How I changed my life and made multi 6 figures, stopped being a loner, and created my dream career

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  • HOW TO MAKE 2023 YOUR BEST YEAR YET!! I wanted to make a video all about how to design your 2023! Prepping for and creating your dream life starting in 2023! I'll teach you how to make a vision board and walk you through 7 steps to create goals that actually work.
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  • @lilyperez9914
    @lilyperez9914 Рік тому +319

    thank you for this 💟
    for those that want to copy and paste in their notes, here are the tips. i tried my best compiling the key parts.
    1. reprogram your mind
    (sit down with your core beliefs, and change your subconscious thoughts that hold you back)
    2. the note to self
    (write about what you’re proud of, and reflect on the last year. write it down and let it go. put photo of self that invokes emotional response. don’t do when highly stressed)
    3. set your goals
    (do the first two steps before getting here, you’ll feel lighter. get a new journal every year to keep track of yourself, your thoughts, and your goals. Helps with confidence boost when looking back on what you’ve accomplished)
    4. make an action plan
    (3-4 action steps per month)
    5. make a vision board
    (put it everywhere, in sight in mind!)
    6. create a routine
    (center yourself for at least 5 minutes. you can meditate and/or journal. take a walk outside. The routine doesn’t have to be super elaborate)
    7. reevaluate your environment
    (reevaluate relationships/people since they can do a lot of projection. if you’re stuck in this environment do not let it affect how you see yourself. Why let someone else determine whether you believe in yourself or not? Again, it’s a projection of theirs, not a reflection of you)

  • @naty1012
    @naty1012 Рік тому +1097

    Best way to re-program and renew your mind is with the words of the Bible. What it says about you is true, meditate on it and accept nothing else.

  • @Chosengirl1
    @Chosengirl1 Рік тому +121

    This is a very valuable video. Alexis thank you for inspiring us. Last year I wrote my goals and literally for the first time in 5 years I saw 70% of them come with prayer and consistent action with discipline.

  • @Bellydance-cb7mo
    @Bellydance-cb7mo 9 місяців тому +2

    This video is fantastic! I've been following your steps to program my 2024 since december of 2023 when I was in a really tough spot after a terrible year, and I already feel like it has made a huge impact in my life!
    I was extremely unmotivated and now I feel like I have clear goals with a doable plan. Your step by step plan has allowed me to feel in control and hopefull instead of overwhelmed and I'm doing so much better now.
    Thank you so much!❤

    • @RasheedahAsmr
      @RasheedahAsmr 2 місяці тому

      I'm next! Congrats on your success!

  • @nebiyathamza
    @nebiyathamza Рік тому +15

    I’m not big on these videos but GIRL! This is GOLD. It was you saying you kept your goals in front of you in every room and as your screensavers for me! Manifestation is key sis! I love this. You have my like 14:44

  • @jevannaaugustine4175
    @jevannaaugustine4175 Рік тому +69

    I meditated on this same message this morning. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Dedicated to changing my mindset this year to support my goals. I love the letter to self idea. I'm definitely going to try it!

  • @datingandlifeadvicechannel7534

    I like mentors like this strong women my main tip is staying away from haters or people who are not on your level! Fuck them!!

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Рік тому +22

    'it's like trying to climb mount everest without ever going into training' SO TRUE! 💜Alexis I am glad you touched on the importance of writing goals out in short form, I think I read about it a while back and it works honestly, if anything the mind responds better to images. Great advice 💜

  • @BreesBites
    @BreesBites Рік тому +10

    Yess I do similar things as well! The Lord tells us to write the vision and make it plain in Habukuk 2:2 so I definitely believe in writing out my goals and vision and having them within sight ♥️

  • @blackmownkey
    @blackmownkey Рік тому +6

    I just printed out the Year Compass (free online download) after hearing a few very dynamic women talk about it and the impact that it had on their life that they hadn't even realized until they reread it when they prepared to complete their next year's Year Compass. It sounds a lot like what you've created, and i can't wait to receive your blueprint and work through it. I sometimes find that I trospection is not easy for me (or comfortable) so at my big age, I'm hoping to do more of it and start to see some measurable differences in my life, even if it's just to wash the dishes every night and wash my baseboards 3 times a year🤣🤣🤣

