I will never forget my first time hearing this in 1971.I cried. I did so again today. At 70, the only constant is the beauty of this song., Joni's voice and my need to still hope for a better world.
Same! I'm 65, but remember when this song came out. Joni, Carly & James... Had every single album (playing them CONSTANTLY) until it drove my entire family nuts! Listening to Joni... & hearing this young lady who sang this song on *The Voice*, Lila Forde... Let's just say it REALLY took me back to my early teens. ❤
I got pregnant around Christmas time in 2019. During my pregnancy I listened to the Blue album over and over, I’d put the phone on my belly and the baby would kick. I was very lonely during those times, but listening to that album brought me some comfort… I lost my son at 36 weeks and 4 days pregnant. His name is River. “Now I’ve gone and lost the best baby that I ever had… oh, I wish I had a River I could skate away on. I wish I had a River so long, I’d teach my feet to fly.” 🕊🖤
Je suis Français, je trouve que c'est une des plus belles chansons au monde. I'm French, it's in my opininion one of the best songs in the world. Je vous aime. Sorry if mistakes.
"River expresses regret at the end of a relationship...but it's also about being lonely at Christmas time...A Christmas song for people who are lonely at Christmas! We need a song like that." -Joni Mitchell
There are many alone at Christmas including me this year. I've been solo more times than not in the last 20 years since my 3 children grew up and moved away. The memories of Christmas with them when young, the best! ❤
There were a couple of different paths to take - I chose Carole King for my mentor because of her piano chords & songs. Now, I've read Reckless Daughter, the Joni Mitchell bio, & learned they recorded in the same studio - they were fighting over a red piano - Joni sings background on Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow. They really were in the same place & time, making great albums together.
That tracks. Supposedly, in your teenage and early adult years, the music you listen to gets solidified as your taste and you will continue to like it, whether or not you begin to like other stuff as well Most of the time, this seems to be true and is why a lot of older generations do not like “new” music
Cara, non parliamo la stessa lingua ma il dolore dell'Anima ci unisce ed è universale. I genitori, la famiglia sono un dono di Dio. Porterai i loro i ricordi, le loro voci, i loro volti sempre con te per il mondo. Ti abbraccio forte e ti auguro di trovare il Natale nel tuo cuore ❤, nonostante il male che senti dentro.
Ah, found it. Jr. Taylor. This song is a warm comforter on a freezing Canadian night. All hail Joni ! Stay safe and warm. See other message l sent u. I'm not a techno pro, more of a technophobe
Grief is the price we pay for having truly loved. If you have children, make sure you remember that YOU are their parent and make the most of the Christmas holiday you have with them so they can do the same for their children when they have them.
Anyone listening Sun 15 December 2024. This song and Blue, the album it comes from, has very special memories for me. I have the original vinyl album (or LP) of Blue and all formats since so I think you’ll realise I love it. If you’ve never heard the album and you like Joni Mitchell, I can highly recommend it. 🎄🇬🇧
I'm new to her music. Just watched Love Actually, loved her voice and decided to hear more of her music. I'd describe myself as a "metal head", but her voice/music has a hold on me
Yes! (tho' it's actually now the small hours of Monday 16th). I heard this sung last night as a solo at a carol concert and had to hear it again. I don't listen to Ms Mitchell nearly enough...
Beautiful, soulful music that I too am listening to on 12/15/24. The lyrics and melody take me to a far away place. I am going to bed shortly and will have this lovely tune to gently take me to a land of slumber. Good dreams to one and all.
@@-VOR I have many tastes in music, including metal but it’s always a good thing to not be too fixed and know that you could be missing some fantastic music. I’m so glad you have been able to enjoy Joni’s song and have a listen to some of Bob Dylan and Neil Young too. 🇬🇧🎄
“I’m so hard to handle/I’m selfish and I’m sad.” This line makes me cry every time, partially because I can relate, and partially because I’m in awe of the balls it takes to be that vulnerable in a song. So many songwriters want to come off like they are so sensitive but they’re really just throwing out platitudes and obfuscating lyrics. Joni really is baring her soul, and that takes more gall than most have.
@@peggyhahn588It’s a word that fits its definition. Not many people know it so when you use it, you can literally say ‘Yes!’ when asked what it means. 😊
I totally agree. Have lost 4 persons since Covid. As I look through the Christmas cards to send out this year, I see the names of those Friends and silently grieve their loss and those they left behind.
@@rebeccacade3371 I’m so, so very sorry for your loss. Such a terrible time for that, though there is no good time. May you find some comfort in your memories of your sister, and in Joni’s healing lyrics.
You just need to move with Christmas. I've lost everything family - parents gone, daughter a complete waste, extended family a bunch of Covid wackos - and I've found out that my friends are the people who truly love me. They have a choice.
@@theresakotas-akridge1418 Hello Theresa how are you doing today dear I hope all is well with you and your family? I have been happy all day because of this song keep reminding me of my late Dad
I’m 42 years old. Funny enough just discovered this song along with BLUE last christmas. It was a perfect soundtrack for me. Now I am obsessed. She paints a song perfectly.
Can’t stop listening to this beautiful song my wife soulmate and best friend passed away just before Christmas last year ended our 57 years together, always loved this song even more now ❤💔💔💔
Your wife probably deserves a better song than this. Mitchell is singing about having broken her lover's heart because she's selfish and sad, and now she's alone at Christmas and having a total pitty party about it and wants to run away from how awful she is. Your wife stayed with you for 57 years, whereas Mitchell wrote a song about ending her relationship with David Crosby by writing a song about it and debuting the song to all their mutual friends at a party they BOTH attended, so...
I heard more "poor me" and "I broke my baby's heart and now I'm lonely at Christmas" and "I'm selfish and I'm said" which tells me she's not a very nice person in a relationship. I'm not sure that's bittersweet, it's sound more like pathological narcissism. She admits she is "hard to handle" "selfish and sad" and she broke her baby's heart, so she's pathologically self-absorbed and now kicking herself for being such an a-hole because she's alone at Christmas.
