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i was raised by two gay women who adopted me when i was 10. my mothers gave me everything in my life..everything i could ever wish for. their love for me and my love for them is neverending.
These men are super parents and are doing a great job raising their son and daughter. Keep doing a great job raising your son and daughter, guys! You're wonderful!
So true! I never wondered "why" I didn't have a father (i have 2 moms). I eventually asked about how I was conceived, but there was no sense of a missing family member or where is 'dad'. It just doesn't cross your mind, because your family is not missing anything.
I am a gay male whom has had 27 exchange students over the years. I am so glad that Europeans are not so hung up on people being gay. All they wanted was that I make sure their sons were safe and taken care of. I will say this once these kids were here for a few weeks, they became my "sons". I loved them as if they were one of my own. No one would try and hurt one of my "sons" because they would have to get through me first. Now at 61 I am trying to adopt a older child, to give them a home to call their own, a family to call their own, because they say older kids usually do not get adopted as often as younger kids, and most age out of the system. I want to give a child someone they know loves them, cares about them, and will be there for them for many years to come.
Two beautiful kids of two great and beautiful dads...makes me feel happy to see a happy family no matter gay or straight. Because a family is a family.
Would rather children be safe, wanted and loved in a gay household, then abandoned and abused by alcholic or drug abusive straight parents. If children are loved surely that's the most importent thing
Family love story of Ron and Greg Poole-Dayan and their twins Tomer and Eleanor. This story shows, what see and feel the same-sex parents, how the world gets a pair of fathers and their children, how to rise and educate the kids to meet and compete against the reactions of society. It's hard to describe the joy we feel, the Grandparents in Israel and Canada.
People who stand against same-sex parents should really see this documentary. It gives a very authentic picture that there's nothing special about same-sex parents. On the contrary, same-sex parents even need to put more efforts to protect and educate their children because of the stereotypical judgements from the society. Pay extra attention at 4:05. It really explains everything.
Children who are brought up by gay parents will save the world because they're taught love and acceptance towards all humanity while kids raised by homophobics are taught to hate and segregate>{ if someone is bad they're just bad it got nothing to do with region or gender and there's no excuse for hate.
Absolutely lovely family. As part of a hetro family (female) I kept my maiden name. My son is now 24. In grade 3 I volunteered in his class. I was introduced as Mrs. son’s last name & I said no, I am Ms. my maiden name. All of the kids looked at me , in shock, with open mouths. Meanwhile, my son stayed on task, not missing a beat. People had said that I would have to take my husband’s name as it would be easier on the children. Children are not fazed by what is their normal.
I have changed..I was taught to hate you as a child. to curse you to hell. damn I missed out on so much because of the ignorance of my teaching. I am sometimes still afraid I will make god mad but I can't hate this...I am sorry. I died in the recovery room 3 years ago. the god I met was all loving..so I'm going to take my chances..thank you for showing me that there is nothing to hate but hate itself
They already know. They know that they have two dads. And they who that the dads used a surrogate and their aunt donated the egg. Very easy to understand. The kids seem healthy, smart, and together. Lucky family!
Do you ever think about the feelings and the situation of the children who are affected? The rights of the children always come first. Many homosexual people are also saying that.
Morgoth from Angband It's a good point. As long as the kids are loved and cared for - that's the most important. Yes -I'm sure there might be some silly bullies at school that might take a shot.
superstubes I was talking about the complications for these children: 1. no mother, 2. Danger of molestation, 3. They will start asking questions about their origin, 4. These children are no objects and have parents who are probably looking for them. 5. Probably they are not even loved by the adopting gays. 6. The fact to know that their real parents could possibly have rejected them will make them suffer. All this will damage the child and would hurt him/her.
superstubes What do you mean with:"These guys aren't adopting parents." ? You mean they aren't adopting children who still have parents. Or didn't you understand my argumentation?
I don't get it : How would the school decided to not celebrate Mother's day and celebrated Family's day instead ? Isn't it pushing their priority a little to far ?
You are in denial big time.My son's mother left when he was 8 months old and all through his childhood especially when he was in school all he would ever say is where is my mother and you need to get me a mother.Sorry kids learn real quick that most other kids have a mother and father.
Most kids DON'T have a mother and a father. 50% of straight marriages in the USA end in divorce. Many kids are raised by single parents, remarried parents, grandparents, adoptive parents, extended families, gay parents, etc.
But...it's not just about your kid's comfort. Changing Mother's Day at their school? The children from traditional families have the same rights as your children. And you are not minorities, you are human like everyone else, so that means you part of the majority. I am a gay , and wish our community would stop thinking we are "special" because of our sexuality.
When 2 gay people have a child that isn't of their own gender, how do they deal with the child once they hit puberty? I can't imagine the daughter feeling comfortable asking her fathers for period supplies and bras/underwear.
