PNTV: Perfectly Yourself by Matthew Kelly (
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Here are 5 of my favorite Big Ideas from "Perfectly Yourself" by Matthew Kelly. Hope you enjoy!
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Best mantra -- just do the next right thing -- slow down and be silent and cultivate the ability to be in the gap -- be in the gap -- just do the next right thing -- WoW!! Loving it
Since self-acceptance is the first pillar of happiness (Nathaniel Branden or Tal Ben-Shahar), and self-acceptance is derived from a sense of self-efficacy, it makes perfect sense that discipline would increase happiness. My own experience certainly bears this out. Another beautiful synthesis of ideas, thanks again Brian!
Chris Loper Amen, Chris!!
Sick intro Brian. Would love to see a personal video soon:
-What are your goals for 2015?
-What does your journaling look like?
-What was your biggest struggle of 2014 (how did you handle it)
-Biggest parenting tips / unexpected lessons.
-How the heck you maintain the consistant intensity / passion for this work (notes / videos / academy / etc). It's outstanding bro.
Just some ideas. Started putting out videos again on my channel. Definitely get a ton of ideas / inspiration from you bro. Thanks again.
-Clark
Clark Danger Thanks for the kind words and *awesome* questions! Seed planted. Quick thoughts:
-What are your goals for 2015?
I have one primary creative (/biz) goal: 250 new Notes. That drives the whole show. (That’s also a TON of reading. Hah. 25+ hours/week + the 2 hours to write a Note on each book + 1 hour for MP3 + TV = busy + focused and no time on anything other than genius-zone stuff. Blessed to have a genius running the biz side of things for me. Evan from webuild.io/ . :) Sub-goals include: 52 weekly newsletters + 300 daily newsletters (I hand pick each Big Idea) + 350 videos (stoked to share a ton of free goodness while practicing my craft :)
The biz by-product of that? 10,000 people paying us $10/mo. We hit 1,000 in 30 days. Process is primary for me. That’s the by-product of consistently astonishing.
-What does your journaling look like?
I don’t do a whole lot these days. Too busy crushing it. haha. I bust it out when I find an amazing exercise in a book. And I keep something called a “performance analysis” a la www.mentalmanagementstore.com/product/performance-analysis-the-ultimate-performance-journal/)
-What was your biggest struggle of 2014 (how did you handle it)
My realization that we were a) trying to do too much with en*theos and not doing any of them as well as we could + b) not even doing the right thing within those things. We made a huge shift to focus exclusively on my work-shutting off two biz units and putting the third on autopilot. Challenging at the time but so good.
-Biggest parenting tips / unexpected lessons.
Hmmmm… Good question! I’m going to be unpacking a ton of parenting stuff soon. For now, we love (!!!) RIE (rie.org/)-all about cultivating autonomy, self-reliance, respect, etc. That’s the core of our practice.
-How the heck you maintain the consistant intensity / passion for this work (notes / videos / academy / etc). It's outstanding bro.
Thank you! #1 thing: I’ve Turned Pro. I am absolutely (!) committed to showing up and doing the work. Tied for #1: I love what I do and feel extraordinarily blessed to have the opportunity to do it. And, it’s all one big game for me. I love creating big goals and then figuring out how to create a perfect day (every day!) to make it happen.
So fun! High fives, my brother!
Getting me all misty-eyed over here. Thank you, Robin!! Laughing at the Jesus blush-making and just so stoked you're inspired. LET'S DO THIS!!! :)
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As a Greek woman I will choose arete! A value that has grown roots inside of me from an early age. Thank you Brian for reminding us the important things in life!
elenafissa Big smile. To arete!! :)
I love the message here and everything is on point.
31cristine Thanks and yes! Matthew is incredible.
Your level of consistency is a marvel on its own, keep it up Brian!
***** Thank you thank you! :)
Wow! Brian you are great..
Not only you read all these phenomenal books and share with us big ideas but you also do it with passion and enthusiasm!
--> Just do the next right thing.
Ray Ahmadi Thanks, Ray!! :)
I thank you, thank you, thank you so much!
Jung Kim Thank YOU! Here's to optimizing, Jung! :)
Progress - Embrace progress - progress not perfection. The integrity of the process determines the outcome. Celebrate your small successes.
Next Right Thing - Just do the next right thing. There is always only one thing to do. The grains of sand flow through the eye of an hour glass one at a time. This helps keep you anchored in the moment. We always know the next right thing to do. SLOOOOOW Down!
Arete' - if you want to have happiness then express the highest version of yourself moment to moment to moment.
Discipline and happiness (create mini-habits) are closely related.
How much discipline should I exert? How happy do you want to be?
Simplify - get clear on what you want in life (black hole focus) and allow that one thing to literally pull you in that direction. Tidy up and declutter.
Serve - Albert Schweitzer (Nobel prize winner 1953) - "I am certain of one thing. The only ones among us who will be truly happy are those of us who have sought and found a way to serve."
How can I serve? vs What's in it for me?
Thanks, Brian
Arete"
Just do the Next Right Thing with Your Best Higher Self moment by moment :)
Ankur Gupta YES!!
You're right. I do know what the next right thing is. So why am I not doing it right now? Good question. Oh wait. Now I am doing it. Thanks for the inspiration and motivation, Brian. Keep up the good work.
+Robert Hammond :)
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I wish that I could give three thumbs up, I really needed this episode. Love ya!
Demaris Jones Big smile. Awesome, Demaris! :)
These videos are great. They keep me going everyday.
Resi Qualia Awesome and thanks, Resi!!! The fun has just begun. Let's do this! :)
Thumbs up! :) thanks Brian, that about the last one is a nice idea, find ways to serve! To give value to people! And to animals and to nature too! :)
Costas Plassaras :)
Great Mentor with so much inspiration 💜🎶🌝
Discipline and Happiness -> Great idea, I know for myself, that discipline is essencial, but how to prove it to other people who think, that success could come easily? Discipline corelate to Hapiness! Love ti!
Excellent! Incredible simple (but not easy).
Great Brian. Do have an awesome day as well. Extend my regards to Emerson.
Christopher Tobe Okolo Will do and regards to you and your fam, Christopher! :)
cor this is a good one! some great ideas sir. Thank you
Guru Johnson,
Great video! Great discipline creates great happiness! So true!
Yehuda HaMaccabi *high fives*! :)
Thanks!
You bet! - Zak
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Thank you so much your your hard work, It helps me a lot ❤️
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Great video. I learned a lot.
DTBboys Awesome!
it really helps... thanks brian
robel loyola Awesome! :)
Brian, I think more than one of my professors could be replaced by your videos - or better yet by you in person.
+Frisky Dingo :)
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i started my newest video off with a clip of u & your video! U inspired me today, thank u✊
Love it and thanks!!
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+Brian Johnson 👍👍
LOVED it! I finally signed up for your Philosophers Notes. I'm really happy about it, and I appreciate that you keep the price really reasonable. YAY YOU!! Now...question. I just checked your site for the PN for Perfectly Yourself. Couldn't find it. That was the first time I've even logged in. What did I do wrong?
Chris Saunders Hey Chris!! Awesome!!! Thanks for your support!! You're not doing anything wrong! That one is coming soon as I'm still polishing it but here's the top secret link! Shhhhhh. :) cl.ly/0P3B371P1I1y
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