@@BG_SimpliciTyNot how it works Mike Tyson had a traumatic childhood yet even he beat the shit out of someone on a plane because he couldn't control himself.
@@Rapha_YadaFarmssometimes avoiding a fight that hasn't really materialized into a fight and it's just somebody running their mouth is wise. It's not about being scared it's about picking your battles and knowing when it's a real fight and it's just someone who you can avoid. But if you want to call that training to run then you can think whatever you like..
@@Rapha_YadaFarms Most good places will teach you something like "An argument isn't worth your life". This is usually in the form of simply not getting into a fight. They could be concealing a knife, have a gun, or simply may just overpower you or get some good blows in that could change you forever. Its always good to know your limits and not to be over-aggressive, especially if you might not win.
This is so true. I use to absolutely lose it when someone disrespected harshly when I was younger. God definitely was watching over my stupid ass back then. I really reacted in ways that could have put me in prison for years if the authorities were called.
It's a weapon. As soon as a weapon, multiple attackers, or family gets involved, it's a life or death situation. At that point, running is still the best option, but if you don't have that option, you have to use your training to end the encounter ASAP, and find an opportunity to run. If you still cannot run, you're gonna have to try something else. Some people use intimidation. Some just start breaking things. Some will just straight up kill people, but that's such a last resort, you have to be stuck with a bunch of people or in a no-win situation in order to justify it, but don't piss somebody off so much that it becomes your life or theirs. Usually, this can be avoided. You have to put Yourself in a life-threatening situation, most of the time. Just get yourself out. Nobody has to get hurt.
@@mcruz4571 nah it's a 50/50 and you'll wonder how the fight would've gone for a day or 2. Cause it could really go either way depending on the person.
@@nazemkadri5824these guy hasn’t realized that there’s guys without records that spar with pros because of the knowledge and experience in the sport. 🤦🏽♂️
People tend to forget that martial arts is the art of fighting without fighting. You're not supposed to be looking for a fight. Much love & respect for the arts.
@@gaIIows Damn near 8 million people in the world boy. I’m African/Honduran & I myself was only an Amateur fighter at Sky Uppercutz in New Orleans. I’ve been training in kick boxing for 14yrs, Brazilian JiuJitsu for 6 years. The instructor is correct.
@@gaIIows Unless you have another method that no experienced material artist knows about? If so, you can show me this method you have. Sky Uppercutz, Woodmere, Louisiana. Edit: Woodmere is only 20mins out from New Orleans, if you want anymore specific details, hmu 👍🏾.
@@russell9758 Appreciate it man 💪🏾. All I do now is just coach & tech my two lil nephews along with an of their other friends that’s serious about training. I also have them on UA-cam so they can learn not to have stupid takes on certain subjects, such as other ppl lol
Especially when you're sparring pretty regularly, it'll humble you quick if you're overconfident. In the gym you're very unlikely to die, in the street no one is gonna stop the other guy if he's better or lucky.
That is any type of fighting style. As a boxers in my youth and military. I walk away from pretty much all fights now. I know the damage I can do if I lose control.
I even felt that way when I was learning at 11, 12, 13. I knew how bad I could hurt people, and would just go into high alert mode until the situation fizzled out.
I feel the same way, after now doing martial arts for 4 years and done 4 fights in competition. I don't wanna fight, and only willing to for serious stuff like: protecting family, protecting children, self defense, etc... Never for ego stuff, or disagree on views, petty stuff, etc..
When i was younger i saw 2 regulars at a local bar talking smack, then went outside to settle it. one guy hit the other, who fell back and hit his head on a concrete parking bumper, was in a coma for awhile before he passed. Dude who threw the punch ended up with a manslaughter charge. That one punch ruined many lives.
These guys play fight their entire lives but never been in a real one 😂😂 I respect UFC guys but a lot of these senseis never beat up anyone in their life
fun fact : when a bottle explodes, all of the impact goes into the bottle so it shouldn’t really hurt (though the shards will likely cut you). Picture when you try to break a stick by hitting something : when it doesn’t break, it vibrates the heck out of you
People dismiss this, but the fact is that’s the best piece of bar fight advice you’ll ever hear. F*ck em, they ain’t worth it, just bail and live the rest of your life.
@@ArcaneEiro 2024 sucks. naturally i wish to challenge you to a physical test of manliness................ but i fear even saying that is too threatening?!? "it's a joke to be clear"
@@ArcaneEiro it’s dismissed every time a bar fight breaks out. Some pussy’s fragile ego gets bruised so they throw hands instead of walking away. You should get out more you may learn something.
This is 💯 percent true. People who are not confident about their ability to actually hurt someone will always think backing down is weakness. Ultimately you controlling the outcome and consequences of the situation if you avoid a physical confrontation.
The art of fighting without fighting. This is a true warrior. Priorities over pride. He chooses his battles... He doesn't let his battles choose him! Wise.
I am reminded of an old quote, author not remembered (sorry!) "It is better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war" We wear seatbelts as a last-ditch effort to avoid tragedy, not because we expect or want to get into a wreck!
Reminds me of a phrase attributed to various Native American tribes. “Pray for peace, but keep your knife sharp.” Or “I come with peace in my heart, but a knife on my side.” Wisdom and power held in balance.
People don't understand how dangerous street fights can be. Even if everyone walks away, doesn't mean that guy who lost won't come back with a weapon and friends.
That is a very powerful proverb, and it stands true. I wish I could’ve followed that proverb during instances where I have lost my temper in my former days. But this is a very powerful proverb indeed🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
True, but martial arts as many more benefits than just learning how to fight. While yes, if you were forced into a fight, you have a higher chance of survival. But even on a daily basis its strengthens your body, teaches respect, self control, and discipline. and provides a social like-minded community.
