As soon as one of our closest friends left, they almost immediately began talking down on them and making all of these jokes at their expense. It made me realize that this was a regular occurrence, talking down on people who aren't in the room. That was the last time I hung out with that group.
Some friends asked me if I was ready to serve life in prison, fast forward 2 years, 3 of them are serving life sentences, and like 7 ended up snitching, as for me , well here i am on UA-cam aren't I?
When my best friend was only interested in me when bad things were happening to me. If good things were happening to me, she wasn't interested and would change the subject. When life got really good for me, she started to get nasty. Would comment on me being too skinny, that my partner was too soft and not a real man (her own partner had cheated on her multiple times by this point); she was just generally angry at me. I realised then, that the only reason she liked having me around her, was because she viewed me as below her. It made her feel good about herself to have someone around her, who wasn't as successful, pretty, etc... So, when I started to do well, she absolutely hated it, instead of feeling happy for me. I stopped all contact with her. She has tried multiple times to reach out, but I've ignored her everytime. I don't need that kind of negativity from my friends.
I realized I was friends with a burnout who never wanted to go out or do anything besides hang out and smoke weed. They worked delivering pizza and lived in their mom's living room. At some point I thought to myself that I needed to surround myself with people who aspired to more in life because I was hanging out with someone who didn't wanna do anything with theirs.
One thing I'll always appreciate my dad and step mom doing was stopping me from hanging out with the bad crowd before it was too late. They never did anything extreme, as far as I'm aware, but they weren't the best people, and I'm sure I would have turned out worse than I was back then. At least one of them has turned their life around it seems, and married an old friend of mine.
"Friends" were talking about a subject. Don't remember what. I chimed in, and within seconds, they all went silent and pulled out their phones. That was the moment I knew Idgaf anymore
When I realized that a lot of people I used to hang out with are doing the same thing today - smoking weed, playing video games and complaining about women. It gets old quick.
My ex friends were stealing alcohol from the store. Like regularly. One of them kept going back to this same toxic guy after he kept doing her wrong, and her guy friend was making threats to her and she kept taking him back as her friend. But one small argument got me booted from the group. I’m now glad I did.
1:14 I did exactly the same, and discovered that my family always expected me to make the effort. Over the years I had been at my brother's houses when my parents had called them to see how they were. At one point I'd overheard a conversation about my father and his wife both going to rescue her daughter from her meth head boyfriend, resulting in both getting beaten up and ending up in hospital, eight months prior. Nobody thought it was important enough to let me know. Same happened when my mother was going in and out of hospital, sometimes attempting to end herself. After the crap hit the fan over my mother's attempts at ending my life, and my father plus a brother, denying it had been going on for decades. I just disappeared, notified the police on why and haven't seen nor spoken to any of them since 2010. Also got fed up with extended family telling me to keep in touch over the years previously, but they never made any attempts themselves. I've always been the black sheep and now living quite better off without any of those fake people in my life. Good riddance to the entire family. I don't need any of them.
Not a crowd, just one person. I knew he was toxic and soul-draining for some time, but bad "you're a girl so you have to be nice" habits kept me seeing them once every other week to try and help them be less of an awkward shut-in. They got booted to the curb when they started going on about a domestic violence shelter was an "anti-men hate group". The anger made me stand up and walk out of the restaurant (prepaid for the meal). He texted me a lot of horrible things but I'm so happy to be free
At university, I was in serious low point in my life. I was depressed, neglected studying, and joined up with a group of folks who just shared memes and shit-talmed about other people all damn day. After awhile, I started doing better for myself. I started dressing semi-profesionally instead of looking homeless, started working out more, and started to prioritize my studies above that "friendship". I had been kicked out of the GroupMe chat for good because they thought my vibe was off. I've also tried to work on being more empathetic to people. I don't always suceed, but I want to be humble nowadays.
‘Junior high girls can be mean’ There is nothing on earth scarier than a pack of 11-14 year old girls. They’re animals. I say this having been a preteen girl at one point- rabid hyenas have nothing on them. They haven’t got enough empathy and foresight to think through the repercussions of their actions fully, and they’re overconfident because the world hasn’t kicked them down yet. 🤣
Want to hear something odd yet true? 12-16 year olds are literally the most dangerous people to be around in the early days of a widespread emergency situation (think aftermath of Katrina, little government presence, few supplies). Anyone younger than 12 isn't really a threat physically. Anyone older has a wider variety of skills to fall back on. 12-16 get desperate and go strait to "kill to live" mode.
Didn't really hang out with him but there was this kid I knew from church and our families were friendly. He was a bit of a class clown but whatever. We ended up at the same college, and his parents encouraged me to hang out with him so I could be a good influence. I was and am boring and rarely ever get into trouble. I wasn't interested in this plan and neither was he. Good thing, too, I heard he got mixed up with some guys who were breaking into cars. Last I heard he was fine so I guess he got out on his own.
