They’re preaching! This mindset really comes with maturity. There was a point in my life where I refused to get married, but as I get older, I’m realizing that having that one person to grow with is more ideal for me.
I love hearing Fred's perspective! He was NEVER a huge talker, during his playing days. But the brotha's very well spoken, insightful, & always has a interesting perspective! 💯
I got it when he said it the first time. You should never continously allow a relationship to evolve if that thought is in the back of your mind. However, when you're chasing lust instead trying to build love you aren't asking the right questions nor seeing the red flags!
Channing was too intoxicated, I couldn’t understand him. Fred is a deep thinker and sees things through life experiences. Chad is a good listener and is teachable. Brandon does a lot of self reflection which helps him see many sides.
This explains a woman's subconscious thought process. Reading the characteristics and environment of the room. Feeling in touch with her intuition about the traits of each person, ultimately feeling a comfortable command of her insertion about the environment at hand, analyzing the comprising social framework.
Find a woman who is not easily impressed. Financially responsible. Spiritual and a lover of not only you but those closest to you. If something is to happen to you. Can you trust that individual to take care of the ones you love most? Also, someone that has something going on for self. Driven by own goals and ambitions not someone looking for any handouts or a weekly “allowance”.
@Chiefs rugby Uganda Marriage is a big commitment. They are sitting down and giving young men advice on one of the biggest decisions of their life. I don't understand what's more serious than that. But I guess we're predictable for having common sense.
@Chiefs rugby Uganda I didn't say it's the most serious. I said it's one of the most serious, but whatever man. Believe what you want to believe. I don't care to argue with men online. Goodnight.
When my husband and I dated all of his friends tried to convince him that I was difficult because I wasn't with the bs....I was not difficult; I just had a no nonsense approach to relationship games and bs....either we in this together for it to work or we're not and can go our separate ways.
@@AthleticEducation naw brah she said his friends didnt like her because she wasn't with the bs ..unless tbey wanted her to put up with cheating or being abusive ...then what exactly is the bs ? More than likey she a control freak and his friends saw that ..
@@therealist9853 thats the man you have dealt with not men in general. There are good men out there as well as woman you just have to find them. Understanding we are equally important and we have roles to fill though those roles might not always be what we want but It was designed in a way that it works to those who learn how to work it
@@tiffanybloke9076 100% agree. I’ve seen this play out, when a man demands respect but doesn’t reciprocate. That’s one thing that absolutely goes both ways. A woman respects a man who treats her as such (value). A man has to create that space for a woman to submit to him (cooperate), and that is founded on trust (vulnerability) and respect. I need to know as the leader that you got me no matter what.
He be saying stuff and it goes soooo far over everybody except Brandon’s head... it’s crazy. I love it though cause it reminds me of being around my Un-rich friends....lol
Dam this is the only show that has ever made me feel like I'm back in the locker room or even around my teammates who I played ball with having deep, insightful, meaningful and at times comical conversations!!
Fred is what we all need is our lives. He is amazing. I like that Chad didn't want the women before his current relationship to feel less than. That is admirable. Chad love everybody. I love Chad too. He is also amazing man.
Best episode yet man! Listening to this episode literally made go buy flowers and fruit for my ol lady. I’m 27 and we have our son. Very inspirational and motivating to be a better black man, husband and father. Dallas,Tx!
“If you’re worried about that, you should’ve put your shoes on faster” DEAD 💀 Channing, he meant after you bust, get dressed and GO. Don’t wife her up.
I soooo enjoy watching Brandon’s genuine vulnerability, Fred’s financial knowledge is so needed and methodical, Chads honesty is refreshing & Channing has NO filter 🤦🏽♀️
I just really feel men like to downplay the cooking and cleaning role. Caring for the family emotionally, mentally, and physically is not an easy task. Women take the role of turning a house into a home, birthing children (last time I checked a man can’t get pregnant) taking care of the children when the man (ATHLETE) is gone for how many consecutive days? Sometimes weeks? Cooking? Cleaning? Having to take care of herself mentally and emotionally? & y’all say ya want a hustler on top of that? TO ME, take out all finances .. that’s a true hustler at heart Already! The courage, ability, and power to birth children, create a home for your family, cook, clean, love, nurture, and protect us ENOUGH .. more than enough .. Every women doesn’t have financial hustle in her and that’s perfectly fine.. doesn’t have to be your type but that is okay, but I get the vibe where the Brandon guy was tryn downplay it in a sense and I don’t like that. Also MOST RICH MEN MARRY WOMEN for image and appearance and then ASK “does she love me for me” well if you didn’t go for women that fed your ego and went for women that challenge you, match your energy spiritually, emotionally, and mentally... helped you grow, guided you, and pushed you to High limits THAN YOU WILL PROBABLY FIND A WIFE THAT ISNT After your coins, but To love your heart and soul! Like the Fred guy said “PUT YO SHOE LACES ON FASTER” y’all men crazy lol ..