My beautiful grandson was in our car at Christmas talking for ever until this song came on the radio, he listened in silence and at the end said "I love that song grandma " 3 years old awesome taste ❤
In 2006 I was volunteering in a hippie relief camp near New Orleans after Katrina. There was an off track betting place that had been flooded for two weeks above the roof in front of our camp. People had long since raided the bar, but one night I raided the jukebox with a dready girl from Canada. She gasped when the flipside of a 45 record was River by Joni Mitchell. She sang it to me: "Loved me so dirty made me weak in the knees" I will die remembering that moment in a mud filled bar.
It's coming on Christmas They're cutting down trees They're putting up reindeer And singing songs of joy and peace Oh I wish I had a river I could skate away on But it don't snow here It stays pretty green I'm going to make a lot of money Then I'm going to quit this crazy scene I wish I had a river I could skate away on I wish I had a river so long I would teach my feet to fly Oh I wish I had a river I could skate away on I made my baby cry He tried hard to help me You know, he put me at ease And he loved me so naughty Made me weak in the knees Oh I wish I had a river I could skate away on I'm so hard to handle I'm selfish and I'm sad Now I've gone and lost the best baby That I ever had Oh I wish I had a river I could skate away on I wish I had a river so long I would teach my feet to fly Oh I wish I had a river I could skate away on I made my baby say goodbye It's coming on Christmas They're cutting down trees They're putting up reindeer And singing songs of joy and peace I wish I had a river I could skate away on
My mother listened to this all year round she loved joni and my mom passed at 52 of a brain aneurysm and I'll will forever think of her when listening to river fly high mama! ❤
Awww. I feel that. I lost my mom to breast cancer - metastasized into bone cancer - at a time I was also going through a very difficult divorce. It almost killed me. But it didn’t. Darkest period of my life because prior to that I had been fortunate enough to suffer no loses close to my heart. What doesn’t kill you truly does make one stronger. But in return I became so much more jaded. And realistic. It took years to laugh at/with all the good times I had with my uncommonly fortunate life as a child and young adult.
Have been in love with Joni since the Blue album when i was a 16 year old black girl living with Mom and my four brothers in the inner city. Don't know what it was but she has been my muse throughout the years. Mom got me a used guitar because i HAD to have one. Thank you Joni.
You and I share a common bkgrnd, Jeanette! As a Black teen who loved Joni (along with Judy, Joan, Cat etc.), my family and neighbors saw me as an odd weirdo, an outlier. Like you, I learned to play her music. And the teasing and put-downs never deterred me. Now in my mid-60s, I'm still a huge fan of her music from the 70s. IMHO, she'll always rank as musical genius. 🎶
I resonate with you a lot I am 16 years old and I love her music, in an age where lyrics are just now mere sounds her lyrics have meaning and thought and I find that so very beautiful.
It’s Christmas Day 2023 and I lost my Dad suddenly 7 months ago to the day. I knew today was going to be hard, but I was doing ok. Then I listened to this song and now I’m a crying mess. What a beautiful and powerful song! I miss you Dad 😭😭😭
My dad introduced me to Joni's For The Roses album on a road trip in my mid teens... lost him a couple years ago. Doesn't take much to send us from one emotion to the next when we grieve, but music sure does cut right to the heart of things in a hurry!
What a haunting melody. I sit with tears welling up thinking of my mother who left this world on Christmas leaving behind 3 sons struggling each year to make sense of it. Listening to Joni brings back so many memories of her filling our living room on a Saturday morning, windows open fresh breeze blowing in and possibilities for the day with it. Sending love to all of you out there struggling with this time of year, you are not alone.
...and some of the most pitty-party, "poor me, I was a total asshole, broke my baby's heart and now I'm alone at Christmas and want to run away from how selfish and sad I am". Not so beautiful when you listen, eh???
@@le_th_actually it does the exact opposite. It makes the song more beautiful and meaningful. She was going through a depressive moment in her life so this was her fighting back at her emotions through music.
When I first began listening through Joni Mitchell’s catalogue earlier this year, I was quickly impressed by her lyricism, melodies and unusual chord progressions. Blue was certainly the peak of her early period, but this song in particular is an incredible piece of work. For a song that is one voice and one piano only, it is about as perfect a piece of music and lyrics as anything I’ve ever heard. 🙏
@@metrowireless3381 l know you are correct........try Sharon van Etten......Lykke Li..........you may like them.........happy hols',.to you.& people you love.........will, London......
This is my first time hearing this song and I'm bawling my eyes out. This will be my and my husbands first time apart during the holidays, we aren't doing well and need some time apart and God I love him.
Joni Mitchell is the best singer songwriter that nobody talks about at all these days. So many people are (understandably and deservedly) wrapped up in artists like Elton John, Billy Joel, Springsteen, Carole King, James Taylor, etc. But Joni Mitchell takes me to a completely different place than any of those. This song manages to be so emotionally wrenching.. while simultaneously being breathtakingly beautiful. Its so difficult to strike that balance. But my God she nails it.
Thousands have covered Joni's songs. Many of them are pretty good. Except that every one of them is performing to us. But not Joni. She is crooning to herself... And that's the key
I'm one of those people and that's why all love Joni so much. She appeals to everyone but especially sensitive artists. For us, she's the absolute height of artistic expression. There's no one above her.
I agree with you..........people said it about Joan Baez......but there is always a new kid............it isn't a competition...'though studios may see easy money.......simply enjoy ............
@@starlight0002 l know everything is centred on Joni.........try Jeff Buckley, the cure...........if you are determined to spend your life heartbroken, they will do it.........happy ñew year......
My sister Lou had one of those "hi-fi" sterios that unfolded from a suitcase. She kept in in her closet, which was on the wall next to my bed in the room I shared with my sister. I knew the lyrics to songs I didn't remember hearing. Standing in the produce section, realizing I actually knew all the words to the song playing. Here I am in my 60s, realizing I owe a debt of gratitude to that accidental musical education. So if you come upon me bawling my eyes out while shopping, I'm okay, I'm just discovering good stuff I forgot.
I'm having such a full circle, gratitude moment. I have very little close family and did not have many friends or relationships for a very long time so christmas for me was listening to this song on repeat, crying, and drinking a lot of wine. Now this year I get to wake up and do christmas with my partner and then see my nieces and nephews and im crying still but in a different way. Im so grateful that this song has been here for so many stages of my life.
Joni makes us think of our mistakes and regrets.but also wishes of better things to come.lost my husband and soul mate of 54 years 31/10/23.lonely in a room full of family and friends.pray things get easier.
