The HARSH Truth About Dating/Marrying An Ethiopian as A Foreigner|| A&D Podcast Ep1

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
  • 10 Things That Will SHOCK You About Dating/Marrying An Ethiopian
    This FACTS About Ethiopians Will COMPLETELY Save Your Marriage
    This FACTS About Ethiopians Will COMPLETELY
    Welcome to the newest podcast in town.
    Amena from ‪@AmenaandElias‬ and I ‪@QueenDesta‬ will be having amazing conversations on different topics.
    engage, support, love, share your opinions as well as what you want us to talk about this upcoming episodes.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 92

  • @Kinglioncrown
    @Kinglioncrown Рік тому +9

    I love Ethiopian women

  • @Haileambesa
    @Haileambesa Рік тому +2

    1.-I recommend you the movie 13 months of sunshine, about the deal of be inlove and also wants the passport
    2.- jaja i think I'm more Ethiopian than Mexican even when i grew up all my life in Mexico 🤣 thanks for illuminate my life after 29 years

  • @lekanakala7128
    @lekanakala7128 Рік тому +5

    One thing that needs to be green to take relationship forward is for two of you to have shared values and shared vision.

    • @AmenaandElias
      @AmenaandElias Рік тому +1

      I agree! But what do you do when one person's values or visions changes over time? That is always the difficult question to answer.

    • @lekanakala7128
      @lekanakala7128 Рік тому +1

      @@AmenaandElias Then you try to realign it and if not possible separation might be inevitable.

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому +1

      I fully agree

    • @joelitos2000
      @joelitos2000 Рік тому +1

      ​@@AmenaandElias if a person loves you they will make the effort to be good to you

  • @eliasyussuf1380
    @eliasyussuf1380 Рік тому +3

    Loved the podcast and I enjoyed both of your opinions and perceptions on Ethiopian men which is so related to most of the African love relationships ideology and facts in general cause as long as you live or have an African decent will definitely be related one way or another to your experiences with dating or being married to an ethiopian.with that being said love you both my African sisters and I would really suggest you to name your podcast " ignite your soul podcast" which is an inspiration from queen desta's outro on all her UA-cam vlogs and it always gives me chill and so much meaning to it ...thanks again and keep going you two ...
    Elias from Zambia but originally from Ethiopia ❤️

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому

      I'm glad you enjoyed. Thank you for your contribution too

  • @Bofsteel-e7y
    @Bofsteel-e7y 25 днів тому

    Dated on only to find she had gone through fgm

  • @dynapharmRwanda.69
    @dynapharmRwanda.69 Рік тому +1

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  • @neilevans8196
    @neilevans8196 Рік тому +1

    I am in the process of an Ethiopian woman. I am in New York City and she is from Ethiopia
    I am saving to move to Ethiopia.
    Can African American people find work at employment agencies that will help African Americans with jobs?

    • @digimine7772
      @digimine7772 8 місяців тому

      No stay and love your own women or to your ancestry land of west Africa and marry a women from their leave us alone

  • @tmarcel1594
    @tmarcel1594 Рік тому +3

    Wait a minute!! I think you guys could have talked about your respective country, Kenya & Sudan. I bet you have a better understanding of the men of your country than Ethiopian men. But again, if you are just looking for a piece to fill in your vlog, that is understandable

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому +2

      We only have experience with Ethiopian men, never mind, in the future we will consider other countries

    • @tmarcel1594
      @tmarcel1594 Рік тому +1

      @@QueenDestaOnly Ethiopian men!! Lol, Queen Desta!

    • @AmenaandElias
      @AmenaandElias Рік тому

      @@tmarcel1594 My Ethiopian husband of 7 years confirmed that what we said is true… what part specifically do you disagree on? I will bring it to him and see what he says.

    • @tmarcel1594
      @tmarcel1594 Рік тому +1

      @@AmenaandElias Amena, I did not disagree with any of the things you said, though I have my reservation about some of the things. But again, that is just POV. My statement was made wondering if you could talk about men in Sudan & Kenya, whom you seem to have a better understanding of.Queen Desta explained that she never had experience with men in Kenya, or something along that line. If your answer is similar, then you are forgiven :-)

    • @AmenaandElias
      @AmenaandElias Рік тому +1

      @@tmarcel1594 I can talk about Sudanese men but understand the whole community will come for my neck 😂🤣

  • @mygutfeelingoverlooked199
    @mygutfeelingoverlooked199 8 місяців тому +1

    I've dated few outstanding Habesha Ladies .. and im happy and very fullfilled with my current Lady... habeshas know how take care there man..

    • @digimine7772
      @digimine7772 8 місяців тому

      You people seriously hate yourself. Love your own women

    • @mygutfeelingoverlooked199
      @mygutfeelingoverlooked199 8 місяців тому

      🤣😀 I date who ever I want LOL. black white spanish asian ... actually once a habesha lady approached me in Canada ... that were my neighbors for 25 years ... and she expressed to me that if i was available she marry me.... we living in 2024. like any other people including habeshas they have preferences. @@digimine7772

    • @mygutfeelingoverlooked199
      @mygutfeelingoverlooked199 8 місяців тому

      everyone free like whom they want... why would I hate myself? revelation 7:9-11 john 3;16 Thx God for everything Peace to you! @@digimine7772

  • @thelordismyshepherd3714
    @thelordismyshepherd3714 Рік тому +1

    Great convo, you guys are very respectful and I appreciate that.
    But about Habesha men being affectionate to their significant other, I guess they treat foreign women differently, because often times they don’t treat their Habesha woman well💔

    • @joelitos2000
      @joelitos2000 Рік тому

      Are you a female? How do they treat their women?