I think both men and woman downplay each other roles which leads to so many problems of thinking the other person has an much easier role but we are all in the same boat and because our view is from the boat we do not know what the view looking from outside looks like. If we developed and a genuine interest in each other and allowed one another to be vulnerable and talk about the deepest things that wound us in relationships we would have a much better understanding that everybody is equally important to each other a lot would be accomplished through this understanding Frustration comes when someone thinks the other person got what they didn’t get when in reality we all go through tribulations life crushes us differently but essentially we are all crushed. “Compassion” if we understood the significance of this word we would treat each other differently
No wife of a professional athlete in the NFL cooks and cleans. This isn’t the 50’s. Save for birthing kids, there’s next to nothing these women do to keep a home. There’s someone paid to do all that.
At the end of the it’s about why you’re attracted to the girl and what she offers. Most men just look for the baddest female. But if you want a long healthy relationship you have to look for more than someone you enjoy having sex with.
@@ondt6411 a physical attraction may get you there but if it’s all that keeps you there it’s not a relationship it’s sex or an entanglement of the bodies
True and a lot of men don’t realize some of these women are studying them. Also, {major point} social media is a sales pitch. These “baddest” types set of their social media and captions to pitch and lure men. These guys forget that spirituality is trending. All of these girls can talk about crystals and sage or whatever they think most men are into or whatever is popular. It’s not real most of the time.
And that’s what’s people missing Putting their faith in Jesus cause we all gone die instead of being concerned about money and riches Jesus is all that matters
When Chad was talking about his lady and helping him with a lil structure and he said i don't think yall understand... he know that chick from the TV show gonna have something to say... shout out to Brandon for keeping it moving 💯
Awhhh Ocho seems genuine and sweet 🥺! I like the fact that he spoke good of his past women and found some positive to say despite the dude with the locks trying to make him find some negative to say. He melted my heart wish him the best
Fred Taylor is so level headed and even keeled, “Balanced”. Love his personality. Ochocinco aka “Sweet Science”. Wears his feeling on his sleeves. Glad to hear you’re growing up. I’m rooting for you. Channing is the odd to everyone’s even (I particularly don’t like to use the words “Devil’s Advocate”). Brandon…Absolute “Brilliance”. Keep up the GREAT work guys.
He was worried about Evelyn from basketball wives crying and going off again like she did the last time he mentioned something about his past relationships
“If You Gotta Think About The Money Then You Should’ve Put Your Shoes On Faster” !!! Fuccen Woooowwwww That Went Over A Lotta Ppl Heads Fred That Was Amazing & Some Very Thoughtful Insight & Quote Right There That Was DEEP !!!!!! 🗣💯💯💪🏽
Yes!! I agree with Fred on having a go-getter partner when you have money. If all she wants to do is go shopping and get shoes and bags but isn't contributing to the making of money then she ain't worth it to me. I can buy a cook and a housekeeper but a hustler/go-getter is priceless.
I love Chad. He is very deep and takes no prisoners. His expressions show how enlightened he is in a spiritual sense. Therefore makes him very balanced in real life. Simple n happy
I like what BMarsh said, but I think the word you’re looking for is “Collaboration.” Comprising insinuates a “win-lose” situation. Both parties walk away not 100% satisfied, but in collaboration, both parties come together & work towards a common goal. Collaboration is a win-win situation & you can use it in any interpersonal conflict. Loved the episode!
I love me some Chad, and Brandon. You too have me laughing. I love Chad how he speaks how he feels, he's straight to the point and don't care how anyone feels about what he say. I also love how Brandon ask the important questions and how he shows his emotions on certain topics.
Fred was CORRECT when he said HEADACHE, and it was not offensive. It's easy to lead when someone just follows without knowledge or conflict/contention (The dependent woman). An independent woman will ask questions, sometimes even give unsolicited input, yes even submissive kingdom women, however, that headache can be seen as a good challenge, because she's able to hold you accountable, especially if the man see's her as an asset and not a liability... & Fred's question was not thoroughly answered when it came to the compromise on the relationship as an athlete or how to know she's "the one"
Perhaps she will be a headache for a man who doesn’t appreciate an independent freethinking woman. She’s a challenge for a man who appreciates going toe to toe with her who’s in the same mind set.
@@whatiswe thank you for obviously not reading to comprehend. I’m not going back and forth. The only reason Fred, reworded his statement is because people are easily offended. Exercising can be a headache when you’re chilling and comfortable but it doesn’t mean it’s not worth it or beneficial. Good day.
" A black woman who's going to ride and knows what she's wants to do in life" . Building together , not a sponsorship. Going to push each other to our best. Team work!
I love gender roles. It shouldnt be a negative aspect of the marriage ir relationship, it balances everything out, to a certain degree. I think its up to the individuals. I like my husband being in charge, leading for what is best for the family!
It’s interesting watching Brandon switch energies depending on the guests. With original guys he’s an emotional, accepting, deep thinker but when Diggs & Jarvis was on he was all cool guy.
