The video triggered me. And with good reason. have this and I am on a twin flame journey, kundalini and spiritual awakening. I guess I had to see this as I needed the trigger to start understanding the dynamic of the twin flame journey, which is absolutely unusual. But having this, it makes sense. It is true. It is an inner journey and it starts with me. But the dynamic of my twin flame journey, even if it looks unusual, it is most times the best mirror. Actually it is the best mirror.. And trust me, past lives are as real as this one. Meaning still a projection but we did experience it just like this one, living in the present as time doesn't really exist.
I’m going through it. I found something on IG regarding retrograde Venus and went to UA-cam and found you. I just got separated from my husband of 13 years. All of this makes so much sense. I was so insecure. I never truly valued myself or loved myself fully, pushed him away when he tried so hard to show me all the things I wanted but I ignored. I’m not saying the ending was my fault it was mutual. I’m just seeing everything for what it is NOW, it sucks but I am thankful to be on this road to self healing/ discovery. Thank you for making this.
I found this video because Jay from a discord channel asked everyone " : What was the Venus Retrograde sign right before you were born? " I never looked this up so I was searching around on line and then to better understand what this actually means and stumbles on this video that pretty much describes myself and also makes me wish that I had this information long ago. I know that this is an older video I have a lot of Scorpio in me and I will be honest the astrology thing confuses me, but I do my best to understand . My Sun, rising, merc, venus neptune qnd apparently Venus was retrograde are all Scorpio when I was born. I am actually afraid to fall in love with anyone because I get so deep it is a little scary for me and probably for them when I am all in . I have been hurt a few times, learned my lessons, I tend to stay away and be very patient , been single for decades. For myself now days' woman at least most of them tend to seem lost, and I can tell\ sense that many who at first they look great seem good, but then I look deeper into them (I know sounds creepy, and it isn't intended to be this way) and see through the mask that I may be too much and have to hold back so I end up just being acquaintances and or just avoid them entirely, but yes the beginning of this vid speaks of love I am all in its just being afraid to take the risk and then all the time involved could be wasted, basically now I am more spiritual and practice many belief system’s, honestly I think it is to distract me from facing being single . I think that I learned to connect wit hall the surrounding energies the nature things and some human energies which many times are all over the place , since i have been doing this I have found things like Owls showing up around me landing on building close to me and had one actually land on my balcony just to let me know I am not alone also had a hawk do the same this usually happens when I am a little lost in my head . I have taken many pictures of this, but I think people think I am just crazy and that is ok it seems crazy to me for those connection happening over the last 8 yrs , I think the owl is a messenger for the between worlds of dream death and this plane , very Scorpio Now I reread what I wrote and sound petty creepy lol when hurt I used to do the blame game and when things happens would rather destroy everyone including myself nuke it all then to not do anything, now days much older I just take it take that pain internalize it then understand why , use it to make good things in my life it took me a very long time to learn how to do this of course many times that pain never gets used in any way so I just take the blows rather have it inside then out where it could hurt others, I would go into the whole peoples lives and paths things and learning but I wont bore other people as it is this few paragraphs I started have now turned into a book with many spelling ,grammar run on sentences
🥰 Gurl, I almost clicked out of this video in the first 10 seconds when you said you feel sorry for Venus Retrograde in Scorpio- until you said _you_ also have it in your chart. That's when I realized that you're speaking from personal experience and not as a third party. I listened to the whole video and I realized how MUCH GROWTH there has been in the past 5, 10, 15 years of my life because everything you said about abandonment, tolerating bad partners, abuse, etc., all of that applies to me! I took time off from dating just to be alone and heal from previous wounds. Another person in the comments said this video has been the most proficient Venus in Scorpio Retrograde video, and I must hand it to that person because that comment is right! 🥰
I’m so glad you didn’t click off lol 😂. I’m honored to have this video resonate with you. This truly is a labor of love and compassion for all of my fellow lost Venus rx’s. Your comment is so beautiful and touching. Again I’m honored to help make this experience feel less lonely🙏❤️
That is such a beautiful explanation, about how we need to find the Venus within ourselves because Venus in retrograde is positioned behind the sun relative to us, and the sun represents our core identity. Also about how Scorpio Venus is like Hades capturing Persephone. I find it interesting because Persephone represents flowers and spring, and Taurus is the fixed sign and is always in the season of spring. It represents how we crave that Venusian Taurus energy for ourselves. But capturing Persephone only steals beauty from the world (others).
