was just trying to smash
She is so pretty!!
Praying that dating continues to get better for everyone genuinely looking for a partner. Companionship, love and partnership really is a blessing ❤
COOKED.. already read the energy.
Agreeed and I’m still in the first minute 😂😂😂
She looks like she can't stand him 🤭🤭🤭
Yeap. His body language is crazy with the crossed arms!!
This is the type of women men in general go for. Not trying to be mean but a lot of women with this aesthetic have no personality of their own. Very materialistic and vain. That gets tiring fast.
😂😂😂😂😂
I LOVE that this woman knows her WORTH!
They are both not serious
What's a baby mother who wants to be another rapper wotth?@@AllegedlyMe79
She ain’t worth a bag of peanuts..She got a dysfunctional baby daddy and another man’s child, She needs to be on her knees, thanking God that she still get the time of day From anyone..
@@VivianAgyemang-nu5xl At least somebody was paying attention!
No she doesn't. She's a baby mama.
She wassnt big mad.... she was HUGE MAD!! 😂😂😂😂
Yeah...he's wired different lol..and she is too..bringing him around your whole family the same day yall met is wild.
It’s actually a nice ice breaker
Not that deep.
Him agreeing to go around her family was weird to me also. Lol.
Dont forget the babydaddy theyre both crazy for what they did
That’s cool with me. They all got to feel him out real quick and he was able to feel them out and see if he fit in.
This boy Jeremy needs to be a politician the way he was running around questions, lying and carrying on.
Yep typical narcissists
@@mkawa1566 yep agree
lol I haven’t even watched yet! This took me out
To be specific, a politcian in Africa
No definitely politician material
He just wasted EVERYONES time. We get it that this trip was prob already planned, but you came on this show
Right why book the show if you had a trip with your friend- who happens to be your ex, who you shared a room with- planned. 🤯
He could've changed his mind had things gone differently that night. There are things he learnt, that he can't mention that are too real. The story is very different, if he mentions those things, notice how he protects her privacy. It's easy to throw shades and feel sorry for the lady in the court of public opinion. He chose not to expose her, he didn't want another Jerry Springer show type of situation. Trust me on this. Look at how come, and clear he was.
I just fell out the chair laughing at the eye roll at 27:53….😂😂😂😂😂
He’s a Professional Gaslighter. He started it on the show 😅 I do remember having a uncertain feeling about him while watching the show, like he plays games and was feeling the women out with his questions, preparing for the gaslighting to come! 😂
the fact he kept a straight face and actually believes what he says is crazy
Sis dodged a missile!!!! He's extremely manipulative! I hope his ex sees this and leaves him completely alone! He's incredibly diabolical
She is the missile...
Her wx is family now 🤣. You know what that means? Obvious you don't
@jasonMB999 yall be so paranoid about a child's father, and it's pathetic. They were cordial with the man cause they want and need him to be more active in the child's life. Grow tf up. Yall tell on yourselves that yall aren't "pickable." Remember, women are supposed to "choose" better, right? 🤣🤣🤣 child's play
@teamleoaug15 do you actually think we want to be picked by single mothers?
@jasonMB999 sir, no one is choosing you anyway....have a great life. You're too invested in someone's else POV/opinion.
She was about to throw that mike when he said thanks for being professional 😂😂😂
so the reason he asked that question on the show because he had an ex hes stringing along and he wanted to make sure they didnt have that same situation...whew hes something elseee!
Projection at its finest.
Ahhhh
Narcissistic
Keen observation!
That’s deep
HE IS A WHOLEEEEE FOOOLLLLL
There’s no way his ex is prettier than her
And a narcissist.
@@WholeHeartily so prettier equals better option? just curious
@@WholeHeartilyshe might be more his type tho…
@@kbis2cold🎯
I really like her, you can tell she came to the show with pure intentions. I would love to see her on another episode with a better match!
Not still in love with her Ex she need to deal with that
Trust me, that is not his ex. They are very much dating. The guy is not it at all. The girl dodged a bullet and she is so mature. I will never go on a trip with an ex and that is periodt!
Meeting family as the first link is bizarre lol
After a a dating show is crazy
Agreed!