That's not a paradox; that's just a point of fact. You not knowing something until you learn it; is not a paradox; a paradox is something that doesn't make sense... A paradox is like going back in time and becoming your own dad. It's a paradox, because you had to be born to go back in time; but you couldn't have been born until you went back in time -- right? Learning defense and then hoping you never have to use it and making smart choices so you could avoid hurting people isn't a paradox; it's just being a good human who can make smart decisions.
Sign of an absolutely top tier teacher right here. The good ones will teach you how to fight, the great ones will teach you the discipline to avoid it unless it's completely unavoidable.
I believe this should be the minimum requirement to be considered good. It should be taught in all places that teach martial arts and emphasized more than once to make sure that the best-trained people will make sure to be wise with their skills.
That man is a true sensei, he gave wise lessons with real scenarios where critical thinking matters most, never throw your life away for something so insignificant🙏🏾🥋☮️
I have preached this to my kids from day 1. It’s ok to BACK away from confrontation. If there’s no way out then you do everything in your power to make it back home.
But here we see a wise and patient man trying to give advise to a young and emotional boy there to get the training needed to win the fights he can't wait for....
He's not running away he's running to his trunk 😂. Lol legal gun carrier... All jokes aside he spitten the real. And drawz a clear an defined line in the sand of where his prioritys
I shed a tear watching this. I was once cursed out by this stupid dude, I wanted to hurt him but I remembered by boy calling me back to hug me one more time before leaving ( I was re-watching it on the door bell before this incident). Anyway, dude was squaring up and something in me just clicked off, unlike me and I walked away. I walked away and I felt peace like a rock was lifted off me. Now the bog one was some minutes later that dude came to me tears in his eyes and was apologizing profusely. He thanked me for being the better man and walking away, he told me he was not always confrontational like that, his gf who saw every thing was too shocked to even talk, she was just too shaken and crying. Dude was like he did not know what got into him, but it switched off same way it came on immediately I walked off. Sometimes, the devil be literally calling for blood to ruin lives and destroy families, just walk away.
From one instructor to another Thank you for saying that. It's a tough pill to swallow for a lot of men but when the people you love are waiting for you to come home then nothing else really matters.
Lol if you play fight all day but scared to death of a real one you need a new job...it's like a marine who's scared to go to war they just wanna train for it
@@theoriginaltroll388 so what would be his job? dealing the maximum amount of damage possible to a bum on the street acting aggro just because he can?
@@theoriginaltroll388retard. I can shoot a gun but doesn’t mean I’m looking to fire. These atheletes are weapons. Smart ones don’t look to fire they are treated differently in the court of law than normal people
@@theoriginaltroll388I’m guessing you’re a kid. Either that, or you’re really dumb and naive. The man NEVER said he was afraid. So let me explain. You train like this in case you find you in a situation where you can’t just talk your way out if it or walk away. Since you probably don’t have kids, I don’t expect you to understand, but one day you will if you ever have kids. Coming home to them and being alive to be able to raise them and take care of them, especially in the times we live in, is WAAAAYY more important than an ego battle, which most fights are. My advice for you is GROW UP
I want to learn from that teacher. Not just for martial arts but to develop better self control & act more intelligently in bad situations. Smart man, very wise.
A kid that I went to high school with suffered a TBI in a bar fight. He smacked his head hard against a quarry tile floor and now he lives in a group home because he can't take care of himself.
Some of the best advice in a UA-cam video, ever. I don't WANT to fight, unless I HAVE to. I'm not fighting for Ego. People are relying on me, I can't go to jail over bullshit.
This man is a King. He Understands what true power is. Yet he’s not reckless with it. He understands how fragile a life force is. He is only ready to fight when it’s life or death. He has gained my deepest respect. I haven’t seen somebody training and teaching in the martial arts with this level of discipline in a long time.
Some guy skipped me in line at a store and then tried to fight me when i called him out on it. I was bigger and in better shape then him. But I remembered a video of Rogan talking about how stupid and dangerous street fighting was. So I ignored him. Sounds silly but it's one of the hardest things I've ever done. I swallowed my pride and let a little douchebag run his mouth. But in return no one got hurt and I didn't have to face any legal consequences. My life is definitely better for that 🤷♂️
EXACTLY, if a guy is on 10 and youre chilling at a 1, just let him be. He's in crashout mode so for you to match that energy will also be tough. No reason to get moved by stupidity
Good on you for being able to make such a hard decision on the spot. It’s better to have a temporarily wounded ego than face/cause potentially permanent repercussions over a brief altercation that pretty soon will mean nothing to you compared to things like your own life, future, and family. It’s always good to see justice delivered to those who are deserving, but it’s almost never worth putting yourself in such a precarious position unless it’s an absolute must, respect for being able to make such a decision in a moment of stress!
The best advice I ever got in all my years of Muay Thai and jiu jitsu was when my instructor said to avoid a street fight at all costs and that the only way to truly win a fight was to never get into one in the first place. Put your pride and ego aside and understand it’s never worth it. Short of it being a life threatening situation do whatever you can to avoid getting into a fight in the first place
This is one of the BEST Videos that u can teach others what NOT to do. I’ve trained MMA for over 20 yrs, and once u have Discipline and Respect which Martial Arts teaches you, then you WILL be just like this VERY SMART MAN! You already know what you’re capable of, so u don’t have to prove it to a Loser or POS how much of a Man U are! YOU and your Family already knows how big of a Man you are, so the ONLY people you need to prove anything to is the Ones u love most, which is your FAMILY!!
This only works if the person is willing to allow you to leave. In real life it's much harder to just run. I have a family and i havent had a serious fight in almost 20 years thankfully but I have been in situations and a dynamic situation can easily turn ugly. Especially if you turn to run.
@@imoeazy if that was the case then no one would feel bad from walking away from a fight. It feels like a weakness because of the failure to protect something, and that's ego. The real power is being in control of the outcome and consequences as you've said and because ego doesn't like feeling weak, it becomes hard for most people to control themselves.
He is 100% correct in today's world. You fight back they pull a Gun or a Knife. Might even jump you. After it's all over if it was a fight. The loser can throw you in jail now with ease. Back in the 80s 90s was the best day's. Never had to worry about what people act today.
