that feeling when you find peace in being alone (dark academia playlist)

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  • @EtheralCaelifer
    @EtheralCaelifer Рік тому +4593

    Someone wise once said there’s a difference between loneliness and being alone. I’ve always been able to bare being alone, it’s the loneliness so many of us have been forced to accept, and loneliness that so many of us are now welcoming in with the lack of anything better left.

    • @Vee_lens
      @Vee_lens Рік тому +72

      Amazingly described which I have felt since a long time but couldn't put into words. There's a difference between being lonely and being alone. Being alone is far better than being in a company of people and feeling lonely like there's no one existing.

    • @firaszerneboch3223
      @firaszerneboch3223 Рік тому +32

      Yeah, especially I really like to be alone, or alone in my world with headphones while my fiancee is still in the room. But I never feel 'alone', because he is with me, and I can turn to him, if I need to. Loneliness on the other hand is unbearable for me. I would say, being alone sometimes is a necessity, being lonely is a curse.

    • @Painajainen
      @Painajainen Рік тому +11

      Couldn't have said it any better

    • @stuartashbourne-martin9629
      @stuartashbourne-martin9629 Рік тому +6

      I couldn't agree with you more but I did wonder as you quoted it where did that quote come from I tried to find it on Google and all I could find was anonymous

    • @brbierdeman
      @brbierdeman Рік тому +14

      It is simply a common expression as most have felt this emotion at certain times in their life. A common philosopher and poet who references this sentiment relatively frequently is Jean-Paul Sartre. He does not explicitly stated it in the words given above, but in his work, "Being and Nothingness", he delves into this idea.

  • @ravendam1541
    @ravendam1541 Рік тому +2907

    Lonliness is addictive, once you realize how peaceful is it,you'll never want to deal with people again.

    • @atroposblack9492
      @atroposblack9492 Рік тому +71

      I do agree. I have never found it to be painful. I enjoy it..

    • @ancientmage2669
      @ancientmage2669 Рік тому +9

      Yes❤

    • @IdentifiantE.S
      @IdentifiantE.S Рік тому +50

      Personally, I've always loved the 2. It's the balance between being alone and being surrounded by the people I love that suits me !

    • @Satisfied_Mind_
      @Satisfied_Mind_ Рік тому +44

      I love my solitude. I am at my most peaceful when I am alone. I usually don't want company.

    • @merrygoround7557
      @merrygoround7557 Рік тому +16

      I wouldnt say thats loneliness but I see your point

  • @atroposblack9492
    @atroposblack9492 Рік тому +1895

    Is it just me or does anyone else find it easier to be alone? Like I don't feel lonely, and I do spent a lot of my time alone. I look on at it as a blessing.

    • @alicestranger2353
      @alicestranger2353 Рік тому +5

      Yeah sure, you're the only one in the world xd

    • @atroposblack9492
      @atroposblack9492 Рік тому +53

      @@alicestranger2353 a me too would have sufficed..

    • @catmoondx4902
      @catmoondx4902 Рік тому +42

      Sometimes, being alone let you organize your ideas, and to evolve even more than surrounded by people. One of the only truths I know is that in life, the only thing you own is you and your body, so knowing them better in silence and peace will make you bigger inside :).

    • @atroposblack9492
      @atroposblack9492 Рік тому +19

      @@catmoondx4902 true... I have found it to be better to stay away from others, helps me concentrate and think more. I am also able to give more time to myself and develop myself. Now that I am in the hostel, I often go days without talking to anyone else. I love it.

    • @vaishnavipal2298
      @vaishnavipal2298 Рік тому +15

      What you've observed is true people like us finally find solace in tranquil peace you accompany yourself it makes you feel better than any company you ever had because you expect from yourself only, there's no fear of being not accepted or getting hurt. You become stronger that way.
      This is my realisation.

  • @crazy_devil7
    @crazy_devil7 10 місяців тому +429

    “What a lovely surprise to discover how unlonely being alone can be”

  • @stephythenerd
    @stephythenerd Рік тому +218

    This is a really lovely comment section. Feels like a quiet
    street corner where all the lonely people of the world cross paths…

  • @lovelylace4896
    @lovelylace4896 Рік тому +657

    Sometimes you can be surrounded by people and still be alone. I have learned the beauty of solitude.

    • @Dzanarika1
      @Dzanarika1 Рік тому +25

      I love spending time by myself, especially once you learn how abusive and evil humans can be.

    • @lovelylace4896
      @lovelylace4896 Рік тому +8

      @@Dzanarika1 So very true!

    • @russia4biden221
      @russia4biden221 8 місяців тому

      With a face like yours no wonder you are alone

    • @lovelylace4896
      @lovelylace4896 8 місяців тому

      @@russia4biden221 Coming from the person with no pic. 🤣😂🤣 Actually I am never alone darling. You shouldn't project your situation onto others. Lol

    • @russia4biden221
      @russia4biden221 8 місяців тому

      @@lovelylace4896 Projection and lies get you nothing in life. You aren't deep for posting trash like this

  • @requiemlite
    @requiemlite Рік тому +362

    " Those who cant be alone, can't be honest, cant be loyal and can't be anything" ~ Miyamoto Musashi

    • @blackeneddove
      @blackeneddove Рік тому +3

      Wow. 😔💔😢

    • @jesserentas7425
      @jesserentas7425 9 місяців тому +1

      Painfully true

    • @thimalidassanayake
      @thimalidassanayake 9 місяців тому

      Will remember this

    • @thimalidassanayake
      @thimalidassanayake 9 місяців тому +3

      Loneliness is the ultimate truth

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 8 місяців тому +6

      @@thimalidassanayake There is a difference between being comfortable with being alone and not feeling a human connection. We are made to need those connections.

