Ruslan KD Confronts George Janko & His Fiance About Marriage

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  • @barrykinzer6382
    @barrykinzer6382 3 місяці тому +291

    Just stop having sex until you are married. That will, I promise, speed up your plans to actually get married.

    • @mandavvv
      @mandavvv 3 місяці тому +13

      Yupp

    • @emmasmith7590
      @emmasmith7590 3 місяці тому +36

      They can’t stop when they’re living together, too much temptation. They must separate until the wedding day if that’s the plan or just go get married!!!

    • @bigzachful
      @bigzachful 3 місяці тому

      They don’t have time to get married but they have time to have sex

    • @CanditoTrainingHQ
      @CanditoTrainingHQ 3 місяці тому +1

      Bingo.

    • @markcaldera
      @markcaldera 3 місяці тому

      Or stop them and not get married and walk away as a lesson learned.

  • @ivancampos7302
    @ivancampos7302 3 місяці тому +80

    George, the reason you feel guilt is because the Holy Spirit is convicting you. You’re living in sin and until you marry her look at her like your sister. Stop dishonoring her and marry her. There will never be a “perfect” time to get married. Put your faith in Christ that he’ll lead you . God bless 🙏

  • @arkikali5632
    @arkikali5632 3 місяці тому +142

    This was wonderful advice. Y'all--get it done. This will (a) get you right with God, and (b) take all this stress and guilt off you. I think it's a fantastic idea!

    • @tunzjammer69
      @tunzjammer69 3 місяці тому +3

      Loved this!💜

    • @vman9347
      @vman9347 3 місяці тому +1

      It’s actually terrible advice. They are living a sinful life but their trying to make it sound noble

    • @arkikali5632
      @arkikali5632 3 місяці тому

      @@vman9347 Advising them to get married is terrible advice? That is what I was addressing.

    • @arcanum3882
      @arcanum3882 3 місяці тому +1

      @@vman9347true

    • @2ndtoJohn
      @2ndtoJohn 3 місяці тому

      @@vman9347Getting married now will lead to redemption

  • @Mfay4
    @Mfay4 3 місяці тому +16

    George’s excuse on this is always so cringe lol

  • @CalledtoChrist
    @CalledtoChrist 3 місяці тому +44

    Don’t worry guys, they’re in a transmarital relationship. They’re not actually married, but they see themselves as married so it’s okay.
    Woman to woman, Belle needs to respect herself a bit more. If George really honoured her like he says, it would be reflective in his actions. As a so-called husband, he is supposed to be her spiritual covering. Her purity is his responsibility and yet he continues to compromise her integrity by leading her into sexual sin. There’s no justification for why he hasn’t married her already. A marriage is a marriage. Not whatever you make it out to be in your mind

    • @sivialove475
      @sivialove475 3 місяці тому

      I agree tbh

    • @bigzachful
      @bigzachful 3 місяці тому

      Yes!

    • @Senza_1
      @Senza_1 2 місяці тому

      He’s a high earner and of high social standing. She will do what he wants and justify it to herself as he does to himself.

    • @oliviasearchwell5630
      @oliviasearchwell5630 2 місяці тому

      It goes God, men and then women and children. It quite literally is his responsibility and you are very correct. People take this as harsh but it is the truth! A healthy one at that.

  • @Edu-Take
    @Edu-Take 3 місяці тому +113

    I just attended my besties wedding last weekend. Her and her husband (fiancee) at the time lived together a year before they officially got married. I reached out to her a few days ago about how she was feeling and was like " you know me and my husband thought things would be the same but everything feels so different." I told her that because they are in a holy covenant everything is cemented in the eyes of God. I believe that this will happen for you too. Follow his ways and he will bless it 100x fold.

    • @wavyally
      @wavyally 3 місяці тому +12

      This is my story as well. My now husband and i lived together for years, we met Christ and decided we wanted to get married. Once we got married, everything changed. Which was definitely something I’d never thought would happen since I’ve lived with him for 3 years. Nothing has changed in the physical. Our everyday lives are the same but spiritual it’s a completely different feeling. The connection is on a different level. I now understand it’s more than sex that brings 2 to become 1

  • @CanditoTrainingHQ
    @CanditoTrainingHQ 3 місяці тому +11

    It seems like George is more upset at his guilt of it, than the wrongdoing itself of it.
    At some point you just have to put it into action and dont excuse it. He knows he shouldn't have sex now. Nothing left to do but actually stop. Its absolutely doable and real sacrifice that isnt tied to some career reward. Worst case, itll only make him stronger after it. Even fasting from sex within marriage can be a good exercise to make sure it doesnt become an idol.

    • @andrewkeck1776
      @andrewkeck1776 2 місяці тому

      Been a fan for years, Jonnie! Cool to see you comment this. I didn't know that you are a believer. You were very helpful, especially in my early years, in my lifting journey!