Yep, as soon as family or loved ones become involved, it becomes a much tougher problem to navigate. Ideally, you can keep the problem occupied, and your family can go back to the car and call for help, but if you're stuck and you really are out of options, that's a recipe for trouble.
The more skill you have, the more aware of which fights are worth fighting you become. The realization that almost every fight isn't worth it is a life saver.
This man is ACTUALLY teaching good morals and THE truth of martial arts .. knowing the capabilities of what you can do and wanting to avoid conflict or any type confrontation.. it’s how I live .. I know how it feels like to get hurt to have an injury 1stly I wouldn’t wanna share any pain with anyone .. 2nd if I can avoid a situation by just leaving I will.. and 3rd by doing the most you can to completely avoid any issues by the time you’ve done what you could to avoid any mishaps you may have analyzed the situation enough to see what you can do next whether it be offensive or not knowing you did what you could to avoid conflict or any physical harm to you or the perp truly does give you the upper hand ❤.. that’s martial arts 🥋
Thing about movie though (at least some movies) is that it's usually self defense which as this guy says if someone were to smash a bottle on his head it's a different scenario
Such an important message to the youth that needs to be spoke more often. Fighting just isn’t worth it. Win or lose, when you’re alone to your thoughts, you’ll l feel like it wasn’t worth it 99/100 times.
Thank you, bro it is so wild to listen to bros who own a gym talk about just chasing fights. Warriors do not behave this way, a warrior is someone who is willing to fight and die for what they love, not endlessly chase the illusion created by their egos.
i cant remember where i heard it from, but i heard a quote that was something along the lines of "sometimes in martial arts, the real fight is in your own mind. sometimes the fights are against the impulsive urges your ego will try to demand of you" (i could be crazy but i know ive heard something like that)
More importantly, compassion. Not only is it pragmatic, since any fight you get in means YOU could get injured, but even your attacker has a right to not be harmed.
People underestimate how easy it is to get so much better at fighting than the regular person just learning proper punching form and shadow boxing every once in awhile will make you a better fighter than the average person when you are actually good you become scared of yourself when you fear what you could do to that person more than that person then there's no point in risking that situation
I've taken boxing training, was in the Army for 8 years, taken some wrestling training, moderate hand to hand combat training, served over 2 years in combat zones, but I've never been in a fight in school or on the streets. I always manage to talk my way out of them. Talking is so much less painful than fighting. But, if it ever came to where I had absolutely no choice, I'd fight like my life depended on it because it does.
This stuff is too true😭 It’s not being cowardly, majority of situations ain’t even worth it. Plus you don’t know what they got. It’s like I always say I can’t Tornado Kick a bullet😂
Best way to win a fight is walk away. If they are all talk theyll get fed up. If they actually attack youll see it coming and potentially be in a defensive position already. Either way you are the one who stays calm and in control. Very smart sensi 👏
This instructor is spot-on. I get so tired of these fighting videos that treat street encounters like they’re MMA bouts. MMA isn’t street fighting-out there, someone could pull a knife or gun and end things in an instant. Trying to prove you’re tough just isn’t worth it. I’ve seen too many videos showing the risks.
That man pretty much summed a lot of the legal reasons as to why people avoid fights in Taiwan. The fight may be fun but the legal ramifications aren’t worth it. A Taiwanese WC instructor once explained to me that if you have a martial arts background and you send a person to the hospital, get ready to pay for their bills because you had the unfair advantage and still decided to put them in a position where they end up in the hospital. That really reworked my perspective coming back to the US and I wish more people saw it the same way.
A good instructor starts their lessons with the importance of striking and blocking. A great instructor starts their lessons with the importance of de-escalating.
Nah, you give the casuals what they paid for and build confidence first. After the first level test, though, you gotta remind em they've only been striking pads and grappling unarmed people. In a street fight, there's a really strong chance of a weapon, a second attacker, a much stronger attacker, a lucky shot that disrupts the rest of your fight, an object you trip on, etc.
This guy is actually legit. If the court finds out you've done karate/martial arts and you fought someone they charge you like a person who used a weapon.
That combat instructor was spitting facts. The more knowledgeable of martial arts and how fights escalate you are, the more aware you are as to the risks that come with engaging in one is. Even though I would throw hands in way more of those situations than him, I can't help but respect his reasoning as to why he'll avoid fighting.
he's so right. Know of a couple of scenarios that involve pride - they all don't end well.. people don't know there own strength and people don't know what other people are capable of. Sometime it isn't even violence. Some people will try to ruin your life because they think you slighted them... its ridiculous.
People on the internet dont realize how quickly your entire life can change from 1 fight. You could either spend a significant amount of time in jail, or end up dead or with a brain injury blending all of your food for the rest of your life
My right hand is permanently jacked up. The more you learn about striking the more you realize there is no safe way to strike. Knuckles are the most fragile bones in your body, palm strikes will jack your wrist up eventually..
Exactly, I have trained Muay Thai and served in the Army for over 12 years and I will still walk away even with my side arm on me..they are not worth it unless my daughter or me are in a life or death...I'm walking
@@PatienceKiss I was going to say that you could do palm strikes, but what you said should be considered. It is important to strike the right parts of the person’s body and to know how to grapple to some degree. Also, it would help to do wrist-strengthening exercises.
Dude is flabbergasted at the idea that a grown man won't fight in the street for no good reason 😂 it's called being an adult, Lil fella, one day maybe you'll get there
He's saying, he's not gonna risk his life over a petty conflict. I pretty much agree with him. As much fun as a bar fight sounds, the risk of going to jail for manslaughter just isn't worth it. If someone is being aggressive, then retreat from the situation is Victory. Even if someone breaks into my home, getting my family to safety is Victory. I train so if/when I HAVE to fight, I'll win. I don't want to hurt anyone, so if I don't HAVE to fight, then I won't.
if someone breaks into my home, they have already had 10 chances to leave, so therefore i’m in fear of my life and i will fight to protect my child and his mother
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It’s hard to control your pride and ego but it’s very smart to do so.