Brandon Marshall ! This man was an absolute monster on the field. I honestly believe he could've been the GOAT if wasn't for all the outside interferences. Still one of the Best ! So proud to see you doing your thing bro ! You been through so much & deserve nothing but the best ! Much love & respect brother
Great episode! Chad was definitely uncomfortable about the topic considering his past relationships/children’s moms. He didn’t want to offend anyone and keep it respectful. I get it. 🤷🏽♀️
OMG!!!! Where have I been? Finally, a podcast/you tube sports show that’s actually worth watching. KUDOS to B Marsh, Channing, Chad and Fred... The combination of those 4 is purely organic.... Please, please continue......
I have young men and since they were very young while teaching them to love themselves I also talked heavily about the different types of women in this world and to take your time and to chose wisely. Great conversation and you guys are hilarious!
Gentlemen I definitely appreciated the man to man talk, if I may add or share a perspective, no offense to anyone's belief, all men must have his financial obligations in order as well as his spiritual obligations in order. I'm coming from a Christian point of view or knowledge, a man must yet learn his order of obedience to God first in all things, once he learns to have a prayer life,a word life,& a application of what he has learned,then he's ready to be a leader. This applies to all men with a foundation of believing in God, athletes ,non- athletes ,when he puts God first that man is saying to God whether you bless me with millions or hundreds I'm not putting my trust in the money, I'm putting my trust into You. In other words a man must know his ultimate source that all things comes from God,then his whole household can prosper under the covering of Gods blessing.
Amennnnnnnnnn. You get it with the reference to God and being obedient. I believe we both have to learn to be fiscally responsible but that comes through God’s assistance and blessings 💯
Yes but as a Christian man eve Delilah jazze belle all deceived men its women nature to deceitful. God Man Woman is a difficult mix excluding children. Not trying to be negative but it's my perspective.
@@naturalwealth465 I don’t think that’s a fair statement to make because the same Bible you’re pulling these women out from equally have women such as Esther who saved a whole nation, Rebecca, Martha, Mary, the Proverbs 31 woman. There’s many women of valour in scripture. If we can agree that God doesn’t make mistake and doesn’t mean harm then we can also agree that women are not created for the purpose of being deceitful, I’m sure your mother or grandmother wouldn’t be described as deceitful
No y’all already have all the Q & A shows already! This show is meant for real grown man conversation that we all have when we are hanging out with or boys.
@@CherrelleColeman no it wouldn’t. That only gives you the aspect from a pro football players perspective. That’s not the average man. Talk to men in your circle that are married. You could ask me “how did you marry a football player?” And I’m going to give your 1 perspective. That won’t work for YOU like it did for me. So no, a q&a is irrelevant.
These 4 men right here!!! Lawwwwwwd!! Hearing these men talk about marriage, relationships, and family is beautiful!! Love that they are giving it up!! There perspective n differences are dope! They are georgeous, fly, smart, and just kings!! Yassssss!!
Nice to hear these men break it down, I've been single for 12 years cause I'm grinding everyday I dont go out with a man cause of their money I have my own money, we need to build together!!!! Loyalty is everything to me!!!!!
Brandon gets us...he understands what women expect from men , want from men, and what women need from men, and knowing that makes women give men what they want, need, and expect from us.
My Fam Played for Hampton in ' 96 and FAMU was in their opponent in the Circle City Classic in Indy, IN in 1996 again. I loved FAMU's Band and I wanted to attend FAMU but didn't. One of my biggest regrets in Life til this day...
No doubt that shit fresh bro I’m a huge sports fan o have plenty of attire like that I have every team ncaa, mlb, nba, nfl, soccer hockey I got it all I got mine from fanatics my buddies can’t afford it because their wives are spending all their money😂.
Fred does not waste words. He knows when to listen, when to speak, and it's always well thought out and an appreciated perspective
Thats how we all should converse, you said it perfectly
🗣facts
Love him
I knew there was something I like about him. He stands out. He’s more of the laid back one.
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They’re preaching! This mindset really comes with maturity. There was a point in my life where I refused to get married, but as I get older, I’m realizing that having that one person to grow with is more ideal for me.
Real talk💯💯💯
Aww! Good for you, so when's our wedding date. 😭😭 jk
Man f all tht
@@miquel1992 jmkk
Kk mmmm
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After how many hearts you've broken , girls you've cheated on , etc.
Unc Fred don’t have to raise his voice to make a point..that’s grown grown!
All the nosey ASS women on here I see!!!! MEN talk! BYE
@@briandunmore6030 Oh please STFU! You’re so disrespectful. This is a good podcast.
@@briandunmore6030 cmon man and brothas wonder why women be losing respect for us
I wish they would please stop cutting uncle Fred off.
Yesssssss 💯
I love hearing Fred's perspective! He was NEVER a huge talker, during his playing days. But the brotha's very well spoken, insightful, & always has a interesting perspective! 💯
Really on his presidential take💯
Absolutely!!
