They‘re probably not involved with the mob. If they were, they all wouldn’t have posted anything since the day after "coming out" because of lack of oxygen in their lungs
Poor mob husbands just chilling legally on their legally aquired yacht smoking legal cigars and taking about non criminal hobbies getting notified that their mob wife just doxxed them on tiktok and their mansion is getting swatted
Deadassss! I’m dying laughing cause these women are really trying to send their husbands to jail. The funniest was the “probably” so the one woman could claim plausible deniability in court.
The mob is so private most of them dont tell their kids. No way in hell any of these women openly claiming to be mob wives have even a slight connection
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I just think her reasons are wild. Like, you could say don’t romanticize a group of people who lead organized crime and participate in human trafficking and that’s valid, but you can’t say “you’re appropriating this” because the mob isn’t just Italian, it’s just called something else in other places.
I’m just screaming over these women going on tiktok and publicly announcing to the world “my husband does crimes, like big huge crimes, and I’m so good at helping him and keeping my mouth shut about it. Do y’all hear how great I am at not snitching about these crimes?”
@@muggins2279 babushka girl is SO funny to me I'm crying, because babushka is usually an old endearing woman, and a girl is... well a girl I really needed this laugh today 😂
Now that's comedy! But I must add...Maybe he's an "upstanding" mobster because he took a fall for somebody who would have fallen further if they ended up in the system? For example, a "clean" brother might go inside for his junky brother's crime, because the clean bro knows junky bro will relapse into heroin addiction in prison. Or "clean" might mean that the "dirty" brother avoids life sentencing, including being sent to a prison with rivals present, and/or no power. Yes, I need a life. But I like turtles...
I'm a mob wife and my stupid idiot husband got himself arrested, here's a list of all his crimes, his face, and his full name. Shame him for being bad. wait someones at my door hold on-
Imagine being possessive of an identity that is responsible for large scale human trafficking. Because, you know, the mob is hugely responsible for human trafficking.
I agree, but I am 99% sure that these women are obsessed this out of sheer ignorance, because A) the outfits and 2) this is just another version of “ billionaire wives” wish fantasies, except birthed from some godawful romance erotica novel they read somewhere where the mob husband is twice as abusive and possessive, but still handsome, romantic and rich.
I was fully expecting the backlash to be the much more understandable “Italians are upset their culture is being equated with literal crime” but no instead we’re somehow getting irish-americans who dated a criminal once
There are Irish mobsters. Not sure how broad their reach was or is. But I do know that a lot of Irish Americans used them to funnel funds or guns to Northern Ireland to help hoist out the British.
@@lone6718 the Irish-American mob stayed in the Massachusetts/ New England area while the Italian mob was predominantly in New York. There weren't a lot of "big take downs" for Irish mobsters like there were for Italians so it isn't as talked about. On top of that, Irish mobs were more weapon based vs Italian mobs were more business based.
yeah, my family is very *very* Italian but none of my family is from jersey, so the style and everything is all foreign to me. The tiktok mobwife stuff is just sopranos meets real housewives of jersey, is not really 'real'. Saying girls on tiktok wearing fur coats is somehow "appropriating" Italian American culture is almost more annoying. Will admit the irish-italian thing is real oddly enough. I also have irish in my family, it's common. Idk, i guess the immigrants that were ousted at similar periods cross pollinated lol
My wife and I definitely experienced the terrors of officers’ and SNCOs’ wives while I was in. Knew an MP who told me how many times a Major or LTC’s wife would get genuinely angry if he didn’t salute her vehicle at the gate because he “obviously should’ve recognized the car.” It still feels like a fever dream so I don’t even know if I’m remembering this correctly, but some military spouse must’ve recognized me from the unit, and had the balls to come straight up to me, and tell me that my hair wasn’t in regulation, and that I needed to shave my face. Hadn’t a clue who she was, but… okay, lady. Don’t even think I was in uniform.
Honestly, I think the woman at 18:20 had it the most right. She's giving "The mob is dangerous, just say you like vintage Italian fashion." And at least she didn't make racist digs
It should be called the Soprano's wife aesthetic because this is based purely on fictional mob wives. Honestly even the Soprano's aesthetic was really just upper middle class Italian American woman from New Jersey.
I giggled because they keep using Theresa from the Jersey Housewives. One of the OG wives left the show because everyone was trying to link them to the mob lol
@@jenniferwaidelich642 No it really wasn't. 2 real New Jersey crime families were the loose inspiration for the Soprano family but the show itself was not at all based on real people's lives. I know HBO has made multiple crime shows somewhat based on real people's lives, The Wire, and Boardwalk Empire come to mind, but the Sopranos was not one of those shows.
the oppression of poc (people of carbonara) never ends, glad these women are speaking about their very real and totally not made up experiences being mob wives 💔
that girl saying "we're talking messy hair" and showing clearly styled heat-curled hair just sent me back to the 00s..... please we cant b doing this again 😭
It’s crazy how they are forgetting the Irish mob, the Jewish mob, Russian mob and the massive Mexican and South American gangs. Italians aren’t the only ones who participate/participated in organized crime 😂
@UTTP298 hey, im autistic too, and jsyk, aspergers is an outdated term, and it has really bad origins. You should use autism or autism spectrum instead !
@@suspicious_snake756so what was going on was that there were these children pretending to be fairies doing things like pretending to fly and there were like crystals and rituals and stuff. It was just all fun. Then there was another group of kids who were the fairy hunters making videos about setting traps and killing fairies and stuff. It was kinda bizarre but honestly, to me it felt like playground roleplay online
@@voguishthrone5887 yep, the most bizarre element about it though was how seriously people took it. The style of videos wasn't like "look at this cool game we're playing / story we're creating", it was often these personal videos like "what it's like being a fairy and getting hunted", "safety measures you can use to not get trapped" or debates on the humanity and rights of fairies. If an alien saw those tags they'd probably assume fairy hunting was a serious societal problem on Earth. That's kind of what I was alluding to here, mob wife tiktoks feel like an elaborate roleplay that we're not in on
@@Egg_thingsurprisingly the most genuinely child-like thing I’ve heard tbh like I’d hope to catch my kid doing that instead of what I usually hear from tiktok
dude this is legit. ever heard of tonys hawk underground ? wel., a guy named Bam was ON the cover, i SWEAR and tony, rhis guy? HE MADE HIM DISSUPHEA I sweahs to gawd the man was on the postah one day, and gawn tha next
Weird that there’s a “terrible person, heinous criminal aesthetic” and then people being like “my crime isn’t your aesthetic, you have to actually have been a horrible human being”😂like don’t worry, y’all can have that
Omg. My brothers were in army school and they would say the same about their teachers ( most were wives of officers), that they acted as if they were officers themselves. They would say it to people's face don't you know I am wife of a major etc. 😂
"Worried about the feds breaking down your door and your husband cheating on you, but you have to stay silent because it's a good life " Ma'am please reevaluate
@UTTP298nobody asked nobody cares you must have zero talent. If you have to comment bot to get people to watch your content, you could just try being actually talented and funny like Jarvis and you could have people who want to watch you because they want to watch you and not because you’re spamming comments
It shouldn't be romanticized but I feel like we are forgetting that if someone is already in that deep it might not be quite so easy to leave and live.
i like how, when the "actual" mob wives are trying to prove their husbands are in the mob, the only proof they give is pictures of what their husbands are wearing. "being in the mob is more than an aesthetic!!!" *shows picture of husband in leather jacket and captions it "this is what mob husbands wear"* not to mention the polaroids that were meant to prove _she_ had actual mob ties are just normal-ass pictures lol
I'm 99% certain that most of these tik toks are women cosplaying as "real" mob wives. I really can't imagine your organized crime husband would be down with you posting shit like this.
