I mean if you don’t compliment a girl on a first date she’d think you don’t like her or not interested. I tried not complimenting and I failed every time, but when I said something about their outfits or hair or eyes it worked. So I don’t know
@@adam3435 I read this somewhere and i totally agree with it: "I think it's kind of stupid to meet someone and then compliment them out of the gate On what? Nice ass? Pretty smile? Too low effort and simple. Obviously there is some attraction or we wouldn't be meeting. Now if we're in a witty repartee I might be inclined to compliment her sharp wit or intelligence since I just finished witnessing it. I would be more inclined to compliment her appearance on a later date after I have maybe complimented her intellect, her choice of outfits, her taste in restaurant selection or whatever comes up." Although there are more nonsuperficial things that you can compliment a woman on like if she's being helpful, supporting, friendly, fun, offers to buy coffee and if she can hold a conversation without making it all about herself and so on. Also, actions speak louder than words, especially on a first date and even in general as well. Body language is key. I hope that helps.
A compliment, if real and sincere, is a great way to break the ice. I recently complimented a lady on her earrings and she lit up like a Christmas tree. A woman told me I was a "looker" and I loved it of course. Many women are insecure about their appearance and a honest thoughtful compliment can open doors.
@@pimaggot That's wrong. She doesn't know you well enough to be attracted to you. There are many cases where women aren't immediately physically attracted to the guy, but as they learn his personality more, they become more attracted. By leading with a compliment, you're immediately putting yourself below her and she'll subconsciously dismiss you as her genes have programmed her to do for generations. In other words, it's not the game-theory optimal strategy with attractive women.
@@pimaggot You still don't get it. Physical attraction will get your foot slightly into the door, but it's personality that carries you through the rest of your life with her. You're thinking like a man, not a woman. Women find attraction based on the emotional strength of the man. There are so many physically attractive men who end up getting treated like a weak beta by their women... because they are emotionally weak on the inside. She'll eventually discover this because women always test their mens' emotional strength. That is why you must develop proper emotional strength to keep her.
Yeah, I can speak from personal experience. Complimenting attractive women doesn't work at all, they know that they're attractive already so when you tell them something they already know they'll just get annoyed. I had one girl on tinder block me because I said she was pretty but after switching up the game a little bit with others, I started seeing different results.
Even when I want to, I don't, I never do on looks. I might on some type of ability, but probably not. I'm more likely to make fun of her, because even if that doesn't work, at least I get some amusement out of it.
In my experience it works on some but not with others. Some girls, especially if they're a 9 or 10 just know that they are gorgeous and have heard it enough to the point where they cant appreciate it anymore. They are tired of just being appreciated for their hot body and rather hear something more meaningful.
After a dozen relationships and a couple of dozen dates, I don't remember I have ever initiated an encounter with a compliment. There are countless ways to open a conversation with a woman.
@Mohammed Rashad countless ways to make a statement, countless ways to make a question. I usually make a statement either directly looking at her although not regarding to her or indirect for her to listen and wait for a reaction. I've met many in pubs and night clubs which was my thing.
Due to not having had a long-term girlfriend or relationship in my 20s, didn't happen until the beginning of my 30s, that makes me still feel like an incel, I feel like forever an incel due to being a late bloomer like that, a lot of people still feel it's considered a loss and not a win even if they do get into a a serious good long-term relationship late in life
i use a situational compliment to get into the zone and then have a great conversation and close. it's just an opener that helps us both... puts her in a good mood/mode and puts me in the zone.
Hi Tripp, it 's natural to evolve on your advice. This is because the dating situation evolves really fast. And our game should be really tight now. A solution would be removing old videos that contain previous advice that used to work before but not anymore. Not sure if that could work for you.
If it is a LTR a little ego boost to her can be good. Ask yourself this, "does it put her above me" If not, it is fine, if there is a problem with that there is probably something wrong with her anyway.
1) If a woman isn't going out of her way to compliment you, then why should you? 2) Why should a man compliment a woman that shows zero interest to begin with?
Technology has also played a massive factor in how woman received compliments, you only have to look at instagram and see how many compliments a woman gets from her followers. It's good to compliment more on the inner quality more that how someone physically looks. Don't follow what others millions of others do , be the total opposite.
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This is so lame. Women love getting compliments fact. A Man should be honest and genuine in giving them. Should be confident in giving it. End of. Every time I used to give a Woman a compliment they used to melt , and I found it embarrassing that they did so. As long as you are sincere in giving them no problem. Not sure where this Man is getting his advice from.
haha... I've noticed men doing this no complimenting thing. If you're not into a guy it doesn't matter if he stops complimenting or not. If you don't care you don't care. If a guy I'm into doesn't compliment me ( & it goes BOTH WAYS) it seems weird & contrived, calculating & eventually just boring. It's fun to flirt when the flirting goes both ways.
When i started to stop complimenting the girls wanted my validation in every way, this works like a charm.
I mean if you don’t compliment a girl on a first date she’d think you don’t like her or not interested. I tried not complimenting and I failed every time, but when I said something about their outfits or hair or eyes it worked. So I don’t know
@@adam3435 I read this somewhere and i totally agree with it: "I think it's kind of stupid to meet someone and then compliment them out of the gate On what? Nice ass? Pretty smile? Too low effort and simple. Obviously there is some attraction or we wouldn't be meeting.
Now if we're in a witty repartee I might be inclined to compliment her sharp wit or intelligence since I just finished witnessing it.
I would be more inclined to compliment her appearance on a later date after I have maybe complimented her intellect, her choice of outfits, her taste in restaurant selection or whatever comes up."