I have Venus rx in Scorpio in the 8th. Wow literally as I've started to love myself, the people around me treat me sooo much better. It shocks me because of how drastically the everything has changed. I get so much more compliments now. I feel fuller too. I will definitely embrace more Taurus qualities too. Investing in ourselves is a major thing
i went for so long with no self worth and extreme insecurity it didn’t matter what anybody ever said i could never find that validation i needed until i started loving myself fully and truly and i love life now putting my self first and giving myself that love i need so i never have to seek it from anybody else. ur video was so beautiful i love everything u said and ur aura is so beautiful and calming
Dylan thank you so much for your input. I’m honored to have been of service to you. I’m glad to see you healing and growing. This placement is difficult but not impossible. You’re so strong, many blessings and much power 🙏❤️
Thank you for taking the time to do this, I’ve struggled so much with love in my life and always felt misunderstood, this video made me feel like i wasnt alone, and even when im alone, I’ll always have myself ❤️
I’m glad I can help. I totally understand what you’re going through, and can optimistically say that things can get better, and you can achieve the love that you have idealized all this time. I am incredibly happy that you have already understood the importance of having yourself first and foremost. You are well on your way towards getting there❤️🙏😊
Venus Retrograde in my Scorpio 12th house. I feel this is the placement that makes me crave love and find it so difficult to let go of those I love … even in death
1 of the few people who really understands my rxvis pain, you're amazing and a blessing, mine conjuncts pluto, my dc and mercury, I wish it would stop...
Can't relate really in this inferiority way somehow I always loved myself even though I had my low days and Im in a bad mood often I still never hated anything about my personality or appearance, I mean ofc we all have some things that we d love to work on but in general no. But I do feel like it really doubles this Scorpio vibe where you have to protect yourself even more and asking all the time if it's the right person and if you really want to go and give this love but scared to not get it back with same level and same devotion, you know people that first say yeah I'm into you then have a change of heart and that's where it fucking retrogrades for me because instead of actually stop thinking over this too much and actually try to start relationships and may be meet a worthy partner you procrastinate about whether you really need to get involved in all of this love life because if not successful or if the wrong person there would be a lot of frustration, stress and anxiety that you opened your valnurable self to somebody else and now you need to pull yourself out of this and its not easy. you thinking so long that people just assume you don't like them at all and lose hope and move on (as they should). So idk In my case it's just a regular Venus in Scorpio that is double paranoid (once bitten twice shy). A lot of people see you as a love interest from the start and being a cautious being in nature as much as you like somebody you want to stay away for the time being to know more what type of person it is and how reliable. Because even if I can sense the other person energy and perceive it as kind, sensitive, passionate and sincere I still don't trust this feeling because some people indeed feel these things but not for long, or maybe there are some dark sides to them they hide well. So instead of going all in I just start distancing myself and they think I hate them but I just need time to reflect on what's going on inside me and do it in a healthy way so you would not hurt somebody else as they just like you and don't mean bad stuff most of the time. So you can come back and take it lightly and not so close to heart more cool I d say. But it does take time, for me it can take months really to try and give it a healthy try or pass or just have more time together but in a way where you would asses everything again and it is not easy as you have hard feelings and have to fight them a lot to be in control of your environment and not to make a wrong move you regret. So so hard. And if people are disrespectful or disregard or take for granted that's a good buy no compromise there I would not even keep such relationship alive that's so wrong towards yourself and towards other person (they should learn their lesson)
I agree.. This is exactly what I am feeling... I just can't trust anyone... And yes the real struggle is they change and they stop being consistent and then when I leave.. I don't tolerate games and disrespect as well... But it's just frustrated that everyone I ever fall in love with detaches easily. And I had no choice but leaving them and protect my heart and vulnerability
@@samraesamrae2355 that's the best thing not to waste precious time of your life on people that don't feel the same as you. and never go back to these fools) sooner or later there will be person who will appreciate the genuine person that you are ;) dummies just can't do that and really it's best decision to leave because in times of trouble you can't rely on such individuals as well as giving them your support and resources whether emotional or material would be a waste. I just remind myself I had to appreciate myself too and enjoy my own company and be grateful to be the person that I am.
It's good to see you. I must admit I've been both in the giving and receiving ends of the toxicity in my relationships the way you describe here. I've found that I've had to own the toxicity I've generated in order to make peace with my ex and thus bring love and respect to myself once again. These 2020 retrogrades are definitely doing a number on us. Stay safe.
Thank you for the video and advices! I will try to act like Venus in Taurus to heal myself! I had toxic relationships and abuse too, it’s so good that you shared your experience and that other people shared their stories in the comments, now I feel that I’m not alone fighting with that!
Awww I’m honored to help. It’s interesting because Scorpios are often represented as the phoenix and they say the tears of a phoenix are incredibly powerful and healing, so I’m proud you’re in touch with your power and emotional intellect. 🙏❤️ very cool. You’re well on your way to greater love and power😊
Wow this is incredible insight, thank you so much for sharing your experience. I laughed a little when you said that it feels indulgent to tap into Taurean qualities. I understand that intensely, because I feel incredibly superficial and shallow as well. I agree, that every retrograde Venus should study astrology. Astrology is the only tool that can pacify our situation. I’ve seen tremendous healing in my clients and also my self through exploring astrology. That is why I’m so adamant and sharing this understanding and technique to people of retrogrades planets. I’m glad to see that you are proactive in changing your fate and taking charge of your destiny in life. You will get everything that you were looking for. Everything you want is already in you, you just need to chip away at the things that distract you from realizing your true perfection. Good luck and thank you so much for commenting and watching.
