Why Isabelle & Friends Decided to Marry Foreigners Only | Isabella Daza
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- Опубліковано 15 бер 2022
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I used to work for an airline based overseas for 28 years with cultural diversity at the workplace. Yes, I totally agree that most of them are assertive, independent, confident and pragmatic. On the flip side, a lot of them ( not generalising here, ok?) especially Expats are arrogant, spoiled and self- entitled especially if they have been living in Asia for a good number of years. They have this huge superiority complex that they are so much better than the locals and act like they are God's gift to asian women. I do find however that those who are based in their home turf are way nicer. Then there's the common stereotypes, westerners going to Asia for the purpose of seeking brides, girlfriends or purely to indulge their sexual fantasies with more bang for their buck. A white nerdy guy , or an old, bald, overweight, pot -bellied white man with a very young asian girlfriend or wife is a common sight in the Philippines as well as other Southeast asian countries. Some women are barely even out of their teens, hoping this foreigner is their one way ticket out of poverty and a citizenship elsewhere where milk and honey is overflowing, so to speak. I guess this kind of interracial pairing stems from a "practical" mindset for both.
I used to date foreign guys before and I have to agree... They don’t sugar coat things and some of us may find it blunt and rude (since were are very culturally non-confrontational type of culture). But what I like about it is you don’t have to play mind games with them. They deal with the present situation as it is... So when the show you a romantic gesture, it’s very priceless since you know they are not wired that way. Filipino men are more affectionate and showy which is also a good thing. But sometimes, since we know that Filipino men are that way, we set the bar high for them in terms of showing affection. Which is unfair on their end since not most of them are. In a nutshell, when In a relationship whether they are foreign or of the same nationality, It’s better not to expect anything. Less expectations means less disappointment. And It’s better to be surprised on what’s in store in a relationship and it makes the experience more refreshing and dynamic. If you don’t expect, you’ll be surprised all the time. Which is better for me in my opinion.:-)
Belle should have her own podcast. She did the episode exceptionally well. Bravo👏
She have, with her sister. Its called sexytime podcast
I think for Belle and her click it would be just natural for them to be married to foreigners. It's because they are well connected and well traveled so it's bound to happen that they meet foreigners. Like they say you marry people you meet in your own circle.
True
either nationalities, if there's no connection and maturity between a couple, relationship will not work. I dated both, big plus in a progressive relationship is your connection with someone.
*clique.
This is so true. I've never heard a real-life story of a princess who married a pauper.
I find foreign men to be mostly faithful, straight forward in a nice way, so loving and supportive, and not too concerned about physical beauty. Unlike some Filipino men who would look more on the outward appearance rather than the beauty within.
Yes kapag may kamot malaki na tiyan iwan hanap kabet hahaha na panget din haha based on nakikita ko sa tulfo at face to face
Exactly my thoughts and I am married to a Brit man 😊
Indeed…
🤣🤣 now a naaasty asian women are try to hide their insecurity lol. Say who , who concerned about physical beauty lol. no need to shift your naaaasty mentality to other no need to blame asian men. We all know who are more concerned with physical beauty lol.
Yung mga panget at pandak pa choosy eh. LOL. Mga Pinoy, gusto magaganda, pero andudungis naman tignan, babaero pa.
Hey! Proud pre-school teacher here!!! Hello Ms Isabelle.. I so enjoy listening to this episode that I had to listen to it for few times. LDR is difficult but I agree with Ms Belle. If you love the person time and space should not come in the way. I've been in LDR for 12 years and its just getting stronger. I just realized that I experienced cancel culture for so long I just didn't know it because I'm honest and straight forward in what and how I feel. I'm trying to be low key but always ends up different. I believe in positive affirmation and that's what keeps me going.
You can see the hesitation of Will when Belle asked him the question back. 😂 its okay Kuya Will, you can always say you don't know or you're not sure yet ☺ cos "everything" is too vague for an answer. Nobody's perfect.