Many girls don't feel comfortable asking any parent those questions, if the parents are not open. These dads are super open to discussing difficult topics, obviously. I can imagine them sharing a great resource with the kids, like a women's health book. Plenty of girls with straight moms don't talk about body stuff either due to the mom's uptightness or now knowing how to handle it, right? It depends on the parents.
I'm sorry, but this gets me mad. Why should the school district change to accommodate a minority. They school district doesn't celebrate Mother's Day because these kids don't have a mother and now they celebrate Family Day because they made them change it. REALLY.????!!!!!
i was raised by two gay women who adopted me when i was 10. my mothers gave me everything in my life..everything i could ever wish for. their love for me and my love for them is neverending.
Alex S that's wonderful! Your moms are wonderful women and raising you well! Much love to you all.
Mrki984984 M 👍
Alex S did you have grandparents
Thats very sad I am sorry for you
@@vojajin6686 YOU'RE thee only one that feels sad for this kid, everybody else has a heart! 😊 Go away little unhappy little troll! 😂😂😂
These men are super parents and are doing a great job raising their son and daughter. Keep doing a great job raising your son and daughter, guys! You're wonderful!
Cassandra Mitch 😊❤
@@yasminvillanueva3141 😊👍
So true! I never wondered "why" I didn't have a father (i have 2 moms). I eventually asked about how I was conceived, but there was no sense of a missing family member or where is 'dad'. It just doesn't cross your mind, because your family is not missing anything.
Raeikah Wonderful! Your moms are wonderful women, nuch love to you all. Your moms are doing a great job raising you.
I am a gay male whom has had 27 exchange students over the years. I am so glad that Europeans are not so hung up on people being gay. All they wanted was that I make sure their sons were safe and taken care of. I will say this once these kids were here for a few weeks, they became my "sons". I loved them as if they were one of my own. No one would try and hurt one of my "sons" because they would have to get through me first. Now at 61 I am trying to adopt a older child, to give them a home to call their own, a family to call their own, because they say older kids usually do not get adopted as often as younger kids, and most age out of the system. I want to give a child someone they know loves them, cares about them, and will be there for them for many years to come.
Two beautiful kids of two great and beautiful dads...makes me feel happy to see a happy family no matter gay or straight. Because a family is a family.
Would rather children be safe, wanted and loved in a gay household, then abandoned and abused by alcholic or drug abusive straight parents. If children are loved surely that's the most importent thing
Well said, Dee, I agree with you
Dam right! Well said
I believe the LGBQT+ community are changing the world for the better. 👬👭👏
Family love story of Ron and Greg Poole-Dayan and their twins Tomer and Eleanor. This story shows, what see and feel the same-sex parents, how the world gets a pair of fathers and their children, how to rise and educate the kids to meet and compete against the reactions of society. It's hard to describe the joy we feel, the Grandparents in Israel and Canada.
Wow. Well done to you! :)
People who stand against same-sex parents should really see this documentary. It gives a very authentic picture that there's nothing special about same-sex parents. On the contrary, same-sex parents even need to put more efforts to protect and educate their children because of the stereotypical judgements from the society. Pay extra attention at 4:05. It really explains everything.
@mark montgomery One thing is biological parents, another is who brings up and cares for you. Or are you saying that adoptive parents aren't parents?
@mark montgomery 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Children who are brought up by gay parents will save the world because they're taught love and acceptance towards all humanity while kids raised by homophobics are taught to hate and segregate>{ if someone is bad they're just bad it got nothing to do with region or gender and there's no excuse for hate.
no they're not taught to hate, what's wrong with you? :l
+girlperson wat yes in the case their parents are homofobic. it means they will hate LGBTcomunnity in particular.
Their parents don't go out of their way to talk about lgbt.
pretty true
Mercy Mukuhi very true. I agree with you!
Absolutely lovely family. As part of a hetro family (female) I kept my maiden name. My son is now 24. In grade 3 I volunteered in his class. I was introduced as Mrs. son’s last name & I said no, I am Ms. my maiden name. All of the kids looked at me , in shock, with open mouths. Meanwhile, my son stayed on task, not missing a beat. People had said that I would have to take my husband’s name as it would be easier on the children. Children are not fazed by what is their normal.
Cute - continue to live as a loving Family! Love is the most important thing in life. Best regards from Germany!
You are amazing fathers!!! Great video!!!
The world will be a better place the day that humanity ask less and love more. It's all about LOVE !!!!
Beautiful family. Congratulations guys. And thanks a lot for sharing your reality, it’s so important for gay people on earth.