Fred dropping some Gems
Please refrain from calling black pepper “well spoken”
I knew there was something I liked about him. He’s laid back; that’s sexy.
“If you gotta think about the money, then you should’ve put ya shoes on faster”
-Fred Taylor
I got it when he said it the first time. You should never continously allow a relationship to evolve if that thought is in the back of your mind. However, when you're chasing lust instead trying to build love you aren't asking the right questions nor seeing the red flags!
@@Gullah_Geechee_Tarot Channing didn't get it because he was faded off that drank.
@@Gullah_Geechee_Tarot so basically just trick off if you think she just about the money?
Real talk❣️
Think about your fortune regardless if she’s the one or not. Not all good things in the beginning end well
Channing was too intoxicated, I couldn’t understand him.
Fred is a deep thinker and sees things through life experiences.
Chad is a good listener and is teachable.
Brandon does a lot of self reflection which helps him see many sides.
Smh he was definitely saucy lol this conversation would have been more intricate if he was sober
Yes ma'am, great analysis
This explains a woman's subconscious thought process. Reading the characteristics and environment of the room. Feeling in touch with her intuition about the traits of each person, ultimately feeling a comfortable command of her insertion about the environment at hand, analyzing the comprising social framework.
But they all what makes this show great tbh
@@Lefthook-poweroff no argument here🤷🏾♀️ just an observation.
I enjoy the show, hence why I’m a subscriber🙂
Find a woman who is not easily impressed. Financially responsible. Spiritual and a lover of not only you but those closest to you. If something is to happen to you. Can you trust that individual to take care of the ones you love most?
Also, someone that has something going on for self. Driven by own goals and ambitions not someone looking for any handouts or a weekly “allowance”.
Facts💯💯💯
So you’re saying look for Jesus’ mother Mary? Ok got it 👌🏾😂🤷🏾♂️✊🏾
Bingo
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Telling a man what to look for in a woman 🚫🚫
As a woman tuning into this it's quite interesting to see serious man talk.
@Stella Vi-ura that the black woman always trying to compete about who has it worse which black men do at least straight black men but I digress.
I admit this lady on my pic left me as a man I wanna grow with her still but I wonder if I had my life together she would be with me
@Chiefs rugby Uganda Marriage is a big commitment. They are sitting down and giving young men advice on one of the biggest decisions of their life. I don't understand what's more serious than that. But I guess we're predictable for having common sense.
@Chiefs rugby Uganda I didn't say it's the most serious. I said it's one of the most serious, but whatever man. Believe what you want to believe. I don't care to argue with men online. Goodnight.
Girl! Im loving this whole show!!!
When my husband and I dated all of his friends tried to convince him that I was difficult because I wasn't with the bs....I was not difficult; I just had a no nonsense approach to relationship games and bs....either we in this together for it to work or we're not and can go our separate ways.
Well stated.
I should take this advice with the girl I’ve been seeing for 3 months
@@AthleticEducation naw brah she said his friends didnt like her because she wasn't with the bs ..unless tbey wanted her to put up with cheating or being abusive ...then what exactly is the bs ? More than likey she a control freak and his friends saw that ..
fred that one uncle who’ll take you out to eat and just give you life lessons
Each partner should inspire each other to be the best version of themselves.
Facts! Your comment also entails knowing who you are and where you are headed and effectively communicating that to your spouse.
Məny mən don't do this, don't be deceived. Women live to bring out the best in men. Men love to keep you the way you are so he can control you.
Thats it!!
@@therealist9853 thats the man you have dealt with not men in general. There are good men out there as well as woman you just have to find them.
Understanding we are equally important and we have roles to fill though those roles might not always be what we want but It was designed in a way that it works to those who learn how to work it
as a woman, I really enjoyed this fruitful conversation with these men. No ego, no bravado. just honesty and intelligent self-reflection
Me too!! I almost clicked on another video. I enjoy listening to wise men perspectives.
Such an incredible group of guys, the chemistry is just there. Nothing forced, just round table talks w/ the homies. Love it.
When Fred is talking I’d love less interruptions. Thank you!
Same girl, cuz he drops the real jewels tbh
I bet you do enjoy what he says smh
Agreeee
Yesss he was being interrupted way too much
Please and thank you.
Freds the wise elder statesman. Chad the fun older brother. Channing the crazy uncle. Brandon's the millennial.
@C. L. Facts👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I don't want Channing as a Uncle... That nigga borderline weird
@@mdotcom09 aren’t we all tho
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Women need security and stability. Men need respect and cooperation.
this is one of the few generalities that are actually true.
As a woman, I can say that there is not a living entity on this planet that does not first and foremost require respect, including women.
@@tiffanybloke9076 100% agree. I’ve seen this play out, when a man demands respect but doesn’t reciprocate. That’s one thing that absolutely goes both ways. A woman respects a man who treats her as such (value). A man has to create that space for a woman to submit to him (cooperate), and that is founded on trust (vulnerability) and respect. I need to know as the leader that you got me no matter what.
