Divorces Explained | Tamil | Madan Gowri | MG

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  • Опубліковано 21 січ 2022
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    In this Madan Gowri video, we will be discussing Divorces and weddings reasons and social reaction in India, especially after the recent Samantha - Naga Chaitanya and Dhanush and Aishwarya Rajinikanth separation announcement.

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  • @gowthamanjaiganesh3210
    @gowthamanjaiganesh3210 2 роки тому +7360

    India la divorce kammi yena namma society pressure la namma irukom so athanala low rate la irruku. Not because they love each other. But if you see domestic violence rate india tops the list .

  • @mzlsvlogs361
    @mzlsvlogs361 2 роки тому +2386

    Husband and wife : we want peace
    ppl : we want entertainment

    • @anugrahabmobesh9377
      @anugrahabmobesh9377 2 роки тому +5

      Well said .👍

    • @thothworld883
      @thothworld883 2 роки тому +1

      They are not husband and wife now... That is the problem...

    • @yogeshwaran2530
      @yogeshwaran2530 2 роки тому +26

      Boomer uncles: we have to make a vanmam 😂

    • @Nikobellic415
      @Nikobellic415 2 роки тому +2

      @@thothworld883 During husband goes to work wife spend time with other men that's the harsh truth.

    • @Thisispri
      @Thisispri 2 роки тому +7

      @@Nikobellic415 😒😒😬
      No, it's other way around, cause he is going outside the house.
      Ippadiyum sollalam , just sollalam

  • @QuotableVision11
    @QuotableVision11 2 роки тому +4728

    *காதலின் வெற்றி திருமணம் அல்ல! தள்ளாடும் வயதில் துணை நிற்பதே காதலின் வெற்றி!*

  • @parklinalina9831
    @parklinalina9831 2 роки тому +275

    I am a daughter of divorced parents, my father abused my mother for 14 yrs , every day when I come home from school I have always seen him beating my mother, my mother was married at 17 so she had no financial support so she endured all of it but 4 years back they ended their relationship because my father had married another women🥲, seeing my family being destroyed is a painful moment but now I am living with my mom and she is happy , she never married anyone again for us .but now I am suffering a lot of mental disorders (bipolarity) due to trauma during childhood. Please to all the parents reading this , don't fight or quarrel infront of your children it may affect their mental health ,plz 🙏

    • @gs8595
      @gs8595 2 роки тому +16

      Am so sad for u...i know how hard it is ...take care of ur mom...study well....don't worry everything will be fine....be brave and positive

    • @bhavanichellan8866
      @bhavanichellan8866 2 роки тому +4

      I cn understnd ur situation. Take care baby

    • @kmeenakshisundaram7690
      @kmeenakshisundaram7690 2 роки тому +5

      Don't feel worry be positive, achieve success and be proud to ur mom

    • @SoulSoothingArts
      @SoulSoothingArts 2 роки тому +10

      You will be brave in handling other situation in your life
      Beleive good your life definitely becomes good as you suffered in your childhood don't worry your future will be bright for your good soul
      Take care of your mother for her sacrifice for your life that's enough

    • @public809
      @public809 2 роки тому +1

      ♥️♥️

  • @sindujanatarajan5121
    @sindujanatarajan5121 2 роки тому +145

    You hit the nail on the head, @Madan. Three solid statements that resonated with me.
    1. The couple involved would be the last people on Earth to have wanted to separate. No one has the slightest idea what the couple went through.
    2. Staying together "for the sake of the kids" is a ridiculous notion prevalent only in our country. Kids are the most affected in a dysfunctional family.
    3. Women's financial independence is termed "arrogance" in our patriarchal society. There is a better word for that feeling: "self-confidence," something women lacked even 10 years ago.

  • @pooranianand8150
    @pooranianand8150 2 роки тому +1631

    Taboo topic nu everyone is not talking about divorce. Hats off to you for bringing this topic today and discussing it

    • @Shivamaalinii
      @Shivamaalinii 2 роки тому +2

      I am checking, as per numerology birth date 13th and 28 th la poranthavangaluku divorce aguthu.

    • @siddhanathpatil7901
      @siddhanathpatil7901 2 роки тому +4

      @@Shivamaalinii yenda.,..i am single...and my birthday is 13th july

    • @user-lw4xu5vx4s
      @user-lw4xu5vx4s 2 роки тому +2

      Divorce vaazhga🙌🥵

    • @mamba847
      @mamba847 2 роки тому

      @@NoName-sd8bo plz dont trash it he got heart and like plz dont trash ut

    • @ramasubramanian1132
      @ramasubramanian1132 2 роки тому

      @@siddhanathpatil7901 Tomorrow my b'day

  • @abinayashrinithi8840
    @abinayashrinithi8840 2 роки тому +53

    I am 17 years old girl....plzz parents don't fight in front of your children..it hurts your child more..I know that pain..if you don't want to stay together plz you can get divorce but don't say your child as a reason

  • @senthamarairamaiyan6645
    @senthamarairamaiyan6645 2 роки тому +8

    நீங்கள் சொல்வது அனைத்தும் உண்மை.யாரையும் பற்றி புறம் பேசகூடாது.விலகிவரமுடியாமல் கொடுமையுடன்பல ஆண்பெண் வாழ்ந்துட்டு இருக்காங்க

  • @JHB_shines
    @JHB_shines 2 роки тому +5

    1st thing after marriage parents involve panra dhu stop panunga
    2nd adhu epdi marriage aganthar apron thidir na independent aa girl iruka thonu, divorce panu daring iruka modhu nee 1st decision edutarkunu marriage Venda.
    3rd marriage fix panna time la girl boy clear pesirkanu.
    4th if ur kids r not able to take decision by themselves parents need to interfere in everything so pls marriage Pani vakyadinga.dont spoil others life
    5th after marriage frnds aa iruinga ,naa control pana nu soli ego vendam,try to be open with each other don't hide anything from eachother.
    6th husband cook pana teranjadhu na wife Koda sendhu cook panunga,husband ka work la edhachu help venum na don't hesitate to take help from wife.
    7th.Stop comparing ur life from ur relatives & frnds life.
    8 th apdiye parents interfere analum avoid it ,avangalku age airchu we can't change them ,so change ourselve
    9 th if there is any mistake from any 1 of the partner give a chance to correct it ,if they have corrected it don't dig the old stories & pin point them to show they r culprit.