  • @j._smr
    @j._smr Рік тому +1529

    I feel lonelier when I am surrounded by people than when I am alone.

    • @monitaren2530
      @monitaren2530 Рік тому +58

      Yeah. It hurts the most when you see how happy they are and how you are not able to be a part of it. But there are people in the world who are just like you. You are not alone in it.

    • @billionairesinsightrow5801
      @billionairesinsightrow5801 Рік тому +8

      stay alone

    • @Davuto91
      @Davuto91 Рік тому +9

      That is because i think you don't have a clear view of what you are and what you want. Or maybe you are with people that don't make you grow and don't let you feel like always to improve yourself.
      Try to change your views or try to deal with people that you can have a give and receive action with.

    • @Vantrakter
      @Vantrakter Рік тому +9

      @@Davuto91 Should it be "What you want" in a group of colleagues or friends? Just being who you are, being able to goof around, is fairly important I've been told. And in my personal experience the more people the more group pressure becomes a thing and many people start to play roles. It's easier to be yourself and "give and receive" one on one I find. Then again many people love groups of people and quick wit and are OK with not saying what they think.

    • @Davuto91
      @Davuto91 Рік тому +3

      @@Vantrakter Totally agree.
      But be spontaneous is, unfortunately, not that simple, especially for introvert people.
      Find one or more fiends is very relevant for being quite happy, and relevant for growing, even if you don't realize it.
      In a group, to socialize you need to sacrifice something always; so the "what you want" is not always possible.

  • @algemarquien3775
    @algemarquien3775 10 місяців тому +67

    I don't lack the ability to care, I think I've just grown tired of it. Worrying, praying, working to find solutions, trying to be attentive, saying and not saying certain things to help you not feel aggravated or alone. Making up life experiences so you feel like you aren't crazy, changing how I act to make you comfortable, how I speak or think so you feel like your other half is there, not acting like myself so you won't feel lonely. It's fun being alone, no one to rely on you, no one needing you. It's peace. There is loneliness but am slowly turning it into being alone.

    • @towardsuniverse
      @towardsuniverse 9 місяців тому +1

      Woah....well I'm reaching there slowly and it's so intense

    • @algemarquien3775
      @algemarquien3775 7 місяців тому

      @@towardsuniverse fr man, goodluck

  • @emise8721
    @emise8721 Рік тому +839

    To whoever reads this,
    i love you
    i love your smile
    i love your laugh
    i love your personality
    i love your hair (or lack thereof)
    i love you even if you have insecurities
    i love your accomplishments
    i love you even if you have failures
    i love your eyes
    i love your beauty
    i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
    i love the way you dance
    i love you on your happy days
    i love you even on sad days
    i love you on the days you feel lonely
    i love you on the days you feel helpless
    i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
    i love you on the days you feel forgotten
    i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
    i love you on the days you feel loved
    i love you on the days you feel sick
    i love you on the days you feel motivated
    i love you on the days you feel depressed
    i love you on the days you feel stresses
    i love you on the days you feel crazy
    i love you on the days you feel hopeful
    i love you on the days you feel cuddly
    i love you on the days you feel clingy
    i love you on the days you feel amazing
    i love you on the days you feel beautiful
    i love you on the days you feel like a failure
    i love you on the days you feel angry
    i love you on the days you feel aggressive
    i love you on the days you feel horrible
    i love you on the days you feel safe
    i love you on the days you feel unsafe
    i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
    i love you on the days you feel weird
    i love you on the days you feel ok
    i love you when you're healthy
    i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
    i love your taste in music
    i love your taste in movies
    i love your taste in tv shows
    i love the way you act
    i love you even if you cry
    i love you when you're kind
    i love you even if you you're mean
    i love you even if you're alone
    i love you even if you can't feel
    i love you even if you feel too much
    i love you even if you can't take life anymore
    i love you even if you feel like it's too much
    i love you when you're asleep
    i love you even if you have nightmares
    i love you when you have dreams
    i love how you believe
    i love you when you believe in yourself
    i love you even if you don't believe in yourself
    i love you even if you hate yourself
    i love you when you love yourself
    i love the way you think
    i love you even if you have problems
    i love your solutions
    i love how you support
    i love you even if you're in pain
    i love you even if you're hurt
    i love your promises
    i love your secrets
    i love your attitude
    i love you sass
    i love your creativity
    i love your voice (or lack thereof)
    i love you hand gestures
    i love your stories
    i love you even if you have wounds
    i love you even if you have scars
    i love your face
    i love your past
    i love your future
    i love your present
    i love your outfits
    i love your style
    i love your art
    i love your honesty
    i love you even if you lie
    i love you even if you're tired
    i love you when you're energetic
    i love how you look
    i love how you cook
    i love you when you're adventurous
    i love you even if you're scared
    i love your imperfections
    i love your perfections
    i love you even if you worry
    i love you when you talk (or communicate)
    i love your opinions
    i love you even if you have headache
    i love you even if you have a stomach ache
    i love you when you help others
    i love you when you're mature
    i love you even if you're immature
    i love you in the hard times
    i love you in the easy times
    i love you even if life isn't bright
    i love you when you're responsible
    i love you even if you're irresponsible
    i love you even if you fight
    i love you in your darkest moments
    i love you in your brightest moments
    i love your heart
    i love you in the day
    i love you in the night
    i love you at midnight
    i love you at 3 am
    i love you at all times
    i love you at your best
    i love even if your worst
    i love the little things you do
    i love all of you
    i love you when you're you
    i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
    From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)
    (Not my idea but please spread it around, everyone deserves even just a little bit of love.);)

