It's ironic, isn't it?! How men are mainly the cause of our issues, and we have to work hard to heal ourselves so we can have a healthy relationship with men!! ...x
I think the point is to be peaceful with all parts and aspects of yourself. That peace will allow you to create new vibrations around you for a path that breaks old patterns.
but is the same for them is just man dont like to accept they have trauma so they just keep the hurt and the trauma pretending they are just fine, I know someone (friend) with a terrible relationshio with his wife he even beat her and he gets drunk etc... but all of this is because his mother physically hurt him as a child and teen and he thinks (he have advise me) that you should never be weak never to cry and never to show vulnerability, such a stupid beliefs lead him to keep doing the same stupid stuff, then last week I told him "you try to be strong all the time, but been a stone is not been strong, and that your biggest weakness, you dont know how to be flexible enough to change and evolve, the stone never changes and never get better"
My father just recently told me that I don't really mean anything to him. After I told him that we don't really have a father daughter relationship and that I wanted one with him. It crushed me so now I want to move on from this since it's a painful dead end. I put up with years of his verbal and physical abuse. Now I want better for myself.
I completely empathise with you on this. A similar thing happened to me and I seem to attract men who have treated me badly in the past, don't want to commit or push me away as a result of this.
I'm so sorry. That must have been incredibly painful. You didn't deserve that. He sounds like a very sick soul. Wishing for you strength and self love.
I was raised by a very demanding and strict father. He was very controlling, verbally abusive and could be physically abusive when his temper flared up. I tried my hardest to please him. After his death I am left with a feeling of bitterness and anger toward him. I gave so much of my patience and kindness to him. I feel so empty and used up. I feel like I don’t have any kindness or patience left for myself.
You can still speak to your father. He is in the ethers. Failing that, keep choosing with intent self kindness, and keep practicing with intent, patience for yourself. One day it will become a natural reflex. I love, You love, We love, One love x
I did the opposite I had little patience and kindness for him when he was a live and feel like I can pray him and find peace and love now. Prayers 🙏 to you!! 🧊🙏🥰❤️🌻😘😘😘😘
My dad has always been harsh to me from childhood till date, for this is the reason I have become needy and clingy in my relationship and fear of abandonment is always there.
You are not alone 🙏 I feel with you. But I am sure we are able to heal it and have healthy relationships from now on ♥ sending a very warm and tight hug your way 🤗
I am so grateful for this video. I deal with perfectionism, people pleasing, and feeling powerless and you're so right about my dad. Ive been really trying to heal my solar plexus chakra and when you started talking about abuse and its effects it started throbbing. I never realized my relationship with my dad were the root causes. Thank you so much and I hope this helps others as much as it has helped me♡♡
Thank you so much. I never knew it was also related to my father's wound. I thought that it was only my mother's wound harming my self esteem by being so critical and controlling to me. I know now, that's it both. My heart is aching for experiencing unhealthy family relationships right now. I hope we could all heal from the things we don't discuss. 🥺
Dear Sira and Na T, for some reason there is no "reply" button on your comments, so I just wanted to say thank you for your feedback and I'm so grateful the video helped you. Many loving blessings
I'm working on the father wound. I was in foster care due to my father. We don't speak anymore and he told a family friend that he never wants to speak to me again. That's like the ultimate abandonment wound. I'm committed to healing this and don't want to attract a toxic man or unavailable man.
Hello beloveds! I hope this video on healing our father wounds will support and empower you on your journeys and help you create healthy, happy lives. Please be sure to Subscribe to my channel to experience my "Past Life Healing", "Inner Child Healing", "Self Love" and "Chakra Healing" guided meditations to heal on an even deeper level. All my love
You have the kindest most loving eyes... I appreciate your wisdom, guidance, sympathy and compassion. Whenever I listen to your videos, I can totally feel so much love, light and truth emanating from you. Namaste 🙏
Dearest Syma, thank you so much for posting this video, because it's come at the right time for me. I'm trying to seek forgiveness and to forgive those to have betrayed and wronged me, and my father is the hardest chapter of all. Your video, your voice, and kindness and love are so comforting and helpful and it's definitely helped me understand myself better, and most importantly, recognise that I deserve a better future. I think I am ready to begin this self-healing journey. Thank you, once more.
thank you so very much for this. we have the exact same childhood and to see such a radiant woman transmuting her pain into wisdom to share with other women gives me hope. thank you. namaste
THANK YOU FOR THIS! I just discovered this video and even though it was made soo long ago, I can relate to it 1000%. I am working on me, and discovering those deep roots is like a light shining in. Your video is still inspiring people many years later.