  • @sanjithaorvicky8305
    @sanjithaorvicky8305 2 роки тому +264

    i am a child i am 14 years old.... and i see what my mother and father are going through everyday ... I aint telling that my dad is a bad person or my mother is a cruel person no! that's not what im saying ..... if it's not working out between 2 people please dont be together saying your children as a reason it doesnt make sense .... i have every right to say this because i am living in one such family.... if u have a hundred reasons not to get divorced no problem dont divorce but please dont tell ur children as a reason because if u think ur children are not going to be happy if u get divorced trust me they aint happy that u r in this boring and bitter relationship.....Thank u so much madan for taking some time out of your life to explain people about divorces

  • @Varadharajastories
    @Varadharajastories 2 роки тому +1623

    Very Bold topic but much needed one👌👌. Mathavangaluku vandha thakkali chutney and avangaluku vantha ratham🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. The only people who can comment on a Divorce is that particular couple and no one else has any rights to discuss about others Divorce. People don't file divorce because of society pressure only not because of Love

    • @boomeruncle.....8853
      @boomeruncle.....8853 2 роки тому +9

      Thambii8 neee

    • @Shivamaalinii
      @Shivamaalinii 2 роки тому

      13 th and 28 th date la poranthavangaluku mostly divorce agum

    • @KeerthanaSuresh
      @KeerthanaSuresh 2 роки тому +37

      INDIA la mattum taan ennaku terinju there is no freedom for
      Marrying our loved one...No freedom on taking time to get married... People deal with all our privacy (Like..When is ur mrg? When are you gonna become mom? How much dowry have they given? Ponnuku evalo gold pooturukinga? Tv illaya.. grinder illaya ..Car illaya.....Bus illaya..Flight illaya?... What is your husband's monthly income?..Have you planned for second baby? bla bla rubbish.... Incase of divorce ... People go with " Ponnu seri illa.. Piyan kudikuran poola.. Ooru suthuvanga.. Night duty aahm.. Vera yeadachum thappa nadandhurukum.. Thimuru pudichiruku.. Indha kaalathu pasanga ellarumey ipdi taan.. Ponna yepdi valathurukanga paathiya?... Un life ipdi aaiducheyy.....etc
      But only thing all they say in common is *ADJUST*
      Ipo kalyanam venam pa.. *Adjust pannakama..naladhuku tana sollrom* ... Yarunu teriyama yepdi mrg pandrathu... *Adjust pannika ma ellam nalla poogum* ... After mrg inga bayangara prechana pa adikuranga.. *Adjust pannikama enna sollurangalo adha sei* .... finally after ending in divorce... *nee Adjust panni pooirukanum ipo paathiya yenga vandhurukunu*
      Sorry society **** off

    • @fathima1441
      @fathima1441 2 роки тому +4

      @@KeerthanaSuresh ur words are 💯 truth

    • @rashmikhaveriyan7558
      @rashmikhaveriyan7558 2 роки тому +1

      Vanakkam thale

  • @DevilJin-rn8cg
    @DevilJin-rn8cg 2 роки тому +4

    💙BRO!! ((VIJAY)) VOICE UHM VARUDHU👌🏼[[VIJAY JUNIOR]] ND THEN ADVICE [[POWERFUL]]😍🤩

  • @geethavishwanathan9500
    @geethavishwanathan9500 2 роки тому +27

    As a girl who is going through divorce in life, I can say all youngsters should see this video before getting married.. MG spoke exactly what was going on in my mind. Thank you so much for this video!

    • @gowthamanjaiganesh3210
      @gowthamanjaiganesh3210 2 роки тому +5

      Stay strong ma'am. I always support those people who divorce. Everything will pass and trust me you will become great and strong . My prayers for you ma'am.

    • @MS-ne3yu
      @MS-ne3yu Рік тому

      You get Divorced ? Mam.

  • @darshini6583
    @darshini6583 2 роки тому +526

    Thank you madan for choosing this topic... Your speech in this topic means a lot for us.. No words to express the pain behind the divorce...being an independent woman, I am working and taking care of my kid.. Pls don't judge anyone life without knowing their full story..

  • @krmalarvizhi626
    @krmalarvizhi626 2 роки тому +632

    எதார்த்தமான உண்மை...உங்களைப்போன்ற இளைஞர்கள் இப்படி யோசிப்பதே எங்களை போன்ற பெண்களுக்கு ஆறுதலா இருக்கு. பெரியாரும், பாரதியும் போராடியது வீண் போகல.தைரியமாக இத பத்தி பேசியதுக்கு நன்றி ..🙏👍

  • @harinisridhar9395
    @harinisridhar9395 2 роки тому +27

    I've seen my parents fight in streets and house 24*7 during my childhood even now,...but thing is she was not given support from her parents side to just divorce him ,stigmatic society yes it is.... I've seen my grandma plead my mom don't bring embarrassment to us...not only this if a husband is alcoholic or irresponsible that same blame falls on the wife like only because of her he is not responsible and careless in life they just judge,...and there is a saying veetla pombala seri irundha everything will be in place,it's so ridiculous that women should take blame for things turning wrong whereas men are praised when they succeed in society, whatever madan Anna said is true,don't judge people please,you're not in their shoes....,and stop commenting on others relationship status

  • @thalapathyaruneditz1028
    @thalapathyaruneditz1028 2 роки тому +4

    Divorse apply pantravanga venam kammiya irrukkalam .. divorse ku apply pannama pirichu irrukkarathu neraya madhan nu 🧐

  • @vinodhaveerabagu77
    @vinodhaveerabagu77 2 роки тому +688

    நிறைய தம்பதிகள் இப்படிப்பட்ட வாழ்கையை தான் வாழ்கிறார்கள் என்பதை வெளிப்படையாக சொன்னதற்க்காக மனமார்ந்த நன்றி சகோ

    • @nandharacer
      @nandharacer 2 роки тому +2

      It depends on couple and situations they face

    • @sabaraj127
      @sabaraj127 2 роки тому +1

      Bro,pls talk about law class student Abdul raheem....