  • @jirian832
    @jirian832 Рік тому +303

    i was in such a big friend group. we were doing so much exhausting things, going out, causing trouble, sneaking out, that i didn’t realize how miserable i was. i was surrounded by so many people but i felt so uncomfortable, i was faking an identity in front of them, desperately clinging onto them with a fake personality so i wouldn’t be a “loner.” i broke it off with them as i didn’t want my life to be hectic and toxic. since my life was so quiet all of a sudden i felt lonely. there was nothing to distract me from that loneliness. i found myself just thinking about if i should have just kept living the way i did. the ugly duckling, “therapist” friend, and constantly used as a replacement friend. i found me being alone as an opportunity to be at peace with myself. the whole time i’ve been worrying about what others think. i finally felt comfortable and at more peace than ever being alone. no ones expectation, a time for self improvement, and a time for me to be comfortable being myself. instead of chasing over people trying to love me, i will choose to try to love and put myself first ❤ stay strong, you will find a place where you’ll feel at home.
    //4 a.m even though i have volunteering to do tomorrow 😭😭
    fyi for anyone saying how “lonely it is” i hope you all know theres a difference to loneliness and being alone. in my case i love being alone, and i love not being with other people. loneliness can happen even when your around so many people. my only advice to you all is to find peace, and not tolerate those who try and destroy your peace. dont just take it. in the end if you truly do find being “alone scary” know that we live independently. you just need to live confidently. ❤️ i hope you all achieve everything you want to achieve, and find peace ofc ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ronika7390
      @ronika7390 Рік тому +5

      thanks for sharing this, it helped... actually im in a similar position and i hope someday i can let go of others opinion about me and truly love myself.

    • @_Godislove_555
      @_Godislove_555 Рік тому +4

      Girlll I totally understand where u are coming from and truly I feel like it can be hard sometimes when you feel alll alone and feel out of place with everything Trying to fit in to not feel like a "loser"
      When in reality, you are still alone at the end of the day because you know the group you surrounded yourself with, wasn't helping you become a better version of yourself accept a bad one.

    • @champmorgan7166
      @champmorgan7166 Рік тому +2

      Sounds like you’re true introvert. We find peace in being alone. It’s not that we have to, however it’s exhausting aligning with others that know how to just be. There’s much disingenuous people in the world. When you can see through others and spot fakes, it’s easier to be alone.

    • @zidianowner5105
      @zidianowner5105 Рік тому +3

      I feel you girl. In my friends group I'm literally you 😢

    • @chasebee116
      @chasebee116 Рік тому

      Bruh you will miss that time after that are gone and you have to accept loneliness after that

  • @princessnitishasahu2252
    @princessnitishasahu2252 Рік тому +111

    *The best feeling in this world is when you realize that living alone is not always and complete sorrow, fear, trauma, dependency, sadness, darkness , incompleteness, depression, loneliness BUT completeness, boldness, confidence, independence, acceptance, selflove, light, selfcare, self appreciation, self understanding, deep, nurturing, peace, satisfaction and healing.*
    All in all it's an AMAZING FEELING ... sadly those who've never been alone in their life mostly fear its BEAUTY !

  • @yeji_29
    @yeji_29 Рік тому +420

    Listening to this playlist with the rain outside and a light cold breeze, sipping a hot cup of tea and doing my homework. There can't be more peace than that, beautiful playlist.

    • @hexen259
      @hexen259  Рік тому +15

      thank you 🥰

    • @atroposblack9492
      @atroposblack9492 Рік тому +9

      I wish that it would rain here where I am at the moment. It is raining in my hometown now and I am stuck in the sweltering heat of the Indian Deccan Plateau

    • @oakleydavis1202
      @oakleydavis1202 Рік тому +2

      ahh i wish i could do hw wish such grace as well 😭 but ahh that just painted such a beautiful picture in my mind... thank you

    • @lidiagodinez8268
      @lidiagodinez8268 Рік тому +1

      Debe de ser grandioso tener ese paisaje !! Yo me imagino más para las historias de mis novelas

    • @GuavaJvice
      @GuavaJvice 10 місяців тому +1

      Not doing homework 🙃

  • @SonamSherpa-ye3nf
    @SonamSherpa-ye3nf 9 місяців тому +56

    I feel soo peaceful being alone.. no any interference with negative energy, useless comversation, etc etc ..

  • @DarkRomance_124
    @DarkRomance_124 Рік тому +180

    I guess everyone who listens to this music is having a hard time, like me. Just don't give up we can overcome this ♡

    • @Sunidhi-rw8pi
      @Sunidhi-rw8pi Рік тому +7

      waiting for his reply! its been 19 minutes and my heart is still pounding like i just sent the text. idk if i love this feeling or hate it.

    • @ВгостяхуТаисс
      @ВгостяхуТаисс 7 місяців тому

      Благодарю.

    • @sachyarizkag7742
      @sachyarizkag7742 5 місяців тому

      I am studying in a library. I am fine actually.

  • @vancejones4804
    @vancejones4804 8 місяців тому +49

    It isn't alone.. It's peace.. No one lying to you or using you for your time... Your time is your own and it's lovely

  • @theyenvychloe
    @theyenvychloe Рік тому +57

    I love being alone, but it’s that loneliness that really gets me. Not being around people I love bothers me, but being alone comforts me.

  • @izakanako4683
    @izakanako4683 Рік тому +18

    first I was forced to quit my job because of anxiety and depression. second, I was fired for the same reason even though I tried to hide it. after those two incidents I stopped to continue getting treatment. I neglected my appointment. I stopped taking the medicine until I had withdrawal. now I work in a new place and hoping that i'm happy in the new place... but i have one problem. I feel like i'm a failure. Idk what to do. Everyday. Every hours. Every second i try to escape myself. Sometimes i feel like i better died.. until i saw this account. I listened to this to escape my sadness. Thankyou Hexen.