Had a group of friends who all they did was talk shit but when you called them out they pulled the “you can’t be mean to them, they have depression” shit. I put up with it cause it’s hard to make friends. Eventually as they all shit talked to much and stirred eve pot to much, there was huge fight that broke out with everyone pointing fingers at each other. But instead of apologizing or talking about it, they all acted like nothing happened. I realized at 25 was way to old to hang out with fake people and ghosted them. They all still to this day try to guilt me to talk to them again lolol
This thread just made me feel absolutely terrible I just realized that I'm the wrong crowd that people eventually get the hell away from when they wake up. I'm 44 years old LOL
I had a couple moments like this. When I was 16-17, I hung out with this crowd of dummies because I had a thing for one of the girls. I was making a lot of money from my job, so I'd frequently treat anyone to anything they wanted, within reason. One day I ordered the crew three large Pizza Hut pizzas, as we were hanging out partying. After the food showed up they kindly told me to fuck off, and come back another time. I did not. I got to make out with the girl one time, so that was neat. Another was my oldest friend, knew and hung out with him for about 20 years. He was always a big edgelord, making racist and sexist jokes, treating his girlfriend terribly, just a generally shitty dude. I hung out with him because at the time I thought it was funny. Many years later he moved to another state, and after a while of only communicating by text I went to visit him. I had apparently grown up some, because all of his "jokes" and such were revolting. After leaving I just cut contact, don't need that negativity in my life.
This reminds me of one new year's eve when I and my girlfriends meet a group of guys, one of the guys was really chill and offered to pay us an entrance to a nightclub, maybe not even an hour later his friends left, you could see he was disappointed because he just spent a bunch of money to get them in, at least us girls were grateful and that was one of the best new year eves I had.
You seem like a nice person only a bit gullible. It's good that these at least taught you some self respect and that you progressed as a person. Also that group that you bought the pizza for was dumb. If you're the plug why would they treat you badly? If anything they should have kissed your ass, but beggers like choosing these days.
Was a shitheal 21yr old, hung out with other similar people, watched what I thought was my best friend ignore his 4 yr old daughter after she said "I love you daddy" repeatedly. As a dad.. I just couldn't associate with someone like that.
When she ordered me to loan more money to someone who already owed me money & who clearly had no intention of paying me back. I just said I was broke & therefore had nothing to "loan" her. They both looked at me as if I were scum. I left & avoided them until they gave up trying to con me back into their company. One, I heard later, was a stumbling, friendless druggie & the other appears to have disappeared.
I was the only one that didn't smoke meth. When I walked in on them smoking meth they didn't even put the pipe away, he just put his hand over the pipe while he was still hitting it.
Because they hardly want to talk to me and I'm always the one doing all the effort. This is what's keeping me from hanging out with friends at events. I have now learned that I have to realize if someone doesn't want to do anything. I'm not counting short conversations and then I'm by myself quiet because that's not friendship. That makes me feel lonely. I'm learning to become brave and start asking people I talk to if they want to hangout with me. If not then I'll stop talking to them and get to know more people.
After high school, I went to work and was usually busy doing that. I worked in one ranch or another and had to make my way in the world. Fast forward five years and found out. Most of them hated me and I was just clueless.
I remember a “friend” I had tried to get me jumped by a bunch of YG’s , all because I didn’t wanna buy him French fries. Mind you, I just spend my last spare money smoking and eating with this same person, but he couldn’t fathom that the rest of the money I had was for transportation to go to work. Wasn’t doing too well from the last I seen, still tryna use… And I don’t care neither 🤷🏽♂️
Mine was pretty recent: A buddy of mine was pretty clingy with me (it was more lowkey, it got worse leading up to this point to where I couldn't walk someone without them following me), and I soon got fed up with it after one day when I found out they were going around saying I was their BIOLOGICAL SISTER (I specified to people that I wasn't even related to them, I just sort of unofficially adopted them. They were around me when I said that too). So I confronted them over text, thought it was just that, until after my fifth period a friend came up to me, and showed me some texts that apparently had them threatening to kill themselves. I was livid, mostly because this wasn't the first time somebody did this to me, but also that I stated my point in the most firm way possible, and that was her response. The most I did after that was let my school counselor know, who forwarded it to their counselor, and that was that. This all started on fucking Monday. This has been a bad week for me, and they still are contacting my mutual friends to make a suicidal threat. I'm just ignoring them until they give up, I'm done talking with them.
Send a wellness check, let their parents know of their behavior, or block this person for good. They may not be well mentally, but you and your friends aren't responsible for this person's state of mind.
When I was 14 I was invited to go to a church a couple miles from my house. My parents liked for me to go to church even though they never went themselves. So I got dropped off at this church. The minister's daughter went to my school so we started hanging out. My parents were in favor of this since she seemed safe, being a preacher's daughter. She would talk to me about being attracted to grown men, how much money some prostitutes she knew made every night, how cool it would be if we ran away and became prostitutes. I didn't have any interest, so if I couldn't get her to change the subject I would go home. One time I was invited to go to the fair with her and her older sister. Her parents promised mine that it would be alright because his daughters were good girls. The sister ditched us in the parking lot. We went in by ourselves. We rode a couple rides and then she had a surprise for me. Our "dates" had arrived! These men looked to be about 30. And they wanted us to leave with them. She was excited. I was scared. I refused to go. They tried to sweet talk me into leaving. I then started looking for security. The men swore, called us some colorful words I hadn't heard before, and left. My friend started yelling that I had ruined everything. I remember getting in trouble for calling my parents to come and get me early, but I didn't care. After that whenever my former friend saw me she would spit on me and swear at me. A few months later I didn't see her anymore. I asked around and was told she had "decided to go live with relatives "
Holy shit 14 year old you coped spectacularly well with a horrifically dangerous situation! It sounds like your friend was super messed up, and at least you kept her safe that one time. Be proud of 14 year old you - she was amazing!
@@pollyrg97Thanks. I don't think I was amazing so much as terrified. She kept talking about prostitutes and willing older men she knew. I didn't take it seriously because I had never met people like that so I thought she hadn't either. Honestly, I should have stopped hanging out with somebody whose biggest dream was having s** with older men. We had nothing in common and I was just trying to be nice.
