It’s frustrating how sibling trauma gets brushed off as just "rivalry” when its way more complicated than that. People act like it’s normal for siblings to not get along, but they miss how constant conflict can cause real harm. Parents often expect older siblings to just deal with it or be the bigger person, which puts unfair pressure on them. It’s like kids are not seen as full people with their own boundaries and emotions. And adults would not force these dynamics on other adults, so why do it to kids??
this. yeah, it's never rivalry, that's the way the family problems can be kept on the scapegoat, by re-framing it as a functional situation. it's abuse, and lot of family systems don't have the guts to deal with it honestly imo
It's hard for me to explain due to really poor memory. Formscapes manifesto is the title of a video made a few days ago on utube the guy is smart and wise covering lots of topics philosophers from past hundreds of years and different religions and his takes. Reminds me of Rudolph Steiner. I've had the thought he's likely reincarnated Steiner. The timing is correct for that. He says a soul after passing the gate of death spends a third of said lifetime in the spiritual realm then has option to reincarnate. Most people I tell about Steiner's work don't want to hear it if that's the case please let me know the last thing I wanna do is bug people. Thanks. How's the job search going? And practicing driving?
I would like to hear about it! It sounds interesting! Also I’ve had to put the job on hold due to some doctor stuff (I am okay!) but I am still looking for ones for after! And driving has been well!! Thank you for asking!
Hey. Nice to meet you. I'm Vidkron. Hope your doing better now. I would certainly like to exchange contact info at some point. I'd like a chance to know you better.
Coffin uploading is a great start to the day!
Always love seeing your stuff, and how open you are. Need more of this in the world- more validation
This video has me picturing Coffin's sister as a little gremlin from Gremlins (1984)
true, i think its never good to overlook ones feelings. and yea, some adults dont treat children as 'real' people and its worrying
It’s frustrating how sibling trauma gets brushed off as just "rivalry” when its way more complicated than that. People act like it’s normal for siblings to not get along, but they miss how constant conflict can cause real harm. Parents often expect older siblings to just deal with it or be the bigger person, which puts unfair pressure on them. It’s like kids are not seen as full people with their own boundaries and emotions. And adults would not force these dynamics on other adults, so why do it to kids??
this.
yeah, it's never rivalry, that's the way the family problems can be kept on the scapegoat, by re-framing it as a functional situation. it's abuse, and lot of family systems don't have the guts to deal with it honestly imo
Have you heard "the form scapes manifesto"?
I have not! Would you mind explaining what it is?
It's hard for me to explain due to really poor memory. Formscapes manifesto is the title of a video made a few days ago on utube the guy is smart and wise covering lots of topics philosophers from past hundreds of years and different religions and his takes. Reminds me of Rudolph Steiner. I've had the thought he's likely reincarnated Steiner. The timing is correct for that. He says a soul after passing the gate of death spends a third of said lifetime in the spiritual realm then has option to reincarnate. Most people I tell about Steiner's work don't want to hear it if that's the case please let me know the last thing I wanna do is bug people. Thanks. How's the job search going? And practicing driving?
I would like to hear about it! It sounds interesting! Also I’ve had to put the job on hold due to some doctor stuff (I am okay!) but I am still looking for ones for after! And driving has been well!! Thank you for asking!
Hey. Nice to meet you. I'm Vidkron. Hope your doing better now. I would certainly like to exchange contact info at some point. I'd like a chance to know you better.
Are you into girls?