  • @animefanatic1996
    @animefanatic1996 Рік тому +76

    Love the random Zelda insert with the Great Fairy Fountain. Always brings me peace

    • @hexen259
      @hexen259  Рік тому +7

      thank you 🥰

    • @marcuscastro7084
      @marcuscastro7084 Рік тому +7

      I searched for that comment

    • @raszalared8270
      @raszalared8270 Рік тому +3

      It's wonderful! I am trying to find this exact Song-version, but can't 😢

    • @toastiino
      @toastiino 3 місяці тому

      @@raszalared8270 i believe i've found it! "Great Fairy's Fountain - Piano Cover" by Runar Pedersen

  • @anorapetty5819
    @anorapetty5819 Рік тому +69

    just stopped being friends with 8 people my whole friend group.... i look back at them now in class and nothings changed, its like i was never there... its so wierd not saying there name... but im happy i did i get work done so much easier now, ive found peace in being alone

    • @IdentifiantE.S
      @IdentifiantE.S Рік тому +5

      I understand you completely. Good luck, my friend, you'll find a better place elsewhere !

  • @abiidelrey
    @abiidelrey Рік тому +126

    Some people can feel obsolete when lonely,
    some people can find calmness when alone.

  • @ChuM00N
    @ChuM00N Рік тому +73

    To being alone and feeling the loneliness.
    When I am alone, I love my time.
    The peace and quiet is so beautifully soft.
    When I am lonely, I miss your touch.
    Your voice, your light and simply your sight.
    To be alone is my choice,
    To be lonely is my heart.
    To being alone and to be lonely.
    Forever and always...
    Signed sincerely the Heart and the Brain.

  • @CORNELIUSCORNELIUSQUEEFUSWINKL
    @CORNELIUSCORNELIUSQUEEFUSWINKL Рік тому +43

    dark academia playlists will always be my favorite no matter what

  • @madelineisnothome1898
    @madelineisnothome1898 9 місяців тому +12

    Realized I was singing ‘Give me Jesus’ along with the instrumental! Haha God is so good!

  • @jensni1320
    @jensni1320 9 місяців тому +16

    At the end, we will all remain alone, wich is why one should learn to enjoy ones own company

  • @lovekiyo2352
    @lovekiyo2352 Рік тому +24

    Alone is my friend, alone protects me

    • @cmayotte9431
      @cmayotte9431 9 місяців тому +2

      And eventually, as with all good things... we must learn to let it go

    • @lovekiyo2352
      @lovekiyo2352 9 місяців тому

      @@cmayotte9431 ❤‍🩹

  • @coenycob
    @coenycob Рік тому +33

    We love being alone because it gives it time to appreciate ourselves and just be without anyone else's expectations of us. It's also the fact we have wonderful people to surround us again. that refreshing feeling when you've had a break from some then value them even more once reunited. That's the beauty of being alone.❤

  • @LC-ft6vu
    @LC-ft6vu Рік тому +22

    When you find peace in being alone you become the king of your own jungle. There is no one to wait for, no company to beg for, if you want to do something, you do it without waiting on someone else. Thank you for this playlist, it is wonderful!

  • @theetruetolkienpatriot7701
    @theetruetolkienpatriot7701 Рік тому +36

    Sometimes loneliness can help but sometimes we need people when we think we don't but we do

  • @macylouwho1187
    @macylouwho1187 Рік тому +20

    I have a husband and family that I love and cherish but I truly need a bit of alone time too once in awhile. I find it peaceful and restorative. I’m able to collect my thoughts and have a moment of “me” time doing whatever I want. Music like this helps the calm vibe of these moments, thank you.

  • @HexenBruh
    @HexenBruh Рік тому +27

    You may or may not believe me, but as soon as 20:35 started, I felt chills and instantly my eyes filled with tears, I didn't expect to receive a hit of nostalgia in a random youtube playlist, less when I'm doing my homework.

  • @EleanorHimelhoch
    @EleanorHimelhoch Рік тому +24

    I always feel much more peaceful alone. I feel like I have two people inside of me. One always keeps the other company and im never lonely with them.

  • @urbangoose001
    @urbangoose001 Рік тому +8

    When alone, I find the most buried parts of myself.
    Another me that is in need to talk to.
    Another me, that is happy, sad, or wanting.
    I found myselves in lonely places.
    Like a wound that never closed, yet healed.
    Finding solace, travesty, and melancholy in myself.
    But never forgetting one important thing.
    To love myself, and all that I am.

  • @yarhacijin9463
    @yarhacijin9463 9 місяців тому +6

    Hey friend, we never met before but I hope that you will live a peaceful and content life!

  • @endrablade636
    @endrablade636 Рік тому +33

    sometimes I forget how much I like being with myself. this beautiful playlist is just perfect for reminding me.

  • @echoedmemories20398
    @echoedmemories20398 9 місяців тому +12

    *Dark academia tracks possess an otherworldly charm, beckoning listeners to explore the enigmatic realms of mystery, romance, and intellectual curiosity*

  • @MoisesCornejoxo
    @MoisesCornejoxo 5 місяців тому +2

    Rewind a year ago, I never would have imagined I would be doing things alone. If i wanted to go to a metal concert I needed someone to go with, until I decided to break the barrier and started doing things alone; eating out alone, events, hiking etc. I do not feel lonely because I am blessed to have a family that loves me, but solitude gives me a peace that I would not want taken from me.

  • @Vee_lens
    @Vee_lens Рік тому +21

    This playlist gently reminds that it is an adventure in itself being alone.