@@lorisewsstuff1607 you were really a patient with her because after you potentially saving both of y’all, she wanted to spit on you, some hands would been thrown because she put you in a compromising situation and mad you didn’t follow through on her BS! I grew up in church and family members are pastors and those usually the wildest kids. My family took offense when I said it but they didn’t prove me wrong!
That is disturbing. Wanting to be with older men while being so young? And trying to drag another girl into that? *She will be in for a rude awakening.* 😰
Translation: my parents found out what I was doing, and sent me off to stay with people who'll watch me like a hawk, probably one of those "boot camps" they send bad kids to.
The one about OP's husband stopping texting everyone to see how long it would take them to see if they text back, I've done something similar. I silently left the church I attended one day and haven't been back. It's been 7 years and none of them have contacted me even though they have my number. I should also mention that this was in another state, and I've moved twice since then.
This might get long but here my experience. When I went to jobcorps, I’ve met up a few people from my group I arrived. We all came from fucked up backgrounds and i thought what I had was something good for about a week. until the main girl of the group started throwing accusations about some drama that SHE started with some girl on campus. Basically she turned the entire group on me by getting me involved with something I didn’t know anything about. After that moment I realized how they always got involved with some drama that could put my life in jeopardy if I continued to be in the same group and as I started to do my own thing away from the group . That’s was when I meet my now current boyfriend and he has been there for me when I get emotional about my situation with my “friends” and I’m glad I have him
My best friend in high school was a mean girl and constantly was trying to one up me. I was picked on as a kid and kind of blossomed without realizing in high school. We were told we looked alike but I was smaller than her so she constantly asked people who was the prettier friend in front of me and would get so pissed if they didn’t say her. She eventually slept with my first real boyfriend my junior year that I had been with for nearly 2 years. After that we stupidly ended up in a fist fight and we were in a small town so I was basically shunned for making a big deal out of something that should have been kept “private” in many other peoples opinions. It actually was for the better and my life turned out great compared to both of theirs. They both ended up turning into addicts and she has 3 baby daddies and doesn’t have custody of any of her kids. I never wished that for her and I really loved her when we were friends and never thought anything bad about her but once the rose colored glasses were lifted I grew up a ton. I learned a lot from that experience alone and I got out of the path I was headed down. So I’m thankful for that bad friend
I'm 19 I hanged out with the wrong crowd once and made out with a hobo woman I realized at that moment I was hanging out with the wrong crowd and now I rarely talk to people and stay inside because I don't trust anyone.
I was about 18 at the time and just assumed I knew better now that I was a legal adult. Well me and my friend went to hangout at some dude's house and they were having some party. Before I knew it I was taking random substances left and right. He had left with a friend to go to the store by bike and left me behind in the garage with the friend's girlfriend. The guy they were staying at invited me inside for a drink and I just went in to open myself up and mingle. Well, there was a dude who was constantly staring at me even when I was still in the garage a few minutes before. He started getting really close to me and backed me into a corner trying to touch my chest. I started getting extremely uncomfortable and he tried to grab my hand. I remember crying and leaving in a panic bc he was trying to lead me into an empty room. I tried running down the street hoping my friend was on his way back. I told him everything that happened and a big fight erupted. Next thing ik we're in a garage and there's a dude with a gun. He's the guy who lives there. I don't remember much of what happened but I just remembered seeing the gun and that was it.
heavy on the 3:44 people are so annoying when they just decide to talk about EVERYONE. had a friend group like that, complained and were just haters all around. so draining
A lot of people don’t realize after school and college it doesn’t matter and everyone moves away and starts their lives in the real world, I got lucky and see a couple high school friends every now and then but not as much, the people who don’t look towards the future are gonna be people you may want to drop as your friends because they won’t do anything with their lives and be stuck in a rut forever which is sad so if you don’t talk to those people anymore don’t feel sad because friends come and go so focus on your future and not being worried about surrounding yourself with negative people
I sometimes questioned whether the few friends I have are “that crowd” of stereotypical “losers”… but it’s only after reflecting that those supposed losers are my true friends. Yes there are other *acquaintances* I’ve had over the years who’ve been more popular and successful… I have been regularly taken advantage of and rejected by those people to further their own ambitions, while my “loser” friends have always been there for me when others (even family) have not…
1:14 currently going through this. fuck all these fake ass friends. only got people reaching out for money or other materialistic shit. literally feels like i have no one. i feel absolutely worthless. i knew it too. i’m fucking stupid lmao.
Got left downtown super drunk alone in a sketchy part of my city. A week after I was the only one who helped my friend out who got roofied after all her friends left her behind. Yeah stopped hanging out with them
My "best friend" in high school (16 at the time) was a well-known 304, and while I knew it to some extent, I didn't think much of it. One night after work, she comes in with her current boyfriend and one of his friends. She tells me his friend is visiting for a few days and wanted to get to know the area. Since he didn't speak English (I'm Mexican), I should help him out. We drove to the rest area high school kids usually hung out on the weekends around 11pm. Homie was being way too forward with me and kept trying to touch me. It got to the point which was feeling like sexual assault. So I asked him why the hell he was trying so hard to touch me. He then told me that his friend and girlfriend said I was an easy lay and would do it with anyone. I then realized my "best friend" pimped me to this dude without my knowledge. I had no interest in boys at the time and have never even had a boyfriend. When I comfronted my friend, she said she was tired of hanging out with a prude stuck-up bitch and wanted us both to ho around. I didn't speak to her the entirity of junior year. I later learned she got pregnant and took off half of junior year to have the kid and gave it up for adoption. Tl;dr: whore "best friend" pimped me to her boyfriend's friend without my knowledge and told her to BTFO.