Extremely hard but once you get past it, very easy going lol
Funny thing is it’s not that hard, most people are just sensitive because they haven’t really been through shit..
No, it's not hard to have self-control 😂
@@BG_SimpliciTyNot how it works Mike Tyson had a traumatic childhood yet even he beat the shit out of someone on a plane because he couldn't control himself.
Yeah that is something we should learn and train as well.
If your gym or karate instructor sounds like this, you're in a good dojo.
Not if you are trained to run away. But sounds good to you since you are used to running
@@Rapha_YadaFarmssometimes avoiding a fight that hasn't really materialized into a fight and it's just somebody running their mouth is wise.
It's not about being scared it's about picking your battles and knowing when it's a real fight and it's just someone who you can avoid.
But if you want to call that training to run then you can think whatever you like..
@@Rapha_YadaFarms Most good places will teach you something like "An argument isn't worth your life". This is usually in the form of simply not getting into a fight. They could be concealing a knife, have a gun, or simply may just overpower you or get some good blows in that could change you forever. Its always good to know your limits and not to be over-aggressive, especially if you might not win.
@@rauldelarosa2768 key work “sometimes “ this man said at no time.
@@Rapha_YadaFarms I'm hoping you don't have kids if you are willing to let someone talk you into a fight to save your pride.
A very wise man.
Don't let 20 seconds of ignorance cost you a lifetime of pain.❤
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Well said
this rang off!
This is so true. I use to absolutely lose it when someone disrespected harshly when I was younger. God definitely was watching over my stupid ass back then. I really reacted in ways that could have put me in prison for years if the authorities were called.
😂 ... My Popz said the same thing to me when I was in high school about girls on the hunt.
That “Oh Noooo! That’s A Different Scenario” Was Pure Gold 🤣💯
It's a weapon. As soon as a weapon, multiple attackers, or family gets involved, it's a life or death situation.
At that point, running is still the best option, but if you don't have that option, you have to use your training to end the encounter ASAP, and find an opportunity to run. If you still cannot run, you're gonna have to try something else.
Some people use intimidation. Some just start breaking things. Some will just straight up kill people, but that's such a last resort, you have to be stuck with a bunch of people or in a no-win situation in order to justify it, but don't piss somebody off so much that it becomes your life or theirs. Usually, this can be avoided. You have to put Yourself in a life-threatening situation, most of the time.
Just get yourself out. Nobody has to get hurt.
@@peytongonavyuh brother that yapping is crazyyy
@@Bigl00sermanBro can't take 10 seconds to read
@@Bigl00sermanabsolute clown behavior
@@sstanford1331😂
This dude is a father. He has more important things to care about other than his pride.
This is a form of misogyny
@@Niilo2.2Nope has absolutely nothing to do with it so why even bring it up.
@@Niilo2.2LOL. Oh you're serious?
@@Niilo2.2 I feel like you too young to comprehend this guys mindset
@@Niilo2.2is actually the opposite
The best self defense advice ever folks. You win 100% of the fights that you avoid.
Technically, you're losing 100% of the fights...and that's okay.
@@mcruz4571 nah it's a 50/50 and you'll wonder how the fight would've gone for a day or 2. Cause it could really go either way depending on the person.
@@sethIIWIInot 50/50. Forfeiting is an L. Not saying you shouldn’t take the L, but a loss is a loss.
@@mcruz4571 you cant lose if you controlling the consequences.
If they want to hurt you, and you do not want to get hurt...defend and leave - you won!
I've done MMA for almost 20 years this instructor is exactly right only for my family I will risk everything. Ouussss
what’s your name and record?
@@Alexander2000_don’t wanna speak for him but u can train for 20 years and spar with no recorded fight
@@nazemkadri5824these guy hasn’t realized that there’s guys without records that spar with pros because of the knowledge and experience in the sport. 🤦🏽♂️
@@nazemkadri5824 Adding to that, not necessarily everyone is comfortable giving their info to strangers! Not everyone relies on ego
@@Alexander2000_Yeah and why ask for that? What's the point of it here? He's right. Don't fight over ego.
People tend to forget that martial arts is the art of fighting without fighting. You're not supposed to be looking for a fight. Much love & respect for the arts.
Thats Bruce Lee's martial art focus. Not all martial arts. Martial arts is deception and speed.
Um no it’s not stop watching Bruce Lee movies
@@lonewolfwildernesssurvival9443 lmao you're one of those idiots looking to get hurt 😂
And some of yall watch too much ufc. It’s like yall want to see a bloodbath just because
@@diop-duboisgaspard855 Actually he's right. Bruce Lee movies and anime they do the complete opposite. Fuck is ya'll two even talking about? lol.
I'm 71, I've been in martial arts since 1965. This Instructor is correct.
Damn, you must be a fifty time black belt
@@gaIIows Damn near 8 million people in the world boy. I’m African/Honduran & I myself was only an Amateur fighter at Sky Uppercutz in New Orleans. I’ve been training in kick boxing for 14yrs, Brazilian JiuJitsu for 6 years. The instructor is correct.
@@gaIIows Unless you have another method that no experienced material artist knows about? If so, you can show me this method you have. Sky Uppercutz, Woodmere, Louisiana.
Edit: Woodmere is only 20mins out from New Orleans, if you want anymore specific details, hmu 👍🏾.
@@DominiqueEugene-m7kmad respect bro👊
@@russell9758 Appreciate it man 💪🏾. All I do now is just coach & tech my two lil nephews along with an of their other friends that’s serious about training. I also have them on UA-cam so they can learn not to have stupid takes on certain subjects, such as other ppl lol
Best part “the more you know martial arts the less you want to fight” that is extremely true! You see things differently than you did before.