@UTTP298this is the worst way to achieve your goal.. you dont step on jarvis while trying to build yourself up.. or fucking spamming like.. two of the worst things possible.. i hope your page fails
@@punchbeard I can see some how traumatic the mob lifestyle can be for people considering the power structure and essentially losing your entire life for someone... Especially for people who grew up into organized crime. BUT it's very different than dating someone who did petty crimes ya know. Like I can see how survivors of those types of relationships can feel some type of way if there was abuse involved (emotional, financial, etc). But it loses the plot when it comes from people who forge their stories to fit into the title of a "real mob wife".
@@sumlem I think a lot of those relationships have abuse in them. Drita D'Avanzo showed how hard it was to struggle with her husband in and out of prison after being in organized crime. The thing with this being called an "aesthetic" is possibly hurtful to them. They lived thru hell and had to keep pushing forward from all the damage they dealt with and all the hurt they and their children endured.
@olitapp5361 + Slavs and Jewish people (European Jews definitely look "white" but they're not "white" for strange reasons) Race is just a made up concept. It's just an excuse to treat others badly. As such if there's a dominant white ethnic group which want to subjugate another white ethnic group suddenly the other group looses its white status Which is one of MANY reasons why I don't support white supremacy. Today I might be "white" but who knows who I will be tommorow
@@olitapp5361 While yes, but it would more often apply to darker Italians? As well as other darker European-Mediterranean people. Even they themselves sometimes make a distinction between lighter and darker Italians, Spaniards, Portugese, Greeks etc. Ofc I'm not denying anyone's personal experience with racism or discrimination, no matter their appearance.
Lmfao all these “real” mob wives look like they just picked their faux fur coats from the thrift store yesterday and tried to pretend this is how they’ve dressed and acted for years
Even if it was real fur why would you wear it? I have a fur coat at my house that my grandma used to own and I never wear it because I don't want to get it damaged Not to mention I have a feeling real fur coats would be hard to clean (another reason I don't wear it)
One thing I’ve noticed is that nobody complains when men on TikTok were making mafia boss povs or “mob fits” such as dressing in suits but when it became a trend for women to be “mob wives” suddenly loads of people had a problem with it. I admit that it’s a ridiculous trend but the way people choose to direct their hate on TikTok baffles me every time
I've seen people complaining about that too. To be fair it was a more understandable critique than "you've never had to be a willing accomplice to your husband's heinous crimes, you don't get to wear the fur coat 🤪", but I've seen it
Idk i feel like it's mostly women mocking these women though. I've seen quite a bit of critique on the mafia boss looks too, though on UA-cam. I'm not on Tiktok but what i can gather from this small observation is that women on Tiktok tend to aggress their own gender for clothing more often than men do it to their gender. Personally as a woman i don't care a lot, i find it dubious for both parts to want to look like literal murderers and human traffickers.
The only people complaining about mob wife fashion is women who claim to be mob wives 😂 Also, tons of people criticized the mob boss tiktoks. They were made fun of by plenty of people. This isn't some double standard thing.
The whole "You can't be a mob wife if you don't know The Sopranos. 😡" is like saying "You can't be a drug addict if you haven't watched Breaking Bad." Like- What's up with the gatekeeping? Especially with such a popular show smh
I'm italian-american and from the north east, and as someone who's EXACTLY where and what the stereotype is (with the exception that I'm not named Anthony), it's fucking insane. That's not Italian-American culture or Italian culture, that's just mobs and hollywood
As an Italian with extremely sketchy family from the south of Italy and parts of Sicily (mob central), this aesthetic is extremely disturbing. People forget that Mobs and gangs are responsible for a large percentage of human trafficking and horrendous crimes. Also, Italians are not the only ones with mobs. There are Irish, Mexican, Jewish, Russian and so many others that it’s hard to name them all. It is perfectly fine if people want to wear faux fur and animal print and expensive designer names, but it is never acceptable for people to glorify and romanticize a hostile and abusive group of people.
I never thought bout this from that perspective. I knew there was something off about calling it "mob wife" aesthetic, but I couldn't pinpoint it. But you're right. Like, maybe try to come up with something else to call yourself so that you are not in any way aligning yourself with a group of people who do those kinds of things? I get that it's basically Sopranos cosplay but I also feel like, due to the lack of context people receive by discovering something on TikTok, there's this phenomenon of glorifying really messed up things on accident. Thank you for your comment, you have given me a lot to think about.
People do halloween mafia outfits all the time tho. Like i get what you're saying but nobody is going to think mobsters are good people because a tiktoker put on leopard print
There are mobs of many ethnicities. There are Italian mobs, Russian mobs, Arab mobs, Moroccan mobs, Irish mobs, Japanese mobs… what even is her argument.
I know a guy who knows a guy at my favorite restaurant, its me. I know the guy at the restaurant. Its a good restaurant, we went to high school together. Im a mobster now.
I also find it a bit ironic bc it’s like bestie if you really are connected maybe take a couple of seconds to think about how you’re glorifying the trauma of victims of the mob
Stop glorifying my trauma! My husband killed 35 people using only a Kodiak Camera and some glue! He then caught a shark, cut the shark open, put the bodies inside, and then sewed the shark back up and set it free. He then stole all of their money and made us rich. Stop it! Stop glorifying this trauma! I'm crying into a 100 dollar bill (which I own a lot of)
My dad was targeted by the feds, I do have a cousin who went to jail, and I in fact know an entire family of Tony's who have sketchy connections, but I'm not a mob wife, I'm just from Chicago. Your litmus test is broken, babe.
I thought the people critiquing the aesthetic would be people who lived in areas with the mob and are against the glorification of the mafia, not actual mob wives feeling attacked. The internet is absolutely wild.
@@inacattLol, right. I know nothing about the mafia I'll admit, however I highly HIGHLY doubt they'd let you get in tiktok and say, "look at my husband who's the mob 😃👍" ain't no way
This feels like such a weird thing to be up in arms about. Also the differentiation between "mob wife" and "drug dealer wife" feels ridiculous, both your husbands are criminals.
I always say the "gooooooold" part with the little Jarvis voice in the beginning of every premium video. Can't even describe my surprise and betrayal when today I was the only one to say it.
white women on tiktok calling other girls white in various metaphors is like that scene in family guy where peter says, "whole lotta honkeys around here" and all the white people in the crowd glare at him
I mean I've been wearing leopard print, furs and a lot of makeup for awhile now. it's just a look unless you're a try-hard. I'm gunna keep doin my thing and just not call it mob wife aesthetic lol
11:10 is so funny, just the phrase "crime aesthetics", but then getting hit with "My crime was ORGANIZED, your crime is an independent start-up." The "real" mob wives remind me of how much the mafia HATED Al Capone for flaunting his wealth and how he was a mobster, putting the mafia in the public light for the law to see and exposing things about their practices. Surely especially the wife with the photo of her husband's face showing, isn't actually in the mafia or they'd be a little smarter on social media exposing themselves...right?
Literally it’s so crazy, my brain won’t process that these are real people being serious. It just feels like acting, sarcasm, roleplay ect and I’d rather pretend it is 😭🙏
It feels like a random kid in elementary school getting mad that someone else started reading the Warrior Cats series because “that was MY THING” and then saying they’re not a real fan.
Tbf, I'd imagine it would be hard to be mixed ethnicities if you come from an old mob family. From what I know, Irish Americans and Italian Americans don't get along too well when it comes to organized crime.