Wouldn’t you say that we all need all 4 qualities?
We need respect to...
Man, Fred articulate, well and soft spoken
Fred has class and presence. All of them bring the right ingredients to the soup.
Fred T The Voice Of Reason Has Spoken
He be saying stuff and it goes soooo far over everybody except Brandon’s head... it’s crazy. I love it though cause it reminds me of being around my Un-rich friends....lol
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3:34 "if you start shaking I'll throw some money at ya" I'm done🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Chad was salty🤣🤣🤣🤣
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😂😂
SUS lmaoo
My introduction to Fred Taylor has been awesome! Absolutely love his vibe 💯
Give Fred an Oscar for his performance... he is speaking FACTS all day!
Lol...you do realize that Oscar's are for people faking it right? Fred ain't faking anything here or acting a role...just being a real dude.
Is he drunk?🤣🤣🤣
Dam this is the only show that has ever made me feel like I'm back in the locker room or even around my teammates who I played ball with having deep, insightful, meaningful and at times comical conversations!!
Along with All the smoke with Matt Barnes and Stephen Jackson.
Fred is what we all need is our lives. He is amazing. I like that Chad didn't want the women before his current relationship to feel less than. That is admirable. Chad love everybody. I love Chad too. He is also amazing man.
“The Money is already there” Fred is a real one 🙌🏾
Fred taylor look like he was born an OG ... salute one of the most underappreciated and underrated RBs of all time
Best episode yet man! Listening to this episode literally made go buy flowers and fruit for my ol lady. I’m 27 and we have our son. Very inspirational and motivating to be a better black man, husband and father.
Dallas,Tx!
“If you’re worried about that, you should’ve put your shoes on faster” DEAD 💀
Channing, he meant after you bust, get dressed and GO. Don’t wife her up.
Big fact. Get that nut and get gone!
I know a saying can go over your head every once in a while but for some reason I thought Channing, of all people lol, would’ve picked up on that one
That was EPIC
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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fred knows exactly when to talk
The wonders of editing
@@adgee5401 “An unsolved mystery.”
@@adgee5401 he must be the one editing the footage because he is like that every episode.
Apart from at the end with the 50/55🤣🤣
Old head w/ some wisdom
Fred was on a different level!!!!! 🥰 They ant ready!!!!! He preaching!
Man these episodes should be an 1hr to 2hrs long, 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 so much knowledge I get from these episodes.
Yes! They definitely need to make them longer!
You need better parents
Fiya episode ya I agree need atleast an hour
BTS footage probably crazy af
Facts they have great teamwork they each different
Fred is going to be that one grandpa everyone listens to
Love the authenticity and genuine dialogue between the fellas. Not everyone will get it or want to get it but this will definitely touch a few!
“You should have put your shoes on faster” meaning leave that situation quick as possible
"If you gotta think about the money, you should've put your shoes on faster" 🗣
I soooo enjoy watching Brandon’s genuine vulnerability, Fred’s financial knowledge is so needed and methodical, Chads honesty is refreshing & Channing has NO filter 🤦🏽♀️
Fred Taylor is so wise. Know when to put your shoes on.
I just really feel men like to downplay the cooking and cleaning role. Caring for the family emotionally, mentally, and physically is not an easy task. Women take the role of turning a house into a home, birthing children (last time I checked a man can’t get pregnant) taking care of the children when the man (ATHLETE) is gone for how many consecutive days? Sometimes weeks? Cooking? Cleaning? Having to take care of herself mentally and emotionally? & y’all say ya want a hustler on top of that? TO ME, take out all finances .. that’s a true hustler at heart Already! The courage, ability, and power to birth children, create a home for your family, cook, clean, love, nurture, and protect us ENOUGH .. more than enough .. Every women doesn’t have financial hustle in her and that’s perfectly fine.. doesn’t have to be your type but that is okay, but I get the vibe where the Brandon guy was tryn downplay it in a sense and I don’t like that.
Also MOST RICH MEN MARRY WOMEN for image and appearance and then ASK “does she love me for me” well if you didn’t go for women that fed your ego and went for women that challenge you, match your energy spiritually, emotionally, and mentally... helped you grow, guided you, and pushed you to High limits THAN YOU WILL PROBABLY FIND A WIFE THAT ISNT After your coins, but To love your heart and soul! Like the Fred guy said “PUT YO SHOE LACES ON FASTER” y’all men crazy lol ..
I couldn’t said it better
Well said lady! And I’m so happy you broke it down, for those that dk how much we really sacrifice for our family.
I think both men and woman downplay each other roles which leads to so many problems of thinking the other person has an much easier role but we are all in the same boat and because our view is from the boat we do not know what the view looking from outside looks like. If we developed and a genuine interest in each other and allowed one another to be vulnerable and talk about the deepest things that wound us in relationships we would have a much better understanding that everybody is equally important to each other a lot would be accomplished through this understanding
Frustration comes when someone thinks the other person got what they didn’t get when in reality we all go through tribulations life crushes us differently but essentially we are all crushed.
