I wouldn't wish a Venus retrograde in birth chart on anyone. I appreciate your optimism with this, but this shit sucks. None of my relationships have worked... for my entire life. As soon as I like someone, and then BOOM, they're gone. Then people are constantly looking at you trying to figure out why relationships never work in your life, and you don't even have the answers. Uugggghhhh. Omggggg who understands? All this suffering causes depression. So what I do? Be lonely forever?
mscourt no you are so right. It really sucks. And it's true that everyone around you thinks youre stupid when it comes to relationships. It's the worst part. They think it's you, but i keep getting the same relationships with different faces and names. Im trying to find the fix and self love has been the only thing to pull me out of that depressive state. I've gone through such dark places with this placement. When you said depression, I felt that. Thanks for sharing. I know what you mean.
It feels as if my love is poison, when someone has feelings for me everything is ok but as soon as I become invested all goes to hell. My venus is in aquarius rx in the 4th house and I seem to attract a lot of obsessive and dangerous people.
Omg that's the same exact thing with me. Every time I allow myself to fall in love it seems like the other person is completely put off by me. Boys will always come after me, with very strong feelings and passion, but leave disinterested almost in an instant. It's a self esteem killer. It's crazy. That's why I never really date. My venus in retrograde is real and powerful. I'm only 23, so I still have hope that this affliction can be pacified. I'm sure finding love in one's self instead of in another will help (easier said than done though).
Scorpio Venus Rx In The 12th House Here.. Our Relationships Are About Deep Transformation. If A Man Does Not Want To Understand His Own Psychology.. Then Let hIm Go. "To Thine Own Self Be True" Thank You For Your Honesty..
I'm a Scorpio with my Venus in Scorpio..and I feel your pain. Literally. Even one that I liked it was always unrequited. I fell in love with a man. He is a Taurus. I still see in 10 years later but he still won't commit to me. I was told he is my karmic partner from my past life. I have a hard time letting go as well. It's no easy. I wish you well and hope we can get through this and finally meet someone that loves us unconditionally as much as we should love ourselves.
Oh my, I'm of the 8%. You just made everything about this transit in my life, makes sense now. Thank you. Every man has cheated and my son was ripped away from me 2x and my grandchildren don't chose to be close to me either. Pretty lonely, but it is what it is and I understand why now. Thank you.
Ive got venus and mercury both in Rx in the sign of gemini in my 1st house. I have the same issue with relationships. Im a cancer sun libra moon. So my moon and sun really yearns for love and romance. It gets lonely and depressing having this placement because you start to think you're undeserving of true love when thats all you ever wanted. Great video and im hoping all of us venus Rx make it thru and find our love from within. 💗
Thanks for the encouragement. Honestly I have a .lot of optimism for us. We just gotta sort out the kinks and karmic lessons and this curse will be our greatest gift. Thanks for sharing.
I have Venus retrograde in Gemini, along with 4 other retrograde planets. I also have experienced these themes in relationships, along with ongoing themes of restlessness and boredom (damn Gemini) 😩 So I definitely feel you girl, and I love your take on it. We are all in this together 🙏🏻
Yesss thank you. I've noticed the world is just full of dualities yin- yang, positive-negative, etc So I believe every problem has a solution. So I don't worry about retrograde planets in the natal chart. The retrograde planets are just bigger challenges meant to evolve us upward more powerfully than direct planet placements. The bigger the challenge means the bigger, the reward and evolution. Thank you for watching! and good luck!
I don't think we were "meant" to suffer. As the saying goes, pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice. We suffer mainly due to unmet expecatiions. But yes, we should, at very least, expect to be met with honesty. I don't think we attract "bad people", but those like you are a beacon of light. And much as flowers turn toward the sun for nourishment, so too do the weeds. People feel bad about themselves and want to chnage. They want to be "good people", so they are attracted to and cling to those they feel can elevate them. Though too often they can't sustain flight, and fall. They desire to be with you because you are happiness and joy personified. Such is the plight of the light-bearers, sorry to say. But the flowers are out there. Always continue to love wide open. (www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/57672/to-have-without-holding)
I found more information from here: cafeastrology.com/natal/bornwithvenusretrograde.html "Venus Retrograde in Scorpio With Venus in Scorpio and retrograde, there can be an intense need for privacy in the love life. Deep fears of rejection can be present, and relationships are taken very seriously. People with this position often reject traditional gender roles and relationships. There can be some resistance and hesitancy about entering a new relationship, but once established, retrograde Venus in Scorpio natives can stick around for a long time, even if the relationship is challenged or toxic."
I'm also a scorpio with my venus retrograde in my 11th house though I've had friends that have left me and very trying times with them which taught me to rely on myself and not always have people to bail me out which has happened all of my life and I'm 48 yrs old
Scorpio in Venus Rx in the First House. Similar themes, getting into toxic relationships. Self love is the definitely the goal for Venus Rx. I’m currently in a relationship I need to let go of and I’m in the process of doing so, but astrology has helped me sooo much. After this, I’m running from any one who wants a relationship with me without a friendship first.