Thank you for this episode, Wil! ❤
Gosh..bitin!!!! Now I really have to download this episode from the Spotify. Okay, just downloaded it. Thank you, Wil and Isabelle!
I’m married to a American I think what attracted me the most is sorry for the Filipinos but they are not mamas boy 🤷🏻♀️ ofcourse I still made sure that my husband loves her mom and respects her but I never had the problem or insecurity of if his mom and I will get into a misunderstanding I always know I have his loyalty and that he will support what I think is the best and another big part is when you are married to a western family you will never feel the need to explain yourself! Your life your decision they know when to give their opinion when it’s needed
Yes to this! Absolutely true.
Strongly agreed! Im married to a white guy too! Same what you said
Agreed
Hmmm, Italian and Greek men=Mama's boys
tama yung sa opinion ng mga Westerners. Dito mga Pinoy ang daming opinion na hindi naman kelangan at hindi naman credible ung nagpapayo sayo. nakakagulo lang ng utak at napakatoxic.
Haha Will was caught with that question. His voice becomes low, still emotional.
I am engaged with an Australian guy and i totally agree with Belle. I love the practicality, straight to the point and the independent personality of western guys.
Agree ako di
Im Filipino and im like that, not all are the same
Whatever to each his own, dont generalize it makes you even shallower then the most ignorant Filipinas.
Haha Wil's reaction when Isabelle turns the question :D
Natawa ako... siya na ang ininterview. Panalo talaga itong si Belle.
She literally turned the table. Hahaha poor Will.
Haahhaha oo nga he was hesitant
When wil was asked the difference between dating a Filipina vs western woman and he answered “it’s different” he NAILED it!
lol
I’m married to spanish man and I’m totally agree to what belle said that foreigners are not showy
Appreciate that Belle praises both. Feel like we romanticize Filipino/White relationships so much and this def could’ve become another example internalized racism/eurocentrism
Trueeee. Nagbabasa ako ng comments ngayon, and parang internalized racism/eurocentrism nga yung ganap 😂
True, most of the comments are delusional, clearly subconsiously affected by the hundreds of years of historically demeaning treatment of Filipinos by the West and how western women don’t agree at all with these commenter’s romanticized view of “equality “. There’s literally hundreds of videos of how male and female inequality exists in the west. Just look at how the US has never been able to have a female president. It’s like many of these pinays are brainwashed.
@@sophiepunzalan ano po ibig sabihin ng eurocentrism? internalized racism?
oo nga eh... It's pretty sad.... what's worse is the utter obliviousness of their own racism....
@@kakastongs "Eurocentrism" is having a biased perspective that favours western cultures/standards over non-western ones... "Internalized racism" is basically believing that the people of your own race is inferior... don't necessarily mean that the racist individual think poorly of themselves, but rather, thinks that they are someone who is better than the common folk of his/her own race.
When all of a sudden there is a role reversal and flood of memories are flowing :)
I stayed a few years in the US honestly but most Pinay will not admit especially those who were not born there but came from PI the main reason is to improve their lives opportunities at financial help for their families love is just an after thought -thats why pinays marry a foreigner - pinays never say direct to the point but they are very practical in life and use marriage to improve social and financial status that's why they prefer foreigner that change their future
Westerners are more straightforward, like you'd be surprised how asking someone out and going on dates is normal. In the PH, it kinda has to happen naturally like no one will just go asking anyone out on dates that they don't know. You have to be a friend of a friend, a coworker, etc. thats why filipinos date older.
I’m married to a Caucasian and he is actually more romantic than my Filipino ex. He always gives me flowers during special occasions or sometimes even without occasion. So I guess it depends on a person.
But definitely my husband is way more loving and expresses love with words and actions.♥️
ok sinkit
Same here , my bf is very generous and thoughtful
Yeah, depends sa nationality and culture nila. Like Italians super romantic nila, emotional and territorial
Eh 'di maganda 👍
@@ey1583Territorial talaga?