It’s funny bc I think the “mob wife aesthetic” is closer to “high end escort aesthetic”. And I live for it! Italian Americans need to relax w thinking they invented fur coats 😭
What does high end escort aesthetic look like to you? Also, when she said "you look like trashy white women with drug dealers as partners" I was like, "that's what I think you look like. "
As an Italian, born and raised in Italy, both sides of the argument make me so sad, knowing what it is the real power that mafia holds in my country and seeing this girls romanticizing being part of the mob or the other girls getting dressed up like them makes my skin crawl
Exactly!!! I don't know why would anyone want to be associated with pain, constant danger and crime. Can't we just name this aesthetic "dark glamour" or something
Yeah on one side you have girlies turning something that very much still harms people to this day into an aestetich. And on the other americans who are 1/16th Italian claiming to not be white and thinking they saw the "real" gangster life. Meanwhile us Italians are sitting here with actual politicians involved with the mafia.🫠 I dont know man this whole thing gives me such a weird vibe
It's so strange. I've never seen people romanticizing things like Russian mafia because I guess it's not sexy enough. And yet both of those groups are evil I don't care if I'm abducted into sex slavery by an Italian or Russian
im crying at her being a "professional mob wife" and not knowing the difference between a 'mob' and a 'mafia' if you're not italian, you can still be a mob wife. it's the MAFIA that's primarily sicilian or italian/italian-american crime families. (+ there are of course other groups of organised crime that can be described as a 'mafia' who arent sicilian or italian, the yakuza is the japanese mafia, it's just the word is most often used for groups who bear similarity to the italian mafia so im using it) OH MY GOD AND THEN SHE'S IRISH???
The mafia is not specifically sicilian or italian american, they come from all Italian regions and they have a different name in most of them. Cosa Nostra in Sicily, Sacra Corona Unita in Puglia, Ndrangheta in Calabria, etc. etc. "Mafia" is the general term, we use it in its plural "mafie" as well. Even in regions where they don't have a specific name they are still a very prominent presence, albeit hidden. We are taught that as children, starting at around 12-13 years old I think.
@saphiwrath Exactly. Besides, organised crime exists everywhere in the world, under different names. Their version of the "mob" is very sugar-coated and glamourised. I don't think they would want to associate themselves with the real deal if they actually lived under the mafia's thumb.
i thought that the woman at 18:21 had a point... until she continued talking. because organized crime rings aren't just a bunch of guys shooting guns and smoking cigars-they kidnap, traffic, assault, and murder people. i agree with her point that the aesthetic could have another name, but i thought she was going to talk about how the victims of actual gang violence might feel watching tiktokers name a trend after their oppressors. this argument is so bizarre.
I have a feeling some of them are post that life. Like the blonde lady seems like she's on the other side of it, looking back at the pain. @@Drockthehouse95
maybe pedantic, but i think one of the funniest parts to me is that they're framing it like mobs are exclusively Italian, and not something that exist all over. if it was called "mafia wife aesthetic" thats a little more understandable because that's specifically italian and sicilian, but there's so many other mobs. its like how a square is a rectangle but not every rectangle is a square. the mafia is a mob, but not all mobs are the mafia
That was my first thought too! I’m half Sicilian and when I heard the trend “mob wife” I didn’t even bat an eye bc that’s so vague lmao mobs are EVERYWHERE. I would have definitely been weirded out if it was called “mafia wife” for sure bc that’s a very specific thing with a very tragic history.
the coat gatekeeping is so funny to me as someone who is eastern european, because in my country every other person (man, woman, grandma, teenage boy, etc) would wear fur coats, especially when i was growing up
As someone from the tristate area this makes me laugh so hard. No one acts like this. The whole ‘if you don’t know someone named Tony that knows a guy’ is especially hilarious. I could throw a rock in any random direction and hit someone named Tony. Shut up 😂
wait until these mob wives find out about all the POV tiktokers whove made "mafia boss boyfriend" their bread and butter for years...their poor husband's identity is being worn as a costume literally 😱
legitimately love you talking about more “traditionally feminine” (I know how dumb that sounds) internet topics in a more deep dive feel, they get overlooked most of the time because they cater specifically to women but some of that stuff is SO wildly funny I’d love to see more videos like this
Agreed. I didn't realize how overlooked content catered to women really is until I went to talk to my bf about the latest trend, said something like "you know x? It's been all over the internet" and he had never heard of it... Meanwhile it's been in my feed for days.
@@craneoflores Fair point, though it is annoying that we still have 'content catered to women' and 'content catered to men'. I know it's just reflective of how the world is right now. But at the same time, I'm not all that happy about that either.
i've experienced more than half of the things that make you a "mob wife" just because i grew up with felon, addict, poor parents. it's wild how they think they're so individual because people around them have ... committed crimes 😭
Stolen Valor! Being a mobwife means yapping in detail about the criminal activity you've been complicit to and then posting it on the internet as a sacrifice to your incarcerated husband!
fur coats are not just an italian thing. they’ve been worn by humans since like… literally the invention of clothing. i have pictures of my great grandma (who was not italian) in a big ass fur coat in the 40s
Exactly! My great grandmother had a fur coat. We don't have it anymore because maintaining fur is difficult and expensive, but if I did still have it you bet I'd be wearing it in freezing temperatures. Am I not allowed to wear a fur coat now???
im romanian and my grandmother has like 20 fur coats. too bad i have to break it to her she can’t wear them anymore since the tiktok girls don’t approve
My least favorite thing about these types of aesthetics is the fact that they’re always the “mob wife” or “rockstar’s girlfriend”. Women don’t have to be the background character.
Preach. They could have went for a Mob Girlboss aesthetics or something. Like Camila or Teresa from Queen of the South. Or like I saw someone else say just call it "Italian American Upper Class"
Did the FBI actually start this trend? Because it’s a genius way to get women to expose their husbands’ crimes.
410 iq play right there. (Potentially) 🤔
They‘re probably not involved with the mob. If they were, they all wouldn’t have posted anything since the day after "coming out" because of lack of oxygen in their lungs
Likely like when they gave them reality shows
Not really
😂😂😂🎉🎉😂
why do they sound like "oh youre a mob wife? Name 5 organised crime lords"😭
NAME 5 FAMOUS PIONEERING MOB WIFE!
Only appropriate response to that is “are you a cop? Because you have to tell me if you’re a cop…”
New interrogation strategy just dropped
*from a fictional story. 😂😂😂
I'm so disappointed they haven't. They just reference a show 💀
Poor mob husbands just chilling legally on their legally aquired yacht smoking legal cigars and taking about non criminal hobbies getting notified that their mob wife just doxxed them on tiktok and their mansion is getting swatted
Hahaha 😂
DO IT FOR THE TOK!!!!
Deadassss! I’m dying laughing cause these women are really trying to send their husbands to jail. The funniest was the “probably” so the one woman could claim plausible deniability in court.
😂😂
nahhh hes deadass getting rid of her body at that point 😭😭
This shouldn’t have been so much of a “you’re cosplaying my ethnicity” callout but more of a “you’re romanticizing something terrible” talk
Frfr 😭
then they'd be exposing themselves too
Exactly!! The last girl almost had it until…well she didn’t
If you aren't threatening local businesses with acts of physical violence to extort money from them, you don't DESERVE to wear French tips!!!
"Ya gotta bash some windows to get that manicure, honey."
😂
Hey, it's called protection! Show a little respect.
Average crust punk:
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The mob is so private most of them dont tell their kids. No way in hell any of these women openly claiming to be mob wives have even a slight connection
Exactly. These people are so delusional
At best they had petty criminal parents/partners ??? 😭
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
There are two wolves inside you. One is a mobwife and the other is Drake
But they are both the same
They’re the same wolf
get him out please, he's tickling my stomach lining
I'm imagining that as some glorious oil painting and ugly cackling. xD Thank you.