    • @rameshwarirajesh3803
      @rameshwarirajesh3803 2 роки тому +3

      Good Topic.. to be discussed!! Correct.. But Only the parents can take care of their Babies than anyone else.. 'My life' term will go..after marriage .. priority changes.. that term will come inbetween.. But after a kid.. Kid should be secured that is the most important for every parents..since you are responsible. Divorce is not a solution.. Try to understand.. make sure everything is good for your babies..and you that's it

    • @darshanhc8171
      @darshanhc8171 2 роки тому +1

      Yenna madannnuu I think after watching mgs BOOM VIDEO
      I guess this year in tamilnadu Divorce cases will increase 🤣🤣🤣
      by next year 2023 India will bee in first place 92% leading 🤣🤣
      Mgs squads - i need Divorce right now
      Divorce Lawyers - 50% off how had subscribed madan Gowri channal 🤣🤣

    • @darshanhc7096
      @darshanhc7096 2 роки тому

      Yenna madannnuu I think after watching mgs BOOM VIDEO
      I guess this year in tamilnadu Divorce cases will increase 🤣🤣🤣
      by next year 2023 India will bee in first place 92% leading 🤣🤣
      Mgs squads - i need Divorce right now
      Divorce Lawyers - 50% off how had subscribed madan Gowri channal 🤣🤣

  • @OhCome0n
    @OhCome0n 2 роки тому +179

    One thing I've noticed is that we as a society glorify suffering and sacrifice more than honesty and fulfilment. This is nothing but voluntarily choosing unhappiness over positivity.

  • @user-ff7ix2os9c
    @user-ff7ix2os9c 2 роки тому +4

    Unmaitha Bro ..Enga Amma La Enga Appakitta Avlo Adi Vangittu Twenty Years Onna Irukkanga... Really 100% Unmai Bro .Evlo Naal Vazhrom Drathu Important Illa ..Epdi Vazhrom Drathu Than Mukkiyam...So I Will Support For Your Opinion... Thanks A Lot Your Explanation Of Divorce... Really Superb Explanation...I am Really Impress Your Explanation...👍

  • @vinith1018
    @vinith1018 2 роки тому +7

    In the year 2122 :
    Random guy seeing this video : "Divorce rate in India is now around 99 percent"
    MG's Soul be like "Mission accomplished".

  • @sonymusics8539
    @sonymusics8539 2 роки тому +43

    இந்த காலத்தில் காதல் திருமணம்,வீட்டில் பார்த்து திருமணமோ எல்லாம் சுலபம் தான் ஆனால் இருவர் சேர்ந்து கடைசி வரைக்கும் வாழ்வது தான் கடினமாக மாறி வருகிறது 💔😥Mgs

  • @lavanyam2892
    @lavanyam2892 2 роки тому +114

    I've lived in an unconsummated marriage for five years. I didnt feel like I could open up about it to anyone. I just accepted my fate and kept mum. But now, I've found my own way and am slowly building my career. Guys, you can never ever tell what happens behind closed doors. See my case, my marriage has been unconsummated for five years. Could you even predict such a thing? No, right? So dont judge people. You never ever know what happens behind closed doors.

    • @nithyababu6675
      @nithyababu6675 2 роки тому +7

      So sad only ladies face this if it was a man they would have got him married in a year.

    • @darshanhc8171
      @darshanhc8171 2 роки тому +2

      Yenna madannnuu I think after watching mgs BOOM VIDEO
      I guess this year in tamilnadu Divorce cases will increase 🤣🤣🤣
      by next year 2023 India will bee in first place 92% leading 🤣🤣
      Mgs squads - i need Divorce right now
      Divorce Lawyers - 50% off how had subscribed madan Gowri channal 🤣🤣

    • @darshanhc7096
      @darshanhc7096 2 роки тому

      Yenna madannnuu I think after watching mgs BOOM VIDEO
      I guess this year in tamilnadu Divorce cases will increase 🤣🤣🤣
      by next year 2023 India will bee in first place 92% leading 🤣🤣
      Mgs squads - i need Divorce right now
      Divorce Lawyers - 50% off how had subscribed madan Gowri channal 🤣🤣

  • @sivaparathy7806
    @sivaparathy7806 2 роки тому +2

    Agreed MG, great opinion 👍

  • @lovelykavithaikkal254
    @lovelykavithaikkal254 2 роки тому +12

    Life is mixed with hurdles and happiness.. everyone has to face that..Divorce is not a solution to be happy.. best to give up and understand eachother.. that is life...some person torture psychologically and physically theat time divorce is must..

  • @vaanirs1486
    @vaanirs1486 2 роки тому +66

    People think that divorce will affect the kids!! But the more and more parents fight with each other on a daily basis,it will badly affect the kid's mental health and the kids will only suffer more. Depressed Parents Can Never Afford Happiness To their Child. Thankyou mg for taking this topic🖖

  • @dineshr7439
    @dineshr7439 2 роки тому +10

    MG ah ipdi paaka romba happy ah iruku ennoda motha feeling ah kotti theethutaru💯

  • @hemasaroo9017
    @hemasaroo9017 2 роки тому +4

    I have crossed the pain of those situation you spoke about in my life. I completely agree and salute for your open talk for explaining common people about these issues.

  • @nishsparvai5660
    @nishsparvai5660 2 роки тому +3

    Common public start following the stars!!!