Done listening to the podcast. I would say that Isabelle could be a LOVE GURU. She knows what she is talking about, no filters just facts. I like listening to that. I just realized when Wil's guests are also a host/speaker, the podcast turn out to be a barkada talk, a light, fun and no filters talk which is actually GREAT. there is a difference between talking to a barkada and interviewing someone. I find this podcast to be talking to a barkada/tropa. Real, juicy and informative, no filters just straight to the point facts. You can definitely agree to disagree anywhere in the conversation and barkada will definitely understand and respect your opinion. Want more of this! this also led me to listening to Isabelle podcat the sexytime podcast. thanks Wil for introducing Isabelle, she is totaly hot mama.
Parang si Isabelle ang mas nagInterview hehe she knows what to ask .. Isabelle wants to learn but Wil questions just want to know lang … sa clip na ito I don’t the rest
Because she's one of his true friends, along with Solenn, Nico & Erwan (according to what I heard on Spotify).
it’s not an interview, it’s a podcast.
@@giocalingasan Can you please give me the definition of podcast...dali
Lumalabas hosting skills that she learned and honed at Eat Bulaga 😁 nice
@@ralph_m31 Podcast Posdcasts are usually hosted by one or more people who conduct a conversation and share personal stories😊. so basically its kinda like a series of conversation po.
she's better in questioning and expressing than him. she should also start her own podcast.
two of my most recent relationships were from white guys, one from chicago, and the current one who i plan to get married to is from rural canada. di naman sa nilalahat ko but foreigners (specially western men) in general are independent, straight to the point, industrious, practical, and don’t have as much issues with their masculinity unlike a lot of pinoy men. the ones i’ve met normally aren’t threatened by their women being outspoken or having good careers or independent hobbies/passions. both white men i dated are protective and very resourceful too, leagues apart from the pinoys i dated. they walk the talk. of course di naman lahat ng foreigner ganyan at madami din pinoy men na ganyan but based on general observation and experience, this seems to be the norm.
true yan mam.. Sa Pinoy men din kasi they are looking for a perfect woman and perfect maid in one... sa west kasi ano ka, equal ka nila.
@@floriankristel ganyan talaga marami sa mga male peenoise
@@melissawebb979 why do you demean them with that racist slang?
Isabelle is such an intelligent woman!
couldn't agree more
More with Isabelle pleasee
I'm married to Black American,and you both correct because my husband isn't a romantic type, no sugar-coated on our first Convo in a dating site.What I like about him,he know what he wants,very open-minded and affectionate kind of person which at first I wasn't comfortable but now I'm liking it.He takes care his mom and it doesn't bother me having mother in law living with us because he has his own rules.
Loved this topic😍😊😊
That picking up at the airport thing is just funny! All this AFAM trend at tiktok, reel etc
Lol, the mention of airport made Will uneasy. Then i remember he met Alodia in the Airport nga pala for the first time(i think?!)
Labeeet! Will listen later!😹
I am married to a Filipino. No hint of western. He is unromantic and practical. Ahah! I love him but sometimes I tell him to give me flowers cause my love language is receiving gifts. AHAH! He will obliged naman.
I really love @Isabelle Daza personality 🤗❤️
You and belle should have your own show
I enjoy listening to Isabelle very direct to the point.
When Belle asked Will how it was to date a pinoy i felt his hesitation. Idk maybe it has something to do with his recent breakup?
Mga ibang pinoy dito ang bi-bitter. Kapag nakapag-asawa ng foreigner status or pera agad. Hahaha. Yung insecurities nyo itabi nyo nga minsan. :)
That is mostly true though. Women are hypergamous.
Masipag at responsible kasi mga ibang lahi mas focus sila sa future nila laging may upgrade sa buhay,,mga pinoy hindi lahat pero kontento lang sa anong meron yun lang talaga chaka mahilig sa babae kesa mag upgrade ng career..
more of isabelle pls. @Wil
oh sir wil i heard your from mindoro hope someday mabroadcast mo din gano ka ganda ang mindoro
I like Isabella, she seems very real.
