Y’all they mixed up the titles from the first caller and the third caller in this specific show. The third caller was struggling with an alcoholic husband, not working much, and they were struggling financially- it sounds like that title much more aligns!
@@greenAbbotI think the point being made is that the title isn’t properly communicating the phone call. It probably was meant to go with another video.
I hate the advice to tell your husband you have devastating news but you’ll talk about it later. My husband would (understandably) lose his sh** if I did that to him
Yeah that was some really bad advice. I don't understand the logic. The 45 minute suspense is unnecessary and is going to feel like an eternity putting him in a worse mood. She can at least give him a hint that it's about finances.
@@nelsonw9483this guy does not give good advice. This women took on more then she could chew. She’s not capable of more then a housewife. She shouldn’t try to handle finances.
Agreed. I would not handle that very well if my wife told me there was something very serious she wanted to talk to me about later that day. It would ruin my productivity for the rest of the day and I'd be upset that we are delaying the conversation.
John is soooo good getting to the real issue "How much of it is him and how much of it is you desperately trying to prove your worth inside your own home" JACKPOT!
He reads people so well, so fast. Sometimes he’ll speculate something and I’ll think to myself “nah, no way, that’s not what they’re saying” and then the person will be like “yes! That’s exactly it!” And I’m like dang wow 😂
@@johnathanlatman2507 He doesn't read people well, he puts out a suggestion and the caller convinces themselves he must be right because they go into the interaction searching for guidance from an authority figure. It's the same trick used by fortune tellers and psychics lol.
It’s so embarrassing for her. She can’t even control personal finances lol. Yet she’s the ceo of her home lol. She couldn’t be ceo of personal finances lol
@@Kroh13lazy men provide enough for families? Or is it trusting and loving men who believe their wives are intelligent and honest enough to handle it? No doubt you’d say he’s a sexist if he didn’t.
I have an excel table and I was adjusting it until everything is covered: monthly bills (for electricity, water, heating, gas, TV, internet), gasoline, groceries, clothes...misc, hobbies, savings, emergency..... We have zero debt on credit cards, because we never take credit. If there are some bigger expenses we discuss it and plan together.
I accidentally do that all the time. I know it is ours. Like 'It's in my room" to the kids. While my husband is right there. It isn't intentional it just is part of my language around things. If I catch myself I will correct it. But I don't notice.
She also said "I decided - er, we decided - it's possible for me to stay home... I didn't know how to manage our money." The whole "You want to be the CEO" is a nice way of saying "You aren't comfortable letting him handle things or sharing decisions in this relationship."
I used to feel like how John described. When I was pregnant, my husband didn't want me to work and be stressed about finances so he worked really hard having two full time jobs and I felt so bad because he was barely getting sleep and saving for our daughters needs and for his paternity leave. That was his decision, but I felt so terrible, like I could do something different to help, but he ended up being right because I gave birth early at 32 weeks pregnant due to family stress and thinking back if I had financial stress I probably would have given birth even earlier which is what he was trying to avoid because he was a premie baby at 7 months. Im learning to stress about things less and allow my husband to take on things that feel overwhelming to me because some things to me are world ending when, in reality, god has a plan, and we will get through anything.
It was supposed to from the third call and they mixed it up. The third call was a woman struggling with an alcoholic husband, and he wasn’t working much while they struggled with finances!
She could but she sucks at it and really both people should do it and have an app and a budget and have tabs on both peoples spending .. it’s shared income ..
@Kroh13 Then she needs to be an adult and learn. Just because she's at home doesn't mean she's not responsible for doing things at home while he's at work.
I agree, if she is a stay at home wife the bills and finances should be well looked after. Crazy to say 'i don't like saying no to him' so you would rather screw over your family huh 😅 its irresponsible
They just mixed up the titles for the first and third caller In this specific show. The third callers husband IS immature, struggles with alcohol, doesn’t work much, and they are having financial issues- that title was supposed to go for that call. I guarantee you tomorrow’s call will say something like “How do I tell my husband I was hiding money?” And it will be about the alcoholic husband.