  • @Moonight14
    @Moonight14 9 місяців тому +12

    I remember I played my dog, sleep, take outside, pictures together. Everything goes well 🥲. But the next day she got very sick she can’t move she can’t blank her eyes like she’s freeze and she shaking. I was worried about her 😢 I love her so much 🥺🤎 I feel alone .

    • @letiziamarano3414
      @letiziamarano3414 5 місяців тому

      stay strong brother🙏if you can let us know if your beloved dog is healed🙏loving an animal is like loving your own child ❣️

    • @letiziamarano3414
      @letiziamarano3414 5 місяців тому

      stay strong brother🙏if you can let us know if your beloved dog is healed🙏loving an animal is like loving your own child ❣️

  • @WeirdRósBán
    @WeirdRósBán Рік тому +10

    I hate night, but i also love it, its when i get the most time to be myself, draw, sing, crochet… but something about when those things are over and im left unable to sleep, lying in my bed in the dark listening to whatever playlist i can get my hands on, makes me feel otherworldly in a way, like i dont belong here, or that i should be somewhere else, i wanna do more with my life, make a name for myself, become someone known! But im almost 14 with a complete lack of social skills and bare minimum education cuz my parents are crappy, my love life feels like its falling apart and the only real highlight to my days are when im bored and i get a text from my best friend, in all honesty, he could turn me from a depressed greif-ful mess, to a happy go lucky confident person in an instant, anyways- thanks for reading all this, i really needed a quick vent-

    • @wod2136
      @wod2136 Рік тому

      You are still young , theres gonna be chances along the way

  • @LeeAnnie3551
    @LeeAnnie3551 Рік тому +40

    This playlist is literaly everything that I was needed today, thanks...

  • @welkidea118
    @welkidea118 Рік тому +8

    The fairy fountain theme hit juuuuuuuust right. Omg, I've never vibed so hard in my life

  • @Serenity77_7
    @Serenity77_7 8 місяців тому +7

    I'm glad this came up on to my recommendation's. I truly do enjoy being alone. After many years I've adapted to it. Being alone makes me feel calm and makes me feel at peace & at peace with myself. I could go on and on about it but I I'll just stop and say I really enjoy being alone & This playlist is great 🤍

  • @yoursleep_paralise
    @yoursleep_paralise 2 місяці тому +2

    Раньше я боялась одиночества. А потом поняла, что это не так уж страшно.
    А ещё я нашла гармонию с собой и очень полюбила себя(это самое лучшее чувство).
    С собой наедине как-то спокойно и тепло. Может, мне не хватает внимания, от того всё это.. Зато знаю, что я сама себе могу быть поддержкой и ответы на некоторые вопросы могу найти в себе же. Мне очень это помогает теперь.
    Всем желаю удачи, вы со всем справитесь, я в вас верю. ^^

  • @Pantherking916
    @Pantherking916 9 місяців тому +4

    What IS loneliness though? I have never felt more at ease than when I have been alone. I have never felt more ill at ease & nauseatingly UNcomfortable than when I have been in a crowd or around people in general. I can honestly say I have never understood this concept of loneliness. In fact, I have now reached the point where I actively go out of my way to avoid contact with people like the plague. I engage with people literally when I absolutely categorically have to & even then, I do my level best to keep the interaction as short as possible. I have gone for a walk on a Friday and Saturday night and seen people "out on the town", dressed to the nines, going to clubs etc & the whole idea is completely alien to me. I honestly see no attraction in it & have even less interest. And it's not as if I have no experience. I have been to clubs, I have got blind drunk to the point of waking up in a park wondering what day it is & how I got there. I have also done the whole dating thing that led to a 7 year marriage borne of meeting someone "on a night out" & still I reach the same inevitable conclusion. Solitude & peace in being alone. I would rather spend a night in a cemetery than in a bar. It's quieter, cheaper & just......easier. There's no one to tell me what I can & can't do, say, think or wear even or where & when I can or can't go. There's no one pushing for a fight because they've had too much to drink or they think I've spoken to "their" woman the wrong way. There's no one picking an argument. There's just nature, the rain, the night & me. The perfect evening, in my opinion, which I have had the indescribable pleasure of enjoying numerous times, is a rich, slow, majestic sunset, a fire I have made from surrounding twigs, branches & logs, my loyal, unconditionally loving K9 for company & the evening melody of birds singing to the background theme of the fire crackling.

  • @Marie-ox2gw
    @Marie-ox2gw Рік тому +37

    You know that feeling of betrayal, when you trusted someone with your life and then you're left heartbroken. Everything makes sense now . These moments where you didn't realised why they acted that way . Like something klicked. It feels awfull . Then you feel like you can't trust anyone anymore because in the end it will End and even leave you hurt . Like why ? Is it realy worth it?

    • @Dzanarika1
      @Dzanarika1 Рік тому +7

      It is not worth, at least, not in my opinion. I will always be my best friend and will always love myself the most.

    • @lovelylace4896
      @lovelylace4896 Рік тому +3

      ​@@Dzanarika1 No one can love you like you.

    • @lovekiyo2352
      @lovekiyo2352 Рік тому +2

      It's worth if you find someone with the same sense of loyalty as you. It's hard. I stopped searching for a long time too. But now I wanna try again, even if it is so hard, even if I "can't trust" anymore I wanna fake it until I make it. There just has to be someone out there able to be loyal, eager to have a friend who can trust with anything. I know I will get hurt again, and every time seems like the very first. I don't care, well, I do, but I don't wanna let that put me down. So what if we get hurt? That is life. That is how you can know you are alive. Because you feel. And the feeling of being alive, the blood on your veins, even the pain inside or the deep sorrow, it's just wonderful.