I relate so much with Isabelle Daza. She's one of my favorite celebrities. Like her, I'm a preschool teacher and my partner's a foreigner too. (British)
Keep up the good work Will👍 Happy na na interview mo isa sa mga idol ko ❤️
I love Belle’s podcast hahaa opps it’s wil hahaha.
They dated foreigners for status. Lets be real. Same goes for men. It is what it is.
Factz
@MarkedThat WTf? Lol
Seriously, i've met women who after dating 1 white guy would say Pinoys dont get me like a white man gets me. Cue eyeroll
Bat mga lalaki na pinoy ang pinakabitter sa comments? lol.
@MarkedThat Totoo. Yung ibang guy gusto sila yung nililigawan yawa. Gusto maging babae
Will I dont have spotify !😭😭😭
Done watching the podcast.
1:13 eh... I quite literally bought my (at the time) girlfriend 80 red roses for Valentines Day, and locked myself into her apartment while she was at work, and placed them all over her apartment.
I think you're being a bit generalizing here, and without knowing details, to me it sounds like you're explaining not "western" men, but specifically "Guys from the US".
In Japan, the stereotype is the opposite: western men are super romantic, and Japanese men are not.
I think you’re generalizing too.My husband is japanese,he might not show he’s romantic side in action but he definitely shows it in words.like belle said,words of affirmation.we’re married nearly a decade now but he still make sure that i feel secure in every possible way.
@@rantomori5930 I'm not pulling what I said out of thin air. Lived in Japan for years. Basing what I said off comments from many Japanese friends and former girlfriends.
Not to mention that I SPECIFICALLY write that it's a STEREOTYPE, so why are you taking what I write as if it's fact? I specifically write that it's not...
I'm married to american iba sila kysa mga ex ko na filipino. American they let you do whatever you want and very practical sila.
back to you kuya Will!🤣🤣🤣
Mr. wil, ask lang po what happen na po si Bret maverick since last blog nya nuon pumunta sila ni butter sa Mexico until now wala pa po sila blog. May bago na po ba sya UA-cam channel? Take care yourself mr. Will
I have an italian boyfriend also, he's straight to the point, not a showy type person and he's not into socmed 🙈which is i loved. Very private person.
Wil you gotta take that Love Language test. The language you give may not be the language that you wanna receive because you give it according to the other person's need and preference. For example, I'm not vocal, I don't like saying I love you daily but I am most comfortable expressing that I love the person through acts of service like cooking, driving, or connecting him to someone that can help his career. That's fine if the other person prefer that BUT what if the other person wants to hear words of affirmation and their day is complete without me doing anything helpful for them? So adjustments and calibrations can be made to make the relationship work, communication-wise.
The lighter skin is a status-thing.
I think feminine women are attracted to decisiveness, practicality and ability to protect and lead in difficult situations. At least that's what attracted me to my Canadian hubby.
Yes! I love the fact they decide for themselves, not waiting until they get the blessing of their parents or input.
Are you implying filipino men are not decisive, practical and able to protect in difficult situations?
@@georgemcintyre7467 nope. My dad was obviously a Filipino man and he was strong, protective and decisive. I am saying as a feminine woman, those characteristics are desirable.
Madrama at may pagka chauvinist kc ang karamihan ng mga pinoy, they usually only think of themselves, want always to lead but cannot fulfill their role, sa una lng magaling pero as time goes bahala ka na sa sarili mo. Thinks that u should be grateful he married u. Thinks too highly of himself that u should always serve and obey him even if he has no job or is super dumb
Mapili kamo ang ibang pinoy mahilig sa mapuputing babae kaya hindi nila ako gusto😂😂 tapos lasinggiro😜😂 buti pa ang foreigner hindi perfectionist
Truth. Masyado pang mabola tsaka manloloko. Hindi responsable. Bubuntisin lang yung babae tapos iiwan. Mga foreigner pagpplanuhan talaga ang future tsaka walang games.
@@troopstroops2756 agree. Tatanggapin ka nila sa kung sino ka. Tsaka mas maganda naman mix pag filipina beauty tsaka western. Kaya winner ka pa din.