My co-worker just sent her boyfriend into work (employee only area) to scream and threaten to kill me. Why? I used to work with her dad that would tell me all the stupid shit she got into. 1. at 17 she beat a 14-year-old into a coma for flirting with her ex. 2. Drug addictions. 3. Having to pull her out of a drunken/drugged up party before she had a train pulled on her 4. Went on a cross-country drug smuggling trip and got caught. 5. Evicted multiple times. 6. Got impregnated by a homeless guy. 7. nearly flunked out of school. 8. Multiple cases of shoplifting. Should I have been gossiping? well no, that's me being an ass. However, the BF was mad I was "tarnishing her reputation". Like, bro, we are in a town of 6,500 people. People know she's a druggy hoe. Not being able to own your mistakes is beginning to be a trademark of 20-somethings today.
I didn't realize I was with the wrong crowd. I realized I was with the wrong colleague. That was when I discovered her true colors after a worker of ours, who we were a little unfair to, almost died and she didn't care as much as she could have. I mean, I know she cares about his accident and conditioning, of course, but not enough to reduce his mistakes and see where we went wrong too. We really should not have taken him to her office to talk to him; we could've handled it better and shown some sensitivity. But she insists we didn't do anything wrong, that only he did, and that no matter what happens to him, it will always be that way. That we will always be right, and he will always be wrong for what he did. That's when I quit working with this woman. When you're with the wrong person, get away immediately.
I didn't realize I was with the wrong person. I realized I was with the wrong colleague. That was when I discovered her true colors after a worker of ours, who we were a little unfair to, almost died and she didn't care as much as she could have. I mean, I know she cares about his accident and conditioning, of course, but not enough to reduce his mistakes and see where we went wrong too. We really should not have taken him to her office to talk to him; we could've handled it better and shown some sensitivity. But she insists we didn't do anything wrong, that only he did, and that no matter what happens to him, it will always be that way. That we will always be right, and he will always be wrong for what he did. That's when I quit working with this woman. When you're with the wrong person, get away immediately.
I’ve had a similar situation, but I wasn’t with these girls for very long, but the first time I’ve met them was in high school during lunch. I was a fairly socially awkward kid (I still kinda am tbh) and I happened to meet three of these girls when I randomly sat at a table with them (I didn’t have friends I could meet with during lunch). So one day during lunch we started talking about my stepmom, who I happen to have a very close relationship with. I can’t exactly remember what lead us to talk about her and what we were talking about, but when I told them about how she was tough on me sometimes (don’t get me wrong, she did it mostly because she loved me and wanted me to grow as a person), one of the girls said that my stepmom was a stuck-up b*tch or something along those lines. I got really pissed and noped away from that table. And then they sent a boy (who was in special ed that I happened to know back in my elementary days) to get me to come back. He asked if I was okay and I flatly said no, and he left without another word. Glad I stayed away from those girls, and the fact that they manipulated that boy to get me to sit with them again is so fricked up, especially when I’m autistic myself.
1. had a weird friend who was nice at first. But then this person wanted to start licking my body and trapping animals in small boxes… Haven’t seen this person in a long time.
My friend kidnapped me and tried to force me to do heroine then wrecked the car and almost overdosed while driving nose bleed and everything. Lol we don’t talk anymore
when I realized that my friends were only my friends because we made fun of people and needed someone to talk to and we didn't actually like each other one of them is an ass the other I barely talk to anymore I have a great friend group and they actually care and it's a bit confusing and new for me
Just gonna say, this dude online cos I wanted help with bosses in toontown. I one day just grew sick of him calling me in tears about girl problems (with a girl who could never decide between him and other guys and wouldn't disclose the existence of the other guys to each other) and how people were mean to him at work (but like bruh, he worked at Amazon and refused to use the machines). The funny thing is, along the way, he'd introduced me to someone else and we both agreed that guy who introduced us both was a total weenie.
funny how this happens to individuals who may not be like me but they still make the same mistakes like me, no matter what the group may claim to be...ie AA, highschool clubs or friends groups or college society... you know it's a cult when you decide to explore non group stuff and your do called group friends stop calling you don't answer or don't return calls...AA for example, hell they may or probably still have friends that use booze or for but are not in AA, but if you decide you ain't AA, you are some how not the same as those other types who never quitti begin with.... trying to splain AA to normies here right lol
AFL is the worst in my opinion in melbourne, australia so many fights break out non stop during football matches its insane asf hencewhy i never go to watch the AFL anymore
Every fucked up set of friends has that one person who eventually doesn't want anything to do with them later on.
As soon as one of our closest friends left, they almost immediately began talking down on them and making all of these jokes at their expense. It made me realize that this was a regular occurrence, talking down on people who aren't in the room. That was the last time I hung out with that group.
Some friends asked me if I was ready to serve life in prison, fast forward 2 years, 3 of them are serving life sentences, and like 7 ended up snitching, as for me , well here i am on UA-cam aren't I?
You did the right thing and they weren't friends
I'm happy they didn't drag you down with them. Consider yourself lucky my dude, that stuff just isn't worth it in the slightest.
When my best friend was only interested in me when bad things were happening to me. If good things were happening to me, she wasn't interested and would change the subject.
When life got really good for me, she started to get nasty. Would comment on me being too skinny, that my partner was too soft and not a real man (her own partner had cheated on her multiple times by this point); she was just generally angry at me.