This video was my first intro to you Syma and wow how grateful I am for the beautiful alignment. I have been going through a intense journey for the past 16 months to come to learn my trauma has been sexual abuse from my father at age 4. My fam haven't been able to support me the way I need so I've pretty much been doing it all on my own despite having great friends who want to help. after watching this video last night I woke up in from my sleep with deep insights showing me that I cut myself off from the love and support I need and deserve because I didn't feel worthy of it and have allowed it and had almost accepted the physical pain as well as emotional etc as normal and been getting through my day to day life with a brave face and shutting myself off from ppl till I'm better. today I really worked on allowing myself to receive and to reconnect to my worthiness and I also said goodbye to a male friend who was my support system, but also exactly like my father in his own version. thank u syna for such a gorgeous and profound video, your essence is truely beautiful and your voice is just so calming. I am big fan and will continue to utlise your work to assist my healing. lots of love ❤💙
I grew up without a father, he left when I was one. He has 5 kids with 3 different women, we all went through foster care because of him. I confronted him about it a few years ago and he has yet to acknowledge all the hurt this has caused us... I want to heal but I don't even know where to begin...
My father was a real dominating hard person..now that he is no more,he still haunts me in my dreams ,.and me being reiki master and healer,I miss him .and I want him peace.I do pray and meditate to my goddess,.and I get intutions via dreams.thanks for ur vdos
Thank you Syma. Father healing is so vital to feeling safe, supported and loved in this world. I am grateful for you compassionate and kind wisdom and guidance.
I’m so grateful for finding your channel. This brought me to tears because for so long I felt that I didn’t have this issue because my step father raised me but wow just wow. Thank you!
AHa, this is the video that has helped me figure out where my issues started. Oh boy, leaving the cooperate world is what I have to do to stop the constant abuse.
I forgive myself for believing I wasn't good enough, that I wasn't loveable. My father wanted a son but he got three daughters. I was daughter nr 2. I tried so hard to be good enough for him during his life but I never felt the approval of my being. Last week I got a beautiful message from my father (he is a spirit now) true my "Good Tarot" card deck that he totaly accept me as a woman now. It was such a blessing for me. I can see now that he wanted to make his father proud if he gave him a son. All he wanted to do was to make his father proud as well. I forgive him for that. Thank you for sharing this content 🙏💖
Thank u very much for sharing we are three sisters too it make so much sense my father mentioned that he wishes to have a son but never really bothered but i never had a good relationship too. His brother has five sons and his father favorites his brother i guess due to that
My dad could be mean, he would bully me and tease me. I always found myself having to protect myself at a very young age. In the end I've forgiving him for everything. Thanks for sharing this video. God bless! ❤
Thankyou thankyou thankyou. Not everyone understands how having a bad father figure makes you create relationships where you're looking for what you're missing and the damage it has on us and you said it perfectly. Thankyou so much for this video it really helped. Thankyou!
butterfly colours I'm so glad you found it helpful. It's been part of my own journey too and I am very passionate about helping fellow soul sisters heal these wounds so we can be empowered to move forward and flourish!
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for doing this video Goddess!! Perfect timing... Its like you knew exactly what I was going through. I feel so much at peace and healed and understand myself even better. I love you lady angel!! Namaste Graciously, Nadine
Syma, you are a lovely woman. I think I needed to watch this and your other videos. There are some wounds to heal. Thank you for the work you do and I think you are full of love and generosity. Thanks for sharing your gift, many blessings
Hi Goddess I am doing some root chakra work lately and pulling my cards for the day "Father Healing" card came out. This video was very helpful for understanding why its so important to do this work. So much love
Thank you for this. Each type applied, but the wounds with my mother were worse. I’d love to speak to you personally as I’m so far along in my healing journey now that I feel so close to being free of these traumas. To be able to discuss these things with someone who understands would be beautiful & so helpful for me to fully bloom into the woman I was always meant to be. You are an inspiration. Thank you 💗
I have learned to love myself more and I like spending time on my own so I don't need a relationship and I have been single for 4 years but now I'm ready to be in a relationship again I seem to be attracting men who love bomb me, scare me off and then when I start to like them they either don't want a relationship, ghost me or disappear and then I feel abandonment issues but I am not clingy, I don't demand a lot of their time as I have my own life and I'm independent. So why is this happening?