And they're 69ing in a storm
It's giving "why the mafia isn't a FUCKING aesthetic: a thread"
i cooka the pizza
mama mia
aye pass the linguini
i cooka da pizza
I just think her reasons are wild. Like, you could say don’t romanticize a group of people who lead organized crime and participate in human trafficking and that’s valid, but you can’t say “you’re appropriating this” because the mob isn’t just Italian, it’s just called something else in other places.
“Preferably an Italian designer” pulls out a French designed Louis Vuitton
yeah that was such a confusion moment like girl...google is free?
Exactly what I thought, girl probably said "european sounding name... Hmmm yes Italian designer"
that was a supposed parody, it was SUPPOSED to make dumb girlies mad, and here we are uwu
she almost definitely already had the bag and didnt wanna spend another $800 on an italian one
Thank you for pointing that out. I know nothing about design and fashion, I would've never found out otherwise. That's even better.
I’m just screaming over these women going on tiktok and publicly announcing to the world “my husband does crimes, like big huge crimes, and I’m so good at helping him and keeping my mouth shut about it. Do y’all hear how great I am at not snitching about these crimes?”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yes
lost it at the one who straight up posted his face 😭
Watch those women suddenly go missing 💀
It turns out if TikTok existed back then the mob would have been taken care of way sooner. All you need is clout
I know these women are lying, but there's going to be a bad person who takes them seriously.
"My crime is *organized* thank you very much." Killed me 😭
Goals frfr
Alleged mob wives acting like they invented fur while slavic poor grandmas are rocking some badass fur coats out there
Paleolithic people are laughing with grandma for sure.
I still have the ushanka made from rabbit my mother brought me from Russia
Babushka girl winter
@@muggins2279 babushka girl is SO funny to me I'm crying, because babushka is usually an old endearing woman, and a girl is... well a girl
I really needed this laugh today 😂
In her defense, if her husband is in jail it's not that she's a bad mob wife. It's that he's a bad mobster.
Lmaoooo
Now that's comedy!
But I must add...Maybe he's an "upstanding" mobster because he took a fall for somebody who would have fallen further if they ended up in the system?
For example, a "clean" brother might go inside for his junky brother's crime, because the clean bro knows junky bro will relapse into heroin addiction in prison. Or "clean" might mean that the "dirty" brother avoids life sentencing, including being sent to a prison with rivals present, and/or no power.
Yes, I need a life. But I like turtles...
@@subwayfacemelt4325 I like trains...
*distant train noises*
@@subwayfacemelt4325 now that a... "Good" mobster
I'm a mob wife and my stupid idiot husband got himself arrested, here's a list of all his crimes, his face, and his full name.
Shame him for being bad.
wait someones at my door hold on-
Imagine being possessive of an identity that is responsible for large scale human trafficking. Because, you know, the mob is hugely responsible for human trafficking.
Imagine bragging about it 🤢🤮
Especially with the murder and drugs
Can't wait for the Yakuza aesthetic. /s
Literally, like imagine saying 'IT'S MY CULTURE' to organizing shoot outs and extorting people.
I agree, but I am 99% sure that these women are obsessed this out of sheer ignorance, because A) the outfits and 2) this is just another version of “ billionaire wives” wish fantasies, except birthed from some godawful romance erotica novel they read somewhere where the mob husband is twice as abusive and possessive, but still handsome, romantic and rich.
theyre acting like hipsters "I did this before it was an aesthetic" "you can't wear that fur coat unless you can list five guys named Tony"
Help how come every Tony I know came to mind when I read that 😂
@@Sing_A_Rebel_Songyou must be a mob wife then
My partners name is Tony. Gimme that coat 😂
tony, tony, tony, tony, and toni
@UTTP298 Tell me more
Can’t wait for dictator wife aesthetic
Lmao this is underrated im crying 😭
finially its my time it was really hard to be saddam huseyins wife man
@@mislina8587I believe you
Eva Braun core 💀
Elena Ceausescu, Imelda Marcos and Grace Mugabe are smiling rn
Drake being a mobwife is so random but very funny
that’s not drake, that’s anita max wynn
@@annareesee anita max shmeat
cant see the name drake the same 💔
Drake will never recover 😬
it works so well
I was fully expecting the backlash to be the much more understandable “Italians are upset their culture is being equated with literal crime” but no instead we’re somehow getting irish-americans who dated a criminal once
Yeah I thought 18:20 was going there with "why can't we just say we like Italian fashion?"
There are Irish mobsters. Not sure how broad their reach was or is. But I do know that a lot of Irish Americans used them to funnel funds or guns to Northern Ireland to help hoist out the British.
@@lone6718 the Irish-American mob stayed in the Massachusetts/ New England area while the Italian mob was predominantly in New York. There weren't a lot of "big take downs" for Irish mobsters like there were for Italians so it isn't as talked about. On top of that, Irish mobs were more weapon based vs Italian mobs were more business based.
yeah, my family is very *very* Italian but none of my family is from jersey, so the style and everything is all foreign to me. The tiktok mobwife stuff is just sopranos meets real housewives of jersey, is not really 'real'. Saying girls on tiktok wearing fur coats is somehow "appropriating" Italian American culture is almost more annoying.
Will admit the irish-italian thing is real oddly enough. I also have irish in my family, it's common. Idk, i guess the immigrants that were ousted at similar periods cross pollinated lol
@@Nyx_ofthenightyeah, now imagine being from actual Italy and watching all this american shenanigans. Pretty weird ahaha
I think mob wife entitlement is the parallel to military spouse entitlement.
I mean they are both soldiers to a ruthless authority who life and money are indebted to them.
as a military spouse i couldn’t agree more
It's the "my husband kills people" trope
My wife and I definitely experienced the terrors of officers’ and SNCOs’ wives while I was in. Knew an MP who told me how many times a Major or LTC’s wife would get genuinely angry if he didn’t salute her vehicle at the gate because he “obviously should’ve recognized the car.”
It still feels like a fever dream so I don’t even know if I’m remembering this correctly, but some military spouse must’ve recognized me from the unit, and had the balls to come straight up to me, and tell me that my hair wasn’t in regulation, and that I needed to shave my face. Hadn’t a clue who she was, but… okay, lady. Don’t even think I was in uniform.
Honestly, I think the woman at 18:20 had it the most right. She's giving "The mob is dangerous, just say you like vintage Italian fashion." And at least she didn't make racist digs
It should be called the Soprano's wife aesthetic because this is based purely on fictional mob wives. Honestly even the Soprano's aesthetic was really just upper middle class Italian American woman from New Jersey.
Jersey shore wives 😂? I am joking but am from Philly so I understand what you meant
The show was based on real people's lives.
I giggled because they keep using Theresa from the Jersey Housewives. One of the OG wives left the show because everyone was trying to link them to the mob lol
@@jenniferwaidelich642 No it really wasn't. 2 real New Jersey crime families were the loose inspiration for the Soprano family but the show itself was not at all based on real people's lives. I know HBO has made multiple crime shows somewhat based on real people's lives, The Wire, and Boardwalk Empire come to mind, but the Sopranos was not one of those shows.