Wow, thank you so much!! Really feeling you. Im a scorpio with my venus in scorpio Retrograde. And relationships is the one thing that are just very challenging for me. Everything you say is just one big reminder of my true dessire. I always use to say that i need to be in a relationship with my Self, in order to be in a relationship with one other. So far in my relationships i have to choose between being single or having a relationship with the other. Because my way of saying things dont work in 'reality' or isnt a normal way of doing it. Im not someone that is in 'free or open relationships' either. Im loyal as fuck. But i just need to be free to explore all the realms in my self. If im not aloud to do so... for whatever reason. (most of it is; its you, or us) It creates so much drama and attachments and a loss of self. It makes sense now tho. Thank you xx
I’m glad to have been of service to you. I can definitely relate to you so much because of our similar placements. I’ve healed so much and so I’m glad to have shared that with you. When life gets tough we just get stronger 🙏💪
Welcome back, Liz. I always miss your positivity and compassion. Had no doubt you'd still be kicking ass in your emotional and intellectual development and growth, but it's still deeply reassuring to witness further evidence. R Sum by name...
Thank you for always supporting. I've gown and evolved so much more since my camming days. I have so much to tell you all but still feel that I'm in the midst of it all. I do want to come into contact with everyone again and do videos that speak to my viewers that came from CB. I haven't forgot about anyone. I just have been through some painful experiences and am trying to navigate through life while actively collecting wisdom and insight. It's fucking wild, trying grow from your experiences as opposed to being destroyed by it. I will speak to you soon.🙏❤️
@@elizabethsum8133 Please don't worry about explaining or defending anything. No matter where we came from, on our journey to discover you, we are all here for the same reason. What you are blessed enough to possess in your heart and soul is a genuinely unique gift that we all benefit from exposure to. That's the true value you offer us, IMO. Forget about the other stuff and other places. Your journey is harrowing and heartbreaking, but how you respond, continuing to rise and grow is truly extrafuckingordinary. I can't fathom possessing that much strength, but I forever try to learn from every glimpse you offer in the hope of being better tomorrow. Again, please don't worry about forgetting or owing anything to anyone, you owe us nothing. It's us that owe you for everything you've given, and continue to give. Utterly magfuckingnificent, as always.
Firstly you're so beautiful and so is everyone in the comments. I have a libra ascendant so venus rules my natal chart. My venus is also conjunct my north node aka Rahu and it is retrograde. You definitely hit the nail on the head when you said to love yourself. This has been the biggest solution for me too. If I want to go on a date I take myself on a date. If I want to experience something I will put myself in the position to experience it. Also I listen to a podcast titled the depression detox show on Spotify or Apple music and it helps me. I watch yoga with Adriene's UA-cam videos to do yoga and that helps. I also watch growingannas (spelling may be wrong) UA-cam videos to work out and that helps. Themoments youtube videos for lymphatic drainage face massages and that helps. I tell myself I am beautiful. I tell myself I am worthy of anything I want to accomplish. I forgive myself. I love myself for my imperfections and flaws. I tell myself I love myself. I also tell myself everything is well when im scared. I trust in God/ the Creator/ Light/ Love. I love myself through and through and no longer care if people think lesser of me, because I know I am enough. I do my best to keep promises to myself and others. I also have a tremendous amount of blessings come to me by being a good person. I found the perfect relationship for me by being patient, honest and open minded. I also go to counseling/ therapy which is wonderful because we can get a second opinion on how we are treating ourselves and our relationships. I will also look into venus in Taurus traits so I may implement them. I feel like I'm naturally inclined to incorporate venus in Taurus traits because my venus is conjunct my north node with a zero degree orb so it's part of my life path to learn about venus. Ultimately you said it right when you said to love yourself and to be love to others. The universe will guide you in the right path when you're doing those two things. May you all find your life partner and recognize them and may you find financial success and may you share how you developed your self worth and value with others once you find it. We are in this together, we are love and I love you.
This is so true. I always thought something was wrong with me, with the destiny and fate just stopping me from finding love. I have desperately cried and suffered because of it. I have seen thousand of tarot readings and i have imagined that perfect love all my life and ask when is it coming....🥲🥲 Only now with me crumpling and struggling with love did i understand that i had no self respect. I was lazy with myself in the way i feel and how i take care of my material possesings. I started loving myself like truly 😍😍🥰 last month doing things i love like drawing and dancing, i feel good im literally walking on clouds. And i just happen to find out this placement in my chart now and come across your video. SUDDENLY, everything falls into place. 🤩🤩 THANK YOU so much, this meant the world for me.