    • @BrandonWilliams-st8tb
      @BrandonWilliams-st8tb Місяць тому

      PEOPLE IN THE COMMENTS YOU DONT KNOW WHAT HIS FEELINGS ARE

  • @martinowusu847
    @martinowusu847 3 місяці тому +95

    I respect George for being so humble by willing to admit where he is wrong ! , I also love George's willingness to hear Ruslan out !

    • @JayM919
      @JayM919 3 місяці тому +5

      It takes humility, and he showed that!

    • @locobielsa8646
      @locobielsa8646 3 місяці тому +3

      Very true it takes real humility to do that. A lot of people woulda got defensive and said stop judging instead of being humble and seeing that one telling u this is only looking out for u and wants the best for u

    • @lexymartin6841
      @lexymartin6841 3 місяці тому

      Always

  • @HumbleChilduk
    @HumbleChilduk 3 місяці тому +70

    OBEDIENCE is key. Thank you for being so vulnerable, I’m learning.

  • @benaviyt1077
    @benaviyt1077 3 місяці тому +45

    My girlfriend who is now my fiancée, we lived together for around 5-6 years before marriage. Now, we’ve currently been living separately since January as we are getting married in September. We have also took pre-marital counseling with our Pastor and his wife. Mind you, we also have a 3 year old together. Yes, it can be difficult, but it’s all for the honor and glory of God. All glory belongs to Jesus!

  • @jaromudesigns2636
    @jaromudesigns2636 3 місяці тому +8

    " I told God", .....nope. God tell us, we obey period. Stop making excuses and twisting the word to fit your sin. Repent.

  • @hellymia88
    @hellymia88 3 місяці тому +6

    You guys are NOT married. You are NOT one, neither is she your wife nor is he your husband. You can not identify as being married. Therefore, you are still living in sin. It seems like you guys are just not willing to die to your fleshly desires, which is having se* with each other. You are fully aware of this sin and its consequences and yet you still choose to do it. How do you expect God to bless your covenant when you purposefully dont honor His commandments?

  • @user87953
    @user87953 3 місяці тому +40

    This is the only thing he consistently makes excuses for. God has not ordained or blessed a relationship that is outside of his standard, period. God gave clear instructions on marriage, cohabitation, fornication, God gave instruction that doesn’t change based on what WE think or WE feel there’s a lot of “we feel we think how we see it” but it just isn’t what the Lord has spoken. But glad they’re trying to take accountability and are aware of what’s wrong. If George doesn’t feel comfortable doing that at his parents home, he should revere and respect the Lord the same way. Just go to the courthouse, worry about everything else later

    • @estherruth4692
      @estherruth4692 3 місяці тому +17

      That’s what hit me, when he said he has respect for his mom- I was like wait, why don’t you have that same respect in front of the Lord?

    • @bri-chimchimcher-ee6955
      @bri-chimchimcher-ee6955 3 місяці тому +3

      My cousin got married and them had the wedding like a year later

  • @NathalieVA56
    @NathalieVA56 3 місяці тому +33

    I’ve had the thought before that having sex together can equal marriage but than I thought about fornication. Isn’t fornication sex before marriage? The term fornication wouldn’t exist if you could simply sleep together and be married. The Old Testament wouldn’t have laws saying that if a man sleep with a virgin, he must marry her.
    They’re fornicating and if tomorrow they wanted to separate, nothing would or could stop them because they’re not truly married.

    • @yaykochaves3
      @yaykochaves3 3 місяці тому +1

      This should get pinned and put at the top so george can see

    • @bigzachful
      @bigzachful 3 місяці тому

      Exactly!

  • @Khorton014
    @Khorton014 3 місяці тому +110

    Go get married. The Holy Spirit has made it abundantly clear in your lives that you need to move forward in faith. We can’t expect God to bless our relationships that do not fully honor Him. He is Holy and we are to be Holy as well.

    • @golda3760
      @golda3760 2 місяці тому

      Just do the court thing and plan the wedding later. You cannot be taken seriously as a believer having NO reference to Elohim.

    • @kimperkins5811
      @kimperkins5811 Місяць тому

      That's a good word.

  • @InHisImage999
    @InHisImage999 3 місяці тому +78

    Playing house isn't marriage. And things will change once you're actually married, whether you think so or not. I'm glad you both were humble enough to listen to Ruslan's wisdom and pray you move forward with entering a holy covenant. God is speaking to you.

    • @micahddrake
      @micahddrake 3 місяці тому

      Human wisdom. You should keep your mother shut.

  • @aliciapaquette1131
    @aliciapaquette1131 3 місяці тому +29

    No fornication is allowed. Aka pre marital sex, not good in Gods eyes. We can judge our brothers and sister's in the church and tell them when were doing wrong and thats wrong. You having sex with your girlfriend doesnt solidify a marriage. You take vows infront of God and theres paperwork involved lol not saying this with hate its all love.