    • @lovelylace4896
      @lovelylace4896 Рік тому +2

      @@lovekiyo2352 I refuse to give a person that amount of power over me. I make and create happiness. I can have a ball all by myself. I believe our hurts make us stronger and better. I don't give my whole self to anyone. I have zero expectations for people because most will always do the selfish thing. I guess it is human nature. I just take the attitude that nothing surprises me anymore and people are capable of anything. I'm sorry someone hurt you, but realize people change like the weather. I like all types of music, it has zero to do with heartbreak.

    • @rowanlaverne
      @rowanlaverne Рік тому +2

      I have found, having some measure of peace later in life, that is is worth it. Not for others, but for you. It is better to trust and be hurt then to turn everyone away. Closing yourself off, is good for a time, but connection is important. Do not become bitter, remember the enthusiasm of being a child and live that every day. Don't let the pain win. Keep going. Your worth it and others need to see your light. It gives others permission to do the same.

  • @XenoAbzu
    @XenoAbzu Рік тому +14

    yknow, it's things like this, that really give a sense of bittersweet tranquillity to the self. As someone that's mostly been raised to fend for themselves due to family circumstance's, I find being alone, natural and rather pleasant. sure I have friends to laugh and joke with, but there are times where I think the me who is on my own, compared to the me who's with others a little upsetting and unnerving to be completely honest. in a sense, I feel as though I am a complete mystery to myself, and to others.
    It scares me wondering what I could have been, I have no idea what I'll be in the future, and frankly, It's almost impossible to picture what I am now. I feel like a ghost sometimes, just floating along, never to be seen or heard, almost invisible. But in a way, I'm okay with that, because it allows me to be true to myself without (at least outwardly) worrying about what people think of me. But, I don't think that will last long I'm afraid, with the mistakes I've made before, and my inability to reconcile with it, I feel it is best that I don't exist sometimes, that I just disappear for a bit. but for now, I will never know, Because anything can change.

  • @Brianrelix
    @Brianrelix Рік тому +68

    To the beautiful soul reading this, no matter what has happened in your life, you are unique and greatly loved by the Lord personally, you have a place in this life. Do not be afraid, no situation is permanent, you gonna be alright

    • @j_jadaka
      @j_jadaka Рік тому

      Brian ...your comment is like a light of hope ...thanks❤... may God bless you

    • @victor_734
      @victor_734 Рік тому

      But… God doesn’t exist

    • @j_jadaka
      @j_jadaka Рік тому

      @@victor_734 who cares, just..."Be the God of your life"

    • @pinkroses135
      @pinkroses135 9 місяців тому

      Lovely message ❤

  • @bloodemperor
    @bloodemperor 10 місяців тому +3

    What a moment to share with someone you truly love

  • @cybernavy270dior
    @cybernavy270dior 10 місяців тому +7

    Loneliness is peaceful ! It tells the tales of reality in this world ; full of expectations...

  • @Shanubotheju471
    @Shanubotheju471 7 місяців тому +3

    Being alone just makes me feel my real self ,better than I was around toxic friends.

  • @Elif.-7
    @Elif.-7 Рік тому +5

    The rain sound just heals my soul. The music is amazing

  • @jessicafitch9137
    @jessicafitch9137 Рік тому +7

    The night time, the still darkness around 2am - 3am , depression and loneliness are my best friend's

  • @1Thedairy
    @1Thedairy Рік тому +6

    Being a twin and having been married for a long time I’ve never had that experience of being totally alone but as long as I have my garden and my art I think I’ll be ok when he time comes.

  • @RetroJazzLoFi
    @RetroJazzLoFi 8 місяців тому +2

    In a world full of noise, the lofi community stands out as a beacon of calm and positivity. Let's keep it that way, fam.

  • @sethabel4315
    @sethabel4315 Рік тому +4

    I pray all who hear these sounds be blessed on this day

    • @hexen259
      @hexen259  Рік тому

      thank you for watching🥰

  • @Willow-oc9pw
    @Willow-oc9pw Рік тому +9

    The Light House
    I watch enveloped in envy as the winds continued their expedition through the overgrown coffee hair of the man I had chosen to spend the rest of my life with secluded away.
    It was already past the usual time for his haircut but I’d been pushing it back for my own contentment.
    He’d let the birds use his hair as a miniscule playground. Speaking of birds, I think they liked him more when he had longer hair. I make this mental note as I watch Rio hop and land onto his head, a free estate of theirs. He knew he’d have to detangle his hair some time later but for now he enjoyed the additional attention, moving as little as he can.
    I was itching to approach the fence and just join the birds at playing with his sun dyed coffee hair. But- “coo”; Bobo had just gotten cozy in my lap and it would be a crime to have to move him. So I let Bobo continue to use my muffler as a blanket and he continued to nibble at my finger. He was trying to eat any leftover rice crisp treat leftover from earlier from my fingertips. His rose tinted beak nipped gently against my thinning aged skin.
    Bobo’s nibbles had interrupted my knitting. I was working at making Archie another scarf for the nearing winter but from the looks of it this one was going to Bobo too; just like the other three. The white color of the scarf looked cozy on the milk tea Bobo it was tucked around and into. Bobo had a particular habit or if I may say; courtesy: to kiss my hand before taking food from it. A bird who could stabilize any racing heart.
    Archie on the other hand was resting his chin on his arm against the century old iron railing, petting the grey-white feathers of Lulu, while the other thirteen pigeons shared rice krispy treats among themselves. From the back he still looked like the man I’d come here with; not a day older than sixty-five. I wanted to shout to him about being careful and not leaning too much, but I knew it would disturb Bobo who had just shut his orange eyes. Bobo’s velutinous little chest heaved up and down gently with both his wings tucked in. I pulled the scarf so it covered a little more of his little cashmere head.
    I had to fight off the urge to turn Bobo over so he’d lie on his back and I could give him belly rubs. If a bird bares their stomach to you, rest assured they trusts you with their life.
    Instead, I tucked Bobo further into the scarf and shifted so I could rock him from the sun.
    A sound of wings against the winds and Archie, my husband turns around eagerly about to tell me something. As the sun fell on his face, you could tell apart the places where time had kissed him on his face. The eyes and smile lines of a golden retriever, with an everlasting grin; the one of a happy man. Streaks of grey hair visible in the sun, falling over the only part of the face that still held its youth; his dark almond eyes. He had Woonal on his right arm and had frozen still at the moment when his eyes caught Bobo napping on me.
    He willed himself to relax first, before approaching me slowly and taking off a note from our chestnut pigeon’s feet; a letter had arrived from the other side of the sea. He handed it to me wordlessly, still a fool’s smile playing at his lips.
    I took it with trembling hands….it’d been exact fifteen years since the day I had run away with someone’s father.
    Twitter & Instagram= @julyswillow