I was this stay- at- home- mom, feeling i was getting it too easy being home w 3 kids, one disabled. I was raised by sibgle mom. I used to make to do lists, even add on this i was able to do not on the list to scratch off. I loved being at home w our kids! Didnt matter if it was painful financially. My husband wanted me here too. My husband's main role was to build the Financial Planning business from scratch-100% commission. We both had B.A.s, he had plus 2 yrs of law school. He came w school debt, I had a small home, 2 young sons not in school, no debt. My house was worth $13,000, 45 years ago. Im 68 now. The tension being stay at home mom is very real! The pressures of finances could of been lessened BUT would my husband grow to be the success he did if he didn't live pressures as some of his clients ts?
We are a sole income home. Wife does her own accounting but definitely holds the checkbook. She has me make sure that the totals in the bank are where they generally should be. She does not want to know exactly whats in the bank. She likes keeping her own tabs though.
This conversation is almost worthless. No questions about annual income, how much debt they actually have (including the medical debt,) or what financial goals they have as a couple. Just sit down, do a debt to income analysis and figure out where you want the money to go. Why is that difficult?
My nephew is 25 and had a gf who is 22 and they have 2 kids one 2 year old and a 4 month old and his useless gf stays home with the kids n says her job is way way way harder then working 50 hours a week in the Florida heat. But she is useless when they kids have a doc appointment he has to leave work go pick them up and take all of them to the doc. Even tho my parents gave her a car and she has a license. But for whatever reason she can't even take the kids to the doc alone. She has her mom come and help her take care of the kids almost every day. My poor nephew said he asked for a glass of water the other night and she got upset and said u can get ur own water. It breaks my heart to see how poorly she treats him. I pray to God he realizes she is taking advantage of his kindness. And I hope he leaves her I know she will get child support but at least he will be happy bc he looks miserable with her. I think she only wanted kids to collect a check when they break up
Couple issues. Her getting pg at 19/20, was a huge mistake both your nephew and she made. She's no idea about responsibility so is passing it to older adults. Like an under developed child would. Then the other issue is she's being enabled. Her mother. Your nephew. While they help her, she'll never be a proper partner or mother.
I worked, raised kids, ran a home. Looking back I have no previous idea how I did it. I'm now "retired". Enjoyably lazy. With a simple life. My kids are grown so that's fortunate but they are just as much hard work. My problem was fear of debt. Fear of things falling apart. So I was the CEO of our home. Never dated an alpha male who deals with things I deal with. Never will now. They just don't exist unless they are abusers also
This is 1 of my absolute fave calls!!! So many people are like this - especially with medical creep now that we are all taking better care of ourselves post COVID Era. We gotta count the cost and get humble and be willing to get flexible to sacrifice some or consider others’ perspectives or cooperate to mend the fence and repair the damage. If we gotta halt the Amazon or Netflix or get rich quick or self help subs for 3-6 months or sell stuff we have or get a job or find some clients or do some work others will value with cash, so be it. We can make up for it if we forgive ourselves to move forward honestly and with integrity. 😅❤🎉
This is insane. Don't people get receipts after taking out money from the ATM for cash? He would easily be aware of the situation. So this man has just been working himself dry all this time. It's good she caught herself early enough in the process. She could also help generate her own little pot working part time from home and spending that money on her own expenses because it seems the husband is not earning enough. The explanation of medical bill is certainly not the whole picture here for the overspending ending up at 0 on the account!
I wish he would change his language. He always says 'help out around the house' which makes it sound somewhat like he thinks the running of a household is the wife's job. It would be nice if he would say something like be (more) active in running the household.
So wrong video - with that aside, drinking is honestly so dumb and when as a society need to just stop wasting our time with it. It’s unhealthy, it’s expensive, it’s NOT needed in order to have fun or enjoy something. Wishes this show shared this stance, the alcohol business makes the credit card business look like a angel
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How do you know she is just buying for herself . She could be buying things for the family and they still are in a whole . She didn’t say she shops at Amazon 24/7 ..