Taurus ascendant and a whole party in scorpio 7th house 😂 Venus Rx, jupiter, sun, north node and pluto..alot of what you have said did resonate with me!. marriage terrifies me because here only traditional arranged marriages no dating, so ive been refusing so many times.. i do want deep spiritual love i just can't connect with anybody..🤷🏼♀️ I did experience extreme emotions and learnt lessons but major thing that i struggle with is attachment 😅. i do hope to heal from many stuff before loving again :)
This is such an amazing video with insight. I had a read that in many past lives I've given love unconditionally and it was not returned. This lifetime is all about me loving me. I recently ended for the second time a relationship destined to teach me to love me first. It was rough and in the midst of it I thought this is not right what's going on how could he treat me this way. In actuality my over giving kicked in and once again I felt unloved unappreciated, etc. Now that I've had space away from him I'm realizing all the consequences that not loving yourself results in. Thank you thank you thank you
I would definitely read your book😊🙏❤️. Your experiences can definitely add some value to our understanding of living with a Venus retrograde. Thank you for watching !!!
Oh wow. Well I hope this provides some insight on how they may be feeling and enhance your relationship over all😊. I wish you and your partner the very best!
I have venus retrograde scorpio in the 7th house and its apart of a grind trine that includes my pisces moon and saturn. I'm not sure how beneficial it is since its retrograde but my moon trine venus has an orb of 0. Thank you so much for making this video btw, love to hear this information from a different perspective, much appreciated.
Wow.. thank you for posting this! I really needed to see this, I have *very* type 2 aspects.. I've been working on it 😔 I really felt your vibes, hugs 🤗❤
Thank you so much for your vunerability! I see myself in all you say... Yes self-love what I understood as well what I recently understood so let´s see what the universe will bring me with increased self-love
Thank you so much for your kindness. I am currently working on a Venus retrograde in the houses video, so I’ll make sure to be very detailed and helpful when it comes to the 10 th house. 🙏😊❤️
Yes both men and women struggle with a Venus Rx. Men struggle internally with their own femininity and their relationship to women, the feminine energy, and their own emotions. A Venus Rx in a man's chart can point towards toxic masculinity or strong feelings of being unlovable . He will be a very imbalanced individual until he recognizes the importance of honoring the feminine half of his character and embodying the feminine presence he's lacked or been deprived of.
@@elizabethsum8133 Thank you. How can a woman help this man to embrace emotions? They are so closed up, insecure, run away, push people away, especially people who show them love and care for them
@@AnnaDiomenaI'm pretty balanced and my personal issue is self worth, the most that stands out to me is when my partner is understanding and when my defense is met with patience and love it makes a huge difference. showing unconditional love will help your guy, i think it's amazing you wish to help him in this way, we inadvertently push away.
This placement isn’t a blessing at all. I’ve noted that when I love me and practice self love, love is returned to me naturally. I’m not sure being in a romantic relationship is for me and I’ve made peace with that. Thank you for this video it was so informative and helped me to understand myself more by the end I was more hopeful. Thank you ☺️ ♥️
I totally understand. You’re welcome and I’m glad that I can be of assistance to you and your journey. This placement is difficult, but I believe you’re strong enough to overcome.
The video triggered me. And with good reason. have this and I am on a twin flame journey, kundalini and spiritual awakening. I guess I had to see this as I needed the trigger to start understanding the dynamic of the twin flame journey, which is absolutely unusual. But having this, it makes sense. It is true. It is an inner journey and it starts with me. But the dynamic of my twin flame journey, even if it looks unusual, it is most times the best mirror. Actually it is the best mirror..
And trust me, past lives are as real as this one. Meaning still a projection but we did experience it just like this one, living in the present as time doesn't really exist.
I’m going through it. I found something on IG regarding retrograde Venus and went to UA-cam and found you. I just got separated from my husband of 13 years. All of this makes so much sense. I was so insecure. I never truly valued myself or loved myself fully, pushed him away when he tried so hard to show me all the things I wanted but I ignored. I’m not saying the ending was my fault it was mutual. I’m just seeing everything for what it is NOW, it sucks but I am thankful to be on this road to self healing/ discovery. Thank you for making this.
I found this video because Jay from a discord channel asked everyone " : What was the Venus Retrograde sign right before you were born? " I never looked this up so I was searching around on line and then to better understand what this actually means and stumbles on this video that pretty much describes myself and also makes me wish that I had this information long ago.
I know that this is an older video I have a lot of Scorpio in me and I will be honest the astrology thing confuses me, but I do my best to understand . My Sun, rising, merc, venus neptune qnd apparently Venus was retrograde are all Scorpio when I was born.