“Compassion” if we understood the significance of this word we would treat each other differently
Yea that whole boss money hustler trope is fine it just ain’t me i like to nurture and grow myself emotionally
No wife of a professional athlete in the NFL cooks and cleans. This isn’t the 50’s. Save for birthing kids, there’s next to nothing these women do to keep a home. There’s someone paid to do all that.
“You shoulda put your shoes on faster” so you could run from that situation...damn that shit hit *different*
Brandon Marshall thank you for being so transparent.
At the end of the it’s about why you’re attracted to the girl and what she offers. Most men just look for the baddest female. But if you want a long healthy relationship you have to look for more than someone you enjoy having sex with.
My situation and it’s hard cause you choosing lust over love at the end of the day and that a mans weakness
Sex is a very big part of the relationship though I'm sorry but it is physical attraction does matter a lot
@@ondt6411 a physical attraction may get you there but if it’s all that keeps you there it’s not a relationship it’s sex or an entanglement of the bodies
Young Prophet • Exactly what a lot of men doesnt understand still..
True and a lot of men don’t realize some of these women are studying them. Also, {major point} social media is a sales pitch. These “baddest” types set of their social media and captions to pitch and lure men. These guys forget that spirituality is trending. All of these girls can talk about crystals and sage or whatever they think most men are into or whatever is popular. It’s not real most of the time.
Og fred is always on point, as an og myself, i wish fred would talk more. Because he makes more sense than all of them.
Having faith in God makes everything in life so much more clear including on who to marry
And that’s what’s people missing Putting their faith in Jesus cause we all gone die instead of being concerned about money and riches Jesus is all that matters
“Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock.” Matthew 7:24
@@fernieeg6634 amen
@@fernieeg6634 Quoting and living are 2 different things alot of women quote scripture but aint living nothing!
@@briandunmore6030 lol there’s a verse for that too
When Chad was talking about his lady and helping him with a lil structure and he said i don't think yall understand... he know that chick from the TV show gonna have something to say... shout out to Brandon for keeping it moving 💯
Exactly where my mind went too.
What chick from the tv show. You ain’t talking about that overly aggressive girl that was on here that time was it?
@nomad: oh okay, gotcha lol
He’s referring to Elevlyn !! We can’t stand her ass!!
Ev said on national TV to this man face it's ok to cheat just wear protection. She provided zero structure
I got a uncle that is exactly like Fred. Cool as hell and always knows what to say and when to say it. We need more of him in the world
I wish Fred can talk more. He has the wisdom.
Fred is the wiser one of the 4.
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Wisdom listening and knowledge speaks. He know exactly when to open up.
Fred is the most grounded. By far.
The OG of the gang!!
Look at how she treats you when you face adversity. When you are down, a good woman will encourage and help pick you up!
Amen to that.
Mine disappeared when I was going through my worst 🙇🏽♂️ . So I left her ass . Best decision I’ve ever made 💯.
@@nicoprincaesar
Yes sir
Hit it on the head
Real Talk! I Dont Judge a relationship UNTIL I have adversity and see how they respond
Awhhh Ocho seems genuine and sweet 🥺! I like the fact that he spoke good of his past women and found some positive to say despite the dude with the locks trying to make him find some negative to say. He melted my heart wish him the best
They need longer episodes
Fr! . ..I start laughing next thing u know it over
fred knows exactly when to talk
Fact!
This is literally the podcast I have been waiting on! "I don't believe in leg tattoos" LOLLL
Exaaaaaccccxtttttlllllyyyyy!?!?
this is the most perfect combination of personalities
Fred Taylor is so level headed and even keeled, “Balanced”. Love his personality. Ochocinco aka “Sweet Science”. Wears his feeling on his sleeves. Glad to hear you’re growing up. I’m rooting for you. Channing is the odd to everyone’s even (I particularly don’t like to use the words “Devil’s Advocate”). Brandon…Absolute “Brilliance”. Keep up the GREAT work guys.
Channing is funny. "If you start shaking I might throw some money at you." Dude cracks me up sometimes.
They need him.. comedic relief lol
In an era where podcasting is becoming redundant, this is one of the better podcasts to emerge within the last 2-3 years. Salute to the brothas!!! 💪🏿💯
Fred I can listen to you all day. Smart guy, and Humble
“ I don’t think y’all understand” Chad ain’t tryna have no BM drama😭😭😭
Rightttttttt🤣
Facts!!
Came to the comments just to comment on this cause I didn’t feel like typing it but you right on they don’t understand 😂😂😂
He was worried about Evelyn from basketball wives crying and going off again like she did the last time he mentioned something about his past relationships
i dont blame him
The chemistry is so organic. I look fwd to each episode. You guys are hilarious.