I realised then, that the only reason she liked having me around her, was because she viewed me as below her. It made her feel good about herself to have someone around her, who wasn't as successful, pretty, etc... So, when I started to do well, she absolutely hated it, instead of feeling happy for me. I stopped all contact with her. She has tried multiple times to reach out, but I've ignored her everytime. I don't need that kind of negativity from my friends.
I realized I was friends with a burnout who never wanted to go out or do anything besides hang out and smoke weed. They worked delivering pizza and lived in their mom's living room. At some point I thought to myself that I needed to surround myself with people who aspired to more in life because I was hanging out with someone who didn't wanna do anything with theirs.
When I tell you I felt this !!
One thing I'll always appreciate my dad and step mom doing was stopping me from hanging out with the bad crowd before it was too late. They never did anything extreme, as far as I'm aware, but they weren't the best people, and I'm sure I would have turned out worse than I was back then. At least one of them has turned their life around it seems, and married an old friend of mine.
"Friends" were talking about a subject. Don't remember what. I chimed in, and within seconds, they all went silent and pulled out their phones. That was the moment I knew Idgaf anymore
Ouch, happened to me too. Good on you for ditching them
When I realized that a lot of people I used to hang out with are doing the same thing today - smoking weed, playing video games and complaining about women. It gets old quick.
My ex friends were stealing alcohol from the store. Like regularly. One of them kept going back to this same toxic guy after he kept doing her wrong, and her guy friend was making threats to her and she kept taking him back as her friend. But one small argument got me booted from the group. I’m now glad I did.
1:14 I did exactly the same, and discovered that my family always expected me to make the effort.
Over the years I had been at my brother's houses when my parents had called them to see how they were.
At one point I'd overheard a conversation about my father and his wife both going to rescue her daughter from her meth head boyfriend, resulting in both getting beaten up and ending up in hospital, eight months prior.
Nobody thought it was important enough to let me know.
Same happened when my mother was going in and out of hospital, sometimes attempting to end herself.
After the crap hit the fan over my mother's attempts at ending my life, and my father plus a brother, denying it had been going on for decades.
I just disappeared, notified the police on why and haven't seen nor spoken to any of them since 2010.
Also got fed up with extended family telling me to keep in touch over the years previously, but they never made any attempts themselves.
I've always been the black sheep and now living quite better off without any of those fake people in my life.
Good riddance to the entire family.
I don't need any of them.
Not a crowd, just one person. I knew he was toxic and soul-draining for some time, but bad "you're a girl so you have to be nice" habits kept me seeing them once every other week to try and help them be less of an awkward shut-in.
They got booted to the curb when they started going on about a domestic violence shelter was an "anti-men hate group". The anger made me stand up and walk out of the restaurant (prepaid for the meal). He texted me a lot of horrible things but I'm so happy to be free
At university, I was in serious low point in my life. I was depressed, neglected studying, and joined up with a group of folks who just shared memes and shit-talmed about other people all damn day.
After awhile, I started doing better for myself. I started dressing semi-profesionally instead of looking homeless, started working out more, and started to prioritize my studies above that "friendship". I had been kicked out of the GroupMe chat for good because they thought my vibe was off. I've also tried to work on being more empathetic to people. I don't always suceed, but I want to be humble nowadays.
‘Junior high girls can be mean’
There is nothing on earth scarier than a pack of 11-14 year old girls. They’re animals. I say this having been a preteen girl at one point- rabid hyenas have nothing on them. They haven’t got enough empathy and foresight to think through the repercussions of their actions fully, and they’re overconfident because the world hasn’t kicked them down yet. 🤣
Want to hear something odd yet true? 12-16 year olds are literally the most dangerous people to be around in the early days of a widespread emergency situation (think aftermath of Katrina, little government presence, few supplies). Anyone younger than 12 isn't really a threat physically. Anyone older has a wider variety of skills to fall back on. 12-16 get desperate and go strait to "kill to live" mode.
Didn't really hang out with him but there was this kid I knew from church and our families were friendly. He was a bit of a class clown but whatever. We ended up at the same college, and his parents encouraged me to hang out with him so I could be a good influence. I was and am boring and rarely ever get into trouble. I wasn't interested in this plan and neither was he. Good thing, too, I heard he got mixed up with some guys who were breaking into cars. Last I heard he was fine so I guess he got out on his own.
Had a group of friends who all they did was talk shit but when you called them out they pulled the “you can’t be mean to them, they have depression” shit. I put up with it cause it’s hard to make friends. Eventually as they all shit talked to much and stirred eve pot to much, there was huge fight that broke out with everyone pointing fingers at each other. But instead of apologizing or talking about it, they all acted like nothing happened. I realized at 25 was way to old to hang out with fake people and ghosted them. They all still to this day try to guilt me to talk to them again lolol
This thread just made me feel absolutely terrible I just realized that I'm the wrong crowd that people eventually get the hell away from when they wake up. I'm 44 years old LOL
Never too late to change! 🤣
I had a couple moments like this.
When I was 16-17, I hung out with this crowd of dummies because I had a thing for one of the girls. I was making a lot of money from my job, so I'd frequently treat anyone to anything they wanted, within reason. One day I ordered the crew three large Pizza Hut pizzas, as we were hanging out partying. After the food showed up they kindly told me to fuck off, and come back another time. I did not. I got to make out with the girl one time, so that was neat.