"Family Day" wonderful
Such a wonderful family! Good luck to all of you! Greetings from Germany
I have changed..I was taught to hate you as a child. to curse you to hell. damn I missed out on so much because of the ignorance of my teaching. I am sometimes still afraid I will make god mad but I can't hate this...I am sorry. I died in the recovery room 3 years ago. the god I met was all loving..so I'm going to take my chances..thank you for showing me that there is nothing to hate but hate itself
I'm so happy for you.
Diana Trifu thank you..
Ivy Edan Totally Awesome!
It is not your fault that you were raised like that parents should allow their children the freedom to make up their own minds on things
I absolutely love your vids they are so inspiring
they may not ask now but possibly during teen years they may ask or want more info.
Twins help every one of these documentaries I have seen it looks more involved when each father has a baby in his arms. 😍🥰
Such a wonderful sister she's really amazing
0:21 what?!?!?!? My name is Tomer!!!!! It's so rare I can't believe it
what great Dad's
Beautiful family .. full of love. Love your stories.
What great dads 💕💪👏👏
This is awsome love is love thats all that matters
AMAZING!!!!
Beautiful family!!! May God continue to bless you!!!!
Blsssed you to be a great father to you both forever
i think its everyones choice they can do what ever they want
Yay! Don't be Muslim! Let people be who they are! :D
fishing is life crabing well said!
a boat is not the same as a Mother, respectfully someday they may want to know
They already know. They know that they have two dads. And they who that the dads used a surrogate and their aunt donated the egg. Very easy to understand. The kids seem healthy, smart, and together. Lucky family!
We made the school stop celebrating Mother's Day. Gee, thanks.
Lovely
Nice one guys.
Do you ever think about the feelings and the situation of the children who are affected? The rights of the children always come first. Many homosexual people are also saying that.
Morgoth from Angband It's a good point. As long as the kids are loved and cared for - that's the most important. Yes -I'm sure there might be some silly bullies at school that might take a shot.
superstubes I was talking about the complications for these children: 1. no mother, 2. Danger of molestation, 3. They will start asking questions about their origin, 4. These children are no objects and have parents who are probably looking for them. 5. Probably they are not even loved by the adopting gays. 6. The fact to know that their real parents could possibly have rejected them will make them suffer. All this will damage the child and would hurt him/her.
Morgoth from Angband Oh dear. These guys aren't adopting parents.
Child abuse? No more at risk than if the parents were hetero.
superstubes What do you mean with:"These guys aren't adopting parents." ? You mean they aren't adopting children who still have parents. Or didn't you understand my argumentation?
also i dont give a shit about love becose i want to be smart and chill out all day
I don't get it : How would the school decided to not celebrate Mother's day and celebrated Family's day instead ? Isn't it pushing their priority a little to far ?
You are in denial big time.My son's mother left when he was 8 months old and all through his childhood especially when he was in school all he would ever say is where is my mother and you need to get me a mother.Sorry kids learn real quick that most other kids have a mother and father.
maybe you weren't a goo enough dad. They're being raised by two gay men so their views of a nuclear family are different.
jamaica is a shit hole.
Most kids DON'T have a mother and a father. 50% of straight marriages in the USA end in divorce. Many kids are raised by single parents, remarried parents, grandparents, adoptive parents, extended families, gay parents, etc.
I didn't know my dad until I was older(like 14). I don't think I asked once. Maybe you should have been there for your child more.
macky macky Ffs sake give it up, creep.... you obviously know little about this subject and just have an anti-gay agenda.
They are loved
Wow don't celebrate mother's day only family day g I'm gay and yet I feel that's wrong, I like to celebrate my mom's day
Good for you
Parabéns família linda ☺
But...it's not just about your kid's comfort. Changing Mother's Day at their school? The children from traditional families have the same rights as your children. And you are not minorities, you are human like everyone else, so that means you part of the majority. I am a gay , and wish our community would stop thinking we are "special" because of our sexuality.
no more mother's day???? for god's sake. The child loses.
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When 2 gay people have a child that isn't of their own gender, how do they deal with the child once they hit puberty? I can't imagine the daughter feeling comfortable asking her fathers for period supplies and bras/underwear.
Many girls don't feel comfortable asking any parent those questions, if the parents are not open. These dads are super open to discussing difficult topics, obviously. I can imagine them sharing a great resource with the kids, like a women's health book. Plenty of girls with straight moms don't talk about body stuff either due to the mom's uptightness or now knowing how to handle it, right? It depends on the parents.
macky macky Lol, what do you know about anything? And why have you ignored Y V’s INTELLIGENT points?
I'm sorry, but this gets me mad. Why should the school district change to accommodate a minority. They school district doesn't celebrate Mother's Day because these kids don't have a mother and now they celebrate Family Day because they made them change it. REALLY.????!!!!!
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Uh