I pray you will heal; your heart mends soon and the happy times you've enjoyed become priorty in your memories. Blessings for you this Christmas... I know it's a tough time. I'll pray for you for a year.
The Blue album is my path to dealing with having to give up my daughter. I was alone and just 16 years of age. The loss has impacted my life in so many ways😢😢😢and I still grieve. I did not not have other children. Thank you Joni❤❤❤
@patriciapatriciagray-thorp9574 You are not alone. Joni suffered the same story: giving up her daughter at a young age. She was brok and alone in Toronto. Had to give up the baby for adoption. When I first heard Joni's River I wondered which of Joni's breakups would cause her to write such a painful holiday song. It just didn't add up. She kept her young motherhood as the ultimate secret until 1990s, more than two decades after Blue album was released, when a roommate of Joni sold the story to a tabloid. A few radio DJs brought up this long-hidden story, and I got it. It took me a few more years to be able to re-tell the story. Hope your grief will be lessened.
Can’t imagine your pain. You were so young and we make the best decisions with the knowledge we have at that time. She is probably blossoming beautifully wherever she landed so think on that.? 🙏
Bless you Joni--I hope someone is telling you about these comments full of love! Your music has been the soundtrack of my life and "Blue" has spoken to me at every stage of my aging process just as powerfully as it did when I first heard it as a teenager and all my life was before me. That's practically the definition of great art. I could never thank you enough for all you have meant to me--teaching me songwriting structure, teaching me how to communicate a world of emotion on solo piano, teaching me how to sing clearly and effortlessly. You mean the world to me and to millions of others!!!
This is literally her channel so I think she does check it out herself or someone must be helping her as she's older and needs help to control her phone
"It's coming on Christmas They're cutting down trees They're putting up reindeer And singing songs of joy and peace Oh, I wish I had a river I could skate away on But it don't snow here It stays pretty green I'm going to make a lot of money Then I'm going to quit this crazy scene I wish I had a river I could skate away on I wish I had a river so long I would teach my feet to fly Oh, I wish I had a river I could skate away on I made my baby cry He tried hard to help me You know, he put me at ease And he loved me so naughty Made me weak in the knees Oh, I wish I had a river I could skate away on I'm so hard to handle I'm selfish and I'm sad Now I've gone and lost the best baby That I ever had Oh, I wish I had a river I could skate away on I wish I had a river so long I would teach my feet to fly Oh, I wish I had a river I could skate away on I made my baby say goodbye It's coming on Christmas They're cutting down trees They're putting up reindeer Singing songs of joy and peace I wish I had a river I could skate away on" Such a wounderful song, sharp verses and velvety vocal line...it makes me dream about my childhood
Wistful, rueful, powerful. Her voice soaring on the word “fly.” A perfect expression of regret and loneliness. I love the quote at the end. Yes we do, Joni - we need a song like that. Thank you.
My favorite song every Christmas for 40 some years...and I really do wish I had a river I could skate away on...loss...losing family is the hardest damn thing..I'm 1 of 7 siblings left and I'm a young 63. I'll never forget our Christmas together when it was so simple.. fruit, nuts to Crack open, pj's, underwear, and socks...and we were happy as all get out. Merry Christmas out there
Wow. I just read the rest of what you said. I'm in PA. Lost all my family too. Was in Colorado and returned here. Now, I really do wanna skate away. People are put here knowing what you go thru. Take care dear friend
Hi Joni if you ever want to come to Austin TX and check out the music let me know. We can get around pretty well without too much notice. Wonderful Winter we are having. Weather is perfect but then again I know your from Canada. But if you want to reach out to the young there are tons of them and they need your thoughts and are willing to listen. I can't introduce Clifford Antone to you but he is no longer here. But there are others. Frosty is here if you need a drummer.
I hear this song and miss my wife of 34 years, she is in care for FTD/Alzheimer's...I wish you here listening to our Christmas song for the 35th Christmas.
Yes, this gem has been played since 1971, hard to believe..when the Vietnam war was raging on, families torn apart all over the country, and like today so much division in our country... this lonely little classic reminds us that life is not all fancy Christmas gifts under the tree and mistletoe hanging waiting for the kiss of bliss, this song conveys real emotional turmoil of the heart, one of many gifts Joni Mitchell has giving us, a treasure from BLUE.. it really is, as Mitchell once wrote, "time to get ourselves back to the garden" the video is brilliant
When it came out I was a happy Midwestern teen who just thought it was a pretty song. About 15 years later I was in California and couldn't fly home for Christmas one year and there was no snow and Twinklets on the palm trees and friends dying from AIDS with no cure then and this song hit me like a sledgehammer to the heart.
The only Christmas song I ever liked , that's if you can call it one , it's beautiful yet melancholy which is my kinda song. Especially as Xmas is never easy for some. It's a nostalgic time of year you can't avoid 🤔. ✌️🇵🇸✌️🙏
Just take 4 minutes and 14 seconds of your life and sit back and just listen to river and I'll bet you'll be in paradise and you won't ever want to come back joni michell is a national treasure
I just watched the Helluva Boss episode Sinsmas, and Joni Mitchell’s song River reminded me so much of it. The emotions in the song and the episode brought tears to my eyes. Such a beautiful and heart-wrenching connection.
Not only is this one of the most beautifully written and performed songs of all time, the animations and illustrations are so beautiful. Truly touched my soul. Thank you.
My favorite Joni Mitchell song, not just for the lyrics also the music. This captures all the emotions of those of us who are still alone even in a crowd of people. Thank you Ms. Mitchell for all the music and poetry that enhance and define life.
Hello Marta how are you doing today dear I hope all is well with you and your family? I have been happy all day because of this song keep reminding me of my late Dad
I've been singing/playing Joni's songs since I was a young teen... Now, at age 71, I still listen to her and (try to) song along. My vocal range got pretty good back in the day singing her songs. Not so much now that I'm old. Her songs are ageless.
@@GailJackson-fy4yl i wish that were true but when you hear a great song like this your heart just melts and you remember those you lost and how christmas isnt a happy time for alot of ppl...just my thoughts in 2024
When I hear this I am back in our beautiful old communal house in Kitsilano. Jack and I are dancing close to this song, and our housemates are cooking, dancing, hanging out in sublime peace. Jack has been gone since 1985, but today, as I listen to this he is right beside me. Happy times, sad times, all mixed together in my memories, reminded by Joni. She sang our hearts out!
