Exactly feels like they jumped ship realizing the golden child would never make a turn around so let's support the kid that is doing financially well. It's all about the money!
OP is a doormat. OP should never have opened the door and told them the cops are on the way i suggest you leave and never come back. the only reason your failures as parents are apologizing is because they gave those 2 idiots so much money they are going to have to rely on you financially in the future
Okay, I have real doubts this is a real story as many of the details just seem so far fetched, but there are some insane people in this world with truly solipsistic personalities. So, I guess anything is possible. I really understand your view. We cry out for vengence, but our Christian side must always win out. Being a Christian is persecution, and forgiveness of that persecution. In the same way Jesus forgave those who put him on the cross. LORD forgive them they know not what they do. That grace is awe inspire, but it is what we are called to do. However, when others threaten you with violence you have a right to defend yourself. We must again forgive them, but we all can protect ourselves. The call of a Christian is like nothing else in this world nothing is harder. And requires more dedication. But with Christ Jesus all things are possible.
OP was actually lucky her ex cheated, her ex proved himself a no good incompetent man. Would have been a miserable marriage, she actually dodged a bullet. Still need to be wary about her parents and relatives, and take precautions just in case.
"lucky" is not the word I'd use for my own sister and fiance to sleep with eachother for months behind my back...I'd say "tragic" and "h0rr!fic". Definitely good she found out before the wedding but not "lucky" she didn't win the lottery...
Just wow! If the tables turned, would they have supported OP taking Melissa's boyfriend. I doubt it. Melissa is their only daughter unless they need something, and then OP counts as a daughter
Reasons to not give the money 1. Sister flashed her vag and stole OP’s Fiancé. 2. Family took Sister’s side in the debacle without giving a single thought for OP’s circumstances meaning they all probably already knew and OP was literally the last to know. 3. Sister and Ex are already in the financial sewer meaning their financial skills aren’t even up to bat with their business, casting major doubt on the viability of repayment. 4. You never lend money to family even under the best of circumstances, unless you have their guarantee of repayment IN WRITING.
Op not blocking the family immediately was a mistake, in that it made the family think she was just being a brat instead of being completely serious, and so they never thought about what they’d done.
The question I never see asked when a parent sides with the betrayer and expects the betrayed to let it go is to ask “how long did it take for you to forgive and get passed dad’s cheating? Oh, you didn’t know?” On the small chance there was cheating, they now get to parade that publicly. Most likely, they now have to show how they really feel about “it’s the past”.
NTA, This not revenge, this OP not being involved with them anymore and just move on, it’s karma coming for them for the betrayal they all did, not just Lucas and Melissa but to the family that supported this farce
Honestly all these stories on this channel sound the same it's the same self-help sounding stuff every time. I think they purposely add in am I the a whole thing even if the store probably doesn't exist on Reddit. The in conclusion part near the end especially gives it away that it's fake it's pretty laughable honestly.
There are agressive people at your door sreaming, what should you do? call the cops or drive to them, step out your car so they can attack you...yeah op definetly choose wisely. 🤦♂
Your sister and her fiance of husband are lucky that I wasn't your neighbor cause the cops would have been called the second he knocked the phone out of your hand
It's still the people who created her...that's not as easy to cut off forever, I agree that they don't deserve it but so long as she keeps her guard up and takes it VERY slow and cautiously and blocking them the moment they show any signs of toxicity again, gone like the wind...forever. My mom abandoned me and my sister age 8 and 10/cheated on my dad/ chose alcohol and drugs and strange men over her family, in and out of jail and was a toxic ab*s!ve m0nster for 2 decades of my life but she in the last 3 years FINALLY got sober/got a job for the first time in years being self sufficient with her own home/no men/MUCH nicer and no nonsense like the old days, she's still my mother and that's not a person you get to replace, the person who brought you into the world can't be replaced so if there's even a chance they have changed, I think she should follow her gut/heart but slowly and with a guard up proving they deserve the chance but ONLY one chance, leave forever otherwise. Upto her and I think your comment is cruel after what she's been through and I think she's tough as nails/ Your comment saying she likes drama is ridiculous AF also, she literally ghosted them all for 5 years just to avoid more drama....you sound like a gaslighter like her sister.
Melissa and Lucas are in trouble and need help. Glad to hear it. (Click). The only way OP can possibly be the AH is if she helped them. Although the option of demanding their homes as collateral and inevitably evicting them has a certain charm.
Knocking someone's phone out of their hands is not assault but it is battery and is still a serious crime. Also, by the looks of it, the parents are just getting old and realized they have to side with the child that can actually take care of them later. That's probably what they meant by "reevaluate many of their choices and relationships."