    • @ruud6828
      @ruud6828 3 місяці тому +3

      Surely government papers are not comparable in importance to the vow between/with God

    • @aliciapaquette1131
      @aliciapaquette1131 3 місяці тому

      @@ruud6828 no way not at all. But that's just how it goes when you get married lol you get a marriage license

    • @melissacalderon1515
      @melissacalderon1515 3 місяці тому

      Christian social media comments are the worst…

    • @ashleybaugher8021
      @ashleybaugher8021 3 місяці тому +4

      Have you seen Muslim and Jewish social media?? Would you say the same to them? Because I can ensure you they do make the same comments to their community. It’s our way of life and what we believe. If you believed someone you loved was doing something damaging to their health/soul/whatever wouldn’t you tell them? Please be respectful this is a Christian channel. Thank you 🙏

  • @elizabethraquelmartinez4784
    @elizabethraquelmartinez4784 3 місяці тому +5

    Even if you had sex, need to separate until they are married. That’s why his parents don’t allow it, that’s how it should be.

  • @muh21
    @muh21 3 місяці тому +6

    Stop playing smart with God. You know something is off. Now stop whatever you have been doing, repent and turn away from having sex until you have resolved the conflict in your consience by officially getting married.
    If what you're doing is not sinful but you still wait till official marriage, you're losing nothing but if in any case it is sinful then there's great loss and consequences of sin.
    Count the risk, brother and sister in Christ.
    Peace!

  • @jeremyallen3556
    @jeremyallen3556 3 місяці тому +58

    Please have Ruslan back on your show

  • @123youknowmeyo
    @123youknowmeyo 3 місяці тому +11

    You both always: feels like we're married, treat each other like married, etc... ; but yet you push back the "official" wedding and are waiting for some reason? Because you know it's Not "official". Serve God and stop committing sexual immorality, or just get married - "officially".

  • @user-wp2iu5ef3o
    @user-wp2iu5ef3o 3 місяці тому +14

    Having sex with an understanding of what it truly means (one flesh, a covenant) even with the intention of marriage with the other individual you’re having it with does not excuse wedlock out of sin, you know? That’s deception at its finest; and honestly when y’all were talking about reverence for your earthly parents so you sleep in seperate beds there should be much much more reverence for our Heavenly Father like it just feels so contradictory - and I don’t mean to judge you seriously I just know you’re a hardcore guy who desires truth and you’re leading someone who’s quite open to every spiritual leading you go on. I am no way perfect so forgive me if this comes across like there’s no log in my eye, you just lead many, and I hope you truly see the impact you have

  • @rialaralove
    @rialaralove 3 місяці тому +32

    Aww, man. She is breaking my heart. George, I was in her shoes once. I justified my relationship and cohabited and called what we had a “marriage”. But it kept getting in the way of my walk. But you’re not alone. The Holy Spirit will keep convicting both of you. Bc he loves us. If you love her as Gods daughter just honor her. It doesn’t matter how big your wedding is or the guest list. Love does not lead another to sin. Yes, God is full of grace but the consequences that can sometimes come with this is not worth it. I pray that God keeps convicting you and He gives you wisdom and direction. Ruslan is a true friend to be able to correct and bring this up with love. Bc he knows how damaging this is to a couple of believers. And thank you for being so honest and open. That takes a lot of courage. Also, there is no condemnation is Christ. You guys are loved and already victorious.

    • @melaniethebroker
      @melaniethebroker 3 місяці тому +1

      listen.... even with her trying to convince herself hurt me... like I was like whew Lord.... help..help Lord... She seems like she loves God because he does, but there is not a strong separation between her relationship with Christ and she loves the idea of marriage.

    • @melaniethebroker
      @melaniethebroker 3 місяці тому

      Let Grace and Mercy be with them as they grow

    • @kgakgamatsotsagae6465
      @kgakgamatsotsagae6465 3 місяці тому

      Great comment, God bless

  • @applefeliciaonly
    @applefeliciaonly 3 місяці тому +37

    This was so awesome to see. What a picture of Jesus this conversation was. I love how humble you two are and able to be taught and take correction and I love how Ruslan shared the truth in love. That’s how it’s done ladies and gentleman

  • @kelseyDOD
    @kelseyDOD 3 місяці тому +8

    There’s zero justification, I know this because I’ve been there! But I never justified it, I knew it was wrong and never felt a weight lift off my shoulders until we finally eloped. I am not judging them because I’ve been in their shoes. I wish I could shake them and say a ceremony isn’t near as important as honoring God! This can be turned around with repentance and an afternoon at the local court house. I think George is so wise but I hope he takes this dudes advice! It’s great advice!! I am praying right now in Jesus name they do!

  • @nichetcher1
    @nichetcher1 3 місяці тому +32

    I 100% respect Ruslan for pushing through this conversation!