Im a 66 year old man. I also remember the first time i heard this song. I was living in wickford rhode island. And played this song several times in a row. I did the same with the album! Ive been listening to the Great Joni Mitchell ever since. And today is mother’s day. I sent a video of the circle game to the mothers in my life, along with my mothers day wishes. God bless you Joni Mitchell! You have filled my life with beautiful music and the many emotions and inspirations that accompanied them!!!
I will never forget my first time hearing this in 1971.I cried. I did so again today. At 70, the only constant is the beauty of this song., Joni's voice and my need to still hope for a better world.
I agree wholeheartedly, here's to 2022 !
Dear oldsoul.....this 72-yr. old appreciates your memory and sentiments.....and echoing my own need to still hope for a better world ✨🎄💜🎄✨
Beautiful 🥰
This 74 year old yearns for a better World
Another Boosted Boomer 70 here and we agree, She is a treasure to be listened to over and over and over.
This song is 52 years old….its timeless… I’m 81 years young… and it still moves me to tears!
Same! I'm 65, but remember when this song came out. Joni, Carly & James... Had every single album (playing them CONSTANTLY) until it drove my entire family nuts! Listening to Joni... & hearing this young lady who sang this song on *The Voice*, Lila Forde... Let's just say it REALLY took me back to my early teens. ❤
I’m 76 playing it now… my favorite Christmas song!!!
This ls great ,,There is a version With Snoopy skating from Chralie Brown that will make you smile. Best to all
I am 52. This song is part of me.
Every damn time.
I got pregnant around Christmas time in 2019. During my pregnancy I listened to the Blue album over and over, I’d put the phone on my belly and the baby would kick. I was very lonely during those times, but listening to that album brought me some comfort… I lost my son at 36 weeks and 4 days pregnant. His name is River. “Now I’ve gone and lost the best baby that I ever had… oh, I wish I had a River I could skate away on. I wish I had a River so long, I’d teach my feet to fly.” 🕊🖤
If you like and want: take a hug from Germany - my heart is with you!
I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm very sorry for you 💞
So sad for your loss xx
Sending your grieving heart some healing love. 💗💗💗
Je suis Français, je trouve que c'est une des plus belles chansons au monde.
I'm French, it's in my opininion one of the best songs in the world.
Je vous aime. Sorry if mistakes.
Oui! Yes! I agree. It is magnificent.
Bonnet de douche et mange tout, Rodney
You said this perfectly. 🎄
Oui, d'accord! Apparemment, en lisant ces commentaires, tout le monde aime cette chanson... et aime Joni.
(Please excuse mistakes - I'm American.)
I agree. It’s ethereal. Otherworldly.
"River expresses regret at the end of a relationship...but it's also about being lonely at Christmas time...A Christmas song for people who are lonely at Christmas! We need a song like that." -Joni Mitchell
There are many alone at Christmas including me this year. I've been solo more times than not in the last 20 years since my 3 children grew up and moved away. The memories of Christmas with them when young, the best! ❤
@@GLD-hopeful🫶
Fluffy
I fell in love with Joni's music at 17. I'm now 70 and it still stirs my emotions like it did back then.
There were a couple of different paths to take - I chose Carole King for my mentor because of her piano chords & songs. Now, I've read Reckless Daughter, the Joni Mitchell bio, & learned they recorded in the same studio - they were fighting over a red piano - Joni sings background on Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow. They really were in the same place & time, making great albums together.
Me too
70 :O
Wasn't this song about her break up with Graham Nash.
That tracks. Supposedly, in your teenage and early adult years, the music you listen to gets solidified as your taste and you will continue to like it, whether or not you begin to like other stuff as well
Most of the time, this seems to be true and is why a lot of older generations do not like “new” music
I lost both my parents this year. Christmas will never be the same again. This song is beautiful and gives me some comfort.
Cara, non parliamo la stessa lingua ma il dolore dell'Anima ci unisce ed è universale. I genitori, la famiglia sono un dono di Dio. Porterai i loro i ricordi, le loro voci, i loro volti sempre con te per il mondo. Ti abbraccio forte e ti auguro di trovare il Natale nel tuo cuore ❤, nonostante il male che senti dentro.
Same ❤
Ah, found it. Jr. Taylor. This song is a warm comforter on a freezing Canadian night. All hail Joni ! Stay safe and warm. See other message l sent u. I'm not a techno pro, more of a technophobe
Grief is the price we pay for having truly loved. If you have children, make sure you remember that YOU are their parent and make the most of the Christmas holiday you have with them so they can do the same for their children when they have them.
My husband of 46 yrs died last January. My first Christmas without him....I need that river!
Hi I’m Palestinian living in Saudi I just turned 40 and I love Joni Mitchell songs ❤️❤️❤️
Blessings and hopes for a better future for all of us. Much love from Oregon USA. Joni helps!! ❤🎉
Music is the universal language. May it bring us peace in our time.
Ageless beautiful music and words
I hope this year finds you well my friend. -from Chicago, IL
California Love 😎🎭✌️
Anyone listening Sun 15 December 2024. This song and Blue, the album it comes from, has very special memories for me. I have the original vinyl album (or LP) of Blue and all formats since so I think you’ll realise I love it. If you’ve never heard the album and you like Joni Mitchell, I can highly recommend it. 🎄🇬🇧
Yes Sunday Dec 15, 2024. 3 :48 eastern time. This song matches the dreary Ohio weather.
I'm new to her music. Just watched Love Actually, loved her voice and decided to hear more of her music. I'd describe myself as a "metal head", but her voice/music has a hold on me
Yes! (tho' it's actually now the small hours of Monday 16th). I heard this sung last night as a solo at a carol concert and had to hear it again. I don't listen to Ms Mitchell nearly enough...
Beautiful, soulful music that I too am listening to on 12/15/24. The lyrics and melody take me to a far away place. I am going to bed shortly and will have this lovely tune to gently take me to a land of slumber. Good dreams to one and all.