Thank you! This video is what I needed to hear. Astrology has really made me think about who I am, what I’ve done, and how it’s making me realize what I need to do. This video has really moved me. If I’m being honest, I’ve watched so many astrology videos and I watched it to learn about my chart but this video really hit me. It made me really think. I’m a Venus Rx in Capricorn in the 5th house. I’m curious as how this all plays out.
what will you say about the astrology of twins who have same time ,place and date of birth, but still have different lives and different choices...i have seen in front of my eyes...i want to know about your opinion on this?
Good question, Minutes could change everything but my thought is also Karma. They are both two distinct individual with the same characteristics & outline but the way they choose to act out their placements is both a combination of will power and karma. Everyone collects this karmic residue from their past life that is only attached to them, so that may explain why twins can be different with the same charts. Also, Each and every sign has a can be acted on a spectrum of low to high vibrations. So you can choose to act out your sign under the influence of whatever spectrum you choose. I may make a video on this. Thank you for the thoughtful question!
Lets be honest. Everyone has suffered in relationships at some point in their lives. Being a direct venus even myself. Also keep in mind that just because someone has a direct venus, it does not guarantee a happy relationship. All the other planetary placements need to be take into account. Same goes to the retros. Advice: Every planetary placement has its pro and cons. So, do we as human beings no one is ever born perfect. So stay strong!
Everyone has their issues. I’m not here to invalidate the pain that a Venus direct may experience. Many Venus Direct people have shared their pain. However, there are unique themes and characteristics that are only particular to those born under the influence of a Venus Retrograde. People born with this placement suffer immensely. My purpose with sharing my experience is to let them know that they’re not alone and that this malefic influence can be healed. This video was made to offer camaraderie and compassion to a group of individuals that aren’t really seen, heard or helped. If you were born with this influence, then you’d understand the particular themes and obstacles are only limited to this group.
I wouldn't wish a Venus retrograde in birth chart on anyone. I appreciate your optimism with this, but this shit sucks. None of my relationships have worked... for my entire life. As soon as I like someone, and then BOOM, they're gone. Then people are constantly looking at you trying to figure out why relationships never work in your life, and you don't even have the answers. Uugggghhhh. Omggggg who understands? All this suffering causes depression. So what I do? Be lonely forever?
mscourt no you are so right. It really sucks. And it's true that everyone around you thinks youre stupid when it comes to relationships. It's the worst part. They think it's you, but i keep getting the same relationships with different faces and names. Im trying to find the fix and self love has been the only thing to pull me out of that depressive state.
I've gone through such dark places with this placement. When you said depression, I felt that. Thanks for sharing. I know what you mean.
Elizabeth Sum Thank you for getting it. It makes me feel less crazy. 🤗😚 Hang im there sis.
It feels as if my love is poison, when someone has feelings for me everything is ok but as soon as I become invested all goes to hell. My venus is in aquarius rx in the 4th house and I seem to attract a lot of obsessive and dangerous people.
581e I completely understand and sympathize. I hope there is light for us one day.
Omg that's the same exact thing with me. Every time I allow myself to fall in love it seems like the other person is completely put off by me. Boys will always come after me, with very strong feelings and passion, but leave disinterested almost in an instant. It's a self esteem killer. It's crazy. That's why I never really date. My venus in retrograde is real and powerful. I'm only 23, so I still have hope that this affliction can be pacified. I'm sure finding love in one's self instead of in another will help (easier said than done though).
Scorpio Venus Rx In The 12th House Here..
Our Relationships Are About Deep Transformation.
If A Man Does Not Want To Understand His Own Psychology.. Then Let hIm Go.
"To Thine Own Self Be True"
Thank You For Your Honesty..
I'm a Scorpio with my Venus in Scorpio..and I feel your pain. Literally. Even one that I liked it was always unrequited. I fell in love with a man. He is a Taurus. I still see in 10 years later but he still won't commit to me. I was told he is my karmic partner from my past life. I have a hard time letting go as well. It's no easy. I wish you well and hope we can get through this and finally meet someone that loves us unconditionally as much as we should love ourselves.
Oh my, I'm of the 8%. You just made everything about this transit in my life, makes sense now. Thank you. Every man has cheated and my son was ripped away from me 2x and my grandchildren don't chose to be close to me either. Pretty lonely, but it is what it is and I understand why now. Thank you.
Ive got venus and mercury both in Rx in the sign of gemini in my 1st house. I have the same issue with relationships. Im a cancer sun libra moon. So my moon and sun really yearns for love and romance. It gets lonely and depressing having this placement because you start to think you're undeserving of true love when thats all you ever wanted. Great video and im hoping all of us venus Rx make it thru and find our love from within. 💗
Thanks for the encouragement. Honestly I have a .lot of optimism for us. We just gotta sort out the kinks and karmic lessons and this curse will be our greatest gift. Thanks for sharing.