These stories have made me realize how AMAZING my family is... damn some people got some FUCKED UP family members, so insensitive, it's mind blowing!!!
more like the parents suddenly realized which daughter would be able to support them near the end of their lives and flipped before it was too late to secure future support.
I think the manipulative narcissistic homewreckers are personally much more...the fact that you think the person who got their heart ripped out by their own sister and fiance and is a kind person as the problem makes you look nuts. You sound just like her parents/sister in the story.
Sure, I'll help. Open up the books for the business. If my accountants believe it can be saved, I will become the majority shareholder in the company. The previous management team will be immediately fired for gross incompetence.
You are a sad doormate. When they came after you at your f--king home you needed to fight back. I can see why every one walks all over you. You Let Them.
People who are 'doormats' have been walked on their entire lives. Their own families teach them not to stand up for themselves and they learn to be helpless in those situations.
If you’re going to loan sharks, because you can’t go to proper banks and whatnot… your business has already failed. Continuing to throw bad money after good… you deserve what you get.
Mother first words out her mouth was a lie. Melissa and Luke didn't want me to ask, then show up demanding. They couldn't force her now there try to love bomb her for the money. They didn't know how terrible Melissa and Luke were REALLY REALLY the force is dark with me OP'S I "family"
I'm only at 6:13 but this story has to be BS. Ain't no way a large group of people will stand by and support some bullshit like this the minute they learn of this ultimate betrayal. GTFOH
Oh yes another fake family drama story. Sounds like they took this one straight out of he who fights with monsters book. Jason asano, betrayed by his brother and his girlfriend and his family takes their side against him
This feels AI-ish. Not too much, either the author edited it or they trained the chat well, but it's there. I'm not mad, this is how AIs are supposed to be used, but if the author is reading this: next time consider the genre of your story. Reddit style stuff aren't this professionally structured. Parts are skipped and rushed, especially "hard" and "emotional" parts. Make it sound like a stream of consciousness rather than a narration.
Starting to notice which ones of these are real, or believable, and which are fake. The long winded ones with unnecessary amount of details seem like they’re the AI generated ones.
The question I never see asked when a parent sides with the betrayer and expects the betrayed to let it go is to ask “how long did it take for you to forgive and get passed dad’s cheating? Oh, you didn’t know?” On the small chance there was cheating, they now get to parade that publicly. Most likely, they now have to show how they really feel about “it’s the past”.
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Isn't it funny how the people who are first to use words like "petty" or "selfish" are always the people who do you or others wrong. 💯
parents abandon one child for the other. and in the end, they do it again. they haven't changed, they just switched horses to bet on
Yup
Didn’t even think about it like that but you’re totally right
Also they only came back to OP when the golden child wasnt golden anymore. This is a big nope for me
Exactly feels like they jumped ship realizing the golden child would never make a turn around so let's support the kid that is doing financially well. It's all about the money!
OP is a doormat. OP should never have opened the door and told them the cops are on the way i suggest you leave and never come back. the only reason your failures as parents are apologizing is because they gave those 2 idiots so much money they are going to have to rely on you financially in the future
Not doormat ,she is naive and kind but not doormat ,if she gives them
Money then she will be a doormat
My Christian upbringing says to do good to one's enemies. My base side says let Melissa and Lucas sell all they own to pay back their debt.
Okay, I have real doubts this is a real story as many of the details just seem so far fetched, but there are some insane people in this world with truly solipsistic personalities. So, I guess anything is possible.
I really understand your view. We cry out for vengence, but our Christian side must always win out. Being a Christian is persecution, and forgiveness of that persecution. In the same way Jesus forgave those who put him on the cross.
LORD forgive them they know not what they do. That grace is awe inspire, but it is what we are called to do.
However, when others threaten you with violence you have a right to defend yourself. We must again forgive them, but we all can protect ourselves. The call of a Christian is like nothing else in this world nothing is harder. And requires more dedication. But with Christ Jesus all things are possible.
According to Christianity having an affair is punishable by burning at the stake
@@RashidAli-fb3se its actually stoning but its an old law that has already been abandoned
Ignore the Christian nonsense
@@Smth_smth.Yeah because nobody actually takes the Bible seriously, daft book
OP was actually lucky her ex cheated, her ex proved himself a no good incompetent man. Would have been a miserable marriage, she actually dodged a bullet. Still need to be wary about her parents and relatives, and take precautions just in case.
lol yeah
"lucky" is not the word I'd use for my own sister and fiance to sleep with eachother for months behind my back...I'd say "tragic" and "h0rr!fic". Definitely good she found out before the wedding but not "lucky" she didn't win the lottery...
The way they all jumped to support Melissa and Lucas I’m surprised there wasn’t a grand baby involved.