  • @godsgirl7201
    @godsgirl7201 Рік тому +3

    Prioritize consistency prioritize consistency ❤️✨😭👏🏼

  • @yezisdocs
    @yezisdocs Рік тому +3

    Ase! This video has been such a rev up for me as I prepare for the Tru Nu Year (spring equinox). Manifesting and aligning with my dream life, career, and goals. This been a lonng journey of working though the ennviroment of lower vibrations as you mentioned in the later half of the video, I felt that!👏🏾👏🏾 I am finally walking into my dream home after years of consistancy to myself and my goals and truly beleaving in myself. Much gratitude for sharing your story, tips, and guide along the road to becoming a Melanated Boss Goddess !!

  • @michellelaster5182
    @michellelaster5182 Рік тому +5

    I have watched this video so many times! I keep re-watching the videos in this series. I am obsessed with my goals and vision!

  • @dannievig
    @dannievig Рік тому +3

    This video has come to me in perfect timing. I started journaling at the end of 2022, and going into 2023. I moved country and I stopped. I have STRUGGLED finding that path again and this has inspired me to pick it all back up and really focus on manifesting the life I wish to have. Thank you

  • @isusiso581
    @isusiso581 Місяць тому

    Alexis, I am so glad I found your channel! Thanks for the wholesome and gentle content. I am so gonna do this whole thing this week for the rest of 2024 and then do it again at the end of the year. I am already excited :D

  • @mendingwithtanya
    @mendingwithtanya Рік тому +7

    Thanks for covering these steps. It’s confirmation for me! I pray everyone view this video receive their heart desires. Best wishes to an awesome 2023🥰🙏🏾🥰

  • @owhat615
    @owhat615 Рік тому +1

    Hold on sister, don't fool these people, you're successful because you're disciplined, grounded, and your a fighter😂😂😂😂 seriously some people are so beat up mentally, they just give up. I hope 2024 gives these people a year of acceleration because they need it.❤

  • @shannijoissaint6325
    @shannijoissaint6325 Рік тому +36

    We can make our dream a reality. I click this video so fast 😂 it speaks truth💛

    • @luwjournals
      @luwjournals Рік тому +1

      yes, you will make your dream come true, just believe yourself 👍

  • @KittyCatParty
    @KittyCatParty 10 місяців тому +1

    Did not see this video until now but will be doing this for 2024! would love to see people with updated comments on how their 2023 year went! Thank you so much for this video and your channel- I have been in a dark place and watching this video already makes me feel more hopeful, confident and deserving of my dreams 🥲

  • @SOLTANA17
    @SOLTANA17 Рік тому

    It's March 2023, I have just found Alexis's channel and I've watched this video like 3-4 times.

  • @HolisticWitchofMd
    @HolisticWitchofMd Рік тому +1

    I saw your title and was like ‘Yes ! that’s what I want!’ New to the channel and already subscribed. Great way of breaking it down.

  • @kynnedysimone133
    @kynnedysimone133 Рік тому +8

    I see so many of these videos but this is the first one where I really feel inspired and motivated!! All of your tips had a really fresh take and I will definitely start incorporating these into my life TODAY!

  • @cigdem82
    @cigdem82 2 місяці тому

    Girl, i just LOVED your energy 🥰 You seem so grounded ! Thank you for the tips 💓

  • @pln4679
    @pln4679 Рік тому +6

    Dang Alexis, you look so good!! Been following you for about 2 almost 3 yrs now and I just love your content!!! So relatable, aesthetically pleasing, and motivating! There was a period in time where I’d start my day w your vids so I can feel like I have an accountability partner. Wishing you a great year and may God bless you with all your heart’s desires❤🎉

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 Рік тому +11

    This is the video that I didn't know that I needed! I am excited to manifest the life of my dreams! Thank you Alexis! 🙏🏻💞✨

  • @Kellicolor
    @Kellicolor Рік тому +5

    Wow just opened my app and you’re the number one video. Been going into my designing season lately! Go girl🎉

    • @goddess22233
      @goddess22233 Рік тому

      Literally , she never pop up before ❤

  • @essaywriter6892
    @essaywriter6892 Рік тому +1

    2023 is the YEAR!

