VANESSA CHETTLE: "... NOT MY BIOLOGICAL MOTHER.."..FULL EPISODE..
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- In this episode, Vanessa Chettle responds to feedback from "THE VANESSA CHETTLE STORY" episode. She also responds to her step-sisters who sent us their reaction after the interview went live. Vanessa Chettle maintains she spoke her truth and she's very positive on rebuilding her life and securing her kid's future.
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Vanessa please open a UA-cam page start doing storytimes, show us your journey of rebuilding your life, some GRWMs, rants etc
Best comment, Yes please. You’re a gold mine fr fr.
I hope she does that. She needs to be supported resource-wise in order to achieve that.
@@tvlwanga i agree in terms of geing support with therapy and psychological help. People vlog with simple android phones, things are quite simple nowadays and vanessa is the type of person i’d watch ata akilala. Its okay to start literally from scratch. Just start with whatever you have!! God marvels and rejoices in humble beginnings. Just start vanessa dont worry about what you have or dont have.
True 💯
great idea!
My life without friends is now more peaceful.
We should help this girl to be on her and make her an ambassador of our young girls out there coping with drugs,sex and soft life addictions
I have to give it to the interviewer he took the criticisms positively and today's interview was way better good job
Thank you, I'll keep improving.
@@tvlwanga Good job
@@nekoyeommeh Thank you so much.
damn, this girl was born with beauty, despite aging and going through hardships, she is still stunning...keep fighting
You are doing great Lwanga Tv, 🤗. Please hold this girl’s hand until she stands on her feet. Just like Obinna has been doing with Dem wa Facebook.
Asante. I'll keep pushing.
Lwanga the fact that you accepted your mistakes whole heartedly and we can even see a huuggee change in this episode is heart warming. I've subscribed juu ya iyo. You're going far ❤
🙏I'll keep improving.
I think Vanessa can be a poster child for mental health topics maybe how to overcome addiction, toxic environments, public failure. It would be nice if she would take us along on finding herself as we explore the complex world of mental health and healing
I knew Vanessa from Juniorate Girls. She was outstanding. Such a sad story but may God restore her life
she is a star that will rise up again
She's such a beautiful soul she needs alot of guidance and counselling kuteleza sikuanguka i wish Vanessa all the best,if she will focus she will rise again,ALL THE BEST GIRL!!
This lady will rise again, its time
Families can break you. May God heal you. You are a bright girl. So impressed with the love for your kids
Vanessa needs to look at this in the simplest of forms…. She’s on her own ( besides support from friends and strangers). Family is never designed to lift you; if you’re lucky some will but the day your rise starts to show cracks, they’ll watch it all fall apart. Don’t get bitter, get better. See those lessons, move forward. She still has all the zest of life, vitality and energy. She has to begin a new life. Quite literally . Otherwise these elements will bog her down
she still has her groove inside of her ...Do get back on your feet girl ..we will always remember you at heart❤
Good job Lwanga TV. I would love to find a way for how her teeth can be cleaned and aligned. The discolouration needs to go. She's so pretty. Beautiful hair and skin.
Wow I wish you could help with this,I was really focusing on her teeth when she was talking and I wished she could get help with that,The drugs messed up her teeth.Shes so beautiful, in a few months time she will be a different person coz she's in a better space right now.
Are you going to pay for her dental work?
She thinks she's ready but it's not going to be that easy. Don't rush her to gigs. I suggest therapy kwanza then she decides what's she wants do with her life. Let her decide for herself.
I agree with you 100%
My worry is has she overcome the addiction? It could be a case of not being able to afford it and when she gets the money she goes back to all of it.
Agreed. Anyone looking at this unbiasedly can tell she's not ready.
You really improved on this interview ❤ Vanessa keep going, omba sana & read the Bible for encouragement , everything will work out good ❤
I'll keep doing better.
Thank you very much Lwanga today’s interview is top notch. Vanessa is talented let her start with a pod cast then she can create her own tv show like Lnn to encourage this young Girl who have gone through the same experience like her.
Vanessa ❤you will rise up again.Thats your story and for sure once you STAND UP you ll be able to help your children.in this situation you come first .Thank God for the ones taking care of yor children as Father's yes it's their responsiility anyway .BABY GIRL YOU ARE RISING. ❤🎉
Wahoo❤❤❤ kalucy wa kamacha is here ,Hi mum❤❤❤
Im so happy to see cheruto taking the bold step of healing.