Seriously the title is so click baity and beneath you. Yes he is immature if he is spending and not taking part in the finances and yes she shouldnt be lying about how much money they have on hand. The title should have been how to address financial infidelity on both parts.
No, it’s NOT clickbait. They just mixed up the titles. The third caller in this specific show was struggling with an alcoholic husband, he wasn’t working much, and they were struggling financially- that was the title for that video and they just mixed it up with this call.
It’s not a fake title. They mixed them up. This is for the third caller who is struggling with an alcoholic husband, who doesn’t work much, and they are struggling financially.
OMG people READ the comments. This isn’t clickbait. The team accidentally mixed up the titles. I guarantee you tomorrow’s title will be something like “how do I tell my husband I was hiding money”? they mixed up the first and third call in this specific show. The third caller was dealing with an immature husband, he struggles with alcohol, doesn’t work much, and they are having financial issues. That title was supposed to go on that video and they just mixed it up. It’s NOT clickbait!
OMG people READ the comments. This isn’t clickbait. The team accidentally mixed up the titles. I guarantee you tomorrow title will be be something like “how do I tell my husband I was hiding money” they mixed up the first and third call in this specific show. The third caller was dealing with an immature husband, he struggles with alcohol, doesn’t work much, and they are having financial issues. That title was supposed to go on that video and they just mixed it up. It’s NOT clickbait!
Caller number one was a secretary. This is not a career. Now. She's a stay-at-home mom. She doesn't make money. You get to choose. You don't get both. You cannot have it all. Stop.
Issue is not her being at home, they both seem to be happy with that arrangement. Issue is her mismanaging household money and spending all of their savings behind his back.
@@shawnbrooks5293good , but people are commenting for her to get a job without understanding he also wanted her to stay home . I’m not against SAHM at all .
So another woman calling in the Dr Baloney show complaining about the man she chose? So she has lied to him etc, but of course he is the problem, lol. All the young men out there listen to this call carefully then read the title then listen again. Do you see how the narratives are framed? He is the immature husband, he is the problem. Of course she picked him, lied to him but don't bother with that, lol. It's a shame this video will only get 20-30K views mostly from women and bots but if you happen by this please don't get married. This is one of hundreds of calls you can listen to on this pod cast of women essentially laying the blame for all of their problems at the feet of the men they chose. Don't combine incomes, don't live together, don't get married. You can have a great long term relationship with a woman and never be in a legally binding contract with her. Good luck.
😂 it’s a command and the will of the Lord that woman guide the house. Meaning to homeschool your own kids and cook great heathy food. These two tasks alone will give the mom a satisfaction for life. Unless you only have a couple kids 😂 and you waist money and be lazy and eat out all the time. Let the wicked be confounded and confused. Thank you Lord for a life of purpose for the everlasting life to come.
Well, well, well... If it only were that simple. I don't feel like getting all wound up over some man's idea of my sole worth in life. However, I can definitely say that I have been able to maintain a home, our finances, raised two brilliant and hard-working children without *wasting* money, time, or energy. If I didn't step up 23 years ago, we would likely not be married, safe, or secure.
I bet you've never done just cooking and cleaning and felt fulfilled. You should try it for a month. Nobody really feels fulfilled doing that. What makes it worth it is having a husband who is grateful and helpful and loving. You know, a real partner. Not someone who tells you what you should and shouldn't feel just because the Bible says. A man actually like Christ. Good luck there!! You really need it.
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Yeah wrong title on this video guys! 😅
I wanna watch that other video now!
Darn. I wanted to comment on the alcohol spending. Where's the video that needs my commentary?? Lol
@@17h127it’s the one right below this one “My husband refuses to grow up and take responsibility” call starts at 42:06
Y’all they mixed up the titles from the first caller and the third caller in this specific show. The third caller was struggling with an alcoholic husband, not working much, and they were struggling financially- it sounds like that title much more aligns!
Mmhh !!!
Thumbs down the video. I don’t know how else to alert the team that there’s a problem here
Wife lies to husband about finances. Blames husband anyway. Fix the title please.