  • @dhanishthakumar4925
    @dhanishthakumar4925 2 роки тому +92

    Anna I am still 16 yrs young but still I can also think as u all and in my point of view it is crt

  • @Cook_King_Kumaru
    @Cook_King_Kumaru 2 роки тому +267

    குழந்தைகளின் நலனுக்காக
    divorce செய்யாமல் வாழ்பவர்கள் (தியாகிகள்)
    இங்கே 1 கோடி பேர் இருப்பார்கள்
    தலைவரே...

    • @graciafiona3341
      @graciafiona3341 2 роки тому +35

      But it will affect child too always fighting before children will affect them psychologically

    • @yadhugameplay.R1247
      @yadhugameplay.R1247 2 роки тому +17

      Etha thyagam panreenga,apidi thyagama panna ye kolantha pethukkareenga...🤦🤦🤦

    • @mdtb3901
      @mdtb3901 2 роки тому +30

      வெத்து தியாயகங்கள். குழந்தைக்காக தியாகம் செய்வதா இருந்தால் சண்டையே போட கூடாது, ஆனா போடுற சண்டை லா போட்டுகிட்டு தியாகம் னு சொன்னா அது வேடிக்கை

    • @Chandran_Studios
      @Chandran_Studios 2 роки тому +8

      @@yadhugameplay.R1247 (தன் மகன் / மகளுக்காக)
      அருவருக்க தக்க
      பழக்க வழக்கங்கள் கொண்ட மற்றும்
      mental maturity இல்லாத
      ( torture in nature )
      கணவனுடன் பொறுத்துக்கொண்டு வாழும் மனைவி,
      மானத்தை கெடுக்கும் மனைவியுடன்
      (ஐ...... ) சகித்துக் கொண்டு சேர்ந்து வாழும்
      கணவன்
      இவர்களை தியாகிகள் என்று சொல்லாமல்
      வேறு என்ன சொல்வது????

    • @sheebasimson
      @sheebasimson 2 роки тому +1

      Correct

  • @hariharan7729
    @hariharan7729 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for making this video! you can really make some impact.

  • @shalinithirunavukarasu1931
    @shalinithirunavukarasu1931 2 роки тому +39

    Well Said Madan!!
    Every individual/couple should evolve from the self and explore more via understanding and make love within them to succeed.
    It unnecessary to
    suppress or being suppressed..
    Control or being controlled..
    Dominate or being dominated..
    The essential thing is to
    Love and be loved..
    Respect and be respected..
    And its the right of every couple to expect love and respect in the relationship.
    But,
    It will take a decade to accept this real fact in a broadminded way by our people 😞

  • @abirami1325
    @abirami1325 2 роки тому +50

    💯💯💯💯💯 crt anna... Parents la apdi tha mapla job la irukara settled ah ok namba ponnu kodukalam... Ponnuku pudikalanalum avnga emotional blackmail panni vazhkai vaya vidama panranga..... Athum village side people la evolo tha sonnalum thirunthatha jenmam

  • @mrstarkid1517
    @mrstarkid1517 2 роки тому +762

    Highly Noted Point is The High Divorce Rated Countries Have High Literacy Rate and High educational backgrounds And less Cultural dependent Which makes Each citizen Powerful and Makes them Independent 🙃

    • @pageantstudios4071
      @pageantstudios4071 2 роки тому +9

      Bocz who have perfect professional life won't have a perfect personal life bitter reality

    • @KeerthanaSuresh
      @KeerthanaSuresh 2 роки тому +48

      INDIA la mattum taan ennaku terinju there is no freedom for
      Marrying our loved one...No freedom on taking time to get married... People deal with all our privacy (Like..When is ur mrg? When are you gonna become mom? How much dowry have they given? Ponnuku evalo gold pooturukinga? Tv illaya.. grinder illaya ..Car illaya.....Bus illaya..Flight illaya?... What is your husband's monthly income?..Have you planned for second baby? bla bla rubbish.... Incase of divorce ... People go with " Ponnu seri illa.. Piyan kudikuran poola.. Ooru suthuvanga.. Night duty aahm.. Vera yeadachum thappa nadandhurukum.. Thimuru pudichiruku.. Indha kaalathu pasanga ellarumey ipdi taan.. Ponna yepdi valathurukanga paathiya?... Un life ipdi aaiducheyy.....etc
      But only thing all they say in common is *ADJUST*
      Ipo kalyanam venam pa.. *Adjust pannakama..naladhuku tana sollrom* ... Yarunu teriyama yepdi mrg pandrathu... *Adjust pannika ma ellam nalla poogum* ... After mrg inga bayangara prechana pa adikuranga.. *Adjust pannikama enna sollurangalo adha sei* .... finally after ending in divorce... *nee Adjust panni pooirukanum ipo paathiya yenga vandhurukunu*
      Sorry society **** off

    • @saswin2353
      @saswin2353 2 роки тому +2

      Bro highly cultured nu sollunga , aana literacy la Namba than all biggest companies Indians holding positions at top😎😎

    • @mrstarkid1517
      @mrstarkid1517 2 роки тому +4

      @@KeerthanaSuresh Pa Ivalo Periya Message ah..... Respect dude

    • @richardalbrin5602
      @richardalbrin5602 2 роки тому +6

      @@saswin2353 still they don’t own the company just position.

  • @Priyanka-px5mt
    @Priyanka-px5mt 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing topic MG..i thought im only having this thought because of my surroundings...now feel really better...i can feel its all from ur heart,not just for the topic..

  • @suryaammu2837
    @suryaammu2837 2 роки тому +2

    Oh my god.... Thank u so much for this speech👌... Really mind relaxation👍

  • @childofgod2050
    @childofgod2050 2 роки тому +122

    I'm going through my divorce case right now for the last 6+ years.... No one gets married to get divorced.... Nice topic to discuss....

    • @pravijesus3794
      @pravijesus3794 2 роки тому

      Me too applied for it due to unforeseen situations. I didn't want to but no other go..... This is what one who gonna divorce. Super bro....