@@-VOR I have many tastes in music, including metal but it’s always a good thing to not be too fixed and know that you could be missing some fantastic music. I’m so glad you have been able to enjoy Joni’s song and have a listen to some of Bob Dylan and Neil Young too. 🇬🇧🎄
We are all skating with Joni
Nice!
“I’m so hard to handle/I’m selfish and I’m sad.” This line makes me cry every time, partially because I can relate, and partially because I’m in awe of the balls it takes to be that vulnerable in a song.
So many songwriters want to come off like they are so sensitive but they’re really just throwing out platitudes and obfuscating lyrics. Joni really is baring her soul, and that takes more gall than most have.
Yep! Loss is painful...regret makes it 10x sadder!
Obfuscate, lovely.
nobody writes such painfully personal songs,as Joni...believe this one is about her break up with Graham Nash..
@@peggyhahn588It’s a word that fits its definition. Not many people know it so when you use it, you can literally say ‘Yes!’ when asked what it means. 😊
I know isn’t that so great. I can relate too. I’m selfish and sad.
Who else is listening to this at Christmas 2024?
Many many many of us
Me, of course !!!!
My favorite Christmas 🎄 song. Doesn't have to be Christmas though !@#😊
Me too!❤❤❤
Me! Heard First Aid Kit do a version on Swedish television yesterday
Me
With age, Christmas feels even more pensive as we miss people who have passed away. This song captures a bit of that pensive feeling well.
Lost my sister a couple of weeks ago. This song is salve for my soul.
I totally agree. Have lost 4 persons since Covid. As I look through the Christmas cards to send out this year, I see the names of those Friends and silently grieve their loss and those they left behind.
@@rebeccacade3371
I’m so, so very sorry for your loss. Such a terrible time for that, though there is no good time. May you find some comfort in your memories of your sister, and in Joni’s healing lyrics.
You just need to move with Christmas. I've lost everything family - parents gone, daughter a complete waste, extended family a bunch of Covid wackos - and I've found out that my friends are the people who truly love me. They have a choice.
@@theresakotas-akridge1418 Hello Theresa how are you doing today dear I hope all is well with you and your family? I have been happy all day because of this song keep reminding me of my late Dad
I’m 42 years old. Funny enough just discovered this song along with BLUE last christmas. It was a perfect soundtrack for me. Now I am obsessed. She paints a song perfectly.
Can’t stop listening to this beautiful song my wife soulmate and best friend passed away just before Christmas last year ended our 57 years together, always loved this song even more now
❤💔💔💔
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm glad that this song helps with the pain during the holidays. 💞
I'm so sorry....I lost my husband 14 years ago... it's coming on Christmas.. Merry Christmas to you
I am sorry for your loss. This song reminds me of a loss as well. Joni wrote it from the heart.
I'm so sorry.
Your wife probably deserves a better song than this. Mitchell is singing about having broken her lover's heart because she's selfish and sad, and now she's alone at Christmas and having a total pitty party about it and wants to run away from how awful she is. Your wife stayed with you for 57 years, whereas Mitchell wrote a song about ending her relationship with David Crosby by writing a song about it and debuting the song to all their mutual friends at a party they BOTH attended, so...
I can’t believe how underrated this is. This should be up there with all the other Christmas classics everybody knows
One of the very few 'Christmas songs' I actually love, albeit not really about the holiday. ;)
I totally agree with you! 🎇
Absolutely! 98% of Christmas music is insufferable shit.
Underrated?! How is this underrated? Its considered a timeless classic.
it deserves far more than becoming a christmas classic
No one does bittersweet quite like Joni. I’ve loved this song for 50 years. It still moves me.
Well said. Thank you.
It's Christmas again
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It's Christmas again
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Yes, so well said, and I feel the same.
I heard more "poor me" and "I broke my baby's heart and now I'm lonely at Christmas" and "I'm selfish and I'm said" which tells me she's not a very nice person in a relationship. I'm not sure that's bittersweet, it's sound more like pathological narcissism.
She admits she is "hard to handle" "selfish and sad" and she broke her baby's heart, so she's pathologically self-absorbed and now kicking herself for being such an a-hole because she's alone at Christmas.
My beautiful grandson was in our car at Christmas talking for ever until this song came on the radio, he listened in silence and at the end said "I love that song grandma " 3 years old awesome taste ❤
Get that boy a guitar today...he has great taste! You won't regret it.
@@raymondleicht9691 or wheel in the piano.
Pamela, a beautiful memento. TY❤
A boy with a great taste! Treasure it and stimulate him to make Music!🙏🏼 .. that's always helped me in all my years..
Awe that's beautiful
In 2006 I was volunteering in a hippie relief camp near New Orleans after Katrina. There was an off track betting place that had been flooded for two weeks above the roof in front of our camp.
People had long since raided the bar, but one night I raided the jukebox with a dready girl from Canada.
She gasped when the flipside of a 45 record was River by Joni Mitchell. She sang it to me:
"Loved me so dirty made me weak in the knees"
I will die remembering that moment in a mud filled bar.
Here I am again 2023 Thank you for this ..I'm back in the 70 s
Good taste. The song is just pure beauty from start to finish.
The interweaving of “Jingle Bells” in this is both genius and haunting.
“Joni is genius” - understatement of the century
Definitely!
it’s christmas eve, my last Christmas as a teenager and i’m sitting in bed singing away to this beautiful song
Life goes fast, cherish all you love!
You’ll be fine if you take care of yourself first always
This song reminds me that I am still actually human, and I do have feelings
Perfectly encompasses how I feel around the holidays. Gets me every time 😢
It's coming on Christmas
They're cutting down trees
They're putting up reindeer
And singing songs of joy and peace
Oh I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
But it don't snow here
It stays pretty green
I'm going to make a lot of money
Then I'm going to quit this crazy scene
I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I wish I had a river so long
I would teach my feet to fly
Oh I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I made my baby cry
He tried hard to help me
You know, he put me at ease
And he loved me so naughty
Made me weak in the knees
Oh I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I'm so hard to handle
I'm selfish and I'm sad
Now I've gone and lost the best baby
That I ever had
Oh I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I wish I had a river so long
I would teach my feet to fly
Oh I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I made my baby say goodbye
It's coming on Christmas
They're cutting down trees
They're putting up reindeer
And singing songs of joy and peace
I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
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Fantastic
That's one of my favorite Joni Mitchell's songs. Many of us feel so alone this time of year, longing to escape the bubble of happiness we don't feel.