  • @yaykochaves3
    @yaykochaves3 3 місяці тому +6

    So they respect theyre parents view of them not sleeping with eachother more then gods view

  • @vman9347
    @vman9347 3 місяці тому +5

    I’m glad they recognize that what they are doing is wrong. But their trying to make something sinful seem noble.
    U can pretend it feel like she ur wife but she not and Vice versa.

  • @lelesaufoi3221
    @lelesaufoi3221 3 місяці тому +6

    Fornicating before marriage is demonic. This guy swears and uses God's name in vain. God is no respecter of persons

  • @galaysh220
    @galaysh220 3 місяці тому +25

    Loved this exhortation from Ruslan.
    George + Belle, I think you both know that you’re simply not married if you’re just plain honest with yourselves. It’s okay to wrestle with some of the guilt and conviction that you’re feeling- it’s the KINDNESS of God that leads to repentance (which in this case is changing your mind about your marital status and understanding that you’re not married, setting a date and tying the knot) I think you’ll have so much more clarity when you guys take that step forward in obedience. You’re either married or you’re not, there’s no middle ground. If you’re wrestling with the convictions that you’re speaking about, it’s ok to level set with yourselves! Don’t let the enemy beat you down with guilt and shame because of premarital sex or living together or any of it. Tie that knot and step into the abundance of life that God has waiting for you on the other side of the wedding altar!

  • @leti0333
    @leti0333 3 місяці тому +22

    The fact that she’s a baby Christian yet she’s receiving the revelation 🥹🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @shay6688
    @shay6688 3 місяці тому +2

    The woman at the well was confronted as shacking up by Jesus, and He distinguished it from her prior husbands.
    An ancient culture tradition is this guy’s excuse for what he’s doing? Herod considered himself his brother’s wife as belonging to him since they slept together, yet John the Baptist was clear that it was a perverse union. Calling something holy because you tell yourself you “feel this is my spouse” doesn’t make it so; this is a terrible example to the upcoming generations who need to be encouraged to be chaste before marriage.

  • @ashleybaugher8021
    @ashleybaugher8021 3 місяці тому +4

    Gorge is referring to the Old Testament when Abraham’s son took Rebecca into the tent and then they were married by consummation. Christ changed that when he came to this fallen world. Jesus clearly states that you must be married and declare your vows in front of God, a holy witness/church, and hopefully your family. Having sex in a tent doesn’t count anymore and marriage is an easy way to honor god, your parents/wife's parents and your wife. Please get married asap. It will feel different even if you are roleplaying being married currently. Trust me, my husband and I did the same thing for 3 years, than we got married, and it is so different. The holy spirt acts differently when you’ve vowed in front of God, a community and your family.Amen and god bless the three of you. Christ is always king.

  • @aaronacero105
    @aaronacero105 3 місяці тому +8

    It says in the Bible to obey the laws of the land unless it goes against God's word. That means a couple needs to be legally married for it to be recognized, too. Its hard for me to imagine George doesn't know this given how much he's enthusiastic about God's word. I hope he matures for his woman. To the men... this is what iron sharpening iron looks like, props to Ruslan!

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 3 місяці тому

      Very good point. Go get the court wedding and license and rest peacefully knowing you are in obedience until the wedding. Don't wait for your mom to pick the pastor. I was like really?? When he said that at the end...another excuse.

  • @ritjakozonguizi3077
    @ritjakozonguizi3077 3 місяці тому +2

    George, brother, I'm trying to track with your reasoning on "feeling" like yall are already married based of the story in the Bible you mentioned. But in my head im like what then is fornication? If every person made the excuse of no i feel like im married to this person so ill sleep with them and hooray just like that we're married then why does the Bible point out fornication if sex is marriage??
    When you love someone you just wanna be with them, I get it. But do it the right way, Honor God and make an honest woman out of her. Get married yall. ❤

  • @obinnaezebuiroh7911
    @obinnaezebuiroh7911 3 місяці тому +2

    A wedding is a glorified party. Get married NOW [to honor Jesus]. Then continue planning the "party."

  • @yaykochaves3
    @yaykochaves3 3 місяці тому +5

    Justifying your sins is not a good thing shows you put your own desires above god

  • @martinowusu847
    @martinowusu847 3 місяці тому +15

    Ruslan better be invited to the wedding ! lol!

  • @Johnnyyflexx
    @Johnnyyflexx 3 місяці тому +3

    God warned of false prophets, this is pathetic how can you choose to say you just can’t follow Gods most sacred commandment?? How can people listen to this 🤡 scripture is clear, you can’t enter the kingdom if you are lukewarm, I’ll pray for you

  • @lelesaufoi3221
    @lelesaufoi3221 3 місяці тому +4

    His reactions show he's uncomfortable with the truth about his sinful life style

  • @emily814
    @emily814 3 місяці тому +3

    You really don't need a big ceremony. Go ahead and get married and have a big party later! Huge weddings are overrated.