    • @magicaltimewithzaara
      @magicaltimewithzaara 2 роки тому

      @@pravijesus3794 ean divorce kodumaya u ku

    • @niranjan6644
      @niranjan6644 2 роки тому +2

      Hope u get ur divorce soon and lead your life bro ... Please don't give a f about the comments given by this society and mainly don't give a f to the comments given by ur relatives

    • @magicaltimewithzaara
      @magicaltimewithzaara 2 роки тому

      @@niranjan6644 hmm avanga avanga life naga 1m.solla ealadhu enen seiradhu pullainga paavam than but nalla future naga select pannalam phyco aakaloda ikama
      But enga side laye wrng kooda erunda yosichu nadakkanum

  • @harivarshanm5778
    @harivarshanm5778 2 роки тому +16

    😌😌😌😌Yaaru Saami Neee yen manasulla irukka ellathium soldra hats off bro🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚👍👍👍👍👍

  • @jl5132
    @jl5132 2 роки тому +8

    This is one the easily hit video. Madan great job for making this video. Am so happy that this has reached 1.2M till now. I hope more and more people realise the reality of divorces and let's as a society not put the couple in depression. What are we gna earn from hate comments.

  • @sparkl8252
    @sparkl8252 2 роки тому +4

    Im happy that u spoke about this...Evlo negativity chiiii ivunga mela lam.....i felt very bad for those actors its their wish what for U people?? Apdye nallavan maari pesvaainga

  • @sangeethapriyaraj9561
    @sangeethapriyaraj9561 2 роки тому +48

    already my dad and mom are separated...... but still i feel so bad abt it..... after watching thia video i realized that the individual person wish in their personal life is important than everything .... fate!....😌😔😞😭😭😭

  • @divyabharathis9889
    @divyabharathis9889 2 роки тому +284

    Semme point ❤️❤️, now a days the females are financially independent, but in olden days it's not like that,,,, every women is suffering financially...so whatever pressure comes from thr family side they have to sacrifice everything,,,but now everything is changed.....women is also a human being ryt....so try to respect.....

  • @Deepika_Alias_Ammu
    @Deepika_Alias_Ammu Рік тому +2

    நான் என் அப்பா அம்மா கூட 22 வருஷம் இருந்தன் என்ன ஒரு அடி கூட அடிச்சது இல்லை. நான் சொல்ல வருவது காரணம் இருந்து நா தப்பு பண்ண அடிப்பாங்க.
    ஆனா அவங்க மேல உள்ள கோவத்த என்னைக்குமே எங்க மேல காட்டுனது இல்லை.
    இப்போ எனக்கு கல்யாணம் ஆகி 4 வருஷம் ஆக போது, நான் காரணமே இல்லாம அடி வாங்குறது, நீ என்ன என்னை எதிர்த்து பேசுறது, நீ யாரு என்ன கேள்வி கேட்க, வீட்ல சும்மா உட்கார்ந்து சோறு திங்குற நாய் என்ன கேள்வி கேக்குறியா, நான் அப்படி தான் பண்ணுவன், உன்னால என்ன பண்ண முடியும், இஷ்டம் இருந்தா இரு இல்லனா கெளம்பி போ, பேசினாலும் சண்டை ,பேசலனாலும் என்னையே மதிக்களையானு சொல்லுறாங்க,
    அப்படியே நான் வீட்ட விட்டு போக நினைச்சா, எவன் கூட ஓட போற, இங்க நிக்கதா இத பண்ணாத , போன் பண்ணா எடுக்க முடியாத, என்ன மயிர் பண்ணிட்டு இருந்த, எங்க அப்பா இருக்காரு கத்தி பேசாத, எங்க அப்பா இருக்காரு இத பண்ணாத, அவர் கிட்ட எதுக்கு முஞ்சிய சுழிக்குற,
    எவ்வளோ அசிங்கமா வேணாலும் என்னையும் எங்க குடும்பத்தையும் பேசுறாங்க, ஆனா நான் பேசுனா தப்பு,
    என்ன வளர்ப்பு உன்னுடையது, இவ்வளோ அசிங்கமா அடுத்தவங்கள பேச உங்க அப்பா சொல்லி குடுத்துருக்காரே உன்னோடது என்ன வளர்ப்புனு நான் கேக்க எவ்வளோ நேரம் ஆகும் 😓😓😓.
    எங்க வீட்ல என்னை அப்படி வளர்க்கல
    Don't hurt me ur wife,
    அவங்களுக்கு போக வழி இல்லாம உங்க கூட இல்லை.
    எவ்வளோ கனவுகள் ஓட கல்யாணம் பண்ணி உங்க கூட வாழ வந்துருப்பாங்க.
    அது எல்லாம் ஒரு நாள் நடந்துராதா , நம்மாலும் நல்லா இருக்க மாட்டோமானு மட்டும் தான் இன்னும் கூட அந்த ஒரு நாள நம்பி இருக்காங்க.
    நீங்க பெருசா செலவு பண்ண கூட வேண்டாம்.
    அவங்களையும் ஒரு மனுஷனா மதிச்சா போதும்,அவளோட வார்த்தைக்கு மதிப்பு குடுத்தா போதும்.
    😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣

  • @Subi_1428
    @Subi_1428 2 роки тому +2

    Thank You Sir... Great Message for Society ✨

  • @myanmartamizhan3602
    @myanmartamizhan3602 2 роки тому +404

    Thank you for making it so easy for everyone to understand this difficult subject. Love from Myanmar❤🇲🇲🖖🏻

    • @m.mohammedabdulla9810
      @m.mohammedabdulla9810 2 роки тому +4

      Are you safe in Myanmar

    • @darshanhc8171
      @darshanhc8171 2 роки тому +3

      Yenna madannnuu I think after watching mgs BOOM VIDEO
      I guess this year in tamilnadu Divorce cases will increase 🤣🤣🤣
      by next year 2023 India will bee in first place 92% leading 🤣🤣
      Mgs squads - i need Divorce right now
      Divorce Lawyers - 50% off how had subscribed madan Gowri channal 🤣🤣