  • @olivialovesherself4793
    @olivialovesherself4793 Рік тому

    one thing for sure, your underratedddd everyone needs to watch thisss

  • @JosephDreams777
    @JosephDreams777 Рік тому

    Wen she says She sippin on Celcius she got me lol U are so GORGEOUS BTW QUEEN! Cant wait to come accross beautiful like-minded Women much like yourself in my life 💫🌹

  • @thechrisverhoeven
    @thechrisverhoeven Рік тому +12

    Not the typical tips you see usual. Thank you for this, Alexis.
    My goal for this year is to get back into shape. Or at least, back to the 76-80 kilogram. I've been slacking and feel bad about it. My 2nd goal for this year is reach 10.000 subscribers for my youtube channel. I know that sounds crazy if you think about me having 96 subscribers just now.
    But I happen to believe that if others can achieve that, there's no reason I shouldn't be able to do that as well.
    I'm going to take your advice and create my vision board this week. I'm familiar with the law of attraction and have read the book, The Secret. So I'm curious to see where that will go.

  • @cherrylynvdpijl
    @cherrylynvdpijl 9 місяців тому

    I love your content, thank you for making it.
    I am using this video + steps for 2024 🙏🏻

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites Рік тому +5

    Thank you for this video! I agree, it all starts in the mind :) I am working on my mindset as well through journaling and self-reflection :)

  • @ethomascreative
    @ethomascreative Рік тому +5

    LOVE LOBE LOBE your cool calm collected delivery of such wonderful info! Thank you so much! Happy 2023!

  • @DaisyGiulietta
    @DaisyGiulietta Рік тому

    I started manifesting and making vision boards in march 2023 and it already helped me reach so many of my goals. thank you for this clear video!

  • @MM-op6ys
    @MM-op6ys Рік тому

    I can see how you love your notepads, pens and being organized. I am enjoying it just watching you take pleasure in your techniques.

  • @julia77876
    @julia77876 Рік тому +4

    I will definitely use the note to self tool ! I think it’s a great way to reflect on yourself and the year not just the negative things but the positive things that you’ve accomplished which will give you motivation for the next year moving forward !!! 😁

  • @soulincolor
    @soulincolor Рік тому +1

    I so appreciate your driven yet down to Earth approach to life and goal setting. I’m so happy for you; living your best life and helping others live theirs.

  • @conversationswithadrianne
    @conversationswithadrianne Рік тому

    Not even 2 minutes in and I'm SMASHING the "like" button.

  • @KikiDiamante
    @KikiDiamante Рік тому +1

    Ohhh! I am applying this now as I am watching! Thanks, Sis! ❤

  • @vedakin
    @vedakin Рік тому

    Just seen this video mid year but going to have a go! Its been a rocky start so great time to reset. Ill check back in for new year! ❤

  • @loberrysnowberry
    @loberrysnowberry Рік тому +2

    Thumbs up before even watching just bc I am proud of you for making such huge changes ❤

  • @ashatashabazz1262
    @ashatashabazz1262 Рік тому

    Watching your videos makes me happy for what my personal future will look like

  • @westendburrow
    @westendburrow Рік тому +1

    This is giving me positive vibes!!

  • @uniquelyshellz
    @uniquelyshellz Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this. This is something I am currently struggling with regards to reprogramming the way I think about myself. I am taking it one step at a time.

  • @Mascaraismybestfriend
    @Mascaraismybestfriend Рік тому

    I'm going to try 2023 has already been pretty good tbh I started working out again and running and I feel really good about myself I've been more happy and been being more myself and embracing my personality

  • @iamdominiquewill
    @iamdominiquewill Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this, I'm excited to try this. I have already started making healthy changes especially with my time and energy and so I do believe this planning would be worth it ✨💜

  • @maximizedmoney
    @maximizedmoney Рік тому

    This was an excellent breakdown! Especially the vision boards because mine were definitely out of sight, and out of mind. I’m gonna try your method. Thank you ❤

  • @nicoletiana
    @nicoletiana Рік тому

    THIS IS FACTS. im always coming back to youtube, all these normal jobs isnt for me, idk why i keep trying and forcing it.... whewh, god help us.