Please, the parents are manipulating op, she should have shut the door in their face
Did the mom cry that much when OP walked out on them after they let her down????? I doubt it
Technically knocking that phone out of her hand was frigging assault
Op needs to move far away from her toxic family and not give them money.
Just wow! If the tables turned, would they have supported OP taking Melissa's boyfriend. I doubt it. Melissa is their only daughter unless they need something, and then OP counts as a daughter
Reasons to not give the money
1. Sister flashed her vag and stole OP’s Fiancé.
2. Family took Sister’s side in the debacle without giving a single thought for OP’s circumstances meaning they all probably already knew and OP was literally the last to know.
3. Sister and Ex are already in the financial sewer meaning their financial skills aren’t even up to bat with their business, casting major doubt on the viability of repayment.
4. You never lend money to family even under the best of circumstances, unless you have their guarantee of repayment IN WRITING.
Story 1:
OP = NTA
to BIO - _"family"_ ( especially Melissa & Lucas ) =
*The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻*
😂😂😂😂
Op not blocking the family immediately was a mistake, in that it made the family think she was just being a brat instead of being completely serious, and so they never thought about what they’d done.
They try to use you as a piggy bank
A walking talking ATM!
The question I never see asked when a parent sides with the betrayer and expects the betrayed to let it go is to ask “how long did it take for you to forgive and get passed dad’s cheating? Oh, you didn’t know?” On the small chance there was cheating, they now get to parade that publicly. Most likely, they now have to show how they really feel about “it’s the past”.
NTA, This not revenge, this OP not being involved with them anymore and just move on, it’s karma coming for them for the betrayal they all did, not just Lucas and Melissa but to the family that supported this farce
“This is not the time for petty revenge.”
Yeah, wait until their house gets repossessed. Buy it at auction. Throw a housewarming party.
Wow. Why propose in the first place? The septrifuge and entitlement of it all!
This is where the creative response comes in…. “I wouldn’t piss on them if they were on fire 🔥 “
never trust a home wrecker......
After 5 years, they wanna push through to get bailed out for their decisions? Lol
CHATGPT is really creative but a bit too obvious, they should work more on that AI
Honestly all these stories on this channel sound the same it's the same self-help sounding stuff every time. I think they purposely add in am I the a whole thing even if the store probably doesn't exist on Reddit. The in conclusion part near the end especially gives it away that it's fake it's pretty laughable honestly.
If this is chat GPT then what do we need human authors for anymore?
They needed OP to take care of them when they are old, they know not getting that from the sibling
As usual the mom turns on the water works. All bad moms seem to do this.
What a rotten family! If it were the other way around, the op stealing Melissa's fiancé, the family probably wouldn't be all smiles.
It literally breaks my heart to hear about parents like that, and I know 100% that if it had been me, my parents would have done the same. Funny, huh?
Honestly i would first call cops and then try to talk to them.
Sorry mom this is a little thing called karma!
first thing i'd say after cheating ex said that's my home: "then go the f out, all of you".
$75,000?!!?! That's WILD
OP should have called the police while they were still at work, before they drove home.
Your mother still put your sister first even calling you petty and cruel seriously just block them all
There are agressive people at your door sreaming, what should you do? call the cops or drive to them, step out your car so they can attack you...yeah op definetly choose wisely. 🤦♂
Your sister and her fiance of husband are lucky that I wasn't your neighbor cause the cops would have been called the second he knocked the phone out of your hand
Never keep dumping money in a failing business
OP is looking for problems by going back to parents. Looks like she never learned her lesson, or maybe she likes drama.
It's still the people who created her...that's not as easy to cut off forever, I agree that they don't deserve it but so long as she keeps her guard up and takes it VERY slow and cautiously and blocking them the moment they show any signs of toxicity again, gone like the wind...forever. My mom abandoned me and my sister age 8 and 10/cheated on my dad/ chose alcohol and drugs and strange men over her family, in and out of jail and was a toxic ab*s!ve m0nster for 2 decades of my life but she in the last 3 years FINALLY got sober/got a job for the first time in years being self sufficient with her own home/no men/MUCH nicer and no nonsense like the old days, she's still my mother and that's not a person you get to replace, the person who brought you into the world can't be replaced so if there's even a chance they have changed, I think she should follow her gut/heart but slowly and with a guard up proving they deserve the chance but ONLY one chance, leave forever otherwise. Upto her and I think your comment is cruel after what she's been through and I think she's tough as nails/ Your comment saying she likes drama is ridiculous AF also, she literally ghosted them all for 5 years just to avoid more drama....you sound like a gaslighter like her sister.
If there is a true emergency, they can call 911. You don’t work for the police or fire department.
Melissa and Lucas are in trouble and need help.
Glad to hear it. (Click).
The only way OP can possibly be the AH is if she helped them.