  • @angelinek_
    @angelinek_ 3 місяці тому +6

    Shout out Ruslan KD for speaking the truth in love!!! This was a very much needed conversation!!!

  • @codywinter9611
    @codywinter9611 3 місяці тому +2

    Call it what it is “ Sin “ fornication is sin , sex outside the bounds of marriage is sin ; we don’t get to pick and choose from the scriptures how to live

  • @DominiqueHoffman
    @DominiqueHoffman 3 місяці тому +3

    Josefa honored Mary. He did not sleep with her before marriage, and he even married Mary so as not to tarnish her reputation and be above reproach after Gabriel revealed the miracle of Jesus' conception. The Bible clearly states that marriage is marriage; there is no covenant in playing married.

  • @lrogers8881
    @lrogers8881 3 місяці тому +2

    You are not married to her until a pastor or Christian leader marries you. Not a JP or someone that has been ordained. In the eyes of God you must be married in front of God by a Christian leader. You are sinning in the eyes of God and you are pulling your partner away from God by your actions.

  • @Itsbritt_22
    @Itsbritt_22 3 місяці тому +5

    Why didn’t they just go to the courts or a pastor and get the marriage license/ exchange vow and then do the marriage ceremony when they finally found the time to book a date? That would have really cleared up everything

  • @danielchile76
    @danielchile76 3 місяці тому +8

    There have been many things I have disagreed with Ruslan in the past but the advice he provided on this portion of the episode brought so much joy. This is the same advice I’d give them. Grab your family and your best friends and get married and sign the papers. Do it. The amount of pain this is causing Belle is incredible. If I was George I would be planning that right now. Honor her the way you say you do George. Great advice Ruslan. God bless you all. Keep up the good work George and Belle.

  • @Chevaposaurus
    @Chevaposaurus 3 місяці тому +8

    This clip made me a bigger fan of Ruslan. He has lived the life. Best advice ever.

  • @yaykochaves3
    @yaykochaves3 3 місяці тому +2

    So they respect theyre parents view of them not sleeping with eachother more then gods view

  • @nicolegarcia3242
    @nicolegarcia3242 3 місяці тому +9

    I hope they get married asap. 🙏

  • @emmasmith7590
    @emmasmith7590 3 місяці тому +4

    Hey beautiful couple… sooo I went through this exact dilemma with my now husband. But you guys you either need to stop living in sin and live apart and grow together before the ceremony. Or if you find it hard to stay away or it’s just more convenient- go before a priest and get legally married. This is imperative to truly stand apart from the world and be the salt, as the word says!! 💍

    • @emmasmith7590
      @emmasmith7590 3 місяці тому +1

      Looking back, the optimal decision would’ve been to live separately and truly grow more and exercise that self control. Because don’t get it twisted, you’re still both going to need to have self control in a marriage. The desires of the flesh cannot and should not always be fulfilled right.

  • @TheNerdyChristianPod
    @TheNerdyChristianPod 3 місяці тому +4

    Appreciate both perspectives here and I hear George's perspective on understanding/treating his relationship as a marriage at this point even if it isn't legally so. Tbh, I think a lot of people unknowingly engage in, essentially, married life and divorce when they choose to "just live together." The thought in culture oftentimes is that it's somehow not going to be as bad of an experience separating if they were never married, when in function we're basically just choosing to marry without commitment and desensitizing ourselves to divorce (as many people will have multiple break-ups from live-in partners in their life, despite maybe claiming to have never been married or divorced). George seems to rightly identify that those people are basically married (and often divorcing) in all but name.
    Personally, I'd say just get legally married if you consider yourselves married. Heck, go to a courthouse and get it done in an afternoon. Have the ceremony later. I just feel there's something important to the holy and sanctified moment of commitment in covenant with witnesses. Just like we can become a Christian in a moment and commit to God, but God commands we engage in the Sacrament of Baptism. There's something important for us in every sacrament that God gives us. Keep up the introspective hearts, George and Bell!

  • @chankiline
    @chankiline 3 місяці тому +6

    I feel like we often talk about marriage in a “moral” sense, but actually the meaning behind it is much deeper than that. It’s crazy how we dont realize the spiritual blessings that are connected to the public declaration, in front of God and man.
    It’s something that may seem trivial, but the power of our public declaration and of our words have a great impact on the spiritual realm. We don’t light a lamp and put it under a basket. We place it on a lamp stand where it can give light to everyone. 💛 love you guys!

  • @sarahkessler2456
    @sarahkessler2456 3 місяці тому +7

    Love this advice from Ruslan. I love how caring and supportive but also spoke truth. Beautiful. That’s how it’s done.