I know it ain't easy but i believe God's grace will carry her through this.
Your candle is still lit.
Hugs 🫂 as you soldier on
I believe Mitchell. Vanessa's responses are those of a classic drug addict in denial. Everything is a lie. Everyone is against her. Vanessa is doing the same thing she accused her biological mom doing. Abandoning her kids.
Vanessa should stop blamming her family and clean her mess slowly.
Yes ,there is also forgiving and moving on,some people never get to see any parent neither a chance to school na wanasurvive. Take accountability vanessa that way you'll go far.
Until you’ve been through these things ( jealous family members who will show their colors when they presume you’re down and hide then when you rise) you won’t understand this. I also wouldn’t if I don’t have firsthand experience
@meddeck Believe her all you want. You and the rest of the know-it-all saints who are blaming Vanessa for everything should also dig into the root cause of her addictions - emotional neglect from primary caregivers. She is craving maternal love and paternal love and attention and suppressing it through substance abuse and wild behavior. Get over yourself
@@user-cs5bs8xd8rYou and the rest of the know-it-all saints who are blaming Vanessa for everything should also dig into the root cause of her addictions - emotional neglect from primary caregivers. She is craving maternal love and paternal love and attention and suppressing it through substance abuse and wild behavior. Get over yourself
If what Michelle said about the kids is true, then this is really messed up.
Vanessa is experiencing the consequences of living a wild life unfortunately. It is good she is sharing her story maybe she can start a UA-cam channel and continue with this momentum.
The interview today is calm and no interuption thanx lwanga tv
I support Vanessa have gone through her page and for real she's an open book familia sometimes ni wadaku tu na crap
Good interview today you got a new subscriber.
People should let this girl be kila mtu ako na past, so this family member coming here with sijui recipients what is exactly there missions? You let the past be n now focus on the present future now. Vanessa wishes you nothing but the best in your life.❤
Lwanga…Tumekusamehea..so now help ven open her own UA-cam channel
From obinna TV
May good things align in your favour,you will figure it out eventually
Some people n families are so toxic they can easily lead u into addiction without u knowing it. Untill u remember they r the problem n they wount change. It's upto u to change. God speed to everyone that can resonate with her n Vanessa.. I hope her downfall becomes her superpower by God's grace.. Thanks Lwanga for the interview n follow up
People really judge when someone is going through a hard phase of addiction and one thing is family never gets the depth of torture the victim/ addict goes through. I was in the space and unless you in that place, you can never understand... Most times people take you as a burden, blame you because they think it's a choice and you are enjoying it... It's slavery and it's a disease... It took God to save me from that, I was in a depressed state and it's dark. You only know you are an addict after you're hooked and you just can't snap out of it. Jesus saved me and my life changed. Nobody will Ever get you in this world, only God. She will have an amazing story to share and this will be history. Vanessa, you are amazing and God is with you. Life is beyond what meets the eyes.... Life is spiritual... A step at a time and trust in God in all you do. All is possible with Him.
Her context should be around drug rehabilitation, her journey and speaking to girls who have been through what she’s been through. As her manager why is this not clear to you ?? That’s her niche !!! She can interview other people who are also rehabilitating themselves!
It's been clear to me from the instant we interacted. Work is happening behind the scenes. Keep it here.
This gal is so gifted its unbelievable. She just needs a little guidance and she's good to go.
Vanessa reminds me of a cousin who has been through this shit from toxic nuclear family to drug and alcohol addiction... she's full of beauty,her English is superb and a good heart...the only difference between her and my cousin is that her mom is still alive but very toxic unlike Vanessa who has no mum...i always see Vanessa and see my cousin kabisa.
That's low for mitchelle,that message is horrible.