Well said…
mine too
Try Lakota...,
Most of the others are shite.
My mother introduced me to Mitchell’s music and she passed this year..I’m so appreciative of her taste in music now mine
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Sorry for your loss 💔 and merry Christmas, hope you have close ones around you :)
My mother listened to this all year round she loved joni and my mom passed at 52 of a brain aneurysm and I'll will forever think of her when listening to river fly high mama! ❤
Awww. I feel that. I lost my mom to breast cancer - metastasized into bone cancer - at a time I was also going through a very difficult divorce. It almost killed me. But it didn’t. Darkest period of my life because prior to that I had been fortunate enough to suffer no loses close to my heart. What doesn’t kill you truly does make one stronger. But in return I became so much more jaded. And realistic. It took years to laugh at/with all the good times I had with my uncommonly fortunate life as a child and young adult.
@@mrsmartypants_1 I’m so sorry! There’s still good things in this world! I promise!
I’m so sorry!
Me, it reminds me of my life gone long ago & mistakes I cant go back on
I made my baby cry x
What a great song and vibe. Joni was before my time but I so so.love her voice ... beautiful ❤ x
Have been in love with Joni since the Blue album when i was a 16 year old black girl living with Mom and my four brothers in the inner city. Don't know what it was but she has been my muse throughout the years. Mom got me a used guitar because i HAD to have one. Thank you Joni.
You and I share a common bkgrnd, Jeanette! As a Black teen who loved Joni (along with Judy, Joan, Cat etc.), my family and neighbors saw me as an odd weirdo, an outlier. Like you, I learned to play her music. And the teasing and put-downs never deterred me. Now in my mid-60s, I'm still a huge fan of her music from the 70s. IMHO, she'll always rank as musical genius. 🎶
God bless you both, sisters.
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I resonate with you a lot I am 16 years old and I love her music, in an age where lyrics are just now mere sounds her lyrics have meaning and thought and I find that so very beautiful.
I ❤️ my rock and roll sistas!
My oldest brother borrowed your Blue album from me when he was going though a divorce in the late 1970s. I’ve never asked him to return it.
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I love You Joni!! Your music speaks to me. Thank you so much. Xo❤
11/15/2024... Time for River and pleasant melancholy..I am 73 and have traveled on that river for many days now...Never tire of this tune
Every year I come back to this ❤
Peace to you @ Christmas🕊️💚
Beautiful song for christmas!!!!! I heard it very often this christmas 2024!!!
It’s Christmas Day 2023 and I lost my Dad suddenly 7 months ago to the day. I knew today was going to be hard, but I was doing ok. Then I listened to this song and now I’m a crying mess. What a beautiful and powerful song! I miss you Dad 😭😭😭
My dad introduced me to Joni's For The Roses album on a road trip in my mid teens... lost him a couple years ago. Doesn't take much to send us from one emotion to the next when we grieve, but music sure does cut right to the heart of things in a hurry!
I'm sorry for your loss.
My heart goes out to you.🙏🏼
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What a haunting melody. I sit with tears welling up thinking of my mother who left this world on Christmas leaving behind 3 sons struggling each year to make sense of it. Listening to Joni brings back so many memories of her filling our living room on a Saturday morning, windows open fresh breeze blowing in and possibilities for the day with it. Sending love to all of you out there struggling with this time of year, you are not alone.
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So sorry for your loss
Lovely that you are thinking of others loneliness. Hope time has made the loss of your mother easier.
Hugs
Thank you…..
I'm 71, Jesus,but I still have her to listen to
One of the most beautiful songs ever written and sung.
...and some of the most pitty-party, "poor me, I was a total asshole, broke my baby's heart and now I'm alone at Christmas and want to run away from how selfish and sad I am".
Not so beautiful when you listen, eh???
@@le_th_actually it does the exact opposite. It makes the song more beautiful and meaningful. She was going through a depressive moment in her life so this was her fighting back at her emotions through music.
@@le_th_ quite the opposite
Of course I am listening to this on Christmas Eve. Thank Joni for this heartbreaking Christmas song.
Joni Mitchell wrote the most beautiful songs.
When I first began listening through Joni Mitchell’s catalogue earlier this year, I was quickly impressed by her lyricism, melodies and unusual chord progressions. Blue was certainly the peak of her early period, but this song in particular is an incredible piece of work. For a song that is one voice and one piano only, it is about as perfect a piece of music and lyrics as anything I’ve ever heard. 🙏
A new fan, i take it a young person, nonetheless... thats impressive. Shes magic, find me anyone to compare. You cannot.
Try ",Ladies of the Canyon", you probably know it...............
Chalk Mark in a Rainstorm........try it.
@@metrowireless3381 l know you are correct........try Sharon van Etten......Lykke Li..........you may like them.........happy hols',.to you.& people you love.........will, London......
I think you know all of ms. Anderson's back catalogue.....but try those l mentioned...'bye........
I am 75, Joni is still one of my top favourite artists. She was and is an authentic genius.
This is my first time hearing this song and I'm bawling my eyes out. This will be my and my husbands first time apart during the holidays, we aren't doing well and need some time apart and God I love him.
If You take time apart there is no going back
You will be ok, have a wonderful Christmas
I have been divorced for a number of years and I don't even get to see my daughter.
It is painful
Dig deep ma’am , nothing’s forever , its a tough ride!
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Joni Mitchell is the best singer songwriter that nobody talks about at all these days. So many people are (understandably and deservedly) wrapped up in artists like Elton John, Billy Joel, Springsteen, Carole King, James Taylor, etc. But Joni Mitchell takes me to a completely different place than any of those.
This song manages to be so emotionally wrenching.. while simultaneously being breathtakingly beautiful. Its so difficult to strike that balance. But my God she nails it.
You hit it - her music is so raw and real and her singing is like noone else. She takes me to a different place.
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Thousands have covered Joni's songs. Many of them are pretty good. Except that every one of them is performing to us.
But not Joni.
She is crooning to herself...
And that's the key
I'm one of those people and that's why all love Joni so much. She appeals to everyone but especially sensitive artists. For us, she's the absolute height of artistic expression. There's no one above her.