I am actually afraid to fall in love with anyone because I get so deep it is a little scary for me and probably for them when I am all in . I have been hurt a few times, learned my lessons, I tend to stay away and be very patient , been single for decades. For myself now days' woman at least most of them tend to seem lost, and I can tell\ sense that many who at first they look great seem good, but then I look deeper into them (I know sounds creepy, and it isn't intended to be this way) and see through the mask that I may be too much and have to hold back so I end up just being acquaintances and or just avoid them entirely, but yes the beginning of this vid speaks of love I am all in its just being afraid to take the risk and then all the time involved could be wasted, basically now I am more spiritual and practice many belief system’s, honestly I think it is to distract me from facing being single .
I think that I learned to connect wit hall the surrounding energies the nature things and some human energies which many times are all over the place , since i have been doing this I have found things like Owls showing up around me landing on building close to me and had one actually land on my balcony just to let me know I am not alone also had a hawk do the same this usually happens when I am a little lost in my head . I have taken many pictures of this, but I think people think I am just crazy and that is ok it seems crazy to me for those connection happening over the last 8 yrs , I think the owl is a messenger for the between worlds of dream death and this plane , very Scorpio
Now I reread what I wrote and sound petty creepy lol
when hurt I used to do the blame game and when things happens would rather destroy everyone including myself nuke it all then to not do anything, now days much older I just take it take that pain internalize it then understand why , use it to make good things in my life it took me a very long time to learn how to do this of course many times that pain never gets used in any way so I just take the blows rather have it inside then out where it could hurt others, I would go into the whole peoples lives and paths things and learning but I wont bore other people as it is this few paragraphs I started have now turned into a book with many spelling ,grammar run on sentences
same
🥰 Gurl, I almost clicked out of this video in the first 10 seconds when you said you feel sorry for Venus Retrograde in Scorpio- until you said _you_ also have it in your chart. That's when I realized that you're speaking from personal experience and not as a third party. I listened to the whole video and I realized how MUCH GROWTH there has been in the past 5, 10, 15 years of my life because everything you said about abandonment, tolerating bad partners, abuse, etc., all of that applies to me! I took time off from dating just to be alone and heal from previous wounds. Another person in the comments said this video has been the most proficient Venus in Scorpio Retrograde video, and I must hand it to that person because that comment is right! 🥰
I’m so glad you didn’t click off lol 😂. I’m honored to have this video resonate with you. This truly is a labor of love and compassion for all of my fellow lost Venus rx’s. Your comment is so beautiful and touching. Again I’m honored to help make this experience feel less lonely🙏❤️
Best natal Venus in Retrograde video so far. I love that you told how to best open this energy. Apply Venus in Taurus qualities.
How to apply those?
That is such a beautiful explanation, about how we need to find the Venus within ourselves because Venus in retrograde is positioned behind the sun relative to us, and the sun represents our core identity. Also about how Scorpio Venus is like Hades capturing Persephone. I find it interesting because Persephone represents flowers and spring, and Taurus is the fixed sign and is always in the season of spring. It represents how we crave that Venusian Taurus energy for ourselves. But capturing Persephone only steals beauty from the world (others).
I have Venus rx in Scorpio in the 8th. Wow literally as I've started to love myself, the people around me treat me sooo much better. It shocks me because of how drastically the everything has changed. I get so much more compliments now. I feel fuller too. I will definitely embrace more Taurus qualities too. Investing in ourselves is a major thing
Wow I’m honored. You possess a potent power and it’s amazing to see someone, like yourself, live in their power and truth. You’re inspiring 🙏❤️😊
i went for so long with no self worth and extreme insecurity it didn’t matter what anybody ever said i could never find that validation i needed until i started loving myself fully and truly and i love life now putting my self first and giving myself that love i need so i never have to seek it from anybody else. ur video was so beautiful i love everything u said and ur aura is so beautiful and calming
Dylan thank you so much for your input. I’m honored to have been of service to you. I’m glad to see you healing and growing. This placement is difficult but not impossible. You’re so strong, many blessings and much power 🙏❤️
Thank you for taking the time to do this, I’ve struggled so much with love in my life and always felt misunderstood, this video made me feel like i wasnt alone, and even when im alone, I’ll always have myself ❤️
I’m glad I can help. I totally understand what you’re going through, and can optimistically say that things can get better, and you can achieve the love that you have idealized all this time. I am incredibly happy that you have already understood the importance of having yourself first and foremost. You are well on your way towards getting there❤️🙏😊
Thank you for this , it's such a lonely and misunderstood placement :)
7:16 here is where the tears of truth fall 😢
I feel for you. The tears of a phoenix are healing. I'm sending you so much love!
Venus Retrograde in my Scorpio 12th house. I feel this is the placement that makes me crave love and find it so difficult to let go of those I love
… even in death
I have the same
Ma'am u are so beautiful i like you🥰may be i will watching your channel for millions of times and repadetly like retrograde 😁
1 of the few people who really understands my rxvis pain, you're amazing and a blessing, mine conjuncts pluto, my dc and mercury, I wish it would stop...