Thank you for your wonderful healing words. You touched on my experience precisely, and I'm sure many women's experiences too. I love how you address forgiveness, we must forgive so we can move forward, and create the life we want. God bless you and Namaste.
I kind of have the opposite issue, instead of an absent I have an overbearing father who is kind of obsessed with me. I feel like he doesn’t really want me to grow up fully and be independent from him. Although he is very kind and supportive I sometimes can’t even stand to be in the same room with him because I feel his codependent energy and it makes me feel unfree in living my own life.
Just found you and you’re awesome!! may I just say that culturally it can be challenging to bring the history of abuse to light. I have of course experienced much of what you shared and is also the reason I want to help others with similar history. Thank you for your courage to share some of your history. Much love to you🙏🏽🎊🧘🏽♀️
My father and my mother broke up when i was 5 and traveled around the world for work ... never spent time with me because when he was back home, he would always be drunk. Im 26 now and I feel like i dont have a father. I hope i can heal this asap
wow thank you very much for your video and inspiration. You are such a strong women having overcome so many deep wounds. unbelievable. you are truly an angel.
Beloved syma , I am currently going through father daughter dense consciousness needs to purge as part of my spiritual growth. He still treats me like I was that little girl, I am a woman , a mother, a wife but he still manages to use his authority over me , and my siblings. I have almost disconnected myself completely from him in order for me to process my feelings but as I am anchoring in the divine feminine Wisdom , connecting to divine Goddess energy I feel a sense of empowerment. I don't know if I do just the spiritual work and cut those ties or if I should go and see him personally and talk to him?? I realise now I am not a victim . All of this pain has also taken its toll on my marriage to the point of releasing him for my own spiritual growth.
I didn't have father nor brother but suffered from severe mood swings problems . people thought I am bad person they are not able to understand how grown up girl suffer in mood swings.hated all men but later survived . married younger men whose mother died (single parent ).my mom was also not so mature because she was home maker.my grand father was like guardian .
how can I set up some type of chat with you so that we could discuss my past lives and how they affect my present life and how I can begin my path to healing with the knowledge of my past lives?
do you think you have the time to do a video for fighting parents? step parents* how to handle them? stop them from going further in arguments? and small childeren in the household.
It is not your job to fix their problems. It is unhealthy for a child to go through this. I am sorry you're going through this, I wish you a bunch of love and care
I have found myself doing the exact same thing as my father did to me, towards my fiance. We are expecting in June and I am very wary on how to start training myself to learn to accept love and to be able to love so that I change the cycle. It has been a hard one for me over the years of emotional abuse to forgive and use that energy for positive. I am seeing someone but how do you do that when the abuser is still in your life and has control over it.
ferris bintz look up for the healing inner child meditation from Syma. What helped me the most was thinking about one particular memory each time I did the meditation. So I did it quite several times. Once you let yourself feel all the emotions you need to feel (in a safe space - so you can shout and cry if you need) , they kind of let you go. I experienced, that from day to day, I felt more detached from pain that was subconsciously ruling parts of my life. Just let yourself feel all the pain you need to feel. And after, even if the person is still in your life, you take the power he/she has and give it back to yourself.
I have been in the exact same place as you for the most part. I have been in a few relationships with emotionally unavailable men, as my father was. I am in the midst of a break(up) at the moment with the one man who is the exact opposite of all of them including my father. I've held myself back emotionally from him, I do not talk to him as I do others and it tears him up. I basically have done to this wonderful the same thing my father did to me, he was there but not and did not provide love, protection or support. The only time there was ever conversation was when I had a bad grade or I did something to get into trouble. He always accentuated the negative and never supported the positive and this is exactly how I am now. I have been in therapy but it's taken some time to find the right issue to start with. I feel that as soon as I am able to get past my father garbage and actually forgive him (for me only, of course) then I will be able to have the relationship I deserve. I hope and pray that you are well or at least better now and that your family is flourishing.
