Mum has the consent chat with her daughter | My Family - BBC
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- Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
- Wish I had a mum like Susan ❤️ #MyFamily #ZoeWanamaker #KrisMarshall #Comedy #sitcom
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This show is a vibe, I miss this period of time in the UK. I can't believe the teenage daughter is 45 years old now.
Thanks for making me feel old. I remeber watching them as a teeanager.
Exactly it was such an amazing time. Late 90s and early 2000s
I bet she's still Beautiful
How old was she when she played her then? In her early twenties?
@@stevemorganexperience7833 She was born in August 78 and the first season was released in 2000, so she was 21 at the start.
Madam hooch teaching the facts of life. lol
“What, in case the Vikings attacked” 😂
She does fable voiceover and it’s very distinctive.
Oh yeah
That voice brings back memories, never knew who was voice actress before
Fable 1 player characters sister if I remember rightly, who became the seer/oracle lady in 2 and 3.
I used to absolutely love this show! Seasons 3 to 5 were the best
Seasons 2-6 of this show were elite television
Em…. what?!!
Porridge and only fools and horses were elite.
Showing this to my kids when they go through puberty
What a great mother daughter talk ❤
Where the UK discovered Kris Marshall….. brilliant actor
Zoe Wanamaker is one of the GOATs
very well written scene.
But VERY HARMFUL, because it instills in women the belief that 'a speeding train can be stopped by waving a hand.' Fortunately, it was also mentioned that just saying 'NO' didn't work and she had to hit him.
I liked the part where the mother says 'no' must be respected and obeyed yet all the while she ignores her daughter's refusal to speak on the subject.
I like the bit where the only voices who have stated any issues with the key message in this scene are, of course, men.
Had a mahoosive crush on Daniela Denby-Ashe back in the day. So cute.
I mean who didn't tbh
@@freddysw Yeah, but there are crushes and there are _crushes,_ m8.👍
@@titteryenot4524Mine was Lenora Crichlow from Sugar Rush
My mate meanwhile had a thing for Zoe Wanamaker 😆
@@freddysw ‘Mike’? Who? 🤔
I watched this for years when I would “catch it” at 11 at night… the most impossible show to stream in 2005 lol .
Mommy needs a hug 🤗 girl 😂
it was non consensual.. demanded even
Is that the flying instructor from Harry Potter????
It was nagging me where ive seen her, thanks! :D
@@ktaragorn ok then I was right 🤣
I always wondered why that scene felt like a "big reveal" cameo. Now I know why.
What flying instructor 😂
@@shelldie8523 madam hooch
Love my family
Funny, the mother couldn't take no for an answer
First time watching this... So great!
Zoë Wanamaker: an older woman I quite fancied back in the day, even if she was three years younger than me.
Well done.
Might have start watching UK TV shows because I’m running out of sitcoms here
Didn't realise the Brits did American style sitcoms like this...
this was an exception.
i have no idea what this show is but i really wanna know now lol
My Family
the difference is in a tattoo shop u pay for the ink
Why are there adds, The BBC is add free , which is why we pay the licence fee !
Because UA-cam is an international website, and people outside the UK don't pay the license fee?
@@JK192837 it's BBC material! BBC World Service is add free!
@@JK192837 I think it should be an option to pay for BBC license voluntarily and get BBC ad free outside UK too.
And that's when you discover the fabulous world of ad-free youtube (free of fees too, of course).
Is that a Godzilla toy in the background?
Accidentally share false information? You could cause total strangers to feel a particular way. Go to jail.
Intimately engage with a teenage boy until the physical response of their most potent chemicals kicking in? You were innocent and didn't deserve this.
What show is this?
A BBC sitcom called My Family.
😂😂😂
I only came to see if this scene had Nick in it and wasn't disappointed, show was dog shit when he left
Came so close, but still missed the part where if at any time during the deed she's no longer into it and doesn't communicate, it's still grape. Evidently.
did you watch the part where she said no and he didnt stop
@@mjusda4353 Did you miss the part where I said "and doesn't communicate"?
Hey man, this is the 80?s? Be glad they talked about it at all. Total win.