In reality, they dress very bland with furs. That's it. Everything else is appropriated from black culture
the oppression of poc (people of carbonara) never ends, glad these women are speaking about their very real and totally not made up experiences being mob wives 💔
People of carbonara I’m wheezing
Thank you 👏👏👏
AS A WHITE PERSON I IDENTIFY WITH PEOPLE OF CARBONARA-
I DID NOT SEE THAT COMING
Oh my god bro💀💀
@@humanbeing8400 do people from every race/ethnicity pretend they don't belong to their own group for clout? 🤔
that girl saying "we're talking messy hair" and showing clearly styled heat-curled hair just sent me back to the 00s..... please we cant b doing this again 😭
Oh no it’s messy buns all over again
@@lordknightalex it feels like she's implying curls are messy? which is uhh not good
@UTTP298oh yeah? let's see your mob wife look, spambaby.
all of tiktok is just recycling 90s and early 2000s sexism
Sadly the 2000's "fashion" is trendy again
They're treating the Sopranos like I treated Twilight at 11yo when I told kids I was a vampire
It’s crazy how they are forgetting the Irish mob, the Jewish mob, Russian mob and the massive Mexican and South American gangs. Italians aren’t the only ones who participate/participated in organized crime 😂
it's bc they only watch movies that romanticize the Italian mob, honestly
to add onto the list we got the yakuza and hong kong triads
Sometimes it's the government.
This!!
Yes, but they're the 'coolest' movie mob so everyone glamorizes it
It's only called "mob wife aesthetic" because "70s/80s Italian American tristate area glam" is too long
“Now you see Perry the platypus, I plan to make ALL the women of the tri-state area to get into the mob wife aesthetic with the GLAMINATOR!!”
Genius
@@boomerangswingsbothwaysnow we gotta create a new aesthetic for Perry to use as the self destruct button
Right?? Mob isn't exclusive to Italian. 😂😂
@UTTP298 hey, im autistic too, and jsyk, aspergers is an outdated term, and it has really bad origins. You should use autism or autism spectrum instead !
this feels like the more grown up version of that "fairies vs fairy hunters" roleplay thing that was on tiktok a while back
What?? Huh??! Please elaborate on this topic I completely missed this drama
@@suspicious_snake756so what was going on was that there were these children pretending to be fairies doing things like pretending to fly and there were like crystals and rituals and stuff. It was just all fun. Then there was another group of kids who were the fairy hunters making videos about setting traps and killing fairies and stuff. It was kinda bizarre but honestly, to me it felt like playground roleplay online
@@voguishthrone5887 yep, the most bizarre element about it though was how seriously people took it. The style of videos wasn't like "look at this cool game we're playing / story we're creating", it was often these personal videos like "what it's like being a fairy and getting hunted", "safety measures you can use to not get trapped" or debates on the humanity and rights of fairies. If an alien saw those tags they'd probably assume fairy hunting was a serious societal problem on Earth. That's kind of what I was alluding to here, mob wife tiktoks feel like an elaborate roleplay that we're not in on
@@Egg_thingsurprisingly the most genuinely child-like thing I’ve heard tbh like I’d hope to catch my kid doing that instead of what I usually hear from tiktok
@Egg_thing i think it's exactly this, i think this is just competitive roleplay ??? 😂
Your moustache looks like 2 schnauzers kissing. Thats not meant to be an insult. Its genuinely impressive
Oh no …. Now can’t unsee it 😂
Omg 😂😂😂 u right!!
That’s so accurate and so cute
I CAN'T UNSEE IT🤣🤣🤣
LMAO you're so right!
“If you’ve never had the feds looking for your dad then you don’t deserve to wear this coat!” LIKE WHAAATTT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT????????
WHERE is my disembodied GOOOOLD voice i do NOT feel premium
I knew something seemed off. 😂
Askin the real questions
Today, we're just subpar
First thing I noticed, and it felt so wrong....
I was waiting for the special “gooooOoOld” and then I was lost and waiting when it didn’t show up
We're all mob wives because we've all heard of Tony Hawk, and I'm sure he knows at least one guy.
I've heard he even knows two
Oh he's definitely a gangster. I heard he made an American wasteland.
dude this is legit.
ever heard of tonys hawk underground ?
wel., a guy named Bam was ON the cover, i SWEAR and tony, rhis guy?
HE MADE HIM
DISSUPHEA
I sweahs to gawd the man was on the postah one day, and gawn tha next
🤣💀
Weird that there’s a “terrible person, heinous criminal aesthetic” and then people being like “my crime isn’t your aesthetic, you have to actually have been a horrible human being”😂like don’t worry, y’all can have that
You worded it perfectly!
It’s giving military wives who act like they are their husbands rank 💀💀
LMAOOO u got it 😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMFAOO PLEASE 😭
I haven’t experienced anyone like that personally, only on TikTok. Yet, this comparison feels so accurate lol
Omg. My brothers were in army school and they would say the same about their teachers ( most were wives of officers), that they acted as if they were officers themselves. They would say it to people's face don't you know I am wife of a major etc. 😂
"Worried about the feds breaking down your door and your husband cheating on you, but you have to stay silent because it's a good life " Ma'am please reevaluate
Contradicted the second half of the sentence with the first one. Mob wives are not making it past an 8th grade education.
Yeah, I’m very confused on why this lifestyle is so romanticized
@UTTP298nobody asked nobody cares you must have zero talent. If you have to comment bot to get people to watch your content, you could just try being actually talented and funny like Jarvis and you could have people who want to watch you because they want to watch you and not because you’re spamming comments
It shouldn't be romanticized but I feel like we are forgetting that if someone is already in that deep it might not be quite so easy to leave and live.
@@virvewirllos yes, that is exactly why it shouldn’t be romanticized
i love how tiktok continuously gets people to self-report. just endlessly
I remember when "shoplifting hauls" were a thing
@@niteblooms I forgot about that. Wow
@@nitebloomsthats been a thing since early tumblr days and is iconic idc
The Chinese conspiracy
i like how, when the "actual" mob wives are trying to prove their husbands are in the mob, the only proof they give is pictures of what their husbands are wearing. "being in the mob is more than an aesthetic!!!" *shows picture of husband in leather jacket and captions it "this is what mob husbands wear"*
not to mention the polaroids that were meant to prove _she_ had actual mob ties are just normal-ass pictures lol
The “real” mobwives acting like they ever had to administer first aid outside of an occasional workbench boo-boo is hilarious
I'm 99% certain that most of these tik toks are women cosplaying as "real" mob wives.
I really can't imagine your organized crime husband would be down with you posting shit like this.
Acting like dating a criminal is somehow their minority culture that is getting appropriated is so fucking funny too
@UTTP298this is the worst way to achieve your goal.. you dont step on jarvis while trying to build yourself up.. or fucking spamming like.. two of the worst things possible.. i hope your page fails
@@punchbeard I can see some how traumatic the mob lifestyle can be for people considering the power structure and essentially losing your entire life for someone... Especially for people who grew up into organized crime. BUT it's very different than dating someone who did petty crimes ya know. Like I can see how survivors of those types of relationships can feel some type of way if there was abuse involved (emotional, financial, etc). But it loses the plot when it comes from people who forge their stories to fit into the title of a "real mob wife".
@@sumlem I think a lot of those relationships have abuse in them. Drita D'Avanzo showed how hard it was to struggle with her husband in and out of prison after being in organized crime. The thing with this being called an "aesthetic" is possibly hurtful to them. They lived thru hell and had to keep pushing forward from all the damage they dealt with and all the hurt they and their children endured.
“…she’s italian AND irish. Which is great bc we love biracial representation” 💀💀💀 im dead omg your commentary is always so spot on and funny
I mean, historically, if anyone white has actually experienced racism from other white people, it would most definitely be Italians and the Irish.
@@olitapp5361 she was probably born in like 80s jersey lets be so fr pls
@olitapp5361
+ Slavs and Jewish people (European Jews definitely look "white" but they're not "white" for strange reasons)
Race is just a made up concept. It's just an excuse to treat others badly. As such if there's a dominant white ethnic group which want to subjugate another white ethnic group suddenly the other group looses its white status
Which is one of MANY reasons why I don't support white supremacy. Today I might be "white" but who knows who I will be tommorow
@@olitapp5361 While yes, but it would more often apply to darker Italians? As well as other darker European-Mediterranean people. Even they themselves sometimes make a distinction between lighter and darker Italians, Spaniards, Portugese, Greeks etc. Ofc I'm not denying anyone's personal experience with racism or discrimination, no matter their appearance.