Another was my oldest friend, knew and hung out with him for about 20 years. He was always a big edgelord, making racist and sexist jokes, treating his girlfriend terribly, just a generally shitty dude. I hung out with him because at the time I thought it was funny. Many years later he moved to another state, and after a while of only communicating by text I went to visit him. I had apparently grown up some, because all of his "jokes" and such were revolting. After leaving I just cut contact, don't need that negativity in my life.
This reminds me of one new year's eve when I and my girlfriends meet a group of guys, one of the guys was really chill and offered to pay us an entrance to a nightclub, maybe not even an hour later his friends left, you could see he was disappointed because he just spent a bunch of money to get them in, at least us girls were grateful and that was one of the best new year eves I had.
You seem like a nice person only a bit gullible. It's good that these at least taught you some self respect and that you progressed as a person. Also that group that you bought the pizza for was dumb. If you're the plug why would they treat you badly? If anything they should have kissed your ass, but beggers like choosing these days.
Was a shitheal 21yr old, hung out with other similar people, watched what I thought was my best friend ignore his 4 yr old daughter after she said "I love you daddy" repeatedly. As a dad.. I just couldn't associate with someone like that.
When i was 14, two of my best friends ODed in the school bathroom. I don’t think I need to elaborate any more
When she ordered me to loan more money to someone who already owed me money & who clearly had no intention of paying me back. I just said I was broke & therefore had nothing to "loan" her. They both looked at me as if I were scum. I left & avoided them until they gave up trying to con me back into their company. One, I heard later, was a stumbling, friendless druggie & the other appears to have disappeared.
Wow....after hearing all these stories, it's almost as if taking drugs is stupid.
Who knew??
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I was the only one that didn't smoke meth. When I walked in on them smoking meth they didn't even put the pipe away, he just put his hand over the pipe while he was still hitting it.
Because they hardly want to talk to me and I'm always the one doing all the effort. This is what's keeping me from hanging out with friends at events. I have now learned that I have to realize if someone doesn't want to do anything. I'm not counting short conversations and then I'm by myself quiet because that's not friendship. That makes me feel lonely. I'm learning to become brave and start asking people I talk to if they want to hangout with me. If not then I'll stop talking to them and get to know more people.
After high school, I went to work and was usually busy doing that. I worked in one ranch or another and had to make my way in the world. Fast forward five years and found out. Most of them hated me and I was just clueless.
I do not stay in crowds nor herds. I have never done nor ever will.
I remember a “friend” I had tried to get me jumped by a bunch of YG’s , all because I didn’t wanna buy him French fries.
Mind you, I just spend my last spare money smoking and eating with this same person, but he couldn’t fathom that the rest of the money I had was for transportation to go to work.
Wasn’t doing too well from the last I seen, still tryna use… And I don’t care neither 🤷🏽♂️
Mine was pretty recent:
A buddy of mine was pretty clingy with me (it was more lowkey, it got worse leading up to this point to where I couldn't walk someone without them following me), and I soon got fed up with it after one day when I found out they were going around saying I was their BIOLOGICAL SISTER (I specified to people that I wasn't even related to them, I just sort of unofficially adopted them. They were around me when I said that too). So I confronted them over text, thought it was just that, until after my fifth period a friend came up to me, and showed me some texts that apparently had them threatening to kill themselves. I was livid, mostly because this wasn't the first time somebody did this to me, but also that I stated my point in the most firm way possible, and that was her response. The most I did after that was let my school counselor know, who forwarded it to their counselor, and that was that. This all started on fucking Monday. This has been a bad week for me, and they still are contacting my mutual friends to make a suicidal threat. I'm just ignoring them until they give up, I'm done talking with them.
Send a wellness check, let their parents know of their behavior, or block this person for good. They may not be well mentally, but you and your friends aren't responsible for this person's state of mind.
When I was 14 I was invited to go to a church a couple miles from my house. My parents liked for me to go to church even though they never went themselves. So I got dropped off at this church. The minister's daughter went to my school so we started hanging out. My parents were in favor of this since she seemed safe, being a preacher's daughter. She would talk to me about being attracted to grown men, how much money some prostitutes she knew made every night, how cool it would be if we ran away and became prostitutes. I didn't have any interest, so if I couldn't get her to change the subject I would go home. One time I was invited to go to the fair with her and her older sister. Her parents promised mine that it would be alright because his daughters were good girls. The sister ditched us in the parking lot. We went in by ourselves. We rode a couple rides and then she had a surprise for me. Our "dates" had arrived! These men looked to be about 30. And they wanted us to leave with them. She was excited. I was scared. I refused to go. They tried to sweet talk me into leaving. I then started looking for security. The men swore, called us some colorful words I hadn't heard before, and left. My friend started yelling that I had ruined everything. I remember getting in trouble for calling my parents to come and get me early, but I didn't care. After that whenever my former friend saw me she would spit on me and swear at me. A few months later I didn't see her anymore. I asked around and was told she had "decided to go live with relatives "
Holy shit 14 year old you coped spectacularly well with a horrifically dangerous situation! It sounds like your friend was super messed up, and at least you kept her safe that one time. Be proud of 14 year old you - she was amazing!
@@pollyrg97Thanks. I don't think I was amazing so much as terrified. She kept talking about prostitutes and willing older men she knew. I didn't take it seriously because I had never met people like that so I thought she hadn't either. Honestly, I should have stopped hanging out with somebody whose biggest dream was having s** with older men. We had nothing in common and I was just trying to be nice.