I'm so glad that she is getting the recognition and respect that she so richly deserves.
I agree with you..........people said it about Joan Baez......but there is always a new kid............it isn't a competition...'though studios may see easy money.......simply enjoy ............
I agree with Joni's fanbase..........but try lykke li,.........Sharon van etten.........you may surprise yourself..........
@@starlight0002 l know everything is centred on Joni.........try Jeff Buckley, the cure...........if you are determined to spend your life heartbroken, they will do it.........happy ñew year......
Try Maddie moon.........beezus Taylor............quite unknown........pretty brilliant..........
I'm 70.. And this song brings me to tears everytime I here it... My life has flown by since the first time I heard this... Where's it gone😢 🤔💕
Me too, takes me right back, her voice still gives me goosebumps❤
67 here and it seems like only yesterday when I first heard this song. Time flies ! !
Short life Henrietta however long you live?
..I'm here every year.
My sister Lou had one of those "hi-fi" sterios that unfolded from a suitcase. She kept in in her closet, which was on the wall next to my bed in the room I shared with my sister. I knew the lyrics to songs I didn't remember hearing. Standing in the produce section, realizing I actually knew all the words to the song playing. Here I am in my 60s, realizing I owe a debt of gratitude to that accidental musical education. So if you come upon me bawling my eyes out while shopping, I'm okay, I'm just discovering good stuff I forgot.
Best Christmas song ever, no argument 🎄
I'm having such a full circle, gratitude moment.
I have very little close family and did not have many friends or relationships for a very long time so christmas for me was listening to this song on repeat, crying, and drinking a lot of wine.
Now this year I get to wake up and do christmas with my partner and then see my nieces and nephews and im crying still but in a different way. Im so grateful that this song has been here for so many stages of my life.
Beautiful song hadn't heard it in years listening to The Piano and heard their version still brings tears to my eyes
Joni makes us think of our mistakes and regrets.but also wishes of better things to come.lost my husband and soul mate of 54 years 31/10/23.lonely in a room full of family and friends.pray things get easier.
I pray you will heal; your heart mends soon and the happy times you've enjoyed become priorty in your memories. Blessings for you this Christmas... I know it's a tough time. I'll pray for you for a year.
Hugs!
I lost my mother that same day at 9:20 am. So sorry for your loss ❤️ she lived Joni Mitchell!
The Blue album is my path to dealing with having to give up my daughter. I was alone and just 16 years of age. The loss has impacted my life in so many ways😢😢😢and I still grieve. I did not not have other children. Thank you Joni❤❤❤
@patriciapatriciagray-thorp9574
You are not alone. Joni suffered the same story: giving up her daughter at a young age. She was brok and alone in Toronto. Had to give up the baby for adoption.
When I first heard Joni's River I wondered which of Joni's breakups would cause her to write such a painful holiday song. It just didn't add up. She kept her young motherhood as the ultimate secret until 1990s, more than two decades after Blue album was released, when a roommate of Joni sold the story to a tabloid. A few radio DJs brought up this long-hidden story, and I got it. It took me a few more years to be able to re-tell the story.
Hope your grief will be lessened.
So sorry ❤
I am sending my love your way 💕 The strength of fellow humans like you always squeezes my heart bittersweetly.
Can’t imagine your pain. You were so young and we make the best decisions with the knowledge we have at that time. She is probably blossoming beautifully wherever she landed so think on that.? 🙏
Bless you Joni--I hope someone is telling you about these comments full of love! Your music has been the soundtrack of my life and "Blue" has spoken to me at every stage of my aging process just as powerfully as it did when I first heard it as a teenager and all my life was before me. That's practically the definition of great art. I could never thank you enough for all you have meant to me--teaching me songwriting structure, teaching me how to communicate a world of emotion on solo piano, teaching me how to sing clearly and effortlessly. You mean the world to me and to millions of others!!!
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Same for me. I often say Joni is my best friend and I don’t even know her.
That's for sure.
This is literally her channel so I think she does check it out herself or someone must be helping her as she's older and needs help to control her phone
Hear, hear!!!
"It's coming on Christmas
They're cutting down trees
They're putting up reindeer
And singing songs of joy and peace
Oh, I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
But it don't snow here
It stays pretty green
I'm going to make a lot of money
Then I'm going to quit this crazy scene
I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I wish I had a river so long
I would teach my feet to fly
Oh, I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I made my baby cry
He tried hard to help me
You know, he put me at ease
And he loved me so naughty
Made me weak in the knees
Oh, I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I'm so hard to handle
I'm selfish and I'm sad
Now I've gone and lost the best baby
That I ever had
Oh, I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I wish I had a river so long
I would teach my feet to fly
Oh, I wish I had a river
I could skate away on
I made my baby say goodbye
It's coming on Christmas
They're cutting down trees
They're putting up reindeer
Singing songs of joy and peace
I wish I had a river
I could skate away on"
Such a wounderful song, sharp verses and velvety vocal line...it makes me dream about my childhood
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Lost my grandma last week, I wish I had a river I could skate away on. Love you forever Gaitha Louise💜🌹💜🌹💜🌹💙🌹💙💙💙💙💙💙
Wistful, rueful, powerful. Her voice soaring on the word “fly.” A perfect expression of regret and loneliness. I love the quote at the end. Yes we do, Joni - we need a song like that. Thank you.
My favorite song every Christmas for 40 some years...and I really do wish I had a river I could skate away on...loss...losing family is the hardest damn thing..I'm 1 of 7 siblings left and I'm a young 63. I'll never forget our Christmas together when it was so simple.. fruit, nuts to Crack open, pj's, underwear, and socks...and we were happy as all get out. Merry Christmas out there
Mine too!!! Such a great song. One song fits All
Wow. I just read the rest of what you said. I'm in PA. Lost all my family too. Was in Colorado and returned here. Now, I really do wanna skate away. People are put here knowing what you go thru. Take care dear friend
Joni, you just made me cry .......again.
What a beautiful tribute to a timeless Christmas song.
Hi Joni if you ever want to come to Austin TX and check out the music let me know. We can get around pretty well without too much notice. Wonderful Winter we are having. Weather is perfect but then again I know your from Canada. But if you want to reach out to the young there are tons of them and they need your thoughts and are willing to listen. I can't introduce Clifford Antone to you but he is no longer here. But there are others. Frosty is here if you need a drummer.