Lol aki watu wa Eldoret kumbe mko na udaku hivi. I think in the last video it was very clear to me she mentioned that her biological mother was not in the picture and that her maternal figure was her mom's mom or sth like that yaani shosho who passed away at some point. But here you are ati bringing receipts ya umbea trying to prove that she lied yet you guys didn't clearly listen to her. Eldoret are you guys ok?
my friend Eldoret in a city tobe soon
I love her honestly she is a good soul
Also, just had an idea. Tiktok is really changing lives for content creators. If she can hop on it that would be great.
vannessa please open a youtube channel and start from there no matter how your mental health is at we love you baby girl
Apology accepted sir❤❤❤
🙏More content coming.☺
Im With you
Other People Can Judge you but your family ..!!!
I Understand Siblings
God is not done writing your story kamum
y 🥰 keep on pushing...it will be well someday
Now , do one for Asbel Kiprop. The begotten fallen Olympic Champion.
I'm looking for him.
Lwanga tv ,i love this ,there is major improvements good job👏👏
Thank you so much..🙏
Venessa you are rising again ✨ 🙌
You will rise again Vanessa
VANESSA SHOULD BE HOSTING KISS FM. HER ENGLISH IS PERFETO!!!!
One thing dealing with an addict is not easy, family & society should understand that. So blaming an addict when they’re down is just useless coz all they need is love, if you can’t help them just take them to rehab.
Another thing …..no one in this world who owes you anything, no one
I concur.
Came here after obinna
You will bounce back in Shaa Allah ❤
Huyu dame ni mrembo btw
This is very good to get this weight of ur chest. Shows how mental health is extremely important.
Go go🎉🎉🎉lwanga tv❤super proud n happy for this chanel🎉
😘😘
Love you Van,here for all the good things about to happen in your life. Love❤ and light✨️
Vanessa has an important story to tell and I agree she needs to share more on social media like UA-cam. We are glorifying sherehe culture and clubbing but there is another dark side where many people are addicted to alcohol and drugs but it is packaged to look like it is clubbing or sherehe or aluta. Her voice will be important and her perspective will be very interesting. She needs to try focus on how things can work not always complaining or focusing on the barrier like she has no phone or camera. We are in a TikTok era, a basic smartphone will be enough for a start. She can be a good mental health advocate and give first hand experience of how she is dealing with her issues. She can also extend an olive branch to the lady recovering from drug abuse and they can mend fences and collaborate once a while to give perspective. They need to forgive each other and forge ahead. We need all their voices to save the next generation from drug and alcohol challenges and also how to handle social media fame coz it can be toxic.
Help her to open a UA-cam channel,,,and push ger to start her content
She has a beautiful powerful Voice,,,that commands attention
Nobody has the monopoly of wealth,Success keep of your negative family members.
PRAY PRAY PRAY stay low key,Keep of alcohol and drugs
YOU HAVE DONE IT BEFORE YOU CAN DO IT AGAIN.
Lwanga Tv... Find a way to fix her teeth,, it would be a first step before vloging...
Also dont allow everyone with a podcast to have access to her, if it's someone who is just looking for views through vanessa, then say no.. Look for a podcast that will make sense and help.. just be picky with that.
On it.
Something else that can help her is leaving her past life of alcohol,,drugs,,
And Focus on Church prayers and make it consistent
I have gone through a Worse face of life like her
Much worse than her...
And i am transitioning from my past to,,,where i was working as a civil Servant,,, Politician now on UA-cam and Service to Humanity Community Work.
Let here find her Passion Purpose and start small and make it consistent
I can arrange for her a scholarship to study fitness science if she is willing. exercise can really help in a big way.
I hope you get to reach out to them and help
Am proud of you charles. My former school mate....
Thank you so much. Send me a DM on Instagram or Facebook.
You aren’t your past @Vanessa and you owe no one an explanation…..concentrate on yourself and your babies.You have come this far and you will go even further.You can do this!!❤❤❤
She needs Therapy
Sending you love and light babygirl❤
I see some comments here of saints and I say saint sarcastically. Some of u saying victim mentality is because u haven't been sorriunded by toxic people to know how addiction. Mzungu said every dog has its days so b4 u try fitting in a shoes that u don't know where it pinches stop blaming Vanessa. Her story resonates wth so many untold stories
The family aren't saints. Vannesa ain't a saint pia. There is so much at play, but she does come from a shit family. I say that because if the dad allowed her to get married at 17! But she still needs to be accountable to herself.
Mitchell should post the court documents if it's true..... Vennesa you have been caught in a lie about your mum it's soo sad.