@@lorisewsstuff1607 you were really a patient with her because after you potentially saving both of y’all, she wanted to spit on you, some hands would been thrown because she put you in a compromising situation and mad you didn’t follow through on her BS! I grew up in church and family members are pastors and those usually the wildest kids. My family took offense when I said it but they didn’t prove me wrong!
That is disturbing. Wanting to be with older men while being so young? And trying to drag another girl into that? *She will be in for a rude awakening.* 😰
Translation: my parents found out what I was doing, and sent me off to stay with people who'll watch me like a hawk, probably one of those "boot camps" they send bad kids to.
The one about OP's husband stopping texting everyone to see how long it would take them to see if they text back, I've done something similar. I silently left the church I attended one day and haven't been back. It's been 7 years and none of them have contacted me even though they have my number. I should also mention that this was in another state, and I've moved twice since then.
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This might get long but here my experience.
When I went to jobcorps, I’ve met up a few people from my group I arrived. We all came from fucked up backgrounds and i thought what I had was something good for about a week. until the main girl of the group started throwing accusations about some drama that SHE started with some girl on campus. Basically she turned the entire group on me by getting me involved with something I didn’t know anything about. After that moment I realized how they always got involved with some drama that could put my life in jeopardy if I continued to be in the same group and as I started to do my own thing away from the group . That’s was when I meet my now current boyfriend and he has been there for me when I get emotional about my situation with my “friends” and I’m glad I have him
My best friend in high school was a mean girl and constantly was trying to one up me. I was picked on as a kid and kind of blossomed without realizing in high school. We were told we looked alike but I was smaller than her so she constantly asked people who was the prettier friend in front of me and would get so pissed if they didn’t say her. She eventually slept with my first real boyfriend my junior year that I had been with for nearly 2 years. After that we stupidly ended up in a fist fight and we were in a small town so I was basically shunned for making a big deal out of something that should have been kept “private” in many other peoples opinions. It actually was for the better and my life turned out great compared to both of theirs. They both ended up turning into addicts and she has 3 baby daddies and doesn’t have custody of any of her kids. I never wished that for her and I really loved her when we were friends and never thought anything bad about her but once the rose colored glasses were lifted I grew up a ton. I learned a lot from that experience alone and I got out of the path I was headed down. So I’m thankful for that bad friend
Good for you 🙂
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I'm 19 I hanged out with the wrong crowd once and made out with a hobo woman I realized at that moment I was hanging out with the wrong crowd and now I rarely talk to people and stay inside because I don't trust anyone.
I was about 18 at the time and just assumed I knew better now that I was a legal adult. Well me and my friend went to hangout at some dude's house and they were having some party. Before I knew it I was taking random substances left and right. He had left with a friend to go to the store by bike and left me behind in the garage with the friend's girlfriend. The guy they were staying at invited me inside for a drink and I just went in to open myself up and mingle. Well, there was a dude who was constantly staring at me even when I was still in the garage a few minutes before. He started getting really close to me and backed me into a corner trying to touch my chest. I started getting extremely uncomfortable and he tried to grab my hand. I remember crying and leaving in a panic bc he was trying to lead me into an empty room. I tried running down the street hoping my friend was on his way back. I told him everything that happened and a big fight erupted. Next thing ik we're in a garage and there's a dude with a gun. He's the guy who lives there. I don't remember much of what happened but I just remembered seeing the gun and that was it.
3:40 my mom lmao
heavy on the 3:44 people are so annoying when they just decide to talk about EVERYONE. had a friend group like that, complained and were just haters all around. so draining
Some of these people are AWFUL for it reporting their criminal “friends “.
A lot of people don’t realize after school and college it doesn’t matter and everyone moves away and starts their lives in the real world, I got lucky and see a couple high school friends every now and then but not as much, the people who don’t look towards the future are gonna be people you may want to drop as your friends because they won’t do anything with their lives and be stuck in a rut forever which is sad so if you don’t talk to those people anymore don’t feel sad because friends come and go so focus on your future and not being worried about surrounding yourself with negative people
I sometimes questioned whether the few friends I have are “that crowd” of stereotypical “losers”… but it’s only after reflecting that those supposed losers are my true friends. Yes there are other *acquaintances* I’ve had over the years who’ve been more popular and successful… I have been regularly taken advantage of and rejected by those people to further their own ambitions, while my “loser” friends have always been there for me when others (even family) have not…
Tbh, the husband could have been the guy nobody wanted to hang with, but they couldn't tell him.
Jim realized he was in the wrong crowd too
1:14 currently going through this. fuck all these fake ass friends. only got people reaching out for money or other materialistic shit. literally feels like i have no one. i feel absolutely worthless. i knew it too. i’m fucking stupid lmao.
Got left downtown super drunk alone in a sketchy part of my city.
A week after I was the only one who helped my friend out who got roofied after all her friends left her behind. Yeah stopped hanging out with them
The title alone had me laughing at my idiot friends
When my friend says she wanted to go on a killing spree, while we vacation together. Umm. 😳 wtf
My "best friend" in high school (16 at the time) was a well-known 304, and while I knew it to some extent, I didn't think much of it. One night after work, she comes in with her current boyfriend and one of his friends. She tells me his friend is visiting for a few days and wanted to get to know the area. Since he didn't speak English (I'm Mexican), I should help him out. We drove to the rest area high school kids usually hung out on the weekends around 11pm. Homie was being way too forward with me and kept trying to touch me. It got to the point which was feeling like sexual assault. So I asked him why the hell he was trying so hard to touch me. He then told me that his friend and girlfriend said I was an easy lay and would do it with anyone. I then realized my "best friend" pimped me to this dude without my knowledge. I had no interest in boys at the time and have never even had a boyfriend. When I comfronted my friend, she said she was tired of hanging out with a prude stuck-up bitch and wanted us both to ho around. I didn't speak to her the entirity of junior year. I later learned she got pregnant and took off half of junior year to have the kid and gave it up for adoption.
