Destiny Moderates MrGirl vs Lav Debate (Gaslighting, Boundaries, Abuse)

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  • @KHJohan
    @KHJohan 2 роки тому +99

    Hours of mrgirl and some lady not understanding basic human interaction

    • @connor4169
      @connor4169 2 роки тому +14

      Truly a woman moment here. She never adds anything to any debate/panel she touches

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 2 роки тому +9

      @@connor4169
      Pretty sure Mr. Girl is a man, even though he's named "Mr. Girl."

    • @ryanwbourquin
      @ryanwbourquin 8 місяців тому

      @@romnesia7729yeah no shit thats what a Mr is..like Mr
      green os a man but not green.

    • @tombombadil-ej7lf
      @tombombadil-ej7lf 2 місяці тому +1

      its hilarious looking at these comments from parasocial video game audiences not knowing how normal these conversations actually are between people who are talking about long and deep relationships. anytime anything is slightly uncomfortable dgg resorts to npc takes like "this is like two robots talking to each other"

  • @unimpressedalchemist
    @unimpressedalchemist 2 роки тому +24

    Had this on in the background and forgot this was a Destiny "reaction" video until 6 minutes in when he says "uh oh".

  • @squirrel1331
    @squirrel1331 2 роки тому +98

    I love it when Mr girls actions contradict his stated principles and motivations

    • @user-uq4gr5nl5o
      @user-uq4gr5nl5o 2 роки тому

      You can see his brain short circuiting lol

    • @ataridc
      @ataridc 2 роки тому

      you are filled with hate demon squirrel

    • @dylankempthorne
      @dylankempthorne 2 роки тому +3

      Not defending him but what did he contradict?

    • @cybersteampunk191
      @cybersteampunk191 2 роки тому +10

      @@dylankempthorneI think in one of his first interviews with destiny he stated that he despised the confrontational/angry conversations being had online about topics and wanted to lower the temperature. His main thing was spreading empathy and being empathetic of other people.

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 2 роки тому +1

      @@cybersteampunk191 yeah but his main thing is also setting boundaries for yourself

  • @mydroogies5529
    @mydroogies5529 2 роки тому +58

    A conversation between a recovering narcissist (mrgirl) and a newly formed one (lav)

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 2 роки тому +5

      In what ways has he shown himself to be recovering?

    • @mydroogies5529
      @mydroogies5529 2 роки тому +7

      @@onlyuseful6962 *pending recovery

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 2 роки тому +1

      He’s a recovering people pleaser, him setting boundaries is not narcissistic

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 2 роки тому +5

      @@doobas2171 Heh, right. I know he's said that, but if you believe that dude has ever tried to please anyone other than himself, you're gullible as hell.

    • @shiiswii4136
      @shiiswii4136 Місяць тому

      dgg whenever someones disagreeing with destiny: bridge burning yayyy. meanwhile they blame the bridges that have been burnt on the other person, not on DGG or destiny. this cult is hilarious to watch

  • @rubssi8741
    @rubssi8741 2 роки тому +21

    I was actually losing my mind at the amount of cutting off from Mr. Girl. The amount of talking towards the end has to be 65% Mr. Girl, 25% Destiny and 10% Lav.

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 2 роки тому

      Because she’s a slippery and scatterbrained debater

  • @paddlingcat1339
    @paddlingcat1339 2 роки тому +23

    I keep watching 3:05:45 to hear Destiny scream "Shut the fuck up. I'm a big boy, okay?"

  • @jakecalhoun5187
    @jakecalhoun5187 4 місяці тому +4

    The beginning of the end started here.

    • @Asilaysheepless
      @Asilaysheepless 4 місяці тому

      Haha foreal though

    • @shiiswii4136
      @shiiswii4136 Місяць тому

      disagree with destiny = eventually pushed out of the community, and the narrative of it will be that you "stabbed destiny in the back" rofl. dgg cant handle destiny losing so they turn on anyone who beats him in a debate

  • @kobitz9001
    @kobitz9001 2 роки тому +18

    2:55:06-2:56:23 the moment Destiny actually tells Mr.Girl wtf his problem is.

  • @opiumaddict8693
    @opiumaddict8693 2 роки тому +44

    im a black guy

  • @ultraviolenc3
    @ultraviolenc3 2 роки тому +32

    It was the perfect example of pseudo intellectual talk.