Can't relate really in this inferiority way somehow I always loved myself even though I had my low days and Im in a bad mood often I still never hated anything about my personality or appearance, I mean ofc we all have some things that we d love to work on but in general no. But I do feel like it really doubles this Scorpio vibe where you have to protect yourself even more and asking all the time if it's the right person and if you really want to go and give this love but scared to not get it back with same level and same devotion, you know people that first say yeah I'm into you then have a change of heart and that's where it fucking retrogrades for me because instead of actually stop thinking over this too much and actually try to start relationships and may be meet a worthy partner you procrastinate about whether you really need to get involved in all of this love life because if not successful or if the wrong person there would be a lot of frustration, stress and anxiety that you opened your valnurable self to somebody else and now you need to pull yourself out of this and its not easy. you thinking so long that people just assume you don't like them at all and lose hope and move on (as they should). So idk In my case it's just a regular Venus in Scorpio that is double paranoid (once bitten twice shy). A lot of people see you as a love interest from the start and being a cautious being in nature as much as you like somebody you want to stay away for the time being to know more what type of person it is and how reliable. Because even if I can sense the other person energy and perceive it as kind, sensitive, passionate and sincere I still don't trust this feeling because some people indeed feel these things but not for long, or maybe there are some dark sides to them they hide well. So instead of going all in I just start distancing myself and they think I hate them but I just need time to reflect on what's going on inside me and do it in a healthy way so you would not hurt somebody else as they just like you and don't mean bad stuff most of the time. So you can come back and take it lightly and not so close to heart more cool I d say. But it does take time, for me it can take months really to try and give it a healthy try or pass or just have more time together but in a way where you would asses everything again and it is not easy as you have hard feelings and have to fight them a lot to be in control of your environment and not to make a wrong move you regret. So so hard. And if people are disrespectful or disregard or take for granted that's a good buy no compromise there I would not even keep such relationship alive that's so wrong towards yourself and towards other person (they should learn their lesson)
I agree.. This is exactly what I am feeling... I just can't trust anyone... And yes the real struggle is they change and they stop being consistent and then when I leave.. I don't tolerate games and disrespect as well... But it's just frustrated that everyone I ever fall in love with detaches easily. And I had no choice but leaving them and protect my heart and vulnerability
@@samraesamrae2355 that's the best thing not to waste precious time of your life on people that don't feel the same as you. and never go back to these fools) sooner or later there will be person who will appreciate the genuine person that you are ;) dummies just can't do that and really it's best decision to leave because in times of trouble you can't rely on such individuals as well as giving them your support and resources whether emotional or material would be a waste. I just remind myself I had to appreciate myself too and enjoy my own company and be grateful to be the person that I am.
This video is beautiful.
Scorpio stellium here❤️
It's good to see you. I must admit I've been both in the giving and receiving ends of the toxicity in my relationships the way you describe here. I've found that I've had to own the toxicity I've generated in order to make peace with my ex and thus bring love and respect to myself once again. These 2020 retrogrades are definitely doing a number on us. Stay safe.
Thank you for the video and advices! I will try to act like Venus in Taurus to heal myself! I had toxic relationships and abuse too, it’s so good that you shared your experience and that other people shared their stories in the comments, now I feel that I’m not alone fighting with that!
This was amazing thank you , accurate and I cried , thank you that pain is real and we can get over it and though this experience together
Awww I’m honored to help. It’s interesting because Scorpios are often represented as the phoenix and they say the tears of a phoenix are incredibly powerful and healing, so I’m proud you’re in touch with your power and emotional intellect. 🙏❤️ very cool. You’re well on your way to greater love and power😊
hi Elizabeth~ I am have a natal venus (R) I found your video very informative. Thank You Thank you
Venus retrograde Scorpio in 11th house conjunct Sun, Jupiter and Mercury, opposite Saturn in Taurus 5th house. Saturn/Venus opposition has
Wow this is incredible insight, thank you so much for sharing your experience. I laughed a little when you said that it feels indulgent to tap into Taurean qualities. I understand that intensely, because I feel incredibly superficial and shallow as well.
I agree, that every retrograde Venus should study astrology. Astrology is the only tool that can pacify our situation. I’ve seen tremendous healing in my clients and also my self through exploring astrology. That is why I’m so adamant and sharing this understanding and technique to people of retrogrades planets.
I’m glad to see that you are proactive in changing your fate and taking charge of your destiny in life. You will get everything that you were looking for. Everything you want is already in you, you just need to chip away at the things that distract you from realizing your true perfection. Good luck and thank you so much for commenting and watching.
Wow, thank you so much!! Really feeling you. Im a scorpio with my venus in scorpio Retrograde. And relationships is the one thing that are just very challenging for me.
Everything you say is just one big reminder of my true dessire. I always use to say that i need to be in a relationship with my Self, in order to be in a relationship with one other. So far in my relationships i have to choose between being single or having a relationship with the other. Because my way of saying things dont work in 'reality' or isnt a normal way of doing it.