Can you point me to the part of the call where she blames her husband for anything? Because it sounds to me like you’re projecting wildly.
Regardless household finances is on both people, not one person
@@greenAbbotI think the point being made is that the title isn’t properly communicating the phone call. It probably was meant to go with another video.
They got the title mixed up with another video about an alcoholic
He is a feminist he would never support men
I hate the advice to tell your husband you have devastating news but you’ll talk about it later. My husband would (understandably) lose his sh** if I did that to him
Yeah that was some really bad advice. I don't understand the logic. The 45 minute suspense is unnecessary and is going to feel like an eternity putting him in a worse mood. She can at least give him a hint that it's about finances.
@@nelsonw9483this guy does not give good advice. This women took on more then she could chew. She’s not capable of more then a housewife. She shouldn’t try to handle finances.
Agreed. I would not handle that very well if my wife told me there was something very serious she wanted to talk to me about later that day. It would ruin my productivity for the rest of the day and I'd be upset that we are delaying the conversation.
John is soooo good getting to the real issue "How much of it is him and how much of it is you desperately trying to prove your worth inside your own home" JACKPOT!
He reads people so well, so fast. Sometimes he’ll speculate something and I’ll think to myself “nah, no way, that’s not what they’re saying” and then the person will be like “yes! That’s exactly it!” And I’m like dang wow 😂
@@johnathanlatman2507right? Same that happens so many times when I’m listening lol
@@johnathanlatman2507 He doesn't read people well, he puts out a suggestion and the caller convinces themselves he must be right because they go into the interaction searching for guidance from an authority figure. It's the same trick used by fortune tellers and psychics lol.
It’s so embarrassing for her. She can’t even control personal finances lol. Yet she’s the ceo of her home lol. She couldn’t be ceo of personal finances lol
I don't understand men who don't know the finances in their own household.
Just lazy men
@Kroh13 and stupid
@@Kroh13lazy men provide enough for families?
Or is it trusting and loving men who believe their wives are intelligent and honest enough to handle it?
No doubt you’d say he’s a sexist if he didn’t.
Yeah. I know
I don't understand how anyone doesn't know their household's finances.
I'm glad that Kerry called John before the situation got out of control.
We always need the best tools to address difficult messages. Thank you, John!
I have an excel table and I was adjusting it until everything is covered: monthly bills (for electricity, water, heating, gas, TV, internet), gasoline, groceries, clothes...misc, hobbies, savings, emergency..... We have zero debt on credit cards, because we never take credit. If there are some bigger expenses we discuss it and plan together.
She said, "I had MY first child" instead of OUR first child. Word choices speak volumes.
She sounds like a married single woman.
I accidentally do that all the time. I know it is ours. Like 'It's in my room" to the kids. While my husband is right there. It isn't intentional it just is part of my language around things. If I catch myself I will correct it. But I don't notice.
When it's about money it's "our" while he's filling the account. 😅😅
She also said "I decided - er, we decided - it's possible for me to stay home... I didn't know how to manage our money."
The whole "You want to be the CEO" is a nice way of saying "You aren't comfortable letting him handle things or sharing decisions in this relationship."
Men don't give birth. And most do nothing close to what women do in regard to child rearing.
I used to feel like how John described. When I was pregnant, my husband didn't want me to work and be stressed about finances so he worked really hard having two full time jobs and I felt so bad because he was barely getting sleep and saving for our daughters needs and for his paternity leave. That was his decision, but I felt so terrible, like I could do something different to help, but he ended up being right because I gave birth early at 32 weeks pregnant due to family stress and thinking back if I had financial stress I probably would have given birth even earlier which is what he was trying to avoid because he was a premie baby at 7 months. Im learning to stress about things less and allow my husband to take on things that feel overwhelming to me because some things to me are world ending when, in reality, god has a plan, and we will get through anything.
“My immature wife is bleeding us dry” is actually a more appropriate title.
Not at all.
They got the titles mixed up. This title was about an alcoholic husband.
@@joane24change ur pfp feminist
@@lottoo5693 My pfp is great. I sometimes exchange it with the picture of the Virgin Mary. Any problem with that?