  • @cindybolt9716
    @cindybolt9716 3 місяці тому +1

    Sounds like EXCUSES sorry love y'all but get married now It's not a good look and trust me time is never gonna be perfect and life will continue to get busyier!!!! GOD IS CLEAR ABOUT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE and living with spouse before hand!!! Also friends it's NOT ABOUT FEELINGS we can feel one way or another it doesnt matter God's WORD is what matters !!

  • @kristiancervenak7306
    @kristiancervenak7306 3 місяці тому +5

    Get married bro, bible is very clear the marriage bed should be undefiled. Your feelings don’t over-ride scriptures. Just do what’s right. Seems like the girl is more sensitive towards God then janko. Janko just performing. My opinion though.

  • @Karen-jh8yq
    @Karen-jh8yq 3 місяці тому +1

    You are not married to her in Gods eyes that is ridiculous you are living in sin I see no Godly fruits here in either one of them.

  • @brandonrogersofficial
    @brandonrogersofficial 3 місяці тому +9

    So they’re pretending to be married? Thats not very biblical

  • @Donavon551
    @Donavon551 3 місяці тому +10

    Great advice. Get it done!

  • @collasan4730
    @collasan4730 3 місяці тому +3

    Jacob became married to the wrong sister thru sex witch was the last part of the ceremony. They did have a ceremony without the bride present and then he laid with her. So I believe it was more than the sex that solidified it, and besides he took 2 wives and 2 mistresses so he wasn’t mr do things according to gods will, but even with all that god used him

  • @superbabymia1
    @superbabymia1 3 місяці тому +1

    Stop dishonoring her and go off and marry her. If you truly loved God yall would just get married in court then have the ultimate wedding you want later. Especially if you are shacking up playing house and fornicating. Nah nah nah. If you’re not feeling convicted about it it’s because your eyes aren’t fully open.
    Just because YOU THINK you blessed this fornication as marriage you are completely wrong. It goes back to putting yourself as number 1 that you think you know what’s best totally disregarding Gods wisdom on his creation on a marriage covenant.
    Something he said really stuck out. He thinks because he slept with her he made a covenant and yeah he’s right but it was unclean just like any other women he slept with beforehand. Not only is he bringing a spiritual spouse into the marriage he brought every other spirit he slept with in it.
    I wish that this podcast makes it clear that George is a baby Christian and I pray that no one on here really takes his views and experience personally because he is still so much learning and there’s enough Luke warm Christians and it’s imperative that baby Christian’s get the right Godly advice. There’s so many people watching this podcast that are still figuring this journey out that can easily
    Be misled. That’s why it’s also important to pray about the UA-camrs on here if it’s someone that you actually need to watch and listen to take them to the Lord.

  • @blayladavis8592
    @blayladavis8592 3 місяці тому +2

    My wife and I were in basically the exact same situation. We had been putting off our wedding so we could have the dream wedding. When we came to Christ, we knew we needed to do right by God. We ended up doing this beautiful, small and intimate ceremony in the mountains.

  • @theannas283
    @theannas283 2 місяці тому +1

    My husband and I had sex before we got married. Waited to have the big ceremony with friends and family. I regret it immensely. I wish we had gotten married as soon as things got too passionate if you get my drift. I am immensely regretful. Partially because I knew we should have gotten married and I let others opinion on what a wedding and marriage should look like effect so heavily our timeline. I also struggle because no one really has my same journey and speaks out about it, so it feels like we are the only ones who didn't wait and that's really hard. I recommend getting married asap because often times women start feeling really remorseful afterwards. Like, my real feelings didn't start kicking in until a year or so after getting married. I started feeling angry that my husband hadn't taken it more seriously. I got angry that no one listened to my concerns and that I wasn't allowed to do the right thing. Etc. The big wedding isn't worth the guilt and the anger.

  • @Firedawg247
    @Firedawg247 3 місяці тому +2

    Playing house

  • @mattybabs7
    @mattybabs7 3 місяці тому +3

    “We are trying to please everybody, but we are failing God.”

  • @theblackcottonball5987
    @theblackcottonball5987 3 місяці тому +6

    I am so confused because I already thought they got married. 🤣

  • @noahnoah5833
    @noahnoah5833 3 місяці тому +4

    Whole lotta saints in these comments lol 😂 y’all swear y’all are perfect bro

  • @jonathananderkin7151
    @jonathananderkin7151 3 місяці тому +2

    This was cool I felt like I was in life group in this episode

  • @rachelknapp1614
    @rachelknapp1614 3 місяці тому +3

    I thought Ruslan was about to marry them right then! I was hyped 😂🙌🏼

  • @wheelchairplatform
    @wheelchairplatform 3 місяці тому +6

    DO, IT, DO, IT, DO, IT, DO, IT, DO IT!

  • @Pb-nutts
    @Pb-nutts 3 місяці тому +1

    Marriage is a sacrament is the true church , the Orthodox Church. Stop beating around the bush

  • @Rokku16
    @Rokku16 3 місяці тому +1

    Seen multiple videos now, and he is just coming up with excuses at this point to be living in sin.