    • @yashaswinikrishnan1878
      @yashaswinikrishnan1878 2 роки тому

      how are you understanding tamil? how is everything in Myanmar? are you safe

    • @myanmartamizhan3602
      @myanmartamizhan3602 Рік тому

      @@yashaswinikrishnan1878
      Save aka and Thank🙂

  • @vijayragav4717
    @vijayragav4717 2 роки тому +92

    Madan Gowri enters GOD mode

  • @kati4521
    @kati4521 2 роки тому +2

    One of the best video of you madan. I am a young divorced woman when a child. Glad and happy that I took this decision. Your words are spot on. Specially those last lines. 🥰

  • @smartartclass8490
    @smartartclass8490 Рік тому +6

    unaku divorce aairuchaa madanu😨😨

  • @jeffreyleochristian.j3547
    @jeffreyleochristian.j3547 2 роки тому +77

    9.58 Definition about successful relationship. Happiness is not based on how many years you are withholding the relationship, it means the real quality time u spend in it 💯. Thanks madan Anna ❤️

  • @gokulkrish862
    @gokulkrish862 2 роки тому +602

    *Lavanya Issue பற்றி பேசுவிங்க nu நெனச்சேன்..!* 🚶
    *Justice For Lavanya..!!* 🙏😔

  • @socialpsychologymantras
    @socialpsychologymantras 2 роки тому +4

    “Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.” - Khalil Gibran

  • @sruthisreekumar5378
    @sruthisreekumar5378 2 роки тому +2

    100% true
    Some of them even think that divorce is a tragedy without understanding the traumas and the personal issues that the couples underwent during the marriage.

  • @tdisnygomez2833
    @tdisnygomez2833 2 роки тому +160

    Bro நீங்க சொல்றது ரைட் தான் ...யாரும் புடிச்சு divorce பண்றது இல்ல ...அவங்க ரெண்டு பேரு இடையில் என்ன நடந்தது என்று அவங்க ரெண்டு பேருக்கு மட்டும் தான் தெரியும் ...அடுத்த family பற்றி ஆராய்ச்சி பண்றது தான் நாட்டில் நெறய பேருக்கு வேலை ...

    • @tdisnygomez2833
      @tdisnygomez2833 2 роки тому +8

      @@xyz-zk4sm எனக்கு என்ன பிரச்சினை இருந்த உனக்கு என்ன

    • @harshanm5123
      @harshanm5123 2 роки тому +5

      @@xyz-zk4sm sari nee poi oru oru veeda poi vilakku pudi😂😂

    • @Suryasurya-rn3bl
      @Suryasurya-rn3bl 2 роки тому +2

      Correct pro

  • @gokulkrish862
    @gokulkrish862 2 роки тому +43

    *அவன் அவனுக்கு என்ன பிரச்சினை nu அவனுக்கு தான் தெரியும்..!* 👍🏻
    *அருமையா சொன்னிங்க MG..!* ❤️

  • @vathsaladevi9892
    @vathsaladevi9892 2 роки тому

    Super message Madhan. All the best to you you.

  • @muthukamali.k2609
    @muthukamali.k2609 2 роки тому

    அனைத்தையும் தவறான கண்ணோட்டத்தில் பார்க்கும் இந்த சமூகத்தில்... விவாகரத்தை இவ்வளவு நேர்த்தியாக எடுத்துரைக்க உங்கலால் மட்டுமே முடியும்....வாழ்த்துக்கள் Anna... Awesome speech and 💯 correct...

  • @bhavatharanim1413
    @bhavatharanim1413 2 роки тому +78

    Only very few people can choose such a delicate yet unavoidable societal topics. And you did it today. Hoping for humanity 💯
    Thank you. More respect.

  • @ruzinam1196
    @ruzinam1196 2 роки тому +228

    Madam Gowri, I am seriously in love with your thoughts.. I am going through a very tough phase in my life. All these thoughts are going in my mind n you made me feel that nothing is wrong in my thinking

    • @mohammedakmal4416
      @mohammedakmal4416 2 роки тому +5

      May Allah grant you peace

    • @mohammedakmal4416
      @mohammedakmal4416 2 роки тому +1

      @@ruzinam1196 my cousin sister got divorce and just on got second marriage on this monday feel so bad for her

    • @mohammedakmal4416
      @mohammedakmal4416 2 роки тому

      @@ruzinam1196 first marriage on 2011

    • @ruzinam1196
      @ruzinam1196 2 роки тому +1

      Congratulations

    • @Shivamaalinii
      @Shivamaalinii 2 роки тому

      As per numerology birth date 13th and 28 th la porakaravangaluku mostly divorce aguthu.

  • @trishamary8290
    @trishamary8290 2 роки тому +2

    So wonderfully explained. Hope atleast let our generation be the change without blindly believing something for the society rather than living for us..

  • @santhoshichoradia9810
    @santhoshichoradia9810 2 роки тому

    Happy evening Madman bro.. I love your videos.. In fact I'm your fan too.. This video was really amazing.. & it shows up the maturity of holding it.. In right way.. My best of luck.. Happy married life bro.. & my best wishes.. U will shine more..

  • @Jeffjahaz
    @Jeffjahaz 2 роки тому +8

    இது பயில்வாற்கு சொந்தமான தகவல் நன்றி மதனு!

  • @mahaprathi2718
    @mahaprathi2718 2 роки тому +288

    Your opinion is eye opening to those who misunderstood everything in a wrong way 🙏MG much respect as always. Words are more powerful than action hope this vedio creates high impact on social stigma.

    • @sumathim5437
      @sumathim5437 2 роки тому +2

      Yes.iam also struggling my marriage life. Do not marriage. Donot diverce. Children than ithula reba pathikaranga.