This is exactly why my wife and I have separate bank accounts
Fix the title before you have a riot
😂
So she wants responsibility and then lies about doing the responsibility correctly and then the fault is placed on him?
I feel like this is the wrong call for that title in this episode.
@HOLDXSTEEL the paused title card says husband spends $250 a week on beer.
Lol, wut?
@@adamriess5595 there is another call about an alcoholic husband at the end of the episode
It was supposed to from the third call and they mixed it up. The third call was a woman struggling with an alcoholic husband, and he wasn’t working much while they struggled with finances!
Thoughts aside on the caller, the title of this video could not have been more inaccurate lol.
She stays at home all day while he works out of the home. Why can't she handle the bills and other household stuff?
She could but she sucks at it and really both people should do it and have an app and a budget and have tabs on both peoples spending .. it’s shared income ..
@Kroh13 Then she needs to be an adult and learn. Just because she's at home doesn't mean she's not responsible for doing things at home while he's at work.
I agree, if she is a stay at home wife the bills and finances should be well looked after. Crazy to say 'i don't like saying no to him' so you would rather screw over your family huh 😅 its irresponsible
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How in the world is this title accurate? Come on, Delony team. Yall are smarter than that.
Sounds like she is bleeding them dry 😂
The title is wrong on this one, they should fix it.. the wife is the one hiding finance info from her husband.
Immature husband helps around the house, has children, works hard, and provides for a stay at home mom.
What part of that is immature?
They just mixed up the titles for the first and third caller In this specific show. The third callers husband IS immature, struggles with alcohol, doesn’t work much, and they are having financial issues- that title was supposed to go for that call. I guarantee you tomorrow’s call will say something like “How do I tell my husband I was hiding money?” And it will be about the alcoholic husband.
I was this stay- at- home- mom, feeling i was getting it too easy being home w 3 kids, one disabled. I was raised by sibgle mom.
I used to make to do lists, even add on this i was able to do not on the list to scratch off. I loved being at home w our kids! Didnt matter if it was painful financially. My husband wanted me here too. My husband's main role was to build the Financial Planning business from scratch-100% commission.
We both had B.A.s, he had plus 2 yrs of law school. He came w school debt, I had a small home, 2 young sons not in school, no debt. My house was worth $13,000, 45 years ago.
Im 68 now. The tension being stay at home mom is very real! The pressures of finances could of been lessened BUT would my husband grow to be the success he did if he didn't live pressures as some of his clients ts?
John's ability to convince women they're the victim never ceases to amaze me
men should do bettter then
And my wife complains about $25 a week on beer.
I’m confused. This has nothing to do with the title
We are a sole income home. Wife does her own accounting but definitely holds the checkbook. She has me make sure that the totals in the bank are where they generally should be. She does not want to know exactly whats in the bank. She likes keeping her own tabs though.
Caller - “I have been lying to my husband about our finances for years and I feel bad about it”
John - “Why did he do this to you?”
10:00 I hate that approach
Just tell him. No need to be all dramatic
If someone gave me the “we need to talk” and wait 30 min, that would make it worse! Sure she should come prepared but why not sit him down and do it ?
Why did they talk for 12 minutes before she actually told him how much debt there is. Under 1000
This conversation is almost worthless. No questions about annual income, how much debt they actually have (including the medical debt,) or what financial goals they have as a couple. Just sit down, do a debt to income analysis and figure out where you want the money to go. Why is that difficult?
Right do a budget
Not important. She does whatever and it's his fault. 😅
Don't ever use any app that connects to your bank.
Or, Set up a small checking account for debit card and cashapp, zelle, etc usage.