This. Dami ko na alam na pinoy na kulang sa tamang diskarte pero gusto nila sila padin ang above sa mga wives/gfs nila. They hate women who are frank & not afraid to voice their thoughts when they can’t even fulfill their role of being providers and protectors (hindi lahat pero lets get real madaming ganito). Every Asian girl i know married to a Westerner have good careers and family lives kasi their foreign partners aren’t threatened and support them on both fronts
Totoo. Mga spoiled pa. Juts naman
Nakakabitin ha.. haha.. mas ok napapanood 😁 love this blog
Cant find this specific topic on your podcast
I really liked the fact that foreigners are very vocal on whats on their mind and with them being practical in the sense na bibilhin lang nila yung whats really neccesary especially on their personal stuffs like clothing etc.I remembered when me and my fiance went to a shopping mall and I told him to buy a shirt for himself because it will look good on him and you know what he answered"I dont need that I still have clothes at home"Haha..And I rememebered when he told me that he dont want to spend that much because he wants to save for our future.
why was will lowkey caught off guard when belle asked him a question 😂
P.s. I think Isabelle has a lot of friends who might like to date someone like Wil.. just saying. My heart still ache from the previous loveteam but we gotta move forward... Dating Filipina women or should I say Binibining Filipina ain't easy for jejemons but for sure a pot of gold for many men out there. A Hot tsongo bachelor we have here.
Acts of service😍
Yes, marrying foreigner is not full of paasa,😁 more straight forward, not into fancy just be yourself, I love it.
But some pinays are paasa and gold digger kakahiya
@@alimracgenese9958 well that's true maybe you're not meant to be 🙂
@@alimracgenese9958 gold digger yes true. But it's a choice.
@@alimracgenese9958 true po kahiya .. pero not all like me and my brother. Dutch yung sa kuya ko ako norweigian naman
@@exposed231 well basta with the heart❤ means love talaga its not about sa meron sila! By the way Congrats sayo and sa sibling mo! Sna all ikakasal ako mag 3years na kmi nong black American ko pag uwi pinas soon!
Ang early ko ngayon ah
Ang gaganda din naman kasi nila kaya nakaka attract ng foreigner. Sana all
☹️ i feel u bro (tearyeyes)
Thats why i like foreigners coz theyre practical
@@emiiiii1000 nainggit ka naman lol
Wait... Who is the host here? Was it you or Isabel? I'm confused! hehehe!
nabaligtad tsong ah hahahha
I hope Isabelle can introduce some single girls that she knows who have the same preference to Western guys as her, such as Wil, tutal he's included in their friends' circle (Solenn, Nico, Erwan, etc.)... Someone who can really understand and cope with his monthly Jetsetting activities... 🤞
Chinese woman: I want to be an entrepreneur
Japanese woman: I want to be an engineer
Philippinas: I want to marry a foreigner
Stupid assumption
100% agree
Man, Im a Filipino Canadian but I feel like I want to marry certain nationalities and not just 'cause a person is white/Caucasian. I have my eyes set on Italians, Mexicans, Colombians, Spaniards, Portuguese, Puerto Ricans, Brazilians, Lebanese etc. 🤤 Life without passion is not worth living.
Whats the dif? Oh you forgot to mention the D size too! Lol “D’heart”. Hey when I was younger I didnt like drama I didnt even like giving flowers to women. Too much cliche in my book. But when I met “the one”, I found myself doing the things I hated. Over the years I realized people change. And nothing is constant except it. Im still an introvert but here and there I get my feet wet nd let loose. You just haven’t found the one yet. Believe me, i was stubborn as a rock before. Your partner doesn’t need to change you. You’ll find yourself one day doing the things you didnt like because it makes her happy. Regardless the race and upbringing. We feel love the same way, just expressed uniquely.
The Filipinos are similar with Spanish or Italians in case of being romantic. so what do you exactly mean with western??