  • @FondestAlloy56
    @FondestAlloy56 2 роки тому +7

    Wow this months episode of "Mrgirl yells at a woman and Destiny helps after" was pretty good can't wait for next month 😀 😊 😭

  • @alexanderfrench9236
    @alexanderfrench9236 3 місяці тому +1

    The hilarious thing is that MrGirl is dead right on his read of Lav. And Steve missed it, not fully tracking the initial conversation. He does also correctly read MrGirl later in his feed back. And because he is right about MrGirl's excesses he incorrectly determined that MrGirl was wrong about Lav.

  • @GeetardHD
    @GeetardHD 2 роки тому +16

    God what an absolutely horrible conversation. Mrgirl calls having hope: "trying to keep an iron grip". And after that whole fucking conversation, that feels incredibly telling.

  • @classypotato9255
    @classypotato9255 Рік тому +6

    Incredibly interesting seeing mrgirl's narrative about Lav vompletely chsnge

  • @byronbraddock
    @byronbraddock 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm not a Lav fan at all but when they said she was more aggressive than Max, I disagree. I think she was just more aggressive than they were expecting.

  • @Aya..19
    @Aya..19 2 роки тому +2

    God this conversation was fucking exhausting.

  • @Tabnito
    @Tabnito 2 роки тому +3

    I watched it all, and have no idea what just happened. I was working and playing games and all that, so I didn't have my attention fully on it, but there were parted where I just tried to focus and I just...What is happening.

  • @backtonovember5306
    @backtonovember5306 Рік тому +2

    Ohhhhh mannnn this aged wonderfully

  • @OmniUniv
    @OmniUniv 2 роки тому +6

    And born in 1999 yet she says she not a zoomer I swear cry some more

  • @yellowknite9
    @yellowknite9 2 роки тому +22

    Lav and Brittney are both cringe, Dan is still based

  • @nwgverified
    @nwgverified 2 роки тому +4

    Mrgirl derailing these convos on purpose i swear

  • @christopherwillson
    @christopherwillson 2 роки тому +3

    As much as a mess as this was I think it's a work of art

  • @VinnieGer
    @VinnieGer 2 роки тому

    That piano work is straight up bumpin’. So happy it returned this debate.

  • @xilofone8166
    @xilofone8166 2 роки тому +9

    ok i always liked mr girl through destiny, never went into his stuff
    but this time he clearly lost, you can even tell at times he loses himself by himself
    he always impressed me and proved somehow he was never wrong, if you try to interpret what hes saying but this time he was 100% unfair and maniacal

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 2 роки тому +3

      Why did you like him? What do people find interesting about him?

    • @xilofone8166
      @xilofone8166 2 роки тому +1

      what dont you
      hes infinitely sincere and has the most unexpected thinking process

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 2 роки тому +4

      @@xilofone8166
      He's incredibly bad faith. He never admits when he's wrong, and he never extends olive branches. He has absolutely infuriating double standards, where he gets to talk as long as he wants about absolutely nothing without interruption, but the moment someone talks, he jumps in like a prick.
      I swear, the only people that genuinely enjoy MrGirl's are terminally online, borderline inçels

    • @xilofone8166
      @xilofone8166 2 роки тому +1

      well you clearly doesnt get it

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 2 роки тому +4

      @@xilofone8166
      Great explanation. And great grammar, from a typical mrgirl fan

  • @foxmlder2379
    @foxmlder2379 22 дні тому +1

    Mr girl makes me crawl out of my skin. How did he ever have any followers of his own

  • @StFido
    @StFido 2 роки тому +14

    This convo really went off the rails. I felt bad for lav by the end.

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 2 роки тому +9

      I feel bad for anyone that has ever had a conversation with Mr. Girl.

    • @wartortise3599
      @wartortise3599 2 роки тому +4

      I feel bad for Lav every time I see her, she's not a debater and it actually hurts to watch

    • @ataridc
      @ataridc 2 роки тому +16

      @@wartortise3599 She is literally forcing herself into these conversations. Why does anyone feel bad for her?