It's ironic, isn't it?! How men are mainly the cause of our issues, and we have to work hard to heal ourselves so we can have a healthy relationship with men!! ...x
I think the point is to be peaceful with all parts and aspects of yourself. That peace will allow you to create new vibrations around you for a path that breaks old patterns.
haha true
but is the same for them is just man dont like to accept they have trauma so they just keep the hurt and the trauma pretending they are just fine, I know someone (friend) with a terrible relationshio with his wife he even beat her and he gets drunk etc... but all of this is because his mother physically hurt him as a child and teen and he thinks (he have advise me) that you should never be weak never to cry and never to show vulnerability, such a stupid beliefs lead him to keep doing the same stupid stuff, then last week I told him "you try to be strong all the time, but been a stone is not been strong, and that your biggest weakness, you dont know how to be flexible enough to change and evolve, the stone never changes and never get better"
so true
My father’s mother name was Alma 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My father just recently told me that I don't really mean anything to him. After I told him that we don't really have a father daughter relationship and that I wanted one with him. It crushed me so now I want to move on from this since it's a painful dead end. I put up with years of his verbal and physical abuse. Now I want better for myself.
I don't know you, but I just read your comment now and I hope you are feeling strong and powerful today.
I completely empathise with you on this. A similar thing happened to me and I seem to attract men who have treated me badly in the past, don't want to commit or push me away as a result of this.
I'm so sorry. That must have been incredibly painful. You didn't deserve that. He sounds like a very sick soul. Wishing for you strength and self love.
I was raised by a very demanding and strict father. He was very controlling, verbally abusive and could be physically abusive when his temper flared up. I tried my hardest to please him. After his death I am left with a feeling of bitterness and anger toward him. I gave so much of my patience and kindness to him. I feel so empty and used up. I feel like I don’t have any kindness or patience left for myself.
You can still speak to your father. He is in the ethers. Failing that, keep choosing with intent self kindness, and keep practicing with intent, patience for yourself. One day it will become a natural reflex. I love, You love, We love, One love x
I did the opposite I had little patience and kindness for him when he was a live and feel like I can pray him and find peace and love now.
Prayers 🙏 to you!! 🧊🙏🥰❤️🌻😘😘😘😘
My dad has always been harsh to me from childhood till date, for this is the reason I have become needy and clingy in my relationship and fear of abandonment is always there.
You are not alone 🙏 I feel with you. But I am sure we are able to heal it and have healthy relationships from now on ♥ sending a very warm and tight hug your way 🤗
I am so grateful for this video. I deal with perfectionism, people pleasing, and feeling powerless and you're so right about my dad. Ive been really trying to heal my solar plexus chakra and when you started talking about abuse and its effects it started throbbing. I never realized my relationship with my dad were the root causes. Thank you so much and I hope this helps others as much as it has helped me♡♡
Thank you so much. I never knew it was also related to my father's wound. I thought that it was only my mother's wound harming my self esteem by being so critical and controlling to me. I know now, that's it both. My heart is aching for experiencing unhealthy family relationships right now. I hope we could all heal from the things we don't discuss. 🥺
Dear Sira and Na T, for some reason there is no "reply" button on your comments, so I just wanted to say thank you for your feedback and I'm so grateful the video helped you. Many loving blessings
I think my dad walking out of my life when I was about 16 was part of the reason why I went through so many abusive relationships.
So sorry!!! 🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘🙏🙏🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm working on the father wound. I was in foster care due to my father. We don't speak anymore and he told a family friend that he never wants to speak to me again. That's like the ultimate abandonment wound. I'm committed to healing this and don't want to attract a toxic man or unavailable man.
Hello beloveds! I hope this video on healing our father wounds will support and empower you on your journeys and help you create healthy, happy lives. Please be sure to Subscribe to my channel to experience my "Past Life Healing", "Inner Child Healing", "Self Love" and "Chakra Healing" guided meditations to heal on an even deeper level. All my love
You have the kindest most loving eyes... I appreciate your wisdom, guidance, sympathy and compassion. Whenever I listen to your videos, I can totally feel so much love, light and truth emanating from you. Namaste 🙏
Dearest Syma, thank you so much for posting this video, because it's come at the right time for me. I'm trying to seek forgiveness and to forgive those to have betrayed and wronged me, and my father is the hardest chapter of all. Your video, your voice, and kindness and love are so comforting and helpful and it's definitely helped me understand myself better, and most importantly, recognise that I deserve a better future. I think I am ready to begin this self-healing journey.