Nah it’s a good way to test a man’s intentions. A lot of players are gonna run before he faces your father, brothers, uncles, male cousins.
But a date shouldn’t meet your child so early until it’s serious and going somewhere.
@@oromtitiwbo5078no it’s not, that is not normal.
@@oromtitiwbo5078nah cuz I was somewhat of a player and I would’ve been at the bbq with her. She too fine to run away from.
Who goes on a trip with an ex who's also a friend? Bruh 😂
Update: This bro is wild 😂
Another update: Is this bro listening to himself? 😂😂😂
What do bros expect when they choose baby mamas? You must clearly understand that the baby daddy will ALWAYS be in the picture. Jeez!
😂😂😂 loved all ur updates lol
He's a whole fool and bullshitter
He was going to cancel that trip had he liked her but he told her about it coz he already knew after knowing her a lil bit more that it was not going to happen.
Dude kept leaving me in shock 😂@@misstiff29
@@chiefk587stop speaking for him
Jeremy tripping 😂 he’s still smashing his X
They have only been separated for “one year”, they are basically on/off. They like the idea of not being monogamous, no responsibility, no accountability to a partner. Sounds like Will & Jada 🫣
Right, you think he about to go on a vacation and not hit that, yeah right lol
I bet they still linking on the low 😅
She wants him even though she’s not happi with his actions.
She’s so beautiful and well spoken, lord bless me with a Good one like this ❤️😇
Her name is quite fitting. She's literally glowing❤
Same room with ex.
At the end of this segment Arlette should have asked Jeremy "So why do you think you're single?"
And why did you come on the show especially when you already have a pre booked trip with an ex
but he's clearly not 🤣
@@oyino6879dkkkkkkkmmmmm😂😂 why are you like this??!😂😂😂
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*No sir, her child's father being at a birthday party and you going on vacation with your ex/ "friend" sharing the same room is totally different. Let's not play dumb!* 🙄😒
I totally disagree
@@tiaraseay8826I disagree a well
feel like he’s being dense on purpose tbh, like yes it’s odd to have your ex at some of the families functions and you can address that but to say it’s the same as sharing a room and going on a trip with someone you haven’t been in a relationship with for a year is crazy. We know they def did stuff🤣🤣
Absolutely! I was even surprised she entertained that conversation. He full of organic BS!
What’s different about it? No different at all. She still connected to her ex in her own way. And the guy is still connected to his ex in his on way. Stop with the B.S. have your cake and eat it too frameworks. Either cut off your Ex completely, or dont get mad when the other guy does not cut off his ex.
OK can we just appreciate how Arlette eats when it comes to her dress game, ❤❤❤
AND HE'S GOING TO START A PODCAST WITH THIS TYPE OF INSANITY... I'm so proud of her as a woman and mother. Definitely let him keep on moving‼️‼️‼️
He’s saying a whole lotta NOTHING…..
This
Exactly
he's trying to act like he's being respectful , but in reality he knows he's on BS. She's in the wrong too tho, a family cook out is wayyy too much for a 1st date.
😂😂
No seriously
It’s the eye rolling when he’s talking for me 😂
Very immature.
@@a.j.9727it was needed fa real....ninja was lying like a big dawg
She’s such a beautiful young lady and seems to have a great personality. His loss and congrats to her for dodging a bullet!
The thing I hate for people dating is that many people will unapologetically waste your time or just be straight up disrespectful or toxic.
and try to gaslight you and act like you were the issue 🤦 💀
Right, it's always "well i don't OWE you anything" in dating nowadays. Some people think you're not even owed basic decency or respect.
“It’s not like we’re married or anything?” Lol what? I only wanted to be treated like a human being tho
Yes yes yes yes YES! The worst part of dating is how many sucky people they are out there and they’ll try their best to convince you they’re not what you see
Jeremy looks way better here with his haircut.
Too bad he's a headass
Sure does! Most brothers do.
@REM977
Right, yet most of them want long hair, braided or locks/dreads which isn’t for everyone.
most men do
Barely 10 minutes, and I'm so excited not just by this upload but by everyone in the comment section😅
Watching from Japan🇯🇵, and it's 3am here😊
Damn even Japanese people watching
It's the evil laugh at the end for me... damn pure evil 😈