@@olitapp5361 not within her lifetime, i seriously doubt she has experienced anything similar
if you were a mob boss you’d definitely make sure your wife isn’t posting anything about you 💀💀💀
"how to get disposed of by your mom boss husband" speed run tutorials
@@zoeb3573 Mom boss husband is a double whammy of messed up.
@@pinkfurret6245 OH GOD 🤣🤣
There was a whole show called "mobwives" granted I think all the husbands were/are in prison.
That's what I was thinking too
Federal agents kicking there feet giggling at people openly admitting to being involved in criminal activities
These women out here incriminating their husbands cause some girl wants to wear a fur coat💀 like calm down
when she said "you haven't earned the fur coat" lol... If I bought it from the store I think I've earned the right to wear it
this mob wife aesthetic is literally how my italian aunt dressed in the early and late 2000s and she wasn’t in the mob she owned a salon and spa.
because salons and spas are famously never used as fronts...
The spa was definitely used for laundering money. Even mobsters need a treat day!
Yeah a MOB spa
It's just the The Nana
Or was she? 🧐
Lmfao all these “real” mob wives look like they just picked their faux fur coats from the thrift store yesterday and tried to pretend this is how they’ve dressed and acted for years
exactly and why are they so quick to claim victimhood ITS JUST A JACKET
Even if it was real fur why would you wear it?
I have a fur coat at my house that my grandma used to own and I never wear it because I don't want to get it damaged
Not to mention I have a feeling real fur coats would be hard to clean (another reason I don't wear it)
Lol they were cosplaying before it was popular and now are outraged they can't claim the trend as their invention.
@@darkcrydotmrihavetoomanyst1440Cause a legitimate "Mob wife" would just go get a new one
@@willy5838 I wasn't mentioning about if it's new or not I was saying that fur coats aren't that good
One thing I’ve noticed is that nobody complains when men on TikTok were making mafia boss povs or “mob fits” such as dressing in suits but when it became a trend for women to be “mob wives” suddenly loads of people had a problem with it. I admit that it’s a ridiculous trend but the way people choose to direct their hate on TikTok baffles me every time
I've seen people complaining about that too. To be fair it was a more understandable critique than "you've never had to be a willing accomplice to your husband's heinous crimes, you don't get to wear the fur coat 🤪", but I've seen it
The double standards are wild
Idk i feel like it's mostly women mocking these women though. I've seen quite a bit of critique on the mafia boss looks too, though on UA-cam. I'm not on Tiktok but what i can gather from this small observation is that women on Tiktok tend to aggress their own gender for clothing more often than men do it to their gender. Personally as a woman i don't care a lot, i find it dubious for both parts to want to look like literal murderers and human traffickers.
The only people complaining about mob wife fashion is women who claim to be mob wives 😂
Also, tons of people criticized the mob boss tiktoks. They were made fun of by plenty of people. This isn't some double standard thing.
there are plenty of people who criticized that trend.
The whole "You can't be a mob wife if you don't know The Sopranos. 😡" is like saying "You can't be a drug addict if you haven't watched Breaking Bad." Like- What's up with the gatekeeping? Especially with such a popular show smh
Same with “you can’t be a mob wife if you don’t know big Ang”. Like…..she was a celebrity on a tv show 😭😭😭
I’ve only seen one episode of braking bad and I’m definitely still a drug addict lol
idk man white girls be feeling left out sometimes I guess
As someone who has never seen breaking bad, I am relieved
I must be a pro druggie cuz I love breaking bad 🤩
jarvis clocking the mob wife square french tip nails without guidance is crazy
Totally gives him the pass to say “girlies”
your channel doesn't have any content@UTTP298
@UTTP298 no one cares
@UTTP298"This channel does not have any content"
@UTTP298passionate about fighting cyber bullying, promotes channel by bullying other channels.
ah, the final evolution of those “sold to the mob boss to pay off my father’s debt” books
omg i can’t wait for ‘sold to one direction for my mom to get a pack of cigs’ summer !!’
@@lizzyizzywizzy I think they moved to getting sold to bts to pay off my family's debts last time I checked lol
"I was the early 20s mob wife" damn, she's looking amazing for 100+ years old
Do y'all think "actual" Italians are seeing these and being like...."Why are they claiming organized crime is cultural? You're embarrassing us."
I'm italian-american and from the north east, and as someone who's EXACTLY where and what the stereotype is (with the exception that I'm not named Anthony), it's fucking insane. That's not Italian-American culture or Italian culture, that's just mobs and hollywood
“If you’re not Italian…” from someone whose one line of Italian ancestors emigrated to New York in like 1905.
As an actual Italian, it just feels so weird… I have no idea who they’re referencing with all of *this*
To be honest, as an Italian, the thing that confuses me the most is why they keep bringing up skin colour in this discussion.
I’m not even 100% Italian and I’m upset. The mafia is something we’ve been distancing ourselves from for decades. It’s deeply insulting.
people happily admitting to being mob aligned (supposedly) is so funny
update: WAS that ethnicity??? girlie what's your secret huh
'friendly fire in the white community right now' took me out 💀
Yes, it's CRAZY!! The way she says "if you ain't italian ur fake" and then says she's irish is wild
Same 💀
@@seanraymond4358i mean technically shes still right with the irish mob 💀 but i see what you mean
I hooted out loud
“I know another guy named Tony but that guy is TOO turnt.” Lmfaooo
When she showed A PICTURE of her husband I lost it… ma’am if you really are a mob wife you are doing a bad job
😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Being a mob wife is staying silent-“ then stfu girl 😭
"I don't know anything, I'm just a guy on the internet" is exactly what a Mafia Don would say...
Don't worry just forget about it
𝗳𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁
Get 'im, boys!
As an Italian with extremely sketchy family from the south of Italy and parts of Sicily (mob central), this aesthetic is extremely disturbing. People forget that Mobs and gangs are responsible for a large percentage of human trafficking and horrendous crimes. Also, Italians are not the only ones with mobs. There are Irish, Mexican, Jewish, Russian and so many others that it’s hard to name them all. It is perfectly fine if people want to wear faux fur and animal print and expensive designer names, but it is never acceptable for people to glorify and romanticize a hostile and abusive group of people.
I never thought bout this from that perspective. I knew there was something off about calling it "mob wife" aesthetic, but I couldn't pinpoint it. But you're right. Like, maybe try to come up with something else to call yourself so that you are not in any way aligning yourself with a group of people who do those kinds of things? I get that it's basically Sopranos cosplay but I also feel like, due to the lack of context people receive by discovering something on TikTok, there's this phenomenon of glorifying really messed up things on accident. Thank you for your comment, you have given me a lot to think about.
Bump+
This makes a lot more sense than the cultural appropriation angle
Yeah! They should’ve just called it the ‘wealthy Italian’ or something so then at least it doesn’t sound so bad
People do halloween mafia outfits all the time tho. Like i get what you're saying but nobody is going to think mobsters are good people because a tiktoker put on leopard print
"i don't know anything about the mob, i am just a guy on the internet" and you're already a better mob wife.
There are mobs of many ethnicities. There are Italian mobs, Russian mobs, Arab mobs, Moroccan mobs, Irish mobs, Japanese mobs… what even is her argument.
And when every one is mob, then no one is
@@martian8987maybe the real mob was the friends we made along the way…
Right! "mob wife" is not a culture!