Thank you, once more.
thanks, very true indeed. Maybe one day you'll release also a video on mother wounds, because, yes, they can do a lot of damage too...
she has a video about mother healing in case you've never seen it.
I had all of these with my dad. Thank you Syma
thank you so very much for this. we have the exact same childhood and to see such a radiant woman transmuting her pain into wisdom to share with other women gives me hope. thank you. namaste
THANK YOU FOR THIS! I just discovered this video and even though it was made soo long ago, I can relate to it 1000%. I am working on me, and discovering those deep roots is like a light shining in. Your video is still inspiring people many years later.
This video was my first intro to you Syma and wow how grateful I am for the beautiful alignment. I have been going through a intense journey for the past 16 months to come to learn my trauma has been sexual abuse from my father at age 4. My fam haven't been able to support me the way I need so I've pretty much been doing it all on my own despite having great friends who want to help. after watching this video last night I woke up in from my sleep with deep insights showing me that I cut myself off from the love and support I need and deserve because I didn't feel worthy of it and have allowed it and had almost accepted the physical pain as well as emotional etc as normal and been getting through my day to day life with a brave face and shutting myself off from ppl till I'm better. today I really worked on allowing myself to receive and to reconnect to my worthiness and I also said goodbye to a male friend who was my support system, but also exactly like my father in his own version. thank u syna for such a gorgeous and profound video, your essence is truely beautiful and your voice is just so calming. I am big fan and will continue to utlise your work to assist my healing. lots of love ❤💙
I grew up without a father, he left when I was one. He has 5 kids with 3 different women, we all went through foster care because of him. I confronted him about it a few years ago and he has yet to acknowledge all the hurt this has caused us... I want to heal but I don't even know where to begin...
I am so sorry 😢😘🙏❤️🥰🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
My father was a real dominating hard person..now that he is no more,he still haunts me in my dreams ,.and me being reiki master and healer,I miss him .and I want him peace.I do pray and meditate to my goddess,.and I get intutions via dreams.thanks for ur vdos
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Syma, you are the only spiritual influencer I trust and go to when I need some pep talk, thank you girl for being so wonderful!
Thank you Syma I Love the way you put across this difficult subject of abuse. 🌸
Wow she said forgive for yourself. That is just amazing. Thanks
Thank you Syma. Father healing is so vital to feeling safe, supported and loved in this world. I am grateful for you compassionate and kind wisdom and guidance.
I’m so grateful for finding your channel. This brought me to tears because for so long I felt that I didn’t have this issue because my step father raised me but wow just wow. Thank you!
AHa, this is the video that has helped me figure out where my issues started. Oh boy, leaving the cooperate world is what I have to do to stop the constant abuse.
I forgive myself for believing I wasn't good enough, that I wasn't loveable. My father wanted a son but he got three daughters. I was daughter nr 2. I tried so hard to be good enough for him during his life but I never felt the approval of my being. Last week I got a beautiful message from my father (he is a spirit now) true my "Good Tarot" card deck that he totaly accept me as a woman now. It was such a blessing for me. I can see now that he wanted to make his father proud if he gave him a son. All he wanted to do was to make his father proud as well. I forgive him for that. Thank you for sharing this content 🙏💖
Thank u very much for sharing we are three sisters too it make so much sense my father mentioned that he wishes to have a son but never really bothered but i never had a good relationship too. His brother has five sons and his father favorites his brother i guess due to that
Thank you 🙏!!! Beautiful 🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘🌻🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My dad could be mean, he would bully me and tease me. I always found myself having to protect myself at a very young age. In the end I've forgiving him for everything. Thanks for sharing this video. God bless! ❤
Thankyou thankyou thankyou. Not everyone understands how having a bad father figure makes you create relationships where you're looking for what you're missing and the damage it has on us and you said it perfectly. Thankyou so much for this video it really helped. Thankyou!
butterfly colours I'm so glad you found it helpful. It's been part of my own journey too and I am very passionate about helping fellow soul sisters heal these wounds so we can be empowered to move forward and flourish!
Wow, thank you so much for this. I could listen to you talk all day and you've put into words feelings I could not. Thank you from my heart!
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for doing this video Goddess!! Perfect timing... Its like you knew exactly what I was going through. I feel so much at peace and healed and understand myself even better. I love you lady angel!!