This is a good lesson except that it doesn't teach the daughter to talk and talking is important because either one can lead the other person on either intentionally or unintentionally But if you talk clearly and then make it clear that you mean what you say and aren't playing hard to get, then at that point other person no longer has the excuse to say they were tempted or led on. At that point, if they respect you at all or just are a decent person they'll stop. And, if they don't stop then I guess heel palm to the face, lol. (Though she's lucky that didn't backfire.)
It is clearly established that she said no. IF he keep going after that, it's clearly not because she doesn't know how to talk.
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Interesting she decided to wait until her sons had left to discuss consent.
She didn't set out to discuss consent but to gossip. And she "sent" them out so her daughter could be more at ease and frank without the peanut gallery chipping in. The way she got them out if the room is basically them self-selecting against the type of gossip that is to follow.
I don't know the show, frankly I don't know why this clip got recommended to me, but even from that short clip it's clear to me, that this mom will have made absolutely sure that her boys know the meaning and importance of consent.
And actually I hope she didn't immediately discuss consent with them afterwards, as it would allow them to guess what happened to their sister, something she obviously would not like them to know.
I don't know what snide point you are trying to make, but the only real problem I see here is that the mom shouldn't have sought to gossip at the breakfast table but rather done it in a more private setting. You seem to advocate for the opposite which is just weird to me. Imagine she started the conversation and the boys stayed, but now instead of some relatively minor SA coming to light, that date went far, far worse...
@@tellur808 Really? If she would have already discussed consent with her sons at that point, why hadn't she previously discussed consent with her daughter?
@@SC-dm1ctthat's what you took from my comment?
Fine... But nothing about that interaction made me think that the daughter has never heard about consent or that the mother didn't talk about it with her. In fact, the daughter seems to be perfectly aware how to make sure a no stays a no.
What I do see in this clip is the mother reinforcing what consent means beyond the easily digestible "no means no", building on top of practical experience the daughter didn't have when she learned about consent.
Especially when someone is victimised they tend to look for fault in themselves, no matter if they intellectually should know better. That's just an ugly truth of human psychology and what keeps thousands of psychologists employed.
So... this is the famous "British humour", huh? Funny stuff... very funny... 🙄😐
She put herself in a situation where she is in a secluded place, alone with a guy. What did she think would happen then? So: yes. it's your fault too. Not 100%, but at least 50%... because you are an almost adult person and therefore responsible for your decisions and the resulting consequences.
More preaching from the BBC.
WHA A BS IT!
When a person (including a man) is strongly sexually aroused it is hormones and not reason that control his actions! If in this tattoo parlour she had said that she had dithered in the middle of doing a tattoo (and the payment is for the whole thing) then she would have had a good chance of completing against her decision.
BTW. Yes, it would have been very wrong ('criminal') if he had forced her and there there is no doubt. BUT, it would have been foreseeable and avoidable.
average immigrants opinion on consent
This chat as is, is completely fine and probably a conversation worth having with your kids. But what's happening in *REAL LIFE* is that out of misguided sympathy toward women, it has become legal to withdrawn consent AT ANY TIME - that includes retroactively. 40 years later, a woman decides she is unhappy and wants to hurt other people around her can out of the blue decide to remove consent, so that man she had a completely mutual and enthusiastic relationship with 40 years ago is now legally a rapist. With the explosion of proven false accusations we've seen come to light after the MeToo movement that have the greater part of societies reconsidering if they should ever believe women in any circumstances, this is a very, VERY bad time to try to push for this wishy-washy 'customizable' revenge I-changed-my-mind garbage that wears consent as a disguise.
The daughter in this clip actually does a great job demonstrating accountability and responsibility - she recognizes that what the guy did to her is assault and illegal, that what she also did in response was assault and illegal. She took care of the problem in her own way and there is no need to run to the police or press charges because she was just as guilty of a crime as he was. She also modeled responsibility in a way that many young girls need to see - she acknowledged it was a bad idea to get into the car with a guy she didn't fully trust or feel comfortable with - that is *GOOD* advice for young girls out there! It is a shame the mother tries to erode all of that and claim it can't possibly be the fault of her bad decisions (it's never women's fault), that everything bad in life is actually the fault of a man somewhere.
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