Can't believe Wil seems like he hasn't heard of love languages before. Anyway, what's important is I think, the connection, and trust between the two. For values, i'm not sure if having the same values are important to foreigners.
Wil was caught offguard 😆😂
Let's be honest.. There's a little fetishizing on both sides.
That's not all the case but regardless make sure you're not perpetuating racist tropes bc I think we all have responsibilities to a greater common good. And if you're not active in that space or passive, then I'm almost sure it's a relationship based on fetishizing.
Why cant you just post the whole epi video online? im tired of watching cutouts😭
"How do you feel about dating a Filipina vs dating a white person?"
This is honestly a poorly constructed question. It doesn't have to be specifically white.
@@goodmorningfrommt As a matter of fact, I have.
Foreigners are more independent at masipag. Thats why I like them. My brother is married to Duth woman and I have a Norweigian boyfriend.
Liz Uy not married to a foreigner tho
But the 4... Anne, Georgina, Isabelle & Solenn are...
I think they interview each other.😂
It's a podcast, not an interview. It's basically a recorded conversation.
I'm happy married English I'm lucky he sweet and Romantic too thanks God 🙏🙏🙏😀😀😀
In reality, everyone’s just different.
♥️♥️♥️
The thing about western men is that they start independecy at a young age. In filipino culture there is such a strong bond with family. It's not a bad thing but it can be overwhelming also accomodating relationships with every member of whom i'm dating. Filipino relationship is also very weighed in by the family because we take a great deal listening to their say. Lalo na sa "nakakatanda"
I am very close to mine but because my parents gave me the freedom to be independent in my decisions as i was growing up, that's also what I look for in a guy. And that attitude tends to be found more with western men.
At the end, there are lots of great things about filipino men and women. It's just what you really prefer that you tend to explore
omg!!! 😍😍😍😍
Real talk. Isabelle Daza is one smart woman.❤
Tbh this is stereotyping, not all western men are “practical” or whatever, some filipinos are practical too 😆
exactly, it really depends on person
I would love to listen to Belle talk more on a podcast, like not as a guest but have her own podcast. I’m married to a American and I can relate a lot. Belle is right, they are very straightforward(not pa bb), sweet but not extra to the point it will make you cringe.
🥰🥰🥰
Belle is so brainy.... love her always...
Born and raised in the U.S- my situation is interesting. I went to private school with all white kids. No other Filipino kids, so finding a Filipino guy was like finding my pink unicorn haha in high school and college, I met all these Filipino guys but they weren’t what I was used to with the guys growing up. I ended up marrying a Filipino guy who acted similarly to the white boys I grew up with (which is what I’m comfortable with/love) Thank the Lord!
It’s true what they say with western culture - things don’t need to be a big romantic gesture, just a simple, “what are we doing for valentines?”
Who cares I can watch filipina with every man they like 💪💙
It's really true Belle are Western less Romantic than Filipino
It's Your ❤️ heart decide
For this Person as Long makes
😊 happy. And love you unconditionally... It's Acceptance and RESPECT
It's is Important
He is NOT rowing in 2 Rivers
Making ExCuSes lie behind At your back Like saying "
Busy & TIred"
Having LDR for 8 yrs.
😰 Feel Sad I need to Give UP him...
He is not doing his EFFORT
For me . while catching he Is Doing effort other's.....
I DeciDE
FiNd ANother .... That I know it's ONLY me & NOBODY
ELse👍
Is Wil married already? I see a ring on his left ring finger.
Ugh it's killing me that i can't watch the show completely. sigh~
😘😘😘
Interesting perspective of Filipina women who date foreigners. In the states, statistics show Asian men to be the least desirable among all types of men. In general, worldwide, there’s just more preference for Caucasian men who also top the surveys.
This is funny because if you listen to most Western women, they seek the opposite - they want the big gesture of romance types. The only problem is that their Western male dominated culture has demeaned and belittled the SE Asian male for hundreds of years. I admire Filipino males who stay confident and are not deterred by any outside obstacles, they know what they are all about despite the negative stereotypes created by the media.