  • @nillac.d5444
    @nillac.d5444 10 місяців тому +4

    The numbness that humans feel deprives us of the wonderfulness of solitude.

  • @kb3146
    @kb3146 Рік тому +23

    When I heard the winter sonata ost, I got chills. Ahhh. This is a good playlist :D

  • @bellahnemetona5924
    @bellahnemetona5924 Рік тому +6

    Being alone is peaceful, refreshing, coming back to our souls. Feeling loneliness involuntary can be life threatening thing.

  • @Lucy-db7mx
    @Lucy-db7mx Рік тому +5

    When your alone, you know that you have people still waiting for u. But when your lonely, you only have yourself waiting.

  • @justinhammon4750
    @justinhammon4750 10 місяців тому +6

    "My solitude does not depend on the absence or presence of other people; on the contrary, I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering me true company"
    - Fredrich Nietzsche
    "If you feel lonely when you are alone, then you are in bad company"
    - Albert Camus

  • @Cliodhna3ltlbrdsheal
    @Cliodhna3ltlbrdsheal 10 місяців тому +7

    You can be surrounded by people and be miserable in the silence between. There is nothing lonely in the stillness of knowing oneself

  • @burge2695
    @burge2695 Рік тому +5

    I'm the most happy being alone tbh..i like quiet and drinking coffee and reading and maybe having a video like this playing softly in the background ❤

  • @fredbowers493
    @fredbowers493 Рік тому +4

    Don’t worry about people who say going through life with someone is the best way. They’ve just forgotten how amazing it is to be alone.

  • @LucilleKing-nj5op
    @LucilleKing-nj5op Рік тому +3

    Has anyone taken a moment to look through these comments, or any video like this and take a second to realize.
    Those are real people.
    You could know them.
    There are so many people who feel the same way you do.
    And mostly, you know those times you feel like “I’m that one outcast friend on the outside of the friend group, everyone is so fake. Etc etc”?
    Well I think there is a very high likely hood that all those people you think “fit in” or are “so fake” feel the exact same way you do.
    You’re not alone.
    (I mean that in the way to say you aren’t alone in this word and how you feel, which is ironic since this playlist is basically about solitude which if you are like me and love it, good for you. But I think you get my point)

  • @spirostratoudakis9851
    @spirostratoudakis9851 Рік тому +5

    Being alone no one can hurt

  • @nikunjn.k4606
    @nikunjn.k4606 9 місяців тому +2

    Being loved, getting respect are some blessings, having peace and Being happy without any reason is an achievement, one should never feel lonely, Being alone doesn't mean that you missing out many things , it's just that you having something different,
    To be honest the people who say they lonely, they just need a little attention and little time of their favorite person or they just finding happiness by them self, so far my thoughts are like if I try to be happy or try to find happiness than I'll never get it , for now I just do things that I really like, not by someone's influence or to be cool or something, just having fun as much as I can in this little life ♡

  • @kaayya.k
    @kaayya.k 10 місяців тому +6

    Sending hugs to all the aros and aces, including everyone on the spectrums. I see you, I love you. You're not alone.
    thinking about how much i love my friends
    thinking about all the things i love
    thinking about how many people i love
    thinking about how much i love
    Sending hugs to everyone reading this, regardless of your identity, regardless of who you are. Being able to be alone and at peace with yourself is far more important than it's made seen.
    I promise you the right people will come. If they did come for me, they will come to you; and I used to be _very_ lonely. Just don't ever close your eyes. You need an open heart.

  • @kau_shigure
    @kau_shigure 11 місяців тому +4

    寝る時のお供に、良い感じに聴き進めていたら、急な冬ソナにチュンさんの記憶が蘇って余計眠れなくなった夜

  • @rohitbarman7642
    @rohitbarman7642 5 місяців тому +3

    "Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you " ~Rumi

  • @dayinirusli6411
    @dayinirusli6411 3 місяці тому +1

    Listening to dark academia cause the melody talk to me and understand me.
    Loving myself cause nobody truly love me.
    Distance myself cause nobody cares when i am hurted.
    Keep moving forward cause the past just pain.

  • @WhiteApeMA
    @WhiteApeMA 11 місяців тому +4

    Better to be alone than to wish you were alone. Fact of the matter is, simplicity is happiness. And going solo is simple.

  • @lady3219
    @lady3219 3 місяці тому +2

    Sometimes it is really peaceful some other times it is lonely…

  • @leahumine8421
    @leahumine8421 Рік тому +17

    I need playlist like this actually, just, thank you

  • @lotusthewaterlily4306
    @lotusthewaterlily4306 Рік тому +5

    Me literally all the time even before Covid. I shut myself in my room all the time cause I have over sensitive hearing and everything hurts my ears. And when I go to the woods nobody goes with me so it’s just me and nature.