Im not someone that is in 'free or open relationships' either. Im loyal as fuck. But i just need to be free to explore all the realms in my self. If im not aloud to do so... for whatever reason. (most of it is; its you, or us) It creates so much drama and attachments and a loss of self.
It makes sense now tho. Thank you xx
I’m glad to have been of service to you. I can definitely relate to you so much because of our similar placements. I’ve healed so much and so I’m glad to have shared that with you. When life gets tough we just get stronger 🙏💪
Welcome back, Liz. I always miss your positivity and compassion. Had no doubt you'd still be kicking ass in your emotional and intellectual development and growth, but it's still deeply reassuring to witness further evidence. R Sum by name...
Thank you for always supporting. I've gown and evolved so much more since my camming days. I have so much to tell you all but still feel that I'm in the midst of it all. I do want to come into contact with everyone again and do videos that speak to my viewers that came from CB. I haven't forgot about anyone. I just have been through some painful experiences and am trying to navigate through life while actively collecting wisdom and insight. It's fucking wild, trying grow from your experiences as opposed to being destroyed by it. I will speak to you soon.🙏❤️
@@elizabethsum8133 Please don't worry about explaining or defending anything. No matter where we came from, on our journey to discover you, we are all here for the same reason. What you are blessed enough to possess in your heart and soul is a genuinely unique gift that we all benefit from exposure to. That's the true value you offer us, IMO. Forget about the other stuff and other places. Your journey is harrowing and heartbreaking, but how you respond, continuing to rise and grow is truly extrafuckingordinary. I can't fathom possessing that much strength, but I forever try to learn from every glimpse you offer in the hope of being better tomorrow. Again, please don't worry about forgetting or owing anything to anyone, you owe us nothing. It's us that owe you for everything you've given, and continue to give. Utterly magfuckingnificent, as always.
Firstly you're so beautiful and so is everyone in the comments. I have a libra ascendant so venus rules my natal chart. My venus is also conjunct my north node aka Rahu and it is retrograde. You definitely hit the nail on the head when you said to love yourself. This has been the biggest solution for me too. If I want to go on a date I take myself on a date. If I want to experience something I will put myself in the position to experience it. Also I listen to a podcast titled the depression detox show on Spotify or Apple music and it helps me. I watch yoga with Adriene's UA-cam videos to do yoga and that helps. I also watch growingannas (spelling may be wrong) UA-cam videos to work out and that helps. Themoments youtube videos for lymphatic drainage face massages and that helps. I tell myself I am beautiful. I tell myself I am worthy of anything I want to accomplish. I forgive myself. I love myself for my imperfections and flaws. I tell myself I love myself. I also tell myself everything is well when im scared. I trust in God/ the
Creator/ Light/ Love. I love myself through and through and no longer care if people think lesser of me, because I know I am enough. I do my best to keep promises to myself and others. I also have a tremendous amount of blessings come to me by being a good person. I found the perfect relationship for me by being patient, honest and open minded. I also go to counseling/ therapy which is wonderful because we can get a second opinion on how we are treating ourselves and our relationships. I will also look into venus in Taurus traits so I may implement them. I feel like I'm naturally inclined to incorporate venus in Taurus traits because my venus is conjunct my north node with a zero degree orb so it's part of my life path to learn about venus. Ultimately you said it right when you said to love yourself and to be love to others. The universe will guide you in the right path when you're doing those two things. May you all find your life partner and recognize them and may you find financial success and may you share how you developed your self worth and value with others once you find it. We are in this together, we are love and I love you.
This is so true. I always thought something was wrong with me, with the destiny and fate just stopping me from finding love. I have desperately cried and suffered because of it. I have seen thousand of tarot readings and i have imagined that perfect love all my life and ask when is it coming....🥲🥲 Only now with me crumpling and struggling with love did i understand that i had no self respect. I was lazy with myself in the way i feel and how i take care of my material possesings. I started loving myself like truly 😍😍🥰 last month doing things i love like drawing and dancing, i feel good im literally walking on clouds. And i just happen to find out this placement in my chart now and come across your video. SUDDENLY, everything falls into place. 🤩🤩 THANK YOU so much, this meant the world for me.
Wow I feel like my experience is very similar to yours. I’m glad the universe was able to connect us. Helping you is an honor 🙏❤️😊
Taurus ascendant and a whole party in scorpio 7th house 😂 Venus Rx, jupiter, sun, north node and pluto..alot of what you have said did resonate with me!. marriage terrifies me because here only traditional arranged marriages no dating, so ive been refusing so many times.. i do want deep spiritual love i just can't connect with anybody..🤷🏼♀️
I did experience extreme emotions and learnt lessons but major thing that i struggle with is attachment 😅.
i do hope to heal from many stuff before loving again :)
Wow same! Taurus ascendant. Venus rx in Scorpio, Mercury, Jupiter, Pluto, and sun in Scorpio in the 7th house. Feels like I’ve been cursed tbh.