    • @thelordismyshepherd3714
      @thelordismyshepherd3714 Рік тому

      @@joelitos2000 yes I am, although there are some exceptional men, but majority of them are disrespectful to their wife. There is no appreciation. They can be abusive financially, emotionally and even physically. But I have to say, for the younger generation I am noticing a shift, which makes me very hopeful.

  • @missinjera1634
    @missinjera1634 Рік тому +1

    Desta we'll not come at you dear, open communication seemed banned in our community😂😂

  • @fikredesta6203
    @fikredesta6203 Рік тому +1

    It has been a very interesting conversation. yes, let's keep doing this👍🏿

  • @mimitek6140
    @mimitek6140 Рік тому

    Like anywhere in the world there are good and bad people, there are Ethiopian womanisers and there are those who can be trusted. I don’t think they are different to other African men.

  • @neilevans8196
    @neilevans8196 Рік тому

    What are some ideas for African Americans to work in Ethiopia?

  • @lekanakala7128
    @lekanakala7128 Рік тому

    Hey @QueenDesta & @Amenateferi , you can use 'Afro Lifestyle' or "My Point of View(My POV)" as the Podcast name.

  • @laltariku9253
    @laltariku9253 Рік тому

    Queen please talk about dating in Nairobi. It is also very interesting

  • @babut4059
    @babut4059 Рік тому +1

    Great show. Please keep it up.

  • @andbeyond9085
    @andbeyond9085 Рік тому +1

    👍👍I liked this video.

  • @noahsirak4979
    @noahsirak4979 Рік тому

    What about something simple... like the "let's talk" podcast?

  • @sponsponm1
    @sponsponm1 9 місяців тому

    Amena isn't even ethiopian she's sudanese

  • @alexfk9912
    @alexfk9912 Рік тому

    My two favourite people ❤ 💕

  • @addpuppets9326
    @addpuppets9326 Рік тому +4

    what about men who chew Chat/Qat . . . when dealing with addiction, I know many Ethiopian men are struggling to quit chewing chat. They won't even say a word about it until married . It's a nasty habit to rid off. So Desta if you . . . I mean when you're kissing a habesha carefully inspect his teeth. If his gums are greenish like a sheep which grazed grass, it's a big no no. Such grazers suffer from libido and have lower sperm count. I must say Amena is kinda lucky thou. . . 'cause Elias is far away from home and can't find Qat in the US. Desta . . . the clock is ticking . . . tic toc tic toc. . . make up your mind whom to marry. a kenyan or habesha? either way hurry up or you end up marrying a senior citizen.

    • @AmenaandElias
      @AmenaandElias Рік тому +3

      LOL you are hilarious!

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому +3

      @@AmenaandElias i was coming here to laugh too 😆

    • @missinjera1634
      @missinjera1634 Рік тому

      Who told you most Ethiopian mens are chat chewers ha?

    • @addpuppets9326
      @addpuppets9326 Рік тому +1

      @@missinjera1634 I didn't say 'most' I said many. there is a difference

  • @Kinglioncrown
    @Kinglioncrown Рік тому

    Awesome

  • @senda9782
    @senda9782 Рік тому

    You moved back to Kenya 🇰🇪 ?

  • @DWEthiopia
    @DWEthiopia Рік тому

    A guy and a girl can be friends if they both agree they both don't find each other attractive and both sides truly believe that.

    • @AmenaandElias
      @AmenaandElias Рік тому +1

      Yes I agree... But How can you be sure that both sides truly believe that? You can only control yourself.

    • @DWEthiopia
      @DWEthiopia Рік тому

      @@AmenaandElias That's true. You can never know for certain.

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому

      Mmh, interesting

  • @yareddejene462
    @yareddejene462 Рік тому

    Love what you did. Keep going. ❤❤

  • @curtisoular
    @curtisoular Рік тому

    Very Cool Convo!😎💯🎉🥳

  • @addpuppets9326
    @addpuppets9326 Рік тому

    title, 'we're in love'

  • @mrdacusthenavigator4989
    @mrdacusthenavigator4989 Рік тому

    Most important discussion

  • @mosessolomon6889
    @mosessolomon6889 Рік тому

    How have you been Amena??

  • @tmarcel1594
    @tmarcel1594 Рік тому +1

    Can a man and a woman be friends? My answer to this is, if she is extremely ugly, yeah, I will consider making her my friend :-)

  • @coolnassa1420
    @coolnassa1420 Рік тому

    I’m from Kenya,I love Ethiopian culture and Ethiopian women,I try to search in Facebook but and dating sight but it’s very hard the can’t answer you quiet often specially if they know I’m not Ethiopian,very sad but never give up…:

    • @howtotieatie5845
      @howtotieatie5845 Рік тому +3

      You never give up selfhater. Love your Kenyan women.

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому

      Come to Ethiopia or consider where you are accepted too

  • @addpuppets9326
    @addpuppets9326 Рік тому

    Cousin! What?!

  • @yohanneskassa4280
    @yohanneskassa4280 Рік тому +1

    Black American slang is the most attractive and beautiful .

    • @yohan7782
      @yohan7782 Рік тому +3

      Naa it's not

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому

      I'm glad I'm not alone

    • @pagola
      @pagola Рік тому

      That's not black American slang

  • @yareddejene462
    @yareddejene462 Рік тому

    ua-cam.com/video/zywIR_ZFLts/v-deo.html I think you will enjoy and get some insight from this standup comedy by Chris Rock about platonic friendships. Sorry for his selection of words. 😂

  • @babatundeoloye8127
    @babatundeoloye8127 Рік тому

    Hi Queeen Desta, I’m visiting Ethiopia soon in a couple of months and need some tips…can I send a message through to your email/Instagram pls

    • @QueenDesta
      @QueenDesta  Рік тому +1

      Yes you can
      damarisnjengayt@gmail.com