Especially when you're sparring pretty regularly, it'll humble you quick if you're overconfident. In the gym you're very unlikely to die, in the street no one is gonna stop the other guy if he's better or lucky.
That is any type of fighting style. As a boxers in my youth and military. I walk away from pretty much all fights now. I know the damage I can do if I lose control.
I even felt that way when I was learning at 11, 12, 13. I knew how bad I could hurt people, and would just go into high alert mode until the situation fizzled out.
I feel the same way, after now doing martial arts for 4 years and done 4 fights in competition.
I don't wanna fight, and only willing to for serious stuff like: protecting family, protecting children, self defense, etc... Never for ego stuff, or disagree on views, petty stuff, etc..
Obviously this guy doesn't see red when he fights. Lol
A lotta people overlook how quickly a street fight can become deadly serious. Great advice from the sensei
When i was younger i saw 2 regulars at a local bar talking smack, then went outside to settle it. one guy hit the other, who fell back and hit his head on a concrete parking bumper, was in a coma for awhile before he passed. Dude who threw the punch ended up with a manslaughter charge. That one punch ruined many lives.
@@CWLLL243 This literally happens all the time.
These guys play fight their entire lives but never been in a real one 😂😂 I respect UFC guys but a lot of these senseis never beat up anyone in their life
@@theoriginaltroll388you sound young and very inexperienced.
@@theoriginaltroll388 I’m assuming your trolling because of you’re username but if you’re not it still doesn’t take away from this being sound advice.
Fighting is for when you have no choice its not a conflict resolution skill , its to avoid greater harm .
Very smart. A wine bottle is a weapon, and self-defense kicks in.
fun fact : when a bottle explodes, all of the impact goes into the bottle so it shouldn’t really hurt (though the shards will likely cut you). Picture when you try to break a stick by hitting something : when it doesn’t break, it vibrates the heck out of you
@@armoule8596 the force of the impact on the bottle and face is the same, its the third newton law
True. Because than it becomes about your actual health. You have to defend yourself at that point.
@@armoule8596go take a physics course, that's not at all how it works 💀💀
@@armoule8596 It's a lose lose. It breaks and your scalp gets glassed, it doesn't break and you just got thumped with a glass baseball bat
People dismiss this, but the fact is that’s the best piece of bar fight advice you’ll ever hear. F*ck em, they ain’t worth it, just bail and live the rest of your life.
Nobody is dismissing this. Please shut up
@@ArcaneEiro Damn chillax
@@ArcaneEiro 2024 sucks.
naturally i wish to challenge you to a physical test of manliness................
but i fear even saying that is too threatening?!? "it's a joke to be clear"
The existence of prisoners and violent offenders begs to differ bud. @@ArcaneEiro
@@ArcaneEiro it’s dismissed every time a bar fight breaks out. Some pussy’s fragile ego gets bruised so they throw hands instead of walking away. You should get out more you may learn something.
Meekness is not to be confused with weakness, it is defined as strength under control.
The meek will inherit the earth.
This is 💯 percent true. People who are not confident about their ability to actually hurt someone will always think backing down is weakness. Ultimately you controlling the outcome and consequences of the situation if you avoid a physical confrontation.
This!!!
Dave is that you?
@@MonsterHunterPV Dave?
The art of fighting without fighting. This is a true warrior. Priorities over pride. He chooses his battles... He doesn't let his battles choose him! Wise.
He’s 💯% right. Obtain the skill to do your worst, then do your best not to! There’s a big comfort in that.
I am reminded of an old quote, author not remembered (sorry!)
"It is better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war"
We wear seatbelts as a last-ditch effort to avoid tragedy, not because we expect or want to get into a wreck!
Reminds me of a phrase attributed to various Native American tribes. “Pray for peace, but keep your knife sharp.” Or “I come with peace in my heart, but a knife on my side.” Wisdom and power held in balance.
@@AJ.Rafael "Walk Softly, but carry a big stick/gun"
Kinda funny how the same quote gets repeated throughout isolated histories
@@Slayman3909 Hehe, I was looking for that one from Roosevelt, but I bet it's as old as a mankind - Roman version: "si vis pacem para bellum".
Become a monster. Then control that monster.
"I don't care what the scenario is, I'm good." That's an awesome line lol 😂
Proceeds to say fuck a wine bottle I'm swinging
Two seconds later. Oh that’s a different scenario lollll
@@moviedetective4271😂😂😂
What if a wine bottle gets smashed over your head?
“Oh nah that’s a different scenario”😂😂😂
two people above beat me to it.. well said you two😂😂
People don't understand how dangerous street fights can be. Even if everyone walks away, doesn't mean that guy who lost won't come back with a weapon and friends.
If I'm sucker punched and not the aggressor? You better believe I'm seeking revenge in the future.
In a street fight nobody truly wins
That's right that's the other part of the problem. Fights can be extremely serious situations.
@@RealHomeRecordingget 9mmD nerd
They will and with a few friends.
He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, he who rules his spirit (self control) is better than the man who conquers a city. Proverbs 16:32
That is a very powerful proverb, and it stands true. I wish I could’ve followed that proverb during instances where I have lost my temper in my former days. But this is a very powerful proverb indeed🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Smart man. Takes so much discipline, but inner strength is self mastery.
Amen to that. It can keep you laying up a bit later at night sometimes.
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It's a paradox: You learn an art to fight and defend yourself, and at the higher levels, you learn the best defense is to avoid the fight.
True, but martial arts as many more benefits than just learning how to fight. While yes, if you were forced into a fight, you have a higher chance of survival. But even on a daily basis its strengthens your body, teaches respect, self control, and discipline. and provides a social like-minded community.
I trained for about 10 years, the fastest thing I learned was just to not fight, lol.
That's not a paradox; that's just a point of fact. You not knowing something until you learn it; is not a paradox; a paradox is something that doesn't make sense...
A paradox is like going back in time and becoming your own dad. It's a paradox, because you had to be born to go back in time; but you couldn't have been born until you went back in time -- right?