Watching this whole series because, wow. Thank you ✨
I’m glad this is resonating with you. It’s an honor to help 🙏😊❤️
I have Venus retrograde in Gemini, along with 4 other retrograde planets. I also have experienced these themes in relationships, along with ongoing themes of restlessness and boredom (damn Gemini) 😩 So I definitely feel you girl, and I love your take on it. We are all in this together 🙏🏻
Yesss thank you. I've noticed the world is just full of dualities yin- yang, positive-negative, etc So I believe every problem has a solution. So I don't worry about retrograde planets in the natal chart. The retrograde planets are just bigger challenges meant to evolve us upward more powerfully than direct planet placements. The bigger the challenge means the bigger, the reward and evolution. Thank you for watching! and good luck!
I don't think we were "meant" to suffer. As the saying goes, pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice. We suffer mainly due to unmet expecatiions. But yes, we should, at very least, expect to be met with honesty. I don't think we attract "bad people", but those like you are a beacon of light. And much as flowers turn toward the sun for nourishment, so too do the weeds. People feel bad about themselves and want to chnage. They want to be "good people", so they are attracted to and cling to those they feel can elevate them. Though too often they can't sustain flight, and fall. They desire to be with you because you are happiness and joy personified. Such is the plight of the light-bearers, sorry to say. But the flowers are out there. Always continue to love wide open. (www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/57672/to-have-without-holding)
I found more information from here: cafeastrology.com/natal/bornwithvenusretrograde.html
"Venus Retrograde in Scorpio
With Venus in Scorpio and retrograde, there can be an intense need for privacy in the love life. Deep fears of rejection can be present, and relationships are taken very seriously. People with this position often reject traditional gender roles and relationships. There can be some resistance and hesitancy about entering a new relationship, but once established, retrograde Venus in Scorpio natives can stick around for a long time, even if the relationship is challenged or toxic."
I'm also a scorpio with my venus retrograde in my 11th house though I've had friends that have left me and very trying times with them which taught me to rely on myself and not always have people to bail me out which has happened all of my life and I'm 48 yrs old
Scorpio in Venus Rx in the First House. Similar themes, getting into toxic relationships. Self love is the definitely the goal for Venus Rx. I’m currently in a relationship I need to let go of and I’m in the process of doing so, but astrology has helped me sooo much. After this, I’m running from any one who wants a relationship with me without a friendship first.
Thank you! This video is what I needed to hear. Astrology has really made me think about who I am, what I’ve done, and how it’s making me realize what I need to do. This video has really moved me. If I’m being honest, I’ve watched so many astrology videos and I watched it to learn about my chart but this video really hit me. It made me really think. I’m a Venus Rx in Capricorn in the 5th house. I’m curious as how this all plays out.
I feel the same and i dont have venus retrograde
Thank you for this video
You're welcome I'm glad you enjoyed it
You are what you think beautiful
You look great by the Way
Lol to serial cheater
Venus is definitely the worst planet to have Retrograde bc Venus encompasses so much of our lives. Its your love and money
what will you say about the astrology of twins who have same time ,place and date of birth, but still have different lives and different choices...i have seen in front of my eyes...i want to know about your opinion on this?
Good question, Minutes could change everything but my thought is also Karma. They are both two distinct individual with the same characteristics & outline but the way they choose to act out their placements is both a combination of will power and karma. Everyone collects this karmic residue from their past life that is only attached to them, so that may explain why twins can be different with the same charts. Also, Each and every sign has a can be acted on a spectrum of low to high vibrations. So you can choose to act out your sign under the influence of whatever spectrum you choose. I may make a video on this. Thank you for the thoughtful question!
Same happnd with me .every time girl cheatd ... i have venus retrogred
Lets be honest. Everyone has suffered in relationships at some point in their lives. Being a direct venus even myself.
Also keep in mind that just because someone has a direct venus, it does not guarantee a happy relationship. All the other planetary placements need to be take into account. Same goes to the retros.
Advice: Every planetary placement has its pro and cons. So, do we as human beings no one is ever born perfect.
So stay strong!
Everyone has their issues. I’m not here to invalidate the pain that a Venus direct may experience. Many Venus Direct people have shared their pain. However, there are unique themes and characteristics that are only particular to those born under the influence of a Venus Retrograde. People born with this placement suffer immensely. My purpose with sharing my experience is to let them know that they’re not alone and that this malefic influence can be healed. This video was made to offer camaraderie and compassion to a group of individuals that aren’t really seen, heard or helped. If you were born with this influence, then you’d understand the particular themes and obstacles are only limited to this group.
i love you
Same🥴