    • @thepubquiz3198
      @thepubquiz3198 2 роки тому +4

      @@ataridc Having these debate's/conversations on streams is obviously something she wants to pursue, but she's new to it, and she's kind of throwing herself into the deep end, as this opportunity has presented itself to her.
      If you saw a young basketball player, playing their first game, and struggling a little bit with the pressure, can you not feel bad for them ?
      And then throw into the mix the opposing team arguably not playing fairly, and that makes the young basketball player appear like a bad player to some fans, can you not feel bad for them ?

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 2 роки тому

      @@thepubquiz3198 not playing fairly? Please, Mr white knight, how was max not playing fair ?

  • @HostileTakeover555
    @HostileTakeover555 2 роки тому +8

    Ugh this girl is unbearable. He’s providing content and entertainment and she’s blathering on and on. He was right to tell her to get to the point. She’s so self absorbed.

  • @thescarygary
    @thescarygary 2 роки тому +12

    No one owes anyone sex. It's not abusive to deny sex.

    • @amazin7006
      @amazin7006 2 роки тому

      It is abusive to use it as a tool of coercion
      and more importantly, a society where sex can only be had through coercion or self-sacrifice is doomed to fail. A society full of incels will collapse on itself from hypergamy

    • @thescarygary
      @thescarygary 2 роки тому +1

      @@amazin7006 If someone manipulates me, I'm not having sex with them. How I feel matters just as much as anyone else. What does any of this have to do with incels?

    • @StFido
      @StFido 2 роки тому +11

      It’s not necessarily about owing anyone sex, it’s more about using sex as a weapon. If you say something like “if you do this I’m not going to have sex with you”, or use it as a reward for good behavior that’s pretty toxic.
      Sex should be something you do because you want to not something you use to get what you want out of someone.

    • @thescarygary
      @thescarygary 2 роки тому

      @@StFido I agree. If someone is scream crying in their office I'm not going to be interested in doing anything with them. That's just me.

    • @StFido
      @StFido 2 роки тому +3

      That’s understandable but if you were to be like “if you keep crying we’re not having sex for a week” that’s a huge problem IMO.

  • @MrAndyCretin
    @MrAndyCretin 2 роки тому +2

    Mrgirl should just date Lav.

  • @bozilla1996
    @bozilla1996 2 роки тому +3

    I hate when MrG cusses it always feels forced like hey I'm cussing I added emphasis and said it Abit louder so focus on me and what I'm saying I just wanna make fun of him about it 😂

    • @SBF-qv9jd
      @SBF-qv9jd 2 роки тому

      Holy fuck, this is exactly how I feel. I've always wondered what the fuck it was. Thanks

  • @Lemonteaxi
    @Lemonteaxi 2 роки тому +8

    Seems pretty clear Mr. Girl came out on top here.

  • @Rallylabs
    @Rallylabs 2 роки тому +7

    Oh my god there’s a female version of him.

    • @MrAndyCretin
      @MrAndyCretin 2 роки тому +2

      Mrsboy

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 2 роки тому +1

      That’s insulting to him, lav would wish to be as smart as him

  • @craigos1983
    @craigos1983 3 місяці тому +1

    I haven’t seen one video where Max is talking that doesn’t dissolve into talking about how they’re going to talk about things and breaking down what the other person did when saying something. It’s mind numbing.

  • @RachelGerrard
    @RachelGerrard Рік тому +1

    When nerds have relationships

  • @saheerumar2443
    @saheerumar2443 2 роки тому +5

    i still don’t get how people haven’t figured out Mrgirl’s whole grift. it’s a character. the goal of this character is to draw out conversations as long as humanly possible. it generates both outrage and content. it’s a win-win. that’s it. thats the grift. why people take anything he says seriously baffles me, daily

  • @MO-zk8qs
    @MO-zk8qs 9 місяців тому

    3:17:56 in retrospect, removing all the disaster that surrounded Lav and mrgirl, Mrgirl was right here. There is a difference and destiny refused to accept it for some reason

  • @OmniUniv
    @OmniUniv 2 роки тому +1

    Ok sorry she doesn’t get fucking bullied sorry but someone that got everything handed to them and one convo where someone does agree with them they scream victim

  • @vladimir.mishel
    @vladimir.mishel 2 роки тому +1

    "Channel update: 💔"
    :(

  • @playcations
    @playcations Рік тому +2

    2:55:23 Well this didn't age well.