I love Joni............l do not love cjtizzzzzzie songs.
@@dewhittjames so is the alomo........
I hear this song and miss my wife of 34 years, she is in care for FTD/Alzheimer's...I wish you here listening to our Christmas song for the 35th Christmas.
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I wish that Joni is living forever in love and peace. She deserves every instant of it.
timelessly deep..
If you don't feel this .
You don't feel anything
Yes, this gem has been played since 1971, hard to believe..when the Vietnam war was raging on, families torn apart all over the country, and like today so much division in our country... this lonely little classic reminds us that life is not all fancy Christmas gifts under the tree and mistletoe hanging waiting for the kiss of bliss, this song conveys real emotional turmoil of the heart, one of many gifts Joni Mitchell has giving us, a treasure from BLUE.. it really is, as Mitchell once wrote, "time to get ourselves back to the garden" the video is brilliant
When it came out I was a happy Midwestern teen who just thought it was a pretty song. About 15 years later I was in California and couldn't fly home for Christmas one year and there was no snow and Twinklets on the palm trees and friends dying from AIDS with no cure then and this song hit me like a sledgehammer to the heart.
This makes me cry every time. Not a Christmas song at all. It's about regret for driving away a true love.
Then how come I am singing this at a lights on Singing Night near Christmas eve
HMM
I can't believe how ignorant I was. I lost the best thing I ever had.
@@GAMINGDUDESWHOGAME Cause you don't get it; or you drove your love away at Christmas? "I made my baby cry..." "I made my baby say goodbye..."
best song of all time
The only Christmas song I ever liked , that's if you can call it one , it's beautiful yet melancholy which is my kinda song.
Especially as Xmas is never easy for some.
It's a nostalgic time of year you can't avoid 🤔.
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Joni Mitchell songs remain as vibrant at 65 as when I discovered them at 15 years of age! The music still moves this fledgling spirit! 😘
One of a kind. For sure. Like Tina Turner. Rest her soul.
Love her so much and her songs that actually mean something!
Just take 4 minutes and 14 seconds of your life and sit back and just listen to river and I'll bet you'll be in paradise and you won't ever want to come back joni michell is a national treasure
Her voice is like melted honey drizzled on the wings of angels.
I just watched the Helluva Boss episode Sinsmas, and Joni Mitchell’s song River reminded me so much of it. The emotions in the song and the episode brought tears to my eyes. Such a beautiful and heart-wrenching connection.
How fortunate to have lived when she put out her original records, hearing that perfect voice sing those lovely songs.
Ever since I was little Christmas has made me feel empty. Thanks Joni.
I was 26 again for 4 minutes. Now I’m 75 again…looking out the windows at an ice storm…feeling my memories.
Not only is this one of the most beautifully written and performed songs of all time, the animations and illustrations are so beautiful. Truly touched my soul. Thank you.
One of, if not the best Christmas songs
..ever....
I cannot think of too many people whose talent approaches that of Joni Mitchell.
I'm 77 (goin' on 78). This song is the story of my life.
you wish☮
My favorite Joni Mitchell song, not just for the lyrics also the music. This captures all the emotions of those of us who are still alone even in a crowd of people. Thank you Ms. Mitchell for all the music and poetry that enhance and define life.
The way the Jingle Bells theme drifts in and out really is exquisite.
@@tompohorsky353 Yes, it is subtle. A comfortable reminder of the season and theme of the song. Exquisite is positively the best discription.
Beautifully said.
Hello Marta how are you doing today dear I hope all is well with you and your family? I have been happy all day because of this song keep reminding me of my late Dad
Hello friend how are you doing
Was watching a Christmas episode of the Wonder years and this song came on as Kevin walks around his town thinking of life.
Beautiful.
The best Anti Christmas Song that puts me in the mood for Christmas.
This sounds like it could've come out in 2024
Piano music never ages
It's the one immortal form of art
I've been singing/playing Joni's songs since I was a young teen... Now, at age 71, I still listen to her and (try to) song along. My vocal range got pretty good back in the day singing her songs. Not so much now that I'm old. Her songs are ageless.
I come here every time I need to cry
I hope you’ve stopped crying… Everything is gonna be okay ❤
@@GailJackson-fy4yl i wish that were true but when you hear a great song like this your heart just melts and you remember those you lost and how christmas isnt a happy time for alot of ppl...just my thoughts in 2024
When I hear this I am back in our beautiful old communal house in Kitsilano. Jack and I are dancing close to this song, and our housemates are cooking, dancing, hanging out in sublime peace. Jack has been gone since 1985, but today, as I listen to this he is right beside me. Happy times, sad times, all mixed together in my memories, reminded by Joni. She sang our hearts out!
Have heard this at two pals funerals and shall have it at mine love it x
This is the saddest and most genius Christmas song ever!
Utterly gorgeous heartbreakingly sad from one of the greatest albums of all time.
This usually makes me cry. Buckets this year. Thank you Joni for being part of my reflection in solitude.
Ill skate along with you Joni. 😊
Im a 66 year old man. I also remember the first time i heard this song. I was living in wickford rhode island. And played this song several times in a row. I did the same with the album! Ive been listening to the Great Joni Mitchell ever since. And today is mother’s day. I sent a video of the circle game to the mothers in my life, along with my mothers day wishes. God bless you Joni Mitchell! You have filled my life with beautiful music and the many emotions and inspirations that accompanied them!!!
Hello from Rhode Island 👋🏼
She broke a million hearts. Maybe her best song. My favorite. Eternal appreciation
Really lovely, this song never loses its magic. Thank you Joni.
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Australia SEES
You pictured this iconic song in a wonderful way.
Lila, just sang thislovely song, of Joni's, on the Voice
I'm only 20 seconds into the song and the tears come. I have always loved this song. The animation is well done too
To me too, Heaps!
same here... '
The first few piano notes do it for me, as I don't even have to wait for her voice and the lyrics to start. 😢
Best song ever written.
Don't try to change my mind. It just is.
I won’t argue with that
I can see why Joni would approve this. Just like her, it is true art.
I love all her music
,......what ls true art.
I do not care...,,...,.