I feel like it's a sympathy "tour". It was very clear she was talking I'll of her biological mom. Accountability ndio ajifunze kwanza
How does that concern u..how does . posting documents help in any case.ur a jezebel.dont kick her wen she's down
@@wanjirus4809 💯 she hasn't changed ata kidogo she needs to see therapist... If the sister didn't speak up kange endelea tu kubeba watu ujinga.
All the best Vanessa you will make it.
I feel you girl I share your world
What you focus on expands ,,, dnt read her the negative feedback responses again.
She can start content from what she's passionate about,,,eg
She can start with her seat down
Lessons she's Learnt from Family dissing her,, having no job,,,no money
My thinking is this woman needs therapy first, she's still not okay. going back to hosting before therapy will take her back to alcoholism
Woiye i love Vanessa kanakaanga kasweet 😘
Happy to see another interview & this time they have not swallowed you😂😂😂😂
Sidenote:
Instead of reading the comments, select a few before filming & read those fluently also include them on screen.
Noted.
😅
This my number I love when in Nairobi please 🙏 stay with me
Stop reading her the negative comments in another episode you will do with her.
Its triggering her pain that shes working hard to overcome...
Focus on the good about her and positive comments.
I think her family failed her. Agreeing to your underage daughter to get married to a 60+ year old is mad weird.
It would be great to hear from her baby daddy at some point.
Also, she looks so much better from the first interview ❤️
I did not even notice you were not at 1000 subs yet. Congratulations!
And she's started to clean up nice.
help this lady openning youtube channel
In progress...
She needs therapy and allow God in her life
millenials look like vennesa..genz look like😊. millinials age like wine genzs age like milk😂
vanessa respond to kimberly..that will create good publicity and drama as well
I don't think she needs that kind of drama right now she might get stressed and relapse.she needs time to heal before creating keke for content
@@paula_green2478 ok
Vanessa say the truth n we shall help you. You know nothing about your daughter Anna .
now i like you just coz you like family guy😇
Hope she turns her lemons into lemonade ❤
Vanessa
Don't go to what broke u Vee, hosting is not not for u.
Hosting what?
Hata kamenona❤❤❤❤
Nilijua tu yy ni hybrid ..anyways hana hasara ni mrembo wenye wanaongea watachoka
Huyu Mitchell ni mgani? Mitchell Yola ama? 🫣
Nope. Her step sister.
Mitchell chettle
Thank you for taking accountability, I still think that your niche is NOT interviewing. I heard her mention that you are her manager, maybe that’s where you’ll shine, BUT please stop interviewing before you polish that skill
Lwanga, you can also keep going and learn on the job. If it's what you want to do, keep going and polish as you rise like Obinna. He keeps getting better at handling interviews, he didn't stop when the complaints came❤❤❤
@@RogueWifeI agree , with time he will be a pro,
It’s his UA-cam channel. How can you order him to stop doing interviews? The audacity is unreal.
If it wasn't his thing this chanel wouldn't have been growing this fast .
Normalise gratification in people's work .
Let's wait for your comment after I do Ten videos. For now I promise You don't know my niche yet.😁 But I thank you for watching, please look out for the next INTERVIEW.
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Finally 1000 subs n definitely 4k watch hours 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you so much. I'll keep pushing.
but can you blame a family for cutting off an addict? one thing with addicts ni constant victim mentality... kila mtu ni mbaya na atafeel entitled to help. I hope she does go to rehab and help herself
Wewe u r a saint others are sinners..
@@carolynegitee4155 relax.
She needs rehab
Exactly. Constant victim. She never did ANYTHING wrong in all these severed relationships. Everyone else wronged her. Take accountability.
No one is a saint. But honestly, dealing with addiction is something else. Sad, but true@@carolynegitee4155
can you please tell us who that sister is,,,she is so evil omg lying on vannesa's little kids
Everyone has their side of the story though
She sent pictures of the child with medical and police reports.
@@tvlwanga please tell vanessa we love her so much she is a really strong human and i believe she will come out stronger and better
@@tvlwanga so it's true 😮
@@kristinenyabera3473yes
Uko sure sio your mama kambo that farakanishad your life. Heheee not in a bad way but I'd confirm it. Sorry for all the wasted years you'll be bad on top