“If You Gotta Think About The Money Then You Should’ve Put Your Shoes On Faster” !!! Fuccen Woooowwwww That Went Over A Lotta Ppl Heads Fred That Was Amazing & Some Very Thoughtful Insight & Quote Right There That Was DEEP !!!!!! 🗣💯💯💪🏽
They aint listening to Fred he droppin jewels
Yes!! I agree with Fred on having a go-getter partner when you have money. If all she wants to do is go shopping and get shoes and bags but isn't contributing to the making of money then she ain't worth it to me. I can buy a cook and a housekeeper but a hustler/go-getter is priceless.
Agreed, especially on that last line
I love Chad. He is very deep and takes no prisoners. His expressions show how enlightened he is in a spiritual sense. Therefore makes him very balanced in real life. Simple n happy
“We mess up sometimes bro” Fred that’s how you end a good show!! Much respect ✊
I like what BMarsh said, but I think the word you’re looking for is “Collaboration.” Comprising insinuates a “win-lose” situation. Both parties walk away not 100% satisfied, but in collaboration, both parties come together & work towards a common goal. Collaboration is a win-win situation & you can use it in any interpersonal conflict. Loved the episode!
I love me some Chad, and Brandon. You too have me laughing. I love Chad how he speaks how he feels, he's straight to the point and don't care how anyone feels about what he say. I also love how Brandon ask the important questions and how he shows his emotions on certain topics.
These group of guys come with the real.
Facts
They nailed this episode!! Channing be working my nerves sometimes but he’s always 💯 about EVERY topic, never sugarcoat! ✊🏽
I saw this on my recommendations and I love it! I love when professional black men talk, it’s refreshing!🙏🏾♥️💕
Never underestimate a panel of brothas just talkin some real talk man... Young bulls can learn from them just from listening. Good stuff.
Fred was CORRECT when he said HEADACHE, and it was not offensive. It's easy to lead when someone just follows without knowledge or conflict/contention (The dependent woman). An independent woman will ask questions, sometimes even give unsolicited input, yes even submissive kingdom women, however, that headache can be seen as a good challenge, because she's able to hold you accountable, especially if the man see's her as an asset and not a liability...
& Fred's question was not thoroughly answered when it came to the compromise on the relationship as an athlete or how to know she's "the one"
Perhaps she will be a headache for a man who doesn’t appreciate an independent freethinking woman. She’s a challenge for a man who appreciates going toe to toe with her who’s in the same mind set.
@@whatiswe thank you for obviously not reading to comprehend. I’m not going back and forth. The only reason Fred, reworded his statement is because people are easily offended. Exercising can be a headache when you’re chilling and comfortable but it doesn’t mean it’s not worth it or beneficial. Good day.
what's your IG Yvette
@@CoNVertibleJay IG @MissAlomo
I agree with you Yvette
" A black woman who's going to ride and knows what she's wants to do in life" . Building together , not a sponsorship. Going to push each other to our best. Team work!
This is literally the podcast I have been waiting on! "I don't believe in leg tattoos" LOLLL
Lol.... just go to a local barber shop in the hood....you'll love it...
LOL! I know rite LOL!
Definitely need more barber shop like podcasts lol
That moment when you scroll down and read a comment the exact moment the video says the phrase commented...
Bliss 👌😩
@@rctecopyright LOLLLL
Communication, Compromise, Compassion, Consideration, Cooperation= 5Cs are the key Ingredients to a respectful and healthy relationship.
Just caught wind of this show and im loving these conversations. The group dynamic works. Keep up the great work fellas.
This was really good!✨
Facts 🤣
🙄😒😒😒 feminist alert
Factz💯
U fine tho 💯🔥
@@swaggydesh4997 settle down killer🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love gender roles. It shouldnt be a negative aspect of the marriage ir relationship, it balances everything out, to a certain degree. I think its up to the individuals. I like my husband being in charge, leading for what is best for the family!
Thanks ma’am!
Amen
I love gender roles. Greatest gift to mankind. Wax off, wax on!😂
I disagree. It depends on the relationship, it should be prescribed based on each person's personality and not their gender
@@andxxxcb Honest question, no offense. So, you wouldn't mind taking on the woman's role while she plays the man's part?
It’s interesting watching Brandon switch energies depending on the guests. With original guys he’s an emotional, accepting, deep thinker but when Diggs & Jarvis was on he was all cool guy.
Love can not be in a club. Love in a Club is Lust. That’s for most people.
The club unholy a bit we not perfect but that's most definitely a challenge spot to go far with someone
I think this relates to all relationships regardless of economic status.