  • @tinezeenishaa2897
    @tinezeenishaa2897 2 роки тому +1

    Loves from Malaysia.. 🇲🇾.. You are right madan gowri bro

  • @liaskitchen5870
    @liaskitchen5870 2 роки тому +16

    This is one of the most honest and truthful videos I've watched so far. You are 100% correct and this society needs to change and stop pressurising youngsters to behave in a way where society accepts them

  • @abinayaa4338
    @abinayaa4338 2 роки тому +33

    Literally cried..Anna..My situation also like this..Ennoda mind voice apdiye sollitinga...Hats off to you..Anna..😢💐👍

  • @MarvelTamilFans_JaspritAravind
    @MarvelTamilFans_JaspritAravind 2 роки тому +50

    Everyone says sarcastically about foreign about divorce rate comparing with our divorce rate but no one says about domestic violence caused by the adjustment.

  • @rupal37
    @rupal37 2 роки тому +1

    Thankyou so much Madan for this Video...... Thanks a Ton

  • @geniusprofits9943
    @geniusprofits9943 2 роки тому

    Well Said! I like the way you think, practical.

  • @mythilimarimuthu191
    @mythilimarimuthu191 2 роки тому +5

    புடிக்காம சேர்ந்து வாழ்றத விட ..புடிச்சு பிரிந்து போறது எவ்வளவோ மேல்...

    • @Raja16072
      @Raja16072 2 роки тому

      Pirinju poi ennatha madam ___________ poreenga........

  • @Ajaykumar-hy2wm
    @Ajaykumar-hy2wm 2 роки тому +19

    4:31 do you know 'Luxembourg' is the richest country in the world 🧐🧐🧐

  • @mizlagunesvary5077
    @mizlagunesvary5077 2 роки тому

    Same thoughts bro. Always!!! Good sharing

  • @swathips6000
    @swathips6000 2 роки тому +4

    Well said bro💯 Simple mantra:
    Mind our own business ....Live nd let others live💯

  • @chandradevi6540
    @chandradevi6540 2 роки тому +71

    Bold speech 💬 👏 needed topic for our society

    • @santhoshm7245
      @santhoshm7245 2 роки тому

      Dai unaku Enna daa pothi lusu ju

    • @santhoshm7245
      @santhoshm7245 2 роки тому

      @anu bodu vanthiea veido pathiya po thevala illa tha pesatha good content po thapa soldra

  • @monaasv2413
    @monaasv2413 2 роки тому +29

    Bold, open talk bro💥💥

  • @juliejms1637
    @juliejms1637 2 роки тому

    You've bring the good topic to the social..sella perruku sonnallum puriyathu madan..hope this video can make some realize their misbehave.tq madan🙏🏻

  • @parvinfathima7755
    @parvinfathima7755 2 роки тому

    Thank you MG….I’m happy that you took to talk about this in such a thoughtful way

  • @sathishsatz8774
    @sathishsatz8774 2 роки тому +38

    சரியாக சொன்னீர்கள் தோழா... வாழ்வது ஒரு வாழ்கை அவர்களுக்கு பிடித்தது போல் வாழட்டும் ...
    மற்றவர்கள் சாப்டிடுகின்ற தட்டை பார்க்காமல் தான் சாப்பிடுகின்ற தட்டை பார்த்தால் போதும்...
    தேவையில்லாமல் குறை சொல்பவர்களே இங்கு அதிகம்...
    உண்மையை உரக்க சொன்னீர்கள்...

  • @DineshKumar-sd7yp
    @DineshKumar-sd7yp 2 роки тому +21

    Mg from other dimension lit 🔥

  • @akilaarivazhagan4479
    @akilaarivazhagan4479 2 роки тому +1

    வணக்கம் அண்ணா இன்று காலை 8 42 அளவிற்கு உங்கள் காணொளி முழுவதையும் பார்த்தேன் அவர்களைப் பற்றி விமர்சிப்பதை நானும் பார்த்து இருக்கிறேன்.,.
    அவர்கள் இருவர் சம்பந்தப்பட்ட விஷயம் இதைப்பற்றி விமர்சிப்பதற்கு யாருக்குமே உரிமை இல்லை ... வாழ்க்கை ஒரு அழகான பயணம் அவரவர் மனசாட்சிக்கு உண்மையாக வாழ்ந்தால் போதும்....

  • @kiSsho-ku6xx
    @kiSsho-ku6xx 2 роки тому +25

    Totally agree with you MG. divorce can be the light at the end of the unhealthy marriage, toxic relationship and sexual abuse. It's an option, in order to promote the health and wellness of stable relationships. And it's their own wish..

    • @darshanhc8171
      @darshanhc8171 2 роки тому

      Yenna madannnuu I think after watching mgs BOOM VIDEO
      I guess this year in tamilnadu Divorce cases will increase 🤣🤣🤣
      by next year 2023 India will bee in first place 92% leading 🤣🤣
      Mgs squads - i need Divorce right now
      Divorce Lawyers - 50% off how had subscribed madan Gowri channal 🤣🤣

  • @z900saran4
    @z900saran4 2 роки тому +164

    I love you MG Anna.. 🥰 6 million congratulation.. 🥳🥳

  • @sowmiya466
    @sowmiya466 2 роки тому +16

    Unexpected video.... veraleval Madanyy 🔥🖖🏻❤️

  • @trendcreators1280
    @trendcreators1280 2 роки тому +9

    Love depends upon the situation…same person who had love upon u may change his nature because of frustration what life gives..u need to stand along with him or her rather than thinking of leaving..time ll give u more maturity regarding this..because in more cases for women or men even though they r not happy with their relationship..they may not ve other choices..if even there no security or surety for that even

  • @ashwathbobo
    @ashwathbobo 2 роки тому

    One of the best videos I've seen recently! Well said brother! 🤘

  • @Anju12_1
    @Anju12_1 2 роки тому +70

    We've heard about so many women suicides after marriage , they know the only solution is divorce but they scaring about the society, parents, friends...everyone. Eventhough the separation is painful that should be very common at least for the coming generation Relationship is not much important than lives 💔

    • @swethathirumaran9267
      @swethathirumaran9267 2 роки тому +5

      But woman suffer more than men

    • @Anju12_1
      @Anju12_1 2 роки тому +1

      @COPYRIGHT FREE MUSIC you may right, that's why we saying divorce is better than this. Bt when analyze the majority reason, it will not be due to dowry issues or domestic violence.