  • @ashleyharper584
    @ashleyharper584 3 місяці тому +2

    This is a true friend- giving godly advice to this couple even when it is hard to confront someone with the truth. Get married guys! ❤

  • @belreed8257
    @belreed8257 3 місяці тому +2

    Y’all are one of the most humble honest couples I know ❤❤❤ now get married already and you can be one of the purest couples as well 🎉

  • @tjalvarez24
    @tjalvarez24 3 місяці тому +1

    Love the transparency in wanting to honor God with your relationship and future marriage- but even though you guys feel like you’re already in a covenant it’s not actually so in the sight of God until you properly marry one another. My husband and I were intimate before we got married and it would weigh us down. We felt the effects of sin on us spiritually and after we got married it completely changed a night and day difference!! We no longer felt the effects of sin after being together. Even though we got married we started off our first year of marriage really rough due to our spiritual condition of not repenting fully before getting married. There was some repentance but not completely since we had no accountability before.

  • @aaronacero105
    @aaronacero105 3 місяці тому +3

    I am cheering for this couple to have a healthy, financial, and spiritually fulfilling life/marriage. That said it truly concerns me the level of maturity they are displaying going into a marriage and life together. I truly hope millennial and Gen Z Christians are learning from them, what to do and what not to do. I hope this works out, props for their honesty...

  • @will.davlin
    @will.davlin 3 місяці тому +5

    Wool socks will give you the best dreams of your life

  • @vida.victoria
    @vida.victoria 3 місяці тому +2

    Guys, your heart is so open to the Holy Spirit. It's Him talking to your heart. It's not even Ruslan or the people here. You can feel it in your heart! So excited for you guys! We are all cheering for you and praying. Such vulnerable and transparent people. You will be teaching about this and counseling other couples in the future!!

  • @MariaRamirez-nx2kc
    @MariaRamirez-nx2kc 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow! How amazing is it to see such humility from George. And how he takes on the full responsibility of his actions and as the man leading his future wife! Admitting we are wrong, repenting and taking action specially on a podcast shows how much God is working in his heart. God bless you both and your marriage!

  • @Desko2.0
    @Desko2.0 3 місяці тому +1

    They putting work over planning for a marriage. Is seeking attention or money the cause of it? Excuses!

  • @kalevquigley5686
    @kalevquigley5686 3 місяці тому +1

    Playing boyfriend and girlfriend is so childish 😆 you're an adult bro get married

  • @Joicab88
    @Joicab88 3 місяці тому +1

    Your not married. Sorry,thats just the honest truth. Having sex with her does not make you married.

  • @heyheyyouitsme
    @heyheyyouitsme 3 місяці тому +1

    Ruslan was incredibly kind in the way he spelled out 1 Corinthians. This was more than content for UA-cam for Ruslan, he really cares about discipling George into living holy unto the lord. George and his loopholes on “I’m already married” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 George stop 🤣🤣🤣

  • @candicesullivan3718
    @candicesullivan3718 3 місяці тому +1

    Amen. This transparency blessed us all. Obedience from us is God's love language! Congrats to the both of you!

  • @susalkasarahi
    @susalkasarahi 3 місяці тому +10

    My then fiance and I got legally married prior to our ceremony only because his recruiter said it would be easier to submit our marriage certificate asap prior to going to boot camp so I was able to be on his file as his wife. So we got legally married a couple of months prior to the ceremony. It did not take away from the moment at the ceremony because we shared in our covenant with our loved ones.

  • @o.d.kay633
    @o.d.kay633 3 місяці тому +1

    100000000%
    I came to Jesus as a kid, got saved and grew up in the church and wrestled with crossing boundaries through high school. I can tell you in any category, when you do it God's way, it just works better. God can forgive His children, bc of Jesus's blood covering your sins, anything. But don't abuse His grace (Read Romans 5 and 6 for more!).
    Great clips guys.

  • @msalepooh
    @msalepooh 3 місяці тому +1

    We have been talking about the fear of the Lord...listeners to this convicted me of certain things that I know I need to do, but have been putting off for different excuses. Because there is so much gace given to us, we forget His fear/honor that is due to Him.

  • @Bryan-ww3bx
    @Bryan-ww3bx 3 місяці тому +1

    I lived with my wife for 8 years. 2 kids a house and a dog. We also committed to God privately and considered ourselves married. The way God used our wedding in other people's lives blows me away. It made me realize that the ceremony wasn't for us, it was an opportunity to publicly invite God into our lives and our families lives. Also saved a few souls in the process. worth all the headaches of planning

  • @velvetmurillo
    @velvetmurillo 3 місяці тому +2

    Yesss I was so happy to see this! As soon as I saw the Jordan Peterson episode when George said they were married already, I've been praying for them to get actually married!!! Praise God!!!