Namaste
Graciously,
Nadine
Syma, you are a lovely woman. I think I needed to watch this and your other videos. There are some wounds to heal. Thank you for the work you do and I think you are full of love and generosity. Thanks for sharing your gift, many blessings
So sad to hear about your childhood. I had such a good one... bless you Syma.
Congratulations on your progress: the worklife, husband, past lives, etc. And thanks for GIVING BACK. #WoundedHealer
Sending you love and light in sheer gratitudity for your words and understanding.
This video made me really cry 😢 Thank you for your work in helping us heal and learning to love ourselves again ❤ namaste 🙏🏽
You are so welcome and I'm honored to support you, beloved
I appreciate you so much and sharing part of your story 🧡
Such beautiful, grounded, and nourishing information!! Thank you and so many blessings!
Hi Goddess I am doing some root chakra work lately and pulling my cards for the day "Father Healing" card came out. This video was very helpful for understanding why its so important to do this work. So much love
Thank you for this. Each type applied, but the wounds with my mother were worse. I’d love to speak to you personally as I’m so far along in my healing journey now that I feel so close to being free of these traumas. To be able to discuss these things with someone who understands would be beautiful & so helpful for me to fully bloom into the woman I was always meant to be. You are an inspiration. Thank you 💗
Wow this is so eye opening, my dad was all of these. I’m having a lot more compassion for myself and where I’m at on my healing journey ❤️
Thank you so so much for this. I’m crying right now.
I have learned to love myself more and I like spending time on my own so I don't need a relationship and I have been single for 4 years but now I'm ready to be in a relationship again I seem to be attracting men who love bomb me, scare me off and then when I start to like them they either don't want a relationship, ghost me or disappear and then I feel abandonment issues but I am not clingy, I don't demand a lot of their time as I have my own life and I'm independent. So why is this happening?
Thank you so much . Just listening to your sayings helped me get over a deep pain I was feeling in my heart heart. Thank you
Thank you for your wonderful healing words. You touched on my experience precisely, and I'm sure many women's experiences too. I love how you address forgiveness, we must forgive so we can move forward, and create the life we want. God bless you and Namaste.
Bless your sweet Spirit for doing the good work 🙏🏾
Wow, this was a video packed with empowerment!
Thank you for breaking it down this way and for the healing tools.
Infinite gratitude.
Thank you so very much for this video! I REALLY needed to hear this today. Many blessings to you.
thank you.. u still are grateful for those abusive relationship.
Very healing attitude and voice.
I needed this. Thank you so much.. Universe guided me here..
Your message is beautiful and has lit a light deep in my heart.
I kind of have the opposite issue, instead of an absent I have an overbearing father who is kind of obsessed with me. I feel like he doesn’t really want me to grow up fully and be independent from him. Although he is very kind and supportive I sometimes can’t even stand to be in the same room with him because I feel his codependent energy and it makes me feel unfree in living my own life.
Similar issue here. I feel like my father wants to move my hands and feet also by himself. Like I am a puppet he is responsible for.
I can relate. My father was absent and wanted to control my life through my siblings 🤔 tough stuff!
I can only say Bravo for the work you did on yourself
Just found you and you’re awesome!! may I just say that culturally it can be challenging to bring the history of abuse to light. I have of course experienced much of what you shared and is also the reason I want to help others with similar history. Thank you for your courage to share some of your history. Much love to you🙏🏽🎊🧘🏽♀️
Thank you so much Syma! You are a blessing to so many! Light and Love to you and every being! ♥ :D
this is such a painful thing for me to hear about because i know my dad has done this to me. i hate having this in my life
My father and my mother broke up when i was 5 and traveled around the world for work ... never spent time with me because when he was back home, he would always be drunk. Im 26 now and I feel like i dont have a father. I hope i can heal this asap
Really love this video. My father passed away and it's been hard, although it was long ago. I feel as if I carry that with me in my daily trials.
I couldn’t thank you enough for this! ❤️
You are amazing thank you for sharing your experiences and gifts🎉💫👏🦄😄
wow thank you very much for your video and inspiration. You are such a strong women having overcome so many deep wounds. unbelievable. you are truly an angel.