@@dansyourjor5813 LMAOOO
@@dansyourjor5813 Dammit xD
"if you don't know a guy who knows a guy at your favorite restaurant" im LOSING it
I know a guy who knows a guy at my favorite restaurant, its me. I know the guy at the restaurant. Its a good restaurant, we went to high school together. Im a mobster now.
My favorite restaurant is run by nuns who are forbidden to know guys… no fur coats for me :(
@@mossyrocks1096What kind of food do they cook? Asking for a guy
Imagine becoming your own whistleblower because you got pressed about a fashion trend lmfaoo
Hey, Al Capone got arrested because of tax fraud.
Which isn't even the case because none of these women have ever been in the mob lmao
No actual mob wife would admit to being a part of the mob💀
And then say that she's a part of "The Sopranos" nation 💀
She's saying that it's people glorifying her trauma, but she do seem to be bragging about it.
Sounds like women under 30
I also find it a bit ironic bc it’s like bestie if you really are connected maybe take a couple of seconds to think about how you’re glorifying the trauma of victims of the mob
@@rabbit6546and simultaneously ratting/alerting the authorities about her criminal ties with criminals. Brilliant work.
Stop glorifying my trauma!
My husband killed 35 people using only a Kodiak Camera and some glue! He then caught a shark, cut the shark open, put the bodies inside, and then sewed the shark back up and set it free.
He then stole all of their money and made us rich.
Stop it! Stop glorifying this trauma! I'm crying into a 100 dollar bill (which I own a lot of)
the way she even showed pictures and is exposing her face and name like its nothing 😭 people suck at lying
My dad was targeted by the feds, I do have a cousin who went to jail, and I in fact know an entire family of Tony's who have sketchy connections, but I'm not a mob wife, I'm just from Chicago. Your litmus test is broken, babe.
I thought the people critiquing the aesthetic would be people who lived in areas with the mob and are against the glorification of the mafia, not actual mob wives feeling attacked. The internet is absolutely wild.
I’m sure there are, just Jarvis has found the wildest account for the Content
These women are NOT mob wives. I can promise you that
@@inacattLol, right. I know nothing about the mafia I'll admit, however I highly HIGHLY doubt they'd let you get in tiktok and say, "look at my husband who's the mob 😃👍" ain't no way
@@inacatt i can tell you this much, their hubs/bf's are absolute douche canoes and they like 'em that way.
I do love changing the phrase to "the pot calling the kettle white"
This feels like such a weird thing to be up in arms about. Also the differentiation between "mob wife" and "drug dealer wife" feels ridiculous, both your husbands are criminals.
I kinda assume there's some racism embedded in trying to differentiate between the two.
Legit. And I'd honestly rather be a drug dealer's wife than a mob wife because at least with the drug dealer, there's a chance they don't kill people.
I always say the "gooooooold" part with the little Jarvis voice in the beginning of every premium video. Can't even describe my surprise and betrayal when today I was the only one to say it.
That's not Jarvis' voice. That's Mike Meyers as Goldmember from _Austin Powers 3: Goldmember_ (2003) talking about how much he loves gold.
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“Preferrably an Italian designer” … pulls out French designer bag
literally 😂
i was SCROLLING to find this comment... you can't make that shit up
I think that girl was being a lil silly and goofy. I think that’s part of the joke
Next is the Yakuza wife asthetic 💀
As much as I want to say you’re joking there is a good chance it will start appearing on people’s feed soon
white women on tiktok calling other girls white in various metaphors is like that scene in family guy where peter says, "whole lotta honkeys around here" and all the white people in the crowd glare at him
Im CRYING omg 😭😂😂😂
Lol they also glorify sex traffickers/ tax evaders/ GANGBANGERS!!!!!
I don't know what's sadder the people who want to have the "mobwife asthetic" or the people pretending to be a mobwife.
Both are equally depressing
this kind of drama is so chronically online that it makes the chronically online feel like they regularly go outside
I mean I've been wearing leopard print, furs and a lot of makeup for awhile now. it's just a look unless you're a try-hard. I'm gunna keep doin my thing and just not call it mob wife aesthetic lol
The former just want to dress like stereotypical mob wives, the latter think they ARE mob wives.
@@amberevoland I will admire your ability to wear a cool af fashion. I cannot make that look work, but damn I wish I could.
11:10 is so funny, just the phrase "crime aesthetics", but then getting hit with "My crime was ORGANIZED, your crime is an independent start-up." The "real" mob wives remind me of how much the mafia HATED Al Capone for flaunting his wealth and how he was a mobster, putting the mafia in the public light for the law to see and exposing things about their practices. Surely especially the wife with the photo of her husband's face showing, isn't actually in the mafia or they'd be a little smarter on social media exposing themselves...right?
All of this feels like role play.
Literally it’s so crazy, my brain won’t process that these are real people being serious. It just feels like acting, sarcasm, roleplay ect and I’d rather pretend it is 😭🙏
It feels like a random kid in elementary school getting mad that someone else started reading the Warrior Cats series because “that was MY THING” and then saying they’re not a real fan.
These guys should just put a disclaimer that says "We are roleplaying" or something.
its so bad like it sounds like they watched the sopranos and decided to try posting their audition tapes to tiktok
@@NearsightedNarhwal omg I remember this askfhjd
"I know another guy named Tony, but that guy is TOO TURNT. " The lore is deepening and I love itt
Literally one of my favourite videos
SAHLOOOO FOLINAAAA |-/
@@imcarakins I CREATED THIS WORLDDD, TO FEEL SOME CONTROLLL
@@twokidsintrenchcoat DESTROY IT IF I WANTTTT
@@imcarakins SO I SING _SAHLOO FOLINAA_
So she got offended by someone wearing fur and in response started testifying
‘My crime was organised thank you very much. Your crime is an independent start up’😂😂
“Our culture is not your costume” while going omg I’m Irish too is very ironic
omg I’m Irish too 🥺🥺🥺
Tbf, I'd imagine it would be hard to be mixed ethnicities if you come from an old mob family. From what I know, Irish Americans and Italian Americans don't get along too well when it comes to organized crime.
@@PissyLissy maybe an enemies to lovers happened
@@ghumashenaa4414 bro is imagining tragic storylines
Maybe she was in the Irish mob?
It’s funny bc I think the “mob wife aesthetic” is closer to “high end escort aesthetic”. And I live for it! Italian Americans need to relax w thinking they invented fur coats 😭
“Italian Americans need to relax” ftfy.
Also, Irish Americans need to relax too.
Sincerely, an Irish and Italian American
What does high end escort aesthetic look like to you?
Also, when she said "you look like trashy white women with drug dealers as partners" I was like, "that's what I think you look like. "
16:59 bro just ratted out her husband💀😭
And I can wear whatever coat I want😭😭
As an Italian, born and raised in Italy, both sides of the argument make me so sad, knowing what it is the real power that mafia holds in my country and seeing this girls romanticizing being part of the mob or the other girls getting dressed up like them makes my skin crawl
Hit the nail right on the head. The real problem with this trend is the glorification involved.
Exactly!!! I don't know why would anyone want to be associated with pain, constant danger and crime. Can't we just name this aesthetic "dark glamour" or something
Yeah on one side you have girlies turning something that very much still harms people to this day into an aestetich. And on the other americans who are 1/16th Italian claiming to not be white and thinking they saw the "real" gangster life.
Meanwhile us Italians are sitting here with actual politicians involved with the mafia.🫠 I dont know man this whole thing gives me such a weird vibe
Being Italian and watching whatever Italian-Americans are up to always feels disheartening for some reason.