  • @diroo3150
    @diroo3150 3 місяці тому +1

    Can someone explain to me what marriage really is?
    Cause marriage today, wasn’t marriage 2000 years ago.
    As far as I know they never kneeled with a gold ring and went to a court house to sign a piece of paper.
    I believe that sex is marriage because that’s what I believe it was 2000 years ago, that’s what binds your souls together, what makes you married spiritually.
    Anybody can kneel and sign a paper to be married, and yes you are in the governments eyes but also in gods then?
    Please help and explain because my spouse and I want to make everything right and follow gods way🙏🏽
    We are a bit confused.

  • @brookehamiltwin
    @brookehamiltwin 3 місяці тому +2

    Love love love your vulnerability and watching you and Belle grow in spiritual maturity! This was so encouraging.

  • @alonzomorales314
    @alonzomorales314 3 місяці тому +1

    Every time you level up you will battle a new demon

  • @MrKeepsOnTickin
    @MrKeepsOnTickin 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow what a hypocrite this George guy is...

    • @peterc504
      @peterc504 3 місяці тому +1

      !!! we are only human

    • @talkswithzharia
      @talkswithzharia 3 місяці тому

      No one is perfect pray for him .

    • @peterc504
      @peterc504 3 місяці тому +1

      @@talkswithzharia Exactly.. you all do know St. Peter was with Jesus for many miracles and knew he was God bc the Father revealed it to him and knew there was no where else they could go for life and the truth yet he still denied Jesus 3 times!!!

  • @madalyntran4835
    @madalyntran4835 3 місяці тому +1

    I hear excuses. They know it’s wrong how they’re living with each other, BUT my husband and I were once like them. We made the decision to stop living in sin and are married. I also broke a general curse of being unwed with kids. I’m proud of myself and I know the Lord is happy with me.

  • @johnmcdowell4287
    @johnmcdowell4287 Місяць тому

    ua-cam.com/video/ONFp8cBAYlE/v-deo.html
    Ruslan says that he "loves that you guys are living this in front of the whole world." Come on Ruslan. You know better than that. A fool vents all his feelings. There's absolutely NOTHING good about sharing this openly to the public. You deal with matters of fornication and sin in private. Love covers (hides) a multitude of sins. And if you actually know what biblical love is, it's obedience. Trust me; I've been in their shoes. It's why I can say this loud and clear. None of this is commendable in the eyes of God, no matter how "transparent" or "self-aware" anyone is. It's double-mindedness on parade.

  • @kristanrussell9931
    @kristanrussell9931 14 днів тому

    I got married in Jan. And I don’t have their money. It’s takes like 6 months. Like it’s about the Lord not about people. It’s not hard.

  • @philrios5525
    @philrios5525 3 місяці тому

    Yes you are both in sin, but repenting to GOD MEANS to turn from it, despite your FEELINGS that you're already married. STOP living in this quagmire of sin and guilt, love GOD, respect GOD, love and respect one another. Have a sacrificial love for one another in desiring to GLORIFY GOD. Have an intimate quiet wedding before a pastor/priest with just your parents, without announcing, then plan the BIG celebration for all! If you honor each other's bodies, refrain until you are married. George, if you're daughter was having sex, play as though married, and play house would you honestly in the depth of your heart, mind, and soul believe before GOD that your daughter's fiancé even though confessed his sin and promised to do right and marry your daughter, but repetitively continues to defile the marriage bed by not marrying her, believe he truly was a man of GOD???? I know id have some PRETTY BIG DOUBTS. Marriage is the ultimate reflection of CHRIST here on earth. Marriage is the ultimate as God began with marriage, Christ's first miracle is at a wedding, scripture talks about marriage, and then there is the marriage feast in heaven! I can go on and on, but I KNOW YOU KNOW what you are to do! Praying for you both!!!!!!

  • @virginiacassandram4189
    @virginiacassandram4189 Місяць тому

    I like George, but i am disappointed that a lot of people who don't know God and also baby Christians will see this video and other videos of George making excuses for fornication. This is one area George withholds & doesn't want to give to God or follow his commandments. Dear George, what you don't stand against, you condone. You have a large audience, don't lead them astray.

  • @kimsvlog8765
    @kimsvlog8765 3 місяці тому

    Even when you're not a born again believer people instinctively know it's wrong & esp after faith in Christ, & we are new, we know better & it's our responsibility to learn the word & know Jesus personally...have them watch Dam Mohler "sex and God" it's beautiful

  • @dorcaso1619
    @dorcaso1619 2 місяці тому

    Guilt is from the devil.
    Because he's the accuser of the brethren. You've fallen into his trap and he's suckinh you of your freedom
    To be free of guilt is too live according to the Holy Spirit. It'll be guiltfree if you do it the God way. John 3:17