  • @MindfulWaves-1
    @MindfulWaves-1 2 місяці тому

    Life is really tough right now, but listening to this music reminds me to breathe and stay hopeful.

  • @tiffles3890
    @tiffles3890 Рік тому +6

    An excellent selection of music. It's (mostly) slow, mellow in character, soothing, with a contemplative feel. Good as an accompaniment to academic work.
    Finding something decent in this genre of content after a long time. Lots of channels publish themed music compilation videos (with wonky, at times hilarious titles) but rarely do they get the feel right.

  • @XGDragon
    @XGDragon 4 місяці тому +2

    Loneliness is when you want to share something, but there is noone to share. Finding peace is when you can share something, but there is nothing to share.

  • @Sweet_servant
    @Sweet_servant 3 місяці тому

    Peace and quiet is lovely. The hustle and bustle of life can be daunting for those of us who enjoy being in solitude.

  • @Osamudazai07
    @Osamudazai07 Рік тому +12

    What a nice playlist, thank you, it feels heavenly, having the privilege of studying alone in such a nice music...so calming really!

  • @draconefox
    @draconefox Рік тому +7

    Audio Jungle always makes me smile!

  • @nightcoreyuno
    @nightcoreyuno Рік тому +2

    This playlist is my comfort zone and a place for my imagination/fantasies to thrive. Such a playlist, not a single music I don't find absolutely beautiful

  • @benhaddounihad7678
    @benhaddounihad7678 Рік тому +1

    table for two is such a masterpiece

  • @jordanashby8918
    @jordanashby8918 Рік тому +4

    thank you for putting chapters and titles on this 🖤 wonderful playlist 🖤

  • @finelineselectric5074
    @finelineselectric5074 Рік тому +3

    this music is so beautiful! it gives me such a happy feeling that I can't explain! I'm currently drawing right now and this music help create the perfect atmosphere! I can definitely understand the peace in being alone. It leaves you with just your thoughts. sometimes it can be hard to think about things when your with a lot of people.
    I hope whoever is reading this has a wonderful day! ☺💖

  • @mzhavisham6738
    @mzhavisham6738 Рік тому +6

    Beautiful music beautiful image thank you! with a glass of wine you've transported me to another friendlier peaceful happy place.

  • @alphaqueenlife
    @alphaqueenlife Рік тому +13

    I absolutely love your music.... Thanks for this.... It just brings me so much peace 😌

  • @Jenn4One
    @Jenn4One 8 місяців тому +1

    Being an only child, meeting people who would become my friends have never been a problem. I don’t have a problem being a lone. But when I think that my future may be alone, it makes me feel lonely.

  • @ValerieHowell-ly6of
    @ValerieHowell-ly6of 11 місяців тому +2

    I prefer the peace and tranquility of solitude. This music is the perfect soundtrack to an evening by the fire, candles lit, and a good book.

  • @Vespyr_
    @Vespyr_ 9 місяців тому +2

    The only thing that makes the pain somewhat bearable is knowing life will go on without me. Wishing I could go back and can't. Knowing that the only way forward is when I'm through.

  • @lock_mind2411
    @lock_mind2411 7 місяців тому +1

    This music makes me calm down and concentrate on my homework while having depression and anxiety. Thank you.❤️

  • @sanaulhaque6005
    @sanaulhaque6005 8 місяців тому +1

    Now Being alone is just a bliss
    And Everything seems like a Mirage

  • @jellymcnelly3611
    @jellymcnelly3611 Рік тому +2

    i love the addition of the great fairy fountain soundtrack. not only is it nostalgic, but it fits the vibe so well.

  • @johnelliott0101
    @johnelliott0101 Рік тому +5

    What a fantastic image. Looking at this almost made me late for work AGAIN!

    • @Christonia-5
      @Christonia-5 Рік тому

      yes ....reminds me to a place for funeral ..in cologne ...Melathen Friedhof ...or Paris ..etc

  • @lucadalton4893
    @lucadalton4893 17 днів тому +1

    thank you for the playlist, really helped to find peace in being alone... props to the creator

    • @hexen259
      @hexen259  16 днів тому

      Thank you for liking my work. Wish you a happy music listening session.

  • @sribish1263
    @sribish1263 Рік тому +1

    from the beginning until now by ryu has my heart!!!!! idc that it has been over a decade of me first listening to this melody... I'll never NOT recognize it and fall in love with it like the very first time

  • @norman0826
    @norman0826 5 місяців тому +2

    迷い込んでこの場所へ行ってみたい独りで孤独に…

  • @Vendirenn
    @Vendirenn 3 місяці тому +2

    Daydreams.
    And the question was always,
    Were you only a daydream?
    To think about our story, smiling through the thought.
    But to wake up out of our love trance, to realize,
    None of it was real.
    And to ask myself,
    Were you a dream I tried to reach?
    Or a dream I simply just wished for?
    Were you the one for me,
    or were you a distraction?
    And the answer was always,
    one day.
    One day, you'll run to me, with your arms wide open.
    Only for me to run back, and realize, it wasn't for me.
    And it hurts to see those flowers in your hands.
    And its not frustrating.. its depressing.
    To see that you were jumping around,
    With someone else's flowers.
    And I still thought they were from me.
    So who am I waiting for?
    Just wake me up from another trance,
    And make me realize, this poem is also a daydream.
    -- Vendiren

  • @catlover614
    @catlover614 Рік тому +9

    A beautiful music collection, and the picture is so lovely. Thank you.🤗💗