Learning defense and then hoping you never have to use it and making smart choices so you could avoid hurting people isn't a paradox; it's just being a good human who can make smart decisions.
Better to have and not need than need and not have
Better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war.
Sign of an absolutely top tier teacher right here. The good ones will teach you how to fight, the great ones will teach you the discipline to avoid it unless it's completely unavoidable.
I believe this should be the minimum requirement to be considered good. It should be taught in all places that teach martial arts and emphasized more than once to make sure that the best-trained people will make sure to be wise with their skills.
That man is a true sensei, he gave wise lessons with real scenarios where critical thinking matters most, never throw your life away for something so insignificant🙏🏾🥋☮️
I have preached this to my kids from day 1. It’s ok to BACK away from confrontation. If there’s no way out then you do everything in your power to make it back home.
And thet almost got me in jail
@@Agent_P123 What exactly did?
Wise and patient man. Everyone should aspire to have that mindset.
But here we see a wise and patient man trying to give advise to a young and emotional boy there to get the training needed to win the fights he can't wait for....
He's not running away he's running to his trunk 😂. Lol legal gun carrier... All jokes aside he spitten the real. And drawz a clear an defined line in the sand of where his prioritys
Can't agree completely.
man said "UNLESS YOU'RE ATTACKING MY FAMILY!",... i felt that
I shed a tear watching this. I was once cursed out by this stupid dude, I wanted to hurt him but I remembered by boy calling me back to hug me one more time before leaving ( I was re-watching it on the door bell before this incident). Anyway, dude was squaring up and something in me just clicked off, unlike me and I walked away. I walked away and I felt peace like a rock was lifted off me. Now the bog one was some minutes later that dude came to me tears in his eyes and was apologizing profusely. He thanked me for being the better man and walking away, he told me he was not always confrontational like that, his gf who saw every thing was too shocked to even talk, she was just too shaken and crying. Dude was like he did not know what got into him, but it switched off same way it came on immediately I walked off. Sometimes, the devil be literally calling for blood to ruin lives and destroy families, just walk away.
From one instructor to another
Thank you for saying that. It's a tough pill to swallow for a lot of men but when the people you love are waiting for you to come home then nothing else really matters.
Lol if you play fight all day but scared to death of a real one you need a new job...it's like a marine who's scared to go to war they just wanna train for it
@@theoriginaltroll388 so what would be his job? dealing the maximum amount of damage possible to a bum on the street acting aggro just because he can?
@@theoriginaltroll388retard. I can shoot a gun but doesn’t mean I’m looking to fire. These atheletes are weapons. Smart ones don’t look to fire they are treated differently in the court of law than normal people
@@theoriginaltroll388dont become a cop lol
@@theoriginaltroll388I’m guessing you’re a kid. Either that, or you’re really dumb and naive. The man NEVER said he was afraid. So let me explain. You train like this in case you find you in a situation where you can’t just talk your way out if it or walk away. Since you probably don’t have kids, I don’t expect you to understand, but one day you will if you ever have kids. Coming home to them and being alive to be able to raise them and take care of them, especially in the times we live in, is WAAAAYY more important than an ego battle, which most fights are. My advice for you is GROW UP
I want to learn from that teacher. Not just for martial arts but to develop better self control & act more intelligently in bad situations. Smart man, very wise.
@@MentalPistol Exactly! You either have it or you don't...hence learning it! That's what psychologists are for!
A kid that I went to high school with suffered a TBI in a bar fight. He smacked his head hard against a quarry tile floor and now he lives in a group home because he can't take care of himself.
This is common sense you already know
The amount of discipline he has makes him a dangerous and real martial artists
I've thought this way since I was 12. I love the wisdom. Keep teaching well brother. God bless.
Perfect... Thank God Skilled men out there have restraint and maturity.
This man has wisdom, he's capable of violence but chooses to use mind first, that's how men should be... Respect 💪👍
thats not wisdom
@@brianfeeney3936the experience that leads you to that mindset is...
Greatest weapon you own, especially if you know how to use it!!!
@@kevinlittleton3754 The human mind: the most productive and destructive force in the known universe🤓🤘
He's the real deal.... Great advice from a very intelligent man.
Thank you!
Words to live by. Listen and you’ll live longer.
Some of the best advice in a UA-cam video, ever. I don't WANT to fight, unless I HAVE to. I'm not fighting for Ego. People are relying on me, I can't go to jail over bullshit.
@pauliewalnuts-w1i 🤔 I said I am NOT risking my life over a street fight.
This man is a King. He Understands what true power is. Yet he’s not reckless with it. He understands how fragile a life force is. He is only ready to fight when it’s life or death. He has gained my deepest respect. I haven’t seen somebody training and teaching in the martial arts with this level of discipline in a long time.
he is absolutely right, the dangers of the use of violence is that in one second life can change beyond repair, forever.
isnt it beautiful thing? Imagine if we couldnt die or get crippled. people would be even worse :D
Very Respectable Man I Salute 🫡 Him Amen 🙏🏾
Some guy skipped me in line at a store and then tried to fight me when i called him out on it. I was bigger and in better shape then him. But I remembered a video of Rogan talking about how stupid and dangerous street fighting was. So I ignored him. Sounds silly but it's one of the hardest things I've ever done. I swallowed my pride and let a little douchebag run his mouth. But in return no one got hurt and I didn't have to face any legal consequences. My life is definitely better for that 🤷♂️
EXACTLY, if a guy is on 10 and youre chilling at a 1, just let him be. He's in crashout mode so for you to match that energy will also be tough. No reason to get moved by stupidity
Good on you for being able to make such a hard decision on the spot. It’s better to have a temporarily wounded ego than face/cause potentially permanent repercussions over a brief altercation that pretty soon will mean nothing to you compared to things like your own life, future, and family. It’s always good to see justice delivered to those who are deserving, but it’s almost never worth putting yourself in such a precarious position unless it’s an absolute must, respect for being able to make such a decision in a moment of stress!