Although there are more nonsuperficial things that you can compliment a woman on like if she's being helpful, supporting, friendly, fun, offers to buy coffee and if she can hold a conversation without making it all about herself and so on.
Also, actions speak louder than words, especially on a first date and even in general as well.
Body language is key.
I hope that helps.
@@adam3435 it works when she likes you or find attractive. Its simple. If she doesn't like you like that it doesn't matter.
@@adam3435 see you as a beta male or she's not attracted to you. You're on the friend zone bro.
I think compliments work best when they are completely unplanned and so feel authentic
As a women I completely and utterly agree!
earned a like for the honesty, and i agree nowadays you should give compliments as least as possible
A compliment, if real and sincere, is a great way to break the ice. I recently complimented a lady on her earrings and she lit up like a Christmas tree. A woman told me I was a "looker" and I loved it of course. Many women are insecure about their appearance and a honest thoughtful compliment can open doors.
Only if they find you physically attractive. In general though, it's a low-value move.
@vecter that makes it a high value move. You learn from the get go if she is attracted to you. That is valuable knowledge.
@@pimaggot That's wrong. She doesn't know you well enough to be attracted to you. There are many cases where women aren't immediately physically attracted to the guy, but as they learn his personality more, they become more attracted. By leading with a compliment, you're immediately putting yourself below her and she'll subconsciously dismiss you as her genes have programmed her to do for generations. In other words, it's not the game-theory optimal strategy with attractive women.
@@vecter well I am a physically attractive guy so I don't want a relationship with a woman who isn't physically attracted to me.
@@pimaggot You still don't get it. Physical attraction will get your foot slightly into the door, but it's personality that carries you through the rest of your life with her. You're thinking like a man, not a woman. Women find attraction based on the emotional strength of the man. There are so many physically attractive men who end up getting treated like a weak beta by their women... because they are emotionally weak on the inside. She'll eventually discover this because women always test their mens' emotional strength. That is why you must develop proper emotional strength to keep her.
Admit mistakes and thrive as a real man. Big respect to you.
Compliments put you in a chasing position even if not intended
Yeah, I can speak from personal experience. Complimenting attractive women doesn't work at all, they know that they're attractive already so when you tell them something they already know they'll just get annoyed. I had one girl on tinder block me because I said she was pretty but after switching up the game a little bit with others, I started seeing different results.
Even when I want to, I don't, I never do on looks. I might on some type of ability, but probably not. I'm more likely to make fun of her, because even if that doesn't work, at least I get some amusement out of it.
In my experience it works on some but not with others. Some girls, especially if they're a 9 or 10 just know that they are gorgeous and have heard it enough to the point where they cant appreciate it anymore. They are tired of just being appreciated for their hot body and rather hear something more meaningful.
After a dozen relationships and a couple of dozen dates, I don't remember I have ever initiated an encounter with a compliment. There are countless ways to open a conversation with a woman.
@Mohammed Rashad countless ways to make a statement, countless ways to make a question.
I usually make a statement either directly looking at her although not regarding to her or indirect for her to listen and wait for a reaction.
I've met many in pubs and night clubs which was my thing.
How would you make a move on a girl that is working? She’s a waitress at a restaurant and I’ve been locking eyes with her and noticing signs
Don't you think complementing a shy girl will give her some courage for a better interaction?
Due to not having had a long-term girlfriend or relationship in my 20s, didn't happen until the beginning of my 30s, that makes me still feel like an incel, I feel like forever an incel due to being a late bloomer like that, a lot of people still feel it's considered a loss and not a win even if they do get into a a serious good long-term relationship late in life
i use a situational compliment to get into the zone and then have a great conversation and close. it's just an opener that helps us both... puts her in a good mood/mode and puts me in the zone.
Hi Tripp, it 's natural to evolve on your advice. This is because the dating situation evolves really fast. And our game should be really tight now. A solution would be removing old videos that contain previous advice that used to work before but not anymore. Not sure if that could work for you.
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most wise old man in his town
thanks for sharing the knowledge
What about complimenting your GF, like what's the dynamic of that?
If it is a LTR a little ego boost to her can be good.
Ask yourself this, "does it put her above me"
If not, it is fine, if there is a problem with that there is probably something wrong with her anyway.
1) If a woman isn't going out of her way to compliment you, then why should you?
2) Why should a man compliment a woman that shows zero interest to begin with?
Technology has also played a massive factor in how woman received compliments, you only have to look at instagram and see how many compliments a woman gets from her followers. It's good to compliment more on the inner quality more that how someone physically looks. Don't follow what others millions of others do , be the total opposite.
Keep compliments to a minimum, minimal and authentic.
Do a video about the Tinder Swindler
Dont ever compliment a girl imo
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I don't like that men give too much compliments on me, its weird..turn me off.
You’re putting women on a pedestal, I don’t think you know yourself, know women, or know game. In my opinion
This is so lame. Women love getting compliments fact. A Man should be honest and genuine in giving them. Should be confident in giving it. End of. Every time I used to give a Woman a compliment they used to melt , and I found it embarrassing that they did so. As long as you are sincere in giving them no problem. Not sure where this Man is getting his advice from.
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haha... I've noticed men doing this no complimenting thing. If you're not into a guy it doesn't matter if he stops complimenting or not. If you don't care you don't care. If a guy I'm into doesn't compliment me ( & it goes BOTH WAYS) it seems weird & contrived, calculating & eventually just boring. It's fun to flirt when the flirting goes both ways.
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