Tl;dr: whore "best friend" pimped me to her boyfriend's friend without my knowledge and told her to BTFO.
My co-worker just sent her boyfriend into work (employee only area) to scream and threaten to kill me. Why? I used to work with her dad that would tell me all the stupid shit she got into. 1. at 17 she beat a 14-year-old into a coma for flirting with her ex. 2. Drug addictions. 3. Having to pull her out of a drunken/drugged up party before she had a train pulled on her 4. Went on a cross-country drug smuggling trip and got caught. 5. Evicted multiple times. 6. Got impregnated by a homeless guy. 7. nearly flunked out of school. 8. Multiple cases of shoplifting. Should I have been gossiping? well no, that's me being an ass. However, the BF was mad I was "tarnishing her reputation". Like, bro, we are in a town of 6,500 people. People know she's a druggy hoe. Not being able to own your mistakes is beginning to be a trademark of 20-somethings today.
I didn't realize I was with the wrong crowd. I realized I was with the wrong colleague. That was when I discovered her true colors after a worker of ours, who we were a little unfair to, almost died and she didn't care as much as she could have. I mean, I know she cares about his accident and conditioning, of course, but not enough to reduce his mistakes and see where we went wrong too. We really should not have taken him to her office to talk to him; we could've handled it better and shown some sensitivity. But she insists we didn't do anything wrong, that only he did, and that no matter what happens to him, it will always be that way. That we will always be right, and he will always be wrong for what he did. That's when I quit working with this woman. When you're with the wrong person, get away immediately.
Methadone Pete! That sounds friendly
I didn't realize I was with the wrong person. I realized I was with the wrong colleague. That was when I discovered her true colors after a worker of ours, who we were a little unfair to, almost died and she didn't care as much as she could have. I mean, I know she cares about his accident and conditioning, of course, but not enough to reduce his mistakes and see where we went wrong too. We really should not have taken him to her office to talk to him; we could've handled it better and shown some sensitivity. But she insists we didn't do anything wrong, that only he did, and that no matter what happens to him, it will always be that way. That we will always be right, and he will always be wrong for what he did. That's when I quit working with this woman. When you're with the wrong person, get away immediately.
I’ve had a similar situation, but I wasn’t with these girls for very long, but the first time I’ve met them was in high school during lunch. I was a fairly socially awkward kid (I still kinda am tbh) and I happened to meet three of these girls when I randomly sat at a table with them (I didn’t have friends I could meet with during lunch). So one day during lunch we started talking about my stepmom, who I happen to have a very close relationship with. I can’t exactly remember what lead us to talk about her and what we were talking about, but when I told them about how she was tough on me sometimes (don’t get me wrong, she did it mostly because she loved me and wanted me to grow as a person), one of the girls said that my stepmom was a stuck-up b*tch or something along those lines. I got really pissed and noped away from that table. And then they sent a boy (who was in special ed that I happened to know back in my elementary days) to get me to come back. He asked if I was okay and I flatly said no, and he left without another word. Glad I stayed away from those girls, and the fact that they manipulated that boy to get me to sit with them again is so fricked up, especially when I’m autistic myself.
I kinda relate to the story in 3:42 back in highschool
Jim killed himself a few months later.
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What an ending “Jim Killed Himself a Year Later”
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Drugs are bad
1. had a weird friend who was nice at first. But then this person wanted to start licking my body and trapping animals in small boxes… Haven’t seen this person in a long time.
That last one?
Only THEN did it occur to you??
My friend kidnapped me and tried to force me to do heroine then wrecked the car and almost overdosed while driving nose bleed and everything. Lol we don’t talk anymore
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My ex-best friend is a homophob and I'm bi and then kinda had the idea to never tell anyone in fear if being kicked out or haveing no friends
when I realized that my friends were only my friends because we made fun of people and needed someone to talk to and we didn't actually like each other
one of them is an ass the other I barely talk to anymore
I have a great friend group and they actually care and it's a bit confusing and new for me
I used to hang out with myself but I realized that I’m an ass hole. I quit hanging out with myself.
Just gonna say, this dude online cos I wanted help with bosses in toontown. I one day just grew sick of him calling me in tears about girl problems (with a girl who could never decide between him and other guys and wouldn't disclose the existence of the other guys to each other) and how people were mean to him at work (but like bruh, he worked at Amazon and refused to use the machines). The funny thing is, along the way, he'd introduced me to someone else and we both agreed that guy who introduced us both was a total weenie.
when i realized that i didn't really like the guy we were just the last couple of kids left on an absurdly long bus ride
The ending
“methadone pete”
funny how this happens to individuals who may not be like me but they still make the same mistakes like me, no matter what the group may claim to be...ie AA, highschool clubs or friends groups or college society... you know it's a cult when you decide to explore non group stuff and your do called group friends stop calling you don't answer or don't return calls...AA for example, hell they may or probably still have friends that use booze or for but are not in AA, but if you decide you ain't AA, you are some how not the same as those other types who never quitti begin with.... trying to splain AA to normies here right lol
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AFL is the worst in my opinion in melbourne, australia so many fights break out non stop during football matches its insane asf hencewhy i never go to watch the AFL anymore
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That futbol fan sounds really REALLY gay
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