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It takes a real man to walk away! Salute bro 💯
That's real strength. It's easy to act out.
This is the whole point in martial arts. Control,patience, and discipline. Thank you sir
The best advice I ever got in all my years of Muay Thai and jiu jitsu was when my instructor said to avoid a street fight at all costs and that the only way to truly win a fight was to never get into one in the first place. Put your pride and ego aside and understand it’s never worth it. Short of it being a life threatening situation do whatever you can to avoid getting into a fight in the first place
We have the same mindset and I didn't even train of any martial art. I saved money not paying for the instructor. 😂
This is one of the BEST Videos that u can teach others what NOT to do. I’ve trained MMA for over 20 yrs, and once u have Discipline and Respect which Martial Arts teaches you, then you WILL be just like this VERY SMART MAN! You already know what you’re capable of, so u don’t have to prove it to a Loser or POS how much of a Man U are! YOU and your Family already knows how big of a Man you are, so the ONLY people you need to prove anything to is the Ones u love most, which is your FAMILY!!
if you walk away from an altercation with your ego being the only thing that hurts, that's mission success
If you think about it your ego is not even hurt. Ultimately you had the power to control the outcome and consequences of a situation
Said like a grown man with something not worth losing 👍
This only works if the person is willing to allow you to leave. In real life it's much harder to just run. I have a family and i havent had a serious fight in almost 20 years thankfully but I have been in situations and a dynamic situation can easily turn ugly. Especially if you turn to run.
@@imoeazy if that was the case then no one would feel bad from walking away from a fight. It feels like a weakness because of the failure to protect something, and that's ego. The real power is being in control of the outcome and consequences as you've said and because ego doesn't like feeling weak, it becomes hard for most people to control themselves.
@@sibusisodlamini5273 true dat
Probably one of the best 'situational awareness' videos I've seen so far
"go back to my kids" he figured life out. All this other stuff means nothing.
He is 100% correct in today's world. You fight back they pull a Gun or a Knife. Might even jump you. After it's all over if it was a fight. The loser can throw you in jail now with ease. Back in the 80s 90s was the best day's. Never had to worry about what people act today.
"Unless you're attacking my family."
Shout-out to Lionheart.
On paper, he defended his family.
Johnny Walker: "......huh?"
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Yep, as soon as family or loved ones become involved, it becomes a much tougher problem to navigate. Ideally, you can keep the problem occupied, and your family can go back to the car and call for help, but if you're stuck and you really are out of options, that's a recipe for trouble.
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@@Osprey1994 For context, search "Anthony Smith you're attacking my family". My comment was a joke based on that.
The more skill you have, the more aware of which fights are worth fighting you become.
The realization that almost every fight isn't worth it is a life saver.
Love this message. Guy can fight but will do everything not to. To a limit. Real man right there.
Wow i enjoyed listening to this guy. Smart man will win every time
This guy broke it down plainly. Nice. Smart guy.
This man is ACTUALLY teaching good morals and THE truth of martial arts .. knowing the capabilities of what you can do and wanting to avoid conflict or any type confrontation.. it’s how I live .. I know how it feels like to get hurt to have an injury 1stly I wouldn’t wanna share any pain with anyone .. 2nd if I can avoid a situation by just leaving I will.. and 3rd by doing the most you can to completely avoid any issues by the time you’ve done what you could to avoid any mishaps you may have analyzed the situation enough to see what you can do next whether it be offensive or not knowing you did what you could to avoid conflict or any physical harm to you or the perp truly does give you the upper hand ❤.. that’s martial arts 🥋
Thank you for saying that
That is the difference between learning
"The moves".... vs
Learning the REALITY of combatives..
Gentleman was 💯 on point with his explanation ❤
Thing about movie though (at least some movies) is that it's usually self defense which as this guy says if someone were to smash a bottle on his head it's a different scenario
This. I don’t wanna fight because I know exactly how much damage I can do. I'd rather not.
@@farkasmactavishRight….
@@Mojave_Ranger_NCR Yes. And if I _do_ get in a fight, and win, I'll then make sure my attacker is okay.
Glad he’s in the right place . God protect these men. 🙏🏽
Such an important message to the youth that needs to be spoke more often. Fighting just isn’t worth it. Win or lose, when you’re alone to your thoughts, you’ll l feel like it wasn’t worth it 99/100 times.
He is absolutely right. The amount of willpower required to stick to it is something most people don't have.
more like willpower not to engage in fight if someone challenges :D
@@krystofcisar469I bet you win every street fight you get in and only see red when angry 👏👏👏
A strong man both mentally and physically.
My mother and jiu jitsu
Wow someone with wisdom and humility, how refreshing
A thousand percent worthy grasshopper . A mind of consequence saves many lives .
True warriors don't pick a fight, but ready to respond to one
Thank you, bro it is so wild to listen to bros who own a gym talk about just chasing fights.
Warriors do not behave this way, a warrior is someone who is willing to fight and die for what they love, not endlessly chase the illusion created by their egos.
That may have been one of man's best realizations, EGO is a real thing and awesome that we're able to acknowledge it.
i cant remember where i heard it from, but i heard a quote that was something along the lines of "sometimes in martial arts, the real fight is in your own mind. sometimes the fights are against the impulsive urges your ego will try to demand of you" (i could be crazy but i know ive heard something like that)
Dignity culture vs honor culture.
He maintains dignity.
More importantly, compassion.
Not only is it pragmatic, since any fight you get in means YOU could get injured, but even your attacker has a right to not be harmed.
Thank you for saying that
@@farkasmactavishfalse, just stupid and pseudo virtue lol.
Now that’s a man who’s gonna be happy and healthy for a long time in life
This man is dangerous..respect to this guy for the self control, he knows he can possibly kill someone with these ninja skills
Wow... I'm in love with his words...youngin was jus taught the best lesson in life...good man bruh
Dude is wise and humble and most likely able to win each fight he gets into…take notes “tough guys”
Shanks IRL. I aspire to have that kind of outlook every day and it’s helped a lot with my road rage over the years
Nice that someone else had the same thought.