It's so strange. I've never seen people romanticizing things like Russian mafia because I guess it's not sexy enough. And yet both of those groups are evil
I don't care if I'm abducted into sex slavery by an Italian or Russian
im crying at her being a "professional mob wife" and not knowing the difference between a 'mob' and a 'mafia'
if you're not italian, you can still be a mob wife. it's the MAFIA that's primarily sicilian or italian/italian-american crime families.
(+ there are of course other groups of organised crime that can be described as a 'mafia' who arent sicilian or italian, the yakuza is the japanese mafia, it's just the word is most often used for groups who bear similarity to the italian mafia so im using it)
OH MY GOD AND THEN SHE'S IRISH???
The mafia is not specifically sicilian or italian american, they come from all Italian regions and they have a different name in most of them. Cosa Nostra in Sicily, Sacra Corona Unita in Puglia, Ndrangheta in Calabria, etc. etc. "Mafia" is the general term, we use it in its plural "mafie" as well.
Even in regions where they don't have a specific name they are still a very prominent presence, albeit hidden. We are taught that as children, starting at around 12-13 years old I think.
@saphiwrath Exactly. Besides, organised crime exists everywhere in the world, under different names. Their version of the "mob" is very sugar-coated and glamourised. I don't think they would want to associate themselves with the real deal if they actually lived under the mafia's thumb.
@@saphiwrath you're right sorry, it isn't specifically that - i meant to use the word primarily.
Italian Canadian families too - Especially southern Ontario near the buffalo and New York border
there’s also the chinese triad lol
the "I'm not like other white women" tangent is hilarious as hell.
Someone should do a video abt them tbh lol
i thought that the woman at 18:21 had a point... until she continued talking. because organized crime rings aren't just a bunch of guys shooting guns and smoking cigars-they kidnap, traffic, assault, and murder people. i agree with her point that the aesthetic could have another name, but i thought she was going to talk about how the victims of actual gang violence might feel watching tiktokers name a trend after their oppressors. this argument is so bizarre.
“My life of being an accessory to murder is not your costume” yea good point 🚔🚨🚔
Italy: amazing culture, art, music, food, architecture
ItalianAmericans: tracksuits, fur coats, crime and gabagool is the peak of our culture
😂😂😂😂
We also have crime and people who dress trashy. But our food is better 🤷🏻♀️
Tbf Italian Americans have some fire food don’t do us like thattt 😭 (this is my favorite comment ever btw)
Girly doesn't know anything about organized crime, otherwise she wouldn't discriminate against Russian mobs.
They don’t know anything!!!! They’re claiming the mob like they outstanding citizens 😂
Or dry snitch on themselves and their husbands. Everyones playing dress up here, some are just a bit more salty than others.
I have a feeling some of them are post that life. Like the blonde lady seems like she's on the other side of it, looking back at the pain. @@Drockthehouse95
someone needs to tell italian people they're white because they keep forgetting.
Don't worry we don't, its Americans who seem to have memory issues.
maybe pedantic, but i think one of the funniest parts to me is that they're framing it like mobs are exclusively Italian, and not something that exist all over. if it was called "mafia wife aesthetic" thats a little more understandable because that's specifically italian and sicilian, but there's so many other mobs. its like how a square is a rectangle but not every rectangle is a square. the mafia is a mob, but not all mobs are the mafia
That was my first thought too! I’m half Sicilian and when I heard the trend “mob wife” I didn’t even bat an eye bc that’s so vague lmao mobs are EVERYWHERE. I would have definitely been weirded out if it was called “mafia wife” for sure bc that’s a very specific thing with a very tragic history.
And still, even the term mafia is used in other countries (like the Yakuza, for example)
yet none of them want to cosplay cartel members… too close for comfort for them😂
@@sophaloph1129 nah they co-opted latina makeup and aesthetic for a bit and it was all aspects LOL
But there's no such thing as a "mafia wife aesthetic" either.
the coat gatekeeping is so funny to me as someone who is eastern european, because in my country every other person (man, woman, grandma, teenage boy, etc) would wear fur coats, especially when i was growing up
that's because you're all in the mob, you just don't know it yet 💀💀 /jk
@@mightymeatymech oh no!! how could i have i missed this?!!
This! It's currently -20C in Moscow and every other woman is wearing furs. Organised crime is truly getting out of hand, apparently
@@kseniav586 Better watch out for anyone called Tony, he might know a guy.
hello fellow eastern european👋
As someone from the tristate area this makes me laugh so hard. No one acts like this. The whole ‘if you don’t know someone named Tony that knows a guy’ is especially hilarious. I could throw a rock in any random direction and hit someone named Tony. Shut up 😂
that took me out because i konw a jamaican named tony who i call to work on my car LOLOL
@@mightymeatymechand I betcha he also knows a guy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony is THE stereotypical name too, I refuse to believe those response videos aren't satire.
wait until these mob wives find out about all the POV tiktokers whove made "mafia boss boyfriend" their bread and butter for years...their poor husband's identity is being worn as a costume literally 😱
"That's my husband. He's in the mob." GIRL SHUT UP OMG YOU'RE GONNA GET BOTH OF YOU IN A LOT OF TROUBLE ***WITH THE MOB***
If her husband was in the mafia, he would have killed her for posting about him on TikTok.
They're making real life fanfiction. With their fake ass back stories
Wattpad type stories 😭💀
legitimately love you talking about more “traditionally feminine” (I know how dumb that sounds) internet topics in a more deep dive feel, they get overlooked most of the time because they cater specifically to women but some of that stuff is SO wildly funny I’d love to see more videos like this
Would love to see more. There’s so much to pick from. Please ladies who are on twitter send him shit cause I’m not on there to do it myself!
Agreed. I didn't realize how overlooked content catered to women really is until I went to talk to my bf about the latest trend, said something like "you know x? It's been all over the internet" and he had never heard of it... Meanwhile it's been in my feed for days.
@@craneoflores Fair point, though it is annoying that we still have 'content catered to women' and 'content catered to men'. I know it's just reflective of how the world is right now. But at the same time, I'm not all that happy about that either.
i've experienced more than half of the things that make you a "mob wife" just because i grew up with felon, addict, poor parents. it's wild how they think they're so individual because people around them have ... committed crimes 😭
Stolen Valor! Being a mobwife means yapping in detail about the criminal activity you've been complicit to and then posting it on the internet as a sacrifice to your incarcerated husband!
Exactly what I was thinking
fur coats are not just an italian thing. they’ve been worn by humans since like… literally the invention of clothing. i have pictures of my great grandma (who was not italian) in a big ass fur coat in the 40s
Yeah, and hey we're talking about italian americans .. well guess what indigenous americans wore that shit too
Exactly! My great grandmother had a fur coat. We don't have it anymore because maintaining fur is difficult and expensive, but if I did still have it you bet I'd be wearing it in freezing temperatures. Am I not allowed to wear a fur coat now???
Yeah like wherever it is cold fur coats exist lmao. No one can copyright a basic garment LMAO
Let's call out the mob wives for appropriating Finnish culture.
im romanian and my grandmother has like 20 fur coats. too bad i have to break it to her she can’t wear them anymore since the tiktok girls don’t approve
"Not all of them are mob wives... some of them are Drake" 😂😂😂 I LOVE your sense of humour!
i’d love this girl to say a single thing in italian😭
"I cooka da pizza"
Spaghettini
My least favorite thing about these types of aesthetics is the fact that they’re always the “mob wife” or “rockstar’s girlfriend”. Women don’t have to be the background character.
Preach. They could have went for a Mob Girlboss aesthetics or something. Like Camila or Teresa from Queen of the South.
Or like I saw someone else say just call it "Italian American Upper Class"
So true! They’re downplaying their value and it’s so sad
Alt version of a tradwife? 🤔
so true!
Yup it is so cringe
unless your ancestors were actual apothecaries, you do not deserve to take medicine