As a female i love this conversation I’m glad that they are doing this to give their perspective and advice this is love real talk
This is the perfect group of guys, the chemistry is perfect ! Love the podcast
The only series on youtube I go out of my way to watch 💕👑
Brandon Marshall ! This man was an absolute monster on the field. I honestly believe he could've been the GOAT if wasn't for all the outside interferences. Still one of the Best ! So proud to see you doing your thing bro ! You been through so much & deserve nothing but the best ! Much love & respect brother
Great episode! Chad was definitely uncomfortable about the topic considering his past relationships/children’s moms. He didn’t want to offend anyone and keep it respectful. I get it. 🤷🏽♀️
OMG!!!! Where have I been? Finally, a podcast/you tube sports show that’s actually worth watching. KUDOS to B Marsh, Channing, Chad and Fred... The combination of those 4 is purely organic.... Please, please continue......
They need to listen more when Fred talk.
Love how thoughtful Chad was when speaking about his new relationship versus his old ones. He knows how important words are
Agreed!
I wish him the best but a man walking on egg shells in front of his woman is a bad sign from the get-go.
B Marshall , I commend you for having this! A lot of people / men need to know WHO they are. You rock ! This is awesome.
This was raw...I appreciate the candidness and the willingness to be open and sharing your perspectives.
I have young men and since they were very young while teaching them to love themselves I also talked heavily about the different types of women in this world and to take your time and to chose wisely. Great conversation and you guys are hilarious!
Channing is hilarious 😆. Glad to see these guys healthy after football.
Gentlemen I definitely appreciated the man to man talk, if I may add or share a perspective, no offense to anyone's belief, all men must have his financial obligations in order as well as his spiritual obligations in order. I'm coming from a Christian point of view or knowledge, a man must yet learn his order of obedience to God first in all things, once he learns to have a prayer life,a word life,& a application of what he has learned,then he's ready to be a leader. This applies to all men with a foundation of believing in God, athletes ,non- athletes ,when he puts God first that man is saying to God whether you bless me with millions or hundreds I'm not putting my trust in the money, I'm putting my trust into You. In other words a man must know his ultimate source that all things comes from God,then his whole household can prosper under the covering of Gods blessing.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you! Well said!
Amennnnnnnnnn. You get it with the reference to God and being obedient. I believe we both have to learn to be fiscally responsible but that comes through God’s assistance and blessings 💯
Yes but as a Christian man eve Delilah jazze belle all deceived men its women nature to deceitful. God Man Woman is a difficult mix excluding children. Not trying to be negative but it's my perspective.
Amen 🙏🏾
@@naturalwealth465 I don’t think that’s a fair statement to make because the same Bible you’re pulling these women out from equally have women such as Esther who saved a whole nation, Rebecca, Martha, Mary, the Proverbs 31 woman. There’s many women of valour in scripture. If we can agree that God doesn’t make mistake and doesn’t mean harm then we can also agree that women are not created for the purpose of being deceitful, I’m sure your mother or grandmother wouldn’t be described as deceitful
Can we get a Q&A where women ask yall questions and we get a men's perspective. Loving the podcast!
No y’all already have all the Q & A shows already! This show is meant for real grown man conversation that we all have when we are hanging out with or boys.
@@TWells1015 it still would be nice to get one Q&A
@@CherrelleColeman no it wouldn’t. That only gives you the aspect from a pro football players perspective. That’s not the average man. Talk to men in your circle that are married. You could ask me “how did you marry a football player?” And I’m going to give your 1 perspective. That won’t work for YOU like it did for me. So no, a q&a is irrelevant.
@@LadyJei72 it was just a request and its not that deep.
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These 4 men right here!!! Lawwwwwwd!! Hearing these men talk about marriage, relationships, and family is beautiful!! Love that they are giving it up!! There perspective n differences are dope! They are georgeous, fly, smart, and just kings!! Yassssss!!
This is such a dope podcast, and I love how articulate Brandon Marshall is!!!
More convos like this please! So many men need to hear these messages. Much respect to you all
Nice to hear these men break it down, I've been single for 12 years cause I'm grinding everyday I dont go out with a man cause of their money I have my own money, we need to build together!!!! Loyalty is everything to me!!!!!
I saw this few days ago and been hooked ! Great content, great talker, and great conversation!
Chad rocking the Famu sweatshirt 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Brandon gets us...he understands what women expect from men , want from men, and what women need from men, and knowing that makes women give men what they want, need, and expect from us.
We see you Chad representing Florida A&M University Rattlers.
Yooooo that FAMU Sweater dope AF I need that 🔥🔥🔥🐍🐍🐍
@@Blassie.P lhp.com ✊🏿
@@davidnoble4450 Good looking fam...
My Fam Played for Hampton in ' 96 and FAMU was in their opponent in the Circle City Classic in Indy, IN in 1996 again. I loved FAMU's Band and I wanted to attend FAMU but didn't. One of my biggest regrets in Life til this day...
No doubt that shit fresh bro I’m a huge sports fan o have plenty of attire like that I have every team ncaa, mlb, nba, nfl, soccer hockey I got it all I got mine from fanatics my buddies can’t afford it because their wives are spending all their money😂.
Brandon kicking some real ish bru bru...
This is the realist sports Podcast out. Hands down.