People underestimate how easy it is to get so much better at fighting than the regular person just learning proper punching form and shadow boxing every once in awhile will make you a better fighter than the average person when you are actually good you become scared of yourself when you fear what you could do to that person more than that person then there's no point in risking that situation
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@@jaredklapp2552 blah blah blah. As soon as you step into the streets even just a little bit, a few years of training means nothing.
@@jackjack4412 I hope nobody feels that, goodness.
Literally gained so much wisdom from this man in this moment 🤔 or the pride increase the intellect 🙏🏾
Thats bucket list compliment. Thats why I do it 🙏
I've taken boxing training, was in the Army for 8 years, taken some wrestling training, moderate hand to hand combat training, served over 2 years in combat zones, but I've never been in a fight in school or on the streets. I always manage to talk my way out of them. Talking is so much less painful than fighting. But, if it ever came to where I had absolutely no choice, I'd fight like my life depended on it because it does.
That’s called Maturity and Facts boys and girls
He knows his value. He knows whats important. He umderstand consequence.
That's What I call wisdom!!!
It's so easy to walk away. 🤔
This stuff is too true😭 It’s not being cowardly, majority of situations ain’t even worth it. Plus you don’t know what they got. It’s like I always say I can’t Tornado Kick a bullet😂
The one smart man out of a million.
I rock with this guy fr, everything he said is on the money
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The best advice given by an instructor!!
Thank you for saying that
Best way to win a fight is walk away. If they are all talk theyll get fed up. If they actually attack youll see it coming and potentially be in a defensive position already.
Either way you are the one who stays calm and in control.
Very smart sensi 👏
This is absolutely right, once you can tell someone’s got a fighting background it’s either gonna be quick or an all out brawl
Most people that are legit don’t feel the need to pick fights it’s usually bums that do
Avoid the situation..Until the situation can 't be avoided any longer....
...then we pull, out the strap.
This instructor is spot-on. I get so tired of these fighting videos that treat street encounters like they’re MMA bouts. MMA isn’t street fighting-out there, someone could pull a knife or gun and end things in an instant. Trying to prove you’re tough just isn’t worth it. I’ve seen too many videos showing the risks.
He telling the young boy valuable life lesson. And he's so serious and genuine about it and I'm the same way
That man pretty much summed a lot of the legal reasons as to why people avoid fights in Taiwan. The fight may be fun but the legal ramifications aren’t worth it.
A Taiwanese WC instructor once explained to me that if you have a martial arts background and you send a person to the hospital, get ready to pay for their bills because you had the unfair advantage and still decided to put them in a position where they end up in the hospital. That really reworked my perspective coming back to the US and I wish more people saw it the same way.
Smart af
A good instructor starts their lessons with the importance of striking and blocking.
A great instructor starts their lessons with the importance of de-escalating.
Nah, you give the casuals what they paid for and build confidence first. After the first level test, though, you gotta remind em they've only been striking pads and grappling unarmed people. In a street fight, there's a really strong chance of a weapon, a second attacker, a much stronger attacker, a lucky shot that disrupts the rest of your fight, an object you trip on, etc.
This guy is actually legit. If the court finds out you've done karate/martial arts and you fought someone they charge you like a person who used a weapon.
That combat instructor was spitting facts. The more knowledgeable of martial arts and how fights escalate you are, the more aware you are as to the risks that come with engaging in one is. Even though I would throw hands in way more of those situations than him, I can't help but respect his reasoning as to why he'll avoid fighting.
it sounds like fear to me...
@@matttheamerican3766 I suppose that's a valid conclusion.
The only winner from a fight is one who never gets hurt and never hurts others. The only way to guarantee that is to avoid fights whenever possible.
That "Oh no that's a completely different scenario" was bro wishing someone would 😂
he's so right. Know of a couple of scenarios that involve pride - they all don't end well.. people don't know there own strength and people don't know what other people are capable of. Sometime it isn't even violence. Some people will try to ruin your life because they think you slighted them... its ridiculous.
The greatest martial art for self defense is the 100 yard dash.
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People on the internet dont realize how quickly your entire life can change from 1 fight. You could either spend a significant amount of time in jail, or end up dead or with a brain injury blending all of your food for the rest of your life
My right hand is permanently jacked up. The more you learn about striking the more you realize there is no safe way to strike. Knuckles are the most fragile bones in your body, palm strikes will jack your wrist up eventually..
Exactly, I have trained Muay Thai and served in the Army for over 12 years and I will still walk away even with my side arm on me..they are not worth it unless my daughter or me are in a life or death...I'm walking
@@PatienceKiss I was going to say that you could do palm strikes, but what you said should be considered. It is important to strike the right parts of the person’s body and to know how to grapple to some degree. Also, it would help to do wrist-strengthening exercises.
Self discipline is self love.
This man explained exactly how i think
"You can do whatever you want to me but as soon as you touch my family its to the death"
Guys, he’s just a chill guy fr
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Dude is flabbergasted at the idea that a grown man won't fight in the street for no good reason 😂 it's called being an adult, Lil fella, one day maybe you'll get there
blacks cant understand this
He's saying, he's not gonna risk his life over a petty conflict.
I pretty much agree with him. As much fun as a bar fight sounds, the risk of going to jail for manslaughter just isn't worth it.
If someone is being aggressive, then retreat from the situation is Victory.
Even if someone breaks into my home, getting my family to safety is Victory.
I train so if/when I HAVE to fight, I'll win.
I don't want to hurt anyone, so if I don't HAVE to fight, then I won't.
if someone breaks into my home, they have already had 10 chances to leave, so therefore i’m in fear of my life and i will fight to protect my child and his mother
everything else i agree with you sir 👏🏼
The most valuable video I’ve watched today!!!💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