  • @cheri__anne
    @cheri__anne Рік тому

    your videos are literally unmatched.

  • @kris.listen748
    @kris.listen748 Рік тому +1

    This was fantastic. I love how you added pictures to your journal. I'll be going journal shopping today. Thanks so much!
    I am now learning reprogramming your mind is critical to living a harmonious life! Chapter 3 in Think and Grow Rich goes in-depth on that topic.

  • @tanikae966
    @tanikae966 Рік тому +1

    This is so fantastic ,helpful and thorough .💕🙏🏽 thank you . I will be rewatching

  • @lil_scar
    @lil_scar Рік тому

    so happy i found your channel, your videos have changed my mindset so much! going to have a huge restructure of my life, goals and what i want out of life tonight and thats all thanks to your videos! sending all the love and good energy your way ✨

  • @VIEWSBYNESS
    @VIEWSBYNESS Рік тому +2

    Aww! I love the note to self Idea definitely doing that. ✍🏼And thank you for sharing the link to the goal designer I’m going to use that for my vision board party 🎉

  • @KimAkia
    @KimAkia Рік тому +1

    Thank you!!! this was great, I did this and I immediately felt a shift

  • @heavenlysound_worship
    @heavenlysound_worship Рік тому +2

    Love this! Especially the monthly goals and yearly note to self! Thank You :)

  • @k.luuu21
    @k.luuu21 Рік тому

    Omg you are an angel !! You are so helpful! I’ve been on the search on how to journal better and break it down 🧡 thank you so much !!

  • @TamaraMashego
    @TamaraMashego Рік тому +2

    These tips are in line with everything I’m working on, thank you❤

  • @rebelwithacause.
    @rebelwithacause. Рік тому +1

    This is actually a really good video, so different from the repetitive videos I see.

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 Рік тому +3

    You are looking dazzling and beautiful

  • @Itsskayah
    @Itsskayah Рік тому +2

    omg i love your videos they motivate me so much 🧡.I definitely am excited for this new year. cant wait for the printouts!!

  • @twiheart4life
    @twiheart4life Рік тому

    Your voice 😍 and your advice has been amazing to me

  • @luwjournals
    @luwjournals Рік тому +1

    Thanks for your tips ❤ yes, always believe yourself 👍

  • @merazhroberts
    @merazhroberts Рік тому

    Thank you soooooooo much for the print outs. I'm trying to change my life financially just all around . I want to level up.

  • @dominique046
    @dominique046 Рік тому

    Have fun creating your life! Thanks for the video

  • @violainecornelius4895
    @violainecornelius4895 Рік тому

    Yes come to Cape Town Alexis. Make sure you come after September though coz, we have our summer when you have winter.

  • @korindaily
    @korindaily Рік тому

    Thank you for making this video❤
    Its so helpful and insightful☺️🤗🌱 thanks for sharing your process with us and the planning and advice for following our goals

  • @maineventt23
    @maineventt23 Рік тому

    This was all for me, thank you so much. this is exciting, good luck to you on your journey.

  • @ceciliagarding4271
    @ceciliagarding4271 Рік тому +2

    Really great tips! :) Will try them , go girl!

  • @goddesslifecommunity
    @goddesslifecommunity Рік тому +1

    SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!
    LOVE YOU SIS SUCH AN INSPIRATION

  • @Elicialee22
    @Elicialee22 Рік тому +2

    I love your energy, I really needed this!

  • @20n30somethings
    @20n30somethings Рік тому

    I love the ‘note to self’ I’ll try it❤

  • @barkspasenine
    @barkspasenine Рік тому

    I wasn't expecting much honestly, but this was actually a good video!

  • @bronwynlandis
    @bronwynlandis Рік тому

    Would love to see that finances video!! Abundance is flowing freely into my life!