  • @OmniUniv
    @OmniUniv 2 роки тому +1

    Don’t even really like girl that much but honest do think this girl is ok with playing bull crap games with words all the time daddy didn’t hand you every waaaa

  • @DavidFregoli
    @DavidFregoli 2 роки тому

    where does the debate start?

  • @TheEccentricPoet
    @TheEccentricPoet 2 роки тому +9

    Val: "I'm afraid of being you like you're afraid of being Stephen Crowder." and later, "I watched your discord and everyone obliterate you after your doll review, and I was like how can everyone not think Shaelin is the problem, and then I realized, Ohhh, I get it now- I'm the actual problem."
    Yes, Val, you and Max are the problem. I at least have a disgust vs interest, and so a kind of love vs hate, reaction to watching Max in that arena I suppose, but to you I took such an immediate and intense hatred I've never felt before, in all of my 46 years. It was hate at first sight, and now I have full blown Val derangement syndrome. To have you go away from any online spaces we have in common would be my beautiful dream.
    I hate how nakedly manipulative you are, how clearly abusive you are (your poor fiance, my God - blink twice for help, sir, if you actually exist and are not just a lie she made up), I hate how you manipulatively use therapy speak to justify your behaviors, which is anathema to me, since my soulmate and husband of 28 years is bipolar and so I hold therapy in reverence.
    I hate how you aggressively chirp out radfem formulae with virtually no nuance, while simultaneously hiding behind it when it suits you as a shield from criticism, and also to hide your general pleasure in manipulating. I hate the skin-crawling gleeful and playful tone you use while doing your manipulating.
    You're a sick sick person and if it came out that if someone found bodies in your basement and asked me, "can you believe that?" I would reply, "yes. That she would turn out to be a modern day Countess Bathory to is in no way surprising to me..."

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 2 роки тому +2

      I kinda like her. Heh.

    • @MrEWaKid
      @MrEWaKid 2 роки тому +3

      Homie I think you might just be MrGirl obsessed.

    • @doctor_who5203
      @doctor_who5203 2 роки тому

      @@TheEccentricPoet You are actually schizophrenic

    • @MrEWaKid
      @MrEWaKid 2 роки тому +3

      ​@@TheEccentricPoet Maybe chill with the pseudo-intellectual videos for a bit I think it's getting to your head.

    • @MrEWaKid
      @MrEWaKid 2 роки тому +3

      @@TheEccentricPoet Why did you say you have impressive achievements and then list things your husband has done?

  • @BanditoRios
    @BanditoRios 2 роки тому +1

    3:05:46 IM BIG BOY

  • @righteousrawb7225
    @righteousrawb7225 6 місяців тому

    1:58:00 + 3:30:59

  • @PoorEdward
    @PoorEdward 2 роки тому

    55:00 thats what he did with brittany though

  • @annablabka8653
    @annablabka8653 Рік тому

    This is worse than a soap-opera

  • @ericspoor8175
    @ericspoor8175 2 роки тому

    Toppest content

  • @chuck9483
    @chuck9483 Рік тому

    A conversation between two Jews trying to one up each other like this is something to behold.

  • @fffoolishnomore3834
    @fffoolishnomore3834 Рік тому

    That's anal but probably necessary when deeling with Internet fan girls, "keep notes incase I'm dealing with a sociopath and I need proof in the near future."

  • @joncolumbino744
    @joncolumbino744 Рік тому

    3:05:00

  • @dominiks5068
    @dominiks5068 2 роки тому +2

    Destiny strawmanned mrgirl so hard.

    • @Azraelmaximilian
      @Azraelmaximilian 2 роки тому +3

      Destiny's Child man-strawed my girlfriend so hard

  • @manuelantuna26
    @manuelantuna26 2 роки тому

    More like SIMPstiny... Amirite guys? lol

  • @milkcatdog394
    @milkcatdog394 2 роки тому

    Second 🤘🏻

  • @aricmoen8955
    @aricmoen8955 5 місяців тому

    Buldshieldd

  • @klabauther
    @klabauther 2 роки тому +1

    I smell mansplaining

  • @sigmundsigma6888
    @sigmundsigma6888 2 роки тому

    Third

  • @watcheem
    @watcheem 2 роки тому

    First