This is such an amazing video with insight. I had a read that in many past lives I've given love unconditionally and it was not returned. This lifetime is all about me loving me. I recently ended for the second time a relationship destined to teach me to love me first. It was rough and in the midst of it I thought this is not right what's going on how could he treat me this way. In actuality my over giving kicked in and once again I felt unloved unappreciated, etc.
Now that I've had space away from him I'm realizing all the consequences that not loving yourself results in.
Thank you thank you thank you
I should write a book... I've reached 58 years..oblivious to the fact... I am this... All you are saying... It is me !!! Thank you so much !!
I would definitely read your book😊🙏❤️. Your experiences can definitely add some value to our understanding of living with a Venus retrograde. Thank you for watching !!!
Thank you for your reply Elizabeth ♡♡ I love you xx
@@shanijustbelove1704 I love you too!!!
Thank you my love, I’m so grateful for this video! She is the truth!!! 🌸🤗🦋🥂
Very illuminating and helpful. Thank you for the work you do on your journey. We’re all in this together
I'm so glad it was helpful. Thank you for watching.😊🙏
I just have subscripted to you . You made me feel so good . That I am not only the only . Thank you so much
I’m honored to have my work resonate with you. I’m excited to help you grow into your power and love ❤️🙏
BTW how can I watch any venus in Scorpio video after watching this one 😩 this was too good
interesting - i'm currently dating a Venus in Scorpio Rx
Oh wow. Well I hope this provides some insight on how they may be feeling and enhance your relationship over all😊. I wish you and your partner the very best!
I have venus retrograde scorpio in the 7th house and its apart of a grind trine that includes my pisces moon and saturn. I'm not sure how beneficial it is since its retrograde but my moon trine venus has an orb of 0. Thank you so much for making this video btw, love to hear this information from a different perspective, much appreciated.
Thanks for this! Very enlightening! I will aim for Venus in Taurean qualities. I will explore this further.
Wow.. thank you for posting this! I really needed to see this, I have *very* type 2 aspects.. I've been working on it 😔 I really felt your vibes, hugs 🤗❤
Hug! Thank you for the appreciation🤗
Thank you for making this video!! Virtual Hug❤️
You're welcome. Thank you for the comment! It helps reassure me that my purpose was served and that my content helped you💕 Virtual Hug❤️
Goddess 💖
Yer words & vulnerability R everything, babe.
-V Retro, 🦂Stellium, 4thH
saturn rx who just encountered a venus rx. i feel we can heal each other’s karma
Ha ha I used to say I'm not materialistic. Now I see how that way was against me.
Venus rx in Scorpio in 8th ♥️ hiii ~ thank yü
Thank you so much for your vunerability! I see myself in all you say... Yes self-love what I understood as well what I recently understood so let´s see what the universe will bring me with increased self-love
Thank you so much for your kindness. I am currently working on a Venus retrograde in the houses video, so I’ll make sure to be very detailed and helpful when it comes to the 10 th house. 🙏😊❤️
Wow, ok! Apply Venus in Taurus qualities!
43:16 lmao thats that venus retrograde in scorpio ♏️
What about men with rx VIS? So much struggle too
Yes both men and women struggle with a Venus Rx. Men struggle internally with their own femininity and their relationship to women, the feminine energy, and their own emotions. A Venus Rx in a man's chart can point towards toxic masculinity or strong feelings of being unlovable . He will be a very imbalanced individual until he recognizes the importance of honoring the feminine half of his character and embodying the feminine presence he's lacked or been deprived of.
@@elizabethsum8133 Thank you. How can a woman help this man to embrace emotions? They are so closed up, insecure, run away, push people away, especially people who show them love and care for them
@@AnnaDiomenaI'm pretty balanced and my personal issue is self worth, the most that stands out to me is when my partner is understanding and when my defense is met with patience and love it makes a huge difference. showing unconditional love will help your guy, i think it's amazing you wish to help him in this way, we inadvertently push away.
4:40 I swear sis
This placement isn’t a blessing at all. I’ve noted that when I love me and practice self love, love is returned to me naturally. I’m not sure being in a romantic relationship is for me and I’ve made peace with that. Thank you for this video it was so informative and helped me to understand myself more by the end I was more hopeful. Thank you ☺️ ♥️
I totally understand. You’re welcome and I’m glad that I can be of assistance to you and your journey. This placement is difficult, but I believe you’re strong enough to overcome.
My Venus is in the 1st house. Where is yours? Does that mean self rejection and self redemption?
Waiting for Sagittarius
I'm working on it right now 🤓
We all have sexy voices at least.
That was beautiful girlfriend. Thank u
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if you feel ugly there's definitely no hope for me as ugly as I am 😅😅
Awwww don’t say that lol
@@elizabethsum8133 😅🥴