  • @kjenish3798
    @kjenish3798 2 роки тому +29

    பல பெண்களால் தங்களுடைய உணர்வுகளையும், உரிமைகளையும் இன்றும் வெளிப்படையாக சொல்ல முடியாத நிலை. Such a bold speech bro, Thank you

  • @sudhaj428
    @sudhaj428 2 роки тому

    எனக்கும் விவாகரத்து ஆகிவிட்டது... நான் கேஸ் குடுத்த அப்போது இப்படி தான் பேசினாங்க இப்பவும் பேசிட்டு இருக்காங்க. நீங்க பேசியது 100% உண்மை. இப்போது வரைக்கும் யாருமே புரிந்து கொள்ளலாம் இப்போதும் காயபடுத்திட்டு இருக்காங்க.. அனைத்தும் தெரிந்த பெற்றோர்கள் கூட...

  • @preethirajendran3497
    @preethirajendran3497 2 роки тому +3

    Anna, I'm ur huge fan for ur content and hard work but after this video, I have a great respect for you✌
    I feel the same point what you have told in ur video. I accept what you say but the sad reality is people don't come forward to accept their point is wrong

  • @nofancybaker
    @nofancybaker 2 роки тому +83

    Semma point. My younger sister has been separated from her narcissistic husband for a long time and has been asking for a divorce. Unfortunately my older sister itself is against it. I just shared this video with them both. The older one is going to be extremely offended.. but she knows I don’t care!

    • @-_-me6592
      @-_-me6592 2 роки тому

      ❤️

    • @shivadrive7737
      @shivadrive7737 2 роки тому +5

      Lol, good to see you understand. Three siblings with different idealogy.

    • @sharmilaj7543
      @sharmilaj7543 2 роки тому +2

      @@xyz-zk4sm best

  • @swaravincent8348
    @swaravincent8348 2 роки тому +64

    Ungalode intha attitude romba pudikm bro😍fan from Kerala ❤❤

  • @sabareeswariravichandran7884
    @sabareeswariravichandran7884 2 роки тому

    Thank you... Very important topic

  • @ranir4683
    @ranir4683 2 роки тому

    Well said bro , practical ha puttu puttu vechitinge ,I agree ur points

  • @Rainaabi777
    @Rainaabi777 2 роки тому +66

    Correct anna... Marriage is not for lust..... It is a life long journey... Only soulmates can go through... Elders can advice but only couples can decide.....🔥

  • @pavithrar8342
    @pavithrar8342 2 роки тому +13

    Ipa 1000%correct anna yur....speech...Naanum ithu than think pannen...avanga life avanga vaalatume...

  • @mahideayanaa7335
    @mahideayanaa7335 2 роки тому

    Superb anna ! I think most of the women i see even in my own family, hold on to the marriage just for the sake of the kids. There were some even feels like it is their fault that they are treated disrespectfully, abusively and intolerantly. It is a torcher to see women that i love go through such pain, and never could stand up fro themselves.
    All comes down to the society which labels people especially women that divorces, the pain of being in a marriage that kills the person you are is greater than the pain of not having a partner. Thank you for this message anna, because i just wish people can just live their lives peacefully, and yaa to add on, those who are stuck in a marriage please do not teach your children to hold on to things no matter how the significant other treats them. Please teach the kids to have DIGNITY and SELF RESPECT !! Please teach them to BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES AND STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES !!!

  • @sivashankarim2134
    @sivashankarim2134 2 роки тому +1

    Sama madan. Na evlo nala en manasula ninachatha nenga inaiku pesitinga😍😍😍wonderful video

  • @jayanthiselvaraja7943
    @jayanthiselvaraja7943 2 роки тому +139

    Very well said, hope this reaches all the aunties and uncles out there.

    • @Thisispri
      @Thisispri 2 роки тому +2

      😄haha, presenting this video to all auntie and uncle of this indian community

    • @devpriyachandrasekaran8226
      @devpriyachandrasekaran8226 2 роки тому +2

      It's not only about all the aunties and uncles... Majority of people who are connecting dhanush with samantha are youngsters 🤦‍♀️

    • @jayanthiselvaraja7943
      @jayanthiselvaraja7943 2 роки тому +2

      @@devpriyachandrasekaran8226 I agree, I didn't talk about Samantha and Dhanush here, was referring to all elders of the family who thinks Divorce is something like a taboo and shouldnt be encouraged. Yea Al meme creators should see this as sensitive as possible and let them heal in private. Entertaining and ability to make people laugh is good but if u do it while bringing someone down or making fun, or degrading comments it's not good anymore. I'm with u here. Yes youngsters to be blame.

    • @jennielawrence5575
      @jennielawrence5575 2 роки тому

      Right

    • @ashlight3812
      @ashlight3812 2 роки тому

      @@devpriyachandrasekaran8226 that's his haters especially simbu fans when they get an opportunity they will try to ruin dhanush character .

  • @keerthanavlogs6986
    @keerthanavlogs6986 2 роки тому +21

    (My mom's big sister ) My periyamma killed herself 💔 because of her husband .He used to get drunk and hit her . Her son also killed him self recently . But My periyappa still drinks and live like a shit. My mom said her sister loved him a lot and her marriage was a love marriage 💔 .I feel what u just said is so true .... Much needed thing for our society ❤️ MG you again won my heart 🖖❤️

  • @jameelacareem5828
    @jameelacareem5828 2 роки тому

    Wonderful.. happy to hear..