Although the option of demanding their homes as collateral and inevitably evicting them has a certain charm.
the parent only came back because they know they have no one to go to on their old age and only looking for some one to support them financially
Story 1 NTA tottaly NO Contact is more better 😃 👌
I do not trust those parents for a sec.Op if you read tis do not sign anything at all.
The entitlement of family on somebody else’s money and hard work
The only i would say the op was ahole for was her allowing those who betrayed her to hug her
Sounds like a Manhwa/Manhua story
Knocking someone's phone out of their hands is not assault but it is battery and is still a serious crime. Also, by the looks of it, the parents are just getting old and realized they have to side with the child that can actually take care of them later. That's probably what they meant by "reevaluate many of their choices and relationships."
These stories have made me realize how AMAZING my family is... damn some people got some FUCKED UP family members, so insensitive, it's mind blowing!!!
Her sis and ex are as good as 2-bit villains in Chinese web novels
more like the parents suddenly realized which daughter would be able to support them near the end of their lives and flipped before it was too late to secure future support.
Good grief, these doormats are so f*cking aggravating.
I think the manipulative narcissistic homewreckers are personally much more...the fact that you think the person who got their heart ripped out by their own sister and fiance and is a kind person as the problem makes you look nuts. You sound just like her parents/sister in the story.
Let them go through bankruptcy and get salary jobs. You wouldn’t get the money back.
This whole story seems made up. I wouldn't waste any time feeling any emotions about it.
Sure, I'll help. Open up the books for the business. If my accountants believe it can be saved, I will become the majority shareholder in the company. The previous management team will be immediately fired for gross incompetence.
The second she caught them trying to break in it was time to record it and call the cops without letting them know shes there
Your neighbor should have called the cops first then call op
I'd give them a loan.
with exorbitant interest, the kind they could never pay-off.
You are a sad doormate. When they came after you at your f--king home you needed to fight back. I can see why every one walks all over you. You Let Them.
People who are 'doormats' have been walked on their entire lives. Their own families teach them not to stand up for themselves and they learn to be helpless in those situations.
After mom asked for help, u shoulda told her that u would do errthing in ur power to bury her evn further.
If you’re going to loan sharks, because you can’t go to proper banks and whatnot… your business has already failed. Continuing to throw bad money after good… you deserve what you get.
Mother first words out her mouth was a lie. Melissa and Luke didn't want me to ask, then show up demanding. They couldn't force her now there try to love bomb her for the money. They didn't know how terrible Melissa and Luke were REALLY REALLY the force is dark with me OP'S I "family"
Cameras with audio all around the house.
This may sound harsh but OP parents seems like trying to secure a retirement plan which is the OP sadly.
😮seriously well op owes nothing to these toxic 😤 thing and she's right about still feeling raw its upmost betrayal 😢 and lc forever just saying
8:41 dawg that would’ve been her real shit she survived Hiroshima
U are a strong woman
What a silly story. Why did the family have the OP's contact info if they treated her so badly?
The moving pixel stuff gives me anxiety it's hard to listen the story tbh
I'm only at 6:13 but this story has to be BS. Ain't no way a large group of people will stand by and support some bullshit like this the minute they learn of this ultimate betrayal. GTFOH
Typical reddit fake story, this is written like a wannabe novel.
This can not be real!
Omg i can't with op too much expected to be with her family are psycho.
I’m pretty sure he’s posted this story before
No way this is real even the ages don’t add up
my family is almost just as toxic it's insanely how common it is, and tragic.
@@sarasparks1992 Jesus I’m sorry you have to deal with that
Call the cops first
7:09 The family is scum and I side with OP 1000%. ETA. 12:23 You should have gone this route earlier.
Oh yes another fake family drama story. Sounds like they took this one straight out of he who fights with monsters book. Jason asano, betrayed by his brother and his girlfriend and his family takes their side against him
This feels AI-ish. Not too much, either the author edited it or they trained the chat well, but it's there. I'm not mad, this is how AIs are supposed to be used, but if the author is reading this: next time consider the genre of your story. Reddit style stuff aren't this professionally structured. Parts are skipped and rushed, especially "hard" and "emotional" parts. Make it sound like a stream of consciousness rather than a narration.
What is this game? Is it minecraft?
I'd had pressed charges on the guy and filed a restraining order.
Is a Reupload
Fake... fake fake fake
4th🪓💀
Starting to notice which ones of these are real, or believable, and which are fake. The long winded ones with unnecessary amount of details seem like they’re the AI generated ones.
Who cares?
The question I never see asked when a parent sides with the betrayer and expects the betrayed to let it go is to ask “how long did it take for you to forgive and get passed dad’s cheating? Oh, you didn’t know?” On the small chance there was cheating, they now get to parade that publicly. Most likely, they now have to show how they really feel about “it’s the past”.