  • @artofthebart
    @artofthebart Рік тому +1

    I am doing this this year, but I am studying the Word, and going all in with God. I feel as though the reason I watched all of these kinds of videos, and ones about manifesting, used subliminals, scripted, controlled every aspect of my life just trying to succeed- but no matter how HARD I toiled away and was doing the most- was giving more to myself than a thanks to God... Nothing ever worked. I have since repented, and I want to put my trust in God- REAL trust. If it pleases God- he will start crossing off my goals because he wants us to choose life, and to live in his glory. Remember this- if we could do it all on our own- we wouldn't need Jesus. Choose him.

  • @sirencobra
    @sirencobra Рік тому +15

    I need to get rid of the negative mentality of my mother

  • @jwlewis3661
    @jwlewis3661 Рік тому

    Saving the video so I can come back!

  • @mundarakisa
    @mundarakisa Рік тому +1

    Wow I needed this girl! Thank you so much for sharing- new subbie here ❤

  • @missmirusrobinson6913
    @missmirusrobinson6913 Рік тому

    Yes I needed this video!! See u in 12 months!

  • @Freedomfastlane100
    @Freedomfastlane100 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing, I heard each sentence, great delivery. 👏

  • @storiesbydesirae
    @storiesbydesirae Рік тому

    Thank you! A motivating and mindful video for goals, dreams, mindset, and routine. Thank you.

  • @ValentinaGulpe
    @ValentinaGulpe Рік тому +1

    What a fantastic channel :) from one creator to another! GREAT WORK! love it

  • @sierraarmstrong4111
    @sierraarmstrong4111 Рік тому

    I'm really struggling to get out of my shell and passed my fears!!!! I don't even care about others judgements it's MY OWN JUDGEMENT AND BELIEFS ABOUT MYSELF that have kept me so stuck. "Just doing it" don't cut it. It's literally paralyzing there has to be a way!! I have a really hard time trying to dig deep, I sont know how I'm "feeling" I don't "feel it in my body" it takes alot to make me physically feel an emotion like anger bc I get very hot and irritated and blow up, scared only noticed if the baby almost falls or I almost fall asleep driving. Sadness every so often especially when I lost my mother in law, she was my partner in crime. Most of the time I just feel blank and stressed.

  • @natashaspencer8831
    @natashaspencer8831 Рік тому +1

    Thank you. You are a great inspiration to me. I hope you will make it to Jamaica soon!!!!

  • @invmi9169
    @invmi9169 Рік тому

    Your voice reminds me of the Feminine Universe channel. Great video.

  • @nicholasofficial4141
    @nicholasofficial4141 Рік тому

    im obsessed with this video

  • @Jurnee2me
    @Jurnee2me Рік тому

    Very informative video, I plan to incorporate the idea with picture and letter to self.

  • @secretxasha1844
    @secretxasha1844 Рік тому

    I manifested your video. Thanks for the insights ❤I love it!

  • @sydonie22A
    @sydonie22A Рік тому +1

    I love your vlogs 🤍🤍

  • @stephaniecombs8438
    @stephaniecombs8438 Рік тому

    I really really needed this. New subscribe from one video. Thank you! 🥰

  • @GoldenKay19
    @GoldenKay19 Рік тому

    Very nive and well structured video we can see that you really want to help with this video thanks for sharing 💖

  • @oceanglitter576
    @oceanglitter576 Рік тому

    thank you so much! can't wait to start on the tips and see how things blossom

  • @ceeforyourself
    @ceeforyourself Рік тому

    I'm glad I watched this, thank you!

  • @Lovekesh901
    @Lovekesh901 Рік тому +1

    Happy new year 🎉🎉🎉🎉 i clicked so fast!

  • @itsci
    @itsci Рік тому

    I’m glad I watched this video!! Thank you for the motivation.

  • @drpreetdevi
    @drpreetdevi Рік тому

    I honestly love the essence of this video

  • @zeezeenu
    @zeezeenu Рік тому

    Amazing tips but also you have such a beautiful apartment 🪬

  • @merazhroberts
    @merazhroberts Рік тому

    Love your home ! Love your videos ❤️

  • @AlexMugume976
    @AlexMugume976 Рік тому

    Best video on this topic! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏

  • @accordingtodaye
    @accordingtodaye Рік тому

    Hey sis ! Love this self development

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 Рік тому

    Such good advice and tools here thanks!!