Thank you for your video. It was very helpful and inspiring :)
Beloved syma , I am currently going through father daughter dense consciousness needs to purge as part of my spiritual growth. He still treats me like I was that little girl, I am a woman , a mother, a wife but he still manages to use his authority over me , and my siblings. I have almost disconnected myself completely from him in order for me to process my feelings but as I am anchoring in the divine feminine Wisdom , connecting to divine Goddess energy I feel a sense of empowerment. I don't know if I do just the spiritual work and cut those ties or if I should go and see him personally and talk to him?? I realise now I am not a victim . All of this pain has also taken its toll on my marriage to the point of releasing him for my own spiritual growth.
Sending love and gratitude your way. Waan
See you June 21st :) thank you for doing the work you do
I wanted to thank you for these videos. Thank you so much.
All the wounds fit n hit on so hard that I can't even listen to this moving on
You are such a blessing. Thank you Goddess✨
Thank you so much. This was really beautiful, brought up so many things. Can u pls do another such video with Goddess archetypes.
Thank you so much for your work!!! This is amazing
Thank you amazing Lady.
Thank you so much!
I feel you so much sister thanks 🙏
I didn't have father nor brother but suffered from severe mood swings problems . people thought I am bad person they are not able to understand how grown up girl suffer in mood swings.hated all men but later survived . married younger men whose mother died (single parent ).my mom was also not so mature because she was home maker.my grand father was like guardian .
My father used to neglect me and mock me sometimes
Aroa Azalea I’m so sorry to hear that, I pray you are healing & loving yourself ❤️
I am really glad I found you on you tube .....everything you said resonated with me deeply....maryann
Loving blessings!
Thank you!
Thank needed a lot yes all the wounds play out. Oui tout se joue.
Thank you for the validation 💓 really helpful video
Healing my daddy issues will this help my current relationship somehow? Will be influenced in a positive way ?
Yes it will help choose better partners and not repeat cycles
thank you so much.
thank you soo much siss 💖
I don't in the spiritual at least maybe not all of it but I do believe what you are saying. I'm trying to heal
Thank you
Thank you that was really helpful
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏💕
Great video! 🔥
Thank you for making this 💜
Thank u soo muchh🙏🏼💓
Thank you 🙏 🥰❤️🙏😘🌻🌻🌻
I feel like I don’t have father issue now since I become independent and I am not around him but I have men issue!
Thank you lovely❤️
Is there any specific meditation practice to heal these father wounds?
I am so happy for you :)
how can I set up some type of chat with you so that we could discuss my past lives and how they affect my present life and how I can begin my path to healing with the knowledge of my past lives?
I'm glad I came across your channel.
do you think you have the time to do a video for fighting parents?
step parents*
how to handle them?
stop them from going further in arguments?
and small childeren in the household.
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It is not your job to fix their problems. It is unhealthy for a child to go through this. I am sorry you're going through this, I wish you a bunch of love and care
I'm really working on my absent father wound . Should I want to find him or cope with not knowing .
I have found myself doing the exact same thing as my father did to me, towards my fiance. We are expecting in June and I am very wary on how to start training myself to learn to accept love and to be able to love so that I change the cycle. It has been a hard one for me over the years of emotional abuse to forgive and use that energy for positive. I am seeing someone but how do you do that when the abuser is still in your life and has control over it.
ferris bintz look up for the healing inner child meditation from Syma. What helped me the most was thinking about one particular memory each time I did the meditation. So I did it quite several times. Once you let yourself feel all the emotions you need to feel (in a safe space - so you can shout and cry if you need) , they kind of let you go. I experienced, that from day to day, I felt more detached from pain that was subconsciously ruling parts of my life. Just let yourself feel all the pain you need to feel. And after, even if the person is still in your life, you take the power he/she has and give it back to yourself.
I have been in the exact same place as you for the most part. I have been in a few relationships with emotionally unavailable men, as my father was. I am in the midst of a break(up) at the moment with the one man who is the exact opposite of all of them including my father. I've held myself back emotionally from him, I do not talk to him as I do others and it tears him up. I basically have done to this wonderful the same thing my father did to me, he was there but not and did not provide love, protection or support. The only time there was ever conversation was when I had a bad grade or I did something to get into trouble. He always accentuated the negative and never supported the positive and this is exactly how I am now. I have been in therapy but it's taken some time to find the right issue to start with. I feel that as soon as I am able to get past my father garbage and actually forgive him (for me only, of course) then I will be able to have the relationship I deserve. I hope and pray that you are well or at least better now and that your family is flourishing.
I never met my father (he died when I was a year old) and I'm the complete opposite of needy....