My nephew is 25 and had a gf who is 22 and they have 2 kids one 2 year old and a 4 month old and his useless gf stays home with the kids n says her job is way way way harder then working 50 hours a week in the Florida heat. But she is useless when they kids have a doc appointment he has to leave work go pick them up and take all of them to the doc. Even tho my parents gave her a car and she has a license. But for whatever reason she can't even take the kids to the doc alone. She has her mom come and help her take care of the kids almost every day. My poor nephew said he asked for a glass of water the other night and she got upset and said u can get ur own water. It breaks my heart to see how poorly she treats him. I pray to God he realizes she is taking advantage of his kindness. And I hope he leaves her I know she will get child support but at least he will be happy bc he looks miserable with her. I think she only wanted kids to collect a check when they break up
Couple issues. Her getting pg at 19/20, was a huge mistake both your nephew and she made. She's no idea about responsibility so is passing it to older adults. Like an under developed child would. Then the other issue is she's being enabled. Her mother. Your nephew. While they help her, she'll never be a proper partner or mother.
I worked, raised kids, ran a home. Looking back I have no previous idea how I did it. I'm now "retired". Enjoyably lazy. With a simple life. My kids are grown so that's fortunate but they are just as much hard work.
My problem was fear of debt. Fear of things falling apart. So I was the CEO of our home. Never dated an alpha male who deals with things I deal with. Never will now.
They just don't exist unless they are abusers also
John, there’s no guilt in this woman’s lifestyle and nothing experimental about this traditional life. Traditions are old, if you didn’t know
I don't know why this is so hard. You have X coming in, so you can only have x going out. Use a spreadsheet, list bills vs income.
RE the title problem, Thumbs down the video.
I don’t know how else to alert the team that there’s a problem here
This is 1 of my absolute fave calls!!! So many people are like this - especially with medical creep now that we are all taking better care of ourselves post COVID Era.
We gotta count the cost and get humble and be willing to get flexible to sacrifice some or consider others’ perspectives or cooperate to mend the fence and repair the damage.
If we gotta halt the Amazon or Netflix or get rich quick or self help subs for 3-6 months or sell stuff we have or get a job or find some clients or do some work others will value with cash, so be it. We can make up for it if we forgive ourselves to move forward honestly and with integrity. 😅❤🎉
How is the husband immature?! What did I miss?
This is insane. Don't people get receipts after taking out money from the ATM for cash? He would easily be aware of the situation. So this man has just been working himself dry all this time. It's good she caught herself early enough in the process. She could also help generate her own little pot working part time from home and spending that money on her own expenses because it seems the husband is not earning enough. The explanation of medical bill is certainly not the whole picture here for the overspending ending up at 0 on the account!
Wrong title.
I wish he would change his language. He always says 'help out around the house' which makes it sound somewhat like he thinks the running of a household is the wife's job. It would be nice if he would say something like be (more) active in running the household.
wrong title and thumbnail
wrong thumbnail
I don't think the title is accurate , i think I lied to my husband and were in debt is more accurate but that's just me.
So wrong video - with that aside, drinking is honestly so dumb and when as a society need to just stop wasting our time with it. It’s unhealthy, it’s expensive, it’s NOT needed in order to have fun or enjoy something. Wishes this show shared this stance, the alcohol business makes the credit card business look like a angel
Just show him the bank account report, easy. 🤷♀️
😂 sometimes a guy needs the beer to cope with the wife 😊
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When did she say anything about beer ? This is click bait!
This title is weird
I love beer🥹
Obviously, he should switch to cheap hard liquor
Where’s the $250 a month in beer?
Right off the rip she admits to financial infidelity.
How do you know she is just buying for herself . She could be buying things for the family and they still are in a whole . She didn’t say she shops at Amazon 24/7 ..
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John Delony Show staff, please fix the title of this video. It’s not right. You guys have not been doing a good job with the titles lately.
I watched this because of the alcohol, and all I hear is some Karen
Uhh what's with the title?
Seriously the title is so click baity and beneath you. Yes he is immature if he is spending and not taking part in the finances and yes she shouldnt be lying about how much money they have on hand. The title should have been how to address financial infidelity on both parts.
No, it’s NOT clickbait. They just mixed up the titles. The third caller in this specific show was struggling with an alcoholic husband, he wasn’t working much, and they were struggling financially- that was the title for that video and they just mixed it up with this call.
Was this title click bait? Or is it a mix up? Lmao!!!
Fake title
It’s not a fake title. They mixed them up. This is for the third caller who is struggling with an alcoholic husband, who doesn’t work much, and they are struggling financially.
This title is so misleading. The husband has done nothing wrong
OMG people READ the comments. This isn’t clickbait. The team accidentally mixed up the titles. I guarantee you tomorrow’s title will be something like “how do I tell my husband I was hiding money”? they mixed up the first and third call in this specific show. The third caller was dealing with an immature husband, he struggles with alcohol, doesn’t work much, and they are having financial issues. That title was supposed to go on that video and they just mixed it up. It’s NOT clickbait!
When did she say 250 bucks of beer a week click bait ! Unsubscribed!
OMG people READ the comments. This isn’t clickbait. The team accidentally mixed up the titles. I guarantee you tomorrow title will be be something like “how do I tell my husband I was hiding money” they mixed up the first and third call in this specific show. The third caller was dealing with an immature husband, he struggles with alcohol, doesn’t work much, and they are having financial issues. That title was supposed to go on that video and they just mixed it up. It’s NOT clickbait!
Caller number one was a secretary. This is not a career. Now. She's a stay-at-home mom. She doesn't make money. You get to choose. You don't get both. You cannot have it all. Stop.
All of you guys blame her , yet it sounds like he is the one all about her being a stay at home mom .. don’t forget a lot of men want this
Issue is not her being at home, they both seem to be happy with that arrangement. Issue is her mismanaging household money and spending all of their savings behind his back.
She literally says in the video she loves being a stay at home wife and has never felt more fulfilled in her life
@@Marilyn236I was talking specifically to the comment section on insulting stay at home moms , he asked her to stay at home ..
@@shawnbrooks5293good , but people are commenting for her to get a job without understanding he also wanted her to stay home . I’m not against SAHM at all .
I hate this for this lady 😒
So another woman calling in the Dr Baloney show complaining about the man she chose? So she has lied to him etc, but of course he is the problem, lol. All the young men out there listen to this call carefully then read the title then listen again. Do you see how the narratives are framed? He is the immature husband, he is the problem. Of course she picked him, lied to him but don't bother with that, lol. It's a shame this video will only get 20-30K views mostly from women and bots but if you happen by this please don't get married. This is one of hundreds of calls you can listen to on this pod cast of women essentially laying the blame for all of their problems at the feet of the men they chose. Don't combine incomes, don't live together, don't get married. You can have a great long term relationship with a woman and never be in a legally binding contract with her. Good luck.
It’s the wrong title- this was supposed to be for the third call in this show. That husband was an alcoholic, and not working much!
I liked the beginning of your comment but how do you create and manage a successful family without living together?
They've messed up on the title and you're having a meltdown because you took it personally
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😂 it’s a command and the will of the Lord that woman guide the house. Meaning to homeschool your own kids and cook great heathy food. These two tasks alone will give the mom a satisfaction for life. Unless you only have a couple kids 😂 and you waist money and be lazy and eat out all the time. Let the wicked be confounded and confused. Thank you Lord for a life of purpose for the everlasting life to come.
Well, well, well... If it only were that simple.
I don't feel like getting all wound up over some man's idea of my sole worth in life. However, I can definitely say that I have been able to maintain a home, our finances, raised two brilliant and hard-working children without *wasting* money, time, or energy.
If I didn't step up 23 years ago, we would likely not be married, safe, or secure.
@ well if you had to then there is no problem with that. With the Lord it probably would have been more easier.
I bet you've never done just cooking and cleaning and felt fulfilled. You should try it for a month. Nobody really feels fulfilled doing that. What makes it worth it is having a husband who is grateful and helpful and loving. You know, a real partner. Not someone who tells you what you should and shouldn't feel just because the Bible says. A man actually like Christ. Good luck there!! You really need it.
And what verse is that?
@ sheesh not just cooking and cleaning silly. There is a lot more to that in a marriage.😂💀
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Since you acknowledge that is not your right